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| 5 | If you fuck a guys friend will you lose interest in her?I mean did one of his friends see you with the roommate? He coulda just relayed the information to your crush? Why would you start flirting (and FUCK) with the roommate in the first place, when you're still interested in your crush that you built a connection with? Isn't it obvious the connection would get lost? Lastly, if you're really interested in your crush, why don't you just ask him out? Especially if he's shy. Just because he previously had a girlfriend (two year ago at that) doesn't mean… | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 12:38 PM |
| 9 | If you fuck a guys friend will you lose interest in her?Lol I've been that exact guy. The "guy you like." Made a move on her at a party, she was into me & we later got into deep talks etc. Personally I just wanted to get to know each other better before we knocked boots. Then one day I uploaded an Instagram story where I was partying with a good friend of mine. That same evening she slid into his DMs telling him how beautiful he was. I unfollowed & cut off contact with her not an hour later after I found out. My friend said he understands why I made … | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 12:25 PM |
| 16 | I can get hard but as soon as I try to insert my penis it immediately goes soft this is seriously destroying my self esteem can someone please give me advicestop watching porn, stop masturbating. Porn forever, masturbation for at least weeks - months. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Seems like men don't want to approach anymore , at all !Middle Eastern, fat&bald, hot trophy gf. Doesn‘t take much to put 1 and 1 together | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 05:07 PM |
| 5 | Seems like men don't want to approach anymore , at all !They got money tho | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 12:38 PM |
| 44 | Short dude by myself at a club, Somehow I went to Airbnb with a girl maybe 5’ 9” and all her friends.5'6" as well. Never cared about my height and neither did women. Most my dates were with women taller than me. It's so much more irrelevant than people make it out to be online. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Escorts vs GirlfriendsFor a second I read Esports vs Girlfriends sinc eI wasn't sur which subreddit this post belonged to lol! And just fyi, go full esports brah I wanna see those dubs | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever seen a girl who is very attractive and you get all anxious and standoffish towards her? Even though you would love to get with her?Thank you for letting me know. I know it was those same comments that helped me when I was still struggling a lot. I am now in a position where I can talk to just about anyone to a successful degree, and I'm more than glad to share what I learned. | /r/seduction | 02/11/20 01:23 AM |
| 296 | Have you ever seen a girl who is very attractive and you get all anxious and standoffish towards her? Even though you would love to get with her?It's your self-defense mechanism to be stand-offish and try to play it cool. This way, you don't have to approach her, i.e. put yourself out there in a vulnerable position, and don't risk failure. It's self-preservation of your ego, a way of trying to stay in control. You tell yourself "I can't fail at flirting with her if I don't even attempt to try it." - thus giving you a false sense of control over yourself. In those moments, you just have to recognize it's your ego trying to trick you into … | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 07:54 AM |
| 21 | My advice from a frequently rejected man turned natural (May have always been a natural idk it’s confusing)You can for sure work on your attractiveness though. Gym, proper grooming/hair, good clothing style. All developable. Not to toot my horn, but just as an example, go on my profile to check my transformation. I looked like a hobo 'til I was 20 and never pulled anything. Gym changed my life, physically and mentally. Also meditation, courage and growth mindset. I'm sure u heard all those steps before if you're interested in personal growth. It's all about implementing. | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 01:45 PM |
| 4 | This is, in my opinion, what confident body language looks like. Relaxed, unfazed, and a generally positive dispositionYes correct, you just explained the entire point | /r/seduction | 20/10/20 09:17 PM |
| 12 | This is, in my opinion, what confident body language looks like. Relaxed, unfazed, and a generally positive dispositionI think what he thinks is ironic that he's very charismatic around women when he isn't really attracted to women at all. When in fact this sub is all about learning how to be confident in your interaction with women you feel attracted to. Really doubt he's saying "a charismatic gay man, how ironic" | /r/seduction | 20/10/20 06:55 PM |
| 11 | Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now?My first change happened when I went from 11th to 12th grade during summer holidays. I read and warched a lot of material on self-confidence, vulnerability, social skills and authenticity. I learned that I can be unapologetic about who I am, and that I can take full ownership and about my fate and myself. That wasn't enough to make me a "champ", but it set me on a journey of self improvement and constant learning. Few years later, I internalized all the material that I had learned again and agai… | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 11:08 AM |
| 3 | How to Start A Conversation with Women on Social MediaThere's plenty of women's DMs that you can "slide into" that is very well within your field of passion or community. Idk why it has to be a black-and-white thing in favor of one over the other if "you're a man with purpose and have cultivated a life." Not one approach is necessairly better than the other, and can even have synergistic effects. Point is, if they get to score at the end of the day, I don't think they will care which approach they used. ED: that being said, I'd never approach the w… | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 07:35 AM |
| 59 | Women Are Insanely Attracted To Sexually Disciplined MenJust curious, what is it that interests you about a subreddit made from men, for men, to "pick up/seduce women? Not meant an attack, you're welcome here obv | /r/seduction | 17/04/20 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Your “vibe” is a reflection of your inner state-of-mind. Don’t skip the inner-game, it’s just as important as outer-game (if not more)Mate, my bald friend hasn't been single for the past 8 years (he's 26 now) and he lost his hair the same age as you did. Just rock your shiny bald head it's cool, also you can always wear a beanie or a hat. All about character | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 10:16 AM |
| 5 | Short Asian dude pulls tall 10/10 blonde. If can do it, you can too.r/nothingeverhappens | /r/seduction | 25/07/19 11:08 AM |
| 17 | If anyone’s struggling here you goIf you pm me, I can accidentally do that | /r/seduction | 03/03/19 04:02 PM |
| 111 | If anyone’s struggling here you goLmao. To anyone seeking actual advice, read a book called "She Comes First." | /r/seduction | 03/03/19 09:10 AM |
| 7 | Girls on Tinder do not want to meet in personHow old are you if you don't mind me asking? Calling around the younger generation is very frowned upon, specially in Europe | /r/seduction | 26/01/19 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Help me [20f] learn how to flirt with guysreally? Whenever a girl makes a move on me, I'm elated and we almost immediately get into the hot stuff. I really couldn't care less about chasing someone, it's extra work. | /r/seduction | 17/01/19 12:18 PM |
| 17 | Help me [20f] learn how to flirt with guysI realize a girl likes me when she initiates a lot of body contact i.e. touching me on my arm or my musclely areas goes out of her way to spend 1 on 1 time with me, e.g. she singles me out in a group setting to have a conversation with just me or she just puts her attention on me mainly by sharing jokes or whatever remarks with me. she gives me compliments based on my looks (sexual interest) e.g. "you're kinda cute you know that", "omg look at your arms ;))", "ngl it's kinda hot when you do X." … | /r/seduction | 17/01/19 12:08 PM |
| 1 | How can I get a Boyfriend?Where the fuck else are u supposed to find high school love? Am I misunderstanding something? | /r/seduction | 13/01/19 10:50 PM |
| 1 | How can I get a Boyfriend?Ur on the wrong sub mate don't think u're finding anything here | /r/seduction | 13/01/19 10:50 PM |
| 10 | When Hooking up with a woman, is it better to go to her place or take her to yours?Seriously, 40 bucks a night is insane value, provided 1 night = a good night's sleep and not = 1 night of doing the deed and then gtfo | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Need Nightclub & Dance Move AdviceAs a dancer, the two dance moves you HAVE to learn is the hip wave & body wave. If you manage to have a huge grin, start hyping yourselves up by yelling "Eyyyyyy!!" and do some hip waves while she's grinding u, that's a 10/10 good time lol. My favorite move is to grab her by the hip with my right hand (dominant hand) and throw the other one up like you would when you're feeling good and then just hip wave lol. Laughing/Grinning and genuinely having fun of the situationis the most important part … | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 02:46 PM |
| 3 | This guy puts it perfectly why girls hate pleasers.You just have to go on his YouTube channel | /r/seduction | 12/08/18 11:19 PM |
| 2 | To the occasional high schooler or teenager that finds this sub...I found this sub in the summer holidays going into the last year of school. When I emerged out of the holidays, I was a completely different man. I was that skinny, nerdy Asian guy no one cared about, beta af and generally very ignorable. After finding this subreddit, I most importantly UNDERSTOOD what the important qualities of a man were. Every time I read a top post / sidebar post I thought to myself "WOW! That's so true!" It was one "aha!"-moment after another, it opened up a world of social… | /r/seduction | 28/07/18 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Models by Mark Manson - What is Neediness?Too bad he got into all that stupid scientology stuff. He really is one charismatic motherfucker | /r/seduction | 08/04/18 09:52 AM |
| 1 | About 2-3 years after using SEDDIT - Here's what happened (success story)Hey this is beautiful man! Congratulatiooons | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | 2 Personality Traits That Make You Better Looking - "Positive personality traits — like helpfulness and honesty — make people appear physically more attractive, research finds."This makes a looot of sense. The times were I was upfront and said something along the lines of "Hey I find you really cute and I'd like to get to know you" + asked her out on a date landed me a 100% fail rate. Whenever I DID "score", I never actually said anything, but I kino'd & escalated on them, it was all non-verbal. And the fact that they were accepting the kino means they were interested in me in the first place. Both works I guess. | /r/seduction | 13/10/17 02:26 PM |
| 5 | 7 months before, i hadn't even kissed a girl.Why are you trying to lower the credibility of his post by commenting on the most irrelevant parts of his post lol? He has some good tips, nothing world changing but nonetheless relevant to OP. No point in trying to poke holes there. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 11:22 AM |
| 5 | Would you rather smash or be in a relationship?Those two are really not exclusive, "smashing" is part of a relationship. Do you mean bang a lot of different women as compared to one? | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 10:18 AM |
| 1 | How do i get sexual without being creepy/weird/offensive?Good | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 09:17 AM |
| 3 | The Five Triggers for Sexual AttractionFortunately, you can become attractive by having higher self-confidence, following the tips in the post and being vulnerable/grnuine | /r/seduction | 19/03/17 12:25 PM |
| 10 | Stop trying to convince girls you are a "good guy"Dude he wasn't naming Trump as the perfect masculine man, abd neither is it his point to prove political correctness here. All he's saying is that on a basis level, every man is in some way creepy, even the POTUS - this argument was probably not even aimed at Trump specifically, but it fits due to his past demeanor | /r/seduction | 19/03/17 10:13 AM |
| 1 | How were you able to kiss your first time?A telltale sign is if u're just staring into each other's eyes for seconds longer than normal. Something that really shows intent is if you stare at her lips for a second, then look up to her eyes again. At that point, if she isn't getting creeped out or anything, it's go time | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Where do I find emo girls/Scene girls?For real dude? I thought there were so many of us out there hahaha. I guess you're right tho thanks | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 03:30 PM |
| 4 | Where do I find emo girls/Scene girls?Yeah no shit that was my question. Where do they hang out? | /r/seduction | 11/03/17 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Here's how to deal with any and all shit tests that women throw at you.As a 5'6" Asian with baby face, I take shit tests for a living. Overexaggerating / comparisons / metaphors to blow it out of proportion always works | /r/seduction | 12/02/17 11:32 AM |
| 1 | I feel like a creep trying to make eye contact with a girl in public. Is this normal?thank you gregory | /r/seduction | 30/01/17 05:31 PM |
| 1 | I feel like a creep trying to make eye contact with a girl in public. Is this normal?Do u have a built-in routine dor meditation? | /r/seduction | 30/01/17 10:10 AM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardU know, I've got nothing against esoteric stuff and I do believe in that form of energy. But having girls approach u simply because they feel ur energy while u're eating ur fucking spaghetti in a café is bullshit, attractiveness plays a big part in that | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 08:03 PM |
| 30 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardTo be brutally honest though, you need some form of attractiveness to have girls approach you and say "you're cute." From your stories at the beginning all I got was "Ok, so you're handsome." Other than that great post | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Social Circle GameMove to another city. Jk. U seen this? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eHtAklLbKVQ I haven't, but it might help you | /r/seduction | 24/11/16 12:12 PM |
| 3 | What Happens When RSD Todd & Tyler Run Into Another Elite PlayerNeo dodging bullets left and right: Chris Parker Edition, with Kelsey as the prize of honor. What a story guys | /r/seduction | 23/11/16 12:19 AM |
| 1 | [FR]? Beginner question here!Dude I also go to University of Hamburg. Write me a PM. Been looking for a game partner for a while now (I'm a beginner, looking to grow together. Let's fire our asses up dude) | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 09:30 PM |
| 4 | How much of a ripoff are RSD courses?Wtf | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 03:05 PM |
| 21 | My text game is so weak I just don't know how to text women anymoreman, as somebody who was used to the MSN live messenger days, chatting for a longer time with a girl seems really normal to me. The idea of barely writing a few lines is so off-putting and counter-intuitive for me. Not expressing my interest for the sake of gaming is not what having fun/seducing a girl should be to me. And the argument "You can say those things you want to discuss through text in real life anyway" doesn't hold true as well, as you would have endless conversations with a girl you… | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 03:33 PM |
| 7 | How to kino in a car?You better mot kino 'til you got hella mad butterflies and tension flying around dude. Strong eye contact is key here. At most start with light pushing away after teasing her/getting teased. Eye contact is your cue here. Keep it, even if u're higher than an airpöane | /r/seduction | 14/11/16 10:21 PM |
| 2 | How do you be vulnerable <-> not reveal personal info, express sexual intent <-> be the prince charming/great catch, be fun-loving + always smiling <-> act uninterested/stoic all at once??Sounds very easy indeed.. ^^ | /r/seduction | 13/11/16 11:34 AM |
| 7 | How To Keep A Woman Attracted To You.It's very possible that setting boundaries now would have a positive effect rather than a negative one. She will realize you're not just a pushover, that you're capable of change and growth and you will have given the girl the feeling of "discovering a new side of you that not many other people know of yet." All those establish attraction in the girl. But most importantly, you gotta set boundaries for your own sake man | /r/seduction | 10/11/16 06:03 AM |
| 7 | Picking up girls at concerts/raves?He still doesn't have to do drugs. | /r/seduction | 07/11/16 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Picking up girls at concerts/raves?encouraging at 17 yo to take drugs.. not sure | /r/seduction | 07/11/16 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Just had the most cringy, humbling, and hilarious moment of my life. Anyone experienced this?Great comment | /r/seduction | 01/11/16 06:29 AM |
| 5 | For those of you working on your physique, if your shirt is on 99% of the time, arms and shoulders means more than absMy underwear's been ripped thrice now during squats. My ass is getting bigger by the weeks! | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Why the asshole just gets it more often than not, but the Alpha male will beat him every single time.Unless he's Australian. Then it's just a dude addressing his mate | /r/seduction | 12/08/16 06:57 PM |
| 13 | Text Game and Never Say "Hey" Again...In my eyes, if you don't have the courtesy and manners to greet a person before inviting them to do something, you're somehow messing up. She isn't your dog that you can just boss around. Stop trying so hard to inflate your value as an "alpha" person who "just takes what he wants." Leading and being an unmannered ass are two very different things. There are boundaries. Skipping simple greetings for the sake of trying to demonstrate value? Really dude? True, it doesn't always have to be the phras… | /r/seduction | 07/08/16 02:09 PM |
| 6 | When a girl says, "you have nice eyes"You try way too hard to be some next-level witty/entertaining kinda dude. Strip away what's unnecessary. That interaction just there is almost every conversation I have when someone compliments me | /r/seduction | 28/07/16 10:31 PM |
| 2 | When a girl says, "you have nice eyes"Rofl! | /r/seduction | 28/07/16 09:42 PM |
| 15 | When a girl says, "you have nice eyes""You have nice eyes." "Thank you! You have nice style." "Thanks!" *both giggle* *Sitcom "Awwww"* curtains close | /r/seduction | 28/07/16 03:44 PM |
| 1 | My Definite Guide to Inner GameI'm glad you read this guide even though it's way gone off the front page now :) That stuff with your gf is tough luck man, but I hope you don't dwell on it for too long. Don't fall into a downward spiral of negativity as many do - realize asap that once you snap out of it, life will begin again. Also remember to not dehumanize her. This gets harder the closer a person is to you, but other people are not your possessions. As soon as you fear or regret losing someone, you dehumanize that person: … | /r/seduction | 25/07/16 01:32 PM |
| 11 | 3 tips to boost your confidence - TED-Edsomething something doing the lord's work | /r/seduction | 23/07/16 05:42 PM |
| 18 | This is roughly 90% of the Game. I'll leave this here.When you're truly at inner peace with yourself, there will rarely be any moment where you appear like a d-bag. In fact, once another person notices how all you want to do is emit positive energy, then the conversation becomes incredibly enjoyable for both parties. Some people, however, are so at war with themselves, that any attempt of interaction with them will end up in them wanting to attack you. In those moments, it's something that you cannot influence. I'm not saying a breach of privacy is… | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 08:41 PM |
| 12 | This is roughly 90% of the Game. I'll leave this here.Mate, if I go up to a girl and say "Hey, excuse me for a sec! Your hairstyle is the dopest thing ever so I had to introduce myself. I'm Uesugi_Kenshin" She answers with "Fuck off." Yeah. Also, try to understand another person's viewpoint before you start throwing condescending profanity all around you. | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 07:48 PM |
| 10 | This is roughly 90% of the Game. I'll leave this here.I think the main cause for misunderstanding is "ceasing to react at all." To some people this may seem like a bad thing or counter intuitive, while in the teaching of Zen & Buddhism, non-reaction is seen as a very good thing (basically what Zen is about). It's about not letting the external world influence your inner peace. | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 07:33 PM |
| 498 | This is roughly 90% of the Game. I'll leave this here.It means when someone else is mad angry at you, it's not because you're a bad person who makes other people angry, it means that they're angry and you just happen to stumble upon that person while he's in an angry state or is too easily angered - it's not your fault the other person is the way he is. In PUA context this means if a girl rejects you rudely, that's not necessarily because your value as a person is low, it's because that girl is rude in general, has had enough of approaches, is havi… | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 02:39 PM |
| 3 | My Definite Guide to Inner GameTry to grab your Venus, then go for Uranus. | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 06:36 AM |
| 1 | My Definite Guide to Inner GameBro ur description of "wanting to be the best version of yourself" is literally Inner Game. Don't get caught up on words, get caught up on their meanings | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 06:35 AM |
| 1 | My Definite Guide to Inner Game/u/ThrowawayPUA make it happen | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 06:34 AM |
| 2 | My Definite Guide to Inner GameAppreciate the good feedback man! | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 06:32 AM |
| 1 | My Definite Guide to Inner GameMaybe. English is not my native language :) | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 06:09 AM |
| 3 | My Definite Guide to Inner GameAmen. | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 06:07 AM |
| 2 | My Definite Guide to Inner GameCool you say this and I have to agree. I just typed this in my Evernote for myself. At the end thought to myself "Why not share it with seddit." That's also why my title explicity says "My" guide. Hope this guide can help as many people as possible though | /r/seduction | 19/07/16 10:00 PM |
| 22 | Being shortIf you're not gonna grow anymore then fuck it, u can't control that. Learn to succeed despite it, by not letting the height control you. | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Guys of seddit warning...You can't find a better way to feel good about yourselves other than betraying another guy's trust? Can you not feel good about yourself until a dude explicity has sex with you so you feel a physical upgrade for yourself? Seriously, feeling good and being happy/at inner peace comes from within, you seriously shouldn't need to have external validation to this level to make yourself feel good, ESPECIALLY if you're blatantly playing, betraying and FUCKING with another guy's feelings. For your littl… | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 12:52 PM |
| 7 | Hardcase Newbie: Today I did my first sit-down approach!!!!Good job man! Really not hard to take the first step, though it will be a challenge every time!! The resistance will lower with each time though, so look forward to that. Most important: Just keep on doing this stuff. Soon it'll be second nature. The greatest people who came out on top are always the one who put in the most failures too | /r/seduction | 03/07/16 01:38 AM |
| 25 | How to properly handle the "how old are you?" questionWait, how is it a big deal though? I love having people ask me for my age, as an Asian dude they NEVER get it right and it always makes the introductions a lot more fun. I don't see why it's so bad to joke about it. Personally, I find it boring to answer boring questions like age, occupation, etc. with other straigtforward & in the end boring answers. Making a game out of it is much more entertaining for both me and her. Just my 2 cents | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Best text game?I live in South Americaland | /r/seduction | 01/07/16 11:15 PM |
| 1 | I just want say, thank you guys so much!Welcome to the honeymoon phase, where you're starting to get more acquaintanced with the social dynamics that are happening. Improvement in the beginning is explosive, but I have to tell you something: It's only getting better from here. Fuck yes. Improve every day. It'll only get better. Good luck my friend (I'm the same age and got a similar story as you do :) ) | /r/seduction | 11/06/16 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Follow this guy's Instagram if you struggle with fashionStep 1: Get in shape Step 2: Put clothes on that fit Step 3: ?????? Step 4: Profit Ty for that IG tho, he's indeed a good inspiration for both fashion and physique | /r/seduction | 04/06/16 01:03 PM |
| 1 | As a girl, I've been told I don't flirt by guys that have shown interest in me! Please help me change that.Look him in the eye and smile at him cheekily, that's the nr. 1 aphrodisiac | /r/seduction | 11/05/16 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Any tips in developing genuine interest in other people/heighten your empathy?NoFap. Might try that, ty | /r/seduction | 11/05/16 10:03 AM |
| 3 | How a poetry class with 20 women (and myself) changed my lifeGood read. I wonder what all his speeches were about? Looks like he made the jump to public speeches pretty early on in his self-development phase. Did he already talk about self-development in those speeches? | /r/seduction | 11/05/16 09:01 AM |
| 2 | How can someone be more charming and charismatic with people?For the quick fix, www.youtube.com/user/CharismaonCommand Otherwise read the material on "All About Inner Game" from the side bar | /r/seduction | 08/05/16 08:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle it if she looks at her phone on first date?Sidebar/Top posts. Put some work in before u ask this basic question like "how to get her invested." This is a subreddit for a reason ed: There's really multiple ways to handle this and it all depends on how you feel like doing it/what your character is like. I personally like to go silent, stare into their eyes and smile obliviously. When a girl goes on her phone in the middle of a date, I usually assume she doesn't know proper manners. I still give her the benefit of the doubt, especially if s… | /r/seduction | 01/05/16 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Going to Beijing this summer. Never been before. What are some of your tips and advice dealing with Chinese women?If you want to game in China, Night Game is pretty much the only way. I hate to limit other people and tell them what they can and can't do, so if you want to try day game then go for it. But keep in mind Chinese tradition/culture really doesn't allow that - don't expect makeouts on Day 1 or smooth sailing getting the number and then setting up dates. Night game however will work wonderfully, especially if you're white. Do all the non-verbal communication you can muster because their English suc… | /r/seduction | 06/04/16 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Anyone in LA wanna day game Venice Beach with me?Hey man, yeah you guessed it - I'm also not gonna be there. All the good luck bro though, really wish I could be there, but I would have to swim a few miles from Berlin. | /r/seduction | 17/02/16 07:06 AM |
| 1 | If you want grade A push-and-pull lessons, watch Craig Ferguson (he doesn't even use kino, which you can)Have to wind in on this. I am aware that most interviews are practiced in some form beforehand - Fallon, Conan, Kimmel, etc. they all are to some degree. Craig Ferguson, however, was known for not informing himself about the actress(' work) and also never using any record cards. Both reasons were for reasons of authenticity and genuine curiosity for the guest. Especially in Kate Mara's interview (this post) shows some legit signs for not knowing what to talk about i.e. not rehearsed. Both the aw… | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 09:38 PM |
| 1 | If you want grade A push-and-pull lessons, watch Craig Ferguson (he doesn't even use kino, which you can)Here is a compilation someone made titled "How to talk to women" for Craig Ferguson and his guests. Man this guy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dRb8qf_Rjjg Going to his shows might as well be a boot camp on how to verbally pick up women | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Can't make girls stick around after the first dateSounds like a case for Charisma on Command https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dx7v_9ABB0c | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Beating yourself up for your past failures is a great way not to learn from themBeating up about it is the wrong definition imo. It's got a lot to do with self-acceptance. Yes, you did that - you could've done it better but that's the choice that you made at the time. It wasn't some worse form or alien form of yourself. That was all 100% purely your mistake. But you accept that, and you don't run from that fact. You don't rationalize it away or run from it. You own it up. And by fully accepting the mistake you did, you learn from it. Sometimes even all on your own, just by … | /r/seduction | 24/12/15 01:16 PM |
| 1 | I'm a Chinese, 5'6"-short guy with small hands, feet and dick, mooncake face & not a lot of money. Probably 3/10. So be goddamn sure it's 100% hard work that gets me girls.U pretty much have your plan all ready, that's good. Going out to the party scene will be a good step. Regarding the indirect approach: Do it in Japanese if you can. Even though they will still try to reply in English, they will know that you have Japanese capabilities. This will help a lot more in determining wether they want to keep on talking to you, because they definitely don't want to date someone whose language they can't speak properly. PS: Do you not have a Kanji dictionary? That sounds… | /r/seduction | 11/12/15 04:02 PM |
| 1 | I'm a Chinese, 5'6"-short guy with small hands, feet and dick, mooncake face & not a lot of money. Probably 3/10. So be goddamn sure it's 100% hard work that gets me girls.Yeah culture is completely different in Japan. You won't get anywhere with a direct approach - they will just think you're the stereotypical douchy bloke from abroad, comin' to Japan to get qt Asian chicks (Tho there are SOME girls who do dig that..hit rate is just really low). Try the indirect approach (like asking for directions) and always end the conversation with getting their LINE address. There WILL be rejections, but fuck that mate, that's normal. The way they build up dating lives is ei… | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 11:27 PM |
| 1 | I'm a Chinese, 5'6"-short guy with small hands, feet and dick, mooncake face & not a lot of money. Probably 3/10. So be goddamn sure it's 100% hard work that gets me girls.Yep, it's definitely social value that keeps most of me up there. And admittedly, I can not even imagine how life is as an autistic person - it does sound fucking rough. You know what u gotta do? U've got to take a massive dump on girls. You have other priorities right now. You need to get your life straight and it's gonna be a fuckload of work, but good lord the payoff will be high. You know what I recommend? Reading "The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem." I know somewhere inside you think that you k… | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 11:15 PM |
| 1 | I'm a Chinese, 5'6"-short guy with small hands, feet and dick, mooncake face & not a lot of money. Probably 3/10. So be goddamn sure it's 100% hard work that gets me girls.A fullmoon face. No facial defintion - just a fat, round face. Even though I'm not fat at all. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 10:55 PM |
| 5 | I'm a Chinese, 5'6"-short guy with small hands, feet and dick, mooncake face & not a lot of money. Probably 3/10. So be goddamn sure it's 100% hard work that gets me girls.Got mostly just comments here. Like I said, the greatest posts are on ToFu's compilation of Inner Game and in the top posts of all time (great) https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1j2659/sexual_energy_he_said_hello_like_he_could_fuck_me/ (good)https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3qo3c4/doesnt_matter_what_you_say_it_matters_how_you_say/ (extending on the pauses that are effective in conversaitions) https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/2kdbcw/what_everyday_skill_is_relied_up… | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 10:43 PM |
| 1 | I'm a Chinese, 5'6"-short guy with small hands, feet and dick, mooncake face & not a lot of money. Probably 3/10. So be goddamn sure it's 100% hard work that gets me girls.That's definitely a side effect that'll help you, can't deny that. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Flipping gender roles, what tips would you give a woman trying to get a guy?Hey. U know what's rad? When a woman can hold a conversation by herself. Level 1: You initiating the conversation is +100 confidence points both to you and to the guy you want to pick up. Level 2: If you can hold a conversation on your own without having the guy do all the talking (which is, like, 90% the case nowadays), THAT'S FUCKN GOOD SHIT RIGHT THERE. Or even just ask questions that he can give a longer answer to. FUCK does that feel good when a women can hold the conversation. Not like I d… | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 10:31 PM |
| 1 | I'm a Chinese, 5'6"-short guy with small hands, feet and dick, mooncake face & not a lot of money. Probably 3/10. So be goddamn sure it's 100% hard work that gets me girls.That's basically the point of my message I'm trying to spread. Women aren't out to find a man to make children, women are out to find a man who can protect their children. And that's where looks don't matter. You need to be resourceful, fun to be around - fun for the kids, have high self-confidence and self-esteem to act independantly from the opinion of others. Basically, you need Inner Game. And that is the biggest factor, looks do come second. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 04:19 PM |
| 2 | I'm a Chinese, 5'6"-short guy with small hands, feet and dick, mooncake face & not a lot of money. Probably 3/10. So be goddamn sure it's 100% hard work that gets me girls.Kinda defeats the purpose of posting a pic of me doesn't it | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 01:13 AM |
| 8 | I'm a Chinese, 5'6"-short guy with small hands, feet and dick, mooncake face & not a lot of money. Probably 3/10. So be goddamn sure it's 100% hard work that gets me girls.Had a busy day and should be asleep right now so excuse my brief response. The ridiculousness starts here: My parents are Chinese, I grew up and live in Germany and my name's Larry even though Chinese people can't pronounce it for shit. I don't even know why my parents named me that. Anyway, my genetics are severely lacking, my upbringing was as Asian as it gets (e.g. Sunday Special Math Class with my dad 11AM to 1PM no excuses) and my bro got me into video games way too early for it to be healt… | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Smiling makes men more attractive as husbands -- but not as hook upsWhen publishing a study, what's often more important than the exact words that are being said are the intentions/goals behind the study. And if these studies recommend not smiling for apparently looking more attractive for a short time-hookup, yeah, that's not a good trade to make. Furthermore, the inadequate sample size and sample location make the headline statement factually incorrect anyway. | /r/seduction | 27/10/15 10:25 PM |
| 33 | Smiling makes men more attractive as husbands -- but not as hook upsAre they fucking serious man, Japan & Norway? Might as well add South Korea, North Korea and Finland, because coincidentally the countries where the women are indifferent to smiling also have the highest suicide rates + are ultra people-shy. The reason why they're appalled to the smile is probably because they're so not used to it that they have no idea how to handle it. Or some other bullshit reason. Just like this study. PS: Try not smiling on a pickup ever and u'll be the creepiest shit on ea… | /r/seduction | 27/10/15 07:55 PM |
| 3 | How to approach chubby/heavy-set girls?There's almost no difference in how you should approach or deal with her. It's even more important to state your intentions clearly though (i.e. make her know that you find her attractive), since they might have a few self-esteem issues regarding their looks and will otherwise rationalize your approach as niceness. As long as you practice your game, there shouldn't be much difference between chubbier women and fitter/normal ones. | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 09:31 PM |
| 2 | 27 M AFC about to give up on datingWhat you need is self-confidence and self-esteem. The negative spiral is strong and will keep pulling you downward. You have to reach a state of mind by which you believe nothing is impossible. Confidence is not a guarantee of success, but a pattern of thinking that will improve your likelihood of success - a tenacious search for ways to make things work. Especially women sense this in men, it's their sixth-sense, it's irrational, but they can just FEEL it. If you ooze with self-esteem, happines… | /r/seduction | 21/10/15 11:33 PM |
| 2 | The most basic lesson you HAVE TO learn about being A MAN - This was the only thing I have read going overnight from an AFC into a man who approaches women (Excerpt from "The Art of Female Sexual Seduction" by Giuseppe Notte)Thank you. | /r/seduction | 03/10/15 11:36 AM |
| 4 | Natural Way to Become A Master of SeductionYou have no idea how this is reflecting my life right now. Just like I started working out and getting into PUA at the same time, I hit my all time lows simultaneously when I stopped working out. Now I'm slowly grinding my way back up again both in fitness and in PUA/Self-Improvement. Thanks for the great structure, have a nice day Nick. | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 06:44 PM |
| 3 | How to get involved in seduction with easy steps!I think this is important to do for newcomers though. They might or might not habe imagined 30 horror scenarios on what's gonna happen if you open the girl. Once they have any sort of conversation going, you will realize that talking to girls isn't rocket science. Or the more important part: that girls won't reject you out of nowhere and aren't cold-hearted witches who are out there to turn you down once you try to converse with them. As soon as this realization settles in (you must experience i… | /r/seduction | 10/09/15 05:04 PM |
| 1 | I've read so much I forgot what to even do, anyone else?This makes a lot of sense. Thank you very much, I did not know this. | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Any tips on eye-contact?A rule I found for myself recently is that the inner mindset of "eye contact makes you more attractive" (inner confidence) is the correct one, as opposed to "I hope I look good enough for keeping eye contact". It's appropriate almost all the time, just maybe turn your head or eyes a few times when you feel it's getting too intense. | /r/seduction | 19/06/15 12:50 AM |
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