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Believe ALL women
/r/MensRights29/11/24 05:28 AM
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What?! No this don't make sense. I've always been told that beautiful people have to work harder to be taken seriously due to people viewing them as incapable and just pretty faces. How does that square with this data?
/r/MensRights27/11/24 04:44 PM
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Because confidence may be part of the equation for some people, but my experience has been that most people including beautiful people have dog shit social and leadership skills. Especially in a group of strangers. But they don't really need it because everyone bends over backwards to connect with them.
/r/MensRights27/11/24 04:41 PM
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I'm guessing guys takes advantage of the beauty premium to become leaders whereas girls tend to use it as a crutch to rely on the favor of others.
/r/MensRights27/11/24 04:39 PM
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The argument was always that attractive women had to work harder to be taken seriously and to prove that they weren't just a pretty face? Might this be why? Their aptitude don't match their credentials?
/r/MensRights27/11/24 04:35 PM
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My understanding was she lied about him being anti Muslim to cover up her getting suspended. Also his head was removed from his body. He's dead. Not nearly.
/r/MensRights26/11/24 10:57 PM
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Her cheating every single relationship she has been in is definitely something you don't want to get involved in. I don't mind the single mom thing honestly especially if it's only 1 child. But I also have 1.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 07:28 PM
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I wouldn't say 10s probably. But they were all fit or healthy weight which is already above average since average person is overweight. I'm average guy average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:55 AM
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I had a wife show this to me by disappearing with her younger boss at the factory she just started working at. She never had a job she held down in her life before this. But before doing it she had me pay for her medical procedures and take care of her as she recovered. My insurance would have covered this but she insisted on going outside of insurance. Then when she recovered she disappeared without telling me where she was going and gas light me saying it was because of me. I found out from he…
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/24 10:33 PM
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I don't go to brothels or sex workers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 09:59 PM
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This is untrue. I've done passport stuff. I get so many options that I become super selective like a woman. "Too short", " i don't like her nose"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:46 PM
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I've never seen any of this empathy and sensitivity to men issues that this guy alleges and then suddenly in the past year everyone just declared they don't care about it anymore. It seems to be that they never cared, which is the reason that they are losing disillusioned young men now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/24 01:47 AM
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It's always the same story. I think women are just better at hiding it. A lot of women have no sense of loyalty and will terminate a relationship the moment something they perceive as better coming along.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 02:57 PM
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It's always the same story. I think women are just better at hiding it. A lot of women have no sense of loyalty and will terminate a relationship the moment something they perceive as better coming along.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 02:51 PM
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My son is 6 years old developmentally delayed and once said he wants to be a girl. He does not understand the concept of 'being a girl'. For him being a girl is like playing a teacher or fireman or cop. Imagine if because of him saying that they went and cut off his balls.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 12:58 PM
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My son is 6 years old developmentally delayed and once said he wants to be a girl. He does not understand the concept of 'being a girl'. For him being a girl is like playing a teacher or fireman or cop. Imagine if because of him saying that they went and cut off his balls.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 12:58 PM
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Yes I had difficulty. Depending on year and if you count everything I earn that much. It was a real challenge. When I hit my 30s more girls that I had been friends with for 10-20 years started becoming more interested though. Anyway, my experience is that most American/western girls don't care about your money/job. And those that do view relationship as a financial transaction and are very toxic and entitled and you wouldn't want a relationship with them. I'm not particularly ugly. But I don't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:35 PM
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I was thinking about it and I honestly believe that part of the problem is modern media, movies and shows, depicting the past as if they were gender and racially neutral. Future generations that didn't experience it first hand come to believe that this is realistic depiction of the past.
/r/MensRights16/11/24 07:22 PM
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No reason not to go for 50/50 unless you just don't want it. Giving her M-F gives her lots of power if she later wants to move and change school district.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/24 04:49 PM
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It's mind boggling that people are now insisting that it never existed. It's like I'm in bizzarro world.
/r/MensRights16/11/24 03:43 PM
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Ironically rest of reddit was insisting that men only spaces funny exist because of lack of demand. When I explained that men spaces used to exist as little as a few decades ago before being systematically dismantled by the feminist movement i was down voted into oblivion and everyone demanded sources.
/r/MensRights16/11/24 02:32 PM
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Well I am going by american standards. It could be different in UK. In USA yes it can be over ridden and child support can be compelled if one party out earns the other even in 50-50 custody.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/24 07:02 PM
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Yes of course they can overwrite it. Right to child support is not waivable by divorce or other agreement.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/24 06:41 PM
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I'm starting to wonder if they actually care about winning.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 11:05 AM
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Democratic strategy is to appeal to other demographics by insulting men while retaining male vote by lecturing and shaming them into it. It reminds me of gaming companies and movie/show producers that admonishes and rejects their audience and attempting to appeal to demographics that don't play their games.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 11:04 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:10 PM
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Nope. But neither will right. The right appeals is that it says F you to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:38 PM
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When did this become so common. I feel like I now see more women teacher raping their students than men.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 07:42 AM
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This health professional does not know or does not care that as many men as women die from HPV-related cancers. Source? I do agree with boys getting HPV vaccine for their own protection.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 05:55 PM
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Yeah the way the laws are set up you're basically just cucked in this position. You can only stand there and watch it happen. The only recourse is divorce her and giver her most of your assets and income.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/24 07:47 PM
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Yes. Marriage is a state sponsored mechanism welfare for women. It might have made some sense in the past. But with no-fault divorce, the higher income earner takes all the risk for nothing. Your wife can literally be brining her boyfriend to your house and have sex with him in front of you on the living room table and that doesn't affect at all her entitlement to alimony and asset allocations.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/24 06:32 PM
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Yup same. And I only found out because her sister told me. I would never have found it otherwise and been completely gas lighted instead
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:26 PM
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Tough break kid. I'm surprised your lawyer wasn't able to get you a better deal. Right now you need extreme change. As others mentioned, join military, move countries, change identity. I would get citizenship at one of my parents countries and move.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 08:59 PM
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This case was overturned in appeal. But yes, it's a risk if pursued.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 08:59 AM
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This case was over turned on appeal. But yes, it's a risk.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 08:58 AM
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I noticed that both sides insists so much that their side represents normal and majority of Americans. Democrats: "I am a man video" and "most americans don't hate immigrants" "most americans don't have hate" Republicans: Normal Americans don't care about woke stuff.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 03:39 AM
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He does have everything against him. It's liberating to recognize this.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 03:15 AM
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We're not just talking about mechanics but perception also.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 02:59 AM
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Are you talking about men saying that to you here? I don't think that helps the OP situation.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 02:53 AM
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Every man I've fucked said, "Give me that little dick." huh?
/r/MensRights09/11/24 02:45 AM
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Yup I feel for you guys. Make money here, and return to asia on long vacations. I travel to Latin America and I feel far more at home there.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 02:44 AM
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I didn't realize you were centuries old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:49 AM
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They don't get it. They never will so the'll just keep losing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:49 AM
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I honestly believe that women just hide it better than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:30 PM
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Usually in protests police arrest those engaging the protestors especially if they have a permit to be there.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 08:58 PM
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It's same toxic entitlement of women that use sex in a relationship as a reward system to control their men
/r/MensRights08/11/24 02:12 PM
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Yikes. I spent around the same time but I only spent $40,000 and her side less but close to the same. How did you end up spending so much? In my case she had engaged a known quack child psychologist with reprimands from the board and she was demanding I pay for it. He apparently comments on your sex life and includes that in his analysis. Fortunately the judge declined to move forward with that court case because she didn't have good reason for it other than she moved with her boyfriend and want…
/r/MensRights07/11/24 09:04 AM
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Settling out of court is more likely to get fathers terrible deals because mothers often have egregious and unreasonable demands. But nobody tell them that.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 09:01 AM
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Here's my personal experience. Before even getting to the court, at every step of the way preceding court, mediators including court mandated mediators attempted to shame me, questioned my motives, and emotionally manipulate me into agreeing to lop sided custody terms. Questions and statements from court mandated and assigned mediators as well as others include "Why are you insisting on half custody? Is it because of the money", "Do you think it is appropriate to separate a young child from thei…
/r/MensRights07/11/24 09:00 AM
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No boots on the ground but I do agree that USA shouldn't have gotten involved at all with Libya. USA bombed in Syria because the alternative was allowing ISIS to continue to take control,entrench, and carve out a parallel medieval feudal modeled terrorist state between Syria and Iraq.
/r/MensRights05/11/24 04:27 PM
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What war has democrats started in the last 25 years?
/r/MensRights05/11/24 02:27 PM
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Some are making this mistake. So far it seems that Kamala Harris has distanced herself from this sort of promotion which is good.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 08:40 AM
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They want their own space where men are excluded but they don't want men spaces where women are excluded.
/r/MensRights02/11/24 11:51 PM
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Didn't watch the video. If they are still on friendly terms I don't see the problem. Up to him whether he helps or not.
/r/MensRights02/11/24 11:14 PM
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Women actually want segregated places for themselves. They just don't want to be excluded from men's places.
/r/MensRights02/11/24 09:18 PM
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Yup
/r/MensRights02/11/24 08:29 PM
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Are you sure you were friends? The way she's writing don't sound like it. Also given that you guys haven't talked in years seems like you guys aren't friends.
/r/MensRights02/11/24 03:47 AM
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My ex also made outrageous demands, mainly regarding child custody. Demands for sole custody and no over nights. I spent $40,000 in meditation. My attorneys insisted on going to mediation. Going to court was actually the easy and cheap part of the process. Further, all the mediators, except for one male mediator, tried to shame me, question my motives, and emotionally manipulate me into accepting her terms.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 02:44 AM
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It's very infuriating when I had girls I was friends with who didn't give me time from their older teenage years, through their 20s, and finally in their mid 30s they reciprocate some interest, but suddenly they act like a nun with me needing to earn intimacy when I know very well her past history.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:11 PM
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A happy lie
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:18 PM
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What does common law wives have to do with anything exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:51 PM
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I don't know why you doubt. The only people resistant to this are the top 20% of guys or so that have many options all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:44 PM
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It was an honest linear life. And people were overall happier for it. It turns out people are happier when they are accomplishing what they feel like they should be accomplishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:34 PM
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This isn't true. Many men will offer commitment in a very short time frame if asked for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:33 PM
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50% have a vested interest for this. Then it just takes a minority more of men to share that opinion to make it the majority. Reddit popular opinions are usually out of self interest.
/r/MensRights25/10/24 11:45 PM
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This is not exactly true. The problem here is that women generally have more success with insanity defense than men who use it. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18720232/
/r/MensRights25/10/24 08:36 PM
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We don't shame women for showing their pussy to men for money any more. It's actually a aspiring career choice these days.
/r/MensRights23/10/24 12:11 PM
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The crime is the blackmail. Not what they are threatening to blackmail with.
/r/MensRights23/10/24 12:10 PM
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As I just said. People have expressed offense towards the use of word 'girl'. Female is more broad and inclusive language inherently. Which you seem to be preaching for in your past post. I am sorry if you're unable to get your mind around this and instead just warp meanings of words to fit your views. Nobody is going out of their way to refer to women as human or not human. That's just something that is occurring in your head that doesn't reflect reality and your are projecting your thoughts an…
/r/MensRights18/10/24 12:56 AM
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There is nothing inherently dehumanizing about the word female. There is nothing dehumanizing about the word male neither. If you don’t mean it to be an insult, and most men know that it is, then why not just say woman? It being viewed as an insult is a recent phenomenon I've only witnessed on reddit. What I have seen in the past being considered an insult in the real world outside of reddit has been the term used 'girl' which some people consider diminutive. So hence more vague general language…
/r/MensRights18/10/24 12:44 AM
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This is just an assumption that you're making over other person's intent. I am willing to be that majority of guys that say 'female' don't think as deeply to intend it to be dehumanizing.
/r/MensRights18/10/24 12:35 AM
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How do you know the guy is not trying to keep it professional and formal too?
/r/MensRights17/10/24 08:41 PM
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Yup agreed. I don't get offended by the term 'male'. Another one I saw was the one Elon Musk said was offensive was I think CIS males. Everyone was dismissive regarding it being offensive because it is descriptive. And Female is not?
/r/MensRights17/10/24 02:34 PM
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My personal experience with girl friends is that every top tier looking girl has either done sex work, sex adjacent work, or have expectations for financial support in a relationship. In a relationship they also have very nasty toxic entitled attitudes. It makes them ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:29 PM
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Why are you casually telling people how much you earn? Maybe her face was in reaction due to you disclosing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:43 PM
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The claim is that when men express anger that people respect him and when women express anger people place labels on her. This is at odds with my personal experience, and this study seems to verify this.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 08:45 PM
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I genuinely believe that they lack any empathy
/r/MensRights08/10/24 07:05 PM
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When women say that, they mean they want a man that is leader/dominant with other people. Not her. She enjoys the sense of social status she derives by being attached to him. Yes, regarding sex-work it is inverse to every other vice where we focus on going after the dealer rather than the consumer and view the dealer as the victim. Arguably drug dealers are victims, and are often victimized, robbed, and killed by their customers, so the same argument can be made.
/r/MensRights07/10/24 06:25 PM
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As it turns out, the 2nd strategy is far more effective.
/r/MensRights07/10/24 01:43 AM
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Sub was on auto ban list
/r/MensRights06/10/24 12:31 AM
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I got auto banned from large subs for making a post in joe rogan sub. And my comment was bashing elon musk on a post bashing elon musk.
/r/MensRights05/10/24 11:33 PM
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Apparently if you ban certain bots this won't happen anymore. I'm not sure what the bots were though.
/r/MensRights05/10/24 10:54 PM
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She didn't tell me who the men's rights group was.
/r/MensRights04/10/24 06:06 AM
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Here in NJ a men's right group brought up assumption of 50/50 custody a couple years ago but it was shot down. One of my mediators was smugly boasting how she was on the board that shot it down while trying to convince me to accept less than 50% custody and laughing when I asked why can't I do the same and demand majority custody.
/r/MensRights04/10/24 04:18 AM
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Yes pretty privilege is something that everyone knows and accepts as real except for reddit.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 09:04 PM
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I got auto banned from from that sub for a post on Joe Rogan's sub where we were bashing Elon Musk.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 01:45 PM
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It's a good self reflection of society. What blows my mind is that people don't seem to care. I guess that everyone actually knows.
/r/MensRights29/09/24 06:00 PM
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I am willing to bet most domestic violence have mutual abuse.
/r/MensRights29/09/24 05:27 PM
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UK has already had open policy for not sending non-violent women to prison. This only extends it to violent women as well. https://www.telegraph.co.uk/politics/2018/06/26/justice-secretary-dont-send-women-prison-unless-commit-violent/
/r/MensRights27/09/24 12:59 PM
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UK has a policy to not send women to prison for violent crimes. This policy will now extend to violent crimes.
/r/MensRights27/09/24 12:57 PM
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Ironically they frequently rant and rail about having to work twice as hard for half the recognition when the inverse is shown to be actually true.
/r/MensRights26/09/24 04:37 PM
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It's probably in exchange for dropping claims to alimony.
/r/MensRights26/09/24 11:28 AM
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That already has been the policy.
/r/MensRights24/09/24 11:51 PM
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Well she represented herself as very devout evangelical christian which I thought were positives. Now I think this is negatives. Also she doesn't have a relationship with her family which I suppose is a red flag. But I also don't have a relationship with family so I thought we were just two lost souls who found each other. Then she colluded with her affair partner to basically steal $10,000 on her way out from me... kind of (medical expenses to save her vision from genetic degenerative issue tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:52 PM
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My wife had an affair and disappeared and justified it by claiming that i watch porn. But she would get pissed off if I watched any content that featured a pretty woman in it. Even if i was watching a Twitch stream that happened to have a girls voice on the discord that the streamer was chatting with would set her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:14 PM
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Men have to work twice as hard for half the recognition
/r/MensRights16/09/24 05:19 PM
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No, sounds about right.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 07:47 PM
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$40K on first divorce mainly regarding custody and her unreasonable demands. Second wife had an affair and disappeared not before spending $10,000 of my money and will now have to spend a bunch on this divorce too.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 01:15 AM
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This is obvious for anyone who worked corporate job.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/24 10:19 AM
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No one is going to notice you withdrawing $500-$1000 a month and storing the cash elsewhere.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 12:23 PM
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They were able to successfully push their agenda that changed culture over course of generations.
/r/MensRights03/09/24 11:44 PM
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So should the men next to her go drown themselves too? Why didn't she drown herself?
/r/MensRights03/09/24 12:01 AM
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It's a socially acceptable way on reddit to shame men and question their masculinity and call them a virgin at the same time.
/r/MensRights02/09/24 12:54 AM
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That's the effect, it's not the goal. The goal is keeping power and keeping it from other men. Women and children are not viewed as participants or adversaries.
/r/MensRights01/09/24 10:12 PM
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Don't give her anything outside the courts, let her go through the effort to fight it. Child support is something that can be changed and altered. Your prior agreement with her doesn't mean anything to the court.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 05:25 PM
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Just for that, she’ll ghost you before the gaslighting, too. “you had your chance and blew it” similarly to how she’s blown several people in the two weeks since she’s ghosted. You're assuming that occurs after the ghosting.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 08:50 AM
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Often they will be gas light you.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 08:10 AM
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Yes, but less than the initial few months.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 07:46 AM
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Who here is saying anything about mandatory anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:31 PM
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How is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:31 PM
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Aren't men accused of adultery every time they snope through their phones which seems to be highly supported on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:19 PM
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It's amazing how easily they flip the script isn't it?
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 02:03 AM
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How does it help with the divorce process?
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 01:39 AM
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Palestinians are Semites. How is talking about a war between two Semitic adversaries anti-Semitic?
/r/MensRights26/08/24 07:24 PM
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Regarding custody this is just bad information. The court will start with the assumption that the children lives with mom and you'll have to fight for more.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/24 03:20 AM
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Why did you move out? That hurts your case.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/24 09:00 PM
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The benefit of single mothers is that they're more focused on the children and family. Less likely to cheat I imagine.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/24 02:21 PM
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Yes I have had major problems with every woman who didn't have children regarding my own child and baby mama.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/24 02:17 PM
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What's the phrase? "It's easy to be a saint in paradise."
/r/MensRights23/08/24 02:15 PM
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My first one was $480. I didn't see the value. Kept missing deadlines for submission even thought I had sent the things months ago. Kept going over old things again that I already explained to them. Bill got racked up very quickly especially when she had her paralegals in meetings too who charged another $150 an hour. Got another attorney for $250 an hour. He also wasn't great but no worse than the $480 one. My experience is that divorce attorneys seem very incompetent at their job.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 05:21 PM
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I heard this argument and it really don't hold any merit. If a guy can get a younger girl he can definitely get a girl his own age.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/24 04:27 AM
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4 years is would be considered short term marriage. Probably maximum of 2 years alimony if anything. Probably less or nothing.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/24 03:15 AM
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If you think it can be fun physically I would say you are gay-bi. You do you though.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 08:25 PM
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Yes society views men as not having any inherent value other than what they can sacrifice
/r/MensRights17/08/24 04:07 PM
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Can someone reverse it and make it a 14 year old daughter? Make it the dad and doctor's 12 year old son.
/r/MensRights17/08/24 06:11 AM
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I agree with the redditors here. Her choice.
/r/MensRights16/08/24 05:04 AM
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Well so far as far as i can see she and her campaign hasn't pushed the the first woman president narrative like Hillary Clinton's campaign did which I am happy about.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/24 03:45 PM
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It's delusions that receives affirmation from others.
/r/MensRights14/08/24 06:12 PM
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Makes sense. Women are known to use social manipulative behavior rather than physical for social status maneuvering. It is advantageous for them to shit on men and it's easy to do and receive social validation and support for doing so
/r/MensRights14/08/24 01:54 PM
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It's rough. Rent and house prices have increased since you purchased the house. Take the money and put it down on a cheaper place.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/24 02:07 AM
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Yes but you have to expand your pool to international to have similar standards
/r/MensRights12/08/24 02:45 PM
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It's punishment for spending years toiling and sacrificing pre-marriage studying and establishing the start of your career so others who took it easy can benefit from the fruits of your labor.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 01:26 PM
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You cannot say that it's for diversity reasons either since women outnumber men in university. Still there are complaints that women are minority in fields like engineering and computer science and various diversity measures aimed at women for these fields.
/r/MensRights12/08/24 02:36 AM
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Yes marriage is big risk. I recommend a pre nup. Otherwise don't get married.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 06:00 PM
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Everyone exploits and ignores men issues. Left and right.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/24 05:26 AM
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Might help if you describe the situation.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 12:23 AM
2

It's just the way it is. Over 50% of the population have a vested self interest to keep it that way. Enough of a minority the remaining half feel like they have a self interest in hurting the interests in other men.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 02:34 PM
-2

This isn't a surprise. UK has a policy of not sending non-violent women to prison. As expected this cognitive bias leaks into other areas.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 09:50 PM
96

My experience is yes this is true. Women usually will already be cheating or have another man on her mind when she breaks up or ends a marriage. The reason why it isn't discussed is that women are better at hiding it. Often their infidelity partner will go long with covering it up. You rarely see this being true for men affair partners. Women will gas light everyone about their behavior and their actions are supported by society at large. You can see it on reddit. It's always about them spinning…
/r/MensRights07/08/24 03:46 PM
18

I experienced fighitng for it as a dad. Yes I eventually won 50% custody, but only after spending $40,000 in legal fees, and experiencing all the mediators, including court mandated mediators trying to convince me to accept far less, and questioning my motives, alleging that I was doing it for the money, and bragging and boasting that they were on the board that rejected assumption of 50-50 custody in my state of new jersey. Further no attorney i communicated with advised me on what are my chanc…
/r/MensRights04/08/24 07:44 PM
1

Yes of course. White feminism is by design intended to entrenched power into the white voting block. It always been pretty obvious to me.
/r/MensRights03/08/24 06:22 AM
3

I was autobanned on multiple large subs for posting in a Joe Rogan sub. And the post was in response to a post bashing Elon Musk.
/r/MensRights01/08/24 02:17 PM
9

Basically yes. Marriage is a scam. For some reason there are guys that are in favor of this system for reasons I cannot wrap my mind around as a way for punishing guys who marry trophy wives. Pre-nup always.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 08:48 PM
1

I asked for it based on bad faith but judge denied it stating in response that there is also the factor whether she knew or was just wrong, and he felt she was just wrong/mistaken rather than intentional.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 03:42 PM
4

My son's mother moved 55 miles away in state and attempted to change my son's school and reduce my custody time that I had fought tooth and nail for in the first place so that she could move in with her boyfriend. Judge denied her motion as there was no clear change of circumstances to prompt it. Not until after I spent $40,000 on mediation costs (and she presumably equivalent) in addition to a lot of other costs. I should have ignored attorney advices and just gone straight to court.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 04:16 AM
18

This is a known scam. I wouldn't care if they sent the screenshots out.
/r/MensRights30/07/24 01:00 AM
16

It's an open secret. Justifications are that it is okay to punch up.
/r/MensRights27/07/24 07:34 AM
7

Stalked all my socials and reddit accounts. Immediately knew everything I posted. Too much time on her hands because she didn't work.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/24 05:49 PM
6

Possible so that she can go back around and state how you're invited to all these things with the kids and you refuse to partcipate.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 04:57 AM
6

While it is true that men generate more bo due to more sweat glands, I would hazard to guess that the main reason you notice it less on girls is die to creams and perfume applied that masks bo.
/r/MensRights21/07/24 08:18 PM
9

They swear that you're not supposed to wash your hair regularly because it's unhealthy and removes the natural oils. I've seen girls that I just had sex with walk out without showering for week after getting sex gunk all in their hair.
/r/MensRights21/07/24 05:07 PM
3

The fairer sex is stinky. These surveys have been done in the past so it should be common knowledge. Also anyone with first hand experience should also know.
/r/MensRights21/07/24 04:53 PM
-1

For the record she isn't nude on her only fans. This is a nothing burger
/r/MensRights21/07/24 03:10 AM
2

For the record, it isn't capped off at ten years for financial support. That's the fastest she can get the work credit to remove your potentially It's potentially for life if she never reaches the work credit or gets remarried or doesn't become a citizen.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/24 05:56 AM
2

Yeah the thing is women have an easier time covering it up. They will use tons of gas lighting, and often their infidelity partner is more complicit with it.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/24 05:20 PM
62

Today it is only permitted to be edge-lords with men. For women everyone is super serious.
/r/MensRights13/07/24 03:05 AM
8

Usually if they all the sudden decided they didn't want to be married with you anymore it's because they already have their eyes on someone else. My wife very abruptly got up and left and declared her intent of divorce. Come to find out, she had been having an affair the entire time.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/24 11:40 PM
2

That doesnt sound right. That would be 100% of the additional earnings he made after tax.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/24 06:53 PM
-35

Sounds like he was an asshole. Fucked her and left her unconscious for her roommates to deal with. But she's a little lying cunt too.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 05:39 PM
4

If you're earning the same and have 50% custody you're not waiving alimony and child support.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/24 05:23 PM
12

Umm... it sounds like that the husband made out like a bandit compared to USA. $3.2 million in matrimonial assets and the husband got $2.99 million. On appeal, the wife got a little bit more leaving the husband with about $2.75 million. In USA there is a good chance that this would have been split in half. to each party.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 03:42 PM
6

I hear so many cases of men waving alimony and child support. I almost never hear the inverse. This is why there will never be any changes to alimony and child support.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/24 01:59 PM
4

There were multiple mediators including court provided and mandated mediators. The one that was boasting about being on the board that rejected assumption of 50/50 in New Jersey was MARY ANN BAUER
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/24 11:27 PM
3

Finally went to court with her demanding modification. Judge denied her trial. $40K back and forth mediation for years compared to 20 minute meeting with judge that dismisses her demands for trial.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/24 05:57 AM
7

Pretty much all the mediators acted the same way except for the one male one that focused on 50/50 rather than the rest who focused on convincing me into accepting less and questioning my motives and attempting to guilt me into it.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/24 10:35 PM
8

My mediator was gloating and boasting that she was on the board that rejected 50/50 assumption in New Jersey brought by a men's/ dad's rights group. She did this as she urged me to accept less and rolled her eyes and expressed her disdain at me pushing for 50/50.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/24 10:14 PM
33

It increased at the same rate as women divorcing ill husband, which they left out.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 09:48 PM
60

This is well put. Men gave up political power and that is now equal, but women sustained the same social power that was in place creating a lop sided system.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 06:17 PM
14

It's not just that thought. You live in a collectivist society where family and group identity is more important than individualistic identity. The west and USA has high degree of individualistic identity and self serving interest.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 06:15 PM
74

Men who speak up are ostracized by most women and some men. That's majority of people right there. It's enough to push policies and create a culture that is unfavorable towards men. Men who are supportive of men issues are silenced and ostracized of ten with institutional support and censorship. It's impossible to fight against.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 06:10 PM
1

No, the policy explicitly just applies to women.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 05:02 PM
12

Not muscular but yes this has happen in high school. After High school mainly at night clubs. But it was considered all good fun.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 12:22 AM
10

Yeah UK has a policy of not imprisoning non-violent female offenders. Of course, as biases have a tend of doing, this leaked over to also include violent female offenders.
/r/MensRights05/07/24 06:38 PM
9

High mortality rate for child birth. Among highest in the world
/r/MensRights04/07/24 07:00 AM
60

Incel is just the reddit-socially acceptable way to call someone a virgin and bash their manhood.
/r/MensRights01/07/24 08:57 PM
1

Pretty much yes. Brown hair in my case though.
/r/MensRights01/07/24 08:37 AM
0

Sugar daddy relationship is also not necessarily a old man. It can be similar age guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:57 PM
-12

Most attractive girls have done formal or informal sugar baby relationships in their past.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:45 PM
7

I literally spent weekends and evenings volunteering helping sick children and their family. Nobody cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:43 PM
28

Victim blaming, blah blah blah.
/r/MensRights29/06/24 05:06 AM
3

I have read an article from 1959 where the man had to split 50/50 OF ALL FUTURE EARNINGS FOR LIFE Yeah that is alimony. Still happens today but less common than compared to the past.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 01:46 PM
0

Why did you tell your son?
/r/MensRights25/06/24 05:47 PM
2

not really. Judge don't care about that stuff in my experience.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/24 01:19 PM
6

Yes they do. They preach men being head of household, but without any actual authority, so it is by consent and good faith basically enabling husbands to becoming exploited victims in a marriage to a vindictive and careless wife if she chooses to. Vivek Ramaswamy for example was promoting mother support in addition to child support to further encourage marriage and and discourage divorce, and bashes men for not 'stepping up' and completely ignoring that the mother has any agency in the matter or…
/r/MensRights20/06/24 06:58 PM
18

Modern conservatives have this weird all women are queens and men are servants view. It could make sense if everyone plays their role in good faith but in practice everyone is just exploiting their position.
/r/MensRights20/06/24 04:38 PM
1

Yeah but it's one more thing. Also biases mediators and others against you.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/24 01:08 AM
8

He actually has to defend from it and it biases mediators against him.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/24 07:05 PM
10

Talked to a girl from Jamaica. She was says when she was young they had classes in school to teach them how to be a proper lady. Of course it was hugely misogynistic with advice like don't talk unless talked to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:02 PM
8

Sounds like its over. She don't give a toot and is gas lighting you. Don't waste your mental energy. None of what she says will make sense at this point and that is by design.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/24 01:15 AM
8

From what I see, majority of men accepts less than what they can get in court. Often decline alimony and child support in interest of getting the divorce over with. Majority of women goes for full alimony and child support as well as financial settlement as they can get, often more than 50%. They don't have any issues dragging the divorce out in terms of time and costs. Because of this I don't think that the system is ever going to change.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/24 04:41 AM
2

Yes but he was less then 1 year old at time of separation
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/24 12:36 AM
1

I was unable to talk my ex into that. She is not very savvy and hysterical generally. Stated that she doesn't trust me. I was unable to negotiate with her because her position started at sole custody and she wouldn't budge.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/24 01:44 PM
1

$40,000 for no change
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/24 12:50 AM
1

I agree. The only mediator that didn't make some sort of comment like this was the last one who was a man. Instead he focused on trying to reach a deal that sustained 50% target than emotional appeals or trying to convince me to accept less.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 02:51 PM
1

multiple mediators said similar things. The court mandated mediator said "Why are you insisting for half custody? is it for the money?" and "do you think it's appropriate to separate a young child and his mother?"
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 01:36 PM
2

Yes I noticed this too. He also says that its the husband's duty to pay off all pre-marital debt for his wife when women call to complain that their husbands are refusing to. I've never seen him say the inverse.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 07:59 AM
1

Her and her attorney would try to get me to agree to things, then use that against me. And if I didn't agree to it they would also somehow spin that and use it against me. It is wild.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 06:18 AM
1

Yes I had multiple mediators trying to convince me that I would not get 50% or try to shame me or question my motivations into accepting less. I asked if she is asking for full sole custody why can't I do the same and the mediator laughed at me and said that's not going to happen. This was accompanied with her boasting that she was on the board that shot down the assumption for 50-50 custody in New Jersey that was brought up by a men's rights group.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 06:17 AM
2

Same here in New Jersey. The court mandated mediator asked questions to me like "why are you insisting on half custody? Is it for the money?" and "do you think its appropriate to separate a young child from his mother?" and when I asked what is the likely outcome for court and why don't we just settle on that "I am not going to tell you that"
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 06:15 AM
1

Due to none stop back and forth, more than 10 mediation sessions with both our attorneys in attendance with many mediation sessions going half the day. My first lawyer charged $500 an hour and mediator charged similar rate.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 06:11 AM
1

Yup. i tried to have a conversation with her right from the start and tried to part ways amicably. She said no, she don't trust me, we need attorneys, and proceeded to engage in the most delusional demands for multiple years. These delusions seems to be enabled and entertained by everyone, including her attorney and independent mediators who treated it as perfectly reasonable requests and instead attempted to make me give in to them. I actually went as far as offer her 75% custody right at start…
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 06:06 AM
3

That's what I figure based on start I read, that court would grant me 50-50. In practice when I would ask any attorney or mediator for advice and likelihood of getting 50-50 in court, and whether we should just go to court, all of them refused to respond or give any recommendation beyond asking me what I want to do. I figured that mediation could be as simple as, if we go to court we'll likely get this, so lets just do this in mediation for cheaper. This isn't how mediation works. The mediator r…
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/24 04:48 PM
3

Same happened here. Ironically at the very start and with the mediator I offered her everything she is demanding now to avoid legal costs. She rejected it because she was going for sole custody and stated she didn't trust me and we needed to get attorneys . 5 years later and she circles back to here. The irony is lost on her however.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/24 04:16 PM
3

My first attorney was charging me $500 an hour. Then her Paralegal who often accompanied the meetings charged another $150 an hour. Yes there was tons of back and forth, with nothing being accomplished. For my ex she lives rent free so she just dedicated her earnings to harassing me. I had to work extra jobs and liquidate savings to pay.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/24 02:51 PM
3

you are correct
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 09:30 PM
3

Our lawyers accompanied us with the mediators, who were also lawyers.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 09:29 PM
8

Doing it for more child support or doing it to make me spend money?
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 09:28 PM
6

The ironic thing is what she is presently seeking is what I offered her initially at the very beginning to avoid any legal battle. She refused it because she was seeking sole custody. The irony is lost on her though as I don't think she even realizes it.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 07:25 PM
3

I'm not the only one. I have another commenter confused and asking how I could get to $40K.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 06:54 PM
3

I figured I knew the deal I would get in court which is 50-50 shared physical custody if I continued to fight it eventually. I based this one what everyone says about men fighting on the children. Reality is however, nobody including attorneys I inquired or my own attorney wanted to give me whether I had a good chance to get 50-50 custody or not. So I was basing this purely on what I have read and information parroted here on reddit that men that fight typically get 50-50 custody. I asked the fi…
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 06:52 PM
1

interesting. Can you give examples of what can be done?
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/24 11:50 PM
2

Someone should make a post with genders reversed and compare the comments
/r/MensRights06/06/24 02:59 PM
19

Sounds about right for UK. UK has a policy of not placing non-violent women into jail. As can be expected, that biased thinking has leaked through to actual violent crimes as well.
/r/MensRights31/05/24 06:57 PM
3

As far as I know, no state that I'm aware of considers dating while still married, or infidelity for custody considerations. Even if they did, she already is doing it herself.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/24 06:42 PM
3

yes it is a thing in some states but it's typically for long term marriages.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/24 03:20 PM
1

It feels like I live in bizzarro world with all the mediators including court assigned mediator, my ex and her attorney all gas lighting me.
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/24 12:45 AM
1

She moved in with her boyfriend/fiance.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/24 11:34 PM
2

What's driving me nuts is that all the mediators are acting like her request is perfectly fine and that I should agree to it implying they the courts will side with her
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/24 10:25 PM
0

New Jersey. I don't know the age of the mediator, around 50 maybe. She said tender age doctrine runs up to 14. Another court mandated mediator asked me if I think it is appropriate to separate a child from his mother at that age (he was 2 or 3 at the time) and asked what was my motives, was it the money? Then she heavily tried to convince me to accept less than 50%. Another mediator also tried to get me to accept less than 50% citing that I didn't see my son for x amount of time. His mother had …
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/24 09:52 PM
0

With the way her and her attorney are acting, as well as mediators you would think that they have guaranteed win. Mediator brought up tender age doctrine and said that courts favor the mother.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/24 07:54 PM
1

It's not going to change because a group of people has a vested interest in keeping it the same way. Until that group of people are bothered by that system it will remain same
/r/MensRights17/05/24 03:07 AM
1

Women aren't though. That's the problem
/r/MensRights16/05/24 11:35 PM
13

This is why the system will never change. I keep seeing men that post that they wave rights to alimony and child support to get it over with. I almost never see women who do this.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 08:31 PM
4

Yeah same happened with me. My new wife got sick and tired of harassment from my son's mother, having no money to do anything because of never ending legal expenses in addition to the child support, and got sick and tired of my son too. She went and had an affair and disappeared.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/24 03:46 PM
12

In New York it is legal for women not to have a shirt on. It is also legal for men. In practice the only women I see not covering their chest are street performer sex workers with body paint on. This is a non-issue really.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 02:17 PM
1

The child support is just a means to an end which is control and to hurt the man.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/24 03:10 AM
1

Ironically, this is bad for men as men lose out on opportunity for safe non-front line roles. Fortunately as far as I know Denmark isn't involved in any wars.
/r/MensRights15/05/24 09:33 PM
39

I think child support should be re-worked rather than abolished. I have equal shared custody but am paying child support because I earned slightly more. But she is also constantly taking me to court trying to change custody, is being supported by her family and lives for free with her boyfriend. So she's living a luxurious life style whereas while with me I'm struggling to provide for my child. The justification for child support even at equal shared physical custody is so that child standard of…
/r/MensRights13/05/24 08:55 PM
5

Yet I keep encountering redditors stating that actually courts favor men when they fight for it. I actually recall this being stated in my college courses too.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/24 07:47 PM
133

The husband stated he didn't want the wife to go to prison. The main reason for inequality in treatment is due to male compassion. I see the same in divorce cases. In the few circumstances where a woman out earns the man, and the man is entitled to alimony/child support, I often see them waving those rights to get the divorce completed. I barely ever see women wave those rights.
/r/MensRights13/05/24 03:13 PM
23

Don't surprise your ex wife or soon to be ex wife. She wants to see you as little as possible. She don't like you.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/24 12:46 AM
-1

I agree. Honestly ignore it. It can be argued that its a good thing she'd rather be stuck with a bear rather than another man.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 12:57 PM
0

Yes I am serious. Why would I not be. I have had girls spend the night over with my kids here too.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/24 06:54 PM
-6

Why can't you spend the night over? I've dated single moms before and slept over while kids were there no problem.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/24 05:53 PM
2

What's your source lol. Your talking as if there is an authoritative authority rather than some guys on the internet saying things
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:07 AM
3

Blue pill term in reference to romance was invented by red pillers embracing the term and defining what differentiates it. Blue pill content? You're doing like there is some sort of institutional movement behind the term usage rather than internet jargon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:16 AM
3

This is the context of original usage referred to by those who created the original dichotomy starting with red pill. I honestly didn't know there was a blue pull sub reddit. Looks pretty inactive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:03 AM
1

Why do I think that? Because that is start blue pill is. Absent if some sort of belief or philosophy regarding romance is no pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:45 AM
8

No. Blue pilled is a belief of its own. Basically it means that you believe that romantic success is encapsulated by being a nice guy and working on yourself to be the best person you can be and others will be attracted to that.. It's actually not too different to red pill in that regard, difference being that red pillers incorporates alpha male bravado in place of being a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:32 AM
0

No. Blue pilled is a belief of its own. Basically it means that you believe that romantic success is encapsulated by being a nice guy and working on yourself to be the best person you can be and others will be attracted to that.. It's actually not too different to red pill in that regard, difference being that red pillers incorporates alpha male bravado in place of being a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:32 AM
1

I'll go against the grain here and venture there has been a rise in female teacher preying on male students. Sexual liberation and all that has do flow into other areas as ethical lines become blurry.
/r/MensRights04/05/24 10:43 PM
5

Is it me or are these stories of female teachers hooking up with their students seem to be more common than the inverse?
/r/MensRights04/05/24 10:15 PM
1

Apparently saying females is exist and dehumanizing now too
/r/MensRights03/05/24 05:44 PM
4

I think they are right about the black pill. I think they are demonized and all lumped together with very small group of eliott rogers. I think that the term incel has now just become a pejorative term that is more socially acceptable to use rather than calling someone a virgin.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 11:29 PM
2

Pretty much. It is what hairball l happens when peopledon't actually have real problems. They manufacture problems or blow up very minor things to focus on.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 02:09 PM
28

This occurred in UK. UK has a policy of not imprisoning non-violent women. Biases don't have hard lines and as expected this line of thinking has spilled over to actual violent women who are being labeled as not really violent person, and their violent crime not representing who they really are.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 07:14 AM
2

Yeah I honestly am indebted to get because I wouldn't have ever known otherwise besides all the gas lighting I was receiving from my wife which would have drove me crazy
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/24 06:50 AM
7

Them matching you is the green light to hit on them. They wouldn't have matched unless she chose to (on tinder) and opened the door for the guy to match her.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 06:54 PM
7

Isn't this what the purpose of matching in the first place is?
/r/MensRights30/04/24 06:15 PM
17

She didn't give her life for someone else. The guy died.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 01:49 PM
43

The article barely mentions that the guy died too.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 01:44 PM
–

Partially it's a domination thing. They also enjoy the feeling of being held in place
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:18 PM
7

Yup, same with me and her boss within weeks of starting and moved out. Not before cashing out my money on her way out. I actually didn't suspect it at all until after she disappeared and her sister sent me all the text messages and pictures.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 06:45 PM
4

Because 50% of the population have an inherent vested interest to have it that way. Then all you need is a minority of men seeking to screw over other men to keep it that way in perpetuity. So far I spent $35,000 in just legal fees fighting for custody over 5-6 year when visitation was being withheld without even going to court yet. None of the mediators, even court mandated mediator cared about that fact. They actually used that against be in attempting to argue 'established status quo'. This d…
/r/MensRights26/04/24 02:14 AM
20

I believe this is in UK. They have a policy of not sending non-violent women to prison. As you can expect, this line of thinking has spilled over to violent crime as well as internal biases don't have hard stops.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 12:31 AM
4

You're the one stating that my post has some sort of got you in it. What got you? Or are you just projecting your own thoughts onto others?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:23 PM
0

what does that have to do with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:11 PM
0

What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:42 PM
0

Being a single dad I can say that raising kids is easier than what you would think given how some cry and complain about it. Furthermore, objectively, children do better in single dad households than single mom households.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:53 PM
14

I'd say you're right. It's mainly cope. It's hard for women to get commitment from men way above their league. They can easily get commitment from men that are within their league or below.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:06 PM
2

Dating is a one way transaction with regard to romancing. I should have worded it better but didn't realize that focus will be on the word 'transaction'. Back rubs/massages? She cooking a famcy meal for you? Gift exchanges? Learning a bit of your hobby to know more about you? Yes this is further down the relationship, where it should start to reach egalitarian and parity by marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:21 PM
2

I said romance is a one way transaction in dating. I like how all the replies are attempting to spin what I said to suit their narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:42 PM
2

who cares about waxing? No girl I been with regularly waxed. Why are you so focused on waxing? It's weird. I didn't say transactional. I said one way transaction referring to men doing the romance and women receiving romance. You took that word and warped it to whatever you had in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:42 PM
2

I also shave my genitals. I don't have a problem with my legs either if that was desired so not sure what you're getting at. Also your getting stuck on the word 'transaction'. Romance is one way during dating. That's the point. I don't think anyone really genuinely disagrees with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:23 PM
2

One way transaction in terms of romance. I shave my arm pits. So no money. What are you trying to get at?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:49 PM
3

Dating is one way transaction. Man gives romance, woman takes romance. Marriage it is supposed to be more equal. Not necessarily the same though. This is how it has been done historically. But lots of modern women don't want the dating phase to ever end, for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:45 PM
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They will find something to complain about to justify how they feel even if it is without merit. My wife I literally might have saved her life from her roof collapsing on her, saved her vision with medical intervention, and took care of her for years. She immediately had an affair and disappeared with a guy 6 years younger than her 24/25 year old guy and blamed me for it, while bragging about how much this guy takes care of her as she moved in with him and his grandparents house.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:24 PM
3

Yes this is pretty much true. My experience any girl that I dated that was out of my league expected me to be their door mat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:20 PM
1

Yeah but the flip is supposed to flip during marriage as both partners have agreed to build a life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:18 PM
2

It's a way to call men they don't like 'virgin' as an insult that is socially acceptable.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 08:32 PM
0

I am aware of the origin. Incel and femcel are two separate things. Nothing in the word implies that it's involuntary.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 04:57 PM
0

Celibate just means abstaining from sex. There is no 'in' which stands for involuntary. Whatever you googled is wrong.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 04:49 PM
17

Megan Fox was a self declared lesbian criticizing bisexual women for sleeping with dirty men but then she proceeded to date men like MGK
/r/MensRights16/04/24 04:48 PM
3

Usually yes. Or at best is talking to someone that they want to have sex with.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 10:52 PM
3

I don't know if this is true. Just pearly things is single yes for obvious reasons. Others like Lauren Chen is married with children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:51 PM
8

Count your blessings you didn't have a kid with this person. Right now I'm talking to a girl from Dominican Republic that wants to have kids soon. Maybe look into a foreign girl. But be careful if you.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 03:06 PM
3

Why is the focus on diversifying senior leadership role when they represents what, 1% of jobs?
/r/MensRights17/03/24 04:50 AM
19

Ironically this is worse for men as it increases the chances that the conscripted men will be placed at front line combat roles as all the women fill out the non-combat roles.
/r/MensRights16/03/24 04:12 PM
3

Yes you're right. vivek ramaswamy was on a podcast stating that men who get a woman pregnant should be liable not only for child support, but also for mother support. Worst than alimony because mother can be out earning the father but the father is still liable.
/r/MensRights13/03/24 04:17 PM
2

Lawyer says don't give her anything. He sounded angry/ annoyed.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/24 08:19 PM
1

3 years? why did it take so long? Was there kids and custody involved? was there alimony? How long were the two of you married? I'm divorcing now. I am also in New Jersey. But she disappeared in October and had been living with her affair partner's grand parents house together. She wouldn't give me an address to serve her the divorce papers so I finally just looked up her affair partner whose last name i got on instagram before being blocked, and they found her there. They are demanding i pay fo…
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/24 04:58 AM
1

Some people do things like this actually. I've seen people asking for advice regarding whether to pay off their pre-marital debt. My ex wife was sending money to her parents to help them with their debts, but at same time driving cars in their names, so she had no assets of her own. I guess that is a question for a financial audit and how much of a big deal is made out of it.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/24 01:05 AM
3

Actually it was eye surgery for life long degenerative eye disease that would eventually blind her. She finally decided to get it treated right before disappearing on me. I have medical insurance that would have paid out in full but she didn't care to go to a clinic that takes insurance, for obvious reasons.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/24 08:46 PM
2

credit cards were all in my name. During marriage debt is run up to $50,000 in my name. Including medical surgery right for her right before she disappeared.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/24 08:36 PM
4

They found and served her the divorce papers at the guy's house. Lawyer says give her nothing and sounds pretty mad about it all.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/24 08:36 PM
7

My experience is a lot of the more attractive girls that hit 30s start dating younger. My guess is it's excitement and feeling younger. She moved in to his grandparents house with him. He's also very aggressive and with a big mouth at work apparently all the girls are chasing after him so I guess she gets a thrill out of it. She works at a factory night shift with literal ex cons and uneducated people so you can probably imagine the environment. I was told that there was literal prostitution tha…
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 06:13 PM
6

Second wife had an affair and disappeared with a 24 year old guy (she's 30) who was her 'supervisor' at first job she ever had after I spent tons on her resolving medical issues and other stuff and taking care of her while recovering. Moving on to my 3rd wife now.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 05:52 PM
2

Debt accrued during marriage is typically divisible in divorce. Student loans were presumably pre-marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 02:46 PM
13

If the credit cards were during marriage then there is a good chance it is marital debt.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 02:44 PM
2

Yes. Same. I started a business on the side, with her blessing and agreement and support with the goal to transition out over to her with out under my name and professional designation. She quickly lost interest leaving me with the clients for me to handle on my own.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 03:46 AM
14

My ex just left me for a 24 year guy that lives with his grand parents (Sh'es 30) and earns minimum wage in NJ. She moved in with him and his grand parents. He is technically her boss at her job, night shift factory supervisor. She complained that she felt like she was my employee, so she had an affair with her actual boss.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 08:58 PM
3

This is all so true. Experienced it myself.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 05:16 PM
2

There was a study posted here that findings concluded that testosterone affects on women was not increased aggressiveness, but increased sense of status and fairness. So women who had testosterone injections made fairer offers compared to placebo. So it just might be biological.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 05:55 PM
1

Women given testosterone made fairer offers than those who received the placebo, the researchers found. However, women who were told they had received testosterone were more aggressive, whether they had actually received the hormone or not, the study authors noted. These women continually made unfair offers. Why are women making unfair offers?
/r/MensRights26/02/24 04:27 PM
1

Usually yes. Women in these relationships weaponizes sex, or are just apathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:57 PM
1

It's a case of false cause fallacy. Women are attracted to guys that can get away with being an asshole because of his other attractive characteristics. Not because he's an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:58 PM
1

No. Don't care to know. I rather not think about it.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 07:38 AM
6

Similar things have happened to me. Wife just had an affair and disappeared on me. I reached out to a female friend i met at work and knew for about a decade and made it clear that I'm interested in pursuing her. Took her on all expense paid trip. While I was at the bathroom she invited a guy to come sit with her. When I returned he asked if we're together, I said no but there's something between us (we had just had awkward sex), he got up and left. She got pissed off said that we're not togethe…
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/24 09:05 PM
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In my 30s I ended up getting with a bunch of top tier girls who were friends of mine who never were interested when we were younger. The sex was always a problem. And actually several forwarded the 3 months rule. I don't know where they will got this from. But none of them included it accounted for decade plus friendships. Like the first girl we regularly hung out and slept over each other place for two decades as platonic friends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:48 AM
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Yeah similar for me. I was friends with a girl for 15-20 years since school. When we started dating in our mid 30s when she was ready to settle down she institutes a 3 month no sex rule. She also said she don't expect sex everyday date. In reality it was no sex at all maybe once a month. She even asked me how I felt about cucking and watching her have sex with other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:09 AM
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Why would you want to be with a woman that hooked up with everyone but when it came to you she decided to become a nun. That's a red flag that the entire relationship is going to be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:41 AM
30

If she says that as she's acting like she's a nun around me I feel insulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:45 AM
84

The statistics don't even show this. If it did you would expect that older men single rates being much lower which it isn't. What actually is occurring is a few men are dating multiple women and multiple women reporting to be in a relationship with a single man.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 06:56 PM
3

I have similar story but I don't want to fuck my ex wife after that anymore. I can't think of her like that anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 02:38 PM
30

I grew up in Brooklyn, NY. A times I was being mugged and harassed on the street on a weekly basis on my way to school and back. Not only is my experience not recognized, I'm called a liar. Yet all the statistics show that men are victims of random violence at greater rate than women are.
/r/MensRights14/02/24 02:38 PM
6

Women travel for sex all the time. Girl trips abroad or traveling and partying is basically just sex fests for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:04 AM
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Yes you're right, regarding western countries. It does matter more in poorer countries due to the need to be practical. I think that people who think and fuss about money and wealth being their limiting factor is another cope from guys without money. I am relatively wealthy and successful. My wife left me for a guy earning minimum wage for example. There were surveys and experiments done. They couldn't give a guy any amount of money to make him more appealing for a date for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:46 AM
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Her father thinks that everyone should support her decisions because they're not there and don't know her situation. Also she's in America and can help them out. Her parents are divorced. He's a cheater himself and guy that looks what he can get out of people so that's not a surprise. Ironically also super religious. But a sizable minority of people are saying things like this. Including friends from her church. She is family and you should support your family.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 03:02 PM
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Power imbalance is towards the foreign spouse against the american. American guarantees to government to support the spouse even if she cheats and disappears. It's pretty iron clad. The American takes on all the risk. The foreign spouse actually holds all the power once they get their green card which doesn't take much time. And the contract with the government is permanent, ie, financial support for the rest of either the husband or wife's life potentially even in case of infidelity, disappeara…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:13 PM
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Women freely admit that they look to date up. So I don't understand the issue with men going abroad to exercise this. Especially when men are reaching back through their own background, ie their family is immigrants and they reach back to their background to find someone. Honestly I think it's due to jealousy and they don't want the competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:12 PM
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Depends on state. Yes, there have been cases of a spouse coming back later after she took her half, lost all her money, and demanding new alimony. I'm thinking about one case where the woman took her money and invested it into a failed business and was broke. Her husband, inversely, became a multimillionaire created health products to help the blind or something like that. Her lawyers went after him for new alimony conditions.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 06:10 AM
42

Yes I agree. It's a huge cope and revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:05 AM
46

I worked multiple fortune 500 finance jobs. The ones that had any obvious bias were towards women. One company was 75% women in finance, and they all looked like models. I noticed this occurs in companies that have big bloated finance teams with multiple levels of management (managerially tall).
/r/MensRights11/02/24 02:16 AM
5

Symmetry is a bit of a meme. Facial harmony and balance is more important. are the facial features proportionate to each other. It's a bit more complicated than just saying symmetrical or whatever so people often aren't able to describe what they find attractive.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 02:30 PM
9

My wife is doing something similar, but for her it's due to her green card process. Alleging abuse enables her to proceed on her own without me.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 03:50 AM
6

Yes it's normal. Especially for top tier attractive women. Most husbands of these women just ignore them and try to keep them happy by tip toeing around them.
/r/MensRights08/02/24 12:59 AM
2

This is basically what I've always seen at work. Either it's netural, or women are favored. I've never been anywhere that I saw men being favored over women.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 06:37 PM
3

If you consider evangelical christian that follows youtube evangelical streams, yes.
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/24 06:30 PM
7

It's a conditional gift until you guys get married. Then the condition is met despite any later divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/24 11:36 PM
17

This is just a false talking point. Men are victimized by random violence at greater rate than women.
/r/MensRights04/02/24 06:39 AM
1

yes. Otherwise I would have just had her gas lighting words about what happened and never would have known
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 08:14 PM
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The problem is that in "patriarchal" societies it always was only the minority of men on top that benefited while the majority of the men died in the ditches.
/r/MensRights03/02/24 08:04 PM
4

Yup
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 09:04 PM
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Many women these days have no values other than looking good on social media and feeling like they deserve better based on what they see on social media. I potentially saved her life, her vision, paid for her medical expenses, and took care of her recovery while bed ridden but that wasn't enough as she immediately left on affair she was having with a 24 year old minimum wage supervisor at work (she was 30). Not only did she leave, she was bragging about it and didn't give care at all which is wh…
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 08:54 PM
4

That doesn't matter legally if he's under age. Regardless 17 should be of age.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 03:34 PM
3

Its not gaslighting. It's facts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:25 AM
4

Those are really just excuses for when a girl wasn't into the guy in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:25 PM
1

That's great to hear. What state? I think it depends on the state
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/24 06:22 AM
1

You haven't heard the worst of it either.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/24 01:19 AM
0

I already stated in the first sentence that I consulted multiple attorneys. they all give vague response of depends on judge, they can't make any prediction.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/24 11:39 PM
3

More of the women are victims and men are predators that need to be leashed mentality.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 03:24 PM
9

As expected random screenshots. I explicitly asked for unmoderated content. As in something that doesn't get deleted by mods and/or user banned.
/r/MensRights25/01/24 10:53 PM
5

Where. Show me. And show me that those comments are not being moderated
/r/MensRights25/01/24 09:17 PM
5

Imagine if the comments were filled with men making these comments on women tourist deaths while traveling foreign countries.
/r/MensRights25/01/24 02:34 PM
18

They always were. They just have a bigger platform now.
/r/MensRights25/01/24 02:22 PM
105

UK Has this entire thing about not putting women in jail if they're non-violent. Here it seems that this extends to violent crimes as well.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 10:18 PM
4

Once married the wealth imbalance is against the higher earner. The lower earner can then threaten divorce and exit with half the assets, alimony, and child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:13 AM
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I'm not against the law enforcing marriage promises to prevent a few guys monopolizing the the dating scene through false promises of marriages.
/r/MensRights21/01/24 09:24 PM
6

I worked for 4. 3 were neutral more or less, at least comparatively. 1 was obviously biased with a mix of nepotism as well. Hard to describe but you definitely felt the power structure more with a taller management structure and multiple layers of management.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 04:28 PM
9

As if the CEO is deeply involved in hiring decisions for finance department.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 02:54 PM
5

Didn't say all. Company where I see this occur have a lot of noticeable waste and excess in terms of employees. More than is needed to get the job done. Finance leadership rotational programs. I think that is actually a positive for employees, but it seems that the benefits are mainly targeted towards women.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 02:27 PM
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If anything I've only seen the opposite working fortune 500 companies finance departments. Some companies it was 75% women in finance dept, they earned more than men, they received more promotions, and they were less qualified education and experience wise.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 10:04 AM
7

It kind of goes back to the original point that men aren't allowed to have preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:02 AM
5

I said "I can't get a half decent woman" They ran with what I meant by that with their own interpretations. But yes they were correct that this was what I was thinking in my head (the first one) even though I didn't say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:01 AM
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I've been called misogynist and kicked from a sub for saying that I can't find a half decent girl. They said that this clearly shows my misogynism. Men gets this idea because of experiences like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:17 AM
6

I've noticed that women have strong armed and forced their values into male spaces and it's ruining a lot of our art and culture. And there are men who are letting women do this all in the name of inclusivity. That's the point
/r/MensRights12/01/24 03:34 PM
1

Your response is the weird one that doesn't address the original statement.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 05:48 PM
15

It doesn't look like boiling water. That was her prank
/r/MensRights08/01/24 01:56 PM
3

She intentionally mis-understood. She has a vested interest to not understand.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 07:56 PM
18

From what I've seen from other guys, most guys don't bother to fight for child support or alimony when they are the lower income earner just to get the divorce over with. It's part of the reason why the system perpetuates itself.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 07:27 AM
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Hook up culture is something practiced by a minority, or only for a limited period in people's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:42 PM
11

Definitely more migrant men than women. But migrant women are often able to find someone that they are able to find someone that will help them out.
/r/MensRights05/01/24 06:05 PM
1

It will never change. Over half the population have a vested interest in it not changing.
/r/MensRights05/01/24 04:52 PM
1

Well she and her family represent themselves as all super religious.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 02:33 PM
3

Right. Even after the affair came to light, she was saying that she was a devoted woman and everything is my fault. In what twisted world is she the devoted woman?
/r/MensRights01/01/24 05:58 PM
3

Yeah she has 0 remorse or regret and blames me even now after the affair came out I found out about it because she was bragging about it to her sister. She was so overt about it at work that her co worker apparently was trying to find me on ducked media to tell me.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 02:10 PM
9

I spoke to many lawyers. They basically don't give any advice. Just say things that they can do and are very vague about what they expect the outcomes will be.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 05:06 AM
1

Looks/ Shape Willingness to please you sexually Positive Personality/ mindset How they make you feel Homemaking Skills Femininity/ Masculinity and how much they appeal to their specific gender role Education Money they make Career
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:52 AM
2

Same characteristics for me except for age difference. Age difference between me and her are the same, except the other direction (she older than him)
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:39 AM
4

Her female friends took my side as they said hang on it was only two weeks ago you were saying what a great guy i was now hes beating you up and you went from one relationship straight to the next with no concerns? This is kind of exactly how it went for me apparently. One moment she was talking how great I was. The next she was saying she was saying she was noticing all the good looking guys at work and that she's thinking about divorce, and then when she disappeared she started to bash me as t…
/r/MensRights31/12/23 01:40 AM
2

How did you know? She also an evangelical
/r/MensRights31/12/23 01:34 AM
3

That's right. It was very traumatizing and shocking. I trusted completely. I am not going to be the same.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 11:57 PM
3

In the text messages she says she's trying to get alimony and go live off of it with her boyfriend (affair partner). She's not going to get any because of how short term the marriage was, she don't seem to realize that.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 11:32 PM
9

She love bombed me. And I didn't view things as red flags originally in hind sight I see were potential red flags.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 10:16 PM
10

There is no moving on. I signed a contract with the United States Government that I would financially support her for at least 10 years. Additionally she was bragging and boasting about this and attempting to extract more money out of me.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 10:12 PM
12

She was furious when I started reaching out to her family, sister and mother about it and gave them my side. It looked like she was crafting a narrative of her own and was pissed that I countered it with my side including pictures videos of my own. They're all shocked about her behavior as well which is what prompted her sister to send me the text messages and pictures over to me.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 10:11 PM
3

Brazil
/r/MensRights30/12/23 10:07 PM
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She's Brazilian. We aren't much different in age, it's the same difference as her affair partner now, but in the other direction. Its been less than 2 years.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 09:53 PM
7

I mean that she can say she entered the marriage honestly, but then changed her mind after getting married which she's allowed to do for the green card.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 08:37 PM
21

Yeah similar. I took on multiple jobs to make the bills since she wasn't able to work. I didn't NEED to work as I could have dipped into my retirement savings, and I asked for her permission and whether she would help me with starting an at home business, which she agreed to but then quickly lost interest, but it left me holding the bag with multiple clients and many nights without sleep before I was able to unwind them.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 08:35 PM
8

Thanks. I vented with lots of people, including random people on reddit and it genuinely did help.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 08:32 PM
14

Every lawyer I talk to are always vague about what they think will happen. They mainly talk about things they can do but hand waive and are vague about what they think the outcomes will be.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 08:09 PM
18

Potentially if she came into the marriage with that thought in her mind. But she can say that she changed her mind after getting married and it's hard to prove what she actually thought.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 07:15 PM
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Yes I have the text messages. I doubt it's as simple as that but do you have a contact for that? Might as well give it a shot.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 06:45 PM
6

Your the first comment addressing the question rather than focusing on her being a immigrant/green card holder.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 06:36 PM
122

It will be a hard sell. She did have a text message stating that she was only with me still to accumulate money before leaving and that she was pretending to be a 'dumb trophy wife', but she can counter saying that she didn't come into the marriage thinking that and that was a recent change in her thinking and it's impossible to prove.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 06:07 PM
4

Well yeah. Kind of like how only poor people complain about capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:32 AM
3

Most relationships are like that with women holding the power in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:01 PM
2

Yeah about the same number for me. My wife started an affair and then disappeared with a 24 year old factory supervisor at work the moment she started working (never worked before in her life prior to that).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:07 AM
3

Every attractive woman that I know that is in their 30s and single start dating younger men in their 20s. Even my wife did this. According to polls its the men that care about growing a family more than women. Women are fine but having their own family
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:41 AM
27

Jordan Peterson is not an incel. He's a red piller advocating for self improvement for men to make them more high value males.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 11:25 PM
2

Maybe they care more about it than men but it still ranks far below raw physical attraction. There was this one survey where they had a short guy and made up facts like he's super wealthy tech bro, but nothing they could say could get the women to consider selecting him out of a line up.
/r/BlackPillScience13/01/23 02:06 PM
2

That's exactly what they were doing in the post over at science sub.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 05:58 PM
1

You have to read some of the mental gymnastics being posted there. "They're critical because they want to protect them from men" Or just dismissing the study based on sample size, which is based on they're background of statistical analysis I'm sure.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 05:57 PM
6

Most women will not date men with kids unless they have kids. The inverse is not true.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 05:37 PM
2

Pennies
/r/MensRights12/08/22 02:58 PM
9

I beta orbited one girl for 14 years as her best friend until she finally let me hit it
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/20 11:16 PM
24

Friendship game worked pretty well until the last 5-8 years. Now all those girls that would have ended up dating an orbiter in her mid-to-late 20s hops on tinder or other apps and continues the cock carousel into her 30s.
/r/BlackPillScience07/12/20 11:16 PM
4

Majority of men don't commit rape
/r/MensRights09/05/20 01:25 AM
6

The terminates the program because it was too much to bear, but then decided to go be with his daughter and family as she passes away.
/r/MensRights26/04/20 08:57 PM
15

It used to be that men were just advised to ignore women as they were overly emotional. That worked back in the day somewhat... men had the money, they called the shots, but these days women hold all the power and still act like that, it's an impossible situation.
/r/MensRights26/04/20 08:55 PM
6

Johnny Depp got sacked from Pirates of the Caribbean for her lies
/r/MensRights02/04/20 12:42 AM
23

Facial symmetry is basically a meme.
/r/BlackPillScience03/03/20 02:30 AM
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Yeah that notion doesn't actually make sense when you think about it. Obviously deformities probably implies genetic problems, but in non healthy deformed terms, Ashkenazi Jews and East Asians have the highest IQs but as groups are probably considered below average attractiveness.
/r/BlackPillScience12/10/18 10:12 PM
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If blackpill preached that physical attractiveness is the only major factor in attractiveness it is only half right. The main factors are physical attractiveness and/or social status. Students can influence the social status though, like a very attractive man tends to have more social influence and status.
/r/BlackPillScience25/07/18 04:41 PM
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