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Just realized I've been given the pickmeisha flair....for what reason I do not understand and it's pretty hurtful ngl. Though I did figure that it was a matter of time before this subreddit (which I was so devoted to) turned on me. Y'all overreact to everything. Oh well, now I'll be a dectractor instead of a supporter. Have fun stewing in your toxicity, you just lost a soul in the cause because you decided to be mean girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:51 PM
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entertainment, purely. that's my point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:45 PM
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Honestly memes / screenshots were 50% of the reasons why I frequented this forum .... Kinda bummed people are so against them. Maybe it's cus I don't need too much extra coaching/clarification otherwise since I already knew / followed many of the principles laid out in the "handbook" but like...after a hard day at work it's nice to just laugh. sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 12:38 AM
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..... I would find the nearest homeless person and give them the bill. And then go have some din-din with myself or call up a girlfriend, after knowing I did something kind. lol tf kinda shit is this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:36 AM
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To be honest i get what she is saying. She works hard at work so if she can come home and relax while her man does the planning and all work in that arena of life (while packaging it as submission so he goes along with it)....well then that's just clever. Tho i see someone else in the comments mentioned that she can afford to do this cus she has her own money which is a good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 02:25 AM
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yeah same lol i don't know how non-messy people do it, really. But I am determined to improve because as you said - it's nice when there's no mess. Makes it easier to do hobbies when there's no clutter clouding my mind. And I feel you re: depression. i'm not clinically depressed as far as I know but I do fall into depressive slumps esp. with borderline. Can you share how / what improvements you made?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:57 PM
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hahahaha same with me and my cat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:56 PM
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awww thanks <3 I'm feeling the sisterhood vibes now haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:04 AM
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lmao I am a disappointment too. Thank you for the support - I want to be able to be myself and not be a perfect woman to deserve love, u know? I get it tho - it's similar in my culture too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:55 AM
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ok phew it's not just me. Cus when I keep hearing abt how women are cooks and good homekeepers etc I have to shrink away left I be deemed a lesser woman lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:28 AM
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:( I am guilty of these habits myself ... fuck. Why am I a mess of a person T.T
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:56 AM
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ahhhhh THAT's why younger women's pussies are tighter to him - cus they're grossed out by granpa's pecker and shrink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:39 PM
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This woman is a folk hero!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:31 PM
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yeah all men care about is how "sexy" she is * eyeroll * which mind, you, is harder to control than going to get an education
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 08:57 PM
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yes exactly all of this! those "hints" are delusional because studies even show that men see hints where there are none (they overestimate girls' interest) 100% she is talking abt other guys to him because HE IS JUST A FRIEND and maybe he'll get the hint OR she thinks he knows it's obvious that there's no chance...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:50 PM
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but also like...clearly some bells rang in his head cus he considered this as the reason....but somehow he didn't quite confirm this conclusion lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:41 PM
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I'm dumbfounded that he really needs to ask
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:51 PM
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YASSSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:46 AM
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oooOoo the motto could be "leave the clowns, get a crown"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:16 AM
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I AM DYING :'D what in hobo sex hell?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:37 PM
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o lame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:05 PM
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lol it gives off vibes like he is an underprivileged kid and she is saving him but like...why a second date tho? to mentor some job skills?? surely not to f***?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:55 PM
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WHY IS NO ONE ASKING HOW HE HAS THE AUDACITY TO SHOW UP IN SHOES THIS DIRTY TO A DATE IN THE FIRST PLACE???? lawd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:00 AM
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dunno, I'm 30. but like I am not enticed at all by me, as a lady, being able to message fro free, dafuq? why do they think that works
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:59 PM
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Oh rlly? oof there's also Coffee Meets Bagel - have you heard of that one? But also like the ad....is implying the ladies get to message for free? and it's nah sis - there's a reason I don't use Bumble lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:06 PM
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That's rlly sad tho oof
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:13 PM
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I'd keep the $100 tho lmao Then scrote #1 be mad at losing the $100 for nothing and further proves he's a POS to the wife while you get the $100 haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:52 PM
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HAVE we collectively lost our minds? How does a 29 yo woman need the internet to tell her this is unfair and she should run? This is blatantly him using the relationship status to accumulate wealth at her expense lol dafuuuuuq I've entered clown-town
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:51 PM
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Sigh.....why do guys have to ruin their chances with their personalities? I actually think he's cute - but not with that attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:43 PM
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LOL bring em on. I am about to divorce and have no fucks left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:07 AM
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LMAO yea dicks are so weird, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:09 AM
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LOL it's funny though because like.... it got me thinking.... I can't believe the hassle we gotta go through just because we can't force attraction to ladies. Like we were born wanting a man and now are forever doomed to irrationally go through the hassle of seeking one even though it's often a losing battle - wut??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:06 AM
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This for real, tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:03 AM
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Reminds me of this one time I was chatting with a dude and we chatted a bit but had never met up and like there was no talk chemistry (and I wasn't that into him physically either; not sure why I was talking to him, this was long ago and not memorable) - and then one day we chat and he asks me to have sex that day and it's like...dude WHY? there is ZERO compatibility between us AND you're ugly so WHY LOL THE ORDACITY ("audacity" said as Ramona Singer lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:57 AM
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THIS. I know at 20 it's hard to believe but trust me and my sordid experience - there WILL be more opportunities even if you think this was the "one" lol I know it stings but it'll be fine, just use this as experience in learning to vet guys - do try to learn to not fantasize too much or assume early that they're good for you etc. it gets better with practice :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:54 AM
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Honestly, this could just be him giving a neg because he is insecure knowing that she is out of his league...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:52 PM
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Ewwwww he sounds so gross - I am so sorry you had to endure that. Don't blame yourself; be grateful that he didn't rape you, that you are safe now and escaped the date physically unharmed. You did tell him "no" but he kept going on. You can use this as an experience to learn from. This was your first date and you did the best you could given the situation. Next time if something like this happens you'll be aware to say "no" strongly or to leave etc. It's like the expression "fool me once, shame …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:58 PM
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I am in the same boat, sort of. I always feel like I was a shit wife or girlfriend when a relationship ends. I don't understand what I am supposed to DO or provide in the relationship in order to be worth something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:06 PM
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hmmm interesting and deep take - thanks! i needed that pep talk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:25 PM
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ugh this one guy I know that I recently met (nice chap to hang with in a group, I see him as a little brother sort of) always pays for the girls at the table (like even friends). I felt guilty for that and considered sneakily paying for myself next time. Then I saw him laugh react to this picture that someone posted on facebook .. -_- such disappointment, much wow. Pay away, boyo, pay away. Don't deserve my guilt lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:20 PM
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?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:40 PM
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hmm I actually found a lack of advice about appearance here? not sure why I'm missing it? I have always been hyper aware that you cannot guarantee a man won't leave you or won't stop caring about you - and I want the power to move on or leave in those situations. Which means staying as attractive as possible into old age (so I can find another man) and becoming as self-reliant as possible. Working on (prioritizing) yourself rather than on any given relationship seems to be the best insurance in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:42 PM
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very true....I do want to become more self-sufficient. Looks dry up anyway - might as well aim to be a self-sustaining hag in the woods as backup plan lolol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:58 PM
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interesting observation - congrats on keeping the weight off / staying healthy, though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:57 PM
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aw thanks for the pep talk!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:56 PM
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:'( wish i was pretty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:17 PM
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Yasssss this post is very accurate - I appreciate that whichever man wrote this is enlightened enough to take a hint when the girl insists on paying her half...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:13 AM
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LOL ye he protecc he a snecc most importantly, he high value as hecc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:11 AM
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hm. german shepherds and shiba inus are more handsome than even "decent looking" guys so you got a point there lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:47 PM
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wowww gross. hope your butthole is doing ok!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:51 PM
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apparently, unlike a vagina, the rectum can't tighten back up so women who did it a lot have problems holding poop in.... and it's now a popular theory abt one of my fav Real Housewives (Ramona) cus she poops everywhere by accident lmao and people are guessing it's from all the anal she did back as a "good Catholic girl"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:28 PM
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I'm the NiceSobberMartyr LMFAO i rlly need to get my shit together But this collage of gurls....I dunno man, I have a feeling whoever put this together doesn't interact with many females lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:31 AM
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hehehehe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:43 AM
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nay, in a children's cartoon lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:35 AM
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"Interesting....the plot thickens...I'll get you one of these days!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:17 PM
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yeaaahhh well actually psychology studies did prove that in relationships, over time, you adopt their traits (or at least the perception that your traits are more aligned with your partner). but like it could be the mind just bending lol but yeah i TOTALLY know what you mean - there's one dude that went so far as to write that we fall in love with those whom makes us look or feel the way we WISH we were - like who you fall for , you fall for how they will reflect on you and expose your hidden ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:13 PM
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there was that big drama a couple months back where other youtubers (whose main content is criticizing others) "exposed" her and since then her view count is lower. but it was ridiculous bc like....there was nothing to expose, it as out in the open. and then i guess cus ppl didn't wanna admit abt themselves that they like watching gossip and some semi-trashy stuff they started raging and "cancelling" her. the cognitive dissonance was palpable lol never seen so much denial and overreaction lolz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:10 PM
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lol are you secretly shallon herself now infiltrating this sub to get followers back? lmao (smart) on a serious note tho: this makes a lot of sense, I 've identified 2 hurt lockers in my life. It hurt a lot when the relationships ended and I couldn't get over them and realized the reason it bothered me so much is because I felt like they had what I didn't believe I was strong enough to achieve on my own (I wanted their qualities and losing them was like being rejected twice by the qualities I wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:27 AM
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" I HAVE A REALLY QUICK WIT " LOLLL boy this sent me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:03 AM
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there's times when i don't wanna be serious myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:43 PM
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aw dating can also be a fun activity tho! (depending on your goals) men fun to play with as long as you lay the rules lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:04 PM
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lol but like what if i don't wanna be there once i meet him???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:55 PM
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goddamn it you're lucky :( i love museums
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:59 PM
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LMAO i mean like the romantic atmosphere - like I personally also don't wanna sit there in dim lighting with champagne trying ot fall for a guy I don't even know. ...unless when you all say fancy you just mean like...A restaurant...any restaurant that's not swiss chalet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:58 PM
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oh nvm i correct myself: he said he doesn't like fancy dinners as first dates ugh. tbh tho.... fancy dinners put a lot of pressure on so maybe from THAT angle...i dunno
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:16 PM
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hmmm I dunno - I think he was willing for a dinner date? He just wanted ot be creative - like museums aren't cheap either! the dude in the comments tho....i hiss at him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:14 PM
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wow ok they're not even unconscious about knowing to be fancier for a woman of "higher caliber". damn. so it really do be like dat: gotta market ourselves as luxury so they won't dare try to use their coupons on us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:51 PM
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GASP cuties netflix trending on pornhub i cant even!!!! Also you reminded me back around 2008 in university in psych class they showed us a short documentary abt how kids were being sexualized and taught disrespectful gender norms with the rise of internet - this has been happening for over a decade now. I'll never forget them showig a tween girl's myspace where she called herself Sexy Lexi lol oof
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:15 PM
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YES omg lol 99% of the time women in these communities either A) have some type of mental issue or B) are just overweight and/or insecure and use BDSM to seem cool and desirable despite feeling unsexy deep down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:36 AM
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at least if it's sexting he isn't wasting his money on another girl....lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:27 PM
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Chewing Gum :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:08 AM
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AHHH i love that show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:06 AM
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This post was nauseating. How can she STAND him. I feel bad for her - I think she feels stuck because they have children together. I do think efforts have to be made on behalf of the children's stability and effort to work out a relationship be made (rather than throwing out a r/S at a first sign of problems as if it's fast fashion)...................... But BRUHH they not even married. In my mind, she is free to roam and keep looking till she finds a husband and provider for her children. I can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:11 PM
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that part SENT me (bringing tea from home)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:03 PM
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LOL is this legit or like a fake product posting as a joke?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:04 PM
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Is this abt Navarus? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:45 AM
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I agree so hard. I had this mentality. Like unless i have a ring then i am free to dump my guy when i find someone better and i can still look around. Honestly if ur goal is to be married its against ur best interest to become exclusive with a guy until there's a ring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:31 AM
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LOL I appreciate that someone that watches the RH was able to chime in. Tbh I missed a lot of the earlier RHOBH seasons and altho I know the spoiler abt Taylor getting abused, I just kinda went on the info available as I watch season 1. But it's a fair point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:00 PM
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Agree - I remember seeing this book in a store a decade ago and being shocked by the concept - not believing the title. Now in retrospect, I see it's very true lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:33 AM
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Exactly. In the red pill blogs they paint a picture of a mythical virginal woman that will get bonded to them thru sex and it's like....how are you so little self-aware? you will treat her like a rag as soon as u get her lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:06 AM
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Hmmm it's def a desperate song but I'm not sure I agree it has pickme energy. Cus the girl is codependent maybe or addicted to love but she is self-aware. Like she knows he is lying but she just wants that hit of romance. I imagine pickmeishas as ignorant lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:18 AM
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....crap you got a point. So this might be a plain average dude that is surprised how easy it is, rightfully so??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:52 PM
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LOLOL yeah I wanted to comment right away that like, this guy must be super hot. No lady wants to immediately bang a guy unless he really appeals aesthetically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 09:37 PM
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I'm honestly SO upset that media is DARING to make this a right vs left issue. If u search cuties on google u see articles pop up saying that the backlash to the movie is coming from the right or people that are into QAnon and conspiracies (ie that the criticism is unfounded nonsense). I am so disgusted with society right now, I don't even know what to do. I'm so insulted - nay, i feel GASLIGHTED by the media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:03 PM
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oh LOL i imagine once he rejects this girl he'll start doing rounds in the incel subreddits too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:46 AM
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...omg he's a mess, I got exhausted trying to understand his messages
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:23 PM
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pls give updates on what he replies lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:37 PM
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" awww you're sweet to think it's up to you" lmaoooooo like...if you gotta state that you have that power...then you ain't actually got that power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:28 AM
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LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL good one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:28 AM
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LMFAO "You were always so loving to me. You can't give up everything". I'm dying. What a self-centered way to try and get you back. Like....ok he wants you back because of the love you gave him? And he isn't even giving yo ua reason (beyond "it serves me") of why you shouldn't give up everything lol; why is he the judge and jury in his mind??? Ok laugh over. Do you still have feelings? Cus from what I understand you didn't even factor into his decision to leave the country. Girl, move on so you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:27 AM
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LMFAO Yeah, but noone wants a dirty hot dog on the street, Mike
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:25 PM
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ewwwwwww blooockkk hiiimmmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:17 PM
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you know what freaks me out and go "wtf are these pickmeishas out there doing and why"?? - the fact that it surprises him or they think they can get attention or sex so easily means there's women out there actually falling for it O_O i.e. they have proof it can work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:17 PM
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lolz good point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:53 AM
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Wait what? why were you upset at this in the first place - you guys weren't exclusive?? I just assume until further notice that we both see other people. lol I wouldn't hold that itself against him. I echo other comments saying to not let them see that they hurt you - I once heard that for men, showing you care what they think is positive feedback to them - cus it shows they were IMPORTANT in your life or whatever - that they conquered you (emotionally). But also yeah read the handbook but like.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:52 AM
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lol I love that the wings helped along the way <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:35 AM
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I am gonna be divorced at 30 next year so I really hope someone has positive stories for 30+ T.T
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:49 AM
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YASSS with its awesome beat and with Aladdin already being my fav movie as a kid, it was my jam. To be fair, I didn't understand/hear half the lyrics. Like now that I'm reading that she accepts going dutch....bruh even as a kid I would've scoffed at that. If he poor, fine, but still pay for me at a lower establishment wtf EDIT: basically EW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:44 PM
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Ahhh so pretty, I wanna draw her - I remember seeing her in an anime movie!! Was it the one with the pigman...? Can you please tell me the anime name if you know? :) But yes lmao this is definitely a MOOD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:11 PM
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It's crazy cus i feel soooooo sorry for him (it's a long story but he had mental health issues - severe) and am having a hard time breaking vows....and yet I bet if it was the other way round he would dump me like a hot potato.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:36 AM
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Thanks for this post, indeed!! I am right now separated (in a failed short marriage) and feel like suuuuuuuch a fool, so humiliated by my bad choices. Both my exes and husband. To know I'm not alone in this is nice. Gotta level up and move forward, I suppose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:24 PM
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As a famous manosphere/red pill blogger said back in the old days lol (a decade ago): "you can't negotiate desire" and this applies to for women as well as men. Like gurl, if you have to convince him with words to give you a shot then his heart's not in it. You can't convince his heart or penis with words. I also know from personal cringy experience (with one of the first few guys i dated after uni) that even if he gives you another chance after being persuaded....it won't end good. He wants out…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:38 AM
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I, too, will only move in with a guy once we are married. Otherwise...why...??? am I giving up my personal space for you? The thing that bugs me, though, is that every time I brought this up in real life, other females would tell me it's a dumb idea etc. Like they are so judgy towards my strategy but like ok...you're the one stuck cohabitating away your youthful years with no ring in sight so lay off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:01 AM
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lol really? I interpreted it like "nah, I only put in that effort if i actually like a girl / want her romantically". It's an ouch for me, cus it's sort of like he is putting her in her place. I get the vibe he was just blatantly honest, not that he said it to dangle a carrot - cus by how he treats her i would imagine he thinks it's obvious to her that he is not "into" her... On one hand I wanna feel bad for these girls but on the other....like sis are you blind? open your eyes, this isn't rocke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:52 AM
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