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What?
/r/ExRedPill26/10/21 04:01 AM
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I'm never going to a therapist.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/21 04:00 AM
-3

Oh are you the guy who told me my big lips are attractive?
/r/ExRedPill26/10/21 03:58 AM
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What do you think?
/r/ExRedPill26/10/21 03:35 AM
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No
/r/ExRedPill26/10/21 03:31 AM
-1

fuck you
/r/ExRedPill26/10/21 03:23 AM
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I just wish that there was something about me that could make me a preference to somebody.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 11:21 PM
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Ya, I was wearing a mask haha. I don't ever have anyone look at me, but don't women normally smile if their interested? Because she didn't smile, but that was a lot of eye contact.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 10:11 PM
-7

I'm ugly
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 09:50 PM
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I wasn't always this negative, that's what I meant by that. You're right that I was born boring, dull, and ugly!
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 09:17 PM
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The guy I mentioned had an average face, his success lied elsewhere. And that's what you need. Sadly my face is far from average.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 09:15 PM
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I've literally known a grizzly-type kind of dude that was 5.4", friends call him "dwarf" (l Because height doesn't matter lol.. I'm 6'1 and nobody's given a fuck about my height. Shorter dudes can feel bad if they want, but as long as they have a decent face they're fine. That's all that matters.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 08:41 PM
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All I care about is my face. All my friends are more heavy/obese and have casual sex and relationships. The difference is my face is ugly compared to there's. Nothing below the neck matters.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 08:22 PM
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Women don't like muscles they also don't find me attractive, why would I bother with muscles?
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 07:11 PM
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Attractive people tend to have it easier, sure. That's the understatement of the century.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 05:25 PM
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How do you expect a girl to like you if you constantly put yourself down for your looks? Do you realize that girls are the reason why I'm like this? Do you think I was always this way? I don't even blame women, men treat me the same way, if I was gay my life wouldn't be any easier.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 05:16 PM
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Ok I'm actually really attractive and charismatic and funny and intelligent. See, lying doesn't feel good either.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 05:11 PM
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I'm unsettling to look at, so bothering a woman like that feels uncool, if I wanted the cops called on me, there are more fun things I could be doing.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 04:35 PM
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Well now I have two problems.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 04:18 PM
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I'm nobody's preference.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 04:16 PM
2

So what's the body language where women act like I'm invisible?
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 04:11 PM
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5'8ish, Height is nothing. I'm 6'1, trust me, nobody cares about height.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 04:09 PM
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tall blond guys I'm a tall blonde dude lol. This shows just how bad an ugly face can ruin everything, if those characteristics are supposed to be attractive anyway.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 03:25 PM
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You're probably actually attractive, but lying to me like all people seem to do.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 02:59 PM
-4

Exactly, so there is nothing I can do, hence why I'm a incel.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 02:44 PM
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I would just be a creep if I tried, waiting to see what advice you will get!
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 02:36 PM
-4

a guy who works on himself to maximize his attractiveness So plastic surgery?
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 02:34 PM
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My chin and lips have a tiny gap, look like a fish. No chin, no jawline, big lips, face is chubby, even though I only weigh 155 at 6'1 height, so its genetic. Acne scars post accutane that will probably stay there forever. I'm repulsive and it's totally out of my own control.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 02:16 PM
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Attraction goes on a continuum. That's why people rate other people a 6 out of 10 or a 8 out of 10 and so forth. You don't need to be on top to at least get a girlfriend. I know this. You know this. Common sense knows this. I and OP would be rated a 2/10 to 3/10 consisently. Adding a rating scale to this does no good.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 01:59 PM
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If you saw my face in real life you would understand and think I'm ugly like everyone else.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 01:37 PM
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i feel like i genuinely don't know. Then you need to go outside more, unless you live in some European country where everybody is attractive.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 01:22 PM
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Your face makes up like 5% of your surface area of your skin, ...... I mean your not wrong, but would say you have the percentages flipped. The skin/bones on the face have 95% importance while the rest is 5.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 01:05 PM
1

But this won't change my face, that's all I care about, who cares about the rest of the body.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 12:57 PM
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So when will I be attractive, when I have popeye arms or a lean stomach?
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 12:53 PM
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(for whatever reason) That reason is I have an ugly face that I can't change and it's drives me fucking crazy, especially when I get told all of my past experiences were an illusion and it's ACTUALLY MY FAULT.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 12:52 PM
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So when they say penis size doesn't matter, should I assume they're lying about that too?
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 12:49 PM
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Exactly, so lifting really wouldn't do anything.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 12:47 PM
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Exactly, I could never be a hookup guy even if I wanted to.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 12:40 PM
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I think everyone I've known has gone through a phase of life where they were more interested in casual relationships, hookups, and one night stands, and a phase of life where they look to settle down with someone they want to spend more time with. Isn't this literally the betabux thing?
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 12:37 PM
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If you really want to learn about dating, you should do as much dating as you can and try to have a lot of friends in real life. Lol, should I date my imaginary friends and soft plushies? That's the only dates I'm ever going to get.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 12:34 PM
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Women are attracted to men who's faces they find attractive, simple as that.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 03:25 AM
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No
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 02:45 AM
-2

Being an incel is not a medical condition. It should be. Clearly my brain doesn't function properly, nor is good looking for a woman to be interested. Lifting is a waste of time. Cardio might be a good idea though!
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 02:10 AM
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Women will like you for you. Actually false. Edit: Why would anyone downvote this?
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 01:05 AM
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Is there any proof that lifting is worth it? Edit: Just looked at your profile and you seem unstable, probably wouldn't want advice from someone like you haha. Ignore this comment.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 12:46 AM
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Facial shape changes with hormones and body fat levels. Maybe if I went from 300 pounds to 155 pounds, but I highly doubt spending years adding 20 pounds of muscle would change anything in my face.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 12:38 AM
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Not sure where you’re getting this idea that women don’t like muscular or athletic guys. Everyone looks better when they’re fit and healthy. I have never seen a women on here or Incel exit, or anywhere on Reddit say they even like toned/fit bodies. Whenever I hear a woman give her preference it's a chubby man, pretty much every single time. I personally believe all that matters is the face.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 10:21 PM
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If you’re suffering that much, why not just inject testosterone? Oh ya and damn myself because my body can't make it's own anymore, introducing even more complications, thanks for the advice buddy. Did you even read my post? I'm asking if it's even significant or important at all in the first place.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 10:12 PM
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Hmm, I don't know your finances, but see if you can't get a room in a city you expect to be a better fit for a week or so. And take a look around/go out while you're there. Once you find one you like the vibe of, move there, basically. Can't, unfortunately.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 09:27 PM
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I got a haircut today and felt pretty good, but later on in walmart a woman gave me the weirdest look haha. Which is weird because nobody ever normally looks at me , I don't know if it was a good thing or a bad thing. It almost looked like a look of disgust, and it was straight eye contact. This was me after getting a haircut, don't know how to feel. I think it's a Testament to people never looking at me so I don't know what it meant haha.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 08:51 PM
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it’s hard for me to talk about my experiences of racism and have to over explain, it becomes exhausting. whereas a person of color would just get it. I think that's a major roadblock that I'm not completely sure how to deal with. You're right and I don't know the solution to this.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 01:30 PM
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I'm a pretty feminine looking dude, blonde hair, blue eyes, wide hips, skinny, and I'm not sure if it plays into the attraction or not, but I am seriously attracted to black women in general. I'm not sure how attraction works, but my my celeb crush is Serena Williams lol. My issue is I would never just seek that out. Like you said you date people of all races. I don't know about you, but I find it creepy when people only want to date one race of people and that's it. To disclude asians, latina, …
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 03:09 AM
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Can I look up to Chris Hemsworth haha. I can't say I really have a role model.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 01:06 AM
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Do you think a black shirt and jeans is a style?
/r/ExRedPill23/10/21 10:08 PM
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Well then you're not as ugly as you think you're. The only times I've ever been called ugly is from a man. More men on dating apps, plus men swipe more aggressive might be leading to what you've experienced. I highly doubt male modeled men would want me lol.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/21 07:51 PM
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I would try and give some advice, but frankly I'm the one who should be asking for it haha. Even though it's because I'm ugly, I'm sure I will find what I want someday. I'm sure you will be the same.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/21 01:21 PM
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Nobody wants to spend time with anyone like that It's either put on a fake smile like I always do or stay home and keep on doing what I'm doing. This is why I just stay home now.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/21 02:46 AM
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Ya, all along I've known that women struggle because they're people. We are both human. My own mom has self esteem issues that pretty much got passed down to me.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 10:53 PM
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Nah. If I was a woman and had an unattractive face like I currently have, my life would even be worse. As a man you should know how shallow men are. I don't think you will get what you want out of life with this misogynistic mentality. To deny that women don't have struggles like men have is baffling to me, also considering women aren't wired like men and aren't this obsessed about sex like you seem to be.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 09:26 PM
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What?
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 07:17 PM
1

Everything, but my face. Which is my biggest issue.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 04:42 PM
1

Also stop masterbating it will stop anyway if you start meditating. How?
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 04:02 PM
1

But what does it do?
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 03:56 PM
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Ya, and I can't get a hot girlfriend because of my looks. Not that I care about hot anyway.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 03:22 PM
1

Why would meditation solve anything?
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 01:08 PM
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I've been on the ssri Lexapro for about a month, but saddly I feel the same that I've always had. This could just be the way I am, not really sure :/
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 01:07 PM
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Im too mentally weak to stop masterbating. I do believe in the benefits though, think it's makes me lazy and content with my life.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 01:02 PM
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It's a hobby I have no love for anymore. I just do it because it's all I've ever done. Since I was 5 and got a Gameboy advance. It's more of a addiction, but just like porn I can't quit it no matter how hard I try. I have no willpower and am mentally weak.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 12:50 PM
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You have to become the kind of person a woman would actually want to date anyway in the first place. Any woman will want my face to be attractive. No woman would even come 10ft of me the way I currently look.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 12:47 PM
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I just play videogames and watch YouTube.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 12:42 PM
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I live in a small town so I don't really have access to a lot of this. I appreciate you spending the time to type this all out. I also never went to college. I actually did like improv class in high school, but I'm not sure I have it in me to do all these, or the joy of life to want to do them.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 12:40 PM
1

If I was good looking do you think I would be here haha.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 12:33 PM
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I have no passion or interests.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 12:31 PM
1

"they start to submit..". What does that mean?
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 03:06 AM
2

Submit what? A reddit post? I don't get what you mean by that.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 02:59 AM
1

I do definitely have something wrong mentally with me, but it would be undiagnosed. Now add that on to my looks and other issues and you have me.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 01:37 AM
1

I would think differently if I've ever seen one dude like myself have success in anything romantic, but never have.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 11:52 PM
0

Well that's what I learned from this post. None of the advice I've been given here is any different then something my grandmother would say.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 11:45 PM
0

If you looked at me you would realize what I'm talking about.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 11:43 PM
0

What's there to work on? Can't change my face or personality.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 11:39 PM
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relationships. That's where your wrong. I bet there could be a game show hosted that would have women rate the worst looking among 10 random men, and I would get rated the worst every time. Looks are very important for attraction.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 11:37 PM
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Many more then attractive, and no, but self esteem with attracting a partner? Looks are the most important, personality is important too, but you need looks.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 10:53 PM
0

I'm ugly. I wouldn't dare post an image of myself online.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 10:51 PM
1

But you still had an attractive face from start to finish, right?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 10:14 PM
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on one narrow band of a vast rainbow I think it's the majority of people.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 10:13 PM
2

I think dudes who are nerds can slay. Tons of women like stuff that are nerdy like dnd, too bad none of that interests me haha.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 10:10 PM
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I've been myself for 23 years, now look at me. Well if I live with that mentality I will die a 88 year old virgin. Nobody has accepted me or probably will.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 09:46 PM
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If it makes you feel any better I'm not a misogynist and don't blame women for my issues, but I'm probably a lot worse off then you. At least you know where you went wrong.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 08:00 PM
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Nah. Heard all of this before.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 07:31 PM
-1

more just calm and chill than anything else. In my experience it's a negative trait. I believe the 80's song " All girls just wanna have fun", would sum everything I've seen. I'm the opposite of fun.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 06:43 PM
0

No one is dull and boring to everyone I am
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 06:36 PM
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it was not OK at all to be a nerd I'm not even really a nerd. I don't really like anything enough to get affiliated with it. I only play videogames to pass the time.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 06:25 PM
1

1 because of 2
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 05:47 PM
0

I dunno, depression is just an excuse that people make. If I had a normal masculine face I wouldn't be typing here, would probably be at some club somewhere. My life was ruined the day my genetics were formed to cause this face to happen.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 05:42 PM
1

I feel like this is Horton Hears a who where I'm getting told to believe in something that doesn't exist. Except this is real life.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 05:31 PM
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I can't ever be as funny as a normal dude. I highly doubt changing my thinking will do anything.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 05:24 PM
-5

How am I supposed to have a high self esteem when I'm ugly?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 05:21 PM
1

I know myself better then anyone else. These things are true.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 05:18 PM
1

Everything about me is dull and boring. I have a monotone voice, ugly face, bad story teller because my cognitive abilities are so bad, so I process information very slowly. I'm dumb which again I would contribute to my basic intellect.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 05:15 PM
1

Do something that I don't want to do?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 05:03 PM
1

Everything
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 05:01 PM
1

I have no innate interest to do any of that.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 04:57 PM
1

And I think those two traits play a large part in being interesting.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 04:49 PM
-1

People don't learn to be funny or to be a go getter, It's a personality trait that someones born with.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 04:43 PM
-1

Meh, debateable.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 04:38 PM
0

Where are they? Everywhere I go I'm surrounded by people who are far more attractive then me.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 04:32 PM
1

Are you atractive? The majority of people who tend to charismatic are also physically attractive, wonder why?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 04:23 PM
1

Well I don't know how I'm not doomed.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 04:09 PM
1

It's my personality, the way I am, what's there to even work on?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 03:51 PM
-1

only what you say matters. I doubt anything I say matters, all of our genetic makeup is out of our control.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 03:48 PM
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Therapy isn't the ace in a hole like others say it is, even if I could afford it.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 03:46 PM
1

then yeah, you're surely gonna be doomed and beyond repair. I tell you as much. First thing I agree with.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 03:44 PM
1

YOU cant change your personality, because YOU dont believe it is possible. So you're saying I can change my personality?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 03:42 PM
-3

You have pros I don't think so.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 03:40 PM
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There are women out there who love quiet men. You are shy? There are women who love shy men. Never seen this in real life.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 03:39 PM
1

There are dull, boring women out there too. I think women can get away with it more though. I'm sure a dull woman would want to be with a funny charasmatic like that RabbitnRacoon guy who commented, not me.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 01:33 PM
-2

Get therapy. I'm never going to therapy. Did you ever go to therapy for your naturally loveable personality?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 01:13 PM
1

Learn to like who you are, There's nothing to like.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 01:08 PM
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Generally, you don't. So I'm doomed? Because that's what it sounds like to me. To be honest I had that idea even before I made this account, now I'm seeing what I thought deep down all along.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 01:02 PM
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You cannot change your personality. Exactly! So I can't change my face or personality.... Basically I'm doomed for the non hatefull version of Inceldom. Actually take that back, I hate myself, that's it.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 12:54 PM
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No of course not, but what is that proving exactly? Just because they did it doesn't mean I can. All those people also don't live in northern central united states Like I do. They also should be considered famous.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 07:52 PM
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A man thinking you have an unfortunate haircut is not proof that you’re ugly and deformed and unloveable. I don't articulate myself very well "Slow witted". What I meant by that story is with short hair all you can see is my face, which by all accounts is very bad looking. I normally have long hair that covers up my face, but also doesn't look great. No hairstyles look good on me because of my face, the best looking are the types that obstruct it. That look isn't very presentable and women don't…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 07:37 PM
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as if that’s all there is to life If I want to find a partner some day, looks are the most important. That's not how I view other people, but looks matter clearly. I can focus on my personality, but I highly doubt that's enough. I don't think you understand how unattractive I am. Couple years ago I had my hair cut short, and a former friend could only just look at me and say "Sorry". He wasn't even an asshole or anything, just pointing out how I've felt forever, short hairstyles show off the fac…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 07:03 PM
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You think you either have to be born perfect That's a hyperbole. Everyone is flawed, it's just I'm flawed in every possible way. Would be like rolling a 1 and a 2 in Monopoly, worst possible roll, while others are rolling 5 and a 4 consistently. I'm so far behind in everything and most of the advice I get is vague, therapy isn't an option, and even if it was, so what? My face is so ugly to the point that even talking to people is awkward, I get looked at like I'm a creep, and I know why. I would…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 04:46 PM
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What? Did you read this post? I don't care about money because even if I did have money it still doesn't mean she would find me sexually attractive.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 02:39 PM
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here is no happy, well-adjusted bombshell who would look at your attitude on here and find that attractive. Thanks for reminding me. Women were never interested in me even back when I had a more bubbly cheerfull personality. My post has nothing to do with this anyway. I made this post because I just have never understood why I find dark hair attractive, especially when it goes against the whole mother theory.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 01:29 PM
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looks Not for me.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 10:33 PM
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plucking, shaving That's the one thing I wish society didn't make women feel like they have to do this. I actually find body hair attractive haha. I don't really get the whole brazillian smooth skin thing.. We are mammals lol. Maybe I'm in the extreme minority here, but I find body hair hot, like it's rebelling the norm and embracing our more animalistic side 🤷‍♀️. Anyway aren't you proving my point that a man has to be funny and charismatic to succeed? Well I'm not lol, and my face isn't even a…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 06:42 PM
1

Do a lot of ugly people have it?
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 03:28 PM
1

How is saying that chads are good men, uplifting?
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 02:35 PM
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I would say confidence also can come from being good at something. Being a handy man repairs cars and can build small homes is a skill that bring self worth. You have to have a passion for those though, which I don't.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 02:20 PM
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You need a reason to be confident. That's why attractive men have it so good, not only are they attractive, but they get positive validation for it, a positive feedback loop. Hell even having a big dick must be a confidence booster, too bad I don't have either haha.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 01:53 PM
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From what it feels like I should just give up on ever being in an relationship because I lack the average face and have never had a personality.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 01:47 PM
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You're already preemptively disappointed Because everywhere I go I see posts like these and comments from women that basically state that this is a waste of time. People praising "Dad Bods". I'm ugly and have never had a woman interested in me once. Now the thing I need to do is something that I see discredited by women all the time. Why should I make myself even more unattractive and gain muscles when it seems like a detriment to get them?
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 01:00 PM
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You're right. I can't count on gyms cause covid, so I'm left with doing exercises at home. Having a diet tailored around lifting seems really important, and a large commitment.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 12:36 PM
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I don't ever want to hear "Just lift bro", whenever I mention my ugly face again, because clearly women aren't attracted enough to muscles to compensate. Just feels like a big waste of time and money.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 12:04 PM
-1

People need to stop giving lifting as advice then.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 11:54 AM
0

or it's confirmation bias. 23 years not a large enough of a sample size?
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 12:07 AM
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Men should focus on cultivating a look they like and hobbies that interest them, I been doing this my whole life. Turns out that the things I enjoy are all loner interests/hobbies. I have to tailor my interests to be more attractive to women whether I like it or not.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 11:46 PM
-2

Handsome is subjective You're right, but ugly is not.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 11:10 PM
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No women will date a man if they don't find them handsome, perhaps a better word would be attractive, but I think they pretty much mean the same thing.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 09:52 PM
-4

Basically, liking what we see is only the first impression, it's what a man does after that that determines if we're actually attracted to him or not. This is why I believe men need two things. Be handsome, Have an amazing personality which normally means, smart, very social, great conversationalist, has hobbies and passions that lead to be interesting, and that only leads to a greater personality. I'm not sure how men do it honestly, even typing this out is tiresome, couldn't imagine doing all …
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 09:26 PM
-2

The majority I've experienced in real life hasn't been one. I don't know why but almost every women I've ever been around has been snotty and into the stereotypical talkative, bad boy, funny, handsome, loud type of person. I believe if I was to get into a relationship anybody I'm with will probably just leave me for the type of man that I just mentioned.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 07:29 PM
-4

This isn't very comforting.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 07:07 PM
0

I'm not skinny enough You sound very kind. Sadly the difference between you and me is if you wanted to get skinny that's an obtainable goal, me on the other hand have nothing like this. My face is ugly, my personality that I was born with doesn't allow me to connect with others or be charismatic at all. The kicker here is my own innate intelligence isn't even that high. That's why I'm not funny, because you need a sharp mind that's quick and witty "Processes information quickly". That's why I th…
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 12:25 PM
3

High standards are fine, but when men like myself can't ever reach it no matter what we do, that's when the red pill/Incel ideology manifests. People like me are just in that greyzone where it's almost like I'm mentally disabled, like I have to be attractive, funny, probably make around 6 figures, Can't be boring so must have passions hobbies, talkative, assertive, confident, outgoing, have a social network of friends, etc. That just scratches the surface. Why are incellers and others on the ris…
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 03:57 AM
2

I have a celeb crush on Serena Williams haha. Even after a lot of these comments I believe it's just a narrative spouted by ignorant people. I hope black women don't ever actually listen to beauty standards or what studies say. If it's true that black women are this undesirable, or men don't like dating them, then that means that's less men I have to compete against haha. But I don't believe that's true to begin with, I bet black women struggle to find a good man, rather then struggle to garner …
/r/ExRedPill17/10/21 09:58 PM
1

Except just because a girl is ugly doesn't mean she would find me attractive.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 11:46 PM
0

Figure it out. Well how do I do this?
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 03:32 PM
1

Exactly
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 01:01 PM
2

Because they lack self esteem and self worth. How do you build these things, especially if you lack the framework like looks or intelligence?
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 04:52 AM
0

I'm not saying you need to be the most popular, the most extroverted, the most charismatic. But you need to have the ability to stand up for yourself when other people over step their boundaries with you. Being shy and ugly is why I am the way I am. Interesting because the opposite of myself is basically what you wrote down here.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 04:10 AM
-1

You're probably single cuz you're stubborn as fuck and depressing to be around What do you mean? I mean there really isn't any reason for me to be happy with my current life.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 07:23 PM
0

I can't afford it even if I thought it could benefit.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 02:24 PM
-3

I am what I am, doubt therapy could fix my entire personality. I'm 24, it's too late for that.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 01:37 PM
1

Chubby face with basically no chin or jawline. The chubby face is genetic even though I'm skinny and weigh 150.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 04:04 AM
1

I will take your word for it.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 02:15 AM
2

Are they actually ugly? I've heard people say stuff like this and the dudes they calling ugly aren't even that bad looking haha. I'm probably far uglier then the dudes you know.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 02:06 AM
2

That's something I will be attempting my entire life Wanted to start lifting, but skeptical it will do much for me. Been on minoxidil for over a year, my facial hair is patchy and lack the genetics to grow one it seems. 4 and 5 are mixed here because both frustrate me. Style is heavily subjective and nobody ever wants to get to know me because my face is ugly, either that or it's my creepy smile or my resting man bitchface that makes everyone want to flee from sight of me.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 02:03 AM
1

I appreciate looking all those people up. I will say that all these men are facially more attractive then me, but I get your point.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 01:56 AM
-2

I'm fixated because it's been my common denominator my entire life. I have so many flaws, even my penis size isn't great haha. Below average I believe the last time I measured.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 01:49 AM
0

Muscles only make attractive looking guys hotter. Ugly guys like myself only look like clowns, lifting is a waste of time.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 01:39 AM
4

I mean you just told me to get rich lol, an 8 year old could have told me that. I'm not sure how you expect me to respond to that any other way.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 01:35 AM
-4

My penis size is nothing to be happy about, but more importantly my equal looksmatch is not guaranteed to find me attractive. Just because a woman is unattractive doesn't mean she would find me sexually attractive, your logic makes no sense to me at all.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 01:34 AM
3

I don't care about any of this, if this is something I have to do then I will remain a virgin forever.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 01:30 AM
-2

Nobody wants to know my personality because my face is ugly, that's my point.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 01:27 AM
2

narcissistic If anything you're lol. Just be Donald Trump... Why would having more money benefit me at all in this situation? I don't get your point at all.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 01:24 AM
3

I'm not interested in being rich or having status, if that means a woman will never find me sexually attractive then so be it, will just be cellibate forever. Will never get surgery either because it's like 30 small things that are my issue, not like one issue like a big nose or something like that.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 01:21 AM
-3

What else do you bring to the table? Nothing, but personality is arguably harder to change then looks.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 01:11 AM
2

How am I the shallow one?
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 01:55 PM
2

I have been looking to weightlift, but I don't want to go to gyms with covid. Might have to just do exercises at home 🤷‍♀️
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 12:30 AM
2

or undesirable due to what society says? That's what I think
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 01:38 PM
0

I think my looksmatch would be a 500 pound woman in a wheelchair that I have to take care of. That's how ugly my face is.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 01:31 PM
1

Been using minoxidil and it's worked a bit, but I saddly my facial hair just isn't very dense or thick.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 08:01 PM
2

told my 16 year old self that would be so shy that he would eat lunch in the library by himself and would rather hide in the bathroom rather than socialize with anyone. We would have been best friends because I literally did the same thing in high school! I would go in the bathroom to chill and pass the time haha. We would have probably met in the library, I relate with that so much lol.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 07:21 PM
1

Ya I'm just embracing baldness at this point. I just wish I could grow a beard, would be cool to look like Kratos from God of war 4 haha.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 06:55 PM
2

MOST DUDES ARE LITERALLY WALKING AROUND AT 10%. What does this mean?
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 06:54 PM
1

Women in my league are probably not interested in me, and also scared to see what my league even is to begin with.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 05:43 PM
2

I would rather just own it. You might have a more attractive face where hair can actually make a difference, but I look ugly with or without hair, just that being bald will be more so for me at least.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 04:48 PM
1

My life is changed forever...
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 04:44 PM
3

I'm going bald at 23 and my face looks like a rat. It's not like I even looked that great with hair, but without it? I dunno man. I will own it of course and probably go full Mr Clean at some point, but I'm not sure a woman would ever be attracted to me. Feels out of my own control.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 01:45 AM
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