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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Fiancé almost never says he loves me firstThank you for the advice everyone. I read all your responses and I really appreciate it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/22 04:18 AM |
| 12 | Have you ever witnessed/experiences a LVM turn to a HVM?I would say it was more like a switch. He was hesitant since he never had a girlfriend prior and just wanted to go with the flow of things. I was kind of being a pick me and did some convincing to get him to commit. I don’t think I pressured him. So the low value part would just be the lack of initiative on his part. After he took some time to think about everything and us, he committed and is all in on us and I’m very happy with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 11:44 PM |
| 21 | Have you ever witnessed/experiences a LVM turn to a HVM?My fiancé was originally pretty lvm. He was fine with being fwbs and I was scared of losing him so I was fine with that. I finally got the courage to tell him I needed a relationship, he thought about it, and he’s been very serious about us ever since. We’re engaged and getting married next year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | How can I have more feminine energy? I realized I’ve had very masculine energyI relate to you in many ways. I’m feminine with my fiancé since I’m very comfortable with him, but not to every single person I meet. You don’t have to act a certain way for everyone. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel if your partner said they were open to a threesome?Hi. I agree with you. Really need to work on boundaries. This isn’t something he wants at all, it’s clear to him that this is something that I’m uncomfortable with. And it’s not something he wanted in the first place. But the problem is if he would’ve said that a threesome sounds fun and it would be something he would like to try, I would be open to it for him. And I need to work on this. He’s been amazing with me like I’ve said prior. But maybe if a switch in his head flips in X years and he te… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 02:10 AM |
| 2 | How would you feel if your partner said they were open to a threesome?Hi. Yeah I think it’s my past relationships with family and fear of abandonment pouring in to our relationship. I didn’t have a good childhood unfortunately. I’m also thinking of going to therapy again. I haven’t gone ever since I met him. He’s the only one I’m truly intimate with. I’m not that open with family and friends. Thank you for the response! I really appreciate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 01:58 AM |
| 1 | How would you feel if your partner said they were open to a threesome?Hi. Yeah I know this is an issue. I know if it seemed like a threesome was something he wanted to do, I would do it even though I don’t want him to be with another woman. He’s clearly opposed to it now after we talked about this. But this is something I definitely need to work on. Thank you for the response! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 01:50 AM |
| 3 | What would you do if your partner doesn’t like thirst traps when you send them?This is obviously not ok. That has been expressed in the comments. But honestly I send pics like this sometimes to my fiancé, just not showing my face. I send him innocent selfies though. Just providing another perspective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | SAHM vs career.Hi, I really appreciate the replies and advice. I can’t see some of the comments so you can message me with the comment if you’d like as the post was removed. Thank you all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 03:41 AM |
| 56 | Tell us about the PickMe friend(s) you ditched!A friend proposed a threesome with me and my partner. She seemed exciting telling me how she’s never done that and how fun it would be. We stopped being friends shortly after that. It was so disrespectful since she knew how serious we are about each other. Maybe she meant no harm with it but that ended the chemistry we had. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 05:11 AM |
| 172 | Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scroteProof that the vetting process never ends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 11:38 PM |
| 35 | Apparently not wanting to be assaulted in the bedroom is "vanilla".This might be a troll, but it’s still pretty disturbing. I could see why some ladies would like “choking.” It could be pretty hot having a hand around your neck while kissing and having sex. But that’s not really choking, it would be like a guy holding your hips. That’s also why sex outside a serious relationship isn’t worth it. You have no idea what’s going on in these guys heads. You have to be careful in a relationship too of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | When you’ve moved in together, and you aren’t engaged… I am not sure if I should be changing my approach, or what I should focus on in the meantime?You’re thinking about this the wrong way. Your pros and cons list isn’t what will convince him to want to marry you. You don’t need to be winning points here and there, and once you have enough points he’ll marry you. Like the sex thing you mentioned, you don’t need to have sex 3 times per week compared to two. This man would have married you already or proposed if he wanted. I remember you mentioning something about “our land” and “our home.” All of that belongs to him since you’re not married.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/21 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Insecure with my bodyIf you’re married and your husband made that large commitment to you, I doubt this would be a problem. I definitely understand how you feel though. I assume you guys started having sex once married? I had similar issues with myself with my fiancé and they just got healed with time. There’s no off and on switch that will solve this issue for you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/21 10:35 PM |
| 25 | He (27M) revealed he was a virgin…Culture definitely plays a part here. He could have had a sheltered upbringing and not have the chance of talking to women. Also many ethic families tell their kids to focus on their studies and leave relationships for later. Regardless of this though you were put off by this. And there’s nothing that can be done about that except dropping him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 10:24 PM |
| 18 | What would you consider going above and beyond?When you just mention you want to go somewhere/ want something and he gets it/books it immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | For folks you ended up dating the hvm, how did you guys meet. I don’t want to get into OLD - had the worst experience last year.He randomly approached me in high school. It was my junior year and he was a senior at the time. Still happily together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 10:51 PM |
| 2 | It’s so hard for me to forgive my pickmeisha pastI feel like I’ve been a pickmeisha a lot in my own relationship, but everything has worked well thankfully and I’m constantly working on improving. You should do the same even if the past was cringe/embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 11:40 PM |
| 36 | Needed to be said...No one likes getting choked. By “choking” I think pickmes mean like just a hand on the neck, slight pressure. But it’s a slippery slope honestly. Who knows what comes after “choking.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:52 AM |
| 10 | Thank you, FDS!Definitely with self improvement, both physically and mentally. I dreamed of looking the way I do currently. I feel amazing too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:49 AM |
| 10 | Are threesomes important for a couple's healthLmao. This guy is a pig. Threesomes are absolutely not necessary in a relationship. A relationship consists of only two people. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/20 07:49 PM |
| 4 | how do you deal with your own ‘imposter syndrome’ while dating?I felt like this initially. It just takes time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 07:53 PM |
| 2 | NVM digs through wife's computer, gets upset that she existed before himWith how woke some guys are you might be able to get it out of them. Like say you are pro sex work to see if maybe they say they saw a sex worker. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:16 PM |
| 3 | NVM digs through wife's computer, gets upset that she existed before himWouldn’t you care if one of your potential suitors saw a prostitute or had a threesome? Or anything like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:00 PM |
| 3 | "I like ✨natural✨ girls"He’s amazing. I’m just saying that guys say they don’t like makeup when they do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:51 PM |
| 91 | Stumbled upon this gem today, I have no words!They sleep together every night, have a kid together, and aren’t married lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:18 AM |
| 61 | Guy continually pees in bathtub or shower instead of toilet, tries to blame adhd, gets angry at his girlfriend for calling him out, and doesn't even say sorry for it. Just things scrotes do.She can do so much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 11:36 PM |
| 4 | "I like ✨natural✨ girls"Lol this is true af. My fiancé says he likes me barefaced. But on dates, he wants me to use lipstick which is literally makeup. Makes no sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:24 PM |
| 220 | The absolute state of r/twoxchromosonesTotally not written by a guy. Lol. I would like a study of men who impersonate women online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:18 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:46 PM |
| 3 | One of my love languages is receiving gifts..You never really said that you guys are committed so you won’t really be cheating if you see someone else. I wouldn’t feel comfortable with that but everyone is different. And it’s ok to be materialistic and expect gifts/things from your man. If I even hint that I want something, I know he’ll get it for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:38 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020This is honestly very sad. I would die inside if my fiancé had a “harmless crush” for another woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Awkward around kidsI feel this too. But I guess we’ll instinctively get the hang of it. Like sex kind of. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/20 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Should LVW pursue LVM or just be spinsters?Hvm or bust. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/20 05:27 AM |
| 6 | 'My daughter had an abortion. Her bf did some decent things: he is a true HERO now. And if she ever might break up with him, I won't hold a grudge to her about it.' Imagine this as your mother 🤮 Poor girlThis is honestly very sad all around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:10 PM |
| 25 | Fake woke menTbh I feel most guys who are “woke” are doing it just to be on our side. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 11:27 PM |
| 84 | More thoughts on OnlyFans—the lasting consequences of your choices > demanding everyone else agree with them (LONG)Like we often see girls getting like 300k a month but that’s only the top like 1 percent. The rest of them are getting minimum wage for exploitative work. Definitely not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Embaressed to feel pretty?I felt like that in the beginning. But afterwards I started just feeling so much more confident and sexy with them. The fact he has like a lingerie fetish kind of helps haha. But I definitely know what you mean with dresses and things like that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/20 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Embaressed to feel pretty?Yeah, he’s bought me a few sets. And it takes a while to actually feel elegant in them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/20 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Embaressed to feel pretty?I felt like this initially with lingerie. I would just say it takes time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/20 09:53 PM |
| 5 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮Lol I’m not really sure if this ps5 thing is a joke or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 09:51 PM |
| 19 | A woman supports man financially and when he was on jail for years. But when he starts becoming famous, he leave her for a younger billionaire heir. Don't be bob the builder chick for anyone. It's not your job to build a grown man. Build yourself and love yourself first and always.He almost beat a child to death. What a prize alright. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 09:47 PM |
| 7 | ALWAYS ask for STD paperwork prior to any sexual contactTotally agree with this. Told my fiancé to get tested after getting lambskins even though he was pretty sure he was clean. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Before you get the ring, please know his political views. For reals!!Don’t really see the big deal with this. My fiancé is very conservative socially and I’m progressive. We discuss issues sometimes but it’s all respectful. It’s a shame how politically polarized some people are, and how they allow it to influence their lives. He even voted for trump and I don’t see the deal with it. He told me why and that’s that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Birth control?Fertilization is conception. That’s just his logic. We’ve found a compromise though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/20 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Birth control?It can technically happen. Just really rare and on some types of birth control. You can look it up. Birth control can prevent implantation of a fertilized egg. I’ve read the literature. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/20 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Birth control?It can actually prevent implantation, so technically an abortion. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/20 12:23 AM |
| 0 | Dealing with jealousyI trust him. There’s always gonna be a small chance he can cheat. He probably didn’t. Just annoyed he was alone with another woman who happens to be really attractive. She was probably flirting with him like many other girls do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with jealousyHe wasn’t really lying about it. He told me he “went to a gym.” It’s obviously at someone’s house. When I asked him where he went and with who he responded promptly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 05:08 PM |
| -1 | Boyfriend freaking out about phoneHe actually got me into reddit so yeah maybe. But he uses fidelity. He bought himself a car, helped his mom out, and he says he’s gonna buy an apartment, so I guess he’s doing pretty well since his family is pretty poor. But yeah I’ll talk to him about this. I’ll provide an update. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 07:07 PM |
| 8 | Boyfriend freaking out about phoneYeah you’re probably right. I was really insecure in the beginning since he told me he’s been with other girls before me and that really bothered me. I stopped caring since he’s been so perfect the whole time. But yeah I need to re-evaluate unfortunately. It just kinda sucks since I’ve painted a picture in my head of our future together and that we’re literally best friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)How do you guys feel about a bf talking about our future a lot. We’re only in high school and he jokes around about getting married, having a family, changing my last name, etc. I’m not gonna lie I love it and I love him. I always have to remember myself this can be over any day and keep a certain distance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with insecuritiesSame as me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with insecuritiesI’m 17 and a junior in hs. I don’t think I’ll be able to do that. He treats me so well and yeah I fell for him almost instantly. But I do know this might end one day and I have to be prepared for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 12:14 AM |
| 5 | Dealing with insecuritiesHe’s gonna be really close by. So I’ll see if maybe we’ll make it work. He says he’s down so we’ll see. And thank you by the way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 09:53 PM |
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