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| 83 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill. | Discussion | UncleRuckus_III | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 11:13 AM |
| 2 | What’s your opinion on high n count? | Discussion | UncleRuckus_III | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Facial expressions when walking | Question For Women | UncleRuckus_III | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Do you consider yourself a LVM? | Discussion | UncleRuckus_III | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 02:16 PM |
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| 1 | Facial expressions when walkingThat makes sense. I guess I can’t relate because I need to be aware of everything going on around me. Things don’t just happen around me because I always see what’s out of the ordinary and can break it down. It’s what’s kept me safe and out of trouble, so I thought other people would feel the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Facial expressions when walkingCan’t argue with that. But how do you know people’s demeanor and read the situation? Have you noticed things “just kind of happen”; you don’t really know what led up to a situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Facial expressions when walkingIt’s better to give off strong unwelcoming eye contact than to run away from eye contact. That way you are also aware of your surroundings and you can read the persons demeanor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Facial expressions when walkingIf you don’t want to talk, then don’t talk, or say you’re busy. But when you go out your way to avoid eye contact, it gives off a different message that you definitely don’t want to give off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Facial expressions when walkingMy problem is not the woman finding me goofy, it’s that goofy people turn victims quick. I don’t want to drop my guard down for some random girl in the streets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Facial expressions when walkingInvitation to talk to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Facial expressions when walkingThere are times/places that I feel really uncomfortable, and want to come off as invisible as possible. Understandable It’s a “me” thing and has nothing to do with men. I just get flustered and think that if I make eye contact, then the man is going to see me, and I’ll somehow be in danger. Are you scared of men in general? Why do you think you’ll be in danger if a man see you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Facial expressions when walkingMy issue is not getting rejected, it’s the smile. Smiling in public seems pretty goofy to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Facial expressions when walkingThat isn’t even a rule in sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Facial expressions when walkingThat’s that social anxiety talking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What are some clues that you are friend zoning someone that we should look out for?In this context, when I say grill I mean when you; gaze transfixed on the guys face. But what I mean is that he should wait to look in your direction until he feels that gaze, then he should shift his eyes towards your direction, lock eyes, and give you an acknowledging grin. 😏 That’s that unspoken rizz right there. What’s understood doesn’t need to be said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 04:41 AM |
| 0 | Facial expressions when walkingWhat can I say; it’s true. I got that rizz on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Facial expressions when walkingThan I can’t make eye contact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Facial expressions when walkingYea, I also don’t respect men that go around happy as shit all the time. I know it’s dumb, but damn do they look stupid to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Facial expressions when walkingThey’ve approached me for directions; why can’t they do the same for some dck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 04:23 AM |
| 0 | Facial expressions when walkingI’ve seen some women tend to do that too; can I ask why you dont like making eye contact with men? It always seemed like the women were kind of fearful of the environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 04:21 AM |
| 0 | Facial expressions when walkingThat said, most women are not really open to cold approaches on the street. It depends on the setting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Facial expressions when walkingBig nod with a little smile, or small nod with a big smile? I think small nod small smile might be best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Facial expressions when walkingBut say I smile, and she don’t smile back. Now I’m this big goofy with a smile on my face. Or if I drop the smile after that looks fake asf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 04:13 AM |
| 0 | Facial expressions when walkingI don’t know why but it’s almost impossible for me to smile in public, is there another expression y’all like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What are some clues that you are friend zoning someone that we should look out for?If he got game and a little self discipline, he’ll wait until you start grilling him. Then he’ll give you that 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What are some clues that you are friend zoning someone that we should look out for?What do you mean? Some guys look back on purpose and some don’t? Or some guys don’t notice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What are some clues that you are friend zoning someone that we should look out for?He look back? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 01:22 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt means; do you think n count matters, and should a high n count be counted against someone I was confused about your first comment. I didn’t know how to read it; when you said “I never met a woman who cares so you’re all lying!”. It was a little ambiguous to what they were lying about and for what side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What are some clues that you are friend zoning someone that we should look out for?You should know how to read those signals, and give off your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 01:14 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre you pro high n count or against? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 01:13 AM |
| 9 | What is something you wish your own sex would stop doing? Mega-ThreadStop send money to girls through cash app for doing nothing but clapping they cheeks on IG. Stop wasting all their money on onlyfans. Etc, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 10:40 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: What are some clues that you are friend zoning someone that we should look out for?So why are you getting offended on other’s behalf? If you’ve never experienced what I’m talking about than how do you know it’s not true? Even though it was a joke, every joke has a grain of truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What are some clues that you are friend zoning someone that we should look out for?You might actually be a gremlin by how serious you’re taking this joke brother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What are some clues that you are friend zoning someone that we should look out for?It was a joke my guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What are some clues that you are friend zoning someone that we should look out for?Sometimes it’s like that; but I bet you’re staring at dudes face when he’s not looking. Straight grilling him. Lol. That head movement is serious when they look your way.😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 09:12 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: What are some clues that you are friend zoning someone that we should look out for?Some women are harder to tell than others, but even if they are good at hiding their tells. You can tell they like you by the fact they are hiding their tells. It’s like poker; “but see man, a nia like me man, I love the game, I love the hustle, I be feeling like one of them ball playing nias you know.” ~Mitch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 09:10 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: What are some clues that you are friend zoning someone that we should look out for?If your a grown man, just ask her if she’s free later. If she doesn’t say yes, or give you a different day, just assume it’s not going to happen. Women will MAKE TIME, I swear to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What are some clues that you are friend zoning someone that we should look out for?Ngl, I’ve never excepted a set up from a female friend and I don’t think I ever will. At my age that shit get messy quick, and I’m usually not in the mood for relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What are some clues that you are friend zoning someone that we should look out for?Not a woman but; No lengthy eye contact, when a girl doesn’t like me like that she doesn’t really meet my eyes for too long. If they are shy or nervous, they’ll usually look at your face when you’re not looking at them. Also girls are like hyenas when they are attracted to a guy. They’ll smile in anticipation for the joke. Jheeeeeeesh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 08:46 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: What are some clues that you are friend zoning someone that we should look out for?I said women do this all the time, and the guys on the sub told me; “no. women don’t set up guys, with other girls” I thought damn, I must be special because women hit me up all the time telling me their friends want to hang out. But now I see that I was right, this is the norm, and these guys must be gremlins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtI guess not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.They are, I'm not disagreeing with that. But that only comes in after the guys meets her height and physical requirements, this is just the reality of situation. This can be true to some extent, but it doesn't fundamentally change the fact that the majority of women don't want short guys. Not just that, contrary to your point it's always women who bring up height requirements. I never see men doing it irl. I think you can get a girl to get over those requirements if you can spit game. If you can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.I’ve seen 5’4 guys get women back in High school, I don’t have any friends that are 5’4 right now, but I think the ones that were doing well with women before have continued to do so. I think girls are looking for pretty chill guys that are fun to be around, they want to be comfortable in your presence. If you are self conscious about your height it will show in subtle ways, sometimes you can really tell when someone is self conscious about their height, and that turns women off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtHer status is largely dependent on her sex appeal. Her movies play internationally, so if they don’t find her sexually appealing she won’t be as popular. Obama was president so he’ll always have that edge and appeal of power; even if they didn’t know he was a president before; you can tell that he’s important and women will be attracted to that almost instantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.It is what it is. No need to overthink it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtIt proves; “Woman are attracted to forms of power, kindness is an afterthought.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.No I’m straight. You don’t form around attractiveness, but rarely do I see friends groups (of any gender) have 1 friend that’s mad ugly, or way more attractive than the rest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 10:23 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.You don’t, but that’s how shit goes. If you’re ugly you are more likely to hang out with ugly guys, and vice versa. Birds of the same feather, flock together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtZendaya doesn’t have international appeal; if you go to some countries she will be more popular than others. No one really cares about how Obama looks, he’s not extremely handsome and he doesn’t have to be, he was the leader of the free world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtYep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.Going around evaluating women for no reason is pretty dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtsecondly, it’s very few women who would actually fuck obama. There’s definitely quite a few. part of it is zendayas fame. you can’t deny that. guys would rather be able to say they got with zendaya than a random zendaya lookalike. Sure, but the point is that there are more women that would do that type of thing than men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.So if they think they are attractive or not won’t matter to you, because you won’t be approaching them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtThe difference is men aren’t attracted to the power of Zendaya, they are attracted to Zendaya. It would be different if men said they wanted to date Hilary Clinton. It’s the same as some women saying they would fuck Obama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.The point is not to have sex with your female friends, but to be able to make female friends in the first place. After a while you’ll be able to add game into your approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtBecause you don’t see as many men at the concerts acting a fool for these celebrities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 05:04 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.To many pills. Don’t worry about the pills, just improve yourself and get bitches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtBecause women of all ages love these celebrities. Any of them can be a fan. And they will start acting different if they ever meet. Men would too, but not as often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtI don’t know the exact proportion of women, but it’s definitely spans through all groups of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.Woah, woah there. Now you’re talking crazy /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.They might be to people who like that body type. There’s has to be a reason you keep looking at her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.True, in my experience small towns are kind of too easy. When you come from a large city and go to a small town, you generally dress 10x better than everyone else, smell better, look better and have all around better demeanor. When you put all that together, she’s chasing you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.True, in my experience small towns are kind of too easy. When you come from a large city and go to a small town, you generally dress 10x better than everyone else, smell better, look better and have all around better demeanor. When you put all that together, she’s kind of chasing you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:17 PM |
| 2 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.Congratulations on the glow up brother; make up on the lost time and slay these hoes! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:00 PM |
| 0 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.You can be ugly and do the same thing, I’m just saying you should go after women your level. Unless you can spit game, than you can pursue more attractive women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 03:58 PM |
| 4 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.Improving yourself is good. The manipulation of women I would try to avoid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 03:55 PM |
| 3 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.the advice giver believes something is wrong with you if you get rejected frequently - which I think is a shitty and wrong assumption in itself. If someone is constantly getting rejected than I would say there is something wrong with them or their approach to women. Their might be reasons like punching above your weight, but it does require some self examination and a degree of self awareness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.I wouldn’t say people who would vouch for you, but people when woman know you hang out with other women they become more interested in you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.You can be laidback and aggressive. I'd say most men who are successful with women are both those things. Unafraid to push for sex but unperturbed by any rejection and able to quickly move past awkwardness in the interaction. 100% And this is why. 'Being chill' and 'trying to befriend' women will just land you in the friendzone. Being chill and being up front with your sexual intentions will get you laid. So many guys want to hide the ball. Why? You're a man, you like women (if you're heterosexu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 03:46 PM |
| 2 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.Absolutely, some shit you have to look over your shoulder to make sure no one else heard. Also because the way society views male/female dynamics they can also be more physically expressive when interacting with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 03:38 PM |
| 4 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.I agree don’t hide your intentions, but what frame of mind are you going into the conversation with? If you are aiming to get to know her, then move on to something more, than a chill approach is best. If you are only here for a good time, not a long time, than spit your game the best you can, but just know it’s a lot harder to convince women to be sexually involved with you if; 1. She isn’t immediately attracted to you 2. You aren’t high value | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 03:25 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.I’d love to know how many people men here met their partner because they asked their friends (who are women) to set them up. I’ve yet to run into anyone in real life who has this story. Especially so for people who met in the last five years in USA. How many people have you asked? Women are always trying to set up their friends. They won’t do it if they don’t really know you, but I’ve had women try to set me up with their friends on a couple occasions, and they try to set my friends up with thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 03:19 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.Believe me brother, I’m in the same boat. Life is hard, it’s only getting harder, and it’s a cold world. Women have it lucky because they can coast and settle with a man who’s doing well. A lot of women in college will f you, but no relationship until they see you have some future prospects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 02:07 PM |
| 2 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.I'm not referring to myself. I'm talking about other men I've seen. I mostly dated girls from being funny, talkative, being in a lot of parties/clubs and being multi-talented: 4 things that had zero to do with me being "chill." Agreed, but some of these guys have to start somewhere, you built that over years of socialization. Some of these guys aren’t like that and need to unlearn their weird tendencies and relearn better ones. The best way to measure that change is when they cross “neutral”. An… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 02:04 PM |
| 2 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.Facts, if I had to live in a cramped apartment, walk everywhere or take the buss, not have enough money for entertainment or privileges, and have to work. I would leave too tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.😂What part got you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.When I say flow naturally, I’m mainly talking about the conversation. Don’t try to force topics or make the convo go in a certain direction. If your trying to spit game it’s best to have a “combo” (like in boxing) that you practice when you get into common pitfalls. Some icebreakers and things to cut tension; also lots of smiles. (Smiling is very important, work on your smile). And as I said before, body language is key, learn how to be fluent in her body language and be a maestro in your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:45 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.Do you speak to women regularly? Also do you have female friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:41 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.But like another commenter said, being too chill or nonchalant will get you nowhere. Know when and where to be chill, and learn how to spit game. That chill game is a killer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:40 PM |
| 2 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.100% facts. First step to having game is to learn how to be fluent in body language; both in picking up her body signals and giving the right ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:39 PM |
| 3 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.It really depends, case by case. But if you’re ugly and beards are your saving grace than maybe that woman just isn’t Mrs.Right for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:38 PM |
| 2 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.when these desirable men display personality flaws, the average woman is willing to overlook it while other men have to compensate and work harder on their character. In my experience, women will overlook many red flags for someone they are attracted to or friends with. Also what is considered a red flag for some people might just be a difference in personality, and that’s ok because we don’t share the same brain. And tons of chill men get zero play from women. And tons of men with predominately… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:37 PM |
| 2 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.It depends on the level of attraction to be honest. If she’s constantly looking into your eyes and you think there is some attraction between you two than I would start small, and follow up with a joke. Gauge the response, rinse and repeat. Keep some time between each flirtation, and keep your gaze between her eyes and lips. Don’t overdo it and be chill. She’ll get the message, if she’s attracted to you. After that, to be honest what you say doesn’t really matter; learn how to speak in body lang… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:16 PM |
| 6 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.I would agree, but the status quo is kind of lame. And girls don’t really respect the “average man”, also, the “average man” is losing their ability to afford the goods and services that women come to expect from a relationship. For ex. Owning a house, a car, take out to movies/dates. Etc. And like Chris breezy said; “these hoes ain’t loyal” and they will switch up on you so fast, if they don’t cheat on you some women will make the relationship unbearable and that will cause fights and other stu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:11 PM |
| 4 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.It’s not something you can pre work either. You only get that way by putting yourself out. Sometimes it’ll come off weird but just keep going. It’s only a lost cause when she is visibly uncomfortable, and isn’t laughing anymore. The worst thing you can do is not try. Thank you’ll never start. Also to help with nervousness; put yourself in a position that negates your “tells”. Whether it’s sitting down, or have some degree of separation between you like a table. And think of those butterflies as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:01 PM |
| 2 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.Facts; sometimes it’s one and the same. But you have to gauge that with your girl, if you do something to change her mood in a moment, it’s best to address it right there and then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.It’s not really being confident, it’s swinging in your weight class. Even when guys become friends, some people get nervous. But because you know your talking to a guy and just being friendly there’s really no fear of “rejection”. I think the fear of rejection is what guys shit themselves when talking to females. So it’s best not to get rejected by doing the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 12:54 PM |
| 7 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.To be honest I don’t know exactly what blue pill is, I think it’s just the opposite of red pill, which is kind of cuck behavior. When I say be chill, I don’t mean be one of those fake ass “you like this, oh me too” types. If you wouldn’t be friends with her than you should just chill and back off her tbh. Unless you can spit game, than you can punch above your weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 12:51 PM |
| 4 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.If the attraction is not mutual than you’ll 100% end up friend zoned. But it’s a start for most of these guys, some guys come off thirsty so they don’t even make it that far. The key is not to be fake, and be honest. A lot of guys in the friend zone give up opportunities to move forward when they are “called out”. I.e; she asks “if you like her”, and you say “yeah but as a friend”. You just shot yourself in the foot, if you were honest than she would atleast know and will reciprocate or tell you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 12:49 PM |
| 5 | I think the “Chill pill” is better than red pill and blue pill.If you low value, I don’t think you need to lie and manipulate; but you need to be able to exaggerate your self. Also working on yourself is key, keep a fresh hair cut and try to grow a beard if you can, get some money and work out. If your having troubles speaking; read literature and learn to write. It’ll help you with your word choice and speaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 12:35 PM |
| 0 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtI didn’t say that, I said those guys are not the norm. Most powerful men in our society, or men that are influential/ public figures, do have women lined up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtBut that’s not an example of most powerful men, just the predators and immoral. Look at any popular rapper or musician today. Or even any man with sizeable wealth, they have women lining up bu the dozens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 03:47 AM |
| 0 | Rich Western Countries are Extremely Incellious100%. Yep. That’s important too, some days they’re just not entertaining my bullshit. But to be honest that’s another opportunity if you know how to play your cards. If for whatever reason she’s being a little distant to me today, I’d ask her “what’s up?”, “How are you feeling.” Usually they’ll give me some spiel about something that went wrong in her day. Sometimes they’re really just not in the mood; so it’s best to keep it platonic that day, friendly, but not distant like you’re butt hurt bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Rich Western Countries are Extremely IncelliousI think only the woman herself can determine what’s sexual harassment or not; I’ve definitely hit on girls at work, and some of the things I’ve said could count as sexual harassment. But she was into it, and we ended up having sex. I think as long you have a rapport with her than I think you can gauge her tolerance for flirtatious behavior. Atleast that has always been the case with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 02:33 AM |
| 0 | Women are attracted to forms of power. Kindness is an afterthoughtCan you give some examples | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 02:23 AM |
| 3 | What is the worst thing about being a man?I invite any one that thinks a man shouldn’t be emotionally resilient to travel the world. To put their problems and privileges in perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 04:16 PM |
| 3 | What is the worst thing about being a man?And i advise they get that support from their mother, or therapist. Someone who genuinely cares and has the ability to comfort them and whisper sweet nothings. Men don’t “support” each other like that not because of “societal standards” or “toxic masculinity”. It’s because most people don’t care, and women love to fake care about stuff all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Your comment got deleted, but here’s my response. If you had actually ever been around women when they talk amongst themselves you'd hear how little they value men like you. Are you a woman? Because unless you are that doesn’t even make sense. If they are talking amongst themselves than you aren’t even around them to know what they’re talking about. But yes, I talk to women all the time, actually on a daily basis since I’m in University and I’m not a weirdo. Despite what you might think I pull w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 04:08 PM |
| 2 | What is the worst thing about being a man?You’re probably giving bad social cues; (gazing at her too long, smiling at her at inappropriate times, etc.) try to find a guy that is doing well (dating wise) irl and confide in him. See if he’ll give you some pointers and be honest that your not having success with women; choose guy wisely, someone who’s not going to make fun of you or tell you some bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | What is the worst thing about being a man?You never had to approach a woman to start up a convo? Your telling me you never had to take women out on dates and court them at all? Smells like cap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 12:12 PM |
| 2 | What is the worst thing about being a man?You got guys at work to talk to? Try them? also pick up an outdoor hobby or physical activity. Find a place to start and start somewhere; it’s going to feel weird at first because your not used to it. But being socially active is going get you rolling. And be honest( but not too honest)the guys you meet might set you up with some girl they know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 12:03 PM |
| 3 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Before you try to find women; get with friends your age and hang out with them. Reconnect with your old friends as well. You’ll be able to pick up the things they did well like; how they dress, how they spit game, and their demeanor when speaking with women. Don’t make women your life and focus more on making your life as good as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 11:25 AM |
| 1 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Stop getting upset by some frivolous bs. If it’s something real like losing a loved one; people are going to understand and give you empathy. Women get away with being upset over nothing because other women entertain that, but tbh most of it is bs too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 11:23 AM |
| 2 | What is the worst thing about being a man?1.Hit the gym, 2. Get some money 3. Get a hobby that’s not playing video games or something on the computer. I suggest getting into travel or something adventurous that you can do that exposes yourself to different cultures and people. Stop whining about everything because women are not attracted to depression; and you’re not as good at hiding your loneliness as you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Who says a relationship has to be perfect; you get into a partnership and work on the things you want out of each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 11:12 AM |
| 3 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Real question; How many male friends do you have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 11:11 AM |
| 1 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Well than he’ll always be picked last; and he’ll never get the woman he desires. Women have way more options for a relationship so why should they pick OP? It’s not acting like a beggar, it’s called being a man. You make yourself valuable; than you distinguish yourself by spitting game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 11:09 AM |
| 5 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Men support each other by being honest with each other. If you want someone to hold your hand and tip toe around the issues of why you’re not doing well in life, then your are still a boy and should ask that from your mom. Or therapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 11:00 AM |
| 1 | What is the worst thing about being a man?That’s not what OP said; OP is mad because the women he talks to don’t fit his ideal of a “progressive woman”; someone who doesn’t prescribe to the traditional gender roles. Tbh I don’t even think OP cares about their hobbies as long as they don’t expect anything from him. He doesn’t want to fit the “traditional roles” so they need to provide for themselves, protect themselves, and approach OP for a relationship in exchange for….? The woman gets nothing out of this scenario and OP does nothing t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | What is the worst thing about being a man?I’m sorry ma’am but this guy needs to stop being a p’🐈’y and go get with some women. There’s plenty of women out there that are single and looking for someone, but he disqualified himself by trying to be so “progressive”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 09:38 AM |
| 2 | What is the worst thing about being a man?The problem is with gender roles, but thanks for the advice uncle ruckus Of course! The problem is with rest of modern society, the world is wrong and gender roles have been wrong for society’s entire history. /s Bro, if that were true woman would be lined up around the block, and there would be a “gender role revolution”. But it’s not, and the only people that push that nonsense are lesbians and men who can’t win in the traditional dating market. Don’t be fooled by this ideology, it’s only goin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Are women happy with the current state of dating?It sounds like your girlfriend doesn’t respect you in your relationship. I would suggest setting some boundaries with her on what she can and can’t say to you. Otherwise she’s going to keep disrespecting you and eventually lose interest in you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingNo woman that puts effort into how she presents herself is going to give play to a man that doesn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 04:40 AM |
| 1 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingMaybe you, but I’m a solid 8. Even if I’m not actually, I’m going to have that mentality, and that confidence is what’s going to attract women more than anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 04:39 AM |
| 3 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Quick question. What does your view of the world get you? You talk about escaping gender norms and society putting pressure on you, but it gets you nothing in the end. You’re not going to get with a woman by preaching your ideology, she’ll only feel bad for you. Stop being a self hater and feeling sorry for yourself and start working on improving your life. You’re your own worst enemy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 04:32 AM |
| 0 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Maybe that’s your problem, you don’t want to spit game, ask them out, or get their number? Do you at-least have a decent paying job or interesting hobby? Why would any woman want to get with you if you have nothing to offer her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 04:25 AM |
| 3 | We would save a lot of heartache and mental distress for men if we were simply honest about women to them when they were young boysCollege girls be scandalous, ngl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What trust issues do you have in men when it comes to dating/relationships?Top 10 Gangster Movies. No doubt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What trust issues do you have in men when it comes to dating/relationships?Want to buy a turkey? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What trust issues do you have in men when it comes to dating/relationships?Whatever, forget you then, you ain’t even cracks type | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What trust issues do you have in men when it comes to dating/relationships?Low class?… So what you think you’re to good for crack? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What trust issues do you have in men when it comes to dating/relationships?But what about crack? /s (Thanks for answering) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: What trust issues do you have in men when it comes to dating/relationships?What if he smoked crack, but didn’t get addicted? Is the problem the addiction or the drug use? People say you can’t get addicted to marijuana, maybe you can’t get physically addicted but weed dependence is real. What If they were someone dependent on marijuana but never did any other type of drug? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What trust issues do you have in men when it comes to dating/relationships?What about a crime with a small c? Same with addiction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What trust issues do you have in men when it comes to dating/relationships?At the time I’m reading this I haven’t don’t my taxes yet and I have an overdue parking ticket. So that’s fair. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What trust issues do you have in men when it comes to dating/relationships?who has dealt with addiction, or who has a criminal record. Why these 2 in particular? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Virginity is a choiceGet out to get some. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 12:36 AM |
| -1 | Virginity is a choiceWho tf is Chad? Why is he so special? Stop comparing yourself to other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 12:07 AM |
| -1 | Virginity is a choiceTrust. If you put some effort into how you looked, and picked up some basic charisma. You can literally giggle your way into a bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 11:55 PM |
| -1 | Virginity is a choiceYou're right. Most people aren't hideous and even if you are, I've seen hideous people get in successful relationships. Everyone knows who "that guy" is, just don't be "that guy". I know it's harder for some people than others but damn. A lot of people in this sub are acting like they are hopeless, but one reason why you are probably hopeless is that you act that way. Y'all need to go outside and stop acting like little b****** on the internet. If you try to enjoy your life instead of griping ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 10:56 PM |
| 3 | What’s your opinion on high n count?Nah cuz, im good. LOL I was itching just reading that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 10:06 PM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on high n count?Fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 04:55 PM |
| 2 | What’s your opinion on high n count?Thanks for the detailed reply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on high n count?What about moderation? Is there a number that you find concerning, even if/, especially if? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 03:17 PM |
| 2 | What’s your opinion on high n count?I didn't feel like scrolling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 03:13 PM |
| 2 | What’s your opinion on high n count?Fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on high n count?At what age does she get 50n? Also what is that rate of change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on high n count?it opens your eyes and ensures that you never take anything women say relating to sex remotely seriously. There is no real added benefit to promiscuity in women, if anything it often means they're even less willing to take proper instruction. Can you expand on that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on high n count?As a 3 digit holder, do you find the statistics to be true? Out of the people you encountered, how many people match the description? i.e "Can't maintain long term relationships, likely to cheat, etc." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 03:06 PM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on high n count?I don't really care about n-count as long as it's in a moderate range. The issue is what I should decide is moderate for me, i'm 20 and I cap at 9n. Why 9? I don't know? Why not 10? I'm want to hear an argument that resonates enough with my prejudice or challenges it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 03:00 PM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on high n count?I don't know if I would call it dysfunction, but all things with moderation. The difficulty for me is finding what is moderate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on high n count?Is there a limit? Do you believe that there's a number of partners a person can have before it is too much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on high n count?Where did that come from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on high n count?What is your go-to n:age ratio? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 02:35 PM |
| 3 | What’s your opinion on high n count?15-20? To me, that sounds like a lot of bodies. I cap at 9 and I feel like that's pretty reasonable for someone around my age ``(20) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 02:31 PM |
| 3 | What’s your opinion on high n count?But how does that relate to compatibility? How does the added context help you determine if you are morally/ sexually compatible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 02:10 PM |
| 2 | What’s your opinion on high n count?Do you start counting after 3? Or is 3 for her lifetime? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 03:03 AM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on high n count?Did you each other’s n count going into the relationship? If so do you believe it played a factor? Congrats on the relationship btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 02:54 AM |
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