Sometimes I hold a mean mug when walking, I feel like it intimidates some women and it makes me less approachable.

But the way I grew up that’s the way my face kind of naturally rest when I’m out in public.

Sometimes getting eye contact with women on the streets is hard because I feel like I’m grilling them. But I don’t really know how to soften my facial expression enough to make them comfortable, I don’t like smiling in public so I don’t know what to do.

I have no problems with the finesse indoors; I know I’m not ugly and I spit game like a mf. But I feel like I’m leaving points on the floor when I can’t fix my mug when passing women on a busy street.

Is there a neutral or passive expression I can give women on the streets to make them know I’m not angry, and I got that finesse for them?

Much appreciated XO