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| 5 | How do you get past the lonely phase? How did you internalize all this shit and figure out who you are? | UncleWarwick | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 06:09 AM | |
| 3 | Work - Girl thought I'm talking smack about her | UncleWarwick | /r/askTRP | 10/11/17 04:19 AM |
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| -1 | Beware of female bossesIt’s not. Sexual strategy is not workplace strategy, and in any high performance career it doesn’t matter if you’re working for a man or woman * caveat being talking about successful women in high performing jobs. If you’re talking about some middle manager then well who cares - you’re not writing an essay about how to bang the coke whore. But hey, continue writing novels and studying papers about women bosses. Sure that’s going to go great for you in the long run, instead of doing literally any… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/21 02:55 AM |
| -9 | Beware of female bossesI’ve had multiple women bosses. They’ve all been great. In a high stress, demanding environment, there’s no room for anything other than meritocracy. If you have this much time to type a essay on how women bosses are bad, you should probably rethink what you’re doing with your life since these girls have made 10 times over what you have. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/21 09:18 PM |
| 24 | An analysis as to why men and women physically cheating is NOT the same (women doing it is much worse) and whyWhy does this fucking matter? Go outside and talk to a real life female. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/21 03:43 AM |
| 20 | GUIDE: How To Max Out Your SMV The Quickest WayLiterally stole verbatim from Wall Street Playboys. Give credit where it’s due. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/21 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Getting a lot of shit tests from guys when out with my LTR.Girls have been rejecting guys for thousands of years. Let them do what comes natural. Look the guy up and down, then smugly say something along the lines of “Aight buddy, good luck.” Girl should shoot him down in a heart beat. If you’re girl is more introverted and less confrontational, lead her a bit. Something like “sweet cheeks, are you into guys who wear [describe dudes clothes]?” No? Rough. Better luck next buddy. If you can’t do this with yo girl, she ain’t yo girl. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 05:22 PM |
| 10 | LTR our for drinking dayIf you’re dating a normal, well-adjusted, not-completely-introverted girl, she’s going to have girl friends she wants to go out drinking with. Because they’re her friends. Are you that insecure you think she’s going to blow a guy in the bathroom ? Relationship that rocky? You just picked wrong? “Have fun, convince Ashley to come back for that threesome finally” is the only proper response. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 09:59 PM |
| 6 | LTR our for drinking dayWhen my gfs go out drinking with their girls they usually come back and fuck the shit out of me. (Unfortunately not all the girls, just the girlfriend) The fact that you have to ask this question is lol. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 09:34 PM |
| 7 | Has anyone achieved "top 10 percent of men/high-value man" success after years of mediocrity *AFTER* the age of 35? If so, HOW did you climb up from rock-bottom? Would appreciate specific examples andThere’s no such thing as a guaranteed six figure job. Your mental issues will be a hinderance and as a hiring manager, we will be able to snuff out your personality during the interview. The way you describe yourself is completely unemployable. Also, six figures only gets you in the top 33% of income - nothing to shake a stick at now a days. Every man should be earning 100+ the day they hit 30. It sounds like you have serious mental issues that go beyond what this sub can offer. You sound truly … | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 10:08 PM |
| 1 | What are the best hobbies to meet women?Yoga. But you actually have to like it. And then take it to the next level. The guy who’s just there for girls is so cringe. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 09:58 PM |
| 0 | Americans, what's the dating scene like in your city?It’s not. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 10:24 PM |
| 1 | The "are you a feminist?" Shit testEvery “feminist” I’ve dated has always turned out to be submissive and loved having my cock in their mouth. YMMV | /r/askTRP | 14/01/21 05:18 PM |
| 1 | girl asked if I was a player or had been seeing anyoneDon’t be autistic. Everyone knows the relationship between a coach and a player. If she asks what does that mean, say something like “that’s cute” and change the subject. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 04:46 AM |
| 5 | girl asked if I was a player or had been seeing anyoneYou own the fact that yes, you enjoy having multiple women, and take it further by suggesting you’re so good at it, you coach other guys how to as well. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 06:21 PM |
| 19 | What're you guys doing to stay in-shape during this "lockdown"?False. They have access to plenty of weights. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 03:53 AM |
| 3 | Miami, LA, or NYC?NYC has the better dating life but you’re fucked if you’re only making 105. Take Miami. I would avoid LA like the plague. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/20 10:35 PM |
| 9 | I struggle to get erect with new girlsThis | /r/askTRP | 27/02/20 10:29 PM |
| 5 | Two girls“Sure” She came back to you after you did absolutely nothing. No reason to try to force something. KISS principle. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/20 12:14 AM |
| 9 | Know anyone who is naturally redpill? How did they become like that? How are they different from regular RP?How do you think Red Pill ideas started...? | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 03:43 PM |
| 2 | I have a problem with my girlfriends promiscuous past. Need advice.Why is she your girlfriend and not just a plate? | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Feel like I'm developing a fetish that is based on low self-esteem from BP daysStop watching porn. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Telling LTR and plates the truth about late-in-life virginityI've never had this subject come up once. If it does, just own it. If you're medically diagnosed autistic, and not just Reddit-neckbeard-social-autist, you're not going to be tricking any girl into thinking something else. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 03:38 PM |
| 1 | For the ones who lift regularly, what late lessons (meaning years in) have you learned that have been a game-changer?Same philosophy that Paul Carter preaches. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 11:36 PM |
| -1 | Approaching, Field Game & Notoriety.Jesus fuck what is wrong with you. You nearly not banged a skank of an army wife. Ruined your reputation in a small town. And are bragging you’re too good for this and going to head to the “big city” You’re uncalibrated and socially autistic. Nothing of this is red pill. This is a really bad “not lay” report. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/20 10:37 AM |
| 7 | LTR lied about fucking a guy in the past. Broke up with her. Did I do the right thing?Yes, I’m older. I’m not perfect - I’m going through insecurities of my own right now. It’s sad to see the echo chamber in here honestly. OP is saying “I broke up with her because an old flame texted her late.” How many times have you all texted an old flame that went nowhere? All of you have done it. Now you’re congratulating a guy for making a rash decision - when he’s shown his insecurities by snooping through her phone. It’s mindboggling | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 04:43 AM |
| 7 | LTR lied about fucking a guy in the past. Broke up with her. Did I do the right thing?You’re an idiot I hit up a girl I haven’t fucked in months because I was bored last night and she has nice titties. She could very well have a boyfriend. I don’t know. Nor do I care. Most girls, especially younger ones, aren’t going to be comfortable looking the guy they’re currently fucking in the eyes and saying “yeah old ex, whatever.” Because they’re a fucking girl. She’s probably thinking “oh shit John hit me up last night out of nowhere and TRPKaty saw it, what do i do????” If you’re so in… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Do you guys fap once in a while or do you hold your seed in until you have sex with a girl?Go for it | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 04:15 PM |
| 87 | Lower Body Fat Percentage = more vitality?Getting in shape makes you look healthier. News at 11. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 09:24 PM |
| 10 | Every girl is a Alpha widow in 2019Find a different girl to kiss. You’ll find out a bad kisser isn’t worth it at some point no matter how hot she is, cause you know there’s another hot girl who knows how to kiss. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Every girl is a Alpha widow in 2019Well what are you doing differently? Or what have you done too much of? | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend posted image of her and personal trainer shirtless on her Instagram... I was lividSoooooo you don’t think that says anything about YOU at all......? (Hint: this isn’t a her problem, it’s a you problem) | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 04:50 AM |
| 0 | Girlfriend posted image of her and personal trainer shirtless on her Instagram... I was lividSounds like you’re a shit personal trainer if you can’t keep your girl in shape...... | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 01:59 AM |
| 5 | If I'm single at 70-something, will I be lonely ...or having lots of divorced/widowed women bugging the hell out of me?Saw a dude the other month... (live in a major city)... ugly as fuck, easily over 60... there was a bombshell 25-30 year old blonde, heels, pencil skirt, huge tits just hanging over him. Sugar baby or gold digger or real attraction or whore (it was around 4 pm... doubt the latter) who cares. You’ll get young pussy one way or the other. If I’m 60-70, single, and loaded who cares if I’m paying a hot girl to fuck me. I’m old, single, and loaded. What else am I going to spend money on at that age? | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Is it wrong for a guy to post shirtless pictures of himself on his social media?I’m doing it to document my fitness/body comp journey. I don’t give a fuck. In a year it’ll either be put up or shut up. Keeps me accountable. If someone calls it douchey or insecure, they either want to fuck you or are jealous. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 03:00 AM |
| 2 | No fap hard mode and online datingIt very much does as long as you don’t turn it into a stupid ideological war and simply change into the man who doesn’t watch porn or masturbate. Cause he has better things to do and real-life wimminz to take care of him. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 02:58 AM |
| 24 | Now that’s I’ve actually been consistent with lifting and taking in proper protein and supplement I’ve noticed a few hours after workouts I just get MAD I’m not that type of guy usually but I just wanna slap anyone that walks by is that from more testosterone?No, that’s just you having the emotional control of a teenage girl. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 02:54 AM |
| 1 | The Archetypal Modern Woman: "She fucks uncountable alphas, ignoring the beta who likes her, through her years of youth & prettiness. She realizes how empty it all is, but only once the wall approaches & the good times end, so she uses the last of her charms to husband-up the barely tolerable beta."Bro. Move. I became friends with a 50 y/o black guy this past year. He fucking slaying the white wimminz. Anything 25-35. Quite frankly I’m completely jealous of his game. No where near his level yet. The shit he’s shown me... man you’d be jealous too. If he was white he’d probably be pulling the same. Maybe he has some of that taboo black man thing going for him. I don’t know, I’m not a wimmenz. I just see an older dude I can learn from. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/19 10:35 PM |
| 25 | Field Report ; 19 Years Old, Working Towards Future & a thank you.Everyone is competition. Yet we’re all in this together. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/19 02:55 PM |
| 5 | Feeling guilty using career to lay, plates, why?Give them what they want. If they want NSA sex with their hot trainer, and you don’t make it an issue because “it’s only sex,” I’m sure you’ll have more positive referrals than you can handle. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 02:49 PM |
| 1 | How to proceed after hooking up with sisters best friend.Literally, don’t do anything. Nothing. No texts, emails, calls, etc. Remember, it’s only sex. No big deal. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Moved in to a new city with my GF. Roomies are all female (about 3). They appear to be uncomfortable with me.Yeah if I was younger I would totally take the chance of being homeless for the story. Next on TRP: “I moved in with my girlfriend and her 3 friends and we have orgies all the time. My dick is starting to turn weird colors. What should I do?” | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 01:53 PM |
| 6 | A Red Pill Warning (for the fuglies on here)JayZ is one ugly ass motherfucker. You think anyone calls JayZ one ugly ass mother fucker? I don’t. It’s all about what you can build and accomplish and your value as a man. Which 98% of that can be learned. You’re on the right track brother. Stay strong. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/19 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Should I consider TRT at 283 total testosterone?I’ve heard. I’ve read nothing but good things about it Just want to give it a good shot doing things naturally - and getting myself into a better place financially - before I make the plunge. Shits ain’t cheap. I’ll probably be on within 5 years. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Should I consider TRT at 283 total testosterone?I haven’t exhausted cleaning up my lifestyle before taking the plunge into TRT. Once you start you can’t stop | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Should I consider TRT at 283 total testosterone?I’m getting back into the hard workout mode. Giving myself a year, starting off at a better position than you. If I’m not looking like this then fuck it back to TRT land | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 09:03 PM |
| 0 | Mate gaurding in club with fwb.“You can flirt with her. If she flirts back she’s yours” | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 03:47 PM |
| 5 | My Insane 3 Year Journey - From Short Hardcase Asian to SlayerI’m sad because the “my mom is a slut” post has nearly as many comments as this post. Where you should celebrated and rallied around. Honestly what the fuck is wrong with all you people on this sub | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/19 04:40 AM |
| 3 | I struggle with seeing myself as a MAN sometimesIs 30. Feels 19. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Does every plate get turned off little by little for everytime they get hit up for a fuck?It’s not your cock. It’s you. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Ex from 6 years ago hit me upYou know what, go hit her up and report back to us. Nothing is ever truly known unless it is field tested. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Ex from 6 years ago hit me upThe fuck is wrong with you There’s 3 billion girls and you’re worried about one who is married. Let it go. It’s not in your hands. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 08:35 PM |
| 2 | How do you get past being insanely possessive and or "wondering where she is and what she is doing" all the time with an ltr?No. Half of marriages end in divorce. This is fact. You’re exposing yourself to a 50% chance of losing half your shit. You want that? Of the other half, 80% are miserable. Not fact, but anecdotal from anyone you talk to. They hate being married. I think 1 in 400 is a big exaggerated, but at best you have a 1 in 10 chance of being happy and not losing half your shit getting married. I’ll take the other side of that bet every time. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Ex from 6 years ago hit me upUnless she texts you, yes | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Ex from 6 years ago hit me upThen you’re misleading with your post. We can’t read your mind. That’s not the point, though. Regardless of the exact wording, you triggered her defenses from her response of “you know I’m married” | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Ex from 6 years ago hit me upYou’re an idiot. The fact she texted you means she wants to fuck you. Then you have to ruin it by saying that with “like we used to” which triggered her defenses. Whether or not you should have it is up to your morals, but you fucked it for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Moving to most notorious party school in Midwest. How do I have sex?Counterpoint: part of sexual strategy is getting your mental shit together in order to reproduce. We’re all playing the same game, but Japan’s game looks different from Australia’s. Sexual strategy is a very broad and ambiguous term that means different things to different people. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 08:11 PM |
| 3 | How I made my LTR a nympho in 7 days.Yeah. There’s some grooming involved. Literally just took a girl over the course of a couple months from tiny buttplug to her cumming from surprise anal the first time. Shits dope. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/19 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Meet The Endorsed Contributors: mallardcoveStrength is a skill. Given two guys, weight the same, lifted (nearly) the same, same height, etc., the one who has specifically trained for strength will have a higher squat. Anyone can squat 300-400 pounds given time and effort. Squatting 600+ pounds has to be specificallly trainer for. BUT as a newbie this matters ZERO to you. Absolutely nothing. Eat and lift and sleep and follow your program. This will start to matter after year 3. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/19 03:44 AM |
| 1 | How to be "the bull" during sex? What separates the alpha from the beta in the bedroom and how can I improve in this regard?In the words of uncle v, punch yourself in the dick ten times for thinking of hitting that girl up. Secondly, it is a nuanced difference between knowing how to please a girl and caring too much about it. Do: know how to please a girl. What they like, what that girl likes personally, different ideas in the bedroom, etc, etc. Don’t: fucking worry about it in the moment and do whatever makes you (and her) happy at that current moment. Sometimes I tie her up. Sometimes I stick things in her butt. So… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 02:14 PM |
| 11 | How to be "the bull" during sex? What separates the alpha from the beta in the bedroom and how can I improve in this regard?I have to show this bitch how alpha I am in bed. My dick is inside her but that is not enough. I must prove this girl that I am more alpha than her. But wait. There’s more. I must also out alpha all the other dicks that aren’t inside her right now. See all these thousands of dicks that aren’t inside her? I must prove to her my dick is better than all those dicks she’s not fucking. You’re asking the wrong questions kid. It’s not how do I fuck her better. It’s how do I enjoy sex better myself. You… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 11:47 PM |
| 6 | Gaylubeoil's 3 Iron Rules Of IronCan you get your body into a full ass to the grass squat and be comfortable? If not, you need mobility son. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/19 04:00 AM |
| 4 | Gaylubeoil's 3 Iron Rules Of IronPrime sperg is taking some minute wording of a post and arguing with it via a rigid literal interpretation. Bonus points if said wording was a metaphor, analogy, or satire. It is the most annoying behavior on TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/19 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Gaylubeoil's 3 Iron Rules Of IronYou really can’t go wrong with MobilityWOD. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/19 10:24 PM |
| 18 | Gaylubeoil's 3 Iron Rules Of IronCan’t forget that sexy thoracic spine | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/19 06:37 PM |
| 126 | Gaylubeoil's 3 Iron Rules Of IronI’d like to emphasize mobility This is extremely underrated. I’m fighting through years of abuse to my body right now and dedicating over an hour a day to mobility work because my body fucking needs it. It’s a night and day difference. You should be feeling your squats hit your glutes, abs and upper back - not your hip flexors and lower back. If you’ve been sitting in front of Warcraft for 10 hours a day, this is probably you. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/19 06:19 PM |
| 1 | I read the rational male, I am now angry/hopeless. Give some tips to this lost 18 year old.Please don’t read either of those. There’s no need. It’s already been said, go read Book of Pook. That’s effectively tailored towards college age kids. If you effectively implement Book of Pook, you’ll be set for life. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Are any of you actually ugly and successful with women?JayZ is one ugly ass motherfucker. Snoop Dog ain’t much better. You think anyone calling either those two dudes ugly or unattractive? | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 04:09 PM |
| 19 | I [28M] got a good paying job and suddenly have women show interest in meAnd if you want them to suck your cock while they have a giant dildo in the ass and they refuse? Then you tell them to get the fuck out of your bed It’s your fucking life. Who the fuck cares why they’re there. You can’t read their fucking minds, so if they’re not living up to your standards be gone with them and stop giving a fuck | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 03:36 AM |
| 13 | The Economist: No sex please, we’re millennials: "The portion of Americans aged 18 to 29 who claim to have had no sex for 12 months has more than doubled in a decade—to 23% last year."Studies on porn have shown it increases depression, anxiety, loss of motivation and drive, deceased confidence, social skills among others not to mention it’ll make your dick stop working when it comes to a real woman. Porn has been around for decades. It’s the the new era of porn that’s ruining us. It isn’t the sole cause but it’s a big one. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/19 01:09 AM |
| -6 | The Economist: No sex please, we’re millennials: "The portion of Americans aged 18 to 29 who claim to have had no sex for 12 months has more than doubled in a decade—to 23% last year."To be fair, it is men’s fault they aren’t having sex. Tech and porn creeped up out of nowhere. On the flip side, with all the knowledge out there, men should also fix their problems and get back to fuckin | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/19 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Just ignore her for a whileI have a (former) European model plate who’s back in the motherlands. It’s been 7 months since we’ve seen seen each other. She acted up a couple weeks after she left and I cut off contact. She came running back 3 weeks later and all was good. She’ll text me almost every day. Sometimes I talk to her, sometimes I don’t. I get sexy pics and “I miss you” texts nearly every other day. Ofc I’m banging other girls. But attention withdrawal is stupidly effective. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/19 11:39 PM |
| 7 | Plate broke, due to devastating circumstances with her family.Is this a late April Fools or are you that autistic ? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 03:49 AM |
| 7 | Is it worth banging a fatty?I want to note that the pressure release from boning a porker is infinitely better than solo play. You wont have the same mental relaxation from masturbation. /u/SouthernProcess | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Why does TRP invoke such...PURE RAGE?It’s actually incredibly fucking easy to talk about the principles. You just have to do it in the right way at the right time. If you fucking sperg out in the middle of a club, you’re going to come across as an autistic loser. If you try to push your view like a Jehovah’s Witness onto your friends, they’re gonna hate you. OTOH, I’m lying in bed next to a naked girl I just fucked after talking about “male/female biology and relationships” for an hour. Cause girls love talking about this shit. You… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Work M-F mornings, have my daughter M-T nights and bartend F-Sun nights. Feel like I’m never going to be able to actually meet a girl because I’m either working, sleeping or with my daughter. Am I doomed?You must be a weird ass dude or work in tiny bar cause all my bartender friends show me the numbers they literally throw out because there’s just too many. | /r/seduction | 26/03/19 11:23 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend and I suck a sexting. Any advice??If he has a low libido that means he needs to clean up his diet, lift, and stop watching porn. There’s no such thing as a low libido in a healthy male. We’re born to fuck everything in sight. | /r/seduction | 26/02/19 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Her lockscreen password is her old boyfriends phone number?With this thinking you’ve already lost bro | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Shit test - wife suggested I go elsewhere for blowjobsYeah.... that ones a long story. He fucks but is blue pulled unfortunately | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/19 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Her lockscreen password is her old boyfriends phone number?Who cares? It’s a lock screen. Smash and don’t give a fuck. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Got falsely accused of sexual assault/rape. How to proceed? (Part 2)It takes time for these things to sort themselves out. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 12:14 AM |
| 15 | Shit test - wife suggested I go elsewhere for blowjobsI have a friend like this. Didn’t want to suck his dick or let him lick her pussy. But he got “the fucks” whenever he wanted. She initiated a divorce two years into their marriage. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 06:20 PM |
| 282 | My date asked what is my age and I responded with "Old enough to fuck".LMFAO thanks for making my morning You had 50% of the line. Next time “Old enough to know a thing or two” | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Minimum texting issuesCan confirm. Have puppy. My text game is puppy pics, logistics, and < 3 word sentences | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 07:33 AM |
| 8 | Girlfriend suggested she goes to a crazy party without me, but ended up not going to it when I said to come over straight to my place as planned. Do I still tell her going without me to a crazy party isn't okay and set a boundary, or would that be seen as mate guarding?Dude you’re psycho | /r/askTRP | 20/01/19 05:59 AM |
| 13 | Took cold showers for 4 days, Pumps gone and strength reduced.I took cold showers for four days and my muscles are pumped, my mind is focused and my dick is rock hard. You’re doing something wrong. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 07:04 AM |
| 5 | There's absolutely no reason to be afraid of cold approachI just read an old article from Good Looking Loser and he scored something like 14/100 from cold approach day game IIRC. 5-10% isn’t too out of whack. Majority of girls aren’t going to like you. But fuck man, that’s 1/20. That means you can probably score a new girl every other night just going out on weekends, at worst. That comes out to 52 new girls in a year. That doesn’t sound horrible to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/18 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Girl pushed me and got aggressive upon second approach in the clubWho cares it’s one girl. I was punched by a girl, not playfully, and I just left without saying a word. Very unfeminine and unbecoming for a girl. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Asking for 2x+ raiseStart interviewing. Get another offer. Ask for a raise to 100k. If they say no quit. When u interview, DO NOT TELL THEM UR CURRENT SALARY WHEN THEY ASK, “interpret” the question as “how much do I want u to pay me” and go w 80-90k. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT. Whenever I get asked the question, I say “I’m looking for $$$ for this position.” Which netted me another 20k this year. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Being too 'gamey' as a beginner?Well that’s where u fucked up You live an interesting life. Be proud of it and tell girls about it. Then go fucking kiss them. Jfc u had it half in the bag, now your tryin to reinvent urself instead of just learning that it’s okay to try to kiss a girl u like. Jfc. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 12:47 AM |
| 0 | Is RSD a scam?If you have the cash, go for it. It’s a fun experience and could prove to be really helpful for you. It’s a huge mixed bag of where you’re coming from to begin with, but at the same time there’s a lot of different things that can be taken from it regardless of where you’re at. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Girls says I “know how to treat her”You’re way overthinking this. She likes exactly what you are doing. Don’t change a thing and stop thinking. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 06:02 AM |
| 5 | Where to find older masculine male role models?Grow develop and improve as a person until you reach a place where you’re meeting these people naturally. Case in point I moved into a new fancy apt building this year and met a dude who has a pretty baller life. We’re prob gonna grab drinks next week. Don’t go up to dudes “will you mentor me?” Be a cool dude, then befriend dudes whose energy you like, take em out for a drink and pick their brain. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Appropriate response to “you dont know how to treat a lady”?“Someone needs a spanking” Roll your eyes with a grin “You can be with him if he makes you feel better. Your life your choice” | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Why are testosterone levels dropping in the West?This is a massive one. Ever notice when you watch porn or jack off you won’t wake up with morning wood? Give that shit up and you start waking up with hardened steel down there. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Tips for a Late BloomerLol @ that. Anyway - yeah that sucks that happened to your friend, and I’m not saying that doesn’t happen. (I went through some shit back in the day - nothing ever materialized though). But it is the exception, not the norm. The advice still applies, just be aware of drunk versus too drunk. | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 12:56 AM |
| -1 | Tips for a Late BloomerHave you ever hooked up with a college girl? LOL | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 04:58 PM |
| 16 | Tips for a Late BloomerI’m sad this got downvotes because underneath the rhetoric, this boils down to: 1 - be confident, 2 - go for what you want. Great advice. Downvoters - grow a pair. You take shit too seriously. | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 04:06 PM |
| 7 | Looking for a exercise routine? Take mine.In Olympic weightlifting, both the front and back squat are considered accessories. Very important, but accessories nonetheless. Nowadays I like to hit front squats on deadlift day. Consider it “Accessory 1A” | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/18 01:10 AM |
| 0 | Just found out I have HPV. Personal morals/intimacy level/social situation obligates disclosure to plate. Unlikely to bring it up in person. Advice on wording/ length of message appreciatedAre you a doctor? Are you her doctor? No? Ok then. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 05:42 PM |
| 9 | Just found out I have HPV. Personal morals/intimacy level/social situation obligates disclosure to plate. Unlikely to bring it up in person. Advice on wording/ length of message appreciatedThe right thing to do is to tell her via some method other than text and let the cards fall where they well. KISS. Keep it short and simple. “I got this shit. I didn’t know. I just found out. I wanted to do you right.” No more no less. oh, and don’t tell a fucking girl that HPV isn’t the biggest deal in the world, because while it isn’t for guys, that shit leads to cervical cancer for women. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 08:56 AM |
| 1 | The subconscious results of lifting. (For beginners)Listen up boys - working out increases your FEELZ. Not just physically, but mentally, and that’s the more important one. Case in point, always go to the gym on a schedule. Consistently rules all. Even when you don’t want to. Fucking sack up and go. Last night I didn’t want to go. I was feeling lazy and tired and my mood was kind of down. You know what I did? I fucking nutted up, gave myself a decent workout, and felt 10x better when I left. If I didn’t go, would’ve felt like shit today for not s… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/18 10:43 PM |
| 1 | I didn't realize how easy it was to get a girl to have sex with you if you just askWhat’s your opinion of body language reading in this vein? Ballsier approach, but on the flip side you don’t have to learn astrology. (Though I want to pick that up now) | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Any NoFap experiences?Sounds like you had outcome dependence. You believed you weren't allowed to be anything other than a "sex god," especially if the girl was an 8-9. You can argue I have outcome dependence with every girl I fuck with that logic. What else did you do after stopping masturbating? What other life changes did you make? Nothing. The first time I strict no-fap'd for 30 days, my life was all over the place. Within those 30 days, I was on 3-5 night benders every week. Working a job I hated, and my diet, l… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 01:31 PM |
| 0 | Coffee with girl who is taken?Ah, touché. I generally take girls at face value when they say that, then do whatever the fuck I was going to do anyway. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 10:59 PM |
| 6 | Any NoFap experiences?Increased confidence. Less social anxiety. Stronger voice. Laser eye contact. Boners every morning. (And with every girl) I really haven’t felt much change in energy, but there’s also more time to do stuff and more motivation/discipline to do said stuff. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 10:58 PM |
| 2 | 47/M two-year transformation storyUnderground you’d be paying like 100 a month if that. I wanted to start because I’m a complete believer, but I couldn’t in good conscience until I got all my shit in check and see where my levels are at then. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/18 10:56 PM |
| 4 | Any NoFap experiences?Dude you ever been unable to get it up with a super hot girl. Multiple times. Different girls. Completely sober. Yeah the guys on the forums can be whack jobs just like the rest of Reddit. But the shit is real. I went from being a eunuch to a sex god in two months. No porn, extremely limited jacking off, and get your fill from a real woman. It’s not sexual anorexia, it’s getting rid of the crap from your life. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 10:54 PM |
| 4 | Coffee with girl who is taken?I just hooked up with a girl who has a boyfriend. Granted I played a long game with her, but if you make her tingle in the right way, she’ll literally have your cock in her mouth while she’s saying her boyfriend wouldn’t like this. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 10:47 PM |
| 3 | 47/M two-year transformation storyThis guy fucks, literally and figuratively. Kudos to you sir. We need more posts and stories like yours here. Also a couple grand isn’t anything for your salary, but the clinic I was looking at my TRT would be 2400/year. You may or may not be getting ripped there. (I’m passing on TRT for now because I’m too young - 29 - and don’t have my life completely in check to determine I definitely need it, tested in the mid 400s, but I still have diet and gym gains to achieve first before I hop on the tra… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/18 10:36 PM |
| 5 | As my SMV is increasing, why are betas getting more aggressive?Eh, you might be doing it wrong then. You also might be happening upon all the insecure people at once. As my SMV has been increasing, EVERYONE has been more receptive towards me. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 06:22 AM |
| 0 | Can you get yourself out of the quiet corner?Yes. For you it sounds like it'll be years of work though. But yes. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 06:19 AM |
| 2 | How come the most beta thing I ever did not only got me laid, but made the girl hornier than any girl I had ever seen?Her anti-slut defense was betaing your shit up because being on the lower end of the SMV, she's been pumped and dumped on the reg. But she's still a super horny girl. But she doesn't want to fuck you until she knows you won't just pump and dump her. Also someone mentioned humanizing yourself a bit. That could be it too. You sound try-hard in your post, which I've had the problem of too. You need to dial it back and stop thinking you need to overcompensate for something. I've had girls mention th… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 06:17 AM |
| 2 | I’m burnt out. I can’t physically or emotionally bond with women anymore.I was going to go with a dog, but I guess you can make sweet loving to that engine. She sure does purr. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 05:59 AM |
| 9 | I’m burnt out. I can’t physically or emotionally bond with women anymore.Sounds like you're a grumpy asshole with no boundaries who hasn't fully swallowed the pill. I’ve tried long term dating, I’m sick of it. It’s all the same. 6 months in they push for a title or start drama if you don’t commit. "You wanna be my girlfriend? Fine, whatever. Call yourself whatever. You know I'm not marrying you. And I'm still fucking Suzy. That isn't stopping." If you commit, they constantly push for more. "You know I'm not marrying you." If you don’t give more, they fuck someone els… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Apartment Location - SMV and Perception of Neighborhood“All the cool kids live here but they don’t know what they’re missing out on.” But in all seriousness, if a girl doesn’t want to bang you because it’s a 20 minute cab ride instead of a 5 minute walk, then you’re weeding the bad ones out. To be fair, I’ve stopped banging girls because of the same reason. That being said, I just moved to one of the most expensive areas in my city to be closer to everything. So paying more for my apt, for a better apartment, in a better location in conducive to the… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 04:53 AM |
| 12 | What is the best way to make a move on a coworker ?I was going to say don’t, despite the fact that I’ve done this with an HR girl to boot. So fuck it. Just go for it. Be discrete though and keep your mouth shut. I believe banging the intern would look bad on the girl. (Not because of ethics, but the whole intern-lower-status thing. Or maybe the hot intern falls into something ala pool boy fantasy. Who the fuck knows. Just keep your mouth shut) Also make sure you don’t actually have to continually work with her. My little romp was from pure luck … | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Is learning to have fun at parties/cafe/bar/talking a thing ?You’re not having fun with your mate. You’re having fun with the video game. Go have fun with him in real life. | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Those making $250,000/year+ How’d you do it?Kick more ass than humanly possibly at what you do, and make everyone like you. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Those making $250,000/year+ How’d you do it?More than enough and whatever they apply themselves to. Kid, I'm trying to give you advice from what I've seen. Stop being so aggressive and defensive. I said you can make a good buck in CS, but your exposure is going to be completely different and generally on the back end of things. So take a chill pill. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Those making $250,000/year+ How’d you do it?Yeah you are. They hide it better, but you are. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 02:22 AM |
| 16 | Is learning to have fun at parties/cafe/bar/talking a thing ?Found the hard case introvert. It's not about having fun because of the bar. Or the club. Or the party. It's about having fun because of the people at the the bar. Or the people at the club. It's about having fun through interacting with people. It just so happens that bars, clubs and parties are where people go to drink, loosen up, have fun being with their friends, meeting new people, and looking sexy looking to score. Learn how to have fun with people and this isn't a thing. | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Those making $250,000/year+ How’d you do it?My overarching point is to make yourself as broadly marketable as possible to fill whatever upward mobility position you can. By broadly I don't mean the same job at different companies, but different jobs at the same company. You can make a good buck doing nothing but CS and eventually land in some kind of head of dev/IT role. Or open your own shop. And this argument becomes moot. I'm not hating on CS by any means, because you can do whatever you can talk your way into. I'm giving broadly appli… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 01:54 AM |
| 1 | How can I apply Law 16 from "The 48 Laws of Power" on a potential SO?Have your own life. Do what you want. She's along for the ride. She does not become your life. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 12:43 AM |
| 1 | So there's this girl who has a huge crush on me. Her good friend, who I suspect to be a lover of hers, also has a crush on me. What do I do?THREESOME | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Those making $250,000/year+ How’d you do it?Found the CS major. Yes a CS or engineer clearly has the mental ability to succeed. But you're facing an uphill battle aside from quant jobs. One, your network will naturally be different unless you put in the effort. Two, why would I hire an engineer, and take the time to teach him, over a finance grad who's maybe say part of the school's investment club, who's clearly shown more of an interest in this domain over the engineer. Answer - I wouldn't. Your intrinsic ability only takes you so far. … | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 12:32 AM |
| 11 | Those making $250,000/year+ How’d you do it?That is the wrong question to be asking. (The answer is absolutely nothing) Why do you care if things get automated? You’re not a burger flipper are you? Make yourself indispensable. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 03:39 AM |
| 15 | Those making $250,000/year+ How’d you do it?LURRNNNN how to talk to people. LURRNNN how to get people to like you. Merit only takes you so far. Equally or even less competent (to a degree) will take a backseat to "do I like you enough to hire you/promote you/work more with you?". If your foot is in the door, (i.e. in-person interview, working on the promotion), you've already passed the competence portion of things. So as long as you don't fuck that up in the next step, it comes down to "who do I like more?" Did I say LURRNNN how to talk … | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Those making $250,000/year+ How’d you do it?Said no one ever, I'm not going to make that extra dollar because I'm going to be taxed on it. You might try tax avoidance strategies to optimize your tax burden, but ultimately they're a non-issue. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 10:59 PM |
| 4 | I Answered to my hard-nexted ex text because today is an important day for her, did I fuck up?Losing a parent when you’re young is something you never get over. Now dealing with your emotions like a grown-ass person is a completely different story. Which most women don’t. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Scored a 9.5, felt on top of the world, went back to her place. Then, absolutely humiliated myself. I'm thinking of seriously hiring an escort now to teach me what I don't know.Your words: pathetic, fucktard, Sex with a vacuum cleaner, I failed, I couldn't do anything You wouldn't say this shit to a friend who confided the same story to you. Yet your inner dialogue is needlessly harsh and cruel towards yourself. Dude, this sounds golden. I struggle with my inner monologue and haven't figured out how to reframe it. I'm going to run with this and see how it works. | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Scored a 9.5, felt on top of the world, went back to her place. Then, absolutely humiliated myself. I'm thinking of seriously hiring an escort now to teach me what I don't know.Y'all are missing the forest for the trees. He doesn't need "sex tips" or what not. He needs to sort shit out in his head. Dude, actual what the fuck. For one - it's totally fine to be inexperienced and not know what to do. Hell, tell girls this. Some will be into the honesty, some won't be. But there wouldn't be a return trip with the latter category anyway once they find out you're inexperienced. So you have absolutely nothing to lose here - it will work in your benefit. Fuck - lie to them abo… | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Girls who call you man, dude, buddy, etc.Ignore it and work on a new girl. | /r/seduction | 17/03/18 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Girls who call you man, dude, buddy, etc.It's unattractive because it's not feminine. It could be harmless. It could be a sign of disinterest. Either way, I'm in the I don't like it camp. EDIT: Lol if it's coming from the girl who shit test the most then there's your answer. | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Can filling a condom up with water after sex help to check for holes or any possible leaks?You're fucked. She's super pregnant. Quadruplets. Kiss your life goodbye. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Can filling a condom up with water after sex help to check for holes or any possible leaks?Let's not get too crazy now. We need to protect the children. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Has anybody read both "The Slight Edge" and "The Compound Effect?"Well, they do make you successful if they show you a better way of acting/thinking and you adopt that. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Guys I need help getting started. I literally need someone to redpill the $&@! Out of meWe're all (mostly) grown adults here. First step is learning it's okay to say "shit" | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 12:42 AM |
| 0 | Abs With Every Workout? Yes.He advocates kb swings, box jumps, and core work super setted with squat and deadlifts. It’s worked for me so I have no reason not to. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/18 12:26 AM |
| 0 | Abs With Every Workout? Yes.Everyone should be lifting between 60-85% IMO. Above 85% is for peaking and like I’ve already said, who here is competitive strength athlete. Answer: barely anyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/18 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Abs With Every Workout? Yes.You know what, Brian Alsruhe lives by this idea, and he’s strong as fuck. So I’m going to listen to him. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Abs With Every Workout? Yes.Yeah sure if you’re a legitimate amateur/semi-pro bodybuilder who hits each muscle group with 30 sets 5 different ways 6 days a week. If you’re anyone else, no. Plus we’re combining heavy movements with lighter accessory work. A set of sit-ups isn’t going to tax your next set of squats. Rows aren’t going to tax your bench. If they do, either your conditioning sucks and you need to be doing this, or you’re going too heavy on either your main or assistance (or both) | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 02:51 AM |
| 3 | Abs With Every Workout? Yes.Oh totally agree. But 95% of this sub aren’t competitive powerlifters/weightlifters/strongmen so they have no business hitting those weights. Those who are should have coaches/enough knowledge to not listen to random dude on the internet. I’m at a point in my life where I just care about general strength, athletic performance and physique. I have no care about peaking anymore. Therefore all my sets are supersets. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 01:14 AM |
| 7 | Abs With Every Workout? Yes.Hey, not a shitty lifting post for once. Good work /u/AlfredKinsey I want to expand on this idea: turn your sets into super sets for everything. Squatting? Core work between sets. Deadlifting? Core work between sets. Pushing? Add a pull. Just back? Add some lunges or more core work. You will never see me just squatting or benching. I’ll be squatting + core or benching + row. Twice the work in the same amount of time. Plus it’ll improve your conditioning. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 11:35 PM |
| 5 | I wanna see you shittestModel status checking in Its a hard life but... well I love living it. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Ex boyfriend is alpha as fuckSide topic - how did you respond to the frame test? "Idk I think that girl over there looks good naked too?" I honestly don't know how I'd play that. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 03:39 AM |
| 28 | Moving in a with a bi-sexual coworker...bad idea?/u/chachaChad said get tested - I'd recommend getting your head tested as well while you're at it. I have a co-worker Red flag She has fucked my co-worker buddy Red flag I went down on her after a night out and I have a feeling we are going to fuck pretty soon But you didn't fuck her? Red flag She's addicted to poppers, Red flag coke, Red flag weed, Red flag and cigarettes. Red fag I want to split rent with her so that it's no so expensive, but she's bad with managing her own money. Red flag Now… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 03:31 AM |
| 2 | To fap or not to fapFor newbies I recommend taking atleast a full month of no fapping and no porn (with the exception of a real girl) Good to give your brain that detox. After that fap whenever you feel like it. Personally, I’m on a couple week no fap streak and honestly I don’t have the urge to touch myself. Don’t fap because you’re bored or you “feel like you need to.” Fap when you have an insatiable hard on that won’t go away. One man’s humble opinion. YMMV | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 03:23 AM |
| 12 | Had a 10 give me the friend talk....LOL Dude you nailed it on the head. “I’m not looking for anything serious either. Let’s be friends. Now bend over for me.” Unwittingly, back in my more-beta days, I passed the “I don’t want a relationship or get married” shit test by responding “the fuck said I ever wanted to date you.” Quite deadpan night I add you. The more deadpan the better. Really sinks in the “You crazy girl, you think you could lock me down? LOL” feeling. This also happened to be with the hottest girl I ever banged. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 11:57 PM |
| 5 | Why are you doing nofap ?No porn is more important than no fap. YMMV That being said, I’ve had the craziest sex of my life when I hit a 30 day no fap streak. It’s whatever works for you bro. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for flexibility and mobility exercises?Consistent yoga fixes everything dude. Shitty joints are going to come from (assuming you’re not hunched over a desk, immobile for 8 hours): 1. Shitty form in the gym 2. Tight muscles. Your joints are built for whatever their full range of motion is. Movement through that plane is facilitated by drum roll muscles. When your muscles are tight, your joints, tendons, ligaments, etc. will be inhibited from a: properly healing and b: moving through that full range of motion. When my knees are achy fr… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 06:26 AM |
| -2 | Successful people aren't Demi-Gods with insane willpower and incredible productivity skills. They are normal people who understood the importance of the small seemingly insignificant daily disciplines. They understood how these disciplines leveraged with time could make them unstoppableHonestly not really. This post was posting for the sake of posting. I just agree with the idea behind the book. If a person needs more convincing than “the fuck you doing with your life that you can’t mediate for 10 minutes” then they’re a lost cause. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/18 01:29 AM |
| 30 | Successful people aren't Demi-Gods with insane willpower and incredible productivity skills. They are normal people who understood the importance of the small seemingly insignificant daily disciplines. They understood how these disciplines leveraged with time could make them unstoppableThe Slight Edge is a great book that I highly recommend everyone to read, for the sake of reading, even though the thesis is an extremely simple one that boils down to one idea: do the small things everyday that you know are good for you. It’s the compounding interest principle for your SMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/18 01:07 AM |
| -5 | Seduce her with your eyes!Exactly what he said dude. Nothing to elaborate. | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 03:43 AM |
| 1 | I think I just fucked up my chances.LOL come on now | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Finally: the Red Pill disillusionment with women. How do I go about finding a personal MISSION?Sounds like a plan | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | I think I just fucked up my chances.True which is why I just took it as it and left. But let me emphasize, I literally did not allow her a second to breathe between "I cannot" and "k see ya around" for her to say anything else such as, "But..." Because, ya know, she could have been interested but had plans. But like I said, it's whatever. I'll wake up tomorrow. And there's thousands of more girls to talk to. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 06:55 AM |
| 1 | I think I just fucked up my chances.No, I’m being serious. I asked her specifically “let’s grab drinks tomorrow”. She said “I cannot” and I literally said “k see ya around” without giving her room to say anything else or finding out if that was an I can’t for tomorrow night or I can’t in general. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 06:43 AM |
| 1 | I think I just fucked up my chances.Dude we’re all learning. I asked her for drinks and she said she can’t. I said “cool see ya around” and high tailed it out of there. I could’ve been smoother and been like, “is that just tomorrow or you seeing someone or what?” But hey at least I put myself out there. Baby steps. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 05:54 AM |
| 1 | What's going on here with this girl - Pt2This might’ve been the greatest way I’ve ever seen someone fuck up such an easy thing. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 05:52 AM |
| 1 | You look like my ex-boyfriend“Hmmm... looks like you have good taste. Let’s grab a drink.” | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 05:42 AM |
| 11 | I think I just fucked up my chances.The fuck is wrong with you. She reacted positively and you don’t think you have a chance? Anyway I asked a girl out tonight and she said no. I will wake up tomorrow and life will move on. Whatever it is it’s whatever dude. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 05:41 AM |
| 0 | Finally: the Red Pill disillusionment with women. How do I go about finding a personal MISSION?LOL You’re just bad at what you do buddy, sorry. Source: made very significant returns in my account this past week by playing what the market gave me. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 05:39 AM |
| 3 | What's going on here with this girl - Pt2Holy fuck what the fuck is wrong with you Literally all you had to say was “yes” Instead you showed her you’re a completely inept human being. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 02:41 PM |
| 4 | Should I wish a plate a "happy birthday"?If you’re busy, you’re busy. She’s a plate and it doesn’t look like you care to invest at all in her. “Happy bday sorry I can’t make it u free xyz date?” You ghosting her ass on purpose for a reason? This shit isn’t that complicated. If you just want to keep her at plate, why do you care about any shit storms? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 04:42 AM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl tries to make you jealous?“K” change subject talk to other girls | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 04:37 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck is going on with this HB10Exactly what you just told us. EDIT: literally “Hey np but I made diff plans tomorrow. I’m free [new date in the future] for [whatever you were planning to do]” Srsly. Impress into her if you’re going to be flakey, back of the line with you. If she likes you, she’ll shape up. If she doesn’t, new girl. EDIT 2: Holy motherfucking shit dude I reread your OP. NEVER say this to a girl “yeah same plans or you wanna do something else.” No wonder she’s flaking your ass. ALWAYS have a plan. Even if it’s … | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 04:26 AM |
| 4 | What's going on here with this girl - Pt2Dude. Quit sperging out. You: “Sry need to cancel Friday forgot friends bday” Her: “np we still down tmrw?” You: “yah” Literally all that happened. NOTHING to read into besides she’s a chill chick. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Help with my pornography addiction (18M)Fun fact - your body isn’t craving the porn. It’s craving the dopamine. I’m in the process of quitting smoking (again) and had a craving the other night. After driving myself crazy for 15 minutes, I did some Redditing. Bam. Craving gone. Now you can argue I’m replacing one dopamine addiction with another. But to that I say I’m quitting smoking, porn and video games in one go - you can fuck off and let me have my Reddit and I’ll deal with that in 3 months. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 04:11 AM |
| 4 | Help with my pornography addiction (18M)The fuck does it matter. Some do and some don’t. I’ve done hard mode NoFap, nofap with sex, and currently I’m on a no porn with occasional fap and sex streak. Depending on where you’re at you need different things. I think I just need to get rid of porn and limit jacking off and I’m good. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 04:06 AM |
| 3 | Old plate still sending nudes from across the countryYou found a hottie in Bumfuck, USA. You got a job in presumably Somewheresville, USA. Hottie wants to get out of Bumfuck, USA, and she sees you as her golden ticket. Or atleast a bed to sleep in for 3-6 months once she convinces you to let her move in. That being said, I see nothing wrong with being entertained by girls sending you naked pics. Hell, tell her to visit one weekend if your emotions can handle it. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 01:34 AM |
| 1 | STOTD - I like big strong men“Me too.” change subject | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Inexperienced (possibly virgin) prospect. How to proceed?Of my menu: I dropped one plate cause she told me she’s moving in two months, so fuck it. I need to spend investment elsewhere. I cut things off today with another girl because she didn’t fuck me after 3 dates. (Also, other reasons told me she wasn’t completely into me.) Girl I just hooked up with may or may not turn into a new plate. She has a weird thing going on. As far as I’m concerned, I have absolutely nothing for dinner right now. I need to go hunting. BUT It is always better to have noth… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 05:21 AM |
| -1 | STOTD - I don't like to give out my numberI don’t understand the downvotes, you’re 110% right. AFAIC this really isn’t a shit test. Dude if she likes you she’ll give you her number. Even better, put your number in her phone. Wait for her to text. If she doesn’t, then she really wasn’t interested. Onto the next one. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 12:13 AM |
| 1 | INFP personality typeINTP here. This so true. Yes I will always want my “me” time. And I over analyze everything. And I like my really deep thoughts. And I’m terrible at keeping structure. That’s about all that says about me. I do what I want otherwise and act how I want. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 12:06 AM |
| 52 | My girlfriend just admitted to me that she wants me to basically rape her when she is sleeping because it turns her on, what does this mean about her?This is universal. They all crave to submit to a strong man. This is just one of the forms. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/18 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Is lifting a good idea for men with feminine / babyfaces that can't grow beards? Isn't it obvious overcompensation?If you’re doing the same thing without success, maybe it’s time for some deep introspection into what is actually the issue. (And no, the answer is not your muscles.) Be yourself is the ultimate catch 22. That’s all women want - be yourself. You’ll either click or you won’t. If you don’t, you move onto the next one. The catch 22 is if being yourself isn’t an attractive person, then that’s what you need to work on. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/18 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Is lifting a good idea for men with feminine / babyfaces that can't grow beards? Isn't it obvious overcompensation?Jesus dude who the fuck cares about Chad. Are you going to swear off women because you don’t have a perfect face? Physically you’re in a better place than I’ll ever be. Does that mean I’m going to throw in the towel and call it quits? No I’m going to create the best version of myself and find the girls who buy into that guy. If you have this much doubt about yourself, you are definitely not confidently approaching women. If you’re doing things “by the book” then you could very well be kind of bo… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Is lifting a good idea for men with feminine / babyfaces that can't grow beards? Isn't it obvious overcompensation?Women like muscles like men like hot girls. The middle of my post was tongue in cheek. Her: “You just lift cause you have a baby face” You: “That’s Mr. Babyface to you sweetheart.” It’s all your game and mentality buddy. Idk what’s wrong with it, but there’s something you’re crucially missing. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/18 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Is lifting a good idea for men with feminine / babyfaces that can't grow beards? Isn't it obvious overcompensation?If you’re hamstering this hard about being jacked, there’s your explanation for why women are turned off by you. Lifting compensates for height and masculinity. Sports cars and money compensate for a tiny dick. /yawn Or I just like lifting, sports car and money. If you don’t like my tiny dick then you can fuck off. Let the women hamster whatever the fuck they’re going to hamster. You do you. And improve your game. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/18 09:20 PM |
| 0 | Whiskey Dick and it’s prevalence.Lay off the porn and masturbation. I use to get horrible, horrible whiskey dick no matter what. It was literally one drink between fucking like a rockstar and not feeling anything. First time I went nofap, I had nothing until something like day 30. Then on day 30, I get a date with a HB6. Nothing special, but cool girl. We drink metric shitton of whiskey all night. Get back to my place, expecting nothing to happen. SURPRISE. I fuck her like a stallion. I keep up the nofap for another month solid… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/18 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Bar game: Being overtly sexual off the bat/u/3d_truth here's an example - this isn't a flirting example, but it's recent and does an amazing job of showcasing the reactions you'll get when you're truly self-amusing. At work, this girl I've been working with calls me over and says she's got a couple questions for me. I walk over, and she goes, "okay, give me two seconds." I've already built up some rapport with her over the past two months, and I'm just being me here. So I go, "one one-thousand..." She giggles. Girl next to her stares at… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/18 05:13 AM |
| 4 | What's your go to line when a girl calls you an asshole?Came here for this. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 06:58 AM |
| 120 | Shit test: your flirting game is weak“Thanks for the feedback, you’re my warm up girl” | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 03:07 AM |
| 17 | STOTD - I could out drink you, any dayDepending how the interaction has gone: “Careful, you might end up doing something you’ll regret, like going home with me” | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 12:10 AM |
| 9 | Join a frat or focus on personal growth?Also to add, it’s setting yourself up for social success outside of college. The hardest thing to do is to make new friends once you graduate. Coming out of college with a social circle of cool guys and hot girls sets yourself up for success socially as opposed to building it from scratch. Source: graduated with a mediocre social circle, tore it down and currently rebuilding. It’s not easy. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/18 06:12 PM |
| 20 | Join a frat or focus on personal growth?There’s nothing else like a top-tier frat. If they’re really the top house, this is a once in a lifetime opportunity you’d be an idiot to pass up. Greek life is designed for maximum scantily clad girls parading around your house. Not only that, but general fuckery with your bros is a social opportunity that you’ll never be able to replicate outside of these precious couple years. You need to move on campus and pledge. Then get your time management in order. Remember, TRP is about sexual strategy… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/18 06:08 PM |
| 2 | How to lose a girl's attentionI’ve blocked girls numbers before who turned out to be “fuck I shouldn’t do that again” | /r/askTRP | 27/01/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Advice for a 21 year old short, babyfaced, facial hairless, socially anxious introverted Asian man in the USA to become more masculine, be taken more seriously and respected more by men and women?Yeah... 21 year old girls are fickle creatures. Wouldn’t put much stock into what they think as much as you want to bang them. It’s difficult, I know, but trust me on this. So long story short you’re on a good path. You’re going to have to sacrifice some of the “fun” that other 21 year olds are having but you’re going to be setting yourself up for success years down the road. Remember, women want a man who other men respect. What earns other men’s respect? “Do I like you and are you good at what… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/18 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Should I call out every little thing I do to impress my boss?Short answer: You coworkers can fuck off. You will most likely be fired or find a new job within the next two years, so kick ass much ass as possible, network your ass off, and deal with the cards as they lie. Long answer: No, not every company and job is like this. A lot are. Two people can have vastly different experiences at the same company because of their manager. I've worked at shitty places and great places. Great places are fewer and far between but they exist, especially if you provide… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 11:49 PM |
| 2 | My female coworkers keep telling me my wife should stop being a house wife.Honestly the ideal, IMO, would be a girl who volunteers instead of works. (You are bringing home five metric shittons of cash, right?) She cooks, cleans, keeps herself busy, and keeps out of harms way from “misery.” | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Second 'date' activity after already banging?So you live a pretty fulfilling life it looks like. The didn’t come across in your OP. I thought it was “omg what do I do to keep this girl interested in me.” So yeah, in your case just find something, anything cool to do and tell her “we’re going on an adventure.” | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Second 'date' activity after already banging?What do you do with your life that isn’t drinking? Do that with her. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 02:17 PM |
| 3 | To successful nofap rebooters: should i fuck girls before the first 30 days or just wait it out?If your dick works go for it. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Is this ONE thing really a turn off for women?Buddy there’s a difference between “oh I see how that could be misconstrued” dumb question and “OP clearly hasn’t read the side bar” that is completely frowned upon dumb question. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Is this ONE thing really a turn off for women?Of all the dumb fucking questions But I'm going to help you out here. "Yeah so many guys just don't get it ya know. It's not rocket science. Look a girl in the eyes, feel it out, and if there's there just fucking kiss her. So I'm reading what other guys are saying because I've been working on my own advice - ya know I've been playing around with the idea of being a dating coach on the side." Her: “lol really what makes you think you can be a dating coach” You: “Well bagged you didn’t I?” Game. S… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Do you tell your LTR that you lost your jobIt's a coin flip how she'll react. It's also your frame and SMV difference. I dated a girl who I had a couple points on the SMV scale while I was unemployed. She doted on me, cooked for me, paid for me, tried to help with my job search, and blew me like a champ. There are also girls who fuck unemployed drug dealers on the reg. So yeah. Who the fuck knows. If a girl is going to ditch me because I'm down and out momentarily then fuck her. Onto the next one. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Best friend choosing his girlfriend's birthday over mine (tell me if i'm being a bitch)Lol. Every answer in here is awful. So homegirl is probably doing it to fuck with your friend (and possibly your friendship, who knows, girls can be cray cray) You can't hate on homeboy because he's plugged in, and doesn't want to lose his pussy access. You gonna be a bro and let him keep his pussy, or a bro-hater and hate on him for choosing some choice pussy? So what you do is this: "Aight man that's fucking ridic. She totally switch shit up to fuck with you and make you choose. But you know w… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Working in an environment full of women feels uninspiring. Advice ?Yeah. Take the lead, own the project, own their shit, give them little tasks to do, follow up and make sure they're doing it, then try to bang one (or all) of them when it's over. Girls love a man in charge. (Hence why a girl attracted to their boss is a thing) Teaching isn't exactly a route for the "you-go-girl" overachiever types. Expect nothing. You're responsible for yourself. Do 90% of the work, divvy out the other 10% of the meaningless shit. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 02:57 AM |
| 1 | What to say if a girl complains about being single"Oh let's hook you up. How about that one?" points at a homeless guy "Well Jenny, guys don't like it when you talk about your 17 cats" You: "Hmmm... Well how bout you join us. My bed is plenty big." Your girlfriend: "What? No is isnt" slap You: /laughs Or seriously, just wing for her until she either finds a guy or shuts the fuck up. Literally, introduce every guy at the bar to her. She'll either find someone, or she'll stop bitching because she realizes what it's going to get her - you incessan… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Second 'date' activity after already banging?Why? Don't get me wrong - I love doing shit out and about with pretty girls who want to fuck me. But why force yourself to? If you're asking what to do - this isn't clearly your natural habitat. You're not naturally out at 8 PM doing cool shit with other people. Now you're trying to force it with her instead of saying, "8 PM. My place. Red wine. Wear something sexy." You honestly rather force yourself to do something with her, than to get her naked and roll about in bed for a couple hours? Come … | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Can you tell a girl you think she’s attractive/pretty?Girls love the idea of a man who can't resist himself at the sight of her, who will take her on the spot, dominate her and use her as he pleases. You did already qualify this, but I want to qualify it again. This only works if the girl already wants to fuck you. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Can you tell a girl you think she’s attractive/pretty?What /u/htbf said with these potential applications: Situation A: Her: "Does my ass look fat in this?" Right: "Of course it does" Wrong: "No baby your ass is perfect" Situation B: Any other time that she's not fishing for a compliment, such as sexy-times or randomly if you pull her in and grab her ass. "Goddamn I can't get enough of your ass baby" Simply, it should come from your frame because she either A: earned it because she's doing something for you (e.g. dressing sexy for you), or B: rando… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Datig a sorority girl, am I being cucked?Cause you’re way too fucking attached to her | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Datig a sorority girl, am I being cucked?Yeah... I just saw this after I replied. You need to hard next this girl. Also you’re trying to believe her words at face value. Which a: is usually a folly in and of itself but more importantly B: it doesn’t matter what did or didn’t happen and she could very well have zero fucking idea what did happen. Listen to her ACTIONS. She got black out drunk and woke up with another dudes shirt on. Here, let me say this again. She got black out drunk and woke up with another dudes shirt on. And you give… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Datig a sorority girl, am I being cucked?Oneitis? Yup. Story time - girl I’m fucking texted me tonight “omg I staying at an Airbnb with a guy who has your name.” (My name is unique). My response? “I won’t judge. He’s probably a pretty handsome dude.” She’s gonna do whatever she’s going to do. soft next her beta for being in a relationship with a sorority girl? Yeah especially if you’re not out getting drunk with other girls mistake to continue dating? Yup. Soft next her. I’ve dated sorostitues. I’ve also been a frat star. It’s the life… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 04:50 AM |
| 2 | So my grandma just diedIt is not only human, but it is masculine to express emotions as you’re feeling them appropriately. You: “my gma died” Her: “omg are you ok” You: “idk... she was awesome” Her: “omg let me take care of you” Remember, women want to take care of a man. It’s in their DNA to nurture. But remember - handle your emotions appropriately and maturely. It’s okay to cry once or twice. But then you move on with your life. It’s not okay to become a depressed alcoholic for three months. If your LTR shames you … | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 04:41 AM |
| 15 | Found the Red Pill Mega Book Collection. There are so many. Need advice on what books (maybe 10 or so) to read in order.I like this list with a couple caveats. NNMNG only depending on the frame he’s coming from. I’d then go Book of Pook first, since that encompasses honestly everything you need. If he wants to continue I’d recommend way of the superior man, followed by rational male The rest then in any order if he’s interested Remember - the key is in the last sentence “if he’s interested.” You can’t force ideas on people. They either have to seek the ideas themselves or you have to lead the fish to water - you … | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 04:27 AM |
| 6 | Building Power - The brainstormWhy do you think you can only accomplish this in college, aside from the fraternity - which there are other social/professional clubs that could act in place. Everything else can be found through intramural groups or meetups or say rock climbing gyms. You do live in a large, populous city that provide all these things, right? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/18 05:38 PM |
| 5 | Intrasexual Competition and the Strong Independent Woman. "That women are the gatekeepers of sex but men are the gatekeepers of commitment is incomplete. More accurately men are the gatekeepers of investment, a category which includes commitment."Would a girl ever feel bad for using a beta for dinner? Also, I did this, no regrets. She broke it off because she knew she wasn't going to get what she wanted out of me. I just enjoyed the ride. I wouldn't rely on it though - I most certainly wouldn't look for that situation now. I took advantage of a good thing when I was going through a rough patch. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/18 07:21 AM |
| 6 | I should be proud but I'm so fucking conflicted right now...LOL So you know that whole thing about women trade sex for resources. Resources, in this case, your commitment and a relationship. And then you didn't lay her until date 3 - which gives off strong relationship signals. And then you tell her no relationship. And then she tells you "I didn't want to miss my chance." And you tell her no relationship. And you're asking why she's distant. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 06:33 AM |
| 2 | I should be proud but I'm so fucking conflicted right now...Where are you getting off thinking she cheated on you with an "alpha" If this girl is as precious as you claim (which living with an ex would be a red flag here), sounds like you fucked something up along the way - comfort test maybe? What's your end-game here buddy? She flat out tells you in the beginning that she wants a title, and you say no, I want to spin plates (or whatever). Like what's she going to do? She's going to nope out of there. You didn't even dangle a carrot on a stick for her. … | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Slow responses from potential plate.Don't take a girl you've never met before out for sushi. Dates are for girlfriends. Girls who you've never met are going to respond super slow/minimally if they have anything going on in their lives, because they have absolutely zero investment in you. Girl I fucked a couple days ago hasn't responded me in two days. She's also on the rag right now, and then is going on a little work trip. This is how many fucks I give right now. She'll come texting back. If she doesn't, then clearly she wasn't t… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Tired of being a pushover - is TRP right for me?I agree with you except for a couple semantic points - but these points are important. If you tell someone to become superior and dominant than others, that’s going to develop an outward arrogance which will hurt themselves when interacting with others. Instead, focus inward towards becoming the best version of yourself. You will develop that assured confidence in yourself which will naturally emanate in your interactions with others. This is a much more powerful way to attain that leadership wh… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 05:08 AM |
| 2 | How to flush out blue pill conditioning?Cut out the porn, masturbation, and video games. Report back in 6 months. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 01:44 AM |
| 12 | Building Power - The brainstormTo me it is as alien as the idea that you would need to take a lion out and teach it to kill and eat prey. Yes - and I'm an unfortunate perfect example of this. Being a man didn't come naturally to me for a variety of reasons (amongst, porn and video games which I will be on my soap box for the rest of my life about). Therefore I never really fit in socially with anyone. The remaining couple of friends I was left with did nothing but get too high and drunk to function in society while caring abo… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/18 01:24 AM |
| 4 | Building Power - The brainstormI love the fact that you shut down posting for this week. I actually came back and visited more than my "once-a-week let's check the top posts." Once you get to the point of "okay, I've read enough, I know what I need to do, now I just need to do it", the main page is generally pointless drivel posted by those who feel that they have a great insight when deep down under they really just want those scarce e-points. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/18 01:10 AM |
| 5 | Building Power - The brainstormIt's funny to see you downvoted when you couldn't be more right. "Well... well since you won't let me play with you, I'm going to build my own fort and build my own friends!" There's way too many escaped mental patients in here for me to ever consider meeting up with any group related to TRP, aside from a couple of the ECs/vanguards/seniors whose writings resonate with me. However, I would support ways of strengthening the underlying TRP network since we are at risk of Reddit pulling the plug at… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/18 01:01 AM |
| -1 | Estrogen in cows milk, better to switch to soy milk?Only two? Weak. I promise the infidels five for one. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 12:17 AM |
| 5 | How can I embrace my sexualityDon’t. No one has to make overtly sexual remarks to bang a girl. Your sexual frame comes from your masculinity. How you look at a girl, the tone which you talk to a girl. Touching her the right way at the right time. You DO have a confidence problem because this should come naturally to you. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Tired of being a pushover - is TRP right for me?Figure out what you want out of life then self-discipline yourself to get there. Regardless, you life should also consist of lifting, meditation, no porn, no video games, and no jacking off. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Tired of being a pushover - is TRP right for me?This is a horribly toxic frame to develop. Am I objectively better than most men? Yes. But that’s because I’m choosing to fill my life with more things than simply beer and sportsball. But you know who’s the most fun guy to shoot the shit with at work? Outgoing beer and sportsball guy. The frame OP should develop should simply be “the best version of himself.” | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 12:00 AM |
| 1 | How to put girls to work for youOnly time I rather be the boyfriend in this case. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 03:37 AM |
| 17 | Any suggestions if you're standing behind a cute girl in line, you sense the eye contact, IOIs, etc, but the situation is difficult without coming across too creepy. Any suggestions besides don't do it?LOL. Can't believe someone asked. Something about pregnant wife wanted chicken, but he wanted beef, so of course he got the chicken, but he got one short rib for himself. No idea how to cook it though - this was at like 6 or 7 PM. I was thinking "aren't short ribs something you usually braise or slow cook for hours?" Wished him the best of luck with his cooking endeavors and went on with life. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Not a big party guy, met a rather unique girl; looking to make use of what she can offer outside of sexAye, thanks - it's what feels "right" to me as I've been going down my journey. She got away because "reforming-beta-with-promise" at the time. Did some beta-ass shit, handled some situations awkwardly, and then assumed myself out of the game (whether or not I actually was at that point in time). | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Young with a teeny bit of money- thought on trying cryptocurrency? Maybe just index funds?Do what /u/SuperCrazy07 said if you really want to play in the markets. I wouldn't suggest that though. You probably will end up losing all your money because you want to trade more. Read the books that the finance subreddits suggest - stocks, investing, options. Crypto could very well/probably will be a thing, but you have a better chance of losing all your money than making it. Story time: Joe Kennedy - JFK's dad - sold out of the market right below the 1929 crash. Why? He was getting stock ad… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 03:09 AM |
| 9 | Advice for a young red pillerStop the porn, jacking off, and video games. Hit the gym. Be more social. Followed closely by everything /u/SirKolbath and /u/fnordsnord said. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Not a big party guy, met a rather unique girl; looking to make use of what she can offer outside of sexNo, really, be yourself. Your current mindset is toxic. Story time: My unicorn, the-one-who-got-away, was this girl. She knew everyone, could talk to everyone, every guy within city limits wanted to fuck her. (How I fucked her is still a mystery to me, but I'm not complaining). She offered SO MUCH SHIT TO ME without even asking. For example, we worked for the same company (the only time in history this didn't blow up in my face), and talking about moving around and up the ladder, she offered alo… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Losing every girl i go out on dates withJesus fuck. Guess I will stop worrying about girls then and just watch porn until i get more friends and start going to parties. Porn is going to make your situation worse. I have a receding hairline though, maybe that's what's causing it? Well it's definitely not helping, but I don't think that's your biggest issue. (Although maybe look into the bald look) I know a guy like that (he's pretty chadly imo) and he seems like a nice dude and asked him if he knew of any parties. He said he didn't. Ma… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 02:44 AM |
| 0 | Not a big party guy, met a rather unique girl; looking to make use of what she can offer outside of sexI'll one up you. Invite her for a drink, then act like gasp yourself. She either like you or she doesn't. If she likes you, /u/night-addict, then she'll invite you to come with wherever she's going. Whether she likes you as a romantic interest or friend is up in the air. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Not a big party guy, met a rather unique girl; looking to make use of what she can offer outside of sexWhenever I hear these lines typed out, my cringe detector flies off the charts. Then I remember I literally just said the same thing to a girl on Sunday and fucked her after. No friend though :( I think it comes down to, if you're asking for specific lines, you need to develop the right frame first. Because just tossing out lines is going to come off horribly. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Losing every girl i go out on dates withYou made out with her right in front of everyone? Damn man that's impressive. This is going to be really harsh, but listen up: You're a straight up loser right now, and before you worry about girls, you need to get that shit in check. Why do I say this? Everyone in college - including the nerdy aerospace engineer who's married to an ugly fat chick right now (seriously, I just saw the wedding pics), at one point made out with someone in the middle of a party in front of everyone. That. Is. 110%. … | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Losing every girl i go out on dates withWhat am I supposed to be doing? How am else am I supposed to hang out with girls if not 1-on-1 dates? You're suppose to hook up with them at parties (or late night having a smoke with one outside the art building if you're into those kind of chicks), and worry about the hanging out (re: fucking more) when they start blowing up your phone to hang out with you. I study hard. Working on getting jacked (working with powerlifting coach). Have a few friends, but not many. Never get invited to parties.… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Losing every girl i go out on dates withStop trying and stop caring. Classes? You're in college? Study, get jacked, make friends, join clubs, party. If you're resorting to cold approaching random girls sitting on benches, you're doing college wrong. Don't fucking take girls out on 1-on-1 dates. It's college. Dates are for girlfriends - not a coed you just sat down next to in class for the first time ever. To address some specific questions of yours: I am not sure how fast to escalate (though I try to escalate), If it feels weird to yo… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 01:36 AM |
| 32 | Any suggestions if you're standing behind a cute girl in line, you sense the eye contact, IOIs, etc, but the situation is difficult without coming across too creepy. Any suggestions besides don't do it?It's only creepy to you because you don't naturally engage the world around you. For example, last week I was at the butcher counter, and some guy was buying exactly one short rib. I thought that was pretty odd, so I struck up a conversation with him. Engage the world and engaging girls will come second nature to you. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 01:20 AM |
| 5 | Any suggestions if you're standing behind a cute girl in line, you sense the eye contact, IOIs, etc, but the situation is difficult without coming across too creepy. Any suggestions besides don't do it?Totally man. "Hey, looks like you're cooking Italian tonight." smacks ass /sigh Why are you discounting his advice when you have never tried it? EDIT: Also, along this vein, since you clearly know best, have you ever tried telling the girl, "Hey, wait up a second while I check out." | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 01:16 AM |
| 2 | My last big issue: EXTREME negative-self talk. Any resource to deal with it?Yeah man like I said - of all the shit I've done to rewire my head, I'll be honest I think this is the absolutely silliest. Yet I believe it's a piece of the puzzle. Since it's being loped in with everything else I'm doing, I have no evidence to show that it doesn't work. So go for it. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 05:18 AM |
| 3 | My last big issue: EXTREME negative-self talk. Any resource to deal with it?So I’m a fan of Brent Smith’s take on this - I think the concept is rooted from Tony Robbins but anyway... Whatever you think reality is a lie. How you interpret reality versus what is reality are completely different things. So you’re lying to yourself to begin with. All this negative self-talk is a lie. You’re telling yourself all this negative shit. And it’s a vicious feedback loop, isn’t it. So why not start lying to yourself, but for good? Tell yourself you’re the shit, happy, awesome, girl… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 05:06 AM |
| 1 | My last big issue: EXTREME negative-self talk. Any resource to deal with it?Don’t look at porn for the next 90 days. Don’t orgasm unless a girl (or guy if that’s your thing I’m not judging) is the one getting you off. Come back and tell me you don’t feel like a different man. You won’t. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 05:00 AM |
| 4 | My last big issue: EXTREME negative-self talk. Any resource to deal with it?People don’t realize the profound effect porn and masturbation has until they find the balls to cut it out. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Do I look like shit in front of my crush if some other guy keeps teasing and making fun of me?He has two kids, no one would even guess that’s a sperglord thing at my office - just something his kids are into. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/18 06:54 PM |
| 1 | If you feel inadequate because of luck of success with womenAye thank you. I appreciate it. I’m just trying to lead by example. I’m not even close to being where I want to be. But I’m on the path. Everyone has all the info here to make their lives better. Clearly no one ever follows through with it. If they did, I wouldn’t have to yell as hard as I do. | /r/seduction | 07/01/18 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Do I look like shit in front of my crush if some other guy keeps teasing and making fun of me?If you have to ask, they’re laughing at you, not with you. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 06:12 PM |
| 2 | If you feel inadequate because of luck of success with womenI was a beta bitch to a cow of a girl for my first girlfriend. My second dumped me 2 days after I started my first job. “hey, I’m on the up and up why would a bitch let that go, right?” She even wrote me a card for Valentines Day about how she admires me and respects me for everything I am and yadda yadda. Dumps me two days later. Most of the things I’ve fucked were things I shouldn’t have been fcking off Tinder. Why would I care about validation from that? (To be fair I have pulled above my wei… | /r/seduction | 06/01/18 05:07 PM |
| 4 | If you feel inadequate because of luck of success with womenI can and I just did. You’re saying it can’t be done. I’m telling you I’m living life as such right now and feel amazing. My ex, earlier this year, who worked from home, said to me, “it would turn me on so much if you just came over in the middle of the day, fucked my face, came down my throat and left.” I never took her up on the offer. Why? Not that I didn’t want to or couldn’t take her up. My needs would’ve been clearly met. Things simply weren’t clicking right with me mentally. I care more a… | /r/seduction | 06/01/18 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Job market makes me feel hopelessI’d love to answer but it doesn’t really matter as pertains to your situation. My life is not yours, and vice versa. By grinding it out, I managed to be in the right place at the right time for something I did not expect to be doing. I made my own luck. By all accounts, my 20s have sucked for a number of reasons. But I don’t have quit in me and that’s how I’m here right now. And that’s something you need to do. Figure out what you like, what you’re good at and keep fighting. You might find somet… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Why not hamster into alpha bucks?No, TRP is the discussion of men’s sexual strategy. You’re the one who’s decided to try to turn life into a giant equation. Life doesn’t work like that. Yeah - to get technical - there’s an underlying science behind everything. But to understand and apply it - well that’s an art form. And you will run into a brick wall time and time again until you understand this. I don’t have a guess because I don’t know the guy and can’t speak to his character. If it was me, then all I know is that I’d start … | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 03:41 PM |
| 3 | If you feel inadequate because of luck of success with womenWhen did I ever say I was full hermit? My dick has been dry. That’s all. I’ve found life to be so much more fulfilling when I started to figure out what I really liked and wanted to do. For example, getting back into volleyball and playing 2-3x a week is the highlight of my week. I can’t wait for volleyball day to come around. It makes me so happy. If that’s the mindset you have, then girls should be the least of your worries. If you can’t figure out what satisfies you that doesn’t involve a wet… | /r/seduction | 06/01/18 03:27 PM |
| 0 | Why not hamster into alpha bucks?The only power a woman has over a man is drumroll absolutely fucking nothing. And that’s why it’s so incredibly satisfying to be a man. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Why not hamster into alpha bucks?No one fucking knows what’s going to happen because it isn’t some magical line in the sand equation. It’s dependent on what the guy is really about. Money is a force multiplier if you have game. Girls can’t hamster you into something if you don’t allow yourself to become that thing. “Beta bucks” only happens because guys think they have nothing to provide to girls except being a provider. So they throw money and dinners and shit and girls treat them as such. This whole question is bad and shows … | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 03:15 PM |
| 8 | Do I look like shit in front of my crush if some other guy keeps teasing and making fun of me?Holy shit. To put it bluntly, you’re weak as shit and you shouldn’t worry about girls until you get your shit straightened out. These aren’t your “friends” are they? Because if so, they’re not your friends. They’re people who tolerate you hanging around so they have something to make fun of. I’d recommend cutting them out of your life ASAP. Because guys bonds through fucking with each other. My friend tells me to eat a bag of dicks on a daily basis. (I also work with him) He switched my desktop … | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 03:07 PM |
| 7 | What happened when you fucked your plates friend?Fuck her friend, let the girls fight, and see what the fuck happens. If anything for your own enjoyment in the situation. If for anything else, turn to them both into plates. Get them to decide amongst themselves how to share you. I believe /u/VasiliyZaitzev has a great story about this. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 02:58 PM |
| 0 | Do girls really have higher n count than men? (read before disregarding)I’ll hit 100 by the time I’m 35, easy. I’m sitting around 60-70 at 28 right now. And most of those were from my more “sketchy” years, when I was not “high SMV” and just fucked a lot of shit off Tinder. If you’re a man who has his shit together who chooses to abstain from monogamy, it would be a challenge for you not to hit triple digits when all is said and done. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 02:50 PM |
| 2 | If you feel inadequate because of luck of success with womenWeak! Weak, weak, weak! You’re making so many excuses for yourself. You know why you felt better when you were having regular sex? Your needs were being met! That’s normal. Men are undersexed in general, so to have your needs met, you feel like a king, when that’s normal! You know how to become this “center of emotional stability” (d/b/a “cool guy who has his shit together”)? You stop giving a fuck about anything other than yourself. You stop chasing and seeking validation. I’m going through thi… | /r/seduction | 06/01/18 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Job market makes me feel hopelessWith that attitude fuck yeah you’re going to fail. I’m up to my neck in student loans for a degree I’m not really using. I’ve been fired twice. Worked miserable soul sucking jobs. Overworked underpaid. But by not quitting, being a persistent motherfucker, and figuring out what I’m good at - I’ve made some of my own luck and I’m on a path I’m more than happy with now, which will hopefully turn into me working for me in the next 10 year (damn well it better or it means I lost my path somewhere) | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Should I do monk mode?Funny thing about Myers-Briggs is that it’s an ever changing spectrum. I’ve identified and tested as an INTP for years. All my life even. As I cut out video games, porn, masturbation, and pick up social hobbies, my desire and ability to socialize and gasp be extroverted is increasing day by day. I’m probably still heavily on the introverted side of things. But come back to me in a year and ask me what’s going on. I bet you I’m going to have a completely different answer for you. Focus on yoursel… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Does suffering in silence ever make you snap?Not hard snap, but been short and snippy to people around me (work, friends, family) Just gotta get your shit in order, it fixes itself. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 02:02 AM |
| 2 | My redpilling experience so far, and questions on how to improve my lifeBuddy, not to be harsh but your story isn’t a special snowflake story. Hard next the girl. Never communicate with her again. (Side note - she’s manipulating you to make herself feel good, and you’re giving in because you want to get your dick wet.) If you can’t do this you might as well not even bother with anything else. Read the sidebar. Implement the sidebar. Report back in 6-12 months. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Good places to pick up girls solo?Build an interesting life full of hobbies and things to do. All of a sudden, where to find girls isn’t an issue anymore. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Having trouble with late nights outNothing good happens after 12 AM. Harder at your age, but if you get the IDGAF mentality down around this, you’ll be golden. I don’t want to be out late. No girl has ever complained about going home when I want to go. If they do, fuck them. They rather stay out than get some good dick from you. Their loss - move onto the next one. My ideal social life revolves around good friends, good girls, nice restaurants, a couple drinks and back to my place by 11-12 at the latest. If someone doesn’t find t… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 01:40 AM |
| 2 | TRPers that engage in casual sex, what do you do to prevent women from stealing your shit?Don’t pick up sketchy whores and stop being so paranoid. (If your spidey-sense is tingling, she’s probably a sketchy whore. Give your dick the night off.) Problem solved. This has never been a worry in my life. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 01:33 AM |
| 2 | I don't even like sex, how do I fix this?Oh man finally someone to relate to. First time I went NoFap, day 30 rolled around, met a girl, and I became a sex god. That girl had the best sex of her life with me. I ruined her. Hell I ruined myself it was that incredible. Never got past 60 days. I’m back on the train now, so we’ll see how the next months play out. /u/CoddOps stop jacking off too and see what happens. Yeah it sucks but no one ever said it’d be easy. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 01:30 AM |
| 5 | Height didn’t bother me too much until TRP. Can any of you relate?It’s okay, I’ve been there too. You know what’s easy? Look into a girls eyes and you can tell if she wants to fuck you or not. Easy way of weeding out girls who don’t want to regardless of the reason. And if they want to fuck you and shit test you, just look at them like they’re the dumbest person in the room. Them: “Omg you’re short!” You: glares “And.....?” | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 01:25 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys do to deal with restlessness/impatience/sadness/anxiety?In no particular order: Gym, volleyball, reading, meditating, morning journaling, making to-do lists, no porn, no masturbation, deleted ALL social media and dating apps, turned phone on do-not-disturb mode 24/7, eating healthy, making my bed every morning I’ve worked a long time to get to this point, but it feels like everything is clicking this week. I feel I’m slowly becoming a different person - effectively the person I’m capable of being - the best me. It’s the greatest feeling in the world. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Plate and body countGood response. The right response is anything that fucks around with the question. Fuck I don’t even know mine at this point. It would take me a week to figure it out. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 03:04 PM |
| 13 | Taking Command of the Night Can Be A Great Way to WingmanHave an upvote for being someone who gets it, who’s put in his work to get the most out of life. Good work - I hope to see more writings from you in the future. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Is Recreating Old Content Valuable?Why do you care if you’re original? No one’s original. I lift, play volleyball, study the markets. There are literally thousands of people like me. I’m just gonna fucking do it better than all them. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 01:06 AM |
| 1 | I cried twice while drunk. What the fuck is wrong with me or is it just the alcohol?Drinking magnifies your current true emotional state. I’ve been happy life of the party girls can’t get enough of me drunk. I’ve been sad depressed I don’t want to be around anyone within a 10 mike radius drunk. Therefore I only drink when I know the mood is right. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 12:08 AM |
| 2 | The penis is a cruel masterThis post really resonated with me at this time in my life. Two things: Milk for the babies, meat for the men. Are you insinuating that followers only ever get milk because leaders are only able to get meat for themselves? When you are ready for meat, you will be able to fetch it yourselves. Holy fucking shitsnacks scooby at the number of incels coming out of the woodwork. We’re put on this world to do two things: survive and reproduce. If you can’t enjoy and want hot naked girls in your bed, an… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/18 04:58 AM |
| 30 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaDude fucking chill. She’s your mother. If you’re not a dumbass, you can turn her your way. Source - my mom is beginning to see things through my eyes. If not, then who the fuck cares and do whatever you were going to do anyway. Why are you asking your mom for advice about girls anyway? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 04:06 AM |
| 3 | Affordable weight-gaining diet?Listen to this man. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Help with responseIf you’re going to do it, that’s the way to do it. Generally, guys probably rely too heavily on it. As long as you’ve banged >5 girls from approaching in life in that same time span (i.e. Tinder is truly a supplement to your game), keep on doing you. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 11:49 PM |
| 2 | I like a girl I hooked up with, what to do?You are exactly right. I’m a fan of the “let her reinitiate” frame. If she does, then she’s definitely interested. If you don’t hear back in a week or two after she’s back, feel free to hit her up. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Help with responseGet off Tinder. But since you’re not, call her out on something stereotypical she’s doing in her photos. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Should I tell my partner about my performance anxiety.Do you not understand the point of my comment? PIED isn’t the point. The point is I couldn’t get it up. My attitude was “shit happens.” That’s the only attitude you can have. | /r/seduction | 01/01/18 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Should I tell my partner about my performance anxiety.Porn induced erectile dysfunction. Visit yourbrainonporn.com | /r/seduction | 01/01/18 10:29 PM |
| 1 | FR: where did I go wrong?The point being, if you feel compelled to make an MS Paint drawing of the venue, you need to re-evaluate what you’re doing wrong in life. Because rest assured, MS Paint was never needed to pick up a girl. I know I’m coming off harsh, but seriously man, take a step back - not what happened last night - but with yourself, and figure out what’s going on in your head. You don’t need to make MS Paint drawings. Be better than MS Paint. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 10:25 PM |
| 33 | These girls have revealed to the general public what sedditors have long knownGet past the shit tests and she seems like she’s gonna be fun in bed. The feisty ones are always good in bed. Challenge accepted. | /r/seduction | 01/01/18 10:07 PM |
| 3 | What to do with this (HB8) who friend zoned me?Well it is going to come out of left field, no matter what. Probably isn’t going to work unless her friends told her you have a big dick. (Or is just horny and is willing to fuck her drug dealer) Next time she’s over make a move. Just do it. Anything. Be like “Come here.” Tell her “I want you.” Then kiss her. If she doesn’t want it, cut it off then. You do know how to delete a number and not respond to texts, right? | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | I dont understand how you're supposed to game a girl in a filled venue with music blasting in everyone's ears.If you had a newsletter, I would subscribe to it. I like your attitude. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 09:46 PM |
| 0 | FR: where did I go wrong?Well to start, you drew us an MS Paint drawing of the club. Why? | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 09:43 PM |
| 3 | While I took three dates and almost two weeks to bang my current gf...I dated a girl a while back. Sex on date 3. AND I had to do some shitty pursuing and logistical challenges. Ugh. (EDIT: And the shit tests. For not being a pro, I handled shit like a pro.) At the time, I was punching above my weight. But when the clothes finally came off, she proudly announced “I love lingerie and blow jobs” and eagerly took my whole cock in her mouth. She was fun. Inevitably lost her because back then (and still today) I was a “reforming beta with promise”. Where was I going wi… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Learning to disconnect from women?I’m in the same boat, and it’s a total “fake it till ya make it” thing. Hooked up with a girl last week. She’s been out of town for New Years. We left off at “I’ll text you when I’m back.” Haven’t heard since. Haven’t texted her. If it happens it happens. Plus if she follows through that means she’s genuinely interested. There’s something to be said for her to re-initiate. No, I haven’t been 100% genuinely busy and preoccupied. I’ve just kept my hands off my phone. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 09:08 PM |
| 0 | Should I tell my partner about my performance anxiety.One - don’t talk about it unless it happens in the moment. Don’t even think about it. If it happens it happens and go from there. Two - this totally happened to me last week. Took a girl home, nothing was working. Pretty much due to PIED. I handled it as such: “yeah... fucking porn. Shit happens.” As far as I know she’s down to play again. If she isn’t, oh well. There will be another one. | /r/seduction | 01/01/18 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Feeling socially isolated at 25. Any advice?Yes. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Feeling socially isolated at 25. Any advice?I'm pretty sure that's somewhere in the top 20 of "how to fix your life" in the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 08:01 PM |
| -3 | Buddy of mine starts flaking on me after finding a girlYou should REJOICE my friend! For your teaching brought this once beta into a land of slightly-less-beta-tude. You should be a proud master! Don't you remember the first time you entered the promised land and how you never wanted to leave? Let the young padawan enjoy the fruits of his labor, for even if you told him what weights to lift, it was still HIM who had to lift those weights. If he is a true disciple, eventually he will come back and show remorse for his actions. Then the master and the… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Should you find common interests with girls?I find the best common interest is to talk about my cock. How she can’t wait to touch it, how she’s going to please it, what I like, etc. etc. If it turns out that isn’t one of her interests, then you know not to bother with anything else. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 06:17 PM |
| 5 | I have no interest in other people. Has anyone here resolved that?Quit the porn and the video games. Pick up social hobbies. Report back in 6 months. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Where do you go to approach girls if you aren't interested in playing the bullshit online dating game or bars?Yeah you do sound like a bore and don’t like being around people. Quit the porn and the video games and see how your mindset changes. Worked wonders for me. Then pick up social hobbies and make friends. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here that's lost weight in a fairly quick fashion?Strict Paleo diet for a month. Shit worked like magic. Dropped like 15 pounds. I don’t fasting in the strictest sense. I look to eat all my foods within a 10-12 hour window for the day. Say breakfast at 9 so dinner no later than 7. No snacking after. How did I make gains? I lifted heavier weights. Who the fuck cares about game? You only want to lose weight to impress girls? This is your body. Keep being a lardass for the rest of your life. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 03:37 PM |
| 13 | Why is it that a girls will almost never date a short guy but wants men to date and "love" fat girls?I’ve banged girls who have been 6 inches shorter than me and 6 inches taller than me. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Feeling socially isolated at 25. Any advice?Just start. I know, I know. Just need to figure out how the fuck I can fit it consistently in my life. Unless you are on steroids though Been researching TRT, so that may be a thing. Tested 450 at a male clinic, doc's are more than happy to throw me on test + anastrozole + HCG. Haven't pulled the trigger yet, but seriously considering. and you won't have to do a single second of cardio anymore. I get enough cardio from keeping tempo in the gym and ~6 hours of volleyball per week. I would also be… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Feeling socially isolated at 25. Any advice?the problem is that the lack of likes is an indicator of my poor social life. If I have an amazing social life and no Facebook, does that mean I have a poor social life because I have no likes? Realize you are only one making this criteria. Girls live on social media and can't survive without validation. Guys who have their shit together don't, unless it's for their job. I do go to the gym, but I find it a bad place for making friends. It's a solo activity. And I quote, "Here's some examples fro… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Anyone here done a complete 180 since finding TRP, women-wise?Dude come to the states. 6’4 Australian - you’ll be hitting the land down under with 4 new girls a week. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 11:08 PM |
| 5 | Feeling socially isolated at 25. Any advice?I deleted my Facebook, so problem solved for worrying about how many likes you get. Jesus man, come on now. I've been long this problem too and I've been working on it. Get out of the house and start taking up hobbies. Here's some examples from a post of mine a couple days ago. Some are social, some aren't. Things I do every week religiously: Gym - 3-4x week Volleyball - 2-3x week Things I'm studying: The markets Just reading books in general Things I don't do enough of that I should do more of … | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Feeling socially isolated at 25. Any advice?BJJ has been on the back on my mind, but question for you: How hard is it on your body? I have aches and pains and stiff shit everywhere (shoulders, wrists, hamstrings, lower back, hips) from lifting and not mobilizing/yoga enough. My idea was to get that cleaned up before I start looking into BJJ. Thoughts? | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 10:49 PM |
| 3 | The Bell CurveTrue, but we're looking for the top 20% of a normal distribution based on the assumptions, which normalized on a 1-10 scales comes out to a ~7. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 07:04 PM |
| 23 | The Bell CurveJesus fuck. The answer is around a 7, but seriously man, get outside some more. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Instagram Game | Dos and donts?http://tagthesponsor.com Yup. All these girls aren't faking it at all. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 06:46 PM |
| 5 | Reminder: Neediness is THE Most Unattractive TraitIt’s okay to have a crush. That’s human. Hell I’m still crushing on a girl from years ago. But she’s out of my life and I’m out of hers and the only way to think is to look forward to the next one and not backwards. It’s okay to have emotions. Just don’t do stupid shit with them. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/17 05:44 PM |
| 1 | You will never outlift a bad dietYou can exercise and lift weights to overcome a poor diet if you already got the muscles I agree here. When I'm tuned in, I can eat anything and grow like a motherfucker. If I'm not tuned in, then the mirror starts to work against me. While that's fucking delicious, I don't know how you do that on a regular basis. I simply feel better when I eat healthy. But that's another discussion. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/17 04:54 AM |
| 2 | You will never outlift a bad dietThe problem here is you're comparing to professional athletes, therefore you can make the argument that we're talking about potential (probable) genetic freak cases. Which therefore can't be applied to the other 99.5% of us. Also the other 99.5% of us don't work out for a living, so our caloric needs aren't as drastic. Also the people arguing this aren't coming from a lifetime of physical activity. For example, you played football for at least 8 straight years, probably more dating back to a kid… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/17 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Girl comments on my height at a party"Would it make you feel more secure if I put on my heels?" I also LOVE /u/Self-honest's response. That's perfectly played. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 03:13 AM |
| 2 | I'm having trouble visualizing the man I want to be.Having been there, it's not something you can empathize with until you lived it. And everyone lives it. So you will eventually understand. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Short men of TRP, do you feel like your height has clipped your wings?"Would it make you feel more secure if I changed into my heels?" | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Short men of TRP, do you feel like your height has clipped your wings?I'm 5'8" if I wake up on the right side of the bed. I banged a chick who was 5'11 last night? Idk. Significantly taller. When she curled up next to me after she was like a little kitten. Height didn't matter then. Some girls will care, some girls won't. Shit happens. Think of it like this. Say you love football. That's who you are - your personality and everything destined you to love football. Girl absolutely shuts you the fuck down because she doesn't like football because all football players… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 03:05 AM |
| 1 | What advice would you give to someone who is looking for hobbies but can't seem to get interested in anything?I love this answer. Doesn't matter when you start it as long as you're doing you 110%. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 02:53 AM |
| 2 | What advice would you give to someone who is looking for hobbies but can't seem to get interested in anything?I started to learn snowboarding at 27. /shrugs IDGAF. It's fun and I never had the chance as a kid. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 02:52 AM |
| 1 | What advice would you give to someone who is looking for hobbies but can't seem to get interested in anything?I LOVE this question, because there's so many things to it. First off quit the porn, video games and TV. And smartphone. Not kidding - all that shit ruins your sense of fun (dopamine, etc., etc.). Once you get through a month of not looking at ANY of that shit, it's a night and day difference between what you find fun. Quit it, completely. No exceptions. Secondly, you can do ANYTHING! There's a metric shitton of great ideas already posted. My personal list: Things I do every week religiously: Gy… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 02:48 AM |
| 1 | I'm a 20 y/o male who has grown without a father and has low self esteem after looking in the mirrorMan, did you read his post? You seem big in tough love, which I can get behind most times. But this isn’t a case of “put down the twinkies and video games fatty.” What kind of mental frame would you have to be in to actively avoid mirrors for two years? Even at my lowest that wasn’t a thing. I can’t even imagine where he’s coming from. It’s not healthy. He needs to get back to a baseline of normal human before worrying about his place in the SMP. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/17 11:37 PM |
| 1 | I'm a 20 y/o male who has grown without a father and has low self esteem after looking in the mirrorThat’s not the point. There weren’t mirrors thousands of years ago for people to avoid. You actively avoided a part of normal, everyday life. Hell I’m staring at a reflection of myself in the train window right now (and who wouldn’t, I’m damn fine on the eyes). There’s nothing wrong with looking at yourself in a mirror. Zero. Zilch. Everyone looks in a mirror every day of their life. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/17 11:32 PM |
| 7 | I'm a 20 y/o male who has grown without a father and has low self esteem after looking in the mirrorYou’re not a man. You’re an 20 year old kid who is in an incredibly warped, negative emotional mental state. The good news - don’t be too hard on yourself. Up to this point, it’s not your fault. The bad news - from this point on, your mental well being is 100% dependent on you and you alone. That being said, your issues run incredibly deeper than what advice here will help you with. I would recommend talking to a professional counselor ASAP. It is not normal or healthy to avoid mirrors for two s… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Chad Thundercock Abdominals."I want a six-pack" or "I like my six-pack" or "The redhead last night had no complaints" | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 05:26 PM |
| 17 | Dangerous Times – Part 1It’s already having shitstorm potential. The reproductive rate for population growth has been in a downfall since the 70s in the US and it just hit below the number (2.1 kids per female IIRC) for sustainable population growth. Less people are having babies, less babies are being had by people who are having babies, and let’s be honest - the people who should be having babies are probably the ones who aren’t. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 04:29 PM |
| 6 | Club Fights - Is it worth it?Not true. Know a 6’7 260 former footballer player. Insecure twats tried to start shit with him all the time to “prove they are tough” They failed. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Got a MILF’s number. Wtf do I do?!Most posters already outlined shit here. My experiences are 41 @ 20, 33 @ 23 and more recently 33 @ 27. First was college, I don’t have any explanation there. Second I landed because when she asked “what do you want” on our first date, I said “I want to fuck you.” Third she pretty much did it all for me (I also messed that one up because going through weird awkward stage then) But yeah. They just want to fck. Being blunt has been effective for me. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Consequences of Modern Feminism for WomenMy pops was 58 when I was born. You’re not out of the running yet old man. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Tips For Maximizing Hormones and "Maleness" in Winter.I know there's some other D vitamins, but D3 is the relevant one (and the one referred to when talking about Vitamin D) | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/17 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Tips For Maximizing Hormones and "Maleness" in Winter.The daily reqs were created decades ago without much scientific backing behind them. Whatever the daily requirement is for D3 is much lower than it should be. Caveat, I haven't had my blood vitamin levels tested, but I take 5000 IU/day and I feel good on it (haven't seen any negative side effects) 1500 IU is most likely not nearly enough in my opinion. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/17 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Why getting a girlfriend could be the right thing to do if you never had oneYou approached this the wrong way at first, but almost come back to it at the end. (Also to nitpick, you can argue the alternative use of a pussy is to make a kid. Therefore, we can make the argument, in the spirit economic theory and scarcity, a pussy that has a kid in it is not available as a pussy to have sex with.[I'm not fucking a preggo, are you?] You can also argue, bigger picture, that alternative use of a pussy is cooking, cleaning, companionship, etc. There's certainly value for me in … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/17 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Is dating girls taller than you that difficult?5'8 on a good day chiming in here. I'm casually seeing a girl who's legit taller than me (5'10? 11? I don't know) Last week I ended up one-on-one with a coworker after a happy hour. She's 6' something easily. Luckily, I had to bounce to meet up with aforementioned girl, because, coworker, engaged might I add, gave me the hardest eye fuck I'd ever had the pleasure of receiving and asked me to grab one more drink. (Thank god I already had a reason to nope out of there) It's only a big deal if you … | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Work - Girl thought I'm talking smack about herUpdate: it’s A | /r/askTRP | 10/11/17 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Work - Girl thought I'm talking smack about herA. Meh - not surprised here. Thought this in the back of my head. B. Don’t worry, I have no desire to shit where I eat. Wasn’t sure how to handle it correctly - my thought process was “Check to see if there’s something on deck. Nothing on deck? Okay, ignore and proceed as normal.” | /r/askTRP | 10/11/17 01:23 PM |
| 2 | My job is slowly killing meThere’s a shitton of variables at play here. One, you could legitimately work in a toxic environment. I’ve been there. But that doesn’t sound so much the case. (Girls, gossip? Never.) It more sounds like you have too big of an ego and suck at socializing with people. I have dreams I’m working on, but I also work a 9-5 with people who are happy with what they’re doing and it provides for a (slightly above average given my industry) content life. There’s nothing fucking wrong with that. Most guys … | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 04:41 AM |
| 1 | How do you get past the lonely phase? How did you internalize all this shit and figure out who you are?What are you passionate about ? If you could be doing anything right now and we're to die from doing that, would you die with a fucking smile on your face ? Fuck me if I know. I wasted most of my life playing video games. Now I'm trying to live a more fulfilling life. But everything I'm doing I don't know if I'm doing it for me - because I genuinely like it, or because I think it'll get me something (friends, girls, a life, etc.) You don't know who you are ? What's your mission in life ? Right n… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 06:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you get past the lonely phase? How did you internalize all this shit and figure out who you are?I'm fine being alone with my own thoughts - hell I have no other choice. It's knowing that I have no social circle, no friends, no girls because I fucked up somewhere along the way, never developed real social skills, and fundamentally struggle with having fun and being carefree and making friends and connecting with people. I know guys have a myriad of more excuses to be out alone at night (business, friend picked up, friend got too drunk, etc.). But it's hard to sell myself that lie when I kno… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 02:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you get past the lonely phase? How did you internalize all this shit and figure out who you are?I lift, run, climb, play guitar, cook, play 3 (possibly four intramural sports), work 50 hours a week in my 9-5, and work on my side hustle, in addition to a voluminous bookcase. I'm sad I don't have more time because I really need to fit more yoga into my life as well. I'm not at a loss of things to occupy my time. I'm at a loss because I can go the whole week without getting a single text on my phone. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 07:48 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop dwelling on past rejections and mistakes?I’m going to totally internet quarterback here: Yeah being told to hang myself would probably definitely throw me off at my current point. But remember your training - it’s never about you, it’s her, and take literally everything she says with a grain of salt. You said her friend was “wtfing.” Turn to her friend and be like “playing hard to get I see. she always like this? Is this why you can’t have nice things? Her boyfriend just cheat on her and now all men are scum?” FWIW I am totally not tha… | /r/seduction | 07/10/17 06:10 PM |
| 4 | I masturbate once a month. Is that acceptable. Will I still get noFap benefits?As long as you stay off the porn, go for it. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 11:33 PM |
| 2 | How to hold sexual energy without losing my mind?Learn how to breathe correctly. Deep breathing is how you move energy throughout your body. Read "The Multi-Orgasmic Male" for more info. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 11:53 PM |
| 4 | The biggest problem is, Seddit and other places like it try to teach men to go from zero to hero with women but don't give any advice on building a quality social life first.Introvert here. Want to train me on reading body language? Anyway, I want to emphasize the difference between building a large social circle and building a solid social circle. You're right, keeping tabs on 20 people day in and day out would exhaust me. I'm looking for a couple guys who share my values and lifestyle and hit the town/do shit together a couple times a week. I hate the lone wolf fantasy. Maybe I can't get over myself (which is still a problem for me), but I feel that finding women … | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 06:39 PM |
| 5 | The biggest problem is, Seddit and other places like it try to teach men to go from zero to hero with women but don't give any advice on building a quality social life first.If you can find 2-3 guys who share your values and lifestyle, that's perfect. There's your core and build off it. | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 04:01 PM |
| 56 | The biggest problem is, Seddit and other places like it try to teach men to go from zero to hero with women but don't give any advice on building a quality social life first.This is my biggest gripe with PUA/TRP/etc. I believe my life will be richer if I build a solid social circle, it's what I'm focusing on building right now. If you build it, they will come. I want a rich life and that includes more than just hot girls. | /r/seduction | 23/09/17 10:52 PM |
| 1 | I just found out that im craving for external acceptance. I want to quit this bullshit.The second side of this.. start GIVING validation to others. Start GIVING unconditional validation, compassion, love and understanding to everything and everyone, no matter who they are or what they've done to you or yours. Watch your grudges disappear, watch the hatred sent your way dissolve, watch your feelings transform to those who have done you wrong and cheated you.. and watch your state of mind. This can lead to some dramatic changes in your mood. Watch it carefully, be mindful of these c… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/17 02:57 AM |
| 1 | I've seen it talked about a lot on TRP but no actionable advice on it, how do you build a life where hot girls come to you without you having to put the effort into chasing them?Don't get me wrong, I have nothing but admiration for musicians because of the dedication. I love music. I wish I would've stuck with guitar but /shrugs Now I'm focused on lifting, building my empire, building a social circle, and doing really cool shit. One day I'll find my pure joy. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 01:19 PM |
| 2 | I've seen it talked about a lot on TRP but no actionable advice on it, how do you build a life where hot girls come to you without you having to put the effort into chasing them?This is one of my biggest gripes with TRP. There seems to be a massive disconnect between theory and actually building/leading a social circle. Granted - this isn't necessarily setting yourself for girls to straight up chase you, but it puts you in a position of abundance, which we can all agree is the next best thing. Sorry u/VasiliyZaitzev, but in the immortal words of Adam Duritz, "We all want to be big stars, but we don't know why and we don't know how." Maybe one day I'll pick up my guitar … | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 04:08 AM |
| 3 | PIED?NoFap for a month followed by NoPorn for the rest of your life. Limit masturbation as much as possible after the month of NoFap. You'll be fine afterwards. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 01:20 AM |
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