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I am honestly not accepting that there are in my time and age people who just plain up say "women belong in the kitchen", without them being completely off the charts bonkers.
/r/MensRights06/03/24 08:24 AM
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This is typical. A respected and well composed voice repeats this talking points without any perspective, promoting the myth, that "women have it worse". This is a preposterous position, even if that were the case, we would we care, who has it worse? But if Gabor is saying it... it must be true and relevant :)
/r/MensRights04/03/24 01:14 PM
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Find copies of the texts and make police reports. I know it is a lot to ask, but the only way to clear the field. They will stop, once they are forced to go through the police way.
/r/MensRights01/03/24 01:56 PM
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we can safely assume that her divorce also produced a nice alimony, to which she adds "her own money".
/r/MensRights29/02/24 01:32 PM
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there is a paywall here, so I could not read the article, but I will state my subjective experience. I know many men that are being "let go" in divorces, that are often horrible for the men. In many of those cases, the guys were decent human beings (with the ocassional flaws), that were thrown under the bus. In many cases they never considered divorce because of loyalty or the consequences to the lives of themselves, spouces and children. It takes years to collect onesself from this often abusiv…
/r/MensRights29/02/24 11:28 AM
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if you advocate for that, you will instantly become a Pariah.
/r/MensRights29/02/24 11:00 AM
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meaning?
/r/MensRights28/02/24 03:55 PM
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Hey man, I don't know your situation (mainly, are there children involved?) and you are doing a good thing considering "economic sense" and not abrupt change. You are also a good man, by thinking that you don't want to kick her to the curb, despite narratives. You are however allowing yourself to be drawn down to the gutter. As your health declines with age, she will be using this power imbalance against you. You won't be getting the necessary health or psychological support, you will however be…
/r/MensRights28/02/24 12:44 PM
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you are missing the point. The "Orgasm Gap" has never been intended towards a discussion for creating an equally pleasurable environment for both partners in bed. This discussion would be including valid points such as: find partners who respect you and reject all others understand your needs communicate your needs help the needs of your partner, so that your partner can take care of you check your reproductive systems health, as a non orgasm may mean a lot about your Psyche, your hormones, your…
/r/MensRights28/02/24 12:10 PM
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The way I see it, they want to keep society running by keeping men engaged, while however enjoying the same rewards as men. A typical example of this is the push for equality in university admissions for universities, but not technical professions. they want men to keep falling in love and getting married, while they want to be exempt from any repercussions from destabilizing their marriage. ​ etc.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 10:21 AM
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actually the committee is not little unfortunately and they were not interested in any kind of doing things the right way. That sets up the committee to be overtaken by shitty people in the next elections. In a lack of system it takes just one bad actor to overtake things.
/r/MensRights22/02/24 02:06 PM
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Sure, but if you are brainwashed that it does not exist, because an underpriviledged minority is being unjustly accused of it as a means of societal control.... I don't know what an analogy would be here. I was just brainwashed and I notice that I am not the only one, as women of this type do enjoy this kind of immunity.
/r/MensRights22/02/24 11:18 AM
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I never thought that women cannot be toxic, they are human. But for a huge part of my life, I was not able to associate this typical "complicated, gossip, undermining doers, fake accusations" behavior with females. Is is sexist after all, right?
/r/MensRights22/02/24 11:04 AM
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Hey there, I can predict: I will go through until the next elections, doing absolutely nothing, using the social credits of the position. I have created the paperwork to save my ass, if legal ramifications hit the fan. Maybe I organise something on my own within the premises of the organisation. I will have finished my book within two months and started a personal project until June. All good and done.
/r/MensRights22/02/24 11:02 AM
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no no, I don't understand where you get that. They do it for them :)
/r/MensRights20/02/24 01:37 PM
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I have been a victim of that. I was abused by my wife for years (and I am still being abused by her in the post-divorce era). It was so bad, that I was contemplating suicide. If that would be my life from now on, it's not worth it, right? Part of the issue was, that NOONE around me would recognise what I was saying as abuse. I ended up not trusting my own self or my own memories. After all, how can this happen, if it is impossible to happen? My therapist at the time, a highly qualified individua…
/r/MensRights20/02/24 01:20 PM
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I feel appaled by having read this, but I could not stop. Something like a Jackass skit. I can't imagine how it felt experiencing it live.
/r/MensRights17/02/24 07:55 PM
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In my case it was fight sports in a good gym. I found an accepting community, "gym buddies", helped my body help my soul, developed a routine, that allowed me to have a proper alternative to a shitty date. In my case it was also related with "repgoramming", I had comnected that with everything that is wrong with the male nature and I had issues with violence, being on the receiving end a lot of times in my life. I did not become violent, but I stopped being afraid. Thank you coach - you saved me…
/r/MensRights16/02/24 12:25 PM
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"Reading your comment feels like having been raped" :)
/r/MensRights13/02/24 03:23 PM
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I choose to see this with a positive light: I thank those women for raising their flags on their own. I would not have known in the pre dating app era.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 03:21 PM
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there is a trove of research showing mental health professionals ignoring the plights of men. But still, so many focus on "men don't want to talk, because masculinity". What a travesty.
/r/MensRights08/02/24 10:00 AM
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first things first: find a therapist who can really support you, i.e. someone who does believe that a woman can abuse a man. plan next steps after, try to involve yourself in the life ot the child as much as possible.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 08:39 PM
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I’d rather it had been me than him. We most often don't choose our hardships in life. Again - many parents never acknowledge that and even go as far as to blame the child. You can focus on healing, that is your job now :)
/r/MensRights05/02/24 11:06 AM
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he is lucky to have at least one parent, that acknowledges this abuse. Many men have none.
/r/MensRights02/02/24 09:54 AM
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Kind of. I have avoided the bitter part.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 05:25 PM
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As if Greece haven't had their own tough crisis, when so many people found themselves in a difficult situation.
/r/MensRights01/02/24 05:25 PM
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You lose your circle. The reason is simple. If they cannot accept your facts, you cannot longer hang around with them. So a simple, let's get out for coffee, turns into an unspoken: Hey, do you accept that I was sexually abused or not? And since their answer is No, because they cannot accept the fact, that any man can be sexually abused, you cannot longer see them as people in your life. Other women find this to be a huge red flag. To some extend you lose friendships that were spanning decades p…
/r/MensRights30/01/24 09:11 AM
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Some atypical examples Spoilers Alert: Get Out 2017 - not exactly sexual violence, but coercion with use of sex.In the previews it was not understood that the perpetrator and mastermind was female, so tghey added a scene at the end, where sie is surrounded by her victims, scouting for her next one, drinking milk I think - you will need to find the reference though, I read it in a Movie Magasine, so not Manosphere stuff Disclosure 1994 - sexual coercion and fake charges, he is not being believed …
/r/MensRights29/01/24 12:27 PM
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Since we like talking about stereotypes, the corollary here is that they should be judged on household work traditionally done by men, like driving, taking the car for service, doing minor construction at home, defending against an intruder, and negotiating for major household services. Equality would mean equality in bullshit as well. PS: I would one-up that and have videos of them giving blowjobs for other men to provide input. Why keep it semi-decent in this quest for finding the absolute bot…
/r/MensRights28/01/24 02:57 PM
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Good men will find good women. Assholes marries cunt. Bad people end up with bad people. you are wrong. Bad people are quite talented in finding the good people who will serve them.
/r/MensRights28/01/24 02:25 PM
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To be precise, this is the exact point of the movie. Women should be getting a quota of the total mixed achievements, despite the effort they put in, just for the sake of being women. The achievements that can be somehow accounted to women themselves are not to be shared. The reason for this kind of achievement sharing is something called misogyny, that if you are not accepting or even questioning, you are a sexist yourself. That is all the movie wanted to say. If you want some more background o…
/r/MensRights28/01/24 01:46 PM
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It is laughable that such a statement is made. What do you mean by "ALWAYS"? Yes I would entertain the argument, that it could happen in a significant way, but this does not mean that every woman who walks in has this happening to her and that every man gets the right treatment every single time.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 10:47 AM
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This is a ridiculous argument all together. Countries are different from one another, and we are talking about society in here and now. A society, where we have the ability to legislate and control our behavior. Living in the UK and pretending to be a woman living in Iran or Afghanistan is an insult to all the people who are suffering in these countries, and also a cultural appropriation if you want to use this identiy politics vernacular. It is also an insult to her academic knowledge and tutor…
/r/MensRights17/01/24 05:24 PM
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It's not fair to my child that they live like nobility in one parent's house while living like a peasant in the other parent's house. That is the issue. It is not fair to you, as your life quality drops to the bottom. You have worse social/personal/health outcomes. It is not fair to the child as well, Your daughter is deprived of a great father and gets a good one instead. The processes are also not fair. Assuming an unbiased judge and judicial system, the fact that you need a huge nonrecoverabl…
/r/MensRights14/01/24 12:10 PM
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It does not matter what you define. There are official definitions and this is one of them. And knowing the facts, you can defend yourself, anytime one attaches this label on you.
/r/MensRights09/01/24 07:31 PM
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it's simple. Women can dress however they like, if however they don't promote their feminine side, they will not be benefiting from the attention feminine women get. They will go through life relatively unnoticed, like... eeerrm.... men. ewww.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 08:11 PM
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many commenters have said nice things and to the point. Here is my extention, about a common trap: oftentimes, the plights of being a man in modern society are being peddled by the wrong people, people who are women haters. Now, they may be saying some things that are in the right direction, things that are often not said by other mainstream voices. This however won't make their platform correct or improve their ethics. So you may identify with a specific argument, however you need not identify …
/r/MensRights08/01/24 01:16 PM
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let me explain some concepts here, that are partially true. Partial Truth 1: Child support is for the children, not for the mother. That is only partially true. Whereas the child has needs that are addressed directly to the child (ie costs for activities etc), the parent who receives support benefits from them. They have a bigger house with a bigger living room, amenities like a driver for the child, the accompany the child to the summer vacation activities etc. Partial Truth 2: Child support is…
/r/MensRights04/01/24 01:17 PM
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IMO the problem is not these women. I am happy for them, doing their thing and they would have made horrible moms in a previous time, when they would have been societally forced to have children. My problem is that it is societally prohibited for people to call these behaviors out. They can do their thing, nice, I can call this behavior a tad boring and call their men complete idiots for putting up with that shit. But that would make me a misogynist, whereas I just hate the boring behaviors of p…
/r/MensRights03/01/24 11:06 AM
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In the era of a thousand different narratives, one is missing: If a woman is not able to orgasm, she should do something about it. She can declare herself demisexual or asexual or do something about her psyche, her body, her health, her self-pleasure techniques etc. She should also be called upon being ice-cold or procedural against her man, which is not exactly inviting behavior for a man to work towards pleasuring her. Finally, a man having an orgasm (= ejaculate) and a man having a great orga…
/r/MensRights02/01/24 05:44 PM
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Just trying to survive you are mostly succeeding
/r/MensRights29/12/23 03:20 PM
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I would, in collaboration with your boss, bring this to HR myself. It is generally a very bad management practice to entertain anonymous commentary in the office, so this one goes to your manager. your major arguments here are: you are in the office doing job and not playing favorites. you do not discriminate against any kind of group, you love/hate them all equally you don't like anonymous commentary, cause it is toxic in the office. Any person who claims without substantiating is the one actua…
/r/MensRights28/12/23 08:01 AM
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Hi m8. There are a few ways to see that. you are not able to do those trips yourself you are not able to offer these to another woman, feeling emasculated your face symmetry plays a little role in life your X used you up until she found her right partner you lost some good years you learned from the good years you were in love with a prostitute your X fell in love with another person, who also has the benefit of offering her some nice perks would you be happy, if this person had stayed with you,…
/r/MensRights27/12/23 01:26 PM
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just a comment: Jordan Peterson has created a lot of content and has kept shifting focus, so that he remains current. In the last years, especially after his special therapy in Russia, he has embraced more edgy opinions, that are also more viral and clickable. His early works and his rebelious opinions 10 years ago do not really represent the image and voice we see today. So you would need to specify, which one of the "jordan petersons" you are referring to.
/r/MensRights25/12/23 01:28 PM
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I don't have problem with the equal numbers of men vs women. I don't want equal numbers, I don't care. I don't have a percentage problem. Nobody forced them to have a 50-50 ratio. They chose to brag on their own. But I do have a problem with numbers being manipulated.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 04:19 PM
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Let me explain: The problem of this post is the alternation of reality in the name of identity politics. So the reality is that the half of 5 is not three. this micro-manipulation of numbers has lead to crazy ideas, like the wage-gap or the affirmative policies that we see today in so many companies, that are "backed" by "data". This company was never forced to go for this virtue signaling. Nobody asked them how many men or women occupy seats on their board. They themselves express this virtue s…
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:14 PM
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That exactly shows the insanity of these policies. Our need to claim these days, that we have everything equal, leads to paranoia, like what we see here.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:02 PM
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I don't care how many people are part of a board. I do care, that there are no discrimination policies. But I do not consider the half of 5 to be 3.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:01 PM
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At the core of every proper group movement is the respect for human rights. By rejecting women's rights or seeing them as an opposing party, you are defeating the purpose, the same as militant feminists are doing themselves. To give you a banal example: A cat's rights activist, who is concerned about stray cats in the city is not opposing a dog's rights activist, while they may be competing for resources in the city. I, You, We are better than that.
/r/MensRights21/12/23 10:27 AM
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because it benefits Dating Apps :) So many Ukrainian women have immigrated to European countries and provided the status of the immigrant. This is an indirect help for the economy of Ukraine, which is not able to provide for all its citizens in this war-torn economy. Now these countries are "forcing" those poor women to live in small (idyllic) places and at some time find some job, after learning the local language. So these women are not satisfied with the competition they face at these small p…
/r/MensRights20/12/23 10:22 PM
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well, just browse LInkedin. So many women posing in non-professional poses, uttering some truisms and self affirmations, gathering social clout, in a covert way of selling their image for personal promotion. Men don't stand a chance in that game.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:38 AM
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I hope she gets cancelled to become a shamefull well known pariah, even incurring a call to action for the company she is working with, Blackrock Neurotech That is the only real future lesson for society. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-12855917/Multi-millionaire-Bryan-Johnson-ex-fiance-SUED.html
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:11 AM
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It is crazy that these people are not shunned into oblivion.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:01 AM
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with people not fraternizing / getting married much (we have all seen the research), less children are to be born and the numbers are going to show quite fast. So this will become a huge problem in the coming years and a call for change. IMO this is directly linked with the new feminist narratives and the profound effects they have had in the healthcare and the business sectors.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:21 AM
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Yes a lot of times. I have also been sidelined by "psychologists" who took a stance in favor of my lying X, ignoring facts, breaking rules and protocol and even covering her jhorrible behaviors.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:07 AM
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she is dying, albeit rich because of this guy.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 04:03 PM
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I would make a report to the school about the incident. It will not rectify the issue, but it will make sure, that those "ladies" don't mess with you later on. You will earn the respect of your other fellow men as well. Good luck.
/r/MensRights13/12/23 09:35 PM
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A methodology issue here, is that the original differences between men and women are not considered. i.e. if women already have an advantage or disadvantage and how attractiveness is playing a role within their gender. It is ridiculous to make this kind of comparisons. To make an analogy, let's discuss, if physical shape does play a role in the economic outcomes. For men, it probably does more than women, as men would work in more physical jobs, which in turn pay more. For women it probably does…
/r/MensRights13/12/23 12:13 PM
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A detail that is important here: EU country retirement systems are funded by the taxation of the working population. i.e. the current working population is supporting the pensions of people who are currently pensioners. The pension itself is relevant to the lifetime contributions, but mostly to the last years' salaries, and there is no personal retirement account, like in the use. In total, men, who make more, fund the wellbeing of women, who live longer and go into pension earlier.
/r/MensRights12/12/23 11:41 PM
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police as well :)
/r/MensRights05/12/23 04:05 PM
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don't be a cheapskate like me, buy a tazer.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 08:21 PM
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I don't share microplanes - get your own!
/r/MensRights30/11/23 08:17 PM
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Microplane Classic Zester is mighty good, but it has ripped my skin a few times.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 06:07 PM
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I assume both of the men she has divorced are not sharing your thought
/r/MensRights30/11/23 04:58 PM
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Thank you for calling out this stupidity and cheap manipulation. I would have zero problem with whichever group elects to make an advocacy team. People under 30, People from Dahomey, Balding men. I am just annoyed by this combative definition of women as something that is prohibited to thrive from bad men. A definition that is washing out bad behaviours that I often find in women at work.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 04:51 PM
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like she trying to flirt with you... I would use my brand-new expensive microplane grater on my dick, if it ever makes the mistake to get an erection for a feminist.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 04:35 PM
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Smooth asf dude, nicely handled Thanks for the compliment, but I disagree. I should have kept my mouth shut. Nobody profited from the interaction.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 04:31 PM
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I might as well go do a Harakiri in the main square of my city.
/r/MensRights13/11/23 09:22 AM
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there have been, but this is irrelevant. And we are happy to have more women participating in science today.
/r/MensRights13/11/23 09:22 AM
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That is equally idiotic. Science was created by scientists. Period.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 10:54 PM
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The fact that this shit is considered "Normal" is beyond me.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 11:36 AM
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also, to be clear, i am not "invalidating" your feelings on the matter as the current usage goes He was doing his job, he was kind and understanding. Let's not create a battle about everything. I certainly remained non-combative and kind.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 10:58 AM
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unfortunately, this facet you bring up is more likely to be distorted to cause harm to the public perception on the defense of mens rights (as an important pair partner to womens rights) agree - I just took my shirt off for 20 mins, as I was sweating like a pig. That sparked the concept. I put on my shirt right after etc. I am not an idiot.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 10:33 AM
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Just to make myself clear. I am not in favor of restricting this kind of "clothing". But considering it cheap or slutty and not appropriate, where there is a dress code, is definitely in order.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 09:47 AM
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"Perfect world", would translate to a world, where there are no preconceptions or stereotypes. While this cannot be fully achieved, we can through education shed some stereotypes from the past. Nonetheless, an almost naked woman, out of the right context, would definitely attract attention. It has nothing to do with equality or patriarchy or whatever. That is the reason, that women in our sauna attract zero attention, context is right for being naked there.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 09:28 AM
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Thanks for the comments. I disagree with the blanket statements against "women". I need to comment, though, on how this is a serious issue. Accusations: Everyone has heard men being deemed to be creeps, giving the ick, making women feeling uncomfortable etc. If a woman is dressed to attract, that will attract attention and she will feel more "intimidated". Office behavior: Women are coming increasingly naked to the office. Last time I was in the office (remote work), all three women there showed…
/r/MensRights12/11/23 09:25 AM
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Thnks for the comment. I was in a closed room, alone. Where no-one was expected to enter. So, there is some nuance.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 09:17 AM
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Think for your self. Would you want your labia to be circumcised? Without you ever having a say in that? I cannot think of a reason why.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 05:57 PM
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Men used to openly objectify and call women hoes, even brag about using women for their bodies lmao You have missed my point. I am not claiming that all men are saints, or that this is not a despicable behavior "across the board". But I believe, that had a male artist made such comments (the kind of that you copied here or the exact corollary of what B. Eilish has) would have been canceled to oblivion away from the mainstream and his followers would have been shamed. But a woman making such clai…
/r/MensRights25/07/23 11:25 AM
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I mean, make a publication in a proper publishing house.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 06:06 PM
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relevant. I am going to write an article about it. I am in the process of doing the same. Wanna collaborate?
/r/MensRights03/07/23 12:00 PM
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My problem is not who gets more funding. It is fully possible that women are disadvantaged in some areas and yes, we as a society should be taking care of those issues. But publishing shitty research in media that would otherwise scrutinise the tiniest comma, because it aligns with a specific narrative is outright ridiculous. It enforces a narrative in the heads of the public, who are not scientists themselves and are not able to critically assess these pieces of information.
/r/MensRights27/06/23 04:22 PM
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