Unihiron Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
25	Talking about his for the first time.		Unihiron	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 01:18 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Talking about his for the first time. Thanks but damn you are brutal if I’m anything like you I don’t want it	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/24 11:08 PM
2	Talking about his for the first time. Once again it’s sad that people have perverted marriage and love into a form of utility. I would be lying if I think this is the only honestly terrifying thing. knowing when I get old with no kids and no longer physically able. And some stranger who may not have any problem solving skills will be employed at the nursing home to take care of me. but no one dare talks about “getting it over with” before you suffer part. Lol. But that’s dark and I don’t really approve it but we are in the times whe…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/24 09:14 PM
3	Talking about his for the first time. Yes I can relate. No children but my whole dating thing has been a rocky road most of my life. Not saying it to have a pity party. But saying it because sometimes people are just incompatible with people and it’s better to live life than agonize over why it never worked and wasting life. This is part of the reason why I made a terrible marriage decision even though I had been in that relationship for 4 years prior to proposing. The problem I have with most people and this includes therapy and da…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/24 02:11 PM
1	Talking about his for the first time. I read this twice. And I don’t know how to respond because what you are living through is truly soul crushing and my experience can’t really hold much in comparison. Take care of yourself.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/24 10:14 AM
2	Talking about his for the first time. I decided to post just to get a better perspective of my situation and some of the accounts of divorce here are truly horrible. I’m fully aware that not every marriage is like this and there are truly some good and strong couples anywhere and everywhere. But I came to this space to ultimately decide if I really need therapy for this. This is free. Just can’t justify therapy hopping and wasting time. If I were to objectively compare myself I say I’m in a good spot overall and I need to move forwa…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/24 10:07 AM
3	Talking about his for the first time. I’m sorry children were caught up in the middle of this. I have read some comments here and we have all had shit happen. One thing I noticed. Love died hard. And it’s sad.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 05:41 PM
2	Talking about his for the first time. I’m sorry that happened but I hope you are seeing things in a more positive light. Some people can’t admit how things become transactional. I was beyond burned out. She even went to a reward ceremony for her small business and didn’t tell me. Because somehow we both stopped supporting each other. I just wanted support with my own problems and she wanted a business partner to help her. But no one could meet in the middle. I don’t think she understood she brought home drama and I just wanted good …	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 05:39 PM
3	Talking about his for the first time. I bet my vibe was “know this shit where is the real therapy”	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 05:36 PM
1	Talking about his for the first time. I never had an argument with someone like this “hey you are very exhausted you probably should call in sick and ready today” she says “they need me” my response “they drove you into the ground and don’t give a shit about you. Rest” and she still gets out of bed. 12 hours later she’s back home. Joints are shot. She’s checked out and now I get to hear about how she hates her coworkers and had a bad day. Fml.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 05:12 PM
2	Talking about his for the first time. Oh this was after the divorce. I wanted to get therapy to cope and that’s what I dealt with on the 2nd session. I’ve had therapy before in my 20s. They were not ready to deal with someone with tools to handle shit. I guess I overwhelmed them because I’m beyond the basics of agency and mood management.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 05:09 PM
3	Talking about his for the first time. Same. I have talked and met so many women who were way more level headed and I’ve had a good time healing socially. I don’t hate being divorced it’s more like “meh I’m used to this. Damn shame I lost a lot of money to realize this is ok”. I used to hate being single but now I’m like “I’m good. I learned my lesson I got experiences let’s keep it moving”	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 04:08 PM
7	Talking about his for the first time. I feel like it’s a total societal breakdown where we are no longer honest with each other. Men and women. I don’t know how to fix it. Now all my friends are married with kids and I’m effectively starting over but I feel a level of peace I have not experienced in a while.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 03:27 PM
3	Talking about his for the first time. I leaned more about life these last 2 years. Didn’t even talk about how I worked some of the worst jobs of my professional career. Working with a nightmare boss in the middle of a divorce. That’s for another thread. All I knew was that taste of death with my physical health was the last straw. No questions. No stopping.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 02:26 PM
4	Talking about his for the first time. I don’t want to go into details. I moved the earth to fix that. I covered the highlights. Not writing a biography. I have a spine. Don’t go around judging.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 02:12 PM
6	Talking about his for the first time. My ex was literally the nicest and most toxic person I will ever meet. The community loves her. In fact she spent more time in the community at home. Every day I spent a long time by myself. Often her getting home late and I’m already getting ready for bed and she wants to talk about her day. Two totally different energy states. For the record I’m not claiming to be perfect in any of this. Some people are good people and just terrible partners. I’m not in the best physical shape but I sure as sh…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 02:09 PM
2	Struggling Today Thanks so much. I did have a sense off loss and grieving. It still do have echos. but they have died down now.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 01:58 PM
4	Talking about his for the first time. Thanks for reading.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 01:43 PM
4	Talking about his for the first time. I triggered the therapist when I said “here I am by myself making better decisions than two people married, they have all the tools for success and still do dumb shit” man that set her off and she hid it but I could tell. The whole session kept going off the rails because I was breaking free from her little checklist. Even raised her voice at me.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 01:30 PM
6	Talking about his for the first time. I try not to be bitter. My mom said it best “Mothers stoped teaching their daughters how to be wives”. Personally I feel like I made bad choices. I can change and get better. I just need to erase some of these memories. I don’t want to be stuck in the past 5 years from now still remembering dumb shit like she didn’t have time to pick me up from the mechanic shop since they couldn’t fix my car in the same day. That kind of stuff I want to move past from. They were a shitty partner. But I can’t li…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 01:28 PM