| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 29 | how can i balance between being interested, and needy? | UniqueUserName2017 | /r/seduction | 26/01/19 07:22 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Having 5 f*ck buddies at the same timeSuurrre surrre | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Seductive ways to initiate sexBody language, eye contact, getting close and physical | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 09:25 AM |
| 3 | Guys who went through a glow up. What are some signs you are attractive as a guy?I've been learning that the less you care/ show interest, the more they do.. 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/seduction | 10/10/25 06:57 AM |
| 0 | How to approach this girl in my office ?Alert alert alert, do NOT proceed. Unless they aggressively signal you to then DO NOT, it will create chaos if it failed. | /r/seduction | 05/07/25 05:36 AM |
| 3 | Cant keep womenIts a norm that women step back after first date and wait for you to show interest. If she said something "i had a great time" then you reciprocate and take it slow from there by taking another small step, maybe a calmer date. It sounds like you're sharing your plans too soon or going really hard and fast at it. Also, if they like you, they will find every way possible to make sure that you know it, so dont ever question it, just read between the lines. Also, abundance is key. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 07:01 AM |
| 3 | How do you start conversation with a girl at the gym?Only time you could do that safely if eye contact was exchanged comfortably and maybe a smile was encountered | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 05:42 AM |
| 4 | Lady Killers of Reddit. Whom have slept with a lot of women and had a lot of girlfriends. Do you still cold approach? Why or why not?Rarely, i take the chance if the scenario helps, got digits from drivethru payment chick the other day, teased her by telling her i dont believe shes from here, complimented her accent and beauty and told her we should meet for a drink. It worked out | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 01:34 AM |
| 5 | Do stares mean a thing ?Stare back and smile back, dont stare too long tho, give them a chance to talk to you/ get closer and read body language. Make sure to reciprocate. Confidence can be seen and even more felt, so you're on the right track | /r/seduction | 17/06/25 02:33 AM |
| 1 | going out soloSolo is the best method | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 07:20 AM |
| 3 | Men of Reddit who have successfully gotten plenty of lays through cold approaching? What have you learned and what is your most effective methods for doing so?See, its a little more complicated than that, the medium matters and so is the language. Back during covid, tinder was sooo easy to get a lay, i just try to pop out of the thousand dudes who have the same profile/offers, and easily get matches who want to know whats the medium, since cant go anywhere, i offer to meet a public spot like a store front parking or somewhere where we're both seen, so they feel safe enough to go home w you to drink/watch tv etc. In public, its a long shot because ever… | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 07:17 AM |
| 0 | What is the best career for game ?All businesses run themselves, owners dont work. | /r/seduction | 31/05/25 08:42 PM |
| 1 | What is the best career for game ?"I own a business that runs itself" | /r/seduction | 31/05/25 06:03 AM |
| 2 | How can I get a date/number in the workplace without getting fired?Dont directly ask, peace the road to be asked.. get it? | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 07:28 PM |
| 1 | How often do bar hookups happens?I'm 5ft 9 on a good day | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 05:20 PM |
| 2 | How often do bar hookups happens?I dont think three's statistics or a research done, its anecdotal. I'm not very good looking and I'm kinda short and I've hooked up plenty of time just hitting up bars or clubs downtown alone | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 07:24 AM |
| 11 | How often do bar hookups happens?You had us in the first half not gonna lie.. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7?Sometimes all you have to be is decently attractive and funny | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 04:35 AM |
| 0 | 10 reasons, excluding looks, preventing you from being good with womenThis is a post to destroy men self image and motivation | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 05:14 PM |
| 2 | I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas.Theres a trend of never paying for food dates girls are on currently | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 07:33 AM |
| 0 | How many girls have you approached in the past month?0, i just tinder I told a chick to not let people in line at the club and then we matched on tinder and fucked three times so far Tinder works better for me 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 06:00 AM |
| 0 | How the hell do some people have such interesting dating lives or sex life?1- be attractive 2- do not be unattractive | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Can I ask for casual sex?When you say come over you mean to your place? She might have you as her comfortable friend and will never let anything happen. There's little to no space to test because you might blow it all Point out her pretty features or flirt on very low level to test the grounds. If it's paved then drive over it big boy! You gotta flirt and make her be comfortable with you, and you almost never have to ask for FWB situation you have to actually create it. Good sex fun pillow talk while reminding each othe… | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Do drunk girls mean what they say?What you said back put her on the spot and can be a turn off. You could've just said something reciprocal flirty and initiate proceeding to said location my boy | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 10:15 PM |
| 5 | My first time going out on my ownI agree on going out by yourself but this is some macho man story you're telling us thats actually toxic. You're playing games to get laid and you're showing off to us, strangers you'll never meet | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Weird problem with tinder !!!This is anecdotal | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Can someone explain this behaviour?Well, with girls you should always expect a no, ALWAYS. Girls have lots and lots of options, and girls can go through many moods in one day (sorry) Sometimes you may send a good message in a wrong time (for them) that blows your chance, its not your fault. She could be being pulled back by an ex, had better options (for her) or any other random thing that may have changed her mind. Abundace is key | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 07:37 AM |
| 5 | Girls on Tinder do not want to meet in personWhat works for me is letting them know that i dont like to chit chat online, and mention that im not good at it. You can offer something like meeting up at a public place like eating sushi or some cool spot in town, youd rather get to know each other in person than Chat online. This works for me Also, ask if you can call, calling brings you out of the herd and shows your confidence. it breaks the ice and makes them more comfortable with you. | /r/seduction | 26/01/19 08:50 PM |
| 1 | how can i balance between being interested, and needy?Roger that. A scenario i can give you is that if they don't interact with me throughout the day, i tend to hit them up just for small talk, i catch myself doing this by thinking "well if i dont write them, they'll think im not interested" which backfires!. So im having hard time making things clear. | /r/seduction | 26/01/19 09:11 AM |
| 7 | Ahh! Guys i did it im dating the coolest sexiest chick I've met!!Also, try to control yourself and don't get over-attached. Not saying that you will, but most people do and take others for granted. Just a precaution for a long term investment. | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | How to Flirt and Banter With Women | 5 Easy HacksI wasn't passive aggressive but rather helpful. Just like math if you tell yourself you're bad you'll become bad at it. There are lots of guys on YouTube who are genuinely good with girls, avarage looking and height too. it's all about self confidence and development BEFORE worrying about such secondary priority goal such as girls ( or a partner in general ) Going the extra mile such as banter, jokert and mental supplements JUST to impress girls is just.. idk I hope this is was helpful and sorry… | /r/seduction | 09/01/19 02:02 AM |
| -1 | How to Flirt and Banter With Women | 5 Easy HacksYeah, i'm the loser taking dating advice from an attractive dude on the internet | /r/seduction | 09/01/19 01:54 AM |
| -1 | How to Flirt and Banter With Women | 5 Easy HacksEasy now people You're making women a challenge The more you insist to yourself that you're not good with women, the more an issue it'll become, Just like anything else. You tell yourself "this is something im not good at" then you're pushing down on yourself. You'll have hard time approaching women since you made it a big deal Just be witty and cool, there's alot of different type of girls, most will just like you for you, girls dont sit around to contemplate the way to their hearts. Just be we… | /r/seduction | 09/01/19 01:47 AM |
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