Uniqueiamjustjules Archive

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2	How do Democrats win back white men? The way the democrat party runs, free speech isn't allowed if it's from men. And No, I don't mean offensive speech (even though that's included). A lot of the past ~5 years has been talking down to men like we're either 1) incompetent children, 2) violent rapists, 3) or patronizing to prevent men from having grievances addressed. Politics is how we handle resources and governance without violence. If ~50% of the population is rhetorically blocked from addressing its needs via the legitimate proc…	/r/MensRights	09/02/25 09:51 PM
1	DEI mandates backfired disastrously Engineers aren't created overnight. It takes a ton of discipline and training to be effective and productive. My mother was an engineer for 30+ years and the only woman in her graduating class. Other women were on campus, but they weren't interested in that program because of its rigor. You can create incentives, but you can't make someone choose it or perform to the required standards.	/r/MensRights	29/01/25 03:16 PM
18	Stop making the patriarchy a thing. It’s not a thing. lol. you're definitely not black american, because we definitely live in a gynocracy. And that gynocracy is powered by America's overall patriarchal tilting, but matriarchal benefitting system with all it's contradictions and peculiarities. But good luck out there!	/r/MensRights	30/11/24 09:41 PM
1	CMV: The problem with dating is that women's standards are too low Women do raise their standards when they really need too. Being young and going after very attractive men makes sense and pursuing well-to-do men as you age makes even more sense. I'm just surprised they don't mash them up early. I guess they intend to try their shot at both targets and see which one works best for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 09:04 PM
1	The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse. "extremely young and immature (teenagers)" so they get their bad boys in early and have their imprint? lol. This disproves your assertion by implying all women do this... just when they're younger and more impressionable. And we know how people build habits...	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 11:57 PM
3	Affirmative action/quota are so sexist In america the biggest beneficiary of affirmative action was white women. They also sought to destroy it first. They don't acknowledge this nor any other structural advantage.	/r/MensRights	14/08/24 09:30 PM
2	Huh, so women DO understand why we get so pissed when we’re labeled as predators or rapists? all women want the power of Carloyn Bryant	/r/MensRights	11/06/24 09:10 PM
1	Are women "witholding affection from men"? I didn't say that I did. But we both acknowledge each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/24 01:40 AM
-1	Are women "witholding affection from men"? lol. other black men typically headnod and a decent amount of other non black-men head-nod, smile, or do a light wave. There's some men who are antisocial, but I typically have collegial relationships with unfamiliar men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/24 03:59 AM
-3	Are women "witholding affection from men"? I remember a Kevin Samuels video where he was talking to a series of black women about how they expect men to protect them but won't even smile. It was explicit in what's expected vs reciprocated: Give up your life for nothing - not even humane treatment. Women in the west (generally) have repeatedly said they don't owe us anything and have made it abundantly clear. Why not return the favor in kind?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/24 09:34 PM
13	TikTok user poses a race relations alternative to Man vs Bear question - ends up exposing white women’s hypocrisy one thing that's almost never talked about is that when Till's body was pulled from the Tallahatchie river, 8 other black boys were found too.	/r/MensRights	04/06/24 06:48 PM
3	Case study: A top 10% man who has it all. Why aren’t women interested in him? This isn't 20 years ago. A lot more Americans are fat and women are ahead of men in this area. If he's in a dogshit area (think a metro that's less than 3 million - or a non-NFL/NBA/MLB/NHL metro) the pickings are going to be slim. He can hire a matchmaker or join a social club. If he's in a major metro, he's gonna have to: be elite, hire a matchmaker for quality access, join exclusive clubs like Soho house, etc. The world is bifurcating between haves and have-nots. Realize that 100K is middle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/24 12:50 AM
1	Is it actually true women could not work, could not go to school, could not own property, could not have a bank account, etc etc? It was an example and a long socialized idea. I get your point	/r/MensRights	12/05/24 12:51 AM
40	Is it actually true women could not work, could not go to school, could not own property, could not have a bank account, etc etc? The argument is used to say that men oppressed women, which could be true in individual cases, but really it put the responsibility of nearly everything into the husband's domain regarding property and wealth. Many banks required married women to have a husband's cosigning, mostly due to them being a unit. When it comes to credit, most people didn't have it outside of face credit in small, one-stoplight towns where the family had a localized credit account until the mid-1970s when we got off t…	/r/MensRights	09/05/24 10:11 PM
16	Official DNC Platform This is part of the reason some of the black women talking heads have been barking at black men to keep in the DNC tent. Everyone can see that they're focusing on all groups that are not straight men, but each group of men recognizes their issues aren't being addressed in a specific way or even generally. This is smelly policy	/r/MensRights	04/05/24 08:22 PM
0	Hitting women should not be controversial People like to point this as one on one, but you have to think of multiple conditions. What if a group of teenage girls was tryingt o steal your mothers purse and because she wouldn't give it up, they pushed her to the ground and started kicking her in the ribs. Would you try to push them off her? Try to restrain at least one for the police when they arrived too late? Without the desire and capability to defend yourself from the environment and bad actors in it, you can very easily become the vi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 10:16 PM
3	Struggling 3.5 months in. Sorry for your situation. However, if another man said he was going to fck my wife I would've immediately told him I'd clip his nts off - and I'd mean it. Some men have gotten too bold about being debaucherous and showing no respect.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/03/24 03:50 AM
–	I think paying, if possible, is much better for rich smart men than marrying or even "free sex" And you can look into the country’s history regarding whole cities being burnt to the ground based on the lies of a woman. I just point out that you would support or use those same tactics to get what you want: control and power. I know what’s inside of you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 11:28 PM
-2	I think paying, if possible, is much better for rich smart men than marrying or even "free sex" The Innocence Project would like a word with you. We have men who've been locked up for years because someone dreamed they raped them. https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2015/dec/24/clarence-moses-el-free-denver-rape-case#:~:text=A%20day%20and%20a%20half,convicted%20of%20rape%20and%20assault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 10:11 PM
1	No matter how much women’s sports is pushed on society. It will never be as popular as men’s. Sure it can . Just... 1) make lower quality men or 2) artificially reduce the incentive to play the sport or 3) eliminate the pipeline to men's professional sports	/r/MensRights	31/01/24 04:20 PM
12	Why are men's spaces seen as harmful? Why do employers not want employees to talk about salaries, benefits, and working conditions? To control you and manage your outcomes.	/r/MensRights	08/01/24 04:02 AM
7	Gen Z and millennial women are waking up to the lies feminists fed them They'll follow israel and create legislation to sponsor in vitro treatments for women 30+ It's too tempting for women to be single and have fun from the teenage years to ~30 years old.	/r/MensRights	22/12/23 07:55 PM
2	One sided open relationships Only a handful of men are effectively going to be able to pull this off. I estimate it's the top 5% of men who are physically, sexually (dirty-talk arousal and performance), financially, and socially capable of doing this. Normally women have remained loyal to men who had a one or a few of these for a short time, but because women can satisfy some of these to a certain degree - especially secually and financially, only the men who hit the other features can do this long term. That doesn't mean p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/23 01:15 AM
7	Still Spinning A man is truly in control when he can say "no" to sex. Congratulations and keep up the good work. Also, in some states having sex with the STBX can be seen as forgiving indiscretions and restarting any divorce clock. Don't do it if you intend to divorce as it's a great way for her to stretch out the limbo situation.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/12/23 12:20 AM
9	Better Bachelor’s audience is absolutely insane I agree with his analysis. Young disaffected men have frequently become disenfranchised with society and become deviant. The movie 400 Blows covered this 70 years ago. It happens all the time. We just don't like when it becomes reality One could point to the mass shooters in Australia, New Zealand, and the US that are tied to young men linking up online and seeking radical solutions. It's clear that there are too many disaffected men looking for solutions. Sometimes it's self improvement (fitnes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/23 06:15 PM
4	This "real man" stuff is so annoying "Real" man is a manipulation. You're either a man, woman, or child. "Real" man positions itself on what you haven't done, which is innumerable. But it ignore what you have done. It puts you in a neverending debt for whoever would use this tactic on you. The best bet is to ignore the person and leave their presence	/r/MensRights	17/11/23 09:47 PM
1	Will I regret deciding to never get married? You can do it or not, but there's no guarantees. Your best bet is to marry someone who comes from an intact family and wants to work with someone to maintain the same tradition. You can do it here or abroad (if your working life allows it). A friend's dad recently passed from cancer. He was in his mid-70s and was being taken care of by 2 of his daughters and their families. They lived in the same neighborhood as adults. The other 2 sons lived in an adjacent town and would visit regularly to help…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/11/23 09:32 PM
11	Whats men should avoid after 30? lol. I get that. I leaned on what people should do by pointing out the negative outcomes of not doing them. Obviously divorce is an outcome of marriage, but it's incredibly more difficult to control that outcome. I think men should weigh whether marriage is worth it with their heavily vetted fiancee, but I wouldn't say outright "don't get married" - but the percentages of a successful marriage are low.	/r/MensRights	22/10/23 02:17 PM
120	Whats men should avoid after 30? Avoid fatness, brokeness, alcoholism, and injury. This should be from yourself and others. Also, stretch more and get regular check ups.	/r/MensRights	22/10/23 01:41 AM
4	Thoughts on Passport Bros? it's hard to do unless you 1) make more than 80K with remote work, 2) know at least 2 languages or are willing to learn it, and 3) aren't crazy looking. Women do have standards, so you need to try to meet them. It's a valid option if you're willing to take a leap of faith and have the means to support yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 01:31 AM
2	Is it possible to have a symbolic wedding ceremony without it being legally binding? I don't want to get into a car accident, but I have insurance for the vehicle. You do what you need for the situations that could happen, not because they will happen. You need to determine what you need and what you want. What you're willing to accept, willing to compromise on, and what you're unwilling to accept. If she's got more firm boundaries than you, then you're beholden to her wants and any whims that come with them. You need to establish what you desire in this exchange and how to wo…	/r/MensRights	24/08/23 03:59 PM
4	A lack of "male-only spaces" in modern society Part of the reasons the boy scouts merged was because they had to settle too many lawsuits from predatory leaders abusing young boys. One could make a case that the ongoing brigading against masculine male leaders allowed the opportunity for sneaky child abusers to take official positions and exercise their terrible, illegal, and destructive desires. But we'll never know because men who want the best for men don't study and empower men in ways to determine what helps men become better.	/r/MensRights	28/06/23 10:11 PM
–	Red(pillers)copers are obsessed with claiming women are dying alone and unhappy, but its men who are doomed. purely just a revenge fantasy grift for men dying alone to cope with. Marx wrote about the pitfalls of capitalism while defining it. Redpillers write about the pitfalls of an open mating market while defining it. The downside, outside of the obvious, is the potential hand-grenades who determine they're genetic dead ends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 04:51 AM
2	How do people afford housing? Try to reskill or upskill into tech. I recommend Salesforce or AWS. If you can take a few courses (UDemy is affordable), understand the books and their concepts, and get on their learning platforms (Trailhead for Salesforce or AWS Learning for AWS) you can get some demonstrable skills. Get the first 2 certs for either, pair that with your veteran status, and you can get a good entry level for 70-90K. Best of luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/23 02:34 PM
0	Passport Bros prove that Women’s Hypergamy isn’t the issue but the fact that some men can’t do the same. It's different depending on the coast and languages you know, but you can open your network to double the people if heading east (Europe, Africa) or south (SA) or 10X it if heading west (Asia). If you have a job and/or contracting business there's different opportunities than if you have an online business. You can have a standard American template life by your income OR in most of the developing countries at least double it if you're able to work and create a life from there. But it requires kn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 10:01 PM
8	my mother tried to get me to watch "hidden figures" you can watch it, but it's a rewriting of history to a degree. It wasn't just 3 or 4 black women who were on that team. That was one part of a huge conglomerate of a mixed group of engineers. The women were unique in that they were women and civilians. There were a number of black men who were Tuskegee graduates and in the same complex working on congruous projects.	/r/MensRights	06/03/23 03:45 AM
2	Do you think that it’s a man’s right to question the paternity of their kids and ask for a paternity test? Trust but verify. He wants this to assuage any concerns. It's the best way to clear his fear. Best of luck to you both.	/r/MensRights	05/03/23 06:07 AM
1	Why is @JustPearlyThings now at the forefront of the Manosphere on YouTube? she bombarded the youtube algorithm with content and got promoted in a ton of people's suggestions. People I know who are vaguely familiar with these topics found her and reacted, promoting her more. Similar to what happened with Kevin Samuels and Fresh and Fit, but more people from more backgrounds saw a lot of the talking points and had mixed reactions. The sticky pinecone gathered a ton of debris.	/r/MensRights	01/03/23 07:51 PM
1	I was blackmailed for the third time by a girl and apparently she is now trying to destroy my life Get the police on her for blackmail. let the law handle her. But seriously, don't make yourself vulnerable in that way in the future. Personally, I'd tell her to release them. I look good naked and would explain that "I trusted XX with these photos and she released these at the threat of blackmail. I told her to go ahead. Please consider paying me for viewing these blackmail photos so I can file a lawsuit against her."	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 11:17 PM
1	How do redpilled men view lesbians? I've known some who are very comfortable at asserting themselves without fear of shaming. I've known some who are actually bi, and like that masculine man too. I've known some who know exactly why relationships with women can be frustrating. I've known some who have some great insight on why a relationship is going in a good or bad direction just because they know women in a different way (as one and as a pursuer). I don't think too hard about why there are so many distinctions, but try and stor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 01:07 AM
6	Unlimited sex partners prior to marriage Yes. That's one of the basic ideas. A lot of people have only had one sexual partner and remained that way even after their spouse died. Most people don't practice that and instead conflate sexual exclusivity with monogamy. It's inaccurate and dilutes the importance of what monogamy means. I not an advocate, I just prefer people be accurate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 01:23 AM
4	Unlimited sex partners prior to marriage No. Sexual exclusivity is one partner at a time. Monogamy is one partner for life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 01:01 AM
2	Man losing 50% of his assets from a divorce? It gets split 1/3 attorneys, 1/3 wife, and you get 1/3. this is the worst case scenario and pretty likely. 50% is a middle ground.	/r/MensRights	22/09/22 02:53 AM
–	“Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill Maher There have been two stories in the past few years about how ~70% of black boys in K-12 school are below or well below reading level. You're talking about ~50,000 youth who are purposefully being made unprepared for the world. Expand that out to other communities and you have not just an embarrassment, but a national emergency in the making.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 09:18 PM
9	The Rise of The Single Lonely Male It’s a propaganda piece that just shifts the onus of the coupling issue onto men. It’s a fancy way of saying “men are incels.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/22 11:28 AM
10	Australian feminist lobby group demands YouTube censor "manosphere" & "antifeminist" videos, including Jordan Peterson content, and show boys/young men feminist videos instead What's annoying is that feminism has explicit white supremacist origins, but anti-feminism is now being linked to white supremacy.	/r/MensRights	27/04/22 02:39 PM
11	“She’s not a feminist because feminism is about equality” - The comments They already do that by claiming they're Christians.	/r/AntiFeminists	04/04/22 08:05 PM
10	Although I would say "I am a little chunky" although that shouldn't matter anyway. Steve Martin's book "Born Standing Up" has this really poignant moment where it describes how ones career in entertainment ends (to paraphrase): You don't get a call from your manager saying "it's over!" You basically wind up saying "no" to something you think you're better than, then "no" to something you don't want, then "no" to something you're not quite sure about, then "no" because something better might be right around the corner, and then the calls drop off a cliff and it's been 3 years. …	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	26/03/22 03:37 AM
2	At age 28, she is done with hook ups and she is ready for real dates. I wonder what changed? Be careful with these witches. They wind up putting stuff in food, trying to practice root magic and failing badly. Worst part is, some of them don't realize they're being gathered up as souls for those with more advanced knowledge. Many don't believe in these arts, and I understand, but there's old stuff in them that people use to try and manipulate and control others.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	04/02/22 08:13 PM
4	"Happily Married" woman still reminiscing Chad from decade ago Once you get that blood in your mouth, it's hard to resist going back for more.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	04/02/22 08:11 PM
2	Men really do get blamed for everything, even a women's sex addiction. Apparently having CONSENSUAL sex is "taking advantage" of a women now. Is it sex addiction or impulse control? I knew someone who became like this after a serious car crash and traumatic brain injury.	/r/MensRights	31/01/22 09:06 PM
1	How much has losing weight impacted your dating life? Here's a decent article: https://webmedpharmacy.co.uk/blog/what-type-of-exercise-is-best-for-skin As we get older, we lose elasticity and pliability, so treating your skin good with water intake, sun-protection, good diet, and good exercise can help slow the process. Gradual weight loss and infill with muscle is the best bet to minimize loose skin. It is what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 02:31 PM
3	How much has losing weight impacted your dating life? Skin requires time to rebound with your form. Weight lifting helps in a few ways: 1) "fills in" those spaces with muscle. 2) the ability to gain muscle AND the tendon strength to support muscle, requires time (tendons take 2x longer to keep up with muscle growth - so go slow). 3) it increases metabolism, which includes the ability for the body to process waste, including dead cells - i.e.: skin cells. There's going to be some loose skin if you're significantly obese, but weights help to train …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 01:16 PM
2	How much has losing weight impacted your dating life? Definitely focus on weights, flexibility, and mobility. It helps with skin staying tight as you lose weight. Cardio is important, but if you focus on that, then you wind up with loose skin and have to consider the tightening surgeries. I've floated above my normal weight since covid, and noticed being less visible. Take that as you need.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 04:02 AM
9	We often say that nobody would call black people toxic, because it would be seen as racist. Well the popular intersectional feminist icon Bell Hooks did just that, and worse. Bell hooks wrote stuff inspired by and worse than anything by 19th century ethnologists. When she died, the smell of sulfur appeared. Good riddance.	/r/MensRights	26/01/22 03:59 AM
1	How feminism has corrupted families and society. Is there a specific german word for feminazi? I know the Germans tend to do the overly specific word for a specific item or concept	/r/MensRights	03/01/22 10:29 PM
-1	Great. Now the Pope's at it. They need to do this to avoid the abuse their institution directed and covered up toward children. I see an old man in a dress talking to the clouds.	/r/MensRights	02/01/22 11:43 PM
6	I swore before girls like her create it This X 100. I got a male therapist who was very attuned to the problems men have. Worked wonders in creating tools to dismantle and/or cope with the stresses of life.	/r/MensRights	27/12/21 09:06 PM
4	What is your view on Camille Paglia? Really brilliant lady. I was introduced to her as a college student when she did a commentary track for the movie Basic Instinct. She's an older Italian-American who really believes in the value of gender roles. She's has been hyper critical of the feminist movement. She sees the flaws and stated them loudly. She's been somewhat silo'd over the past decade, but they can't disavow her because she was in the original cohort of women who came up in the popular movement. One of the things she pointe…	/r/MensRights	25/12/21 09:03 PM
2	Sex and the city reboot reminds how dismissive and hateful that show is toward men. Nothing but two dimensional caricatures of masculinity I watched it as a youth and remember really liking the first season. It asked some interesting questions about modern relationships. Then it spun off further and further each seasons to attract viewers through heightened reality. The movies cemented that heightened reality, especially the second movie set in the middle east. I wouldn't recommend much from it, but it's an interesting cultural production regarding what was promoted and who it attracted and kept around.	/r/MensRights	20/12/21 07:18 PM
1	Sharing someone's frustrations is sexist now apparently I'd save the message and, if you encounter a similar experience in the future, save the subsequent exchange and report them for harassment. It's a trend of mistreatment. If you are mistreated for being a man, when trying to show camaraderie for your studies you are being harassed and made to be uncomfortable. It may not be popular and may gather scorn from the original perpetrators, but you don't correct mistreatment with hopes and prayers.	/r/MensRights	16/12/21 09:22 PM
2	Mgtow can go mainstream all it wants, but at the end of the day it isn't women as a collective or even sjws/far leftists, but taken/married men promoting singlism, bias and discrimination against single men. just anecdata, but I've had a number of married friends say that the institution has some value, but it's less than desirable. They do find their kids to be very worth it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 09:14 PM
3	What are your guy's opinion on self defense/retaliation? I've been abused by adult female relatives as a child, hit by a girlfriend as a teen, choked by a female coworker at a company event, and had a girlfriend as an adult chase me with a knife. Women avoid holding other women accountable because they don't want to be held accountable either. As a kid I had little defenses available. As an adult I pre-screen hard and work on a 3 step program: 1) Pre-warning. "If you ever hit me. I'm gone." First time, last time. 2) If hit, I leave/attempt to leave.…	/r/MensRights	03/12/21 08:41 PM
1	The dark world of Female Dating Strategy: Online community teaches women to avoid 'worthless scrotes' and categorises men into 'low and high value' based on finances, mental health and penis size And reddit, much like any company can point to who the federal government considers a protected class.	/r/MensRights	30/11/21 08:18 PM