Whats men should avoid after 30?

Uniqueiamjustjules · 2023-10-22T01:41:46+00:00

Avoid fatness, brokeness, alcoholism, and injury.

This should be from yourself and others.

Also, stretch more and get regular check ups.

TheWinterNights · 2023-10-21T22:25:54+00:00

I am probably getting some shit of this, but there very much is stuff that is a young man's game.

For those of you who work out/weights - over 30 - no more being an idiot because you can just sleep it off.

Biology does not negotiate. You are healing slower now. Watch your joints and joint stress, better form, no ego pushing too much to see how far you can take it. Grow steadily you will be fine. You rip something - it ain't healing like in your 20s.

On a less physical side - avoid "I am too old for learning" like the plague.

Fuck right of. You are downloading that new app/thing, registering that new account/thing, and you are figuring out how it works. Your brain rots faster than your body if you stop using it.

BigHatSmall · 2023-10-21T21:19:44+00:00

divorced women, tread safely my friend.

ijustdontcare74 · 2023-10-21T21:25:24+00:00

Not have anything to do with single mothers who are approaching the wall (30) and desperate to lock down a provider. This caution should also be applied to any woman approaching 30 who is childless. They quite often will attempt a baby trap as their options dwindle. Don’t be the guy left holding the bag, paying for 18+ yrs for her “dream”.

Cecarrilloa · 2023-10-21T21:04:15+00:00

Trust a non-prenuptial marriage, it’s too close to the forever nap and it’s best not to maintain someone else’s way of life.

8_hung_low · 2023-10-22T01:29:22+00:00

Read what happened to Trevor Bauer.

https://www.espn.com/mlb/story/_/id/38549922/trevor-bauer-woman-settle-dispute-sexual-assault-case

I am 57, was married for 30 years, I have a son and a daughter. My older sisters, mom, ex-wife, and grandmother = all gold diggers. Don't get married or even into a questionable situation with a woman. The law is on their side, and the law is against you! I don't recommend marriage. I am one and done. Please learn from my mistakes.

No_Hunt_5424 · 2023-10-22T00:40:29+00:00

Avoid feminist women and women that have nothing going on in life and most importantly single mums

xxTheMagicBulleT · 2023-10-22T02:32:42+00:00

I would say. Single moms in general.

Depending on the women often.

But they often want you to be financially responsible for their children and act like a dad. But at the same time not rising or having any say in how they get raised wail under your roof.

Often the costs. And the little to no respect you get. You are much better off not dealing with women who have kids.

If the women would be more respectful and let the men more have a say in things when comes to raising. Many would not have a problem with it. But for many the costs are very high. And the respect and say low to none.

And kids quickly know they can do what ever they want and they dont get in trouble so the only thing you can do. Is basicly kick them out yea house. Cause kids often wanna sabotage the relationship anyway cause your not the dad. And they see you as the reason the dad is not there.

So all around just easier to avoid fully. Will save you a lot of head ache

avoidingpsychos · 2023-10-22T05:59:11+00:00

It's already been said here multiple times, but I can speak from my own experience...

Please, please be safe and don't trust a woman who says that they're in that "safe zone" where they're in between menstruation and won't get pregnant. Three summers ago, I started seeing someone and she had an app that tracked her period... She said we were good to go, and then of course, a few weeks later, we find out that she's pregnant. This was after only knowing each other for one month.

Only she knows if she baby-trapped me, but I honestly just don't know and I'm not sure if I really ever want to know. But she put me on child support this summer and it has absolutely fucked my life up and I'm at the point where I'm doubting that I ever have a secure financial future, as where (as another commenter mentioned), I'm paying for her to live her dream.

She told me that it was her dream to be a mom. She said that she was planning to freeze her eggs. She had just gotten divorced a few months prior. I should have known better. I was just smitten and sex hungry. My dream was to move out west and go hiking with my dog every day. Now, I'm stuck in the same apartment I've been living in for 8 years in Chicago and feel quite hopeless about myself and my future.

63daddy · 2023-10-21T22:59:07+00:00

I don’t think there’s a specific age where things suddenly change but as men get older I find they have more to offer and women less in relationships. It’s easier to be taken advantage of. More women are looking for surrogate fathers.

I think as a guy ages to the point he’s confident he doesn’t want kids or doesn’t want more kids, a vasectomy should be more strongly considered. Having to pay child support through your 40s and 50s for a child you never wanted is a game changer.

As a guy gets older taking care of one’s health matters more and it’s a time where many women become less active and want their husbands to be the same. I know many men who divorced in part because their wives changing lifestyles and expectations were limiting their desire to remain active, healthy and adventurous. Take care of your health and don’t let relationships compromise taking care of yourself.

I think marriage is overall biased for women and against men and I think this becomes more and more true as a man gets older.

While you may have more income as you age, you also have less time to recover from a financial loss. Related, your greater financial success can make it easier to be taken advantage of.

bigbrown_75 · 2023-10-21T23:29:45+00:00

Non-prenuptial marriage, Single mothers, and women who don't know who to respect their men- not necessarily in that order.

MrAnonPoster · 2023-10-21T21:24:45+00:00

Cat ladies with cats who hate them

ERiC_693 · 2023-10-22T00:35:11+00:00

bi-polar, schizo-affective, neurotic etc..

Basically any 'Karen' vibes. Stay tf away.

Single mothers, divorced etc.. very dodgy turf to tread on. Be careful.

Any gifter types who are a little too into male issues. I've met some, suspicious af types. It's like these male feminist yes-men. They are dodgy also.

00Goober · 2023-10-22T00:59:35+00:00

Cultivate close friendships.

Shris · 2023-10-22T02:33:44+00:00

Start doing yoga, stop drinking, eat clean, settle for nobody, think before you say or do anything.

1antinomy · 2023-10-22T04:28:46+00:00

Get a vasectomy if you’re planning on having sex again at some point in the future

Nothing will derail you worse than some chick popping up with a baby

Normal_Machine4548 · 2023-10-21T23:21:24+00:00

To much coffee,not enough water

Hedgefundbreaker · 2023-10-22T02:34:41+00:00

Feminism and alcohol

Rigma · 2023-10-21T23:14:54+00:00

Great advice all around. Thank you all very much.

Hazzman · 2023-10-22T01:45:54+00:00

Fuck me man this sub is full of people who had toxic relationships.

Anyway - stop lifting with your back. Stop sitting all days without any exercise. Stop avoiding the doctor because you're too manly. Stop isolating yourself.

DoctorStorm · 2023-10-22T01:06:14+00:00

At 30, you should see yourself at the very least being able to live in another country comfortably by 40. At best, if you want to invest in yourself, own land and property in said country by 40.

While these bitches be complaining about passport bros, don't forget the actual fact and point of that topic: be global, so that you can have the actual options in life.

LittleHamNerd · 2023-10-22T03:10:53+00:00

Women?

ItPutsLotionOnItSkin · 2023-10-22T01:16:16+00:00

Having kids. I'm 44 and my kid is 14. I love the everloving shit out of him bit I'm wearing out my body working to supply him with a better life than what I had.

stompin77 · 2023-10-22T10:05:27+00:00

Keep partying hard as you can. Live life. Go places. Do everything you want and can before its too late. Don't do things you don't want to do that waste your time. Im surviving S3 cancer at 46 years old. Don't put off till tomorrow what you can do today. Go make yourself happy. Choose life

RepairUsedProphylact · 2023-10-22T00:41:03+00:00

Do: Use sunscreen Don’t do: Ice cream. Skipping workouts.

PumpkinFeathers · 2023-10-23T18:17:09+00:00

This should be a “no fucking shit” thing but evidentially it wasn’t to me in my early 20s. The troubled girl that struggles with depression, self harm, addiction is not your pet project and cannot be fixed by you, no matter how hard you try, how much you love them or how long you’ll stick around. More than likely, you’ll just end up getting hurt because people in this situation tend to be a heavy burden everyone around them, especially if you’re someone that’s seen as a bottomless pit of support.

Lonewolf_087 · 2023-10-24T02:49:09+00:00

Anything that is habit forming or hard on the mind. Anyone who doesn't respect your time and boundaries. Jobs which do not fairly compensate for your efforts. Women who think they own you and you'll do whatever they want. Things that are overpriced or unreliable.

DoomRabbitDaBunny · 2023-10-22T00:55:41+00:00

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Sauced_Boss_ · 2023-10-22T13:27:39+00:00

Being in debt, not having a car, avoid the degenerate behavior they would do as teens or in their twenties, like stop drinking if you already do; I tried in my twenties but couldn’t actually make myself quit for good until I was 30, 31ish. Also, start thinking ahead of time for your retirement because time flies.

lpd1snipe · 2023-10-23T01:53:18+00:00

Marriage at any age.

TheKnightRunner · 2023-10-23T19:30:55+00:00

If I could go back and talk to my late 20's self, I'd say "even know everyone else is doing it and you've basically been brainwashed to think it is what you're supposed to do, avoid marriage and even co habitation".

Then again, if you want to reproduce, you don't have a whole lot of choice but to at least co habitate. I wouldn't give up my daughter for anything, but didn't take me long to learn that modern day marriage/co habitation expectations are just not for me. True happiness for me is doing what I want, when I want and focusing on my own peace of mind, body, and finance.

vorare3561 · 2023-10-21T23:04:28+00:00

Be a democrat/liberal.

God, I was such a stupid idiot back then.

WolfManThoughts · 2023-10-22T05:43:58+00:00

Avoid eating junk food.

ehWoc · 2023-10-22T12:59:38+00:00

Dating significantly younger women, they're 99% in it just for the sense of economical security and emotional stability, because they aren't mature enough to be alone just yet.

The vast majority of relationships where the man is 10+ years older than the woman ends tragically for the man.

KrazyJazz · 2023-10-21T22:05:17+00:00

Pretty much everything with tits and a vagina...

smoishymoishes · 2023-10-22T14:16:12+00:00

After 30, you should avoid marriage advice from divorced men.

Seems most of them didn't get to know the broad prior to marriage, and now think every man's marriage is doomed.

syntaxerror4 · 2023-10-22T20:17:14+00:00

Kids.. Yours or anyone else's.. Bring r/childfree leaves plenty of time and money, for living a whole lot of life that one might otherwise miss out on.

Soilder_Poor_Thing · 2023-10-22T10:02:58+00:00

Take out food after 30.

Tovo34 · 2023-10-22T15:16:54+00:00

Watch your heart rate when doing cardio - don't redline your heart like you did when younger

Algoresball · 2023-10-22T16:33:02+00:00

Getting hit by cars

DTreatz · 2023-10-22T19:21:12+00:00

Women

I thought this was obvious.

But also, moisturize your skin (face routine, body lotion), stay out of the sun without sunscreen, stretch and exercise, no alcohol, no smoking, eat less processed food, SLEEP your eight hours.

A lot of just general shit that should be done from teenage years anyway lmao

mimiczx · 2023-10-22T21:53:59+00:00

Marriage.

Njaulv · 2023-10-23T12:12:02+00:00

Try to maintain a good sleep regimen. Also, moisturize.

grandma_jizzzzzzzard · 2023-10-23T14:55:23+00:00

Psych meds, sugar, drugs (RX or otherwise) and all of pop culture. All bad for you.

hwjk1997 · 2023-10-24T01:18:08+00:00

Don't get married, don't be broke.

Cheap_Camera2412 · 2023-10-24T22:20:20+00:00

Alcohol, I almost drank myself to death , slight liver damage , sucks man

Title	Whats men should avoid after 30?
Author	thoughtlesssaucer4
Upvotes	183
Comments	101
Date	October 21, 2023 8:46 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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