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Legal RightsAlgoresball/r/MensRights25/05/22 12:52 AM
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False AccusationAlgoresball/r/MensRights10/02/22 06:29 PM
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sexualityAlgoresball/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/21 02:49 AM
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third worldAlgoresball/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/21 04:05 PM
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social issuesAlgoresball/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/21 09:46 PM
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mediaAlgoresball/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/21 04:39 PM
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discussionAlgoresball/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/21 03:08 PM
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articleAlgoresball/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/21 01:23 AM
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progressAlgoresball/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/21 10:34 PM
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otherAlgoresball/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/21 07:37 PM
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False AccusationAlgoresball/r/MensRights09/02/22 01:48 PM
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Social IssuesAlgoresball/r/MensRights05/11/22 07:16 PM
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artAlgoresball/r/MenSupportMen07/08/21 01:16 AM
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False AccusationAlgoresball/r/MensRights29/04/22 10:22 PM
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FeminismAlgoresball/r/MensRights25/02/22 12:49 PM
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Social IssuesAlgoresball/r/MensRights09/12/21 05:35 PM
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Men don’t modify their lives for women’s behaviors?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/24 12:27 PM
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This has “1 out of 4 homeless people are women” energy
/r/MensRights12/03/24 11:46 AM
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Great book. But you very much have to be aware that it is outdated at this point. One major example is that it’s written for a generation of men much more impacted by the draft than most of us are now
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/24 04:07 PM
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Warren Ferrell did a deep dive in “myth of male power” but that book I almost 30 years old at this point
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/24 11:27 AM
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Warren Ferrell did a deep dive in “myth of male power” but that book I almost 30 years old at this point
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/24 11:26 AM
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Warren Ferrell did a deep dive in “myth of male power” but that book I almost 30 years old at this point
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/24 11:26 AM
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How does she feel about the government of Gaza using mass rape as a weapon against Jewish women and girls? I’d bet we’d hear “well it’s complicated”
/r/EverydayMisandry23/02/24 11:50 PM
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They perceive disagreement as hostility
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/24 08:06 PM
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Men prioritize their family’s needs over care for things like chronic pain. No one is refusing care for a gun shot
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/23 05:08 PM
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The crazy thing is that this is Afghanistan, a place where women actually are oppressed. But the UN can never criticize Islamic extremism so they post shit like this
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/23 12:44 AM
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Don’t do it
/r/MensRights11/11/23 02:15 PM
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I’m not a feminist (depending on who’s definition of feminism you’re using) so why would I respond to question on ask feminist? I don’t respond to questions on ask Australians since I’m not Australian
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/23 07:54 PM
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Getting hit by cars
/r/MensRights22/10/23 04:33 PM
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I was wrong. She defended Avital Ronell who sexually harassed her Grad student. She also defended Hamas. I’d love to see her have a conversation about gender with a jihadist
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/23 03:15 PM
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Isn’t this the women who sexually abused male grad students?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/23 02:44 PM
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DBT is mostly used in treatment for BPD. I don’t see any reason to think it should be used universally. You have to match the therapy to the client. There is no way to use one modality for everyone
/r/MensRights10/10/23 11:58 PM
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There is a thread on ask liberals right now about mens issues and the comments make it very clear why boys are running so far right. Things like this only adds to it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/23 03:30 PM
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This has to be a troll. Who’s out there dating and their opining line is “you need to feed my kids because I won’t”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/23 01:26 PM
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I got banned from that sub for saying that teachers should’t call their students toxic
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/23 02:39 PM
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What a sad person
/r/MensRights29/07/23 10:03 PM
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I don’t want to judge it without seeing it and I’m not going to pay to see it. When it hits Netflix I’ll get back to you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 03:39 AM
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People who hate men purposefully took that quote out context because they weren’t smart enough to engage with his arguments.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/23 01:42 PM
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You can’t just move to whatever country you want. Immigration laws are very difficult
/r/MensRights15/07/23 05:15 PM
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I’d have no issue with women’s only gym hours at college gyms. I’d just expect male students be charged less in facility fees
/r/MensRights21/06/23 03:01 PM
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Could very easily be a shared genetic trait. Or IV/DV could be reversed
/r/MensRights30/05/23 03:31 PM
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Can’t say “makes”. Correlation doesn’t equal causation.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 02:40 PM
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https://www.snopes.com/news/2023/05/05/dwayne-johnson-lawsuit/ This whole thing looks stupid
/r/MensRights06/05/23 02:46 PM
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Innocent until proven guilty will always result in guilty people going free. But any other standard will always result in innocent people being imprisoned. There is no perfect solution, but any criminal justice system not built on Blackstone's formulation is an injustice system
/r/MensRights27/04/23 05:02 PM
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If I did something like that the last thing I’d want is an article about it. It’s almost like she’s proud of herself
/r/MensRights21/04/23 07:06 PM
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If you want to help, offer to call her a cab. Not worth the risk of putting her in your car Also if you think she might be 19, she could be way younger than that. It’s hard to guess people’s age
/r/MensRights20/04/23 03:20 PM
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It’s nuts I can show you some absolutely delusional published lilt on the topic
/r/MensRights17/04/23 10:56 AM
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Get off the internet and call a Lawyer
/r/MensRights12/04/23 01:22 AM
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Republicans have very little for anyone under 30.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 03:54 AM
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At what point are we allowed to treat adult women like adults?
/r/MensRights08/02/23 04:29 AM
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I accept you. The metaphysical question of “what is a man” is something that I’m not interested in. But regardless of any of that, your experience is valid.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 11:12 PM
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I stopped going to the gym a long time ago. Unless you enjoy going to the gym or live in a small apartment, it makes more sense to buy some free weights and workout at home
/r/MensRights04/02/23 07:59 PM
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I workout in my backyard with kettlebells and ride my bike. Haven’t been in a gym in years. If you enjoy going to the gym than you do you. But don’t let these fitness corporations gaslight you into thinking that you need to pay them 60$ a month to get in shape
/r/MensRights29/01/23 02:38 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/zsv5zq/i_m33_want_to_hide_my_bodycount_from_gf/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Here is a post in the same sub where I guy asks about lying to a woman about his body count. Very different reaction
/r/MensRights20/01/23 04:55 PM
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Social Science research also says that women with higher body counts cheat more. So it we’re going to throw social science research around that it’s perfectly valid for a body count to be a deal breaker
/r/MensRights20/01/23 04:46 PM
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Yeah I don’t think we disagree. I just feel like the language we use sometimes like “men’s responsibility” and stuff like that comes off as shaming men who don’t want that traditional role. Men get such little support in the world, the least we can do is be supportive of each other in spaces like this
/r/MensRights19/01/23 09:14 PM
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We shouldn’t be bound by that. We should encourage and support each other to take on that role or to not take on that role. Neither is more masculine then the other
/r/MensRights19/01/23 12:57 PM
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You also run into the catch 22 of lower salaries in lower COL places.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 12:11 PM
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Says who? Why can’t men choose their own path in life
/r/MensRights19/01/23 04:55 AM
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Most families can’t afford that anymore
/r/MensRights19/01/23 02:56 AM
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Don’t victim blame
/r/MensRights08/01/23 04:35 PM
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Reddit demographic
/r/MensRights02/01/23 04:46 PM
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I wouldn’t have taken that kind of responsibility at your age.
/r/MenSupportMen26/12/22 04:00 PM
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I wonder who’s loading all the boxes iri the trucks
/r/MensRights14/12/22 11:33 AM
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Arguing online is never going to change anyone’s mind and won’t make you feel any better
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/22 06:30 AM
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To be fair, if my wife asked me to write a SOWT analysis, I probably wouldn’t
/r/AntiFeminists06/12/22 10:20 PM
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“Toxic masculinity” is not at all mostly perpetuated by other men. That’s silly
/r/MensRights04/12/22 05:06 PM
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She’s mentions twice how upsetting it is to her that the guys she wants have options. She never says what she is going to do to make herself the best option
/r/AntiFeminists04/12/22 05:04 PM
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It’s that she thinks she’s entitled to it without putting in any effort. If this post was the other way around it would be all “lol Incel” comments
/r/AntiFeminists04/12/22 05:02 PM
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She might not have hit the check out button yet but the shopping cart is full
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/22 10:58 PM
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Good for him. He’s probably not as bad looking as he thinks he is and nothing is more attractive than self respect
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/22 10:57 PM
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It’s crazy how all the conversation about the gender pay gap ignores this
/r/MensRights02/12/22 02:09 AM
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You didn’t need to including anything after the word “out”
/r/MensRights01/12/22 06:06 AM
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Online classes still have teachers. If professors aren’t connected to the revenue, why do Universities employ them?
/r/MensRights01/12/22 06:01 AM
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College professors are the product that they people collecting tuition are selling. No one would pay to go to a college where there were no classes
/r/MensRights01/12/22 05:49 AM
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You’re talking about at the college level where they’re not being paid anyway. We’re talking about professional sports. When businesses fund other business it’s called an investment and if you want investment you have to show that you’re worth investing in
/r/MensRights01/12/22 05:48 AM
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Of course college professors bring in revenue. Students pay to go to class. And the US military is a vital public service. Without vital services like military and firefighters no one would be able to do any business because our cities would be burning down. If the WNBA stops playing, no cities are burning down.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 05:46 AM
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And what form would they “help” take? Perhaps other people’s money
/r/MensRights01/12/22 05:42 AM
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It's based on how much revenue your bring in.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 05:20 AM
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If supporting the women's sports isn't worth your money, what right do you have to make other people give it their money ?
/r/MensRights01/12/22 05:19 AM
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So you're against equal pay for equal work
/r/MensRights01/12/22 05:18 AM
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People just don’t watch women’s sports as much so they need extra funding to keep it active. Or maybe people who want woman’s sports to be active should buy tickets. If you want this stuff funded do it with your own money. How many WNBA games have you been to this season?
/r/MensRights01/12/22 04:55 AM
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You're really going to sit there and tell me that a NCAA basketball team is comparable to a group a 14 year old boys? Most NBA players come in directly from NCAA
/r/MensRights01/12/22 04:52 AM
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Professional sports are a business. A business needs to make money. Athletes are paid based on the revenue they produce.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 04:50 AM
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If women watched women's sports as much as men watch men's sports, they wouldn't need to be subsidized
/r/MensRights01/12/22 04:38 AM
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Do women watch as much women's sports as men watch men's sports? Didn't FIFA struggle to sell tickets to the last women's world cup final? How many regular season WNBA games do you go to?
/r/MensRights01/12/22 04:37 AM
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It demonstrates that the USMNT and USWNT do not play in comparable events. Do you support equal pay for equal work? If the USWNT want the same pay as the USMNT they should compete against the same competition and see how they do. Should I get the same chess title as the winner of the candidates tournament for winning sub 200 elo tournament? Of course not
/r/MensRights01/12/22 04:34 AM
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Keep in mind the women’s team lost to a team of under 15 year old boys
/r/MensRights01/12/22 12:58 AM
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You used a condom and she was on birth control?
/r/MensRights27/11/22 04:24 AM
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Who would have thought
/r/MensRights27/11/22 01:57 AM
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I’ve seen some feminist on social media talk about how much men are going to hate this. They’re delusional
/r/MensRights27/11/22 01:56 AM
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/thread
/r/MensRights27/11/22 01:55 AM
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If you’re tempted to go on that sub just jam a fork into your eye. It feels the same
/r/MensRights24/11/22 08:58 PM
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Capitalism?
/r/MensRights24/11/22 06:59 AM
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Same reason effeminate men are bullied a lot life than tom boys . Men have always been punished more for stepping out side of their gender expectations
/r/MensRights20/11/22 03:22 AM
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If you’re still expecting your x to Financially provide for you, than you haven’t moved on.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 02:53 PM
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Work on your marriage and find a way to make it happy. Don’t get married if you’re not prepared to make a life long commitment. Marriage isn’t for everyone
/r/MensRights19/11/22 02:48 PM
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“Till death do is part” means till death do is part. marriage isn’t something that you stay in only when it’s convenient
/r/MensRights19/11/22 01:52 PM
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Every family has the choose what works for them. That wouldn’t work for my family or your daughters but if someone else wanted to be like that they can. If you raised your children like that that maybe look into why they chose a different path
/r/MensRights19/11/22 01:45 PM
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So go sell your own offspring on that idea
/r/MensRights19/11/22 01:33 PM
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It wouldn’t make it any better if he has autism
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 06:18 AM
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I was raised this way also. It took years of incredible pain before I was able to see though it and start turning my life around
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/22 06:15 AM
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Femcels love calling the guys that reject them “ mediocre“
/r/MensRights19/11/22 06:11 AM
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No, I’m not going to answer your irrelevant question. An ex isn’t his ex wife’s father. She can put her big girl pants on and take care of herself.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 05:36 AM
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Child support and alimony aren’t the same thing. But custody should be split 50/50 regardless. It sounds like you have a problem with the choices your daughters have made. Maybe talk with them about it.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 03:32 AM
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If she initiates the divorce than that’s the choices she made. She’s an adult she can figure it out. An ex husband isn’t a father. Marriage, and the providing that a husband does with a wife comes with obligations.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 03:10 AM
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Now imagine telling your two daughters that they now have to work 45 hours a week on top of all that.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 01:57 AM
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Who gets the shift that lines up with when the kids are in school? That person lucks out
/r/MensRights19/11/22 01:32 AM
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Other than extreme circumstances, “till death do us part” means “till death do us part”. Women initiate the overwhelming majority of divorces. Young women tend to be the ones that push for marriage in relationships. Maybe they should think it out more. I’m not opposed to some kind of short term alimony arrangement, but at some point you’re an adult and you can take care of yourself and be responsible for your own choices
/r/MensRights19/11/22 12:41 AM
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So you want to force people to work against their will? You want to force people to slave away at some job and let their children be raised by babysitters and YouTube? Most families require two incomes now a day and it’s awful.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 06:40 PM
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There is always the possibility of something bad happening but that’s true for anything you do I life. My wife ads a ton of value to my life.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 06:37 PM
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They want people to be paid a wage ( on top of literally all of their living expenses if they’re a house wife) for taking care of their own homes
/r/AntiFeminists15/11/22 02:56 PM
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No. You did what you can do. You’re not responsible for other people’s poor choices
/r/MensRights10/11/22 01:12 AM
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According to Holly's motion, the main features of a gender-equal city include walkability, proximity to services, safe public spaces and open green spaces. So just basic urban infrastructure upgrades that they’re using feminism to sell
/r/MensRights09/11/22 10:54 PM
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The male gaze is now just male students paying attention to their computer screens during online class
/r/MensRights09/11/22 08:20 PM
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They should call it person of the year
/r/MensRights05/11/22 07:18 PM
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What are they referring to?
/r/EverydayMisandry04/11/22 07:34 PM
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You’re right. My bad
/r/EverydayMisandry03/11/22 05:07 PM
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Not striking up unnecessary conversations with random minors is probably a good habit regarding of gender
/r/EverydayMisandry03/11/22 05:26 AM
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I can’t imagine why one of those people would have better experiences with men than the other
/r/EverydayMisandry31/10/22 09:50 PM
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Half my classmates and professors in grad school outright hated men. Men should absolutely go to therapy if they need it. But never be embarrassed to ask the therapist on day one how they view gender issues and ask to be referred out if they give a response you’re not comfortable with
/r/EverydayMisandry26/10/22 11:52 AM
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Saying a 30 year old woman should be treated like a child is very sexist
/r/EverydayMisandry20/10/22 10:37 AM
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There is a good chance that they just didn’t have the staff to accommodate that
/r/MensRights20/10/22 01:14 AM
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Might also be that she is saying "shorts" but meaning booty shorts or something like that. There are certainly some types of shorts that are not appropriate in a work setting
/r/MensRights18/10/22 10:28 PM
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Her having a son scares me also. The chance her driving in to self hate, depression, drugs and suicide is entirely too high
/r/AntiFeminists13/10/22 02:14 AM
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The Gender of the criminal shouldn’t matter at all in sentencing. Justice needs to be blind
/r/MensRights12/10/22 01:05 AM
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I mean, the World Cup stadiums were literally built by trafficked men. A lot of the produce we consume is grown and harvested by trafficked men,
/r/MensRights12/10/22 01:03 AM
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Masculinity is about balance
/r/MensRights08/10/22 04:34 PM
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It shouldn’t be exactly the same for any 2 people
/r/MensRights08/10/22 04:19 PM
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how about let’s reform the social protection systems instead of doing mass murder
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/22 05:19 PM
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I’m in an extremely left wing industry and work with some feminist who’s misandry is scary at times. But I think even they would find this outrage.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/10/22 01:44 PM
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The “unpaid work” thing isn’t a social issue. If you feel that there is an uneven distribution of household responsibilities in your home, you need to deal with that in your home with your family. Your shitty marriage isn’t a political problem
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/10/22 03:14 AM
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The thing I would say to this young man is that A teenager shouldn’t use themselves as bate for a predator. I can see where is is coming from, but it’s not safe behavior or ultimately a good use of his time. Report her and move on
/r/MensRights04/10/22 01:30 AM
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There is a good chance that this was a bit
/r/MensRights03/10/22 11:46 PM
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Men are automatically taken seriously in any situation. That sounds nice
/r/MensRights02/10/22 11:05 PM
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They shouldn’t be the singular group that’s excluded.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 08:45 PM
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Never underestimate what it feels like to be singled out as a child. This teaches boys that they don’t matter and not to complain about it. If the first person who says you matter is Andrew Tate, you’re going to agree with his world view. How hard would it have been to include “boys, your feelings are not toxic, you are not disposable”. Did this school just happen to run out of cards or something?
/r/MensRights02/10/22 08:42 PM
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How is a little boy supposed to interpret that other than “you’re not as important as everyone else”. This is pathetic, whatever teacher did this shouldn’t be anywhere near a classroom
/r/MensRights02/10/22 08:37 PM
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If they were male voices feminist would complain that it’s reinforcing the idea that men know more than them
/r/AntiFeminists02/10/22 04:39 PM
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You can set those devices to whatever voice you want. I made mine into a British dude because it feels classy
/r/AntiFeminists02/10/22 04:37 PM
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The root of it is this flawed idea that therapy is a strictly a science. Sure things like CBT are “ evidence based” but that doesn’t mean it’s best for everyone. Different approaches work for different people. His approach might not work for everyone but that doesn’t mean it’s not helpful to a lot of people.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 03:19 PM
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I’ve not read any of his books because I’m not interested in Christianity but I recognize that he’s writing has helped a lot of men
/r/MensRights30/09/22 03:14 PM
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It seems like it came done to a her said she said. So she probably did it but there was not enough evidence to convict. I don’t know why “I’m too lazy to do it” was allowed in court.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 12:57 PM
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It’s probably more strategic for them to just offer better pay than to re-introduce conscription.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 07:09 PM
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Probably depends on the healthcare plan you have
/r/MensRights29/09/22 07:03 PM
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Okay these are silly. 1. Medical trials are more likely to be done on men because men are more disposable. 2. It has nothing to do with testing. Men are most of the time bigger and stronger and thus are more likely to recover from impact injury. It sucks but it’s biological 3. This isn’t a bad point but she’s got the wrong disorder. Autism is more common in males. There has been massive amounts of research into figuring out why. It’s not something as simple as “classic symptoms are based on male…
/r/MensRights29/09/22 07:01 PM
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Okay these are silly. 1. Medical trials are more likely to be done on men because men are more disposable. 2. It has nothing to do with testing. Men are most of the time bigger and stronger and thus are more likely to recover from impact injury. It sucks but it’s biological 3. This isn’t a bad point but she’s got the wrong disorder. Autism is more common in males. There has been massive amounts of research into figuring out why. It’s not something as simple as “classic symptoms are based on male…
/r/MensRights29/09/22 06:50 PM
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Don’t get legal advice form Reddit. You need a lawyer
/r/MensRights28/09/22 10:15 PM
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I would never refer to having empathy for my loved ones as “labor”. It’s a really sad way to view the world.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 03:02 PM
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Regardless, I hope these protesters get the change they are seeing.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 02:53 PM
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The problem is that the burden of defense is being u equally shared
/r/MensRights23/09/22 09:23 PM
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Is it a rule that they can’t go more than three sentences without using the word “incel”?
/r/MensRights22/09/22 02:36 AM
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Because they don’t see the nerds they bullied in high school as actual people.
/r/MensRights16/09/22 11:16 PM
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Yes, a marriage that lacks intimacy is not a healthy marriage and I wouldn’t stay in a relationship where my needs weren’t taken seriously
/r/MensRights14/09/22 11:26 PM
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Let us know how it goes.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 09:57 PM
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“Why don’t men open up about their feelings”
/r/MensRights14/09/22 08:41 PM
3

If I had to initiate sex with my wife the same way I’d ask a work colleague for a meeting then I wouldn’t consider my relationship healthy. The method initiation suggested in this article is comical. If people want a relationship like that than that’s fine, but it’s not the norm and we shouldn’t advocate for it being the norm. My wife is literally the only person on earth I can be fully myself around, I can’t imagine losing that. Obviously a man should use common sense, if she just had a horribl…
/r/MensRights14/09/22 08:06 PM
23

If she reacts negatively to those things and calls it “being a pest” than she’s not into you.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 10:57 AM
23

I do all these things because I have a healthy relationship. It’s called being married. Men have needs and we shouldn’t stay with women who don’t meet them
/r/MensRights14/09/22 10:52 AM
195

Do these women want a husband or a roommate?
/r/MensRights14/09/22 10:49 AM
3

Yeah. People should be able to do what they want. I’m a “mind my own business” kind of guy
/r/MensRights11/09/22 03:49 PM
3

Not having the option to drive puts you at a disadvantage Regardless of the public transportation system,
/r/MensRights10/09/22 06:26 AM
3

Andrew Yang has talked about Men’s issues ( link to an op ed he wrote) but he conveniently waited until he wasn’t running for anything to do so. Regardless, He’s politically irrelevant https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/02/08/andrew-yang-boys-are-not-all-right/
/r/MensRights10/09/22 03:09 AM
1

I’ll tell you what, you do what you’re going to do and I’ll do what I have to do to provide for my family and we can end this conversation on that
/r/MensRights10/09/22 02:46 AM
0

Sounds like you’ve never lived in poverty.
/r/MensRights10/09/22 02:39 AM
0

lol you’re trying to convince me I’m wrong for making the choices that keep my children well fed and my house warm in the winter. Yes feminism hurts my son, but not as much as living in poverty would. Go ahead and call me childish names
/r/MensRights10/09/22 02:31 AM
0

I’ve heard all the anti union propaganda before. I know the way life changed for me and my family and my coworkers and their families when we unionized. I used to worry about keeping the lights on, now we’re comfortably in the upper middle class. You can call me whatever name you want, you’ll never convince me to go back to pre union days of sending my son to school with holes in his shoes. If wanting Financial security for my family makes me a sheep than I’m a sheep
/r/MensRights10/09/22 02:25 AM
0

The only sheep are the ones who’d take power of collective bargaining away from workers.
/r/MensRights10/09/22 02:17 AM
3

She definitely had a lot of soft power
/r/MensRights10/09/22 02:15 AM
0

You don’t know a damn thing about my life. People who do what I do in states with out strong collective bargaining rights literally make less than half I do. I know the way my industry works
/r/MensRights10/09/22 02:13 AM
1

My union is not stupid. It’s the only reason I’m able to provide a good life for my family
/r/MensRights10/09/22 02:05 AM
0

Not voting gives them power to ignore you. And in my day to day life, keeping republicans from knee capping my union is too important for my families well being.
/r/MensRights09/09/22 10:43 PM
2

Republicans aren’t any better. There is no way to move the needle on this in the voting booth
/r/MensRights09/09/22 10:33 PM
7

So boys don’t have the same right to travel as girls. Boys can’t get jobs that they would have to drive to, only girls can, boys can’t go to education institutions that they have to drive to. How is that not a massive disadvantage and oppression
/r/MensRights09/09/22 05:20 PM
6

There is just not enough of them. We have school that have one councilor for 2k kids. It’s too much and only the top and bottom 10% of kids get any attention
/r/MensRights09/09/22 05:17 PM
-3

There is no non misandrist political party. I vote for democrats because I think they’re better on other issues that effect me such as labor unions
/r/MensRights09/09/22 03:38 AM
28

I lived in her district when she ran her primary and she literally campaigned on her race and gender. It was pathetic
/r/MensRights08/09/22 04:14 AM
11

She literally won the popular vote by a good margin. If the Pennsylvania state line were was in a slightly different place we’d be looking back on that election and laughing at the idea of Trump being president
/r/MensRights08/09/22 04:14 AM
3

I’m not going to post it because I don’t want to give it traffic but GQ just released the most condescending interview with her
/r/MensRights08/09/22 12:59 AM
1

It’s the same thing as the “pizza dare”. It’s sexual harassment and it should not be celebrated They’re obviously not my favorite community but I don’t think 2x would support what she is doing
/r/MensRights07/09/22 07:20 PM
2

I went down the rabbit hole and looked at her post history. Oh my god what a horrible person
/r/MensRights07/09/22 12:17 PM
30

Honestly, let’s all take a moment to be thankful that this boy gets to be raised by his father and not by this woman who hates him
/r/MensRights07/09/22 12:03 PM
59

On going alimony makes no sense at all. Temporary alimony to smooth the transition is fine but after a year it’s theft
/r/MensRights07/09/22 12:00 PM
46

Jealous men and bitter women
/r/MensRights06/09/22 03:48 AM
1

I was listening to a Star Trek podcast and one of the co host randomly said “as my therapist told me, men don’t really feel love”. It’s absolutely insane what some of these people think
/r/MensRights05/09/22 05:25 PM
1

That’s true.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 04:14 PM
3

Not when our advocacy is being directly blocked
/r/MensRights05/09/22 02:05 PM
19

Never marry a woman beneath you in social standing. They might love you but at the end of the day you’re most valuable to them as a tool to move up
/r/MensRights04/09/22 10:59 PM
2

I’m not interested in Christianity
/r/MensRights04/09/22 03:05 PM
8

His books have a Christian theme to them so I’m not interested personally
/r/MensRights03/09/22 11:57 PM
2

I agree
/r/MensRights02/09/22 01:46 AM
2

I can’t say why but I can say that my life significantly improved when I realized this
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/22 07:56 PM
12

I don’t think it’s fair to tell her you’re going to be a parent when she’s pregnant and then change your mind as the baby is coming out. At that point, she can’t have an abortion. There should be Some kind of “advanced notice” requirement so that she can opt for an abortion.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 03:05 PM
9

He shouldn’t have a say in the choice but he also shouldn’t be healed financial responsible Her body her choice, her choice her responsibility
/r/MensRights01/09/22 03:02 PM
5

Take intimacy out of an intimate relationship and the relationship loses intimacy…. Shocking
/r/AntiFeminists31/08/22 01:02 AM
11

Cheating is a behavior
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/22 03:12 PM
12

Cheating in a relationship is a terrible thing to do and people who do it should be judged harshly. This article tries to excuse this reprehensible behavior when it’s done by women and that’s a problem
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/22 03:03 PM
10

There is no correlation in any direction between morality and gender
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/22 03:01 PM
35

The full headline was “Women are more likely to cheat than men – here’s why”. This article is typically BS trying to justify men being treated badly
/r/MensRights24/08/22 04:29 PM
16

“The tin man” on Instagram did a post on this a while back. He cited the research. I’m pretty sure it was specific to the UK but trends probably hold
/r/MensRights24/08/22 04:24 PM
1

How did three people read 17% and upvote it as if that’s not insanely wrong
/r/AntiFeminists23/08/22 04:34 PM
4

That’s the “she was wet” defense. It’s reprehensible and anyone who uses it against a victim of any gender should be shunned
/r/MensRights18/08/22 04:36 PM
7

Next month she’ll be bitching about why she doesn’t get paid as much as A list male actors
/r/MensRights18/08/22 04:33 PM
13

The issue with Johnson wasn’t that he had a party, it was that he had a party during Covid lockdowns which violated his government’s Covid rules
/r/MensRights18/08/22 12:00 PM
2

Or god forbid, the ultimate betrayal. Getting older as time passes, what a bitch (Sarcasm)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/22 03:34 AM
1

It’s all BS. Yeah your 45 year old wife who’s given birth to two children isn’t going to look the same as she did when she was 23. Men know that. That’s not what ED comes from.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/22 03:33 AM
2

Right. ED can be mental but it also can be a simple blood flow issue. Modern medicine has made it possible to enjoy life more so why not enjoy it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/22 03:27 AM
1

There is an anti ED treatment movement? What an absurd thing to spend time on? People should mind their own business The first point reads like a joke that a bad comic would make.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/22 03:25 AM
2

I really hope this is not real
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 01:37 AM
3

Keep in mind that this book is almost 30 years old and so it is very dated
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/22 12:52 AM
7

I’ve been physically assaulted for politely declining
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/22 12:43 AM
30

They want men to be open and talk about their feelings, just not those feelings.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/22 12:42 AM
10

It’s reverse slut shaming. Women are shamed for having sex, men are shamed for not having sex
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/22 12:40 AM
6

Any generalization that encompass roughly 50% of all humans is bound to be BS.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/22 05:42 PM
8

It’s a fake statistic stemming from a misunderstanding of ER data. Women don’t attempt more
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/22 05:44 PM
28

The amount of people in the entertainment subreddit trying to justify her behavior is so unnerving.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 02:31 PM
18

Yes equality should be a thing
/r/MensRights14/08/22 01:51 PM
1

You make a fool out of yourself on every thread on this sub. Bu all means continue to spend your time demonstrating how delusional feminism is
/r/MensRights12/08/22 01:14 PM
1

I think you’re blind to how much privilege women have and how men have to earn what women are given for free Now I’m done feeding the troll. Congratulations on your female friend who’s doing what the norm is for men in her situation. Now imagine if she was a brick layer and had to do the same thing
/r/MensRights11/08/22 11:33 PM
1

Some have sure. But they don’t need to make the same sacrifices so not as many of them do.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 11:00 PM
1

Men are pressured to have a higher salary (I’d use a stronger word than pressured since men who can’t provide are literally treated worse than animals ) therefor they make more sacrifices to have a high salary and are more likely to have a higher salary. And the solution is to give those high salary jobs to someone who hasn’t made the same sacrifices to get them?
/r/MensRights11/08/22 08:09 PM
6

I’d like to see the syllabus and required readings
/r/MensRights11/08/22 06:58 PM
7

I imagine any angry white male who takes the class and genuinely tries to participate in the discussion will be yelled down and insulted
/r/MensRights11/08/22 06:53 PM
1

You taught gender studies and you can’t recognize that males have more pressure to provide than females? This is why gender studies is a joke
/r/MensRights11/08/22 06:42 PM
1

Yes if you tell only one group of people that their value and ability to be loved is based on their income that group will make more sacrifices for a higher income. Is anyone forcing college girls to major in social work and gender studies instead of engineering and finance? No
/r/MensRights11/08/22 01:45 PM
2

Exactly and it’s insane to believe that they don’t do it on purpose
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/22 01:16 PM
3

At this point why can’t you just admit that you were mislead by a fake state and apologize
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/22 01:06 PM
3

Women don’t attempt more. That’s a made up stat that feminist use to prevent male mental health from reviving funding
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/22 01:05 PM
2

No, you were proved wrong because the idea that “women attempt more” is wrong. Apologize and move on
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/22 01:04 PM
1

https://afsp.org/suicide-statistics/ “In the U.S., no complete count of suicide attempt data are available. The CDC gathers data from hospitals on non-fatal injuries from self-harm as well as survey data.”
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/22 01:02 PM
2

“Suicide attempt” isn’t a stat that the CDC or NIH track. There is no official definition of what an attempt is. The “women attempt more” stat comes from tracking non fatal self induced injury treated at emergency rooms. Women aren’t attempting more, women are getting taken to the hospital when they self harm so they’re self harm is being reported where as men and boys aren’t
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/22 12:58 PM
1

Because men are told from a young age that their value as a person is based on what they earn so men sacrifice more to be high earners. Women aren’t told that so they don’t typically put themselves though the same things that men do. It’s the same reason why all the low paying easy college majors are female dominated while the competitive high paying majors are male dominated
/r/MensRights11/08/22 05:19 AM
1

If that were true than women wouldn’t need to government to force companies to hire them
/r/MensRights11/08/22 03:17 AM
2

What if people get the jobs that they earn regardless of gender?
/r/MensRights11/08/22 03:07 AM
2

Both major parties in the US are misandrist. I vote democrat because I think they’re better than the alternative
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/22 07:23 PM
27

One dead woman is a tragedy, A million dead men is a statistic
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/22 07:21 PM
3

You should call the administration and ask how you’re supposed to travel around campus is walking while male is considered suspicious activity
/r/MensRights10/08/22 06:42 PM
2

I never heard his name before a few days ago and have seen like 10 post In The last 48 hours from feminist about how awful he is. However he is, the feminist are making him famous
/r/MensRights10/08/22 06:37 PM
27

Then, after shutting us down and shaming our emotions, they’ll turn around and say that we’re toxic for not showing our emotions.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 06:35 PM
1

And the women who did this to him will never be held accountable
/r/MensRights08/08/22 09:13 PM
2

Before getting married I made sure my wife understood that intimacy is a vital component to a relationship and not transactional. So far she’s been great
/r/MensRights07/08/22 04:19 PM
17

Cannabis in Russia is illegal. Possession of up to 6 grams (or two grams of hashish) is an administrative offense, punishable by a fine or detention of 15 days. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cannabis_in_Russia This is all about geopolitics
/r/MensRights05/08/22 02:32 PM
10

This isn’t a gender issue at all, but nine years is no where near the realm of the standard sentence for her charges. This has nothing to do with her crime and everything to do with Russia looking for bargaining power. This is the equivalent of the USA putting Alexander Ovechkin in jail for ten years over unpaid parking tickets ( which we should probably do at this point so we can negotiate on equal ground). We can challenge the absurdity of the media trying to make this a gender issue without d…
/r/MensRights05/08/22 02:30 PM
10

She’s a political prisoner and it’s horrific what that third rare dictatorship is doing to her. But it has absolutely nothing to do with gender
/r/MensRights05/08/22 02:26 PM
1

I was with her on Harley’s sucking then she became a massive b
/r/AntiFeminists05/08/22 11:47 AM
2

Feminism is a word that lost all meaning because it means vastly different things to different people. It’s like the word “nerd”. It’s not a useful description anymore
/r/MensRights04/08/22 04:46 PM
9

Getting out of abusive relationships isn’t always easy.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 04:27 PM
1

Thanks
/r/MensRights04/08/22 03:17 PM
9

I don’t understand the judges response. Can someone translate it into non lawyer?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 02:58 PM
1

A man should be able to opt out of rights and responsibilities related to parenthood during the time when abortion is an an option.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 01:38 AM
36

He doesn’t have to accept anything. Teach him to have respect for himself and not to associate with people sexist
/r/MensRights03/08/22 10:56 PM
8

Everything John Barry, PhD writes is so on point.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 02:37 PM
7

Why does she want to be in a relationship with a man who she clearly doesn’t love?
/r/MensRights01/08/22 07:55 PM
8

Is your therapist under supervision? If so, make a complaint to the supervisor
/r/MensRights21/07/22 01:16 PM
14

Sperm in a tissue isn’t getting to an egg
/r/AntiFeminists20/07/22 08:30 PM
2

That’s got to be a joke
/r/AntiFeminists20/07/22 08:29 PM
4

Ask males who grew up in the 80s what being into Star Trek or Dungeons and Dragons was like
/r/AntiFeminists17/07/22 07:23 PM
3

Some real smelly pussy energy there
/r/MensRights13/07/22 11:56 AM
77

And of course she plays the “toxic masculinity” card after you absolutely schooled her
/r/MensRights12/07/22 12:32 AM
3

Sounds like it’s time to tell them that if they want you to continue doing all this extra work, you need a raise
/r/MenSupportMen11/07/22 08:13 PM
3

I’ll join your sub but I think it’s going to be a blood bath
/r/MensRights10/07/22 06:30 PM
-1

Depends on how you define “feminist” I think a lot of the men on this sub would even consider themselves one. I’m definitely for equal rights
/r/MensRights10/07/22 06:28 PM
7

Done
/r/MensRights10/07/22 01:24 PM
40

Sounds like the friend had issues. Be thankful that you’re not the one dating her
/r/MensRights10/07/22 12:24 PM
123

I work in a female dominated industry. It’s constant and they flip their shit if you complain about it.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 08:07 PM
29

Seeing as how you don’t know that men literally go to jail if they can’t afford child support, I don’t think law school is a good idea for you
/r/MensRights09/07/22 03:26 PM
27

Male rape victim have to pay child support to their rapist
/r/MensRights09/07/22 03:18 PM
1

There is a misconception about Romeo and Juliet laws.
/r/AntiFeminists09/07/22 02:52 PM
1

Warren Ferrell is a great place to start
/r/MensRights09/07/22 01:59 PM
3

Don’t talk to her. Tell your child not to talk to her. If you have to interact with her record the interaction
/r/MensRights08/07/22 09:25 PM
3

I live in NYC and I think you’re over stating it a bit. But regardless, no one in this situation is white
/r/MensRights08/07/22 07:46 PM
4

Not that those aren’t valid points. But the bodega worker is latino
/r/MensRights08/07/22 03:28 PM
329

Imagine living your life like this. Must be sad
/r/MensRights08/07/22 04:08 AM
48

During the fight, Simon’s girlfriend allegedly stabbed the worker in the shoulder with a knife she had in her purse, according to Alba’s defense attorney — but she is not facing charges.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 12:29 AM
12

Or do mothers and fathers ever teach sons how they should be treated in return. It’s good to tell our sons how to treat women, but we also should teach them that they should be treated just as well in return. Unfortunately, mothers tend to spew “happy wife happy wife” to their sons and the sons grow up thinking that they have to accept abusive behavior
/r/MensRights07/07/22 05:43 PM
13

How do you think things like that effect little boys?
/r/MensRights07/07/22 11:15 AM
37

10% is probably way too high a number
/r/MensRights07/07/22 11:13 AM
69

And they’re apologizing to a group of white American women, who are literally the most privileged group of people in history
/r/MensRights07/07/22 11:12 AM
17

Got em!
/r/MensRights07/07/22 10:54 AM
5

That’s not really the eat the legal system works
/r/MensRights07/07/22 01:35 AM
4

The MRA sub isn’t the feeder to the American alt right that it used to be.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/22 09:48 PM
2

There is a lot of overlap between this sub and MRA. I’ve noticed that MRA has become a lot more balanced in it’s appropriate to American politics lately so maybe there some drain going on or something I don’t like the term “Incel”, it’s become a slur, so I’m not going to address that point
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/22 08:09 PM
5

The unfortunate thing is that people use the term “human trafficking” and “sex trafficking” interchangeable. Most human trafficking is labor trafficking and it’s victims almost get taken out of the conversation. The World Cup stadiums are literally being built by human trafficking victims and no one seems to give a shit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/22 05:16 PM
3

Innocent until proven guilty
/r/MensRights06/07/22 12:44 PM
1

Does he have a podcast?
/r/MensRights06/07/22 12:31 PM
3

You guys have helped me see myself as someone who is worthy of respect. I can’t speak for all men but MRAs have helped this man
/r/MensRights05/07/22 08:45 PM
1

I’m not going to read that whole thing, but If anyone reads section 2.3.1, that’s where the issue is.
/r/MensRights05/07/22 08:40 PM
6

There is no party in America that can be called a “mens rights” party. That’s a reality we have to deal with. I’m not going to pretend that republicans are something that they’re not
/r/MensRights05/07/22 07:55 PM
70

We need reproductive rights. That means the right to both medical and paper abortions. And all cosmetic surgeries on infants should be outlawed
/r/MensRights05/07/22 07:54 PM
7

The only other thing I can think of done in America is ear piercing. And while I don’t think it’s as big a deal as genital mutilation, I’m still extremely oppressed to it
/r/MensRights05/07/22 04:33 AM
7

No. genital mutilation is not comparable to anything else parents do to their babies.
/r/MensRights05/07/22 04:32 AM
7

This issue as absolutely nothing to do with abortion. That’s an stupid what about ism. A baby is clearly not the same thing as a fetus. We can have a debate about abortion, but it was nothing to do with the debate about genital mutilation
/r/MensRights05/07/22 04:30 AM
2

I don’t mind if adults want it done to them for whatever reason. What I am opposed to is it being done to babies without their consent
/r/MensRights05/07/22 02:59 AM
1

These women get so upset that men have preferences so someone who isn’t them
/r/AntiFeminists03/07/22 05:12 PM
28

“ why aren’t more men marching with us?”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/22 12:56 PM
1

Well everyone dies eventually so technically this is correct I guess
/r/AntiFeminists30/06/22 05:43 AM
1

Good for you. Let us know how it goes
/r/MensRights30/06/22 02:02 AM
15

So it’s “no uterus, no opinion of your own, you’re only allowed to agree with my opinion” Sorry that’s not how the world works
/r/MensRights29/06/22 08:17 PM
14

I’d imagine that her looks are how she got away with such bad behavior her whole life
/r/AntiFeminists29/06/22 02:59 PM
18

No. Republicans aren’t pro man. They’re pro “disposable man”. There is no pro male party in America
/r/MensRights29/06/22 01:54 PM
177

What happened to “no uterus no opinion” I am pro choice but this whole “men need to shut up unless they agree with me” is insulting.
/r/MensRights29/06/22 12:32 PM
6

The sex strike isn’t real. It’s the least of our problems
/r/MensRights28/06/22 06:30 PM
3

It is funny to watch them make the same arguments against men that the religious right make against women That said. I don’t think we can have paper abortions without safe and legal medical abortions.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 03:34 PM
3

My wife is not participating so I’m good either way
/r/MensRights28/06/22 05:17 AM
7

They’re irreversible most of the time.
/r/MensRights27/06/22 07:56 PM
3

Let her destroy her marriage if she wants
/r/MensRights27/06/22 02:49 PM
1

Shouldn’t men be afraid to touch a women without her consent regardless of abortion laws?
/r/AntiFeminists26/06/22 12:00 AM
8

This sub is more more pro receptive to women’s reproductive rights than the feminist subs are to men’s reproductive rights
/r/MensRights25/06/22 08:09 PM
-1

Pregnancy isn’t contagious
/r/MensRights24/06/22 07:41 PM
-14

You think it’s bad now. Imagine how bad it’s going to be without the constitutional protections that we used to have
/r/MensRights24/06/22 05:50 PM
-1

Roe V Wade was the only ruling affirming that the right to privacy is implied in the US constitution.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 05:47 PM
-10

Absolutely not. Roe v Wade affirmed that there is an implied right to privacy in the constitution. This ruling says thst there is not. Abortion is a secondary issue in all this
/r/MensRights24/06/22 05:36 PM
-5

Roe V Wade wasn’t about abortion. It was about right to privacy. Over turning it makes that right void
/r/MensRights24/06/22 05:35 PM
-1

I guess the argument that there is no right to privacy implied in the constitution won today. But it’s so strange to see people supporting it.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 03:57 PM
15

Medical and Paper abortions should both legal. Even after today medical abortions are still legal for most American women . Paper abortions are not legal for any American man
/r/MensRights24/06/22 03:55 PM
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People who are celebrating that we just lost our constitutional right to privacy have no idea how short sighted they’re being. Freedom took a major major it today
/r/MensRights24/06/22 03:54 PM
3

Making cosmetics changes to infant’s bodies is wrong.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/22 08:39 PM
1

I always start recording on my cell phone if I’m alone within someone I don’t trust
/r/MensRights23/06/22 11:54 AM
3

The right isn’t any better. They don’t want equality they want us all to be trapped in traditional gender roles where men work 70 he weeks
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/22 11:04 PM
1

Link to the segments https://youtu.be/CPL3hV6Z-os
/r/MensRights16/06/22 11:44 PM
3

A lot of people don’t want to think about it (which is fine) but still want to share an opinion about it so they come out with “they’re both terrible” so that they can feel like they’re contributing to the conversation without actually taking the time to know what they’re talking about
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/22 07:29 PM
3

It is outrageous. Maybe now people will pay attention to it. This woman is a victim, she is not our enemy. We need to advocate for her and for the boys/men in this situation
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/22 03:45 PM
6

Men are talking. We (as a society) need to do a better job of listening
/r/MensRights07/06/22 03:40 PM
10

Very nice
/r/MensRights01/06/22 11:26 PM
4

Hopefully this sends a message that weaponizing feminism and “believe all women” won’t be tolerated
/r/MensRights01/06/22 11:24 PM
5

This case has separated people and groups who actually care about IPV from people and groups who just hate men
/r/MensRights26/05/22 02:38 PM
3

The classic “he’s lucky” after reading a story about a boy rape victim is a big one. Men are very competitive with each other and tear each other down. It makes sense since the male role has always been to compete with other men for limited resources so that we can provide for a family. But resources aren’t as limited as they once were
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/22 03:02 PM
7

Exactly. Male privileges and female privileges both exist. How they show up in someone’s life is dependent on their individual environment
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/22 03:00 PM
31

There are so many scholarships for women in stem because they’re underrepresented. But there is absolutely nothing for men trying to become mental healthcare professionals. What we need is more male LCSWs, LMFTs LMHCs and PsyDs. Someone needs to take a hard look at how much misandry there is in the curriculum and take corrective action. And misandrist professors need to be fired.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/22 02:58 PM
1

So when a women hits menopause does she lose the leave? Would that mean she has to report her menopause status to her employer?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/22 05:27 PM
2

I think it’s because the misandrist rhetoric from The left has pushed them away. I just heard an NPR segment about the Buffalo shooting where the guest and host decided that the shooting happened because of masculinity. Can’t make it up
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/22 05:21 PM
9

I think a lot of females psychotherapist who work with lonely men should be made to understand this during their schooling. I’ve seen so many cases of female clinical social workers in their 20s just not be able to comprehend how few options their clients have
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/22 05:14 PM
5

Dress codes are part of life. They’re not oppression
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/22 02:23 PM
3

I don’t want to spoil anything but The Wheel Of Time books tried to portray a horribly abusive relationship as ideal love
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/22 12:31 AM
2

Ted Lasso is a fantastic show all around
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/22 12:29 AM
3

This is why I re watch Star Trek The Next Generation and Deep Space Nine so much. Captain Picard and Captain Sisko are such fantastic examples of positive male role models I found Ted Lasso to be a great male role model as well and fantastic show all around
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/22 12:28 AM
21

It’s typical playground nonsense. Male and female bodies are both beautiful. We don’t have to put down one to appreciate the other
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/22 12:23 AM
13

Boys are falling behind in education. We shouldn’t be actively making it harder for them to concentrate on their studies. Also, I’ve never been to a workplace that doesn’t have a dress code. Being asked to dress in a manor that’s appropriate for your setting is also a good life lesson
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/22 12:21 AM
5

I don’t think it’s fair to hormonal teenage boys. When they see their classmates wearing revealing clothes, they have to compete with Millions of years of Evolution that has programmed them to pay attention to nothing else but that. It’s fundamental biology, these are young boys who still don’t fully understand what they’re feeling. It’s perfectly reasonable to ask ab adult to get over it and pay attention to their work, but for teenage boys, you’re just fighting science
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/22 12:18 AM
5

I thought the poll was about the effect the ruling will have. If not, I'd like to change my vote
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/22 03:43 PM
8

I'm in favor if the right to an abortion both paper and physical. This ruling is a massive step in the wrong direction.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/22 03:41 PM
2

So instead of going to the police, she goes to MLB? Give be a break
/r/MensRights30/04/22 03:35 PM
3

Doesn’t she try to push David Icke’s writing? That’s pretty antisemitic
/r/MensRights29/04/22 10:13 PM
1

It’s okay for each of us as individuals to have opinions on this. But as a mens movement, I don’t see the terf feminist vs gender critical feminist debate as a good use of our time
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/22 03:33 PM
1

The thing to keep in mind is that relationships are always complicated and the poster abuse victim doesn’t really exist
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/22 03:31 PM
2

I was just thinking the other day how great it would be for the tin man to do a post on this. Tin man does a lot of great posts but this one in particular is really good and really important.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/22 03:29 PM
20

I was banned by that sub for suggesting that a teacher shouldn’t be calling their struggling male 11 year old students “toxic”. As far as I’m concerned they’re actively and purposefully trying to hurt men
/r/MensRights22/04/22 05:14 PM
2

I’m hoping that this whole thing leads to much more awareness of what happens to so many men
/r/MensRights22/04/22 05:10 PM
3

I think it’s common sense that saying something like that is harmful but I’ll read the article. Thanks for posting
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/22 04:32 PM
4

Feminist tell girls that all men are horrible then use girl’s fear of men as evidence for all men being horrible. Meanwhile they’re making tons of money selling books, writing articles and giving lectures. It’s a racket
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/22 04:31 PM
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I’m okay with the mens movement stepping out of this one.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 02:12 AM
1

Re read the text messages
/r/MensRights11/04/22 01:32 PM
1

We need to get more involved in advocacy at higher levels. The APA and NASW are becoming very misandrist. The fact that heads didn’t role at the APA in 2015 is unacceptable, what grad schools are teaching future mental healthcare workers is needs to be challenged
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/22 07:18 PM
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There’s no a acknowledgement that this is a lot of boy’s experience https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/boy-accused-asking-touch-girls-26185666
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/22 07:15 PM
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I love how feminist twitter can't decide if Will was standing up for his wife like a real man or displaying toxic masculinity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/22 11:04 PM
6

Maybe it’s a cultural thing. I’m from NYC where “don’t get involved” is pretty much universally agreed on
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/03/22 07:32 PM
2

r/leftwingmaleadvocates
/r/MensRights23/03/22 11:14 PM
2

Join us over in r/leftwingmaleadvocates We’re a thriving network of liberals and left leaners who reject feminism and embrace the mens right movement
/r/MensRights23/03/22 11:13 PM
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I’d be okay with the mens movement staying out of this one. I don’t think encouraging men to transition for better results in custody battles is the agenda we want. Personally I sympathize with her but I don’t think it’s fare for her to compete against cis gendered athletes and the NCAA shouldn’t have allowed it. But the mens movement is for mens issues.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 10:59 PM
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I don’t know what this adds to be honest. Introducing new disorders is always a huge process and we already have “ avoidant personality disorders” for clients with these symptoms.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/22 10:22 PM
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What is “by any means”? And how do you define the culture war?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/22 08:15 PM
9

Or how over incarceration, which is an issue they primarily impacts men, is never discussed as a gender issue and when it is, the focus is on thr struggle to the women who’s partner is incarcerated
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/22 06:35 PM
3

A major problem is that capitalism has adjusted to feminism by making duel incomes almost a requirement
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/22 06:32 PM
2

I posted this link because I thought it seemed relevant to the subreddit. I found this Ted talk very interesting, this guy is a great speaker. I hope it is an appropriate post https://www.ted.com/talks/joseph_ravenell_how_barbershops_can_keep_men_healthy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/22 03:03 PM
1

I subscribed because I’m interested in hearing the perspectives presented. But as a non black person I will probably not participate in the conversations. Thank you for sharing. Gender and race issues intersect a lot and unfortunately black men so often get the short end of both sticks
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/22 08:32 PM
1

Most of the stories I hear seem like symptoms of insurance companies dictating how appointments should go. For profit health insurance is just a bad system imo
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/22 08:29 PM
2

I don’t have any data, but I think it’s growing.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 06:27 PM
10

I’m a married man who has a decent amount of sex for a man my age and I still get called an Incel when giving my opinion on gender issues. Even ones that have nothing to do with dating and relationships
/r/MensRights09/03/22 05:57 PM
0

The tree of feminist thought is massive. I’m not opposed the tree’s trunk and I’m not opposed to all of the branches. But the pop feminism that is the most influential I am opposed to. Feminist always try to “no true scots”
/r/MensRights09/03/22 05:55 PM
1

This is literally the same logic that people use when talking about “weaponized incompetence”. You’re able to see how it’s sexist when it’s pointed towards a female, it’s just as sexist when t pointed towards a male. You literally have no idea what I look like so I’m not concerned with your assessment on if I’m cute.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 05:53 PM
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It’s our fault that feminist philosophy isn’t compatible with reality?
/r/MensRights08/03/22 08:23 PM
5

Those both sound like victim blaming to me.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 04:34 PM
6

People don't like being called toxic...
/r/MensRights08/03/22 02:29 PM
4

Men die younger from all major medical issues so I don’t understand the logic behind saying women get worse care
/r/MensRights04/03/22 03:28 AM
3

I don’t have time read this right now but I work in mental health and have a lot of thoughts on this , I’ll try to read it later and share
/r/MensRights28/02/22 06:59 PM
6

Circumcision is almost always unnecessary
/r/MensRights28/02/22 06:58 PM
5

I liked this article. One thing that really needs to be addressed is the obsession that the mental health system has with demonizing masculinity
/r/MensRights28/02/22 06:56 PM
1

I can’t keep up with the pills
/r/MensRights28/02/22 06:54 PM
7

We should make a flag for men’s suicide awareness
/r/MensRights28/02/22 03:08 PM
2

I used to shave my legs when I was a competitive cyclist and I found it nowhere near as unpleased has shaving my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:57 AM
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I literally grew up in NYC and have lived here my whole life so you’re not going to trick me with any of those fake “cities are horrible” bs. There are a few problems areas that have that smell, it’s caused by homeless men (and they’re almost all men) slowly dying in the street. I guess that’s male privilege. Growing a beard is fine but that doesn’t get you out of shaving. Beards don’t grow naturally in any kind of socially acceptable way. You have to constantly trim, wax and maintain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:05 AM
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You’d need to shave your face every day I don’t know where you live, but in the caviled world men can not just pee anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:54 AM
7

Gallows humor
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/22 09:00 PM
12

Well Putin is a man so clearly all the 16 year old boys who’s lives are getting thrown away are privileged because (insert absurd feminist logic)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/22 08:59 PM
2

Judge Judy isn’t “the justice system”. She’s a private arbitrator dressed up like a judge for TV But this is great
/r/MensRights24/02/22 03:15 AM
3

The Amazon Tolkien show looks like a train wreck. They did such a bad job on Wheel of Time. I wish they’d create original worlds for shows instead of totally misrepresent other people’s work
/r/MensRights24/02/22 03:13 AM
1

Sounds like you want to take a break from dating. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Use the time and money to do something for yourself
/r/MensRights24/02/22 03:12 AM
1

She should be writing him a massive check
/r/MensRights23/02/22 04:26 AM
2

No. I don’t think repressing sexual urges is healthy. It’s important that all parties involved recognize that it’s a game that should stay in the bedroom
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/22 08:40 PM
7

Thank God that guy saw him otherwise there is a good chance we’d be talking about a dead child
/r/MensRights20/02/22 07:47 PM
12

My wife is the most attractive person to me because of how strong our connection to each other is. But we're not in our 20s anymore and after a certain age, it's just patronizing to pretend that there are not more physically attractive people out there. You can marry the hottest 24-year-old on the planet. Eventually, she’ll be 44. She will still be the most attractive person in the world to you, but that attraction won’t be based as much on physical appearance. It's just part of getting old.
/r/MensRights20/02/22 07:14 PM
3

Has it worked or are men just too polite to say otherwise? I’m sorry but I don’t think “ thicc “ is real
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/22 03:04 PM
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These shelters should be funded because men are just as important as women BUT we know that that argument won’t. But, not having male shelters hurts women also and maybe that argument will work. I’ll link to an Instagram post about this issue that explains the argument very well https://www.instagram.com/p/CZts0SEtwVT/?utm_medium=copy_link We shouldn’t need to make arguments like this, but unfortunately we do
/r/MensRights19/02/22 12:54 AM
3

I’d imagine there is an Iceberg effect where we’re only seeing a small amount of what’s happening. But it’s non of our business so we should be seeing even less than we are.
/r/MensRights19/02/22 12:33 AM
12

The amount of power that white women have over black men is so apparent and you have to shove your fingers in your ears not to see it. How many black men have been lynched because I white women made up a story
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/22 12:15 AM
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The term is a good one but application is awful (at least in my profession). Its an academic framework that’s being pushed on professionals and as more and more students graduate form programs that focused on it, it’s becoming too influential and competing too much with person centered approach The idea that an individual can have multiple identities that impact them in different ways is true. The idea that someone can be privileged in one way and oppressed in another is also true. It’s an impor…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/02/22 12:07 AM
1

Yeah lock them both up. What a vial thing to do
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:51 PM
1

Glad I misunderstood! The idea of her getting out after a year is sickening
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:47 PM
1

As part of the agreement, 68 of the charges against her were dropped and she now has no possibility of parole. The laced cupcakes resulted in a one year prison sentence. Hopefully I misunderstood
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:44 PM
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This “no one should be drafted” argument is a total coup out. You can’t “end the draft”. You can end selective services but if America ever faced a truly existential threat, they’ll figure out a way to raise a draft army. National defense in times of crisis is something that falls to the citizenry Is it likely? No, but If we’re going to have the conversation we should have the conversation Also the “women are the primary victims of war”’thing is absurd. But that’s to Hillary Clinton, we’ve all t…
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:40 PM
3

Always separate the rhetoric that leaders use to get their people to buy into war from the actual reason for the war. Wars are a result of competition for resources.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:36 PM
2

She’s getting off on with a once year sentence because she’s going to go to court and testify that he made her do it. No one is innocent here, but because of her gender, she’s not going to be held fully accountable.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 11:34 PM
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It’s almost impossible to definitely determine the etiology of this kind of thing but that’s likely a stressor
/r/MensRights18/02/22 09:50 PM
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It sounds like he was trying to do CBT and was really really bad at it. As for the GF thing, I’d have asked “are you saying that my needs in a relationship don’t matter?”
/r/MensRights18/02/22 04:57 PM
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I don’t like to talk about what I do professionally online so I’ll just say I’m very familiar with this problem. I think a major factor that’s making it worse is that ideologues tend to not be able to hack in in the felid and are more likely to end up teaching in MSW programs where they’re hostel towards pro male student. The one demential way that intersectionality is taught in MSW programs plays a role. I’ll just assure you that not all LCSWS are like that. Some of the most passionate mens rig…
/r/MensRights18/02/22 04:50 PM
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West is clearly having mental health issues but because he’s a man it’s made into a joke by some and exploited for political advantages by others
/r/MensRights18/02/22 04:37 PM
7

Great post, thank you for sharing.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 04:36 PM
1

Being a parent is hard. Most people have to do parenting on top of working at least 40 hours a week and that’s much harder
/r/MensRights18/02/22 01:13 PM
25

That’s reading a lot into one interaction.
/r/MensRights16/02/22 09:34 PM
56

Yeah but “we had a disagreement over the dishes” ain’t it
/r/MensRights16/02/22 08:44 PM
0

I can’t comment on anything outside the US, but American courts go absolutely ham on getting cs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:55 PM
4

Right but they can’t “just leave”. And in states where abortions are legal, men are still on the hook for child support if the women carries an unwanted pregnancy to term. Do you support paper abortions? Because other wise it’s just hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:07 AM
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I call bull shit on your story. What’s the point of asking the question if you’re just going to invalidate the experience that people share with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:27 AM
2

Yet women live longer and have better health outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:24 AM
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Can you explain how you come to the “better health” conclusion? Women outlive men by a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:20 AM
0

That’s not how child support works. It’s not a set number, it’s a % of income
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:17 AM
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Yeah. When I got married, I literally had to text venders from her phone because they’d refuse to talk to me directly at all. Our florist literally told me that my wedding wasn’t about me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:11 AM
1

Blame the women who brought lawsuits over this, not to doctors who are just trying not to get sued
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:02 AM
4

That’s not true. Doctors won’t do vasectomies on married men without the wife’s permission. At least in my state. It has something to do with malpractice liability
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:58 AM
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Yeah this constantly happens to me and I’m not a woman. I think it’s about not projecting with confidence. Gender is scapegoat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:55 AM
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Guys can’t “just leave” the state will come chase them down to get child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:51 AM
11

Right. I can’t stand the whole “being a stay at home parent is the hardest job”. Most people have to do everything that a stay at home parent does and work full time.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 05:57 PM
3

I tend to like “advocate” the best
/r/MensRights15/02/22 05:34 PM
8

Having both parents working is not an optimal way to raise a family. Unfortunately it’s unavoidable now for most people
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/22 04:11 PM
3

Men do higher risk surgeries
/r/MensRights11/02/22 03:50 AM
181

The people who will learn something from this are other boys who become too afraid to ask.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 06:51 PM
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I just can’t believe this story. This boy literally did what the feminist asked him to do and he’s mocked to the point of taking his own life over it. Even this headline is absurd “accused of asking” what kind of bs is that. Our boys are not even allowed to ask anymore? What lesson do feminist think other 15 year old boys are going to take from this? Where was these girls parents? Are they going to be held accountable? God bless this boy. He tried so hard to do everything the way they told him t…
/r/MensRights10/02/22 06:35 PM
2

The problem is that men’s lib sees advocating for men as hate speech
/r/MensRights10/02/22 04:21 PM
1

Men’s lib banned me for saying that teachers shouldn’t bully male students…
/r/MensRights10/02/22 04:07 PM
2

Mens lib literally banned for saying that teachers shouldn’t emotionally bully their male students
/r/MensRights10/02/22 04:06 PM
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I got banned from men’s lib because I suggested that teachers shouldn’t react to middle school boys mental health crisis by calling them toxic
/r/MensRights10/02/22 04:00 PM
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If you’re looking for a subreddit that advocate for men from a leftist perspective check out r/leftwingmaleadvocates Mens lib is just a proxy that rad fems use to help them gas light men
/r/MensRights10/02/22 03:57 PM
1

That’s what the the evidence suggests
/r/MensRights10/02/22 03:55 PM
79

Shitty lawyers and shitty lawmakers who want to make sure that shitty lawyers can rob people
/r/MensRights10/02/22 03:51 PM
18

You can’t trust self reported surveys on topics like this
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/22 05:46 AM
3

Kobs-Sabo had no attorney listed on the case as of Wednesday. She’s going to jail
/r/PussyPassDenied10/02/22 05:16 AM
2

You’re not helping
/r/MensRights09/02/22 07:37 PM
15

The teacher bias against males has been demonstrated so many times, it’s absurd that nothing is being done
/r/MensRights09/02/22 05:35 PM
11

What grade level is this?
/r/MensRights09/02/22 03:42 PM
8

Try using that term when a feminist try’s to tell you why women tend to not negotiate for a higher salary
/r/MensRights09/02/22 03:36 PM
1

I was being sarcastic
/r/MensRights09/02/22 03:35 PM
5

It’s a violation of human rights
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/22 03:34 PM
4

Sorry, should have put in the /s
/r/MensRights09/02/22 02:48 PM
20

Elevating your voice is domestic violence and also it’s your fault that you can’t show your emotions
/r/MensRights09/02/22 02:00 PM
1

As a left leaning person, I have a lot of respect for that
/r/MensRights08/02/22 03:37 AM
1

That needs to be an ex partner. Absolutely no way to come back from that
/r/MensRights08/02/22 03:35 AM
1

When given the choice, a lot of women would prefer to stay at home and with the kids. Feminist has demonized women for wanting to do that so much that many of them don’t want to be open about it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/22 05:56 PM
18

“Privilege” focuses so much on identity politics, it’s absurd. Sure a white person who grew up homeless didn’t have to deal with racism, but calling them privileged is obviously insulting and going to shut down a conversation
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/22 05:52 PM
23

Feminist: “Men commit suicide because toxic masculinity prevents them from talking about their feelings” Male “please don’t call me toxic’ it makes be feel insulted and minimizes the issues I have to deal with” Feminist: “Don’t mansplane to me! It doesn’t matter how that term makes you feel. You’re a fool who don’t understand what toxic masculinity is! Don’t you understand that feminism helps men to! Man: “Feminism isn’t helping me, I just want help for my issues without being called toxic” Femi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/22 05:49 PM
19

And the thread was a mental health check in and this guy brought up an issue that is causing him paid. He brought it up in a 100% neutral and respectful way. And they still deleted it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/22 05:40 PM
17

I got banned from that sub because I asked a teacher to not call his severely depressed middle school student “toxic”. This comment hits the nails on the head and I feel like it puts into words what I have been trying to say. I fully understand what “toxic masculinity” meant when it was first used. But that’s not how it’s used most of the time now and regardless, people are insulted by it. I think this commenter is so correct.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/22 05:31 PM
3

This started way earlier than the most recent election.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/22 05:25 PM
20

Is smoking weed and watching Star Trek supporting the women in my life. Because of so, no problem boss
/r/MensRights06/02/22 06:45 PM
2

No one’s rights should be revoked. Advocating for mens rights doesn’t mean advocating against women’s rights. Murry is trash TV, you shouldn’t take what you see on it seriously.
/r/MensRights03/02/22 08:06 PM
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Some people are so caught up in their hate of men that it’s not worth appealing to them. What we want is to make sure the 3rd party observer isn’t turned off by how we react to those people. I think being as respectful as possible, and misogynistic is the best option
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/22 07:57 PM
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I love how we’re called “ antagonistic” because we focus on mens issues. That tells us all we need to know about modern feminism If you want to see how privileged some women are, look up the thread in that sub about asking about the worst part of living in a “ patriarchy” forgot how they worded it. The most upvoted comments were all just complaining about personal issues with their husbands
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/22 07:03 PM
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Try not to Comparing yourself to social media influencers. You’re more than enough just the way you are. We don’t need to chase that unrealistic stuff
/r/MensRights03/02/22 06:58 PM
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That was an interesting read. The objections are absurd. I can’t imagine being married to someone who objects to the idea of even once time a year making me a nice meal and addressing my sexual needs. I think a different name would help this idea catch on but I can’t think of anything off the top of my head
/r/MensRights03/02/22 04:54 PM
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Unless it falls on a weekend, partner and I order Thai food every v-day. It works for us Valentine’s Day is a good way of encouraging couples to make time for each other. If it’s all about gifts and money then that’s a relationship issue
/r/MensRights03/02/22 04:34 PM
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Well this seems like a awful marriage. Who tries to sue their current husband?
/r/MensRights03/02/22 04:32 PM
1

I don’t think people are as naïve as that. But I still see a massive distinction
/r/MensRights03/02/22 03:59 AM
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Sell the jobs I listed aren’t high paying job so imagine trying to cope with all this stuff while living pay check to pay check. People need to cope somehow humor is how. I agree these jobs aren’t for everyone but someone has to do them and those people deserve a lot more respect pay than they get
/r/MensRights02/02/22 11:20 PM
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I’ve never met a defense attorney who wasn’t like that. Social worker who work with parents of abused children are like that SVU detectives. In my experience it’s the only way to cope with jobs that require constant bombardment wkrj heavy trauma. I’m not in the habit of defending people I don’t like and I don’t like Hillary. But if we eliminated people who make these kinds of jokes form their jobs, they’re wouldn’t be anyone left to do those jobs
/r/MensRights02/02/22 08:57 PM
1

I think there is a distinction between war/ war’s byproducts and industrial extermination of a race of people.
/r/MensRights02/02/22 08:43 PM
1

Not a Hillary supporter at all but I’d push way back on this criticism. Our criminal justice system only works as long as Everyone, accused of every crime has the right to a robust legal defense. It’s so common for people who deal with heavy issues at work to use humor as a coping mechanism
/r/MensRights02/02/22 08:35 PM
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It’s a valid social critique. The 8 hour work day was designed with the understanding that you had a partner at home taking care of the house work. I’d posit that The massive rise in childhood mental illness can in part be attributed to disrupted attachment. It shouldn’t take two incomes to support a family of 4. I don’t think “the feminist did it” but it’s in part a result of feminism and it should be explored
/r/MensRights02/02/22 08:14 PM
2

Esteemed philosopher Bill Burr said it best “ there are plenty of reasons to hit a women, you just don’t do it”. This list is absurd. A good parent would do absolutely anything to protect their kids. Don’t hit anyone out of anger or to control, that’s never good. But if you’re life and safety or the life or safety of your children is at risk, you do what you need to to get out of the situation
/r/MensRights02/02/22 08:06 PM
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I don’t even think it would necessarily be nefarious but MDs can be very lazy and fall into . “if patient presents with X symptom you diagnose them with Y disorder and prescribe Z medication”. If they’re going to add “sex addiction” to the DSM, particularly if there is a med treatment involved, I hope they have an extremely clear, non subjective distinction between the disorder and standard sexual frustration
/r/MensRights02/02/22 07:51 PM
2

If you ever feel like you might not be able to control a violent behavior, please remove yourself from the situation as soon as possible
/r/MensRights02/02/22 07:10 PM
12

The debate over “sex addiction” is interesting. It’s not in the DSM-5 but you can use code F52. 8 13 “other specified sexual dysfunction”. I’m all for as much ethically research as possible and any interventions that improves lives. That being said, I’d be very worried about a “sex addiction” pill. Knowing the med system, they’d start throwing that at every sexually frustrated male who seeks mental health treatment
/r/MensRights02/02/22 07:08 PM
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There is a reason why child therapy is less effective for addressing children’s behavior than parent therapy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/22 12:55 PM
3

I like the his Jungian aproceh to men’a mental health
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/22 12:45 PM
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Only made it through half so far. Very interesting, thanks for posting. I don't like the interviewer. I wish he'd focus more on asking questions and less on how it relates to Jordan Peterson
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/22 10:17 PM
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https://nypost.com/2021/01/09/andrew-yangs-anti-circumcision-stance-cuts-deep-jewish-leaders/ I think we all agree that eveyone should take a stronger stance against MGM than this. But also publicly criticizing the practice while running in an NYC democratic primary is more than most politicians would be willing to do. I'm not saying we crown Andrew Yang the king of the men and start hero-worshipping him. I did not vote for him for mayor and don’t regret that. But I’m happy that he is starting t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/22 05:15 PM
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Politicians on the left side of the spectrum almost never advocate for men and boys. It’s very encouraging to see someone with some name recognition doing so. I know that it’s not much, but it is some progress, he is starting the conversation in a space that desperately needs it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/22 04:24 PM
3

Same thing as racist are when talking about “black on black crime”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/01/22 06:08 PM
1

I hope this is fake
/r/PussyPassDenied14/01/22 11:46 PM
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It’s self reported, so it’s the same as “women do more housework when both parents work” stuff. Women are just programmed to play the victim and overestimate what they do
/r/MensRights14/01/22 11:19 PM
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Misandry is bipartisan.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 11:16 PM
5

Do you think a women would be treated this way?
/r/MensRights14/01/22 12:43 PM
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Yeah. I hope that if my neighbor where in this situation, a bunch of us guys from the neighborhood would go over and help him out. We’re supposed to be a community.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 04:22 AM
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Really good point about victim blaming. You’re not helping men if you refuse to look at the systemic issues that men are dealing with
/r/MensRights14/01/22 04:17 AM
12

It’s almost like men have rights too
/r/MensRights14/01/22 04:15 AM
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I’m sorry for the soft paywall and I know that a lot of people don’t have positive feelings about the Washington Post. But this situation is reprehensible Edit: Sorry for the typos in my title
/r/MensRights13/01/22 06:49 PM
3

Girls do enter Puberty earlier
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/22 12:40 PM
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I’ve become very supportive of gender segregated education, at least for grade and middle school. Young Girls and boys don’t develop and the same rate and shouldn’t be in the same classroom
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/22 10:20 PM
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One big problem is that girls mature and develop faster than boys and early childhood education is geared towards how girls develop and not boys. It evens out eventually but a lot of boys are labeled as slow early on and never recover
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/22 10:16 PM
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Imagine you’re enrolling in college to put your life back together after a false accusation and you have to be subjected to this
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/22 10:12 PM
1

As a rule I try not to get upset about anything said in a stand up comedy but this man and my life experiences have been extremely different
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/22 08:33 PM
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Imagine you’re trying to put your life back together after a false accusation by enrolling in college and you have to do this
/r/MensRights12/01/22 08:22 PM
2

So many misandrist therapist out there and they wonder why men don’t get mental healthcare. The CSWE has blood on it’s hands for how much misandry MSW students learn
/r/MensRights12/01/22 07:58 PM
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And if a man is a victim blame men anyway
/r/MensRights12/01/22 07:56 PM
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This cites zachary zane as an expert but as far as I can tell he’s has no professional certifications in anything
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/22 07:25 PM
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MSW programs need to look at their curriculum and consider why so many males feel unwelcome in the mental health profession
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/22 11:09 PM
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If you’re ever ready to share with my what kind of justice system you’d like to see replace the UDHR standard, than go ahead and message me because I’d be interested to hear it. But I’m not going to play some fool game of answering nonsense questions.
/r/MensRights29/12/21 03:21 AM
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One thing that you need to understand is that if you ask a question, you’re not always going to get the answer that you want, especially if you’re asking for something that by definition doesn’t exist. You can be an adult and have a productive conversation, you can try to rephrase your question so that it makes sense, or you can try to gaslight. But if you’re going to gaslight you should get better at it. I’m honestly very interested to hear what criminal prosecution system you think would be be…
/r/MensRights29/12/21 03:14 AM
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Lol I’ve answered your question multiple times. Sorry that it’s not the answer that you want but it’s the truth. I guess you just can’t answer my questions. I hope that if you’re ever accused of a crime, you’re presumed innocent until proven guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. I hope that the human rights that you want deprive people of are never deprived from you.
/r/MensRights29/12/21 03:03 AM
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Your question is nonsense and I’ve given the answer to it. Now answer my question. What would you replace innocent until proven guilty and reasonable doubt with? What bar should the prosecution have to meet for someone to be convicted of a crime? How does your ideal due process work?
/r/MensRights29/12/21 02:59 AM
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Look into the difference between probable cause and court room evidence and then the difference between arraignment and trial. I’m not trying to be rude but your understanding of how a judicial system works is lacking
/r/MensRights29/12/21 02:53 AM
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No it doesn’t. You can’t view evidence outside of its context. That’s literally why we have trials
/r/MensRights29/12/21 02:17 AM
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I’m not going to give you an “example” of something that literally by definition can’t possibly exist.
/r/MensRights29/12/21 02:01 AM
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You really have no idea how the criminal justice system works do you? Lol
/r/MensRights29/12/21 01:38 AM
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Yes your lawyer will discuss what evidence will help “your case”, (a cop won’t) key word being “your case” which is a specific case. There is no situation in criminal justice where “the case doesn’t matter” especially when talking about evidence
/r/MensRights29/12/21 01:35 AM
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Because you’re asking a nonsense question. You can’t separate a piece of evidence form the context of the specific case. I’m sorry but that how evidence works. There is no such thing as “evidence” outside of a specific case. You’re asking for something that by definition doesn’t exist.
/r/MensRights29/12/21 01:31 AM
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I’ve answered all your questions multiple times. You’ve said you don’t like innocent until proven guilty and reasonable doubt, what would you replace them with? It’s a simple question
/r/MensRights29/12/21 01:27 AM
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So how do you think the justice system should function?
/r/MensRights28/12/21 08:44 PM
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Do you believe in innocent until proven guilty and reasonable doubt? If not, what would you suggest our justice system look like? (And you can have different systems for different crimes whatever changes you want to make will apply to every crime)
/r/MensRights28/12/21 07:32 PM
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You’re obsession with embarrassing yourself in this subreddit is not healthy. I mean this from the bottom of my heart, take off your tinfoil hat and seek therapy
/r/MensRights28/12/21 01:31 PM
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Sounds like you want to put people in jail without a trial. Hey bean bod hi, you raped me, that’s right you did it. Go to jail you don’t have the right to due process. Unless you’re okay with going to jail right now, you’re being hypocritical
/r/MensRights28/12/21 01:20 PM
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But biological sex isn’t and biological sex is why we split sports up
/r/MensRights28/12/21 01:15 PM
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I believe that the right to due process is a fundamental human right. I believe in the fundamental rights outlined in the UDHR
/r/MensRights28/12/21 03:05 AM
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An “example”’of what? You can’t look at evidence in a vacuum. All evidence is always considered in the context of the facts of the specific case. We’re not talking about a specific case so what you’re asking for is nonsense. There is no such thing as “evidence” outside of the context of facts of the case. You’re example of a confession on tape is a good example of why context matters. You can watch a taped confession and then learn that the person confessing was tortured into confessing. You can…
/r/MensRights28/12/21 03:03 AM
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Why don’t you go ahead and read about reasonable doubt before we continue this conversation because I feel like you missed that day in civics class https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reasonable_doubt I answered your question so you answer mine. Do you or do you not believe in the right to due process?
/r/MensRights28/12/21 02:47 AM
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So you don’t believe in the right of due process?
/r/MensRights28/12/21 02:43 AM
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The only thing that can be proven is “I think therefor I am”. That’s why the standard is “responsible doubt”. You should learn the basics of the US justice system
/r/MensRights28/12/21 02:20 AM
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What are you even on about? The “rules” are innocent until proven guilty beyond a reasonable doubt by a jury of the accused peers. Acceptable proof is proof that can stand to cross examination in a court of law
/r/MensRights28/12/21 02:15 AM
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This whole debate makes no sense to me. We split fighters into weight classes because of unfair advantages, we split youth sports into age groups for the same reason, so why shouldn’t we split sports up by biological sex for that reason as well?
/r/MensRights28/12/21 02:13 AM
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You can’t ask for a specific answer to a general question. Each situation is unique and it’s evidence needs to be examined in context. That’s why we have trials. If I were on a jury I’d listen to the judge’s instructions
/r/MensRights28/12/21 02:09 AM
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What are you even talking about? Do you want an example of admissible court room evidence that establishes guilt? Go watch “my cousin Vinny”
/r/MensRights28/12/21 01:50 AM
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Beyond a reasonable doubt.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 01:47 AM
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Innocent until proven guilty is the bedrock of justice.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 01:44 AM
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It’s an example of why men and women aren’t on opposite sides. Catcalling primarily negatively impacts women and homelessness primarily impacts men. Addressing homelessness would address cat calling.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/21 10:35 PM
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Catcalling is a problem. At least it is where I’m from (New York). The overwhelming majority of men who do it are homeless. Take that however you will.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/21 06:58 PM
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It should be “take every accusation seriously and consider the evidence”
/r/MensRights27/12/21 06:49 PM
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I don’t know but almost everyone I’ve ever talked to about this kind of thing enjoys the tradition so I don’t see it changing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/21 03:46 PM
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Focus on yourself. Know your worth, don't let anyone treat you badly
/r/MensRights23/12/21 05:00 PM
3

God bless the Unions!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/21 03:22 PM
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That show is just toxic all around. Men are straight men are treated as status symbols, gay men are treated as accessories, non upper class white people just don’t exist, vapid consumerism is glorified I’ve met so many awful rich girls who moved here (I’m a NYer) in their 20s because they wanted to live out that fantasy and drove rent up.
/r/MensRights20/12/21 07:47 PM
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My wife and I don’t see eye to eye on all of these issues. As long as she respects you end your experiences
/r/MensRights20/12/21 07:39 PM
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Those fancy buildings are all built by enslaved men who were trafficked from south east Asia. I’d like to hear those men’s opinions on how egalitarian it is
/r/MensRights20/12/21 07:36 PM
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This is when they come at you with “well what we mean is take every allegation seriously” which is absolutely fine but then they should say that. Reid was clearly full of it, I don’t know If Ford was or not but after all that time it’s absurd to think you can pull that out of your back pocket
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/21 02:49 PM
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The AG who ran the investigation instantly ran for Cuomo’s seat so it’s hard not to think that it might have been a screw job. Luckily she dropped out of the race when she realized that people weren’t going to go for that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/21 02:46 PM
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Yes, a lot of things that women talk about as women’s issues are things that happen to men just as often.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/21 02:44 PM
2

I'll take my wife who knows exactly what I like over an awkward frat house hook up with chick who thinks bending over is participating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:31 AM
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Random sex with strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:19 AM
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I was a frat boy in college so I get it but most men grow out of that really fast, I know I have
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:40 AM
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That doesn’t sound like an appealing activity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:18 AM
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They’ve also observed differences in aggression and risk taking behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 12:03 AM
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We also notice similar patterns on primates
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:12 PM
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I’ve seen this going around tik toc I think this professors is abusing his position of authority to pass off his absurd pet theories as fact and mislead young people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:11 PM
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Biologically, but there are a million social hoops you have to jump though. I’ve had sex with my fair share of women, I don’t think any of them would have said “yes” If I asked “want to have sex” immediately upon meeting most of them
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/12/21 01:08 AM
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Men have to earn sex, women give out sex. It’s a a social paradigm that is harmful to both genders. If we (as a culture) stopped slut shaming then women would feel more comfortable getting their needs and telling men want, men wouldn’t have to guess and communication about sex between the genders would become a lot more straight forward and healthy and the “virgins” or “simps” would be a lot less confused about dating That’s my theory at least
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/21 09:39 PM
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You’re very welcome. That book honestly did change my life. I haven’t re read it in years but reading it had a profound impact on me. If I’ve helped in any little way I’m happy about that. I’m sorry about what you’ve been through, that sounds very challenging. Obviously there is nothing wrong with being gay but you’re not have having your sexually belittled like that is bullying.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/21 07:07 AM
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Thanks for posting. I love this type of research. As soon as the semester is over im going to dive into this
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/21 12:13 AM
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Peter Jackson isn't JRR Tolkien. I guess it’s the whole “connon” thing. They’re not making any changes to the original work. It’s not any different than any other fan fiction
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/21 12:07 AM
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It's the writer's interpretation
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/21 10:37 PM
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It was very helpful for me. One of the most eye opening aspects was about being mostly friends with women and struggling to make male connections.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/21 05:47 PM
19

Have you ever read “no more mr nice guy”?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/21 04:45 PM
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I don’t mind seeing the story from Julia’s perspective
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/21 04:45 PM
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I didn’t even know about that sub. What’s it’s all about?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/21 11:12 PM
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Yeah not really into “watch so and so OWN college Libtard with FACTS and LOGIC”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/21 06:14 PM
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They started selling cornflakes because they thought spicy food made people horny
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/21 06:12 PM
4

Absolutely! Unions have been the single most effective force for progress movement.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/21 06:10 PM
1

I think we’re better than this
/r/MensRights10/12/21 10:39 PM
1

Yeah that’s how it came off to me as well
/r/MensRights10/12/21 10:37 PM
2

They sent the boy to jail? Wff
/r/MensRights10/12/21 10:36 PM
2

Regardless, established consent and have fun
/r/MensRights10/12/21 08:17 PM
2

Sounds like you have a kink. Establish consent before hand and have fun
/r/MensRights10/12/21 08:08 PM
2

Yeah I definitely don’t think he’s the champion we need.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/12/21 07:03 PM
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https://www.axios.com/josh-hawley-masculinity-porn-video-games-c32d4575-13de-4f28-b26b-99aa21bcdae7.html
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/12/21 06:37 PM
0

He raises good points about men’s issues and then does stuff like this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/12/21 06:27 PM
1

And This is the guy that’s supposed to be the “men’s issues” advocate? We need a real men’s movement independent of the Republican/democrat
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/12/21 06:27 PM
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They’re too busy running for Governor of NY because somehow being a female celebrity makes you qualified to run a massive government
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/12/21 06:15 PM
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My sister and mother watched that show a lot when I was growing up. It’s shocking how toxic it was.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/12/21 06:14 PM
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Best thing to do is to get yourself out of the situation as fast as possible. We should all be okay with allowing our friends to crash with us if they’re in this situation. Men don’t have shelters so peer support is best option
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/12/21 05:33 PM
3

“Males collective union “ or MCU. Because men are superheroes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/12/21 03:02 PM
2

I’m not going to tell you to be pro choice. But this isn’t a men’s rights issue.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/12/21 08:49 PM
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I don’t agree that life starts at conception Also, this seems off topic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/12/21 08:07 PM
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No one should be required to allow something to grow inside of them
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/12/21 07:52 PM
10

Men having sex toys or masterbation aids is seen as “creepy”. I have a lot of theories about why
/r/MensRights08/12/21 06:41 PM
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I saw this tweet a few days ago and was floored. I hope he doesn’t have a son
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/21 11:03 PM
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Unfortunately the left responses to Hawley are just mocking of men’s issues and more snd more men are going to flee to the far right
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/21 10:57 PM
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I remember a reading about this in a true crime sub and people were actually defending her. She spent days talking him into it and told him to get back into the van when he got cold feet. Absolutely heartless
/r/MensRights05/12/21 07:48 AM
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He lost his whole life, She lost 15 months
/r/MensRights05/12/21 07:20 AM
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I’m not going to accept any justification for holding a man’s child hostage at gun point. We’re not going to see eye to eye on this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/21 07:19 AM
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Then don’t kidnap a man’s child.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/21 07:10 AM
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He wasn’t invading anyone’s house, he was literally picking up his son
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/21 07:07 AM
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He didn’t break into the home, he was waiting in the front yard for his son to come out. This man doesn’t get to see his son on a normal bases and he’s just supposed to walk away from his opportunity to see him because his crazy ex’s pickme could shut up for ten minutes Not to mention it was clearly a set up because the made sure the son wasn’t already there like he was meant to be There are a lot of factors, but this was a man being denied his right to see his son by some smack talker. That hur…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/21 05:56 AM
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The ex wife is a family court judge. He wasn’t “defending himself” he was getting between a man and his son
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/21 05:49 AM
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Major element in all this
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/21 05:48 AM
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There is a lot to unpack in this situation and it’s awful all around. The gist of it is this man shows to his ex wife’s to pick up his son, the ex’s new boyfriend starts talking smack to him they argue, the Bf gets a gun, Read tries to grab the gun and bf pushes him away and shoots him Read. Bf claims self defense and Castle Doctrine. This man just wanted to see his son and got killed for it. I know that there a lot of broad issues in this, but a man losing his life for exercising his rights to …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/21 04:28 AM
3

Your post was fantastic. Unfortunately some people are just identify so strongly with their imaginary oppression that they can’t think rationally. We’re never going to reach them. But I’m sure at least one young man who is struggling and gaslight over it saw your post and is starting to not look at himself as the toxic oppressor that they call him. That’s the person we’re reaching. Get get hung up on misandrist mods, feminist and pickme’s
/r/MensRights04/12/21 10:54 PM
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“Obviously all men doesn’t mean all men”. -something someone actually said to me
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/21 05:32 PM
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That’s a major problem in modern social science. They change they meanings of words constantly and then get upset when society doesn’t just go along
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/21 05:11 PM
4

The idea of lumping gender and race together is absurd.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/21 05:09 PM
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Over 51% of eligible voters in the US are female. Technically the United States is not a patriarchy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/21 05:08 PM
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It was generated some good discussion (teenagers are smarter than we adults give them credit for) and the mods were like “nope”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/21 05:07 PM
6

Thank you for for recognizing that this is not okay and it’s not okay for you to be treated like this. Young people like you are part of the solution
/r/MensRights04/12/21 04:34 AM
5

Support for veterans is a men’s right issue. This is a problem that needs to be fixed
/r/MensRights04/12/21 04:19 AM
49

I’m happy to see that these teenagers aren’t internalizing the misandry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/21 12:41 AM
1

My bad
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/21 09:40 PM
2

They hosted an AMA a while back with someone who said that. I haven’t seen anything about a mod
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/21 08:50 PM
10

Also, I’ve seen so many feminist rip women to shreds for wanting the traditional female role.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/21 06:52 PM
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They’re feminist’s token men. They’re the men that feminist point to and say “we don’t hate men we like these men” essentially “agree with us on everything, accept that you’re bad, your gender is bad accept misandrist and don’t support other men”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/21 06:51 PM
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I got banned for that sub by suggesting that an 11 year boy with mental health issues wasn’t “toxic masculinity” and that he didn’t need to be told that it’s okay to wear pink and lectured to about sexual assault I’d love to hear them explain to men who spent most of their lives in jail over false accusations how it’s not a big deal
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/21 06:40 PM
5

I think there is a range of views on this sub and that's a good thing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/21 04:25 AM
1

Not a fan on them at. Ima protect myself though
/r/MensRights02/12/21 05:19 PM
1

Raising children is literally the most valuable thing
/r/MensRights02/12/21 05:05 PM
1

I think that’s a historical view pushed by feminist who’ve downplayed the value of the traditional female role
/r/MensRights02/12/21 04:56 PM
1

That’s how it’s used. But I’ll ask, what do you think the term means?
/r/MensRights02/12/21 04:11 PM
6

That sounds like a pretty good argument in favor of abortion
/r/MensRights02/12/21 04:11 PM
1

Mansplaining literally is “man explaining”. Sharing feelings involves explaining those feelings. When you use the term mansplaining, you’re telling men not to share their feelings
/r/MensRights02/12/21 03:55 PM
4

I don’t think forcing people to have children against their will benefits anyone.
/r/MensRights02/12/21 03:51 PM
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That’s one of the most disturbing things I’ve ever seen
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/21 03:49 PM
2

Okay, what if he is right? Or what if it’s a matter of prospect. Do you see how you’re shaming men for expressing feelings? A women might think I’m wrong, that doesn’t mean that I’m wrong. Assuming that you’re right and everyone else is wrong regardless of the evidence is not something that any particular gender does more than the other. You can call out that kind of behavior, but It has nothing to do with gender
/r/MensRights02/12/21 03:45 PM
3

So when you say some is “mansplaning” you’re saying that their beliefs and feelings are wrong
/r/MensRights02/12/21 03:14 PM
0

That’s why I use the word “womenspalning. It draws attention to the absurd concept
/r/MensRights02/12/21 03:04 PM
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The implication of your original comment is that the women’s feelings about a situation are more valid than the man’s. If I don’t agree with a woman and try to explain my feelings than I’m “mansplaning”. Maybe I’m right and she’s wrong
/r/MensRights02/12/21 03:01 PM
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Stop womensplaning what mansplaning is
/r/MensRights02/12/21 12:37 PM
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Thank you for your service. I hope you found a safe space to talk about what you went through. You deserve support
/r/MensRights02/12/21 06:25 AM
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I don’t know why the male suicide rate is so high. But I know why I don’t know and that’s because every time it’s brought up, it gets yelled down by feminist.
/r/MensRights01/12/21 10:17 PM
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“Men don’t talk about their problems” then when you do talk about your problems “stop mansplaning” , “that’s toxic masculinity”, “your partner isn’t your therapist”
/r/MensRights01/12/21 10:15 PM
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A mature adult
/r/MensRights30/11/21 06:59 PM
0

If you explain something 17 times to someone and they still don’t get it, you’re not explaining it well and need to take a moment to think about what you’re communicating. Also, I can get what you’re saying and just not agree
/r/MensRights30/11/21 05:12 PM
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A great example of why “most world leaders are men” is not an example of General “male privilege”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/21 03:51 PM
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It’s not just fiction. I’m in grad school studying to me a mental health therapist and the case studies almost always have men as the bad guy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/21 06:08 PM
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I grew up without a father present and didn’t have too many male roll models. For me, Star Trek Captains were the role models I needed. This isn’t a knock on voyager or any of the new trek, but socially awkward boys ( who often don’t have fathers) have gravitated to Science Fiction for decades and masculine role models should not be removed form it. Kirk is the man I wanted to be, Picard is the man I wanted my father to be and Sisko is the man I should be. I’m so worried that the new Wheel of Ti…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/21 06:05 PM
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Okay, but do you demand long conversations for every misandrist comment made in the feminist subs?
/r/MensRights29/11/21 04:43 PM
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I often have to scream and yell for it. I think I found the problem
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/11/21 03:11 PM
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In other words, she can’t tell two black men apart
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/21 07:52 AM
7

That’s for letting me know about this guy. His body of work looks interesting. Can’t wait to dig into some of it when I have time
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/21 07:50 AM
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He lost 16 years, the respect of his family and his chance to have children. He lost so much and she doesn’t even have it in her to apologize
/r/MensRights24/11/21 11:39 PM
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They pick him up because months after the event, she’s sure she sees her attacker and the attacker is back and he’s the only black man they find in the area. She couldn’t pick him out of a lineup, she was sure that the one she did pick out line up has done it based on “the Expression in his eyes” and obviously he wasn’t because there is only one suspect in a lineup, the rest are hired actors. But they charge him anyway and she identifies him in court (because no shit, he’s the black man sitting …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/11/21 08:23 PM
2

I work in social services for a waver program. I don’t want to get more specific than that. Not so much accusations but I’m almost never alone with clients and when I am I keep the door open. Most of the clients are young men so that plays into it.
/r/MensRights24/11/21 12:42 AM
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I work in a female dominated field AMA
/r/MensRights24/11/21 12:36 AM
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Mixed gender sports just sound dangerous I used to play social leagues that had quotes to make sure it was sufficiently coed but that was but that was to to make sure men and women had an opportunity for to meet potential partners I don’t understand how the equality vs equality conversation makes sense in gender issues. It’s a good thing to talk about in regards to issues of race or ethnicity, things where there is a generational wealth and cycle of poverty aspect. Gender doesn’t have those thin…
/r/MensRights24/11/21 12:22 AM
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The headlines all say “Man who assaulted 3 teens”. They’re all the same age. The “man” was the same age as the “three teens”. I’m not going to get into the case itself but purposefully wording the headline to mislead isn’t good. I don’t think the sentence was appropriate, but I don’t think misleading headlines are appropriate
/r/MensRights24/11/21 12:14 AM
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Men require more protein because they do almost all the physical labor. It’s not the same level of sacrifice
/r/MensRights23/11/21 08:25 PM
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This is repulsive
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/21 07:01 PM
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That whole primary was nuts. As a proud “neoliberal” I’m not a fan of Sanders at all but these were some dirty attacks
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/21 05:33 PM
5

call out misandry when you see it and support other men when they need it
/r/MensRights23/11/21 02:54 AM
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And despite this, the magnificent boys are keeping their eyes on the prize and getting results. Let raise a glass to our men in STEM! Don’t let woman the keep you down op
/r/MensRights23/11/21 02:52 AM
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Men are guilty be default
/r/MensRights23/11/21 02:49 AM
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Also, men kill themselves before thinking “maybe I should open up about my feelings” anyone who thinks that isn’t being serious
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/21 09:01 PM
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They’re not against banning but god forbid we use the valid comparisons to FGM in our advocacy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/21 09:00 PM
2

Yes, it’s just another way of dismissing the issues men face.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/21 08:56 PM
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“Men are larger and require more food because of the patriarchy”
/r/MensRights22/11/21 08:21 PM
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This is the result of not having shelters for abused men. This man needs a place to go for help
/r/MensRights22/11/21 07:26 PM
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I’ll be honest, I’m so sick of hearing this person’s name. He was a child who did something incredibly stupid that resulted in a tragedy. The adult who gave him the gun is a pos
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/21 07:06 PM
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I was banned from that sub for saying that a teacher shouldn’t diagnose his 11 year old students as having toxicity masculinity
/r/MensRights22/11/21 03:01 AM
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It's funny how there is a "wage gap" yet so much more money is spent on consumer products marketed towards women. Where is that 25 cents going?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/21 10:51 PM
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Great work as always by the Tin man. It's so important to know this stuff since these indexes are so often used against men's issues
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/21 10:49 PM
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Yea. I don’t want the girls not to get that help. I just want boys to get the same help
/r/MensRights21/11/21 05:32 PM
1

I think the more crazy the left becomes the stronger the pushback gets
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/21 04:58 AM
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Using girls who self harm as a way to argue against calls to improve mental health services for men kills men.
/r/MensRights20/11/21 10:39 PM
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They didn’t have to do this research they could have just asked. I, like most English speakers use “men/women” when referring to adults, “boys/girls” when referring to children and “males/females” when referring to a gender regardless of age. In context of talking about dating, people in their 20s tend to use “boys/girls” even though they’re talking about adults. I don’t know why, that might be an interesting question to study, but it has nothing to do with us
/r/MensRights20/11/21 09:16 PM
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They refuse to acknowledge men’s issues in counties where women are not oppressed but will bend over backwards for Saudi Arabia
/r/MensRights20/11/21 08:45 PM
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They did it on purpose
/r/MensRights20/11/21 08:43 PM
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When she posts something for women’s day pull the exact same thing word for word
/r/MensRights20/11/21 08:42 PM
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https://repository.law.umich.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1164&context=law_econ_current https://lawcat.berkeley.edu/record/1120434
/r/MensRights20/11/21 08:40 PM
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Self harm and a suicide attempt aren’t the same thing. And the article you posted is only analyzing the data of who is getting treatment for self harm, not the total population of people who hurt themselves (girls are getting treatment boys aren’t). So yes, the article you posted doesn’t say what you’re trying to pretend it says
/r/MensRights20/11/21 08:29 PM
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“Semi serious attempts” Also known as not an actual attempt
/r/MensRights20/11/21 08:26 PM
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It’s also important to realize that men and women self harm in different ways and the way men (and boys) self harm is not always recognized as self harm. Girls cut themselves, it’s always going to be classified as self harm and unless her parents are neglectful, she’ll get mental health services. Boy on the other hand put their fist into walls and slam their heads into desks. That’s not always looked at as self harm and when boys do it they’re more likely to get detention than mental health serv…
/r/MensRights20/11/21 08:25 PM
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I agree that we shouldn’t do that. But when this fake stat is constantly used to avoid addressing a real problem that’s killing men, we have to respond forcefully. When feminists stop using girls who self harm as weapon to kill to men, we will stop defending ourselves against that weapon
/r/MensRights20/11/21 08:20 PM
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No they don’t. That stat is based on CDC numbers of ER visits for non fatal self injury. ERs are not required to report these to the CDC, the way girls self harm (cutting) is always going to be recognized as self harm, the way boys self harm (punching walls, slamming head into desks) is often looked at as aggressive behaviors. You can read the “women attempt more” state as “women are receiving treatment more”. Boys are hurting themself just as much, instead of being taken to the ER and getting t…
/r/MensRights20/11/21 08:18 PM
4

The gender pay gap should never be mentioned without also mentioning the work hours gap and workplace fatality gap
/r/MensRights20/11/21 08:10 PM
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These orgs know that if they want to keep the money flowing they need to pretend that men aren’t victims.
/r/MensRights20/11/21 08:08 PM
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I’ve never hurt anyone and never will, If someone is afraid of me, that’s their problem. Just like its my problem if I’m afraid of a random black man because of his race.
/r/MensRights20/11/21 08:04 PM
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I responded to a woman’s post about this on Twitter and mentioned the sentencing gap and, her and one of her pickmes responded with “bet you can’t back that up with research” so I posted links to the research and they blocked me.
/r/MensRights20/11/21 08:01 PM
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And to you as well
/r/MensRights20/11/21 03:49 AM
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I love how she talks about all the volunteers work that women do for international women’s day and shames men for not doing that same work but doesn’t acknowledge that men work longer hours and don’t live as long in retirement as women do. Women have more time to volunteer because of the privileges they have
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/21 12:05 AM
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That’s great to hear! A lot of frustrating today but absolutely some positives
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/21 10:38 PM
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I found this extremely touching. I work in a female dominated profession and I know that in America non of the agencies I work for would be able to get away with a tribute like this. I found this so powerful because in order to make progress on so many of the issues that we tall about, we need more men in these roles. We need more male social workers, teachers, and mental health counselors
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/21 10:38 PM
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These are two info graphics that I’ve seen today. It’s very hard to have conversations about these issues and think graphics like this are helpful for getting those convos going. I may be naive but I firmly believe that most people who oppose men’s movement would be supportive if they understood these things.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/21 09:48 PM
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Meanwhile The UN will bend over backwards to please the leaders of Saudi Arabia who actually do oppress women
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/21 09:43 PM
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For a moment, for one moment when I saw this post I thought “oh wow they acknowledge today , maybe we’re making some progress” But of course not
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/21 09:41 PM
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Damn, you’re right it’s impossible to read. Wish I did this at home on my computer before leaving for the day
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/21 07:57 PM
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The “attempt” statistic comes from self reported data to the CDC regarding not fatal self inflicted injuries treated in ERs. The CDC themselves cautions not to draw the conclusion that many do. Women aren’t “attempting” more, they’re getting more help. Women and boys are taken to the hospital for self harm, men and boys just get lectures aggression. Waving way the fact that close 80% of victims are men and pretending that this is not a gender based issue is pure misandry
/r/MensRights19/11/21 05:06 PM
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I’m a mental healthcare worker and I’ve literally been told by professors and supervisors not to talk about it
/r/MensRights19/11/21 03:38 PM
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Yet we’re not allowed to talk about male suicide without also talking about (the fake) statistic that women attempt more
/r/MensRights19/11/21 02:27 PM
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An that’s how they turn someone who agreed with them against them
/r/MensRights19/11/21 02:26 PM
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Absolutely. I’ve decided that I’m not going to inconvenience myself anymore. I’m not a threat to anyone, I wouldn’t hurt a fly snd I’m not going to go out of my way to accommodate someone’s wrong assumptions about me
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/21 02:04 AM
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Thank you guys for maintaining this incredible space. It’s been such a positive influence for me. Happy men’s day!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/21 11:44 PM
5

Im not talking about spamming. I’m going to try to make something to post on my personal Instagram I figured others might want to do the same
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/21 10:47 PM
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Cooking was also a problem for us that I think came down to different expectations I was raised my a single parent and she was raised with a stay at home mother. For me a weeknight dinner is something ultra simple like some salad over chickpeas with crotons or a pan sheet pan of roasted veggies with some kind of protein. Her childhood conditioned her to the idea that dinner should be (for lack of a better word) good. If she wants to spend 90 minutes cooking after working an 8 hour day she can bu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/21 05:33 PM
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I can’t speak to anyone’s relationships other than my own. A lot of the women I’ve dating have been absurdly specific about things they wanted done and got upset if they were done slightly differently. Maybe it’s possible that women are more sensitive to tiny details than men are? “I can do laundry and hang up your clothes, but if you want them organized in the closet by color than you have to do that yourself” Feminism has a way of taking someone’s personal relationship issues and ballooning it…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/21 02:59 PM
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I’ve heard it a lot more from my mother then from my partner, because of that it’s something that that I know I wouldn’t accept from my partner
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/21 02:55 PM
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This article about suicide cherrypicks and misrepresents data to make it look like women are victims and men are not. Yet men are the vast majority of victims. How do we respond to things like this? Is it okay to get angry about it? Should we be writing these journalist? How to be combat this kind of misinformation?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/21 01:25 AM
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“Oppression” isn’t the correct word. Gender roles where strictly enforced and both roles had advantages and disadvantages, duties snd privileges and people who struggled to fit in to role struggled. We should be moving beyond gender roles at this point in human development
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/21 04:01 PM
2

Great post!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/21 03:50 AM
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Imagine if someone suggested cutting off parts a women’s vulva I order to make it look better to men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/21 02:05 AM
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Mens rights, no need to compromise. The kind of people who are attracted to "men's lib" movements are misandrist who will not be helpful
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/21 11:56 PM
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He created an unsafe situation that ended with people getting killed. He should get some kind of punishment but they overreached when they charged him
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/21 11:54 PM
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She should have her med license revoked
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/21 11:47 PM
1

Crimes “mugging, drug dealing, etc” are a means to an end. When the end is money, men will always be willing to sacrifice more for it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/21 04:44 PM
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Writing to the production team is a great idea. Maybe we should all do it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/21 06:32 PM
7

That warped view is exactly the problem. I
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/21 09:43 PM
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That’s the “no true Scotsman” argument though. I’ve never seen men’s groups protest out side of lectures on female suicide.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/21 09:24 PM
1

I’m literally looking at a giant tampon billboard as we speak. So hidden
/r/FeminismStopsWhen09/11/21 08:57 PM
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Right but then point out systemic issues that impact men and female privilege and see how they react. Look at the feminist subreddits. They actively push misinformation about suicide rates to try and down play the male suicide crisis. Look at how many university men’s support groups have been shut down after protests from campus feminist groups and professors, look how they make sure that the definition or rape in the Uk precludes the possible of female perpetrators. Look at the effects of their…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/21 08:51 PM
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“Feminism” is an absurdly complex web of different and often conflicting beliefs and they use that to gaslight us. I’m not against women having the right to work, but I am against victim blaming men who take their own lives, I’m against discriminating against men,m. So they tell “you’re against feminism” as if everyone in the word is supposed to have a gender studies PhD understanding of the absurd amount of branches and waves. I’m very opposed to imposing traditional gender roles on people, I’m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/21 06:38 PM
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I’ll never understand the “you support men you must hate women” thing. Men and women literally need each other. What hurts one of us hurts both of us.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/21 04:22 PM
2

. I’m not defending what she’s doing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/21 02:05 PM
9

Kids aren’t a good retirement plan
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/21 01:14 AM
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I agree with all of what you said, but I do know where the wealth goes. It goes to a retirement community then a nursing home than the month long stay in the hospital that people tend to have before they die. I’ve seen old people who thought they’d be able to leave their kids a million dollars end up leaving them nothing Not always the case obviously, and some good planning helps avoid it. But it happens a lot. It’s really sad to see these people who worked for years and thought they’d be able t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/21 12:37 AM
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Kid’s are extremely expensive. Even before you leave the hospital you owe 1000s or dollars (at least in America) Invest the precent of your income that you’d spend each month in a mutual fund and you’ll probably be good financially. The emotional side of things is a different story The declining birth rate is going to screw us in the long run
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/21 12:31 AM
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That’s what I mean by giving him the emotional tools to deal with that kind of misandry. I’m Absolutely not defending this. Maybe this is my childhood speaking but a lot of post feminist women raise boys to be ashamed of their sexual urges and lecture them about about how harmful the male sex drive is. I obviously don’t agree with this woman, but I do think it’s good for parents to be affirming. For years I felt a ton of guilt every time a women went down on me or any time a asked a woman to do …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/21 12:25 AM
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“ I want my kid to have a satisfying sex life when he grows up”.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/21 11:16 PM
21

These people have so much hate in their hearts
/r/AntiFeminists08/11/21 10:39 PM
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Yeah, I mean, I can respect that she understands that sexual satisfaction will be important for her son and that he’s worthy of having that act done for him. It’s sad how many mothers shame their sons over these urges. But instead of chopping him up her focus should be on recognizing where her unconscious misandry is coming from and giving her son the emotional tools to respond to things like that if it happens to him
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/21 07:55 PM
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In an odd way, her heart is in the right place but I hope she realizes how barbaric the practices is
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/21 07:44 PM
1

Don’t
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/21 02:37 PM
4

It’s so petty that I almost think it’s better to let it stand
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/21 07:38 AM
1

The argument against hooters is absurd. But the porn issue is real. Internet algorithms and sexual stimulation don’t go together well and a lot of young people from both genders have skewed expectations about what sex should be like
/r/FeminismStopsWhen08/11/21 06:08 AM
1

The argument isn’t calling human women cows. It’s calling feminism hypocritical for not standing up for for cows. I think it’s an absurd criticism.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen08/11/21 06:05 AM
1

I don’t know much about the dairy industry but I don’t think it’s hypocritical for humans to care more about human well-being than they care for cows
/r/FeminismStopsWhen08/11/21 06:03 AM
1

I honestly think internet porn is bad for both genders. I’m not anti porn or anti sex work. But the combination for sexual stimulation and internet algorithms does not lead to healthy sexual behaviors
/r/FeminismStopsWhen08/11/21 06:01 AM
8

Not being alone with a subordinate of opposite gender is absolutely reasonable in this day and age.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen08/11/21 02:17 AM
2

Talk to the group that refuses to study hard Sciences even when they’re given all the support in the world to do so
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/21 09:38 PM
19

Imagine if instead of this shit we helped struggling male children with their social skills, emotional intelligence and mental health.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 07:24 PM
3

If every person of a particular gender that you’ve ever interacted with been a POS than maybe you’re the problem.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 06:28 PM
6

Instead of the word “centrist” maybe use the word “micro” or something. Your title doesn’t imply a less political conversation, it implies a political conversation from a centrist view point
/r/MensRights02/11/21 06:23 PM
8

The baseline statement seems absurd but I understand what he’s getting at. I wish they’d discuss this in a more articulate way
/r/MensRights02/11/21 06:21 PM
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The wedding industry is a scam and they’re saying whatever they think will get people to fork over money. I’ve been to weddings that cost more than my college education
/r/MensRights02/11/21 06:19 PM
1

When you're right argue the point, when your wrong, comment on the spelling
/r/MensRights02/11/21 05:54 PM
3

Because somehow sharing a gender with Napoleon means men don’t face any issues
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/21 02:55 PM
7

Imagine making that same argument about black people
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/21 01:13 PM
37

It’s not like he has some over the top reaction. He was literally just taken off guard. He didn’t go on a rant about her or anything
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/21 01:11 AM
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There was a frat on my campus that had that reputation but what they were actually doing was dumping bags of sugar in the jungle juice so that it didn’t taste like alcohol even though it had tons of alcohol in it. And of course they’d give male non brothers “jungle juice “ from another batch with much less alcohol in it. I can see how it comes off badly but they were very honest. They used to call the jungle juice “ get fucked up punch”. No one was mislead into thinking that it was anything othe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/21 08:32 PM
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Maintain a ratio. They want to make sure the mega rich guys who can drop tons of money don’t have to compete with us plebs for female attention
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/21 08:19 PM
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I can’t imagine getting upset about a “we’re not going to give them our business” type protest. People can spend their money however they want. I can’t speak to how prevalent this program is in the UK, I’ve never been there snd haven’t researched it. It’s a reprehensible thing to do. If it’s something that is happening regularly than absolutely some action is required
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/21 08:17 PM
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We’re happy you’re here
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/21 08:11 PM
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Facetious maybe but not sarcastic
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/21 02:25 PM
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We need to head off the turf war. Women get upset because they see us advocating for men as an attack against them. We know it's not. There was a post that was popular on reddit today that had a headline about pot makes women better mom's and the reply was that it probably makes black men better dads but they're in jail for it. Each one of those black dads in jail for a low level drug crime means a single women raising kids. Men who are have to brake their back to earn provide , work in unsafe c…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/21 04:53 AM
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I for one look forward to the way when all human communication is conducted via meme
/r/FeminismStopsWhen28/10/21 02:00 AM
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I’m just imagining how it would have gone down if I made a statement like this about my single mother
/r/FeminismStopsWhen27/10/21 05:37 PM
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He was hurt by radical women and doesn’t say “all women are bad” maybe she should be trying to learn from him If I were to respond to the topic comment I’d point out that it they stopped targeting all men then men wouldn’t feel targeted.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen27/10/21 05:18 PM
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I’ll never understand people who tweet complaints about their partner. How bad is your communication that you literally turn to strangers on the internet instead of working it out together.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen27/10/21 05:16 PM
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You and your sisters are more then welcome to leave me alone.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen26/10/21 06:17 PM
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Do these people not interact with anyone? Do they have no idea what the world is like outside of the internet? People are not going to fight a literal war with their own loved ones. What am supposed to do when I meet my mother on the The field of battle? I mean, I’d read a cheesy novel with that premise but it’s nowhere near realistic
/r/FeminismStopsWhen26/10/21 05:35 PM
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A lot of women grew up watching romcoms and hallmark movies and can’t get over that real life isn’t like that
/r/FeminismStopsWhen26/10/21 05:30 PM
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Everyone is taken advantage of for money. That’s how our society works
/r/FeminismStopsWhen26/10/21 05:28 PM
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It’s too good of a set up to not be scripted
/r/FeminismStopsWhen26/10/21 05:26 PM
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Depends on who you marry. A good marriage makes everyone happier. All those studies mean is that men say they’re happier. Men are socialized to never complain or say they’re unhappy so they’re meaningless. Married women outlive married men by a successfully significant amount. That means something
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/21 09:15 PM
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The answer is that the guy in the first panel is absolutely wrong. But just because some men believe that it doesn’t invalidate men’s issue. It’s probably not hard to find black people and women who’s agree with the first panel. Isn’t that what “TERF” means? There are members of every demographic group who believe harmful things
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/21 08:24 PM
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It frustrating how the many issues that men face are never included in these things. I’m not opposed to making the work and other things safer for women, I don’t think many people are opposed to that. But when not one male issues is included In this what are we supposed to think? Are we not supposed to think that our society values women more than men? They talk about “health” without addressing that men’s life expectancy is so much lower. They talk about education without addressing the massive…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/21 05:24 PM
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I wonder how the first study distinguished between true altruism and strategic altruism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/21 05:17 PM
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Opting out only give them an incentive to ignore your needs
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/21 05:14 PM
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Aragon is awesome. He kicks ass in the books and Mortensen does such a good Job bring him t life.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/10/21 11:52 PM
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Why open it by talking about Harvey Winstean? Is that how this women sees her son?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/10/21 02:32 PM
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Increasing Union jobs are good for men. The government will never care about workplace safety without being made to
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/21 03:57 PM
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The women interviewed seemed like the kind of people Who didn’t understand that the options they had in their 20s wouldn’t be around forever.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/21 03:30 PM
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If you look at the writers tweeter, a bunch of the replies are a like “ thanks for bringing this important issue to our attention, what are we going to do about this?” I’m sorry what? I thought no one was entitled to sex. These women should hit the gym and and work on their personality
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/21 01:01 PM
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It's innapropate regardless of gender. Pretty sure the NASW has had panels on it
/r/MensRights15/10/21 04:13 AM
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It depends on the individual situation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/21 04:11 AM
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It's a lot of pressure
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/21 04:05 AM
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A lot of behaviors are unacceptable but we don’t stop them by not understanding where they come from and we can’t understand where they come from without empathy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/21 07:54 PM
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Feminist always say “men need to open up more about our feelings” but when we do they respond like that so we don’t and they it “toxic masculinity”. I’m in school to be a psychologist and the unchallenged hostility towards men that I see in so many of my classmates is so scary. Do you remember what that article was called? I’d like to read it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/21 07:41 PM
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We rightfully tell boys “no means no” but we don’t tell girls “don’t play hard to get”. It’s confusing for young boys. They see their peers rewarded for ignoring the “no” and they don’t know what to make of it. It’s okay to say “when an adult man should be able to figure this stuff out” but courtship starts way before adulthood. We’re trying to culturally change the rules for boys but we’re not working towards changing the game at all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/21 07:38 PM
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Feminist think that we use male space to coordinate our massive conspiracy to maintain the patriarchy and prevent them from studying computer science
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/21 07:30 PM
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Technically the main difference is that we don’t advocate for a return to traditional gender roles. We agree with the feminist movement in that people should not be bound to traditional gender roles. Thus we are not “ conservative”. However we disagree with the theory of “patriarchy” and the feminist idea that traditional gender roles simply oppressed women and privileged men. We disagree with the idea that modern society privileges men over women and we think men’s issues have been criminally d…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/21 09:23 PM
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Some women have this strange idea that all women represent them. So if they’d personally find something degrading than it’s degrading for any women to do it. It doesn’t make any sense. If I find something degrading I don’t do it. If some other guy does it than that’s his business. Feminist insist that all women conform to their view of the world
/r/MensRights12/10/21 07:21 PM
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You’re probably thinking of “female dating strategy”. Do your mental health a favor snd don’t look at it
/r/MensRights12/10/21 07:18 PM
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Anthropology is one of those disciplines that encourages its practitioners to make statements way beyond the scope of their research. I’d like to see him debate an economist on this point or even a archaeologist. The idea that no war in human history has been rational is absurd. People need to stop viewing pre modern history though the lenses of Iraq and Vietnam
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/21 04:26 PM
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I don’t see that helping our cause at all. In fact I think the trend of college feminist screaming at speakers and physically stopping events has helped us
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/21 04:24 PM
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This totally misses the point. The argument is not about raw numbers. The argument is that it’s reasonable that people who do dangerous work get paid more and it’s mostly men who do dangerous work.
/r/MensRights11/10/21 05:27 PM
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Also women aren’t stigmatized for pressuring careers that they are passionate about even if they don’t pay very well.
/r/MensRights11/10/21 05:24 PM
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It’s really something that has to be worked on for every couple on their own. What worked for me and my partner might not work for other people. You just have to sit down snd have a conversation and work something out.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/21 04:45 PM
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Let's also remember how hypocritical some of these people are. If you have not done so, you should read up on the Judith Butler situation https://qz.com/1302717/judith-butler-and-slavoj-zizek-wrote-a-letter-saying-avital-ronells-title-ix-investigation-is-unfair/
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/10/21 06:25 AM
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You hit the nail on the head. It's too dogmatic now. The Rebecca Tuvel situation is a great example of not even being able to have a conversation
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/10/21 06:22 AM
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Glad to have you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/21 07:05 PM
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If someone can’t see how reprehensible something like this is, then they’re beyond reason
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/10/21 06:57 PM
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Right: My mother is probably the most anti abortion person I know. I think she’s wrong, but she doesn’t hate herself
/r/MensRights06/10/21 01:36 PM
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They’re untrue. The precent of men under 20-35 who live with their parents are way higher than women.
/r/MensRights06/10/21 05:36 AM
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Sixty-seven percent of all people experiencing homelessness are men
/r/MensRights06/10/21 05:35 AM
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If you were uncut, you’d be able to make the choice to become cut. I have no problem with adult men who chose to mutilate themselves. Do what you want to your body. But what it indefensible is doing it to baby boys who have no power to object
/r/MensRights06/10/21 05:30 AM
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That’s awesome!
/r/MensRights06/10/21 03:36 AM
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Yeah it’s very dated.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/10/21 02:53 AM
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Right, I’m pro choice but it’s such a straw man so say that pro life people all hate women
/r/MensRights06/10/21 02:27 AM
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You should find a male dominated group to join. Volunteer fire fighter or something like that
/r/MensRights06/10/21 02:26 AM
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It’s a major problem because left wing collations in the US need unions to be successful and most unions members are not down wirh the ultra woke
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/21 05:29 PM
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It’s not a direct quote but I first heard the premise from Warren Farrell in his book “the myth of male power”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/21 05:24 PM
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I can’t talk for anyone but myself but my view of history is that in the ore modern world gender roles were required for survival so genders fulfilled those roles. Both roles has positive and negative aspects to them both had privileges and responsibly. In the modern world we don’t need those roles anymore. Feminism was a great movement for pointing that out and arguing that people shouldn’t be bound to those roles. But since Feminism grew out of the civil rights movements, they shoehorned the o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/21 05:06 PM
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Yeah that criticism is exactly why men are so fed up with the feminist movement. They’re offended that we’re talking about men’s issues from the prospective of men. That we’re making men the center of men’s issues. I’ve never seen popular post on this sub that advocated against addressing women’s issues. So they’re saying that men aren’t entitled to advocacy until every women in the world has a perfect life.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/21 04:59 PM
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I don’t even think most people on this sub outright deny it, we just don’t think “ patriarchy” is an accurate word.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/21 04:42 PM
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Like always, I lot of great points. It’s been particularly on my mind recently because so many people have been on thei whole “why do people pay so much attention to Gabby Pinto and not to missing indigenous women?” Not realizing that they’re doing the same thing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/21 04:25 PM
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Also if expressing your feels involves giving your prospective on things than you’re “mansplaning”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/21 03:28 PM
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We’d need to turn it into some kind of info graphic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/21 03:27 PM
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They act as if we’re stubborn idiots who won’t ask for help because BS. They don’t take into account that in the real world men get published for being sensitive. Sensitive men don’t make as much money and are not as valued in dating. I wish I was much less sensitive and empathic than I am. It’s not a good way for men to live life. Maybe one day it will be different but I’m not going to raise my some to be a social experiment
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/21 03:01 PM
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Not to mention that women would die earlier than men due to the stress of their gender role
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/21 12:52 AM
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It’s okay. It would be hard if I were still dating but I’m not snd the only women who’s opinion I care about fully supports my career choice
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/21 06:35 PM
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Men never look down on me for working in a traditionally female dominated role, but women do all the time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/21 06:16 PM
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I didn’t agree with that a month ago but I do now. That place is beyond redemption
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/21 06:14 PM
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I drive passed the bridge to Rikers everyday and it’s heartbreaking. It’s been a mess for a long time but it’s a full on crisis right now
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/21 03:40 PM
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Yeah that’s my plan. Just have to deal with the clenched jaw pain lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/21 05:13 PM
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That’s awesome! I only ask because I’m in school to be a mental health worker and the anti male class topics are really getting to me. I’m trying to decide between arguing about it and risk bad grades / not having references or just put my head down and regurgitate the nonsense
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/21 12:20 PM
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Do you do legal work or mental health work?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/21 12:12 PM
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“Toxic masculinity” is nothing more than an absurd phrase that the APA and Feminist came up with so they didn’t have to address how harmful they are towards men. Embrace your masculinity, it’s a beautiful thing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/21 12:03 PM
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“Turn the lights on” works so well as a hashtag or on a T-shirt. “Tin man” is a marketing genius
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/21 12:01 PM
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As someone who struggled with dyslexia, I have to say that organizations like this are amazing. Thank you OP for sharing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/21 03:12 AM
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I disagree with some of what he says about ADHD but this man is fantastic and his writing should be required reading.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/21 01:44 AM
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It’s very unromantic but it’s always worth seeing where your sex parents stand on abortion. I had a pregnancy scare with a girl I was seeing in my very early 20s and she told me that under know circumstances would she consider abortion. It’s was the most horrifying 3 days until she got her period. Never risked it with her again. I know that this isn’t a macro solution but from a micro perspective I think it’s good advice
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/09/21 06:27 AM
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I 100% precent agree. I just got carried away replying to a different comment on this thread so I won’t be annoying and spam the same thing all over the place. I’ll just say that fiction is supposed to be an outlet for exploring the unrealistic aspects of our inner self
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/21 07:51 PM
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Her shots at Bond are eye rolling. James Bond represents a male Fantasy. Everything about him and his world is unrealistic and that’s okay, it’s actually the whole point of movies. It’s the reason people love fiction. Men know that James Bond is not real, we also know that Star Trek is not real, women should know that Hallmark movies and RomComs are not real. It’s natural to want to fuck countless hot girls and blow up bad guys while driving an Aston Martin with a rocket launcher hidden behind t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/21 07:45 PM
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It’s very hard to find any rational reason to be upset over what Daniel Craig said. Outside of people who make money by stoking outrage
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/21 07:31 PM
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Yes! They always use this point to talk about missing indigenous women and never about indigenous men even though the numbers or missing indigenous men and women are near identical. It’s very disingenuous. I do think some of them just don’t realize that the numbers are identical because men don’t have advocacy and would change their language if they knew. But advocating for men is so risky, particularly for people like me who work in “woke” industries Also, Gabby Petito and I are both Long Islan…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/21 06:06 PM
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I feel that. I’m not in education but in a related field and feel like I’m pushing against a wall sometimes. We need more pro male men to enter these fields like education, social work, mental health concealing and push back against the anti male assumptions But with the wages that people make and the expectations put on men, it’s a big ask
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/21 04:57 PM
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Maybe focusing on childhood and psychological development. Helping people understand that these are natural feelings that serve an Evolutionary purpose
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/21 04:29 PM
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I know that this issue has been talked about a lot on this sub. I just can’t get over how the whole world looked at what has going to happen in Afghanistan and only focused on women losing rights. Obviously the Taliban’s policy towards women is reprehensible but let’s not forget the boys/men who are literally being marched though minefields. I didn’t black out the name because this is a tweet from a leader of the Northern Alliance ( National Resistance Front of Afghanistan), a group in Afghanist…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/21 04:10 PM
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In other words, “I’m a man with a natural sex drive and I’m a bad person because of it” Do these people even consider how damaging it is to boys going though puberty when we shame men for having a natural sex drive?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/21 03:57 PM
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Why does the author put footnotes to her own opinion. I’ve never seen before
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/21 10:46 PM
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To be honest; I think the vast majority of people don’t spend too much time thinking about these issues. When people hear “feminism” they think of the right to vote and stuff like that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/21 08:00 PM
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They’re cutting out the context of what he said. Craig made a well thought out comment and they reduced it to click bait
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/21 07:04 PM
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So many right wing media outlets are misrepresenting what Craig said in a way that they know will provoke a response. Unfortunately people on Twitter and social media are likely to take headlines at face value and I’m sure the NY Post will get someone to go woke mop on Craig that they can then mock and make fun of. I guess this districts from issues like healthcare and collective bargaining. Ring wing media is not on our side
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/21 04:42 PM
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Thank you for doing what you do. I really wish I had more male teachers growing up
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/21 12:58 PM
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I hope you know how much many of us appreciate your Twitter page. The validation I get from your posts is so helpful.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/21 07:54 PM
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It’s bad. I wish I had something more productive to say
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/21 07:52 PM
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This article makes me embarrassed to be a democrat
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/21 06:20 AM
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Over incarceration has a massive racial component but it also has a gender component and that part is almost always left out of the conversation
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/21 06:18 AM
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I heard so many Bernie bros pull the racist “low Infomation voter” bull shit about this. It was so off putting
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/21 06:16 AM
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Taking homicide as an example. The same systemic forces that make a man more likely to commit a homicide are the same forces that make men much more likely to be victims of homicide. “they’re doing it to themselves” doesn’t account for systemic problems that create the situation. People used to use the same flawed logic to dismiss inner city violence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/09/21 06:31 PM
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You can take this with a grain of salt if you’d like because it’s from a leader of the Northern Alliance but the Taliban are literally using men as mine clearing tools. Being marched though a minefield is one of the most horrific things I can think of https://twitter.com/amrullahsaleh2/status/1433766405925658660?s=21
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/09/21 06:20 PM
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Feminism is like Abrahamic religion. Theoretically there is a common Origin point but there are so many off shoots and off shoots of the off shoots that it’s a huge web of groups and beliefs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/09/21 06:09 PM
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I once brought up how opposed I am to circumcision to a group of friends (not randomly, I’m not that guy) and one of the females in the group talked about how she’d be grossed out if she got down their and saw a “turtleneck”. I think a lot about how much (rightful) outrage there would be if anyone advocated for surgically altering baby girl’s gentles so that they’d be more aesthetically pleasing to men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/09/21 06:04 PM
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At an academic level, conversations about interstitially always incorporate class. A straight black man isn’t always disadvantaged against a straight white man if the black man was born wealthy and the white man born in poverty. The issue is that because of historical oppression, the black man is more likely to be born into poverty than the white man so while not universally true there is a overall racial component to generational wealth. In the political and social media sphere, class and wealt…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/09/21 05:57 PM
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The concept is very sound and I do support it. What I don’t support as you say is how men’s issues are excluded. Take incarceration rates. And intersectional perspective on it should take race, class, mental health, and gender and more into account . But since it’s an issue that impacts men, gender is almost always left out.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/09/21 05:42 PM
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We’re not detectives or a jury and nether are the journalist writing these stories. Whatever the trust is, innocent until proven guilty applies
/r/MensRights13/09/21 07:43 PM
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It didn’t say it was unrelated, just that it’s in family court, probably because the one boy is younger then the other two And jt if it’s unrelated then it’s irrelevant to this case so why bring it up?
/r/MensRights13/09/21 06:36 PM
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If they raped her, why would they send her the video? I read the article fast but I don’t think it said anything about her being unconscious
/r/MensRights13/09/21 06:34 PM
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Charges are have not yet been dismissed against a 16-year-old boy being prosecuted separately in Family Court.
/r/MensRights13/09/21 06:33 PM
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I’m glad you had a good experience. If my post keeps someone from going to therapy I’d be upset with myself
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/21 06:37 AM
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I guess this is the downside of buying the Ebook
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/21 02:21 AM
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100%
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/21 01:45 AM
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Always sign a Prenup
/r/MensRights09/09/21 04:38 PM
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I’m totally ignorant about the system in Canada so I have no practical advice. But congratulations on doing your part to get the help you need. Regardless of the outcome, you’re doing the right thing. Good luck
/r/MenSupportMen09/09/21 04:32 PM
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Men being privileged over women is an assumption that I’ve never seen backed up or adequately defended. I don’t think think it’s true and I don’t find argument like the one above which is based purely on an absurd stereotype convincing. Do you think lecturing men about their supposed privilege is therapeutic? If you went to therapy seeking help and I lectured you about all the advantages that women have? When you say you want men to go therapy, do you want them to do that for their own benefit o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/21 02:30 PM
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That’s a good idea thank you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/21 11:21 AM
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Sorry I didn’t mean to tag this NSFW I’m exhausted and extremely frustrated. I’ve been working in social services for many years and have been being told all this time that I should go back to school so that I can step into a clinical role. This is an passage from an intro textbook. The author of this book decided to vent her personal anti male frustration into a textbook and it somehow got published and is literally one of the first things that future mental health care workers are “learning” a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/21 03:24 AM
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I to would like to know
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/21 03:05 AM
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I think you hit the nail on the head. The part of it that I find distasteful is how he never acknowledges that the people he preaches to about personal responsibility don’t have access to private foreign rehab centers and didn’t have to worry about his basic needs while overcoming his addiction. His outcome would likely have been much different if he had to live on the street while addicted, so when he turns around and lectures people about personal responsibility, I can’t help but role my eyes
/r/MensRights08/09/21 06:34 PM
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Was the pun intentional?
/r/MensRights08/09/21 06:29 PM
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He has a view point that is important to have in the conversation. His voice should not be shut out of the conversation about social issues. You don’t have to agree with all of his arguments to be a fan of his. It’s okay to pick and chose when it comes to this kind of thing. Personally I dislike him. His views on accommodations in higher education for people with disabilities are cruel. He’s argument that “no one will give you accommodations in the real world” is factually incorrect in the US an…
/r/MensRights08/09/21 06:21 PM
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I’d be very worried about when this women saw my genitals before.
/r/MensRights08/09/21 06:07 PM
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As a massive Star Trek fan I like Whoopi Goldberg, I feel she’s very talented and her body of work is impressive. Everyone else on that show is insufferable
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/21 04:15 PM
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It’s behind a paywall so I can’t access it. Is debt discussed? There are so many women in my grad program who are under the assumption that they’ll marry someone who will help them pay off the debt. I’ve never met a young man thinking like that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/21 04:10 PM
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Feminism grew out of the civil rights movement and tried to shoehorn itself into civil rights language
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/21 11:59 AM
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Yeah, I’m being facetious
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 11:12 PM
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Okay, but according to the status quo, Billy was able to opt out, now you’re advocating for the government to take that away from Billy. You’re taking a macro lens and ignoring that this is a micro issue. The status quo gives men more influence over pregnancy termination than banning abortion would. You’re acting as if it’s super common for the man and women to be in complete disagreement over this situation but that’s not normally the case. Billy and Beth’s situation is much more representative…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 06:48 PM
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A lot of people in men’s groups struggle with feeling like women gate keep sex but then will turn around and slut shame them on issues like this. Someone said to me once that “a slut is a women who will have sex with any man except for you” and I’ve always thought there was a lot of truth of it. At the same time pro choice organizers constantly say “men don’t have a role in this debate” and then get upset when men who value their opinions opt out of it. I’m pro choice but I’m going to listen to …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 06:39 PM
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I agree that men should have that right. Banning abortion doesn’t give them that right. Do we agree that forcing men to be parents against their will is a bad thing? If we do, why should he advocate for the government to do it in all cases of unwanted pregnancy? We don’t like men being in this negative situation so the answer is to put more men in this negative situation? In the case of Billy and Beth, the government is forcing Billy to be a parent against his will, not Beth. It’s a complex situ…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 06:23 PM
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Men don’t get the chance to opt out of parenthood? I guess no one told my father that. But you’re not advocating to give men that right, you’re advocating to take the influence they do have away from them. Most of the time a man and women make this decision together. Why shouldn’t they be allowed to do that. If the man and women both want to opt out of parenthood, why should the government get to override them? You’re not happy with the status quo but you’re trying to make it worse!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 05:53 PM
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So you’re saying that currently Bill doesn’t have enough influence on the outcome. I can agree with that. How come instead of advocating for giving Bill more control of the outcome, you’re advocating for him to have absolutely no control over the outcome? You’re saying that Bill doesn’t have enough control but you’re trying to take away the control that he does have What you’re arguing for is the equivalent of making society more equal for blind people by plucking out everyone’s eyes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 05:44 PM
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So you’re saying that depriving both men and women of having any say in aborting the fetus they convicted and instead allowing the government to make that choice for them and giving them the finical obligation that goes with is is a pro men position? So Beth and Bill are 15, have sex and Beth becomes pregnant. Beth wants an abortion because she doesn’t think she can take care of a child, Bill agrees with Beth, both their families agree. But the government decides “no, Beth must carry the baby to…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 05:37 PM
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Lol that’s the definition of a strawman. I don’t have a magic wand that I can use to wave away capitalism so arguing as if I did is irrelevant to the conversation And I’ve noticed that you haven’t responded to any of the questions put to you about the implications of banning abortion. I wonder why that is
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 05:19 PM
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I’m sorry if you feel like I’m taking too long to respond but I shouldn’t be I’m having this conversation at all since I’m at work. Yes it’s a strawman fallacy, More than that it’s a strawman that is totally irrelevant. We’re talking about abortion not micro economics. Take that to the personal finance subreddit, I’m sure they have a lot of thoughts on the topic. I can strawman you back, “ Are you saying that people on welfare are incapable of improving their situation before getting pregnant? S…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 04:58 PM
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I’m not going to reply to an absurd strawman fallacy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 04:48 PM
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Okay so I’ll stop replying elsewhere and start replying here. Every individual situation is different, in general attaining financial stability is the first aspect of family planning. Every social worker and account would agree with that. On the other issue. You’re not advocating for giving men any rights, you’re just advocating for everyone to have less rights. How does forcing a young couple to have a child that neither of them want make life better for men? If you got your high school girlfri…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 04:41 PM
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Okay so you’re done trying to argue your point and are just trying to derail the conversation with irrelevant b.s. I believe that people should consider their financial situation before taking on a such a massive expense and if it’s not currently financially responsible they should take the necessary steps improve their situation. Also, poor doesn’t equal welfare, most poor people are not on welfare and most people on welfare are on it for a limited time. Taking on the biggest expense of your li…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 04:18 PM
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It’s hard to not see that as an anti women and not pro man position. You’re not advocating for men to have more rights, you’re advocating both women and men to have less rights. You’re advocating for the government to disallow men and women form making the decision that might want to make. Why not advocate for an arbitration method that absolves men of Financial responsibly in the case where they want to abort and she doesn’t? Contrary to media narratives, most of the time the man and the women …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 04:11 PM
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I’m sorry but you’re not going to detail the conversation with irrelevant logical fallacies. Also, Most poor people aren’t on welfare and people who are on welfare aren’t on welfare forever
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 03:59 PM
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So wouldn’t not allowing her to have a abortion exasperate that problem? You can’t say that you don’t want to be held on the hook for child support but at the same time oppose abortion rights
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 03:54 PM
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By all means ban abortion just don’t start crying when your taxes go up because the state has to double the amount of social workers they hire
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 03:49 PM
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Yes and I know families that have been on waiting lists for that for 5 years (I work in social servies, you’re never going to convince me that our social safety nets are strong enough to force a women to have a child that she can’t care for)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 03:48 PM
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Not be a SJW type, but walk into a public housing project or a homeless shelter and tell me that social safety nets are working fine
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 03:39 PM
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Okay, that’s a nice piffy comment. but all the date shows that sex ed and access to contraception reduces unwanted pregnancy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 03:37 PM
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Having a child while in welfare is not a smart thing to do. That’s why people want the right to terminate a pregnancy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 03:35 PM
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It’s a personal issue between the two people who conceived. The government shouldn’t be playing a role
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 03:34 PM
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The social safety net system in the untied states is not robust enough to force people to have a child that they can’t provide for
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 03:25 PM
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I used to be very pro abortion rights, I’d go to protests and stuff. But I’ve been told over and over again by feminists that men shouldn’t have an opinion on this issue, so I’m not involving myself in the current debate. I think it’s unfortunate what Texas has done, but I was told that it’s not my place so it’s not my place. But in reality if you don’t like abortion the way to refuse it is to advocate for better sex Ed, more access to contraception, less stigma and “slut shaming” and better soc…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 03:19 PM
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25 still very young. Maybe it wasn’t for baby boomers but in this day and age you have everything ahead of you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 03:17 PM
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The links in This comment are great resources for an upcoming project I have for my graduate program. You rock!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/21 05:40 PM
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Warren Ferrell or Robert A. Glover
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/21 05:37 PM
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Yes they are. They literally attempted a violent overthrow of the government to make a reality TV show host our dictator.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/21 04:45 AM
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I was going to make that same point but your said it better than I could.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/21 04:44 AM
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I think it’s a problem but the media is hyping it up to me more than it is. Thighs like January 6th are horrific but they’re not happening every day. The Portland and Seattle stuff is overblown
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/21 04:41 AM
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If you can look at the content of this subreddit and think we’re part of the alt right then you’re just nuts and can’t be reasoned with
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/21 05:29 AM
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Yeah
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/21 09:33 PM
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I brought up at work that I’d never have my son circumcised abs you have thought I said the N word or something
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/21 08:49 PM
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I stopped reading at his “male victims are bigger and stronger” bs. I was 13 years old and weighed 130 pounds.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/21 08:47 PM
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I’d worry that too many men would give up on seeking out emotionally fulfilling relationships. It’s a crap shoot out there don’t get me wrong and I got lucky no doubt but I still think the dating game is worth playing. No robot can replace my partner
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/21 08:34 PM
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I’m sorry that you haven’t been having any luck finding support. I know how frustrated that is
/r/MenSupportMen25/08/21 12:26 AM
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The key is finding a safe place to express those frustrations. Unfortunately a lot of people have no sympathy for lonely men but there are groups and stuff.
/r/MenSupportMen25/08/21 12:23 AM
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Seriously getting overwhelmed. I’m about to start grad school. The idea of juggling school and work seemed fine when it was something I was going to do in the future but now that it’s a week and a half away I’m worried that I bit off more than I can chew
/r/MenSupportMen18/08/21 04:24 PM
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The good thing about that is that you can keep it for a bit and then shave it off and if you decide that you liked it just wait for it to grow back
/r/MenSupportMen18/08/21 04:18 PM
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Few points: Most of the people who took jobs helping the US were men, the images we are seeing are of the last life boat from a sinking ship, a lot of the men you’re seeing sent their wives and daughters away as soon as they saw the writing on the wall and are now trying to join them. The men who are leaving family behind aren’t abandoning them, they’re seeking out work with horrific conditions (such as building the World Cup stadiums In Qatar) in order to send remittances back to their families…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/21 02:28 PM
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The people who “went first” got out long before this photo was taken
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/21 03:41 AM
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The news coming out of Afghanistan is horrible. I feel so badly for people who will suffer. The Taliban is awful to women and girls and it’s terrible that they’re going to be able to impose their world view on a whole country. But I’ve been seeing so many “how dare Afghan men flee and not die to defend Afghan women”. The fighting is over, nothing they do will stop the Taliban. Wanting these boys and young men to die for no reason is heartless. I’ve also seen a lot of post lamenting that most of …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/21 08:10 PM
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I’m not going to pretend to know enough about trans issues to comment on your point, but you definitely make a well reasoned argument. It’s messed up to ban people for shit like that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/21 01:28 AM
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I think the implication is “they shouldn’t be fleeing war, they should be fighting in it”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/21 08:29 PM
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Suffering men don’t pull at the heart strings as much as suffering women because society sees men’s lives as disposable
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/21 08:28 PM
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Not really. When we were younger it was all about ball busting now that we’re older most of us are too busy with our families to dedicate that much time to one another.
/r/MenSupportMen11/08/21 04:18 PM
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What does the wolf represent?
/r/MenSupportMen11/08/21 04:17 PM
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Rough weekend but feeling better now. I'm about to ask my boss if I can reduce hours in the fall to accommodate my school schedule. I don't know why it's making me so nervous I got out and rode my bike today for the first time in over a month ( injury). Felt good to be out there riding again
/r/MenSupportMen11/08/21 02:52 AM
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Yeah I meant ego. My bad
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/21 02:21 AM
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It might be different now. But the idea that though our history, wars were fought over Eva is laughably stupid. Wars are fought over resources and security. If women were in charge they’d have to fight over those things also
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/21 01:50 AM
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The women who knows she married to a mobster and partakes in the lifestyle that dirty money provides is just as guilty as the mobster.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/21 01:47 AM
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Republicans aren’t “pro men” they’re pro “let’s all go back to the 1950s”.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/21 12:55 AM
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Young men from poor backgrounds turn to crime to earn the money that women demand they have in order to be loved
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/21 01:36 AM
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Jean-Luc Picard
/r/MenSupportMen08/08/21 03:15 PM
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Great subreddit
/r/MenSupportMen08/08/21 03:13 PM
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Thanks! A combination of a few things. I’m going to grad school in the fall so I’m trying to save as Much money as I can, most of my friends live a few states away so travel is expensive, a lot of the activities I enjoy in the summer are athletic and I have an injury that’s been limiting me, my parter was dealing with health issues so I’ve been taking care of her. And in general I had a rough time with education the first time around , going back to school has caused me mountain of anxiety that …
/r/MenSupportMen08/08/21 12:20 AM
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u/a-man-from-earth ( who I believe is a mod here) is trying to get a sub called r/mensupportmen up and running. It's new and doesn't have a ton of users yet but I think has potential to be something very special. The idea as I understand it is that it's sub with the same ideas as this but at a micro level instead of a macro level
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/21 01:27 AM
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Here is my submission. It's a Haiku ​ https://www.reddit.com/r/mensupportmen/comments/ozjtgd/monthly_art_challenge_submission_a_haiku_about/
/r/MenSupportMen07/08/21 01:17 AM
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Do we just submit it into this comment thread?
/r/MenSupportMen06/08/21 07:44 PM
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There are some “bad men” and “bad women” in this world. But most people are good people.
/r/MenSupportMen06/08/21 07:04 PM
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I’d debate your use of the word “excuse”. Yes, many men are afraid of rejection. That fear comes from a real place. Calling it an excuse is unproductive. Instead we should be acknowledging that men are afraid, exploring were that fear comes from and helping each other overcome that fear.
/r/MenSupportMen06/08/21 07:00 PM
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Note: these boys and men are progressive when it comes to issues of social justice and female equality. Despite being “woke," they continue to struggle with their own self-imposed isolation—the damage caused by being raised male in a culture that teaches boys to be stoic and self-sufficient. I wonder what the point of including that was. Do men have to bow down at the alter of feminism before they’re allowed to have feelings? I’m not blaming the writer, the work they’re doing is so vital, articl…
/r/MenSupportMen06/08/21 06:56 PM
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Wow, I didn’t even know that this was an option
/r/MenSupportMen06/08/21 06:39 PM
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I really like the way “art expression” sounds! I hope this gets off the ground.
/r/MenSupportMen06/08/21 06:29 PM
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There is a lot of wisdom in the stoics but I think Ryan Holiday’s bad takes are problematic
/r/MenSupportMen06/08/21 05:18 PM
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Great ideas! I’d be concerned with causing the word “therapy” if it’s not being conducted by a licensed therapist. But the idea is great idea
/r/MenSupportMen06/08/21 05:10 PM
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Being constantly second guessed at work. It happens to everyone
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/21 10:17 PM
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Yeah, Dr Glover has a chapter about child hood conditions that tend to lead to “nice guys”. A lot of times, it’s not even that they got their needs met by doing that but they kept themselves safe by doing that. Neglected and psychologically abused children often grow up to be “nice guys” Personally in my own life, it’s very easy to draw a like between my childhood and my “nice guy” tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:21 PM
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This biggest mistake Dr Robert Glover ever made was calling the syndrome “nice guy syndrome” and calling his book “”no more Mr nice guy” instead of “don’t be a wet towel” or something like that. When people talk about the “nice guy” they’re not taking about genuinely kind and compassionate people. They’re talking about people who try to be ultra accommodating as a misguided strategy of having their needs met. The book talks about “covert contracts”, doing something for someone else and expecting…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 05:25 PM
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Sure you can fuck down. But most people try to settle down after 25 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:07 AM
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It’s a holdover, but it’s not random. Since male life has always been seen as disposable while female life was seen as sacred, Men had to go to war to protect the women and children in their communities Or do dangerous jobs to provide for the women and children in their communities. Most of the time you served in regiments alongside your neighbors and worked in mines with your neighbors. Men treat each other the way they do because men need to put their lives in each others hands. If you’re goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 04:21 AM
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Well They start off by affirming the myth of the gender wage gap so it's not looking like a great bit of research. Most of the studies they cite are extremely outdated so I just looked at one of the first citations that was form this century and it's obvious that the authors of this are snippets from other research, drawing their own conclusions that aren't supported by the research that they're citing citing and then making a bunch of assumptions based on their unfounded conclusions. In fact th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:07 AM
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Idk, from my experience I saw that stuff drop way off after a certain age once people started moving to suburbs and having kids
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:43 AM
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Our country should do a better job mandating that employers provide a decent work life balance so that people don't have to chose one or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:30 AM
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I've had female supervisors put their hands on me in ways that made me uncomfortable. I've had insinuations made about my body that I've had to laugh off. I've had to laugh off jokes that I found offensive and every few days someone insinuates that female clients that request to work with me do so because they think I'm attractive, even though I provide extremely high quality service. All these things I laugh off because complaining about them would just result in being told to man up. And As a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:26 AM
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My mother is an extremely flawed person who made some awful mistakes when I was a child. I don't know if I'll ever totally forgive her for some stuff. But at least she was there and made an effort. More than I can say for my other parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:03 AM
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My mother is a wonderful woman who did her best to raise me on her own. She failed to prepare me for life as a man, but that's not her fault, my father should have made more of an effort to be involved in my life. My mother has a lot of other issues that impact my relationship with her but they're not relevant to gender so I won't get into them. I don't have a negative view of women . My partner is the best person I know. But I do think feminism's attempt to argue that women are / have always be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:54 PM
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It depends on where you are. Dating over 30 in NYC is normal. In the bible belt most people are married in their very early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:32 PM
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So the same thing is true for female privilege. All the examples that I always see talked about during conversations like these are things that happen to men also. When we complain about it we get mocked even more and told to "man up" so we don't complain. Maybe women need to "man up" a bit more
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:08 PM
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Sure. But women assume that men don't get treated the same way and I really don't think that's the case. Every time I see women talking about this kind of stuff all the examples are things that happen to me all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:06 PM
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It's not like I don't work with women. I think that women grow up surrounded by their parents who love them, their peers who want to sleep with them and teachers who are paid to educate them so they get a lot of special treatment. When they get to work, they don't get that special treatment anymore and can't handle it. They look at their male coworkers who are not upset at they way they're being treated and assume they're being treated better so they claim sexism. Boys are horrible to other boys…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 10:13 PM
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Maybe, but things that happen everywhere all the time don't make national headlines. In all the workplaces I've been to, I've never seen this kind of thing but I have seen men and women both get treated the same way and then only the women complains and says in sexist. I think work place culture in the US is toxic. Men don't complain enough, women complain more ( still not enough imo) but misdirect their complaining by attributing things that have nothing to do with gender to gender
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:48 PM
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If whatever happened there was normal, it would not be a big news story.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:40 PM
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I’d be interested to read those studies or at least the publicly available abstracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:28 PM
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Why did you call your dad? If you knew they were trying to rip you off call them out on it yourself. That’s not a gender issue, that’s just you not standing up for yourself. Mechanics try to rip everyone off regardless of gender. Here is a tip. I don’t know Jack about cars so if I think the auto mechanic is ripping me off I’ll say “okay, let me do a bit of research” and then I’ll Google the things they told me. I’ve caught mechanics trying to rip be off before. If you find a good mechanic, alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:24 PM
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Feminist say that all the time, but I’ve never actually seen it. My personal theory is that the workplace is the first time that most women are interacting with men who aren’t trying to sleep with them (peers and classmates) or paid to provide a service to them ( teachers, coaches, etc). They don’t realize that they’ve always gotten the special treatment and when they stop getting it thinks that it’s an injustice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:18 PM
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I don’t think any population experiencing homelessness gets any respect and it’s a problem. But I’ve worked in social services in NYC for years and I’ll tell you straight up, women are seen as a higher priority for servies under the assumption that they’re more vulnerable on the street and the fact that since there are less of them they stand out more. Also there are a lot of shelters for female victims of domestic abuse and none for male victims. Pitting one group of people experiencing homeles…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:15 PM
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Millionaire men are married to millionaire women and they’re both millionaires. If they have kids than regardless of gender, their kids will inherit their wealth and also become millionaires. Class based inequality is not a gender issue
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:11 PM
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I don’t think men get any of those things just because they are men. I think women are socialized to expect those things because they’re women and when they don’t get it get upset. Men aren’t socialized to expect any of that without earning it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:09 PM
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A lot of this is regional. If you live in NYC, dating in your 30s is probably a bit harder than your 20s but not by much. If you’re in rural Bible Belt, everyone is married by 19 so you’re screwed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:04 PM
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If You’re 14 and you want to be “chad” you have plenty of time to do it. You’re haven’t even started the race yet. Take a look at what you think you need to do, make a list, set some goals and go for it. All the best times in your life are ahead of you This sub and Reddit as a whole is full of bitter people who look at everything though the Lens of their own negative experience. It’s probably not the best thing to be looking at during your formative years
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 08:49 PM
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That’s true but I don’t think it remains true once people hit their mid 20s so I don’t think it explains everything
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 08:44 PM
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One on one conversations. You’ll never change someone’s mind on the Internet. It’s difficult because as soon as you talk about men’s issues, there are some people who will say awful things to you, but it’s worth doing. I’d never tell anyone what to do with their life, but the more unashamedly masculine men who go into jobs like mental health care ( clinical Social work, MFT, LMHC) public health, and primary education the better.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/21 05:21 PM
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I like that this sub allows us to advocate for men’s issues and be critical of modern feminism without becoming a cesspool of right wing nonsense. Supporting men doesn’t mean forcing us (and women) back into traditional gender roles and I appreciate that this sub Acknowledges that. I like that this sub is not sexist against women, I like that I don’t get called dirty names for arguing that capitalism as currently practiced in the US contributes to some of the issue we talk about. And I like that…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/21 05:09 PM
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Reddit is such a bad place to ha e these conversations. The best way to advocate for men’s issues is face to face with with friends and family.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/21 04:57 PM
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Joined!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/21 01:05 AM
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I love how when facts and statistics prove that feminism is wrong about something they say “don’t discount our lived experiences”. But when we talk about our lived experience (and facts / statistics) they go nuts. They live in a fantasy realty and can’t emotionally handle looking outside of it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/21 12:16 AM
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I think it’s responsible for maternity leave to be longer than paternity leave since women have a physical recovery that men don’t have. I think both are tend to be too short in America.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/21 06:38 PM
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I was accused of being an incel recently during a debate and I’m literally engaged.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/21 02:47 PM
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In general, the left is really bad at coming up with slogans.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/21 03:29 AM
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Women have access to any job they want. There is not a job in this country that’s “no women” l. Don’t act like women can’t to manual labor. Few want to, but they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:34 AM
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Love what you’re doing. I wish this wasn’t such a busy time for me because I’d love to volunteer.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/21 05:24 AM
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The whole argument was that men’s access to these jobs are an advantage to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 02:21 AM
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Amazon pays shit but UPS and FedEx pay solid wages. Women are 18.2 percent (10 out of 55) of the Executive Council of the AFL-CIO, so the idea that women can’t get these jobs is untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 01:11 AM
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Have you tried? Because In my experience that’s not the case. Maybe at some small time landscaper but not big corporations like UPS
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 12:32 AM
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Does that control for guys with HS diplomas who are in the age group of people getting their bachelors? Most people have more sex during college ( when they only have a HS diploma) then after college ( when they have a bachelors). I always imagined it was somewhat the same for people who don't go to college
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 12:21 AM
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Women are allowed to work manual labor jobs. They chose not to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 12:18 AM
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I agree with your points about sex work Let's take a moment to recognize that men who are " chubby, bald, balding, below average looking etc" have emotions as well. Saying men don't have it hard in dating and then dismissing any man with any of these mild flaws as not counting is dehumanizing. Let's take a moment to understand how hard it is for those men. Men have a different biological clock and that's the race to earn enough to be provider before aging out of the dating pool. That means men d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 12:11 AM
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I’m avoiding spoilers so I only read the first part of your post and am going to come back to this after I’ve had a chance to watch Picard. I’ll just say that if it truly is anti man it would be hart breaking to me. Growing up without a father around, Kirk, Picard and Sisko were the male role models that I looked up to. Star Trek is very important to be for that reason. I didn’t enjoy “all good things” as much as most people because seeing Picard as a feeble old man wasn’t entertaining. I think …
/r/MensRights29/07/21 01:53 PM
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I know that this conversation is a few days old but I looked at FDR and a thread they had about raising sons, and it was horrifying to read what some of these women are telling their sons.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/21 11:33 AM
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AMA seems like a strange way to do it. But by all means, start a conversation
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/21 02:05 AM
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There is a thread on female dating strategy about raising sons. I find it absolutely horrifying. These women are taking their bitterness on men our on their sons. I hope those boys see though the BS before it’s too late for them
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/21 01:59 AM
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I don’t recall being asked that as a child, but I hope children nowadays are
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/21 08:06 PM
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Never been asked that. Not as an adult and not as a child
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/21 08:05 PM
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I think it’s wrong. I understand where she is coming from and why she gets upset, but she’s wrong. Women don’t understand what it’s like to be men, they can’t prepare boys for the reality of being a man. My father not being around often ( and acting like a psycho when he was) is the genesis of my mental health issues. I was raised by a wonderful single mother, but she doesn’t understand male issues and couldn’t prepare me for them I’m not saying a gay couple can’t raise a child of the opposite g…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/21 07:58 PM
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Even if it were, it would be sufficient to prove my point. But it’s obviously not. Literally every dangerous job was exclusively something men did. You didn’t see women in mining, building railroads, shoveling coal or serving on merchant ships. Men do/did the jobs that kill you because historically, male life was seen as disposable while female life was protected
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/21 07:25 PM
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Broad generalizations are almost always incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:33 AM
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In disagree with your point. If a group of people are oppressed than they’re going to be made to do the more unpleasant tasks. Is there a single story of an able bodied slave owner taking the place of an injured slave? Even if that we’re true, maybe men in mines are going to be more productive than women. But a merchant ship crewed by women is going to make the same time as one crewed by men, how come women didn’t have to take those jobs? I think you’re over estimating how much “Beyond survival”…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/21 09:56 PM
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But you can’t have a rational conversation without acknowledging then men were expected to die in order to keep women safe. I don’t see how a man who is dying to protect a women is at the same time oppressing her. You can’t have a rational conversation after dismissing something that significant as “one example”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/21 09:16 PM
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So one person has to go into the mines and the other gets to stay home with their children. Both roles have challenges, but one that literally kills you is more challenging. If men were oppressing women, they’d give themselves the less challenge role and make the women do the more challenge role. What you’re talking about isn’t oppression, it’s the gender roles that we’re required for survival. Both genders suffered and both genders benefited. That’s not a gender oppressing the others. That’s op…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/21 08:36 PM
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Don’t stop making these!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/21 06:56 PM
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Putting women as a whole in the same group as ethnic minority or LGBQT people doesn’t make any sense. Gender norms sucked for everyone but served a purpose for everyone. Racism sucked for minority groups and served its victims no purpose. Women received a benefit from gender roles. Not all of it was a benefit but there were some for them. Jews don’t receive a benefit from antisemitism. Blacks don’t receive a benefit from racism. Gay folks don’t receive a benefit from homophobia
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/21 05:51 PM
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I don’t understand how you can play off being killed violently during what should be the prime of your life as “just one example”. But who worked in the mines? Who died at sea?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/21 05:44 PM
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So if both men and women are being oppressed, then the oppression is based on something other than gender. In reality throughout most of history, everyone other than a few wealthy families were oppressed. The gender roles were how families survived the oppression together. It’s just like today. People talk about “male privilege”. I grew up middle class ( by NY standards, probably would have been considered wealthy in most of the country) But I can’t think of a single privilege I have that my sis…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/21 05:40 PM
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I’m sorry I think that’s wrong. Men had to put up with dying in war to protect women, men had to put up with dying in jobs with horrific conditions in order to provide for women. If women were oppressed, they’d be the ones in the mines,
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/21 05:20 PM
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I don’t know. Let’s ask all the men who died in wars to protect their wives
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/21 04:59 PM
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This makes me think of Red Dwarf. “ they’re all dead Dave”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/21 04:57 PM
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You can sum it all up as “ they expect to attract a perfect man without putting any effort in themselves”. Sorry ladies, high value men have too much respect for themselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/21 04:49 PM
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I saw that sub once. It’s almost funny how delusional the post were. I feel so bad to the poor men that actually dare these women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/21 04:46 PM
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That overall gender issues aren’t as relevant to your day to day life as Reddit makes it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:07 PM
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People who work at non profits have bills to pay. You can’t get the job done if you can’t afford to keep good talent.
/r/MensRights22/07/21 12:57 PM
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Thank you for saying that. I’m definitely a bit “overly sensitive” about my spelling. But your joke was funny. I’ll always have dyslexia but but I should learn to laugh about it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/21 12:33 AM
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The French Revaluation ( the big one anyway) was a revolt against Mercantilism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/21 10:53 PM
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Yeah. I only discovered this sub recently and I’m so glad that I did
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/21 10:46 PM
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Not at all, I have a few reasons. I understand how frustrating the third wave feminism wing of the Democratic Party is. And I do hope we can find ways to push back on it but I won’t become right wing and here is why. Labor unions are made up mostly of men, they’re bastions of male bonding and they’re responsible for more progressive action in America than any other group. Increasing social safety nets and reducing income inequality will mean that men get to be valued for who they are and not wha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/21 10:40 PM
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That’s a huge problem with the left and I think that’s why so many men get sucked into the right wing hate machine.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/21 10:22 PM
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It’s very dated but “the myth of male power” goes into fantastic detail about this. Also, thank you for not making fun of my spelling :)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/21 08:27 PM
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When I think of a deadbeat father I think of a man who’s trying as hard as he can but failing to provide for a family that he is not allowed to be a part of. I look at that man as someone worth of empathy and in need of support. Our society looks down on him for the crime of struggling to provide
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/21 06:20 PM
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I subscribe to the Warren Ferrell view of this. That when Gender rolls no longer being necessary for survival gave root to feminism and that was a positive thing because it gave women the opportunity to not live by an outdated roll. But men never had that and are still trapped in their outdated roll. Feminism is a good thing, but it needs to develop side by side with a men’s movement
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/21 06:17 PM
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I work social services in this field and deal with stuff like this a lot. People on the spectrum often have trouble with social boundaries and may do things that are generally considered inappropriate. Unfortunately they then get labeled as a “creep” or something along those lines and society is not empathetic at all to men who are viewed that way. I don’t want to give any specific examples because of privacy concerns. But I’ve seen well meaning men ostracized by their own family over stuff like…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/21 06:11 PM
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Fixing capitalism is definitely a goal of the left and it should be a goal of the men’s movement as well since under, capitalism men’s value is determined solely by the capital they’re able to produce and not by them as a person
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/21 06:06 PM
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The problem with mens lib is that all their post seem to be about how men can better support women. I have no problem with that, but they should make it clear that that’s what they are. This sub is about men supporting men. There need to be spaces for men to support men without the BS right wing nonsense because if there is not then the right wing nonsense is going to keep getting more popular. Men go to men’s lib to look for support, when they don’t get it they say “ well I guess the proud boys…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/21 06:03 PM
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This is the resource that I used to find one. https://www.drglover.com/coaching-groups.html
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/21 06:41 PM
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TIL Delaware is “Dixie”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/21 12:48 PM
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It’s almost like men who earn more money and are physically fit are less likely to end up alone. That’s shocking! /s The part about men feeling distress of their wife makes more money than them is interesting, but she completely misses the point. Feminism has allowed women to escape their traditional rolls. They can now have careers and high paying jobs, that’s great, it’s a good thing that a decent amount of the high paying jobs are occupied by women. BUT there has never been a corresponding me…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/21 11:58 PM
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It’s primarily a race issue, but it’s also a gender issue. Trevon Martin would definitely be alive today if he were white, and he’d probably be alive today if he were a female
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/21 10:40 PM
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They’re probably referring to the “proud boy” types. But I’d argue that they don’t care about men at all and make it harder to have conversation about men’s issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/21 10:38 PM
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They’ll find a supply side economist and tell everyone that their opinion is gospel and we need to craft our whole government around it but will deny Evolution, face masks and climate change because “ So called experts”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/21 10:33 PM
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That’s why I try not to have an “ ideology”. I have priorities, I consider myself a leftist because I prioritize working people over corporate profits. But priorities are flexible, they change when a situation changes, by definition someone who is ideological is not.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/21 10:31 PM
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This reminds me of the Bull Burr bit “ No Reason To Hit A Woman”. I won’t butcher his company in a Reddit comment, but it’s a great bit of Comedy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/21 10:25 PM
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My grandfather worked Dawn to dusk to support his family. He left his country to move to a slum in NYC and sent every penny of “ disposable income” he earned back to Italy, as soon as he was able to afford a suitable place to live ( for a woman, it didn’t matter that he spent years in squalor), he took a Buss and 2 subway trains to get to work everyday 6 days a week. He refused himself even the most simple luxuries so that his wife snd kids were able to have nice things. Maybe after all that, he…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/21 06:16 PM
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Next time talk to the professors before hand and say “I’d like to give a counter view point, will that negatively impact my grad?” That way you can gauge it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/21 11:29 PM
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There is a difference between “poor people don’t deserve healthcare” and “Bernie’s ideas are unrealistic and his Movement refusing to engage in that conversation turned me off from the movement”. That was my reaction at least
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/21 11:18 PM
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I think society puts more pressure on men to b bread winners and judges men’s worth by their paychecks so men make more sacrifices to increase their earnings. I can be an incredible person in every sense of the word but if I have a low salary, I’m only judged on that so I have to do things that make me unhappy to get that number higher. I think it’s actually very sad. I wanted to be a social worker, but all I heard from friends, family and people in the industry was about how I wouldn’t be a rea…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/21 08:10 PM
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I understand how it hits harder when children lose their life since they were robbed on the chance to ever grow up and live their lives. But as flr adults, I don’t understand why woman’s lives are more valuable than men’s.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/21 08:03 PM
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When you go see a therapist for the first time, tell them that you need help to identify your specific goals and help to identify and implement specific actions to reach those goals and overcome roadblocks. If they say “that’s not how I do things” tell them to give you a referral to someone who does do things that way
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/21 08:01 PM
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I just don’t understand this hostile attitude towards a truly milestone moment. It’s great that gay men were able to create their own subculture were they can be accepted. But aren’t we at the point now where gay men should’t feel like their personality needs to be dictated by their sexual orientation? Does Dan find it threatening to his community that we might be seeing a generation of gay men who are proudly masculine and choose traditional male interest over the stereotypically homosexual int…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/21 02:58 AM
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Absolutely. I’m sure there are a whole bunch in each pro sports league
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/21 07:19 PM
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But we’re not chopping people’s legs off at birth for no reason. I don’t think an amputee would advocate for unnecessary limb removal
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/21 06:53 PM
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I had it done as a baby, I think most American men have. I feel no shame about advocating against it. Just because something barbaric was done to me doesn’t mean it should happen to anyone else
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/21 06:51 PM
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I love this poem as well. But if we’re talking about the background we have to acknowledge that he wrote it for his son going off to war and his son was instantly killed in his first battle. That shouldn’t be the standard for being a man
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/21 06:46 PM
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Unfortunately it’s probably not as simple as applying to overall ratio to sports teams. I imagine that there are a lot of gay men who could have become pro Athelstan but have been discouraged from that lifestyle both by homophobia among athletes and the idea that gay men are supposed to act a particular way. Just look at how unnecessarily hostel Dan Savege’s tweet about this was. I think there are a lot of gay men in the gay community who see gay men being accepted into traditional masculine env…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/21 06:10 PM
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It’s a very positive thing and I applaud him. Gay men are still men and not all of them want to have their personality defined by who they’re attracted to. It’s great that society is more accepting of gay men now than before but there is a lot of work still to be done so that gay men can feel comfortable in traditional masculine environments such as football teams
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/21 06:05 PM
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I don’t think anyone believes that it’s one simple reason that prevent men from getting help. They all play into each other
/r/MensRights15/01/21 05:56 PM
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Isn’t that the main point of the APA article that everyone is upset about. That men feel so much pressure from society to be strong all the time and to take care if they needs of others that thy don’t seek mental health help when they need it?
/r/MensRights15/01/21 05:16 PM
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This is fake. Someone took the guys picture and put the text on it
/r/MensRights03/05/19 03:56 PM
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Go to the principal
/r/MensRights07/04/19 08:03 PM
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Elon probably has countless 10s throwing their pussy at him whenever he walks out his front door. When you're worth as much as he is it's more an issue of struggling with deciding who you let close to do.
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