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| 0 | Let's define "Red Pill" once and for allwww.np.reddit.com/r/theredpill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/15 05:15 AM |
| 1 | There are some jobs that women just can't do: '60 Minutes' report on the Marines opening the infantry up to womennever talked about scholarship but there are internship exclusive for women. the impllication here is that they have spots, witha lower standard, so that they can fill out all the slots with women. (if they had offered the same internship based solely on merit than there would be some men in the program; thus the fact that it allows only women inherently gives these women, with lower standards, entry into the internship). internships are invaluable for whatever field and have a huge bearing on y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/15 04:58 AM |
| 1 | How men rate women vs how women rate men (hypergamy data)This is actually incredibly interesting. I would repost this (maybe I'll do it later) as proof for the AF/BB dynamics, and add in some more detail in the description because people here don't seem to be as versed in TRP. It shows that women view only certain "alpha" men as truly attractive and those men have the lion's share of attraction from the female population. The BB, which make up a huge >70% proportion of the population are ignored by women as unattractive. This is in contrast where a ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/15 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Question for Redpillers - does this affiliation affect how you might think about veganism?amen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/15 03:42 AM |
| 7 | Question for Redpillers - does this affiliation affect how you might think about veganism?No the stupidity and futility I see in veganism is directly independent of how RP I am. What were the arguments in this course that made you think eating ALL animal products were evil? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/15 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Are nice guys evil?Uhhh you haven't actually read TRP have you? Probably just TRP out of some secondary source, or some source that only quotes the crazies of TRP or TRP out of context? TRP doesnt say to abuse women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/15 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Are nice guys evil?There's a difference between nerdy (as you interpret it) as someone who is bright or has associated hobbies VERSUS people who have syndromes that prevent them from being as socially adept as you or I. For instance, an individual who is on the borderline of aspergers. check your #ableprivelege please | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/15 06:05 AM |
| 3 | Are nice guys evil?but men and women are guilty of non brutally honest diplomacy, why are you just blaming women? I personally am in kind of an agreement. I'm fine with people keeping the diplomatic status quo as it keeps down the competition on my end. There'll always be "beta" guys led on to believe the secrete to a woman's heart is to befriend her, and be nice to her, when in reality, if there's not initial attraction there, it's fruitless. I'll ignore trying to go out of my way for one-sided friendships and ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/15 06:01 AM |
| 4 | Are nice guys evil?from the female perspective, what's the goddamn difference whether someone is "genuinely" nice or just "pretends" to be nice? They're nice either way so why are you complaining? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/15 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Late sexual bloomers actually make the best partners according to science. Both men and women. I'm curious what all pills think about this.people who have a hard time procuring relationships and sex are more likely to actually put some effort into relationships and sex This isn't necessarily correlated. For instance, the reason why those people haven't had any relationship and sex could be the opposite, that they are people that don't tend to put a lot of effort into romantic/sexual pursuits. Also, for the majority of women at least, they have far more choice in terms of sex, if they choose do so. IE: a large share of women, (espec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/15 05:49 AM |
| 2 | There are some jobs that women just can't do: '60 Minutes' report on the Marines opening the infantry up to womenIt has. On a large scale. For women in STEM fields and in CEO positions. In some European countries, there's a requirement that there be a certain number of women in upper management. All accross the states, there are "exclusive" internships for women in STEM fields. So, yes, the standards are lowered for this particular group of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/15 05:25 AM |
| 1 | How many of you are former "nice guys" who got fed up with being passed over?I'm pretty sure they're not out to change any collective psyche. every time u ask a bper what their sub is about they scream "SATIRE" and abdicate all responsibility for social change to dating advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/15 05:12 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone here jumped to the other side of the debate?If anything, i think PPD narrows the perspectives of people in the middle to either side. PPD who lean towards the BPers often get angry and enraged at RPers and become steadfast Bpers. TRPers, well for me at least, are frustrated at the sheer stupidity and fallacies of some BPers. So it drives people on the fence into each camp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/15 03:17 AM |
| 1 | "The Wild Oats Project: One Woman's Midlife Quest for Passion at Any Cost"the book, i suppose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/15 03:13 AM |
| 4 | "The Wild Oats Project: One Woman's Midlife Quest for Passion at Any Cost"And also, I am allowed to use this response from now on when BPers disapprove of having multiple plates. thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/15 02:59 AM |
| 3 | "The Wild Oats Project: One Woman's Midlife Quest for Passion at Any Cost"umm did you read the article? i wouldn't say he was "sexually confident" in the least bit, but rather emotionally bruised | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/15 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here jumped to the other side of the debate?And there's a lot of BPers who don't wear tags. ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/15 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Male physical attractiveness more important than masculinity in predicting female orgasm (suggesting women value/prize attractiveness more than masculinity)I think you're aware that you're on a losing argument here. a vibrator correlates to female orgasm, does that mean women are attracted to vibrators? Maybe. But then what was the point of this entire post then? If orgasms are unimportant then why bother posting this study? derp. not me, the current scientific research invalidates that entire subreddit's core fitness advice (high intensity resistance training causes arterial stiffening, women are more attracted to a swimmers body than weight lifte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/15 02:51 AM |
| 1 | How many of you are former "nice guys" who got fed up with being passed over?TRP isn't PUA. Are you physically fit? Do you dress well? Do you have a stable career track/educational goals? Because these are all the things TRP will tell you to do before you even set foot in a bar and try "game" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/15 02:45 AM |
| 1 | How many of you are former "nice guys" who got fed up with being passed over?maybe it was just that you're attractive/have had success with the opposite sex like /u/BrackOBoyO (see post above). Maybe you've had very few LTRs, and thus haven't had a large experience with dating more than a few women (or the experience of having to find women for an extended period). Or maybe youre just not as interested in chasing after women/sex/companionship as your average dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/15 02:43 AM |
| 1 | How many of you are former "nice guys" who got fed up with being passed over?Lol i don't see that either. how are you as a person then changing the collective psyche? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/15 02:41 AM |
| 0 | Male physical attractiveness more important than masculinity in predicting female orgasm (suggesting women value/prize attractiveness more than masculinity)..? It's what OP's original post said. That's what this whole discussion is based on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/15 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Male physical attractiveness more important than masculinity in predicting female orgasm (suggesting women value/prize attractiveness more than masculinity)female orgasms only lined up with male orgasms (which aids conception) in attractive men suggesting female biology prioritizes the sperm of attractive males, there was no correlation between masculinity and male and female orgasms lining up. Who cares about conception. I'm cared about what women are attracted to (and what they orgasm to), which you stated in your post, is correlated by masculinity and physical attractiveness. this guy is an idiot. two days of cardio a week is not enough to maint… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/15 03:56 PM |
| 17 | How many of you are former "nice guys" who got fed up with being passed over?This is why, many young women on Reddit or BP for instance, completely do not understand TRP. As long as your skinny, young women have a hell of a lot of attention from men. They believe that they have a "spark" and they just act themselves, and that's what makes them completely endearing to the opposite sex. "Why would anyone want sexual strategy, when you can just be yourself, like what I'm doing!!" The truth, a lot of BPers have trouble empathizing with how hard it is for a man to get a date/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/15 03:51 PM |
| 11 | Male physical attractiveness more important than masculinity in predicting female orgasm (suggesting women value/prize attractiveness more than masculinity)Even if you were right, it's sad that this was your "refute" of the fact that you just admitted that women like what TRP propose: masculinity and fitness. Anyways, TRP recommends a range of strategies, and indeed focuses on exercising/lifting not for strength but for looks which is what women are more attracted to (women prefer a lean, ripped dude as opposed to a guy who has a lot of muscle and mass but could bench insane amounts). That's why they're a huge proponent for recommending things like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/15 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Similarities between conservative Islamic societies and Red Pillers? (The fear of uncontrolled/unregulated female sexuality)You posted that link like 10 times in this sub and 30 times you've been given the reason why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/15 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Loser men are the direct product of the sexual revolution.Same thing for women. We have national ad-campaigns made to make curvier women feel beautiful, to make women feel okay with their bodies no matter what the shape. Where are the feminist/social justice ad campaigns for the skinny men, the guy who never get's asked to dance or the fat obese men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/15 07:53 PM |
| 0 | Loser men are the direct product of the sexual revolution.youre really getting off topic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/15 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do BPers (and the general Reddit community) only hate the TRP communities, instead of hating "natural" TRPers and TRP qualities in regular people?That is something TRP will agree with you on. Women hate TRP because it's like putting on makeup. Women want natural alphas, not fake ones. TRP turns betas or regular dudes into alphas and women detest that. It makes it harder to screen for who is actually an alpha and who is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/15 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do BPers (and the general Reddit community) only hate the TRP communities, instead of hating "natural" TRPers and TRP qualities in regular people?"The reason I hate TRP more than those others is because at least your typical bigots tend to be honest in real life." So that's it, just that TRPers hide their beliefs and opinions IRL? That still doesn't make sense. I'm sure a lot of the users on the very racist/messed up subreddits /r/CoonTown /r/GreatApes, /r/RapingWomen, /r/PicsOfDeadKids don't publicly state their beliefs/opinions. Why don't you expend as much effort chastising them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/15 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do BPers (and the general Reddit community) only hate the TRP communities, instead of hating "natural" TRPers and TRP qualities in regular people?I agree with this as well. Women don't want what they percieve to be "fake" alphas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/15 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Beating "the wall"This mother is obviously a rare case OP. I mean, how many 58 year olds do you see walking around like that? This is due partly to lifestyle, but also a large part to genetics. If the genetics aren't there, she will not look that good, no matter how healthy she tries to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/15 07:34 PM |
| 16 | Male physical attractiveness more important than masculinity in predicting female orgasm (suggesting women value/prize attractiveness more than masculinity)I'm genuinely confused why you, as a BPer (I think, but it seems you don't wear a tag for some reason) posted this. This proves RP. Women are attracted to "physical attractiveness" and masculinity. Which is what RP preaches. Sure physical attractiveness has a greater effect. That's why there's an emphasis on self-improvement. Masculinity adds to that attractiveness. Try finding a study that being a "stable husband" or "good father" or "being feminine* has any effect on the female orgasm (it does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/15 07:31 PM |
| 2 | What's Is The Actual Statistics to Support the Rape Scare in America?try to look up the original papers when citing a document. I had to go through braveheart's site just to find the stat sheet. Then I had to scroll thru the document to find the fact that you listed which was cited at (Australian Institute of Criminology, 1993) This reference was actually to a conference And at that conference, which I tried to search up, I couldn't find that particular fact they looked up. Maybe you can try. Always remember to go to the source of the fact. There's no way to look… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/15 03:11 PM |
| 3 | What's Is The Actual Statistics to Support the Rape Scare in America?I see a lot of dislikes on this post. But instead of dislikes, why don't BPers just post the statistics, prove OP wrong and end the thread? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/15 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Should beta males be reproducing at all? Are the people that complain about women being interested in Alpha males a threat to the quality of the gene pool?The thing you have to realize is the general Terper doesn't care about what's best for society. He just cares about how he can best take advantage of the current situation. TRP is definitely contributing to the problem it percieves. It breeds "alphas" who have committment-free sex, lowering the number of girls that would be satisfied in a traditional nuclear family, thus lowering the number of traditional families (something they say is a bedrock of society). So at the end of the day, TRP doesn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/15 12:52 AM |
| 1 | TRP in 10 years and the hypothetical of it becoming mainstreamI personally think that it's influence isn't going to get much bigger, and will start decreasing in a few years time. I want to know why you think that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/15 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Is the Yes Means Yes law mutually beneficial for both genders? Is it overall a necessary measure?If you want to see "affirmative consent" in action, check this out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bVHYvUpeqKI Entirely feasible. /s I mean, seriously looking at this video, can any woman honestly say that this was beneficial? It seems like it would ruin the experience for both parties. I think there needs to be more of an emphasis on common sense. If the other party gives "signs" that generally mean they would like to proceed with sexual acts/intercourse, it is also their responsibility to voc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/15 08:06 PM |
| 1 | A recent article reviewed by Science Alert claims that a "Study says that men are more narcissistic than women" and "Especially when it comes to entitlement."The reason TBPers have been insistent on trying to pin men and TRPers as narcissistic is because they think that if they successfully convince everyone that this is true, they can claim that TRP as a whole isn't mentally sound - that this, would invalidate everything to do with TRP. It's the ad hominem that is very much chracteristic of TBP - go after the person, not the arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/15 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Should the author of this article be prepared to change?"Stella Gray" seems a tad bit delusional. There are tons of men, yes even at her age, who are perfectly willing to date women her age and older. I think if the type of men Stella is trying to woo are the men who consistently go after (and successfully go after) younger women, maybe she is going after men who too high of a caliber for her. Remember, both parties bring something to the table. If the "silver-haired" fox that Stella is after is able to attract beautiful women, it stands to reason th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/15 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Is the Fat-Acceptance Movement damaging to a Society as a whole for women?i don't see anything suggesting that they're trying to say obesity is healthy, or trying to promote anyone taking on an unhealthy lifestyle. ...seriously? Being purposefully disingenuous doesn't facilitate debate. As /u/hyperreal's post points out: http://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2y27u5/is_the_fatacceptance_movement_damaging_to_a/cp5o9zk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/15 03:13 AM |
| 5 | Is the Fat-Acceptance Movement damaging to a Society as a whole for women?Then what about the slew of chubby chasers that specifically like fat women. Of course, women actually hate these men because they think it objectifies them. Proof that they'll never be satisfied, I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/15 03:10 AM |
| 6 | Report released today by CDC: rate of young men commiting suicide has fallen over the last 20 years; rate for women has risen. Women also increasingly and most often choose suffocation, the most effective method.Well since the rate of male suicide is so many more times higher than women, it's going to go down at a fast rate because there's just a lot more room for it to. You implicitly suggesting that "enough is being done" as the status quo for preventing male suicide is incredibly dark. No, we need to continue preventing suicides on both genders (and improve mental health service capacities). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/15 03:03 AM |
| 12 | *GASP* An Internet Article That Actually Values Nice Guys?I agree with this rundown. This "woman" probably changed her dating strategy/what she looked for in a man for a combination of reasons that TRP and TBP list like: security and financial support which TBPers have agreed that this can happen (http://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2xmz62/women_have_dualistic_dating_strategies_and_look/) life partner, someone who you legitimately connect with and trust At the end of the day, however, women look for different things at different stages… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/15 02:58 AM |
| 6 | Is the Fat-Acceptance Movement damaging to a Society as a whole for women?Then you are not reading representative sources. A primary goal of the "Fat Acceptance" movement is against the medical establishment: they hope to redefine what is "considered healthy". They very much believe that "health is subjective" and that any weight is as equally as healthy as any other. http://www.haescommunity.org/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 10:40 PM |
| 4 | Does TRP believe healthy relationships can't/don't exist?...and attraction? what you described was an ideal business partnership. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Promiscuity, Narcissism and GenderSome feminists will claim that in the above, she is backtracking and distancing herself from her previous point. Others, like yourself, will say that she is misconstrued (but then what was she trying to say about adult-child relations?) But, this whole thing just demonstrates my point. The leaders of any movement do not have universal say over the movement. Their words and the significance of those words are debated by the community. For a subreddit at least, just look at the upvotes as a clear … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 10:32 PM |
| 6 | Promiscuity, Narcissism and GenderSure. How about I quote Gayle Rubin who was instrumental for sexual diversity studies/feminist studies? Rubin has had "controversial positions has been her support for the practice of adults engaging in sex with minor children." http://www.discoverthenetworks.org/individualProfile.asp?indid=2237 Of course this leading feminist has done a lot for her movement. A lot of what she has said has been the basis for sexual diversity studies. But of course she doesn't have the word of God for feminism/se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 07:19 PM |
| 10 | Promiscuity, Narcissism and GenderYour post was intellectually dishonest. You used a post, not representative of TRP, to make a general opinion of TRP. It doesn't matter if you "admit" the post is not popular. You're still trying to use this one insignificant post to characterize all terpers. It's like if I posted this: http://i.imgur.com/6qMbdhK.jpg http://i.imgur.com/lJVt3qD.jpg And said: "I acknowledge these posts only have a few hundred/thousand 'notes' but, based on this, I think all feminists hate and want to kill all whit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Redpillschool: "If you’ve gained any insight or help from TRP at all, you owe it to new members to help them with the same." Why? Isn't RedPill amoral?Read my post below. http://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2y1os9/redpillschool_if_youve_gained_any_insight_or_help/cp5e9ai | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Who wishes they could go back to being 18 years old again?what ..are you about to sell me something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 06:38 PM |
| 13 | Redpillschool: "If you’ve gained any insight or help from TRP at all, you owe it to new members to help them with the same." Why? Isn't RedPill amoral?Dude. There's a difference between saying "strategizing about sex" is amoral and the "moral obligations" of spreading the movement that promotes that view. . Let me give you an example. Some feminists/sexual diversity thinkers believe that sex should be amoral. Gayle Rubin, for instance, argues that deeming any type of sex as moral implies that other sex acts will, in turn, be deemed less moral. This creates a "charmed circle" where certain sex acts will privileged over others. Of course Rubin, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 06:36 PM |
| 8 | Promiscuity, Narcissism and GenderTBP does this all the time, no matter how many times I call them out on it. http://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2vq4o7/why_are_the_majority_of_posts_linked_on/ An excellent example of how TBP selects posts that conform to their opinion on TRP: http://www.np.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/2v0908/plate_wont_fuck_twerp_he_feels_the_need_to_rape/ TBP post that links it has 150 upvotes. The actual post is 65% upvoted and has 7 upvotes The top comment (73 votes) on the actual post … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Does Rape/Consent Culture contribute to lack of male confidence AKA nice guys? TRP Vs. TBPWatch this video and tell me what you think: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bVHYvUpeqKI I think culture is currently overzealous about male sexuality. The above video demonstrates the superfluous worry male sexuality. I don't think even the staunchest feminist would find the male's behaviour sexy in any way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 06:09 PM |
| 2 | "Taking the red pill" means to understand that society is sexist but deciding to exploit that instead of changing it.Wow. The men in France sure must be a thirsty bunch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 04:38 PM |
| 6 | Why are some non-TRPers so anxious to let me know TRP/ers is the devil/worst-thing-ever/etc?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rOnuZsXRwTA&index=1&list=PL0omKTGqrSCAaZAYfudCLDSIrLEeOyDJt https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M2KPeMcYsuc&index=2&list=PL0omKTGqrSCAaZAYfudCLDSIrLEeOyDJt https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iARHCxAMAO0&index=3&list=PL0omKTGqrSCAaZAYfudCLDSIrLEeOyDJt https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CRWff4gCwTw&index=5&list=PL0omKTGqrSCAaZAYfudCLDSIrLEeOyDJt https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=muuFygvXPAM&index=6&list=PL0omKTGqrSCAaZAYfudCLDSIrLEeOyDJt https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HnfhVzEB… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 04:31 PM |
| 0 | Is There Any Ex-RedPill in Here? What Was Your Experience? Why Did You Decide to Plug Back in?o wowz. did they unplug themself from society and move to the woods as well to escape teh grasp the redpill? you make it seem as if it's a cocaine habit. it's not. it's relationship advice.. on reddit of all places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 04:20 PM |
| 8 | Why are some non-TRPers so anxious to let me know TRP/ers is the devil/worst-thing-ever/etc?Just because he's used it before doesn't make it any less relevant. In fact, I'll use this in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 04:14 PM |
| 2 | (Part of) why "The Red Pill" is so off-putting to non Red Pill peopleI don't think there's anything wrong with analyzing common human interaction. BPers or anti-TRPers seem to disagree with TRP is on the causes and the judgement of those interactions. So basically every relevant aspect of the analysis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 04:08 PM |
| 3 | (Part of) why "The Red Pill" is so off-putting to non Red Pill peopleThat's fine, but if you're making the claim: There are probably many resources for people to better understand social skills You should at least be able to list a couple that are effective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 04:07 PM |
| 2 | How would redpillers react if there were a sexual/life strategy sub run by women using the same methodology as TRP?RPW is based off of the same fundamental knowledge of TRP. Why are you so upset at TRP for strategizing about relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 04:04 PM |
| 10 | Why the hate between red and blue?"experience" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/15 05:54 PM |
| 10 | Why the hate between red and blue?I would say most people on PPD are the moderates of either sub. . Some on TRP may genuinely think that every aspect of it is true. When they say AWALT they really do think all woman are exactly like that. . TBP (the subreddit) in general is a circle jerk: they have a predefined opinion of TRP and they find posts to try and fit that predefined opinion. To do that, they will cherrypick and create strawmen of TRP opinions (usually based off of obscure TRP posts). . Alot of the purple pillers and TR… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/15 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Why do Redpillers tend to desire multiple casual partners as opposed to a stable long term girlfriend? Just curiousA relationship that is built on genuine attraction, rather than a societal, "moral" obligation to restrain oneself to a single partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/15 04:35 PM |
| 6 | "Taking the red pill" means to understand that society is sexist but deciding to exploit that instead of changing it.Damn. While all those women with obese/ugly privilege can go about their day without guys lusting after them. What a world. #enduglyprivilege | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/15 08:43 AM |
| 10 | Why do Redpillers tend to desire multiple casual partners as opposed to a stable long term girlfriend? Just curiousThe thing I'm questioning is the stated "biological drive" ? Are you asking for a evolutionary rationale for why men feel this way? Obviously a man who passes his sperm down to many women will have his characteristics propogated. As women have the burden of childbirth and (if the male is completely absent) childrearing, women will be the opposite to some extent. Women who look for a stable, committed man will do well positively because it is more likely her children will grow up. Also, watch the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/15 07:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] They will attack you at any chance they getLOL next time as they're leaving, pick the hotter one of the bunch and tell them, not you, you're cool you can stay. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Women: Have "guy friends" who do favors for you ever made you more attracted to him?So they'll stick around me for 5+ years and hang out with my boyfriends JUST to possibly have the chance at one day sleeping with me instead of actively pursuing girls that show interest in them? Yes. It's not an active thing though: it's kind of a passive hope they cling on to. Once you break up with your BF, see how fast each are willing to "comfort you" or tell you "let's go party!/dancing!/out for wine". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/15 07:28 PM |
| 12 | Why do Redpillers tend to desire multiple casual partners as opposed to a stable long term girlfriend? Just curiousI mean most guys in general, obviously. Yes you are an outlier, congratulations. OF course there people who are asexual who don't want any. And there are people who are hypersexual and want tons of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/15 07:25 PM |
| 6 | I'm curios what everyone RP/BP and in between, thinks about this conversation I'm having with someone who supports TRPI do the same on RP a lot, with their stupid words like "hamster" and "plate". Lol so then later, do you go on biology blogs and comment on their stupid jargon like "mitochondria" and " Drosophila melanogaster"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/15 06:57 PM |
| 1 | On the "friendzone" (internet edition) and the "girlfriendzone".So I think this girl is saying that guys who are "nice and awesome" to her are dicks if they were only doing it to bang her. Her "rationale" (if you can call it that) is if a guy treats a girl like a girlfriend (by bending over backwards for her) then he has put her in the "girlfriend zone". TO her, it means that the girlfriend zone is basically an orbiter who'll do anything for her. put yourself in the shoes of a girl who thought she made a >>wonderful friend, You can see how narcissitic this g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/15 06:53 PM |
| 6 | Redpillers claim to be all about rationality, logical, and science. Do they have any scientific studies that back up their viewpoint?As a non-existent, pan-genus-loving, table-kin, Mel Gibson statue I can confirm that the Jews are controlling the media | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/15 06:47 PM |
| 8 | Redpillers claim to be all about rationality, logical, and science. Do they have any scientific studies that back up their viewpoint?I'm 28 Oh shit. This changes everything. Guys, he's right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/15 06:42 PM |
| 0 | On the "friendzone" (internet edition) and the "girlfriendzone".can you link a few examples? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/15 06:40 PM |
| 3 | On the "friendzone" (internet edition) and the "girlfriendzone".As a man, whose friends are overwhelmingly also men, I have never heard anyone bring up the "friend zone" Well this pretty much answers your question of why you've never seen/experienced the friendzone. If in your social milleu people hang out with their own sexes, of course you won't see instances where a guy and a girl are friends, but only the guy is attracted to the girl. Friendzone is for sure an actual thing. Of course there are instances where a "guy friend" is attracted to his "girl frie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/15 06:40 PM |
| 6 | Women: Have "guy friends" who do favors for you ever made you more attracted to him?What I think /u/drdgaf is saying is that the vast majority of guys in "guy-girl friendships" are doing it for the hope of getting laid. He's not saying it's what he does actively, but it's what many guys will do without admitting to it. So next time you see your "orbiter" guy friends, ask yourself: does he just want to sleep with me? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_lh5fR4DMA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/15 05:53 PM |
| 4 | Women: Have "guy friends" who do favors for you ever made you more attracted to him?You and what everyone is saying confirms what I was thinking. Thank you for your honesty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/15 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Women: Have "guy friends" who do favors for you ever made you more attracted to him?Agree with you 100%. Something that I would say, and this is something that you might disagree with is, that many "guy friends" half-hope to one day date the girl "friend" or at least sleep with them. If you are decently attractive, you can bet, actually, any of your guy friends would jump at a chance of a hookup. Take with that what you will. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_lh5fR4DMA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/15 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Women: Have "guy friends" who do favors for you ever made you more attracted to him?I'm curious; did you text him while he was at his party and mention your problem? Also, do you genuinely think he would do that favor for every girl he knew? Or every guy he knew? I mean if he's willing to drive across town to change a lightbulb, and he's doing it because he's just that nice of a guy, he must be inundated with constantly doing random favors for people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/15 05:26 PM |
| 13 | Why do Redpillers tend to desire multiple casual partners as opposed to a stable long term girlfriend? Just curiousI'm going out on a limb to say that /u/feeistheheats is a female. It's not that that RPers want multiple "casual" partners. It's that men want multiple casual partners. Guys are hardwired for variety. If they could live like Genghis Khan or the leader of a cult with 10 wives, you bet they would. Women are different. They don't want variety, but they want the best possible mate. As a woman yourself, of course its hard to understand why a male could possibly want a grab bag of 5 different women as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/15 05:13 PM |
| 2 | the AFBB fallacyOKAY. I read the study. OP didn't. This does not rebut TRP in any way. In the first section, they conduct a meta-anlaysis of speed dating results to look at the importance of "looks" and "earnings potential" as factors for choosing a mate. NOWHERE is age of participants considered. TRP says that: women look for physical attraction at younger ages. women look for monetary status at older ages. The fact that the data presents some "average" of women at all ages doesn't allow you to even analyze wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/15 06:53 AM |
| 3 | Is There A Lot of Sexual Implication Behind "Let's Meet For a Drink"?Okay yeah true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/15 04:36 PM |
| 13 | Why not offer an alternative to the red pill?The thing is, TRP is one of the only non-PC dating advice arenas that exists. A lot of (even the most tame) advice on TRP has assumptions that can be deemed "sexist" by the mainstream. If you tell guys to actively work out if you want to hookup, it's implying that women are superficial If you say get a good job and become successful, it's saying that women are hypergamous and love to be with/hookup with wealthy providers If you point out how "beta orbiters" who have clear interests in women are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/15 04:34 PM |
| 6 | Women have dualistic dating strategies, and look for different qualities in men at different stages of their life.If the person we are talking about literally has no options outside of hot slacker and ugly doctor, and if she cares about raising a family that won't crash and burn, then sure she will choose the doctor. Because she is marrying for family. Not for sex. It depends on their priorities. Yes, we're on the same page now. Of course there's always a gradient when you talk about "hot slackers" and "ugly providers" or alphas and betas. People even stress that on TRP. But that is a nuance, and for the sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/15 04:24 PM |
| 5 | Women have dualistic dating strategies, and look for different qualities in men at different stages of their life.In your mind is a man "who handles his shit and accepts his responsibilities with masculine grace" and also decently attractive... does this man not exist? Because I can assure you he does. I think you are purposely misunderstanding my arguments to make debating easier on your part. Do you think I'm really trying to claim that "responsible men" who are "decently attractive" do not exist? No of course not. This entire topic has been on what females look for in men. When they are young and if they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/15 04:13 PM |
| 7 | Why not offer an alternative to the red pill?only anecdotal data The sum of anecdotes is data. Which could easily be confirmation bias.... I (and many others) also see many non-RP experiences validated. So what you're basically saying here is that you don't know whether or not TRP works either, because of your own confirmation bias. So what we're left with is that no one knows anything. (And this is assuming you even know TRP correctly which is highly unlikely) At the end of the day, if TRP wasn't working wouldn't they just simply stop? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/15 04:05 PM |
| 5 | Why not offer an alternative to the red pill?RPers are just blatantly showing how little they can think outside of the 'biological men and women' box. But so does the medical community. Ironically TRP's opinion on there only being 2 biological sexes is in line with the med community at the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/15 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Is There A Lot of Sexual Implication Behind "Let's Meet For a Drink"?Lol those both sound like you're asking someone out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/15 03:59 PM |
| 5 | Women have dualistic dating strategies, and look for different qualities in men at different stages of their life.sexual chemistry 2) good committed relationship / family traits In people they wish to marry. BOTH. BOTH. BOTH. Jesus Christ. You didn't even read the original post. In the second strategy, I said: Of course being physically attractive is important, but it is of significantly less importance here than in 1). Yes. In an ideal world OF COURSE everyone would want the best of both worlds. A good looking dude who has sexual chemistry, with "family traits" (aka a job). Who wouldn't want "BOTH BOTH BOT… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/15 03:57 PM |
| 7 | Women have dualistic dating strategies, and look for different qualities in men at different stages of their life.Does the dynamic you describe occur? Yes, it does That is really all I needed to hear. And if you've been on TRP long enough you will know that it says one thing: sexual strategy is amoral. While some terpers may be "disgusted" that women look for specific traits such as a job stability, at the end of the day, mainstream TRP says NOT to qualify any strategy as good or bad. INSTEAD it says to strategize yourself. TRP is that strategy. Moreover, if you claim that you shouldn't ever criticize sexua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/15 03:49 PM |
| 1 | AskReddit gives hundreds of examples on how women will hide things until after marriageLOL I'm just imagining his reaction to this marriage from hell to this transexual, herpie-ridden, bipolar, golddigging wife | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Pseudo-scientific assertions spread fast because of appeals to emotion. (Part 1)You should add more description and perhaps give a few examples. What does "part 1" refer to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/15 05:41 AM |
| 8 | Women have dualistic dating strategies, and look for different qualities in men at different stages of their life.My beef is with this word. Beta bucks traits aren't attractive, so much as useful, or maybe comforting at best. They do not rev up her sex engine. I agree. I did add that in to cater to the BPers to some extent. The problem with the term attractive is that it means many things. For sure "beta" traits will be attractive in the same way winning the lottery is attractive, or going to cancun for the weekend is attractive. But it is very debatable whether or not these beta qualities actually generate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/15 05:29 AM |
| 4 | BluePiller's ignore science for liberal dogma.in say, LA, San Francisco, Seattle, etc, I have not seen any racism towards Asians. I don't know if you're blind or not. Yes racism towards asian occurs in all of those places, and all of America as well. Look at the goddamn media. When have you ever seen a lead Asian male in a movie that played a normal, American role? The only lead Asian you'll see is a kungfu dude with an accent. You can continue to deny the existence of racisms towards Asians all you want. In my opinion, this is the most har… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/15 11:06 PM |
| 6 | BluePiller's ignore science for liberal dogma.Yeah do you know why they do? How hard is it to immigrate to USA as an asian? I'll tell you. It's incredibly hard. They have an extremely low number of spots for the largest population in the World. The people that do manage to come from, say, China are the best of the best that USA selects for. So of course their children will tend to be more succesful (due to genes or due to the culture of the parents that makes the child work hard) When these people come to USA, of course they will tend to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/15 10:31 PM |
| 0 | BluePiller's ignore science for liberal dogma.Dogs are selectively bred specifically based on their characteristics. Humans aren't. This isn't really pertinent. "Geography" of different groups of humans living in separate parts of the world "selectively" breeds humans. IE: the humans that lived for millennia in a desert versus a tropical destination versus a cold environment would evolve slightly different characteristics over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/15 10:23 PM |
| 0 | BluePiller's ignore science for liberal dogma.there are little to no differences among race and gender. Uh yes there is. Women can have babies. Men can't. This is what happens when someone solely studies social sciences all throughout university and doesn't bother to take any biology courses. Please at least watch this. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p5LRdW8xw70 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/15 10:21 PM |
| 4 | BluePiller's ignore science for liberal dogma.Asians in the US as a whole do well. Incredibly racist. If you want to claim that affirmative action is done to: correct for past injustices Then ignoring the injustices done to Asians just because they "do well" is extremely racist on your part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/15 10:18 PM |
| 2 | A more scientific look to mating and aging: female desirability peaks at 21, a 32-year-old's is lower than average.Many girls are afraid of being too muscular Maybe, I personally see that as an excuse that women give to avoid exercising hard | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 06:28 PM |
| 4 | Men do not age better than womento satisfy your statistical and empirical validation fetish This is exactly what a feminist major would say. Stupid scientists. Always fetishizing "facts" and "statistics" and "validity" and "proper data collection". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/15 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Men do not age better than womenThis is why I seriously question the intelligence of the average "BPer" on this subreddit. Even in elementary school they teach you that you can't post three examples and claim that a general statement of an entire group. Anyways, tagged you as a dumbass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/15 06:11 PM |
| 6 | The RedPill narrative is that women often sleep with guys out of their league, then settle down with a less attractive guy for marriage (beta), for those that disagree, what exactly do you disagree about?My problem with this is the assumption that the guy a woman eventually marries is not who she really wants, that she's settling for someone considerably less hot and interesting than she'd prefer Let's unpack this. TRP believes this for several reasons: Women, if just hooking up, can often hook up with guys who would be "out of their league" for relationships. Guys have much lower standards for one night stands. So if a woman is sleeping around, and is sleeping around with the hottest guys she c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/15 06:01 PM |
| 4 | Blue Pill "required reading"The thing about feminist literature (like Gender Trouble) is that it's just as, or even bigger, pseudoscience than TRP reading material. It's also needlessly dense and written with flowerly language and has no real research and statistics to back its arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/15 05:35 PM |
| 7 | Why aren't there more stay-at-home dads given the prevalence of women in the workplace?That would not explain the gap between non-working wives versus non-working husbands, however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/15 12:43 AM |
| -1 | In what ways is the red pill LTR similar to or different from conventional Male/female, Dominant/submissive relationships?BDSM has been vying for rights in the same manner groups such as the gay rights community has. The bisexual/pansexual/homosexual/ and BDSM community are at times, very much intertwined. As they have similiar interests as marginalized groups on society, they have to maintain a "PC" image to gain mainstream acceptance. It's kind of how "gays" are always portrayed as white, upper middle income, nucleated families. By showing how similar gays are and being PC, it faciliates their acceptance to mains… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/15 12:41 AM |
| 0 | CMV the SMP is socially constructed not part of gender estentialism in the modern day.You not under standing me I am not saying mens SMV will be raised to women i am say women has already been lowered to mens but the bubble hasn't completely deflated yet. It not that men are become less disposable its that women are becoming more disposable. I am sorry but you are completely incomprehensible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/15 12:37 AM |
| 2 | TBP isn't a satire subreddit because satire is funny+1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/15 04:50 AM |
| 12 | As much as status matters, I think it's the very good looking guys that gets the most girls in college etc. in terms of casual sex/relationshipHe's never asked out a girl, and he doesn't understand whats so difficult about just hooking up with someone. To him, it just 'happens'. And this is the mindset of every college girl that is a 7 and above. They have guys hitting on them all the time, without any action. That's why girls think that sexual strategy is stupid, and you just need to "be yourself" to attract someone. . They project their own "easy" experience as a young attractive 20-year-old, to what it's like for everyone. It's also… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 11:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The marriage rates are decreasing because men aren't stepping up to the plate (when they should be)Exactly. She admits somewhere later in this mess of a thread that "if someone doesn't want to get married, then they shouldn't be forced to". What she really wants is for "good," attractive men to be forced to marry her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 11:05 PM |
| 2 | What do western women get from marriage that is reasonably unobtainable outside of it?Also I can't believe I'm seriously having to argue that women want to spend more on weddings than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 05:59 PM |
| 4 | What do western women get from marriage that is reasonably unobtainable outside of it?http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pain[3] That's not a study on metal baseball bats. If somethings true, then there should be actually evidence to support that assertion. If you fine with deductive reasoning, just look at who the wedding industry is mainly marketed towards. Mainly women. Look at all the TV shows where wedding planning is involved. Who's the main person who wants an expensive wedding? Mainly women. Where ar bridal magazines advertised to? Women. How about you use your deductive reason… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 05:52 PM |
| 5 | What do western men get from marriage that is reasonably unobtainable outside of it?good one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 05:42 PM |
| 6 | What do western women get from marriage that is reasonably unobtainable outside of it?Except I could post links to 1000s of studies that show men like physically attractive women and that women like physically attractive men. Okay go find them. I won't believe you can find the study until you show me. Then show me a study that says that the sky is indeed blue. Then show me a study that people do not like getting hit in the face with a metal baseball bat. Wait what? You can't find a study that supports something so common sense? Well I'll wait until you find those studies before I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 05:32 PM |
| 1 | What do western women get from marriage that is reasonably unobtainable outside of it?While almost every man will agree with you, there is a significant number of women who want those things. Elaborate weddings are almost always something that women want. Of course there are going to be some women that are sensible and see it as a superfluous cost, there are many who don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 05:16 PM |
| 5 | What would you do if you were the man in this video?Oh I got you. Man on woman violence is always a serious issue. But a woman publicly beating and humiliating a man (who is probably in an abusive relationship because he goes along with her in the end) is hilarious. You're right. That stupid man deserved to get his ass kicked. I too reserve no empathy for men. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 05:13 PM |
| 3 | What do western women get from marriage that is reasonably unobtainable outside of it?You're not supposed to downvote on this sub. Also the issue isn't that they're not the original sources. The issue is that they don't touch upon the topic you claimed that it did. **Your "proof" did not refute the claim that women marry for: enjoyment of the festivities of marriage including a ring, a wedding, honeymoon etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 05:06 PM |
| 3 | What do western women get from marriage that is reasonably unobtainable outside of it?First of all, I was not making the original claim. Second of all, I think it is common sense, no? Many women like the tradition of getting married. There's a slew of TV shows and companies dedicated to marriage. The $51 billion wedding industry is testament to that. I mean it's like you're asking for proof that men generally like physical attractive women - of course they are. There are somethings that are just common knowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 05:05 PM |
| 2 | What do western women get from marriage that is reasonably unobtainable outside of it?If anyone thinks just because you're married your relationship is secure, they are delusional. Yes, marriages aren't secure but they're obviously the most "secure" type of relationship (as opposed to something like a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship). There are financial penalties and bureaucratic penalties that literally force the couple together, and prevent the other from immediately leaving. So often, women tend to marry equal or higher wage earners. This gives them financial security and s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 04:24 PM |
| 3 | What do western women get from marriage that is reasonably unobtainable outside of it?Those sources definitely don't prove you point, mate. The CNN source says more people are single than before. There isn't any data showing that the reason for that is because women don't want: a ring, a wedding, honeymoon, social status, memories | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 04:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The marriage rates are decreasing because men aren't stepping up to the plate (when they should be)So... your view has been changed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 06:33 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The marriage rates are decreasing because men aren't stepping up to the plate (when they should be)i'm curious as to why someone like yourself would want kids oh snap. she's going rogue! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 06:33 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The marriage rates are decreasing because men aren't stepping up to the plate (when they should be)Sure. But before you were pushing these "good guys" to get married. If they don't want to get married, leave them be. Equality matters. (Needlessly implying I don't think equality matters) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 06:22 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The marriage rates are decreasing because men aren't stepping up to the plate (when they should be)Exactly, it's always funny when you have to instruct the other side what to find attractive. Imagine if I made a pitch to a bunch of models: I'm really unique and have a lot to offer: I got tons of hobbies. I'm great at video games. I am an expert at 12th century Mongolian history. Why are all you ladies so commitment-phobic? Must be because y'all are intimidated by my attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 06:20 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The marriage rates are decreasing because men aren't stepping up to the plate (when they should be)There are tons of men willing to get married. Unfortunately, you (and other women) perceive them to be simply not good enough. The men that you do want, that are the so called "good men," don't want to get married to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 06:18 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The marriage rates are decreasing because men aren't stepping up to the plate (when they should be)Marriage has been a cornerstone of society for a long time. And so has patriarchy. . Moreover, you can't force society to fit into one you perceive as the ideal relationship structure. Some people prefer to be celibate. Some prefer to be in a polyamorous relationship. Some prefer to only have FWB. Forcing everyone into marriage is the complete opposite to what even Feminism and Sexual Diversity studies would say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 06:13 AM |
| 2 | Just curious, but how does the RP side explain all the female teachers having sex with their underage male students?ITT: OP tries to get into the minds of sick, pedophiles to prove TRP wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 06:10 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The marriage rates are decreasing because men aren't stepping up to the plate (when they should be)a lot of women want to get married. Shouldn't we try making that a reality? A lot men want to get laid. Shouldn't we try making that a reality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 06:03 AM |
| 3 | CMV: The marriage rates are decreasing because men aren't stepping up to the plate (when they should be)I think there are still some good men out there, but they aren't stepping up. /u/strongalfalfa, what's more likely: that all of the "good" men are too intimidated to step up, or all of these so-called "good" men are out of your league? . Put another way: what's more likely. That all Victoria Secret models are "intimidated" by my intelligence or that all of these Victoria Secret models are out of my league? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Why do women hold out (typically beta but not always) men in long term relationships sexually?thanks for the truthful response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 05:46 AM |
| 0 | Whats worse to be, a physically unattractive redpiller or a physically unattractive bluepiller?Obviously the Red Piller. A true Red Piller would not try and bag girls as a 4 and work on himself until he was ready. A BPer.. well they will lurk on Reddit and comment on how stupid TRP is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/15 05:44 AM |
| 4 | Do BPers unknowingly measure men by the same scale as TRPers?k. i identify as red as a reaction to the stupidity of TBP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/15 07:57 AM |
| 3 | There aren't enough marriageable men in America for womeneveryone is too good for everyone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/15 06:40 AM |
| 18 | If Blue Pills, particularly women, are so disgusted by Red Pill stratagy, why not just not respond to it?The way Dread Game is described, [by /u/MoonwalkOnLandmines] it is meant to break an insecure person down to a pleading and withered stump of a human being. lol you got to be kidding me. Dread game is showing that you have the capacity to find another mate, ie: stay competitive in the dating market. In LTRs, people apply "dread game" in the sense that you exercise regularly, keep learning, improve your success at work, and be financially stable. This keeps your partner interested. How many marri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/15 06:34 AM |
| 1 | If women are most attractive at age 20, explain the immense popularity of "MILF" porn.This is ridiculous. Of course there are some people into older chicks. There are many more people into younger ones. Obviously the vast majority of porn is of young girls. Are you really trying to say, OP, that women are equally attractive their entire life? Why don't I see GILF porn then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/15 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Beta is PISSED at me for "stealing" the girl he's been "working on" for monthsWomen are like russia, you invade them in a month or you'll never succeed. That is too good. Can't believe I haven't that line before. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 04:13 AM |
| 5 | There aren't enough marriageable men in America for womenThis is every discussion ever currently on the internet. Everyone sticks to their echo chamber. Argument for the sake of self fulfillment. And then no one's mind is moved at the end of the day. Very few come into the debate with a mind pliable to changing views. They know the answer already: that my side is right. That I'm never wrong. So they'll twist and contort and fight every point to the bitter end because they are right, even in the most insignificant or impossible argument. They will give… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/15 04:03 AM |
| 10 | CMV: The Red Pill's views on feminism is outdated.Serious question OP: Is there some central "mainstream" feminist resource I can access? One that represents philosophies generally agreed upon within the community that is up to date with current feminist thinking/research? Too often when feminism is criticized, defenders point to the valiant work done by first and second wave feminists who opened up the door for the relatively equal opportunities between sexes we have today, increased roles for women, and advocacy of important reproductive righ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/15 03:56 AM |
| 7 | Do BPers unknowingly measure men by the same scale as TRPers?Do me a favor and go to the Red Pill. Look at the sidebar. Now what does it say under "Welcome to the Red Pill" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/15 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Married woman goes out with male 'best friend' while husband is out of town, gets drunk and takes him home to 'hang out'. MIL calls her out. r/relationship's tells her, her behavior is fine.Can someone repost this story with the reversed genders in a month? That would be hilarious. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 12:05 AM |
| 1 | To the TRPersHis point is basically "I have beter relationshpi. u jelly. don't jalous. Mayb I just have better wimminz than you have." lol dying right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/15 12:01 AM |
| 1 | To the TRPersokay sure. for like winning the lottery or something. but 50% is pretty shitty odds for something like, i don't know, a marriage ending in divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 11:58 PM |
| 10 | Do BPers unknowingly measure men by the same scale as TRPers?well then do something within your own community. I think "virgin shaming" is incredibly widespread on TBP and you would be in the minority | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 11:47 PM |
| 11 | Redpill guys looking for LTRs/marriage: how do you feel about a woman who wants to wait to have sex?I didn't say it was an insult. Lol called out. Obviously your insistence on guys taking it up the ass was made as what you deemed offensive to men. So yeah, there's some homophobia there. Of course you're going to backpeddle now. I out liberal-ed you. Also, taking it up the ass=/=gay. It's actually offensive to gays to categorize their sexual orientation based on whether or not they take stuff up their butt. Just fyi. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 04:14 PM |
| 1 | To the TRPerslol i don't mind those associations. it's just so cheesy that you quoted "Fuck It, Dog. Life's A Risk" in an actual conversation. such a try hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pillers: Why is the TRP strategy on LMRs wrong?You regularly hear of girls that had sex with guys while they didn't really want to, but felt forced to. Even if he didn't use force. I'm actually confused by what you're trying to say? Assuming a guy uses no force and immediately stops touching their partner that says the do not want to have sex, how is the other partner forced in any way to have sex? If you mean that women have had sex that they regretted (but consented to) I totally agrees that happens and that is indeed terrible. However, to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 03:42 PM |
| 17 | Do BPers unknowingly measure men by the same scale as TRPers?Dude you completely missed the point. One thing I immediately discovered is that the most common way in which they poke fun at TRP is calling the members either fat, virgin, poor (living in their moms basement), socially awkward, nerdy or having a poor sense of fashion One of the main ways TBP often pokes fun at TRP is by claiming it is unsuccessful. And to do that, they say that every poster on TRP is probably some fedora-wearing virgin loser with no money and no charisma. But most RPers aren't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 03:33 PM |
| 8 | Why do "Red Pill" men think hypergamy is an exclusively female imperative?Yes that is correct. I simplified it to what she thought hypergamy was, which was in itself the incorrect definition. The problem a lot of BPers (including OP) have is that they think that RPers believe only women participate in sexual strategy. Of course not. All of RP is dedicated to sexual strategy. Just because the sub (obviously) focuses on female sexual strategy doesn't mean men don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do "Red Pill" men think hypergamy is an exclusively female imperative?ok I think part of the confusion is that you say they are discrete traits (as in 'under wraps') when I think you mean distinct traits (as in 'different from one another'). Yes, you haven't heard of that defintion for discrete before? (Literally from dictionary.com) adjective apart or detached from others; separate; distinct: six discrete parts. . No you don't HAVE to be FINANCIALLY dependent to engage in hypergamy (I guess), but it's pretty much the root of what traditional hypergamy is. No it i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 08:34 AM |
| 3 | Why do "Red Pill" men think hypergamy is an exclusively female imperative?If you scroll back up this thread, then you will see this thread is in response to: Further, women that don't engage in 'hypergamy' are seen as less than women who do by these "Red Pill" men (think of how career oriented women are mocked by these people) yet their circular logic acts as if the hypergamy itself is a negative trait. It's such backwards logic, it's truly surprising that these RP men are convinced they've got it ALLLLL figured out. To which I say: Engaging in hypergamy (versus only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 08:19 AM |
| 3 | If the man in this video ended up punching her back in the face, knocking her out, would you say that the punch was justified, neutral, or unjustified?no way. if you are a guy, the best thing to do would be to run away. if you hit the girl, you will be arrested | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 08:15 AM |
| 4 | If the man in this video ended up punching her back in the face, knocking her out, would you say that the punch was justified, neutral, or unjustified?Why is this on ppd? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 08:14 AM |
| 4 | Do you think TRP will move past PUA "founders" like RooshV? Or do you think this has already started happening?Okay so we agree that using RooshV as an example of TRP is a misrepresentation of what TRP is actually? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 08:12 AM |
| 7 | Why do "Red Pill" men think hypergamy is an exclusively female imperative?Took that out so you can focus on the actual point i'm trying to make. I'm not trying to make a statement about women who do hypergamy and are financially independent. The point is.. for the 3rd time... I'm stating hypergamy and financial independence as two separate traits. Try to focus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 08:09 AM |
| 7 | Why do "Red Pill" men think hypergamy is an exclusively female imperative?You quoted me saying: some TRPers definitely do And took that out of context to start making a different argument. When in reality, that statement preceded an entire debunking of your main argument (in your original post). No worries, I'll repost the argument you didn't reply to. Engaging in hypergamy (versus only having sex with a serious LTR) and "providing" for oneself (versus being dependent financially) are two discrete traits. There are women who don't do hypergamy and don't provide (what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 08:06 AM |
| 4 | Do you think TRP will move past PUA "founders" like RooshV? Or do you think this has already started happening?You're actually part of the reason why I'm asking this. A lot of BPers want to argue that RooshV is somehow a massively important figure for TRP. That way they can use all his cringey, unsuccessful, useless, experiences/strategies as a strawman to criticize TRP with. Honestly speaking, from my perspective RooshV has zero influence on TRP to this day. Look on any of the posts in the past 6 months, /u/MoonwalkOnLandmines. How many do you see by Roosh or with even a reference to Roosh? Even if you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 08:02 AM |
| 12 | Redpill guys looking for LTRs/marriage: how do you feel about a woman who wants to wait to have sex?No. I think a lot of you are closet homosexuals Maybe we all are. Eve Sedgwick would agree with you there. Either way I don't find being called gay an insult. But by all means, keep trying. The secret of humor is persistence after all /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 07:56 AM |
| 5 | Why do "Red Pill" men think hypergamy is an exclusively female imperative?You quoted me, corrected me (without any backing), and then didn't engage with any of my arguments (so you essentially took a statement out of context) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 07:52 AM |
| 7 | Why do "Red Pill" men think hypergamy is an exclusively female imperative?Pando, that wasn't the point of the post. I was just explaining that the opposite of a woman who is hypergamous is not a woman who is financially stable. I just listed those 4 possibilities to illustrate that being finacnially independent and being hypergamous are two traits that can coexist or not coexist in a single person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 07:52 AM |
| 11 | Redpill guys looking for LTRs/marriage: how do you feel about a woman who wants to wait to have sex?Also, the other annoying thing about BPers is that their stubborn about even the most inconsequential things. You made a joke that was stupid, just own up to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 07:26 AM |
| 6 | Why do "Red Pill" men think hypergamy is an exclusively female imperative?The problem with discussing the RP is that there are probably people with differing beliefs, which is why you think I'm coming out of left field on this Yeah Re: "what?" Women that don't engage in hypergamy (i.e. women that 'provide' for themselves and marry for other traits that have NOTHING to do with 'social status') are looked down on by men like this. Then, in the same breath, they say hypergamy is a negative trait in women that is the reason that women can't be trusted, are incapable of lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 07:22 AM |
| 1 | To the TRPers"Fuck It, Dog. Life's A Risk." Wow did you just say that. Great, now i'll always think of that cringey comment when i listen to fidlar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 07:08 AM |
| 25 | Why do "Red Pill" men think hypergamy is an exclusively female imperative?For the n^69th time, TRP doesn't deny men don't engage in (what you call) hypergamy. Heck, their entire fucking subreddit is dedicated to gaming multiple/as attractive as possible women. Their argument is that women do it too. How different is the rate of hypergamy in females now that women are actively involved in the workforce? Very different. The reason for that is women now have access to the resources and can build their 'status' for themselves and are not reliant on a man to 'provide' for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 07:02 AM |
| 16 | Redpill guys looking for LTRs/marriage: how do you feel about a woman who wants to wait to have sex?This is what I mean when I talk about cringey, unfunny BP humor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 06:55 AM |
| 48 | Beta is PISSED at me for "stealing" the girl he's been "working on" for monthsClassic. If you like a girl, any blue piller will tell you: become best friends with her be kind and nice, do lots of favours give her gifts! girls love massages, offer those! listen to her and all of her problems When in reality, getting a girl is a lot simpler. Work on you, not her. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Red pillers, why is Christian Grey only 27 if women are supposed to find men in their late 30s and 40s more attractive?Yes /u/mindgameswin, TRP says that men are only attractive once they reach 30. Are you a billionaire, incredibly good looking, successful, and charming but you're only 29 years and 364 days old? Sorry mate, but you aint getting laid. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/15 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Consensual Huggingjesus. just imagine you going to france where we greet by cheek kisses | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/15 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Why do Bluepillers object so stridently sexual realpolitik?There is nothing wrong with pursuing your passions and hoping that you will one day find a partner who loves you for your passions. It just might be that depending on what your passion is (ex: succesful academic) there might not be a ton of guys out there who are attracted to that facet. And that's culturally conditioned. For example, a guy who's an amazing skateboarder or breakdancer would be deemed more attractive in high school. Another guy, who's passion is Magic: The Gathering or Philosophy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/15 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do Bluepillers object so stridently sexual realpolitik?then can be ranked from the best partner to the worst. Fact is that different people have different tastes Yeah of course it's true that every person has different tastes in men and women and any exaggeration that the TRP claims on how there's a rigid ranking for men and women is obviously false. In general though, it's common sense that "SMV" exists to some extent. People will be more attracted to a man if he's good looking, tall, well-off, intelligent, stylish, etc. etc. Some men, (esp. conser… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/15 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Question for both sides as a non-TRPer and non-BPer.Because we're not trying to argue logically. We are trying to mock redpillers. That's literally the very first thing it says in /r/thebluepill[1] 's sidebar and OP even quoted it in his post. That's well and fine on TBP but if you are on PPD, please respect the sub and have coherent arguments. A lot of the highly upvoted BP content is, to be frank, very weak arguments. But it gets circlejerked and upvoted automatically by BPers. Whereas, if I saw an argument by a RPer that wasn't logical, I woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/15 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Study confirms that women with fewer sexual partners have higher quality marriages (confirms TRP theory about 'alpha widows')You can say that about all research. In biology, for instance, when we want to study a disease, sometimes we knock out a single gene in a lab rat (out of 24000) because it's simply impossible to study all genes at once. For sociological studies, of course you would want to examine as many factors as possible, but that would require extraordinary amounts of funding and manpower. Comparing two factors at a time does not make the study automatically invalid, or else you would be invalidating a wide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/15 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Study confirms that women with fewer sexual partners have higher quality marriages (confirms TRP theory about 'alpha widows')no one is. you're deflecting now that he pointed out the different correlations between men and women. before you didn't try to deflect with causation vs correlation when you tried to say "men have more unsuccessful relationships with more partners too!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/15 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Why is it bad when a girl says she has a lot of guy friends?a swarm of cocks dieing to drill her like an oil rig Did you come up with that? | /r/askTRP | 17/02/15 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Women: Is it true there are guys you would only sleep with (but not date) and vice versa?? Can you elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/15 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Women: Is it true there are guys you would only sleep with (but not date) and vice versa?Girl's aren't as obsessive with it as TRP is, but I think quite a few do on a subconscious level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/15 02:32 AM |
| 2 | The objectification of womenwhat /u/PGN_300 said in response is correct. :p what's with the creepy smiley | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/15 01:22 AM |
| 2 | The objectification of womenSure porn can be empowering: http://www.dailycal.org/2015/02/13/uc-berkeley-law-student-porn-star-talks-balancing-school-work/ This asian male porn star (which is incredibly rare) is also a law student. His work actively turns the stereotype of the feminization of asian men around. Moreover, he honestly loves and takes pride in his work, which he considers empowering in itself. Moreover, you have a very poor conception of the porn industry in general. Excluding the moral issues of it If you thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/15 01:21 AM |
| 6 | An earnest question for RPW; how much do you agree with red pill men and their game?I think this question hints at a lack of understanding of TRP. TRP at its core says men and women are different. For men, who may want multiple partners, their strategy is going to be radically different than... RPW, who are looking for the best possible partner. RP men and women both openly admit to wanting different things and thus it is natural to have strategies that are different and at odds with each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/15 01:12 AM |
| 1 | What are the Blue Pill/non-PUA resources on learning how to flirt physically?? Can you elaborate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/15 11:04 PM |
| 10 | Why are there no progress posts on TRP?If you asked me to pick out my girlfriend's body (blacked out from the shoulders up) I could probably be fairly certain if it was her or not. But yeah if I was gay I'd probably be able to pick out my boyfriend from his body. Probably even just by his cock alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/15 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Redpiller beat his wife with dumbbells and slit her throat, right in front of their children. Then forces the mom to send status reports of his kids to him thrice a year while he's in prisonMention NSFW in regards to the link. Picture is quite graphic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/15 10:52 PM |
| 1 | What advice do you have for the average Indian male looking to improve his place in the dating game?Pretty quiet on the Blue Pill front. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/15 06:48 PM |
| 0 | CMV: PPD is a circlejerk sub.It is a circle jerk in the sense that very few (if any) will have their opinions changed over PPD. Same goes with TBP, though the latter will say that changing the opinions of anyone leaning towards TRP isn't their primary goal. I think that what should happen is TBP should work with Terpers, who are willing to have their mind changed on PPD, to argue for modifications within TRP. You won't stop TRP as a whole movement through this channel. Those opposing TRP should instead work to modify proble… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/15 06:17 PM |
| 8 | What do you think of feminists who try to undermine science as a source for knowledge?I literally have no idea what you are trying to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/15 07:28 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of feminists who try to undermine science as a source for knowledge?The anti-science sentiment is taught to varying degrees academically. In my experience, depending on the prof, some go from a mistrust to a complete rejection of sciences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/15 07:09 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of feminists who try to undermine science as a source for knowledge?I don't disagree. I think both feminism and TRP treat science horrifically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/15 07:08 PM |
| 11 | Went out on a tinder date tonight. Bailed halfway through the first drink.I actually drive a car worth 50k new Look at Mr. Bill Gates in this bitch | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/15 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Question mostly for red pill but all views are welcome - what are your views on polyamory?...Did you really just quote Kanye And I agree, monogamy isn't something that seems like it should be the default. I think a lot of terpers think of monogamy as important to them at one stage in their life eventually. I would say that if you want to raise a family, monogamy is probably the ideal structure for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/15 06:08 PM |
| 0 | Why are the majority of posts linked on TheBluePill fringe posts with little upvotes?Okay good, so we both agree that these posts aren't representative of the TRP. SO thus my point stands that TBP constructs their opinion on TRP based on posts/comments that aren't even representative of the community. While you can give reasons why they were posted, at the end of the day they do not represent TRP. I think we're done here. This has been worse than fighting the logic of a creationist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/15 06:00 PM |
| -1 | Why are the majority of posts linked on TheBluePill fringe posts with little upvotes?So the fact that you sound like the average comment by a 10 year old on Youtube means your close to breaking. Okay so now that we've established that, yes, there is a finite amount of resources in the world, we can say that by promoting certain types of campaigns (ie: Fat Acceptance) it diverts attention and resources away from other issues (forced child marriages). Of course it doesn't mean that some advocacy (for people with allergies for instance) isn't important just because it's less import… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/15 05:58 PM |
| 0 | Why are the majority of posts linked on TheBluePill fringe posts with little upvotes?Right when you would have admitted that no, the posts that I listed in the orginal post were NOT representative of all of TRP, you pretend that I'm going on a tangent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/15 11:47 PM |
| 0 | Why are the majority of posts linked on TheBluePill fringe posts with little upvotes?Lol stay with me here. I think we're close to a break through. If an organization spends it's time and funding fighting hunger in Africa, will it have less time and money in, say Cambodia, to fight hunger? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/15 11:46 PM |
| 0 | Why are the majority of posts linked on TheBluePill fringe posts with little upvotes?Can you even agree with me here that a post with ZERO upvotes is not representative of an entire subreddit? Of course it's not by itself, I don't see why you're even asking though or what relevance it has to this discussion. Okay some progress. Good. Now what about a post with 6 upvotes. Can you agree with me that those posts aren't representative of entire subreddit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/15 11:32 PM |
| 0 | Why are the majority of posts linked on TheBluePill fringe posts with little upvotes?Sorry I shuddered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/15 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP support rapists?agreed. rape can definitely happen in marriage, and we should all be thankful of maritial rape laws | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/15 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Does TRP support rapists?agreed. although i think TRP says to 'freeze out' and withdraw all physical contact if that happens. someone correct me if i'm wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/15 06:36 AM |
| 0 | Does TRP support rapists?Common sense would say this is probably true. Many girls go on Tumblr thus blogs on Tumblr could influence them heavily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/15 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Why are the majority of posts linked on TheBluePill fringe posts with little upvotes?So it's not reasonable to think that comments made by mods or endorsed contributors might reflect a truer understanding of TRP? If mods/contributors make a post on TRP that is highly upvoted, it is representative of the community. If not, that view is not supported by the community. Many red pillers have vehemently disagreed with you there. They say that they are noobs who don't really understand it and we should only listen to the mods and endorsed contributors. By definition, a post that is up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/15 05:33 AM |
| 3 | TRPers, which percentage your comments here are just saying/clarifyin what TRP is rather than justifying the principles or having the moral argument?70% Sorry to reference my own post but: http://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2vq4o7/why_are_the_majority_of_posts_linked_on/ I think a big reason why TBP has such a terrible interpretation of TRP is because the TBP is a circlejerk that only shows the fringe, terrible comments that aren't even supported/upvoted by the TRP community. TBP literally thinks that TRP is filled with pro-abuse, pro-rape commenters that, in reality, never have any success on the dating scene, and wind up bit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/15 04:28 AM |
| 6 | Why are the majority of posts linked on TheBluePill fringe posts with little upvotes?The thing is, BP is constructing their image of TRP based on these examples: Why doesn't TBP just use highly upvoted examples to illustrate what they think of TRP? Why are you using these grey-area posts with very little upvotes and not one of the average successful, daily posts which gets 100-200 votes? To me it seems like TBP is heavily cherrypicking because TRP isn't as extreme as TBP thinks they are. Also: the comment is made by a mod or endorsed contributor Mods/contributors can make commen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/15 04:13 AM |
| 8 | CMV: 50 Shades is more true-to-life than not.Contrary to RP belief, men are also hottest when they're young. Yeah RP often say that their value only increases with age. I would say it spikes at ~30 when men often still look good, have a decent cash flow/status, and are generally more mature and "adult" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/15 04:01 AM |
| 5 | Don't Stick Your Dick in Crazy: The Joe Lonsdale Storydude my comment was a criticism of the justice system. we're on the same wavelength. the question was rhetorical. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/15 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Women are incapable of empathizing with men or male needs/desireshttp://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2vnqpp/women_are_incapable_of_empathizing_with_men_or/cojcux1 Anywho, most research shows women to be equal or superior to men in empathic ability (I can google it for you but I'd encourage you to do your own search of the literature) Until you show me where you are getting your source, your claim is still unproven. If you are the one making a claim, the burden on proof is on yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/15 02:46 AM |
| 1 | I got this love letter today. Don't know what to do.HAHA dude, I know you. I know the guy who wrote that letter, and I clearly remember the "smell to stay on my sheets" line. Small world. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/15 02:14 AM |
| 1 | How would you respond to this?he's probably korean. a lot of guys in that scene go out with sandals with socks so its passable | /r/askTRP | 13/02/15 02:11 AM |
| 3 | Women are incapable of empathizing with men or male needs/desiresDo you have research corroborating you claim that Humans have only been aware that these two things are even related for a very short time relative to evolutionary time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/15 01:41 AM |
| 5 | Women are incapable of empathizing with men or male needs/desiresMany. Usually 2XC is trying to get the number of men chiming in down to keep it a female-focused sub. If you want to see, just try posting "as a male/guy". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/15 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Women are incapable of empathizing with men or male needs/desires/u/FullRedvolution and /u/CountDrama Can both of you post your studies? I'm curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/15 01:38 AM |
| 5 | Women are incapable of empathizing with men or male needs/desiresFeminism argues that those "helping professions" are due to culture and society pushing them to those professions. Feminism would also say that the "caring/nurturing qualities that women have are also just stereotypes from patriarchy. Also, I believe that women populate those positions because there's a high degree of social interaction involved, not because they are necessarily empathetic. Anyways, if we're talking about empathy, why not just take the best measure and look at studies measuring … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/15 01:30 AM |
| 4 | Women are incapable of empathizing with men or male needs/desiresPffft trains. Typical BPer. Trains are like the communism of long-distance transport. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/15 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Become a man because that is your purpose in life, don't do it only to slay because you will not find proper motivationThanks OP this hit hard. On this journey, we all get to a point where things are good, so we forget our drive. A point where you can spin plates that are 6, 7, and maybe even 8's. A point where we have a decent paying job that we are content with. A point where our body is above average. TRP means always improving. There isn't one end goal. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/15 01:24 AM |
| 5 | Don't Stick Your Dick in Crazy: The Joe Lonsdale StoryIf this much damage is done to the suspect and his reputation before he is found guilty, what the hell is our justice system for? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/15 01:21 AM |
| 5 | Reactions to men killing themselves vs women killing themselvesThe thing is, feminists defends women to a tee when they're overlooked in the dating scene. There's fat acceptance, research on why some some races of women get dated less, movements to make say women a beautiful no matter what. On the flip side, men who are overlooked on the dating scene receive no such sympathy. Even to the point of this short, asian man's suicide, not one comment was to change "society's culture" to say that asian men or short men were attractive. If men can't find a relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/15 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Reactions to men killing themselves vs women killing themselvesthe only good putting up a barrier would do is to ensure that when people kill themself, it won't hit someone on the way down and hurt them as well. If someone's at their rope's end they'll find a way to end it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/15 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Reactions to men killing themselves vs women killing themselvesAgreed. And ego-stroking in itself is something the military loves for getting in new recruits. Thing's going terribly in your life? Sign up for the military. You can be a hero | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/15 07:53 PM |
| 0 | Question for TBP - what do you think of the typical TRP/PUA dating philosophy?I don't know if there are many people out there that would disagree; Then you haven't been on a sub. Every time the question of the attractiveness (of being strong, confident or even being well read) comes up, some BPer chimes in saying "no I'm not attracted to those things!!" or "none of the girls I know like guys like that! and they tell me everything!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/15 04:30 PM |
| 0 | What % of field reports on TRP do you think are fake?Take the extreme and say 50 or even 60% of stories are made up/embellished. There are still a huge number of stories, from multiple users that demonstrate RP qualities do make you more attractive. I can tell you from my own experience that this is true. The only way to tell if TRP works for you is to try it. Your mileage may vary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/15 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill, what's one BP thing you've done recently. Blue Pill, what's one RP thing you've done?After I received consent to kiss my girl's left boob, I asked for consent to kiss her right boob. Of course, I checked up on her every 10 seconds to see if she wanted to withdraw consent, but I'm working to get that down to 5 seconds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 10:05 PM |
| 9 | TRP's explosive growthI would say it makes a lot of sense to a lot people. While it over generalizes many things, at the end of the day it says that women are just like men in that they're shitty people as well. The fact is, the vast majority of us are pretty selfish, narcissistic, and human. The other factor I would say is that it works to some extent. Taking women of the pedestal that many men construct definitely helps interactions. Moreover, the basic tenets of self imporvement (exercising/studying/earning money)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 10:03 PM |
| 10 | What turns women on?Hot dudes reading Hot dudes Hot You tell me. Do you see ladies lining up to hit on all those guys at the library? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 09:55 PM |
| 2 | "Just be yourself" is solid romantic advice when taken to its logical conclusion.You replied way to fast to have actually read my points. I feel like this is a problem with PPD. Even when the opposing side makes a logical case, no one will admit that they are wrong. you then tried to claim that somehow, a man's guess is more important than a woman's outright claim. No no no. I'm comparing the "claims" your friends told you VERSUS the observed actions of women in a RP man's experience. While you friend's claims may or may not be true, the man knows for sure that his partners … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 09:49 PM |
| 3 | "Just be yourself" is solid romantic advice when taken to its logical conclusion.try again. No need to be emotional. My point is, I can parallel your anecdotal experience with a man's. For instance, you may have had 10 women in your life who have confided in their sex life (or lack thereof). Now whether or not that is true is debatable; of course when we talk to others, we lie, omit, and manage opinions. However, from this you claim that you can get a general perspective on women. By the same token, a RP man may have regularly dated/hooked up with/been FWB with 10 different … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 08:05 PM |
| 3 | "Just be yourself" is solid romantic advice when taken to its logical conclusion.Sure i agree. The authority on what a single individual wants is that individual only. So this is in opposition to what you claimed before: that you knew what many women wanted. You have proven that the only person you can speak for is yourself. I only illustrated the example of a man's opinion being a judge of what women want to show you the flaw in your own logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 07:12 PM |
| 2 | "Just be yourself" is solid romantic advice when taken to its logical conclusion.And everyone on this subreddit can say the same thing. If anything, men who have interacted with many women in a relationship context would have a more complete general opinion because it is formed from experiencing the direct actions of women rather than what a woman publicly reveals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 06:03 PM |
| 5 | "Just be yourself" is solid romantic advice when taken to its logical conclusion.and you're just one woman.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 04:28 PM |
| 12 | "Just be yourself" is solid romantic advice when taken to its logical conclusion.I've never heard this expanded version of "just be yourself" until fairly recently, seemingly as a response to how ineffective the advice is. haha well put | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 04:27 PM |
| 2 | "Just be yourself" is solid romantic advice when taken to its logical conclusion.Other caught onto it, but you state: "just be yourself" isn't a literal "change literally nothing about yourself at all whatsoever." It simply means "be the best version of yourself without lying about who you are." Which is what TRP is saying. Be the best version of yourself through self-improvement. Moreover, they encourage you to actually improve rather than put on a front that you are worth more than you are. (They discourage "fake it to you make it" over actually making it). In my experienc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 04:26 PM |
| 11 | Being a beta to get the girl? Do you think this is an effective strategy?I saw the first post. And no, girls don't want him because they actually think he's beta. It's because it's sarcastic and funny (he's copying what girls put on their profile). Anyways this is such a broad question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Blue Pillers: After being on here for a while, does TRP seem less extreme than what your first impression of it was or Reddit's general impression of it is?Maybe I'm a bit obtuse but I'm not getting what you're saying. So originally you thought it was some PUA forum. And now you think it's worse because it's a circlejerk that doesn't work? I mean that's not so bad considering all of reddit thinks TRP is a subreddit that tells people to beat on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 07:29 AM |
| 10 | Does TRP support rapists?lol and gayluboil doesn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 04:57 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about this article?I agree. Unfortunately, many men are (for whatever reason) attracted to women for looks. Unfortunately, many women (for whatever reason) are attracted to men for alpha/asshole characteristics. Just because it would be nicer if this wasn't true, doesn't make it true. I think most men will admit that they are attracted to beauty. The women who specifically hate TRP are offended when they are called out on this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers: After being on here for a while, does TRP seem less extreme than what your first impression of it was or Reddit's general impression of it is?I can say, by this logic, Reddit as a whole condones rape. These members are part of the greater reddit community after all. Posts that are highly upvoted obviously represent the greater community. Of course individuals in TRP will say idiotic things and may be terrible human beings. But that doesn't mean 5 individuals who subscribe to TRP represent TRP as a whole. If TRP is an ableing institution for rape as /u/strongalfalfa claims, why doesnt s/he use the highly upvoted pro-rape, pro-abuse pos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 02:14 AM |
| -1 | Blue Pillers: After being on here for a while, does TRP seem less extreme than what your first impression of it was or Reddit's general impression of it is?You didn't even read my post. I'm not defending them in the slightest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Blue Pillers: After being on here for a while, does TRP seem less extreme than what your first impression of it was or Reddit's general impression of it is?thank you for pointing them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/15 02:02 AM |
| -3 | Blue Pillers: After being on here for a while, does TRP seem less extreme than what your first impression of it was or Reddit's general impression of it is?Edit TL;DR: Those people are terrible. However, all of those posts were comments/PMs that don't represent mainstream TRP. There aren't any posts in TRP (that have been vetted by the community) that condone rape in anyway. By your logic I can say that reddit as a whole condones rape because all of those users are part of the larger reddit community. If you want to discuss TRP, discuss the actual content on TRP. Most of these take from random users (or even mods) who don't represent what the movem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/15 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Blue Pillers: After being on here for a while, does TRP seem less extreme than what your first impression of it was or Reddit's general impression of it is?abusers and rapists Would you mind pointing out the posts of abusers and rapists? I am genuinely curious, because I've actually not seen that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/15 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pillers: After being on here for a while, does TRP seem less extreme than what your first impression of it was or Reddit's general impression of it is?teaches men how to abuse women. It's a support group for rapists and abusers, I would say you are an example of a redditor in the general population who hasn't actually read whats on the subreddit. Please show me just one thread that was a support group for rapists. TRP does not condone abuse or rape of women, period. Rape is a horrendous act and it is a very serious claim when you say that a group actively supports rapists. If you make that claim, you better be sure in your proof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/15 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Like attracts like: Is TRP really only geared towards men chasing stereotypical, awful, shallow women?if TRP just deigned to date women who were their own physical equal, they'd have a way easier time. Except it is. TRP tells you to exercise, self-improve, study, work hard so that you find someone that complements you as a "physical equal." Sometimes I feel arguing on the purple pill is completely pointless when the opposing side just creates strawmen that are circle jerked to the top post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/15 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Like attracts like: Is TRP really only geared towards men chasing stereotypical, awful, shallow women?Umm you called these women awful in your title. Also, your tone is pretty condescending. They are the ones obsessed with looks, status, etc and inadvertently desire women who feel similarly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/15 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Like attracts like: Is TRP really only geared towards men chasing stereotypical, awful, shallow women?A tenet of (most) feminism isn't to condemn the individual for being attracted to certain qualities. Making a value claim and calling these women awful and shallow is counterproductive. We are all free to be attracted to what we want. You aren't better than another individual just because you are attracted to guys who are skinnier or guys who are meek. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/15 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Like attracts like: Is TRP really only geared towards men chasing stereotypical, awful, shallow women?Of course, but as long as you don't give off some kind of "slut shaming" vibe, women will teach other women a good deal of things. But still, I'm close with a fair number of women and unless they're super secret squirrel sluts, I have some idea of what they get up to. And it ain't fucking dozens of randos. We can both give each other anecdotal stories but it's not going to advance anything. Even if you knew a ton of girls who (at no point in their life) were part of this so-called harem, it coul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/15 12:29 AM |
| 5 | Like attracts like: Is TRP really only geared towards men chasing stereotypical, awful, shallow women?"ones who struggle the most, become bitter/angry etc are the ones who are the most shallow, the ones who lust after the 1%/HB10s of women" first off, these guys aren't RP. RP doesn't tell you to shoot beyond your worth but to self-improve and hopefully yourself become the top x% to attract the top x% of females. Now I'm not saying I'm privy to the intimate details of the lives of all the people I know but I look around and for the most I see women either in or seeking LTRs with stable mates I th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/15 02:00 PM |
| 13 | In a rare moment of drunken honesty, a poster in r/TwoXChromosomes admits she prefers assholes to nice guysThe thing is, what many women don't realize is that every "nice guy" would have much rather had a chance at having one night stands with 20 year olds, rather than get the "catch" at 30 years old. Women honestly think that they are doing "nice guys" a favor when they settle with the nice guy in the end, after spending her hot 20's with assholes. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/15 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that the few pro-marriage TRP'ers seem to advocate marrying women with high-risk "divorce rape" factors?Level of education of the mother is very strongly correlated with level of education of child. Especially if mother is the one at home with the child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/15 04:11 PM |
| 1 | If women should live their lives based on what will most likely happen (the wall, etc) then why should men hope for/rely on the best-case scenario (Hugh Hefner, etc)?Technically, if here the OP is talking solely on having sex with attractive women, I would say remaining single is the best option. OP is making a false equivalency. We must compare the result of not marrying at one's peak with the result of getting married at ones peak. The OP argues here that if a RP man would have married at his peak, he would marry the hottest girl possible. He forgets that (unlike resources or success of a man) beauty/youth fades with age. Thus if you married a woman who wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/15 04:24 PM |
| 11 | Visiting Non-Redpiller? Here, put on these (Red Lenses.)lol this was a bit cheesy but not bad of a post. I would have added that the feminist, despite what she says, would fuck the alpha over the beta in a heartbeat. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 06:32 AM |
| 2 | [Meta] SJWs are reportedly working with admins to develop a stricter "no harassment" policy at Reddit. We should have an action plan in place for when TRP is bannedAdmins and mods, please find another area with similar capabilities to Reddit in terms of user contribution, posting, and voting. Preferably, please set this up now, before TRP gets shut down. Having a back up area that users know about (right at this moment) I feel is crucial. Moreover, perhaps every user here, who has posted a good post (with more than say, 200 upvotes) can help by making a snapshot of those posts in case we would ever like to reupload them. Ultimately, it doesn't matter what … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 07:46 AM |
| 4 | Typical behavior pattern for branch swinging girlHmm it's missing the part where one of her best "guy friends" (who she never saw in that way) makes a move. But pretty spot on. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 05:38 AM |
| 0 | The backlash has begun, how far will it goWas gonna make a post on this. I think a lot of ppl on this sub are starting to think that this is some collective movement - it's not. This sub is about collective strategizing for the betterment of yourself. MRAs concern themselves about men's rights, TRP concerns itself about sexual strategy. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Supplement your lifts with yoga.Finally. Getting tired of hearing "lift brah". "Pilates brah" has a nicer ring to it | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/15 07:52 PM |
| 41 | Why you should lock down early plates for those beginning to take the pillNot really into trolling. But I have used this account to troll people before. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/15 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Why you should lock down early plates for those beginning to take the pillMove to a city lol. But I would quit those activities and join new ones, or take a class at your local community college/college | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/15 06:28 PM |
| 7 | Why you should lock down early plates for those beginning to take the pillLol I'm not sure why you quit mastrubation but let's leave that there. It's hard to tell why all these girls are flaking for sure. Perhaps they weren't genuinely interested in hanging out with you. I mean you're saying you've gotten around 10 numbers and all of them wound up not wanting to do anything after? If that's the case, maybe you should try aiming lower for now and also work on self-improvement. Even if you plate a girl below your SMV it'll probably help you develop better social skills … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/15 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Fuck a single mom?If you're not going to do it can you at least give me her number | /r/askTRP | 30/01/15 06:43 AM |
| 1 | eye contact helpNot to be an ass, but flirting and initiating contact (by staring) really only works if you're pretty attractive. The fact that you're thinking so much about one specific part of human communication (staring) means to me that you should work on getting comfortable in communicating with people in general. Join a club or something. Get out there and practice being extroverted. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/15 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Plate expects me to drop all plans.I see a bigger problem. The way she's texting you, it seems like she's in control of this fwb situation more than you are. TBH I message my plates the way she messages you, brah. A big part of TRP is not actually caring about all those little details in your post. Your biggest concern should be you. If you want to see her, tell her to meet up. If you don't want to, don't. Also, for this specific situation I would make her come to my place. If you hopped over to her's, expect her to ask for a lot… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/15 06:40 AM |
| 0 | Guy keeps hitting on my LTR at her workplace - how to deal?Okay this is what you do. Next time you catch him flirting with your gf, pull out a bottle of gatorade and be like "bro you could use this." Then (this is important) look him dead in the eyes, and DO NOT, break eye contact first. This'll assert yourself (importantly in front of your GF) and hides an implicit "fuck you" in a kind gesture. Plus it's funny | /r/askTRP | 30/01/15 06:35 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond correctly to I love you?Depends on text or in person. Which is it OP? | /r/askTRP | 29/01/15 05:56 AM |
| 8 | Asian American women that refuse to date Asian guys but hate the fact that those same Asian guys go interracial.100% right lol. I'm asian myself but one of my good asian friends told me that she would want to hook up with white guys now, and eventually marry an asian guy. Girls get pissed when their beta bux supply drains low | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 08:48 PM |
| 1 | V Day approaching. Let's discuss tactics.haha the problem with that tho is it's inevitably going to probably use up a lot of time with that plate. doing smth with her on v day will make her push for a ltr and eventually i'll have to drop her. also, it'd be good to get solid excuses up for other plates that i wont be seeing for sure | /r/askTRP | 26/01/15 03:49 PM |
| 1 | A different (non-monetary) reason on why marriage is a bad, bad idea.Just because you're not getting any doesn't mean they're not putting out. "Wen are less horny" is just some blue pilled bullahit women tell guys they don't want to fuck, i.e. "beta" You're not arguing logically and did not read my point. I am not saying "Just because you're not getting any doesn't mean they're not putting out." Follow this argument: Men and women are biologically different, and have evolved different roles in society. Men have evolved to be "Alpha" and mate many females. Women h… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 11:00 PM |
| 0 | A different (non-monetary) reason on why marriage is a bad, bad idea.Something that I want to make clear is that this trend is in general. I have actually met one woman (1) that was hornier than me. So these women do exist. And in terms of why didn't I marry her or enter a LTR with her, it's because i'm not looking for that at this stage in life. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 04:06 PM |
| -2 | A different (non-monetary) reason on why marriage is a bad, bad idea.Sorry, you just didn't turn your ex on enough. Haha that may or may not be true, but say that it is. It doesn't change the strength of my point that most women are less horny than guys. This creates a situation where there's a mutual activity that you have a higher demand for - automatically putting you in a disadvantageous situation. While some RPers will claim that you just need to act super RP and you'll have all the sex that you want, do all of you seriously believe that this doesn't get old… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Everybody is so afraid of TRP, they have to censor because people might read it and agree...At the end of the day, I'm not complaining. Although it seems selfish to say, TRP at the end of the day is Sexual Strategy. Part of that strategy is to become an Alpha, and, by definition, an Alpha is a select percentage of the population. If the TRP becomes massively popular, what happens then? If everyone's Alpha no one is. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Dance, Monkey, Dance: The Time Has Come For A Shift In The Mediums Of SeductionI like this post, but I say we all try out this strategy first, refine it, and then sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Dance, Monkey, Dance: The Time Has Come For A Shift In The Mediums Of SeductionGood. It'll be nice if in coming weeks other RPers can chime in on the success of this method. I think there has to be some intuition on how much attention the girl is getting ahead of time, ie: if it's a girl who doesn't seem to get a lot of orbiters, a simple text will do and prevents yourself from seeming overly clingy. Maybe I'm overly attached to text game, but if you're out putting in plenty of lines in the water, usually a solid text game requires minimal effort for a good payoff. I'll tr… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Found an interesting TED talk about seduction. I think its interesting and would love to hear your thoughts on it.Mind summarizing the takeaway OP? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 07:49 AM |
| 4 | Women are always looking for a better replacement to what they currently haveLet me tell you something. You can resent your friend for changing, becoming more attractive, giving up video games, becoming more social, gaining more friends OR you can make that decision to start changing today. It sounds harsh but you've been lazy until this point. At the end of the day, it's you that has to change. Whether or not your friend is in your life is irrelevant. There are millions of those guys, and RP advocates becoming one of those guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 06:15 AM |
| 29 | Girl with boyfriend is going on trip around the world with random guy she just met. Don't worry though, "This is totally sort of like as friends".LOL the guy had 18 women apply for the chance. He made them fill out a questionaire and gave them skype interviews. Funny how the man happens to choose one that looks very pretty. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 11:19 PM |
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