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On the German subreddit there is a guy who is an ugly bar manager who sometimes bartends Can you link the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:12 PM
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But even if you came across that sort of woman, wouldn't her assertive nature and partner pickiness make the case that she wouldn't likely settle for anything less than top shelf dudes in the sack? Yes, which is why it is strange to me she couldn't find her best guy after so many affairs if she was actively looking for one, at least judging by the confessions by these "best guys". She knows what she wants and is rather adept at finding a great lay, but with the last guy she suddenly decides to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:26 PM
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I wouldn't say it has anything to do with the quantity. A woman can sleep with a hundred men and leave unsatisfied. My proposition rests on the premise that a woman wants the best for herself and is assertive about her pleasure. If we grant that, it would follow that a promiscious woman who has slept with many men carefully picks and leaves after every encounter satisfied. While it would definitely happen that she winds up upon few bad lays, that could be safely relegated to the realm of the sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:43 PM
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You'd have to give me an example, as this is very context-dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:13 PM
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I do not believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:00 PM
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Is it unlikely? Yes, at least as unlikely that an abusive cheater (not saying women are like this) fundamentally change their personality because of a special girl. Because I see it all around me. I don't. In fact, I see the opposite. It's only here that it's said it doesn't exist. On PPD? Certainly. On general Reddit? No, everyone claims exactly the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:57 PM
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no need to project that shit onto everyone else though. Please follow your own advice and cease with the condescension. I do not believe that I am worthless, nor do I believe all women settle, I have merely brought up that a promiscuous woman being with some guy in a monogamous relationship doesn't mean that guy is a sex god or anything like that. He could be the best for the monogamous life she has chosen, sure, but guys here think they are "taming the whore" with their unparalleled sex skills,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:55 PM
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Didn't say it was impossible, just generally unlikely and really a wish-fulfillment. Every guy here seems to believe that is the case, I'm just saying that it likely isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:51 PM
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I cannot put into words how hilarious I find the "It doesn't matter she was with a thousand men before me, the fact that she is with me now means that I'm the best!" narrative. It isn't even about the promiscuity of the woman in question, but the complete deluded c0pe of the guy who thinks he is either a sex god capable of "taming a whore" (pardon my language), or a special niceguy who makes the whore love him so much she gives up her lecherous ways to be faithful only to him. Does this last one…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:16 PM
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No, flourishing and power make the life worth living.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:23 PM
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Please read my OP again. You are repeating my position.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:00 PM
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The point was that most women like penetration, so this "just use your tongue and fingers, bro!" narrative is fallacious and misleading.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:47 PM
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Yeah, it definitely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:46 PM
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I don't understand this female narrative that a man needs only his fingers and tongue in order for the woman to be satisfied with him, regardless of his penis size, when this isn't true at all. While I won't deny the value of cunnilingus and fingering, the vast majority of heterosexual women want to be penetrated, they just don't want the penetration to be the main and only course of sex. I distinctly remember a post on r/sex where a man says he has absolutely no problem with orally and digitall…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:34 PM
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I make way above the average salary at 23 How the hell did you achieve that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:17 PM
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I don't. I was speaking in hypotheticals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:16 PM
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I was speaking in hypotheticals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:16 PM
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There was a comment on a post in r/NotHowGirlsWork that went on something like "Could you imagine thinking that all women go fuck everyone under the Sun, but you still can't get laid?" and I answered "Yes", as in "Yes, I can imagine that". Oh boy, did that bring the fury of the people there, with insults such as "epic self-own", "misogynist", "sad loser" and the like flying around. I decided to ask those people why I am a misogynist and why was that a self-own, but I never get anything other tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:37 PM
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There was a comment on a post in r/NotHowGirlsWork that went on something like "Could you imagine thinking that all women go fuck everyone under the Sun, but you still can't get laid?" and I answered "Yes", as in "Yes, I can imagine that". Oh boy, did that bring the fury of the people there, with insults such as "epic self-own", "misogynist", "sad loser" and the like flying around. I decided to ask those people why I am a misogynist and why was that a self-own, but I never get anything other tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:57 PM
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Ah, alright then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:49 AM
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*60-70% 30-40% of men remain sexless forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:20 AM
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It’s ya’ll living in this illusion that the only girl that’s attractive is skinny and white yet every women can somehow have an army of suitors. This isn't mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:08 PM
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Women also don’t always understand the needs and lens of men. And they don't need to. There's always going to be a hot guy into whatever they are into, so it isn't a problem to them if they don't understand. It's the problem for men, as finding an attractive woman who shares the same niche is a thousand times harder, bordering on the impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:10 PM
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What did you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:26 PM
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Except most of them are lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:11 PM
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Mislim, i ja se osetim ozlojeđeno ponekad, ali ovde izgleda da su u tom stanju 24/7. Kao da namerno neće da prestanu da budu jadni i mrski.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:26 PM
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Forgive me for any confusion, I'm Croatian lol Moram da priznam, nisam očekivao da i nas Balkanaca ima ovde 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:08 PM
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I don't subscribe to such idea. Religion carries deep meaning in its mythology, even if it seems needlessly convoluted and nonsensical at the first glance. For example, Athene being born from the head of Zeus signified the Divine Wisdom being born from the Supreme Mind after consuming Divine Cunning (Metis). It doesn't mean that there literally was a guy who swallowed a woman transformed into a drop of water and having a girl jumping out of his head. Similarly, Yahweh creating the Universe and E…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:58 PM
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Yes, I find that to be true as well. If you are interested, you could look into Shaktism, an Indian sect which worships Mahadevi, the Supreme Goddess of Cosmic Creation, Preservation and Destruction. I find a lot better alternative to Patriarchal theology.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:31 PM
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Women are gods on earth 🌸 Kinda blasphemous, but I get the concept. All religions with male deities are used as a cxping mechanism because men can not create life I wouldn't say they are c0ping mechanism, but I do find the notion of a male god creating the Universe out of nothing and then creating a man first and woman from man to be an utterly ridiculous c0pe by the Patriarchy. If there is God, She is a woman and from a woman a man is created.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:15 PM
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Men see tits or the wind blows just right and they are hornet and willing to have sex Women see an attractive man, notice what he’s wearing, how he speaks, and maybe consider if he’s on the surface the type of man they’d want. But it’ll probably take more than that to get the willingness to have sex started. But this is literally the same, the difference is just in the intensity and, as you say, willingness. It has nothing to do with spontaneous/responsive libido. But I also still don’t know wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:56 PM
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You're not entirely wrong, but you also can't go 2 months without seducing your wife and then ask "what is HER problem?" like you didn't do the exact same nothing she did the last 2 months. Correct, but this isn't what I meant. No partner should just sit on their ass and wait until the other one approaches and then complain when they stop approaching, but women here excuse their lack of initiative with "bIoLoGy" and that's it's men's fault for not understanding it. Pretty much how men here also …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:03 PM
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What point are you trying to make? That women screaming "ReSpOnSiVe LiBiDo" every time guys complain women don't initiate and just wait for the guy to do so isn't as good an excuse as they're trying to make it seem. Women obviously do have spontaneous libido and actively pursue sexual gratification, just in a different way than men. They don't spend their days as asexuals until men magically turn their libidoes on. Reading the book is the seduction sometimes. The book doesn’t just start with por…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:00 PM
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"Responsive libido" is an excuse on the par with "I have a boyfriend" and "it's not you, it's me". If most women can only get aroused when being actively seduced, then why do they make for the largest consumers of literary porn and sex toys? Do they wait for their dildoes to make the first move too?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:22 AM
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Hm, bisexual group sex, partner-swapping, ass-eating, anal sex and DP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:33 PM
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That comparing behavior of us humans and animals is foolish, which was kinda the point of my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:15 PM
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Women like to point out that in animal kingdom males build nests, dance, strut and fight with other males in order to attract mates. While this is true, it omits a very important fact; in animal kingdom, it is females who approach males for mating . Males are supposed to make themselves attractive options and just wait until an interested female approaches them. This is absolutely not the case in humans, where males have to do all those things and still be the ones having to approach women if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:37 PM
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So they do actually feel spontaneous libido?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:12 PM
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The real problem is that people claim there is a difference between "spontaneous" and "responsive" libido when there isn't. The claim that women go asexual through life until awakened by male sexual advances is nonsense and a ripe fruit for rape apology.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:05 PM
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I thought women don't want to compete for male attention? Why are they driven to compete for it in the first place when they don't have spontaneous libido?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:57 PM
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But... that wasn't the point of my OP...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:53 PM
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But what can be controlled?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:51 PM
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it's gay men posting mostly Why would they, when they can post in their own sub? liking to look at a handsome man doesn't sexually arouse women, this is male projection How the hell do women ever muster the motivation to make themselves sexually available if they go through life completely asexually, as you claim? Like, doesn't that make every man that tries to initiate a rapist because he approaches unwilling women and tries to turn them willing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:49 PM
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So what the hell is r/ladyboners then? People like you make it seem like women exist asexually until turned to sexuality by sexual stimuli, when that isn't the case at all, but an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:40 PM
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Control what you can, get over what you cant. What do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:39 PM
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A person overflowing with power and spirit, who rises beyond the petty and the gross into the realm of excellence and refinement, an artistic warrior-scholar whose strength of spirit is such to be able to embrace life with all its suffering with willing mind and loving heart and assign it an unconquerable value, a bold explorer into the chaos and unknown.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:02 PM
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In the first picture, he looks 5.5/6 and she looks 7/8. Definitely a mismatch in looks. In the third picture, she looks 6 and in the fourth 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:48 PM
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I'm not, but neither are those who claim otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:43 PM
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Outside the established relationship, sure, I get why. But inside? Why would it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:41 PM
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The "spontaneous vs. responsive libido" scenario is ret@rded as hell. It basically puts whole onus of initiation on men under explanation that women don't get horny on their own, but only when externally stimulated, which is a complete bullshit. This is only a justification for women who don't want to initiate and expect everything to fall on their laps. It is true that men are hornier than women, but in the context that if men want sex seven days a week, women want sex five days a week, not tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:15 PM
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Isn't he also absolutely convinced that a woman getting wet is some kind of a medical problem, because it never happened to his spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:33 PM
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Greek heroi like Herakles and Akhilleus, philosophers like Sokrates, Platon, Zenon, Seneca, Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius, Siddhatha Gotama, Friedrich Nietzsche and other scientists, artists and warriors I cannot immediately think of. I do not think anyone from the entertainment or sports industry is a Chad, they are just marketed like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:31 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:22 PM
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Ok, have it your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:14 PM
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You called what? Why did you ignore the rest of my comment. My guy, in all honesty, it seems to me that you are the troll here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:03 PM
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😂 My guy, how are we supposed to have a conversation, when you are adamant that I'm trolling you and am supposed to understand your wordsalads effortlessly? Seriously, you are worse than incels here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:00 PM
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But I’m just providing my anecdote to prove that different people settle down for different reasons, and that this isn’t a myth. I didn't say it is, just saying it likely isn't as commonplace as people here like to tout. Men are SO convinced that promiscuous women never get what they want that they can’t conceive of promiscuous women ending up with sexually gratifying HVM. Oh no, this happens 100%, you are right about that. My OP wasn't about whether this happens or not, because it does, but the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:58 PM
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You said that my OP was a "strawman exaggeration without any RL nuance". I said that I don't understand what exactly do you mean by this. Why is it a strawman exaggeration? What kind of RL nuance it lacks? Even if you disagree you should be able to understand what I'm saying at this. I... really don't understand your logic here. Even if I disagree, I should be able to understand a random string of words without any explanation offered?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:54 PM
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Not necessarily. I'm saying that the narrative of "when a promiscuous woman decides to be monogamous, it is because she found the One" isn't as true as people like to tout it. It's more likely she wanted a change in lifestyle than suddenly finding a man so perfect no other man could ever compare (not saying the latter doesn't happen, but it would be a lot rarer in comparison).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:51 PM
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I do not understand. Could you please elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:47 PM
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Curious. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:45 PM
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Good for you, but please don't act like your case is the representative of the whole population.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:44 PM
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"Lol, she fucked the entire town in the wildest ways possible, but she married me and decided to stop being so wild, that means I'm so special and better than her other fucks!" I really don't understand why this narrative is pushed so hard. Yes, Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks shit is fake as hell, but that doesn't mean that promiscuous women suddenly decide to be monogamous and shower their attentions and sexual experiences upon a single special man. This seems like a fantasy to me in lieu of "bad boy c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 01:53 PM
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In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:41 AM
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By like 31 I completely understood why. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:18 AM
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Do they? I feel like lots of female virgins want to exchange v cards, so to speak. Not really, unless they are devoutly religious. I don’t think it matters if they lie, long as they gain experience each time so they can stop lying in the future. My point was that they can't get an experience if they lie they have it because women won't teach them what they think they already know and they don't want to teach those who say they don't actually know. I don’t like the fact that my turn-ons either fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:22 PM
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I spose they could fuck other virgins and then get practice with more experienced women over time. Yeah, but how? Both virgins and experienced women want experienced men. The only way would then be to lie and I don't think those women would suddenly grow a desire to teach them once they realise they lied. No, sadly The fact you get off on other women desiring your match, or TRP conspiracy theories?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:50 PM
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IME, virgin men are not good at sex, and I do not have the patience to teach them. How are men then supposed to learn, if nobody wants to teach them, but everyone wants the longterm experience? Also, I very much enjoy the idea of other women being attracted to my man because (insert convoluted psychological gymnastics that TRP would have a field day with) Is this sarcasm? I genuinely cannot tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:33 PM
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They want the guy to lead, to be the dominant one, to know what hes doing, to be confident. Funny thing, they want the guy to have all trappings of power, yet still consider her his equal. How would that work? If I have autocratic power in a relationship and you insist I should have it in order for you to find me attractive, why would I ever consider you my equal and not my obedient subject?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:38 PM
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Aren't most women claiming that virginal men after their 20s are a red flag because "something must be seriously wrong with him"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:07 PM
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Why is not being good with women or having women attracted to you seen as such a sin by other women? Does the concept of a handsome, well-adjusted and polite guy who is a virgin really sound unfathomable to women? Does he always have to be some kind of psychopath, incel or autist?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:53 PM
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1) You are a woman. My post was about men. 2) The main point wasn't DB, but the general dissatisfaction and unglad compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 09:44 PM
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That's like complaining about an unavoidable fact of life; futile.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:43 PM
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In that case, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:52 PM
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Most men have nowhere near a wide repertoire of women they can choose from, so finding Ms. Right is significantly harder, if not a pipedream. Settling for a (very) flawed option is more of a necessity for them than for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:51 PM
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I don't understand what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:48 PM
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Women settle out of love and free will, men settle out of necessity and compromise. A man for whom a woman way out of his league chose to "settle with", if she isn't a gold digger, cannot ever be called a beta, because he is in a relationship he desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:25 PM
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Damn all those anal butt threesome women will have to find out other guys who are willing to have butt sex with her and her friends Do these women actually exist? Like, it isn't just a porn fantasy? Because it sounds to me like a porn fantasy and wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:11 PM
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Women who exclaim "just don't date who you dislike, duh!" and "just leave!" show an astonishing lack of insight into the male perspective of dating. No, most men can't simply swipe women until they get to their ideal one. That's an extremely easy recipe for ending forever alone. They have to settle with what they can get and hold tight onto it, because there are no second chances for most of them. They have to tolerate a large amount of things they don't really like if they want to be in a relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:41 PM
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Yeah, but it's the difference from being self-employed and choosing your own schedule and content from having do to whatever and whenever your employer tells you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:34 PM
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Works as an OF model? Probably. Depends on the content and her situation, but it wouldn't necessarily be a dealbreaker. Works in SW industry? If she's a stripper, there'd might be a small chance, but I'd be pretty apprehended. If she's an all-out prostitute and pornstar, not a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:11 AM
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Black pillers aren't severely mentally ill because being an ''involuntary celibate'' made them mentally ill. They were already mentally ill before they tried to get laid for the first time. This really depends on how you define "mentally ill". Incels/blackpillers are socially stunted, which prevents them from participating in normal society and having friends and lovers, plus they tend to cope by becoming narcissistic. This on its own isn't a mental illness, but a fertile breeding ground for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:58 AM
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no dude has ever developed serious mental problems over being a virgin. Uhhhhhhhhhh...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:15 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 11:28 AM
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They have earned it by being a higher type of human, genetically and socioeconomically determined for success.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 11:26 AM
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Yes, culture has a huge effect but if we were naturally inclined to kill each other the mentality to do so would be a lot more prevalent. R/selfawarewolves moment. It is exactly modern pacifistic culture that is the reason the masses do not have the killing intent of our forbears; they do not need it anymore and it is highly discouraged as savage and uncivilised. Take a look at places that aren't as safe as the West, like Africa or Latino America. People kill each other in droves in war and gang…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:23 PM
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Killing other humans is not something humans are even designed for. Now this is just a fucking joke. My guy, conflict is the heart of the human nature; where there are humans, there is war. We don't have natural weaponry because our forebears mainly ate fruit and fangs were eventually outbred due to the change in environment and our means of survival. We don't have natural weapons, which is why we built things like spears, axes and slingshots that will eventually evolve into guns; to kill our ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:10 AM
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I do not look down on cuckolds. If it's consensual, I respect it even if I don't understand it. If nonconsensual, I pity them and condemn their sadistic spouses. What you describe isn't really cuckoldry, but open relationship. The difference between the two is the lack of fetishised humiliation in the latter. Cuckold spouses get off on the juxtaposition of humiliation and arousal they experience when seeing/knowing someone else is having sex with their partner, while people in open relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:28 PM
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Dude, most women relationships are in mediocre relationships, what the hell are you talking about? Do you honestly believe that women don't settle? Because vast, vast majority of them does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:59 PM
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But still: good relationship > single > bad relationship You are correct and I never did deny this. It’s not a superiority thing and I’m sure some women would rather be in a shitty relationship with a man they settled for and a dead bedroom with divorce just 15 years down the line. I’m just not about that Certainly, but this is a you thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:47 PM
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I do not think that and that wasn't the point. The point was PPD women's claims that women generally do not have a craving for an intimate relationship and can comfortably go without it for the rest of their lives is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:46 PM
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I have plenty of wonderful people in my life and an excellent career to the point that I’d be pretty happy if I never find “the one”. I think a lot of women these days are fairly similar in this regard Except they aren't, and I do not understand why you insist on it. Most women do not see an intimate relationship as something casually optional whose nonexistence won't be noticed. They want to be in a relationship as much as most men, which is why most people get paired off. I am honestly sick of…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:36 PM
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PPD women confidently claiming that women are generally apathetic to relationships and completely comfortable spending their lives alone makes me wonder if they live in the same basement incels and neckbeards live. No, most women absolutely crave relationship and companionship to the point they will do absolutely insane things to be in one, like putting up with an abusive partner. These happy hermit women PPD women use to prove men how meaningless they are are basically female version of Chads; …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:00 PM
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If men stopped giving women so much attention, Chads would be free to have their megaharems while the average man rots away unnoticed. Women, for the most part, don't really give a shit about pursuing sex or working for a relationship. If it falls on their lap and they like it, they will entertain it. If it doesn't and they don't, they won't have much problem with it. Women simply do not derive value from sex as men do and in modern times, the value they used to derive from being in a LTR has al…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:16 PM
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Funny, this is what most men would say with regards to cunnilingus. Hate it, but do it to keep the girl around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:13 PM
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But the man is right, overall. Women will go wild for Chads, but remain boringly vanilla when it comes to average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:11 PM
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Yeah, that's likely going to remain just a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:20 AM
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Have very close friends with whom I can engage in partner-swapping orgies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:28 AM
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If you're married to her and having sex with her then clearly she wants to be with you. Otherwise she'd be off fucking the ever feared Chad. Not necessarily. There is a good reason to think she simply settled because she couldn't be off fucking Chad. I think it says a lot that this hypothetical woman has been with so many men and yet she decided to choose that one hypothetical man out of all of them to marry. Yeah, that she thought he's an excellent betabux choice out of them all, that's what it…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:09 AM
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Lots of useful info in the comments. Non-monogamy is stigmatised and avoided due to a large number of prejudices that follow it, as well as due to the base assumptions about what a monogamous relationship should cosist of and what roles man and woman play in it. I personally wouldn't mind an open relationship, as long as my girlfriend/wife continues being very sexual with me and considerate about my reputation and health (i.e. no sleeping with acquaintances and no bringing me STIs). She can go t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:17 PM
5

If you're with someone who wants to be with you, there's no reason to let insecurity get in the way of something great. Who said she either wants to be with him or loves him? If she had so much experience and met so many men, but decided to marry that one in particular, then it's quite possible she settled. Such a woman would chase a HVM, not a beta normie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:32 PM
1

Since when was a degenerate asshole junkie/criminal sexier than the Prince Charming? Because I don't see a lot of Princes Charming getting sucked off in a parking lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:06 PM
-1

There is a reason Christianity is the most popular religion nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:12 PM
2

Modern women have abysmally low standards. Hot, educated, successful and confident women go for ugly retards whose only redeeming quality is that their personalities are a little less bland than a bowl of rice. Manosphere teaches that women only go for Chads, but this is solidly false. It's not Chads whom these women suck of in the parking lot, fuck in the bathroom stalls or submissively worship with a collar on, but assholes, narcissists and other types of lowlives. I honestly wish they had hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:25 AM
1

It does, but only for sex and not for LTR. If she's much more experienced than me, that means she's either settling for me, or I am just a stepping stone to a lot better option. You can't convince me that she went through dozens of guys and several group funs and I am the best she could do. I would never trust her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:46 AM
-1

No, just statistics. Most women like to be dominated by a man in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:19 PM
-1

Dominantly and assertively, they way they like to be treated?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:16 PM
7

How pitifully hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:52 PM
1

Now that's a good idea. I might just do that. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:51 PM
2

Neither. I just want the status, validation and power that come from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:50 PM
1

While I agree in the principle, I disagree about Women aren't the goal, they're something that is supposed to come in time when you improve No, women will never come to you by themselves, as many who have thrown 100% into self-improvement for a time being and ended up lonely and friendless because they neglected their social circle in favour of gym and hustling. Regardless whether you are a normie or a Chad, you have to make an effort to approach women. They won't fall out of the skies on your l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:32 PM
2

After some introspection, I have found that I don't actually have that much interest in women or wild kinky sex, I'm just interested in social status, validation and power it brings to a man. Is there any way to replicate the effects without engaging in it? I honestly don't care much about it, only what it can bring me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:25 PM
6

Maybe she just got bored and wanted to settle down with someone who wasn't going to bother with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:14 PM
1

Men do not get hyped up. It is the way it is and you must understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:17 PM
1

It's easy to feel damn good about yourself when you'll always have armies of simps and thirsty dudes hyping you up, even if you are an average chick. Nobody's hyping up and thirsting over an average man in swimtrunks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:19 PM
2

1) That is an ad hominem fallacy. Please present a valid argument. 2) It is not a feeling, it is a fact. Due to the lot higher risks such as pregnancy, lack of sexual pleasure, abusive relationship and single motherhood, women are a lot pickier and selective than men. Men, due to the lot higher testosterone, social status and nigh-guaranteed sexual pleasure are a lot more driven and sexually voracious than women. Once you combine that, you get a massively unbalanced oligopolistic market where wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:10 PM
3

It is a simple truth that women are the choosers in the human sexual relationships. If you want to mate, you have to pass the standards women set you. At best, you can choose which standards suit you more, but it will always be you who will have to strive and obey, while women wait at the finish line and pick the best. I'm not good enough and I'd be lucky if any, ANY woman is willing to have me". This is indeed the case for most men. They don't get to be picky, only take or leave what is offered…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:58 PM
2

The dude is a radical bluepiller. Ignore him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:38 PM
3

You have a skewed perception of dating. You have no more power there than you have in capitalism. You think the barons of the industry care that you refuse to buy their products? There are tens of millions of guys like you who are eagerly waiting to buy what they're selling. Also, their product is of very high quality, so you can either compromise your ethical standards and get it, or lower yourself for a subpar solution. It's the same with women. "She's not yours, it's just your turn" is the tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:28 PM
2

You forgot an /s, chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:45 AM
2

I disagree. Even during the 50s, premarital sex was everywhere, just better hidden. Plus, men have been encouraged to rack up numbers since forever. My great-grandfather would likely be very disappointed that I haven't slept with any woman so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:35 PM
2

The entire "size doesn't matter" charade has always been completely ridiculous. Size does matter, but not in the way and not to the degree most men think. Small dicks will never be desirable. Average dicks are satisfying, but unimpressive. Big dicks are useless if too big. Sexual skill will be always a massive booster, and can even put someone with a small dick above someone with a big dick, but only if the sexual skill is massively unbalanced between the parties. Sexually skilled men with above…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:56 AM
1

Wow... Dunno what to say. FDSers must be proud to have you as their member.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:25 AM
2

So if a man is volcel, he is an automatic loser? I am 20, I have never slept with a woman my colleagues at college praise my confidence and professors find me charming. Most people find me interesting and likable. I have never slept with a woman because I have never been motivated to do so and I do not regret it. Am I a loser by your definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:38 PM
1

Ngl, Bantu lady sounds very appealing. A capable and strong woman can only ever be a plus and I have a flair for languages, so I'll likely learn hers in few months. She looks like she would ride me raw 🤤. Also, sporty tomboy girl, but as long as she chills with insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:50 PM
1

Ancient Greeks and Romans trusted their slaves enough to make them into teachers of their kids and grant them important administrative duties. Slave revolts weren't a common occurence unless slaves were brutally oppressed like in Sparta and even when they happened, they were most brutally suppressed. The slaves themselves have usually internalised the status quo as "it is just the way it is". Even if they murdered their masters, where would they go?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:40 PM
1

True, but they then get supressed. How do you think slavery lasted for centuries in the past if a slave revolt was all it took?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:06 PM
4

first of all, these nice guys just want their dicks wet. they clearly do not find value in relationships and that’s why they always focus on assholes who get multiple women to fuck them. THAT is what “nice guys” want. Ok... And? How does that change anything I've said, when that's precisely what I have said? And nice guys are only interested in the women who are spreading their pussies within two seconds of knowing a guy, typically an attractive asshole. Uh, yes. That's true. And they were actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:39 PM
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Men are simply resentful of the fact that they have been told their entire lives that being a whiteknighting simp is a sure way to get a soulmate, but see that in reality, it is the domineering and extroverted men who attract a large amount of women, not shy, introverted, nerdy "nice guys". Pouring that resentment into an ideology is how you get the Red Pill. Not only are these examples of toxic masculinity (such as enforcing the toxic belief that a man’s value stems from how much sex he’s getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:57 PM
6

They can, but go through the hassle of dating when they have it good right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:28 PM
1

That's an anecdote (one that may not even be true) that does not at all disprove OP's claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:09 PM
1

My point was that getting well-put together won't make women start approaching most men, unlike otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:14 PM
-1

Lucky you. Shame this would have never happened had you been a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:32 AM
3

It is impossible because men will always be desperate for cunt, that's why. Indeed, if they became pickier and didn't turn into pathetic simps at the slightest whiff of cunt, then women would lose a lot of their power in the dating market, but this won't ever happen because passion, i.e. a strong motivating feeling, simply always prevails against rational thought, especially among the undisciplined folk, which comprise 99,99% of mankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:34 PM
2

True, but impossible. That's not how passion works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:41 PM
2

If it's bisexual, then hell yeah!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:36 AM
3

What kind of people are y’all having sex with? I literally cannot fathom why any one would have sex with someone that’s just lying there. Why are you so baffled? Do you not know men have to make do with what they have? Unlike women, they do not have a buffet of potential partners they can choose from, but have to search out for them and put a lot more effort into it, meaning they can't afford to be picky if they don't want to spend the rest of their lives alone. Once they find a woman not compet…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:29 AM
1

In similar vein to myself, then. IRL I'm one of the most openminded, progressive and accepting men you will ever meet, but here I turn into an antagonistic and frankly misogynistic redpiller. This sub really brings the worst out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:16 AM
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Men: whiny, insecure, resentful, envious, lazy, entitled and misogynistic. Incels to the max, nothing more to add. Pathetic and pitiful beyond words. Women: haughty, deriding, moralistic and plainly sadistic. Better than the incels (though that's really not saying much), but seem to take bizarre joy in bullying and laughing at mentally ill men while gleefully rubbing their "superiority" in living normal life in their faces. Suspiciously, all are in LTR with a Chad who treats them like gold and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:26 PM
1

Cruel, but this is indeed the best solution. Top 20% of men spreading their genes while the bottom 80% do not will prove ultimately beneficial for the society at large. I'd rather have a society of Chads than a society of incels, even if I myself must die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:52 PM
1

Why would the OP regret it horribly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:32 PM
2

Another proof that Nietzsche was right about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:51 PM
4

Sorry, but nothing you have written proves in any way that sexwork is anything near "respectable and safe". In fact, it proves exactly the opposite. Both your virgin friend and friend with a baby engaged in sexwork because they had to , not because they wanted to . The friend with a baby is even bitter about it and why would they be so, if sexwork is a respectable and safe job like any other? Did your virgin friend continue consulting prostitutes after losing his virginity? If not, why not, sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:28 PM
1

Why is this described as something a girl is “letting Chad do”? He also let her do it… unless you think it’s a given all men are exhibitionists and no women are, but women will “let” Chads do it? Men only need the green light, they don't care about anything else, whether time, place or audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:48 PM
1

This entire threat is pure proof that PPD women are nowhere near as enlightened and superior to PPD men as they like to claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:49 PM
2

There are polygamous tribes and those that put their children in school for sex at age 12, where they just have sex with each other for couple of years. Source for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:13 AM
1

Sure it does, nobody said it didn't. But realistically, what are the chances to meet one?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:17 AM
1

Why is it so hard for you people to swallow the truth? Women are the ones selecting and the one being pursued, therefore they occupy the dominant state within the dating market. They are thus the ones setting the rules and standards of what men need to do and be in order to be awarded intimacy. Sure, man can absolutely GTOW, but they are deluded if they think A) their GTOW actually harms women and B) that women will ever not have legions of other men throwing themselves at them. Redpillers and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:07 PM
1

I understand and I sympathise with you. I too was majorly depressed, anxious and with nonexistent self-esteem in my teens, but as I got older and wiser, I developed the stoic philosophy, that I cannot influence anything aside from my own decisions. It has really helped me with my mental state and the outlook on life in general, making me adopt the ataraxic/laidback disposition that actually made me a lot more charming and attractive to people. Now, I could be because I also got prettier after th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:27 PM
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Why are men here acknowledging the inequality in dating, yet whenever someone says they need to accept it because it cannot be changed, they get mightily pissed off? It goes like this: Commenter 1: "I have come to the conclusion that women are the main choosers in sexual relationships." Commenter 2: "You are correct, women are the ones having the monopoly on both sex and relationship. That's how it has been since the beginning of humanity. It is unfair that women play and men have to dance to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:55 PM
1

Probably not. She is far too of a strong independent woman to ever lower herself to something as pitiful as dating a man. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:38 AM
6

Lets say ur a super attractive guy. u have a masters in business u make over a million dollars a year. ur 6'2". ur fashion model level attractive, ur super smart. what do u do? Dedicate my life to spiritual-artistic pursuits. Also, probably participate in an orgy or swinger community.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:25 AM
2

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:55 PM
3

Um, my partner is a lot more sexdriven than I am and she's the one that usually initiates... Have you read my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:40 PM
1

And I have never encountered a woman who had a trouble of me not wanting as much sex before my current gf. Guess they are all asexual, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:28 PM
1

And I never encountered a woman who had a trouble with my libido before my current gf. Guess they are all asexual, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:27 PM
0

How exactly did I change my mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:50 PM
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Making me feel desired and sexy turns me on pretty much always and I would never make my partner feel undesirable and then claim it's because I have "responsive libido". It's extremely self-centered and inconsiderate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:35 PM
0

So you just wait until it falls in your lap? Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:31 PM
5

It didn't. My mother raised me on her own blood, gave me unconditional love and support and took from herself just so she could give me a chance to experience and learn something that would make me a better man. I will never be able to repay that sacrifice. My mother is sacrosanct to me and though I acknowledge her flaws as a human of her environment, she will always be the one I love the most and the one whom I earnestly loved first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:40 PM
2

I mean, it will be useless by that point, since they won't be acknowledging women as something worth pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:44 PM
3

So a man who was born good-looking, in a wealthy family, and blessed with height over six feet, all features he didn't work to attain, it means he's automatically more capable than your average male who worked hard to get where he is? But... this is literally true and I say that as a man. You can complain about it and call it unfair whole day long, but it is absolutely true that one's birth determines one's success in life far more than any struggle. A peasant-born man may struggle his entire li…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:47 AM
1

True that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:07 AM
2

By the time one becomes more confident and competent, one will stop chasing women and focus on greater goals in life. At least that was the case with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:59 AM
3

Men being gatekeepers of relationship is such a bullshit c-word. Men are desperate for both sex and relationship, while women can live completely fine without either. It is women who decide whom they will spend their lives with, not men. Men have to work to be selected and can be deselected at any moment, they themselves do only the broadest selection of what woman will they focus, but that's about it. Men have virtually zero power in the dating market, it's the women who are the gatekeepers of …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:48 PM
1

Men being gatekeepers of relationship is such a bullshit c-word. Men are desperate for both sex and relationship, while women can live completely fine without either. It is women who decide whom they will spend their lives with, not men. Men have to work to be selected and can be deselected at any moment, they themselves do only the broadest selection of what woman will they focus, but that's about it. Men have virtually zero power in the dating market, it's the women who are the gatekeepers of …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:44 PM
1

That's true. Men can never be victorious over women when it comes to intimate relationships. It is simply impossible. A woman will always find a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:19 PM
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Sure, it's just that a likelihood of encountering one is disproportionately small in comparison to encountering a short woman wanting a tall man because he makes her feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:44 AM
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