| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | She's a reflection of me | UnlimitedEgo | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 05:57 AM | |
| 10 | [FR] An Athiest finds Spirituality at an unexpected place | UnlimitedEgo | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/03/16 07:23 PM | |
| 5 | Gaming the wife | Basic Question | UnlimitedEgo | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 02:24 AM |
| 3 | Did I mess up? Possible failed shit test | Field Report | UnlimitedEgo | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 03:07 AM |
| 3 | Identifying Shit Tests nipping Passive-Agressiveness in the bud | Basic Question | UnlimitedEgo | /r/askMRP | 18/01/16 05:32 PM |
| 3 | I hate that everything has to be about sex. | UnlimitedEgo | /r/askMRP | 20/04/17 12:44 AM | |
| 2 | Bills | UnlimitedEgo | /r/askMRP | 20/06/16 03:38 PM | |
| 1 | Need a couple pieces of advice for some immediate help | UnlimitedEgo | /r/askMRP | 24/01/17 07:32 PM |
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| 3 | What is the best workout routine for someone just starting back?Absolutely true. Each 3.5mi run is like 500cal burn. | /r/askMRP | 23/08/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | What is the best workout routine for someone just starting back?Totally agree. | /r/askMRP | 23/08/22 03:36 PM |
| 0 | What is the best workout routine for someone just starting back?I disagree, I was 230lbs 1.5yrs ago and dropped 50lbs purely through running. Now the amount of running required is substantial (I try and get 35+ mi a week) but it can be done. | /r/askMRP | 23/08/22 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Name my boat after my wife?Rosie Palmer | /r/askMRP | 31/07/22 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone here have a chronic condition?What are the symptoms you experienced to have it checked? Just tiredness? | /r/askMRP | 26/06/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | MRP thoughts on gaming?Check k out Fitocracy it's a social media/gamification of working out. If you need that crutch, use it, but do the damn work. | /r/askMRP | 03/01/22 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Retard Science Experiment - The Holy Grail of CumKnew I felt a bit sleepier than normal taking the Zinc around lunch. | /r/askMRP | 13/08/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Retard Science Experiment - The Holy Grail of CumHow about timing? Do you take these in the morning? Pre workout? Empty stomach? | /r/askMRP | 11/08/21 08:41 PM |
| 6 | What is an acceptable frequency to visit family when married?So... you do know that this sub is around sexual strategy.... right? Do you want more sex? DO what YOU WANT. Don't be a dick and have fun? I bet if you were out doing more fun stuff with your woman she'd want to do that with you than hanging with her family. The truly hard part is being happy by yourself and a woman actually making you happier... good fucking luck. 👏 if you have. I'm in a marriage with a woman that likes to have starfish sex... and I've realized I want variety... guess what, if … | /r/askMRP | 02/02/21 03:44 AM |
| 9 | LTR is friends with a co-worker who has high SMV. How to handle jealousyAnd that you wouldn't want to be with some lady like that. | /r/askMRP | 02/12/19 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 25, 2019OYS #1 - I wasn't going to write this, but I took some advice, and instead of being butthurt - I've decided to use the time to work on myself so here it goes. I've been working on myself, starting with the fundamentals of real problem solving vs. my misconstrued idea of reality. To do this I plan on utilizing some core techniques to problem solving that are super effective in many different realms of business and manufacturing. I've learned this week that the way I think of my goals (in work, an… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/06/19 06:03 AM |
| 1 | She's a reflection of meI have direction. I have to define what my actual need of help is... Looking back I probably posted this for validation that I'm still a fucktard... | /r/askMRP | 16/06/19 02:49 AM |
| 1 | She's a reflection of meNice | /r/askMRP | 16/06/19 02:28 AM |
| 1 | She's a reflection of meI need to learn. | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 09:01 PM |
| 2 | She's a reflection of meNot approach anxiety. I just don't get results so I don't know what works. I have 0 problems flirting with ladies out and about. | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 08:47 PM |
| 1 | She's a reflection of meThanks for this. What kind of way can I know if I'm not fully internalizing it (people lie to themselves all the time). | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 05:59 PM |
| 1 | She's a reflection of meI'm not okay with that, I'm not okay with it at work, and shouldn't be okay with it in this situation. | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 05:57 PM |
| 1 | She's a reflection of meI don't initiate sex well. She dogs on me about it if the kids are even remotely around, I'll smack her ass every once in a while. But she mentions that I ignore her unless the kids are in bed then I'm on her like a fly on shit wanting pussy. | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 05:57 PM |
| 1 | She's a reflection of meYou're a year out, how has initiation evolved for you? | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | She's a reflection of meSurprised she hasn't. I am a joke of a man, I need to do better. | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | She's a reflection of meNot that I know of, but I would have left me long ago too. | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 05:53 PM |
| 3 | She's a reflection of meGame has always been a struggle for me. And I don't know how to initiate with someone whom is always on their phone scrolling the dopamine drip of Facebook. | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 05:52 PM |
| 2 | She's a reflection of meThanks for the motivation. | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 05:51 PM |
| 1 | She's a reflection of meI am going to re-read the sidebar and get back to lifting this evening. But saying and doing are two different things. Perhaps I can prove it in time. | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 05:50 PM |
| 1 | She's a reflection of meNo I'm not. I have some anger issues, I haven't been back in the gym in about 6 months. Yeah I'm a real piece of shit. I was more asking for some crawl, walk, run type steps to this stuff since I tend to go full force and then fizzle quick. | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | She's a reflection of meI think it has to do with being comfortable with being uncomfortable. I am not there yet. I started lifting, pulled a muscle in my groin and fell back into old habits. I shouldn't have done that. I got some good sex a couple times... And it was validation, perhaps a bit of monk mode would have helped. | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 01:20 PM |
| 1 | She's a reflection of meThanks for the feedback. | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 12:34 PM |
| 3 | She's a reflection of meYou are right. Thanks for this. | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Is their an optimal or MRP recommended strategy for weight loss vs muscle building in early days of Red Pill?He'll be tired as fuck. Make sure you eat plenty of greens. | /r/askMRP | 14/01/19 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Why StrongLifts over GreySkull for beginners?Ahh, I use a power rack. | /r/askMRP | 18/10/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Why StrongLifts over GreySkull for beginners?On the track? Aka on the program? | /r/askMRP | 18/10/18 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Why StrongLifts over GreySkull for beginners?I don't own dumbbells. Basement gym. Good advice though. | /r/askMRP | 18/10/18 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Why StrongLifts over GreySkull for beginners?I think Stronglifts is killing by back. I'm doing a modified bent over row so it's not going from the floor. My squat form I felt was good - but lately I've been wondering. | /r/askMRP | 18/10/18 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Lift, Faggot, LiftThanks! I don't know ow why but I've always been a person who seeks validation of gains or muscle growth or what have you. It's time to internalize this. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/09/18 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Lift, Faggot, LiftAny tips about pulling this into leading the family, I have two young kids and plan to make this my goal - my wife however eats anything she wants. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/09/18 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Lift, Faggot, LiftAre you big into counting the calories? How close do you try and get? Any rules like "I log it or I don't eat it?" | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/09/18 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Lift, Faggot, LiftI've been trying to workout several times; I have Rogue gym in my basement. I hurt myself everyone I start, about a month in my hip flexors hurt (not ache, hurt). It enevitibly causes me to fail at all MRP tasks... Sure bad discipline. Any advice? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/09/18 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Lift, Faggot, LiftCan I ask what specific diet advice you followed. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/09/18 11:09 PM |
| 2 | 25 Maxims on relationships!What are your tips to keep them out of the box? Keep em busy? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 01:21 PM |
| 2 | 25 Maxims on relationships!In reply to 41) for those that don't understand... Fill your "nothing box" with important/fun things. Then override her "everything box" with your idea of an "everything box" if you're filling your box, she'll notice and soon enough you'll be filling her box ;-). | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 01:15 PM |
| 1 | The case against being frugalIn Hinduism it's stated that one should not seek happiness but rather find happiness in the actions you take toward a goal. I think this falls right in line with everything you are stating here. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/18 03:53 AM |
| 5 | Reminder: Never discuss your feelingsIf you have to have your "feelings" talk about shit like a man with your guy friends who are at least in the same emotional realm as you. Women don't understand why guys like to solve problems and vent to vent, men do shit to solve problems. With that said, you should expect your buddies to probably give helpful feedback other than just saying, "Sandra's a bitch I'd totally unfriend her...". | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Men are horny. Women are bored.I love this post. I dance, I'm not too great at it, but I'll give it a go at weddings, where the opportunity permits. I always try and find ladies standing round not dancing and tell them to come dance with me. Dancing can be all you said and all OP said, but in all fairness if you haven't danced in front of people with anyone watching, it takes confidence and women love confident men (you don't have to be better than others, you just have to be better than most, and most aren't dancing). | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/04/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | You are the only one responsible for what you put into your body, so STFU and eat healthyDude. Kirkland's has one of the best stir fry veggie blends hit that up. Save you a bunch of work, yeah it's frozen, but still packed with nutrients. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/04/18 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Leading On Weight Loss - She's Following The Wrong WayAny help with the leading her to good goals, I try and am basically told I'm patronizing and that, "we have two kids, we can't cut out pasta" | /r/askMRP | 14/03/18 02:27 AM |
| 1 | First time posterNice. Must suck only getting 11/2 hrs a week. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/11/17 06:50 PM |
| 1 | First time posterAbsolutely nailed it on the head. Stronglifts is better than nothing and easy to get started... Hell there are entire apps devoted to it. Might I ask what split you turned to? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/11/17 06:14 PM |
| 1 | First time posterNot to discount you, as any lifting is better than no lifting for many of us, but Stronglifts 5x5 has been debunked by /r/fitness as not being all that good. Check out the /r/fitness will for alternatives. Since redpill is mostly about peacocking, check out the Building The Monolith workout and diet (not really a diet as much of an, eat everything). However, if functional strength (moreso than you would get just bulking) is your goal, something like Grayskulls split program might be more well ro… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/11/17 03:13 PM |
| 1 | First time posterLove your use of "re-brand" kind of makes the transformation more objective. Forces you to look at yourself as someone from the outside. Much with that, is how it's easier to be told to do something because someone else did it and it worked for them than it is to just do it and see for yourself. By taking an objective view you are able to put the "it's hard" out of the question, you see yourself doing the work. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/11/17 01:37 PM |
| 1 | First time posterBtw, for those who don't know WISNIFG is now an audiobook as well | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/11/17 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Birthday SexIgnore her attempts to gain frame... It's hard... Just do it. I made the mistake of taking finances over right away... That was her baby, but we weren't saving any money. She talked and i crumbled. She dug deep, even cried that I don't let her do it. I made a sacrifice to let her be a part of it, it's all joint checking and her income too. In the end. I do finances, and I do them well - she asks from time to time how that stock pick I made is doing, and I say that I made an informed bet, now I'm… | /r/askMRP | 28/10/17 07:24 AM |
| 2 | Birthday Sex/s "I was like, ooh yeah bitch I'mma fuuuck you." " I told that waitress she had nice hair, my wife was Soo jealous she nearly fucked me right there." "Then after she said no to me after telling her my b-day present was - dis dick in dat-ass I ignored her by jerking off in the bathroom. That bitch doesn't even deserve my penis."" /S Withdrawing needs to happen when you have been doing the whole thing right, OP might have some of the pie by lifting... But methinks that's it. | /r/askMRP | 28/10/17 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Birthday SexDing ding. He can't get out of his head and live life having fun and inviting her(leading her to being more fun and enjoying his company). | /r/askMRP | 28/10/17 07:15 AM |
| 4 | Birthday SexSo much this but I'll add. OP is questioning his own desires and fighting back blue pill Rambo style as he hasn't learned to catch the fly with chopsticks yet. OP, your wife has value (I hope, and don't be mad at her if you failed to lead her) does she wash and fold your dirty underoos? Wash dishes? Clean up after your kids? Take the dog out? - hopefully. Its okay to positively reinforce good behavior. If you have kids it's worth it to show them that a birthday is a FUN time for EVERYONE. Don't … | /r/askMRP | 28/10/17 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Question about tracking/planning family shitI love this post. My ADHD has kicked my ass for years. In a big fan of Todoist as well as using my phones (Galaxy note 8s) reminder feature. I also have a problem remembering deadlines... So I get 3 reminders at different intervals for priority 1 meetings, and 2 reminders for the rest. | /r/askMRP | 28/10/17 07:00 AM |
| -2 | Deconditioning the wife who is disgusted at your touch - 10 Levels of KinoWe do it because of basic human need. I need to get my rocks off just as bad as the next guy. However, far to into being a blue pill I noticed I was only fucking myself and had committed myself to only one other (I never said she was a unicorn). I like to thik of marriage as a Diet. You have to try really hard to stay on it at times, but the one time you fail, you might be okay, but you failed once it'll probably be easy to fail again. Keep failing or get caught and you'll pay dearly in one way … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/17 01:08 PM |
| 5 | Deconditioning the wife who is disgusted at your touch - 10 Levels of KinoI'll say I'm one of them. I live in a purely logical world and it is very hard for me to see this emotional whirlwind of women. This guy gives a roadmap in the shape of a 2010 Rand McNally Atlas, it might not be perfect, but you can surely still use it with some minor modifications. My wife is disgusted with me. I've been hard pressed at figuring out why, after losing 40lbs (230 to 190) she still disposed me. This guy just told me something I didn't have a thought to consider. I used to get butt… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/17 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Wife hates that I push intimacy at random timesEven since day one she hasn't liked PDA. But I get it, that's not the point you were tryig to call out. It doesn't make me a retard to be uneducated in the art of gaming my wife. If anything I was ignorant to the fact that this is something I should have learned growing up from male role models in my life. I want to learn now as I have been so enlightened. But thanks, it was nice to be called a retard by someone this morning by someone who doesn't know me. | /r/askMRP | 06/10/17 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Wife hates that I push intimacy at random timesGame is something I've struggled with as a married man. Wife even mentions she doesn't like it in front of the kids.... It's a tough one. | /r/askMRP | 05/10/17 05:56 PM |
| 1 | FR: Reward positive behavior, withdraw from negative behaviorSure, I get your point of view as well. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/09/17 02:52 PM |
| 1 | FR: Reward positive behavior, withdraw from negative behaviorAnd yet a "I'm sure they have chcicken" is placating behavior. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/09/17 01:08 PM |
| 3 | What value does your wife bring?Gotta say one could be far unluckier. My wife does a lot of this, but lacks in a few areas - still working on it. | /r/askMRP | 04/09/17 03:35 PM |
| 3 | What value does your wife bring?Start working on not giving a fuck about her or your outcome of the relationship. You'll be fine... She will not. Then start figuring out something to do positive when you get angry with her - lift, take the kids outside for a walk, clean some mess up, take a Phillips head screwdriver around the house and tighten the bolts. Don't ask just do. Start building dread and a life that you can have if she doesn't want to step up. You are a happy, motivated person. Regardless of her. Get improving. | /r/askMRP | 04/09/17 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Beginning the Journey... Wish me luck and set me straight! (warning: long)I agree with all in. But definitely layer it in. Kind of like a new drug user shouldn't snort an entire 8-ball their first time. You shouldn't instantly go monk, make all major life choices at the same time right away,. Try to understand your wife pictures you in a specific way, and they are keen on emotion - "she's a woman ". Get a plan together, slowly implement, build habits, set mini goals based on your shortcomings,. understand your end goal and intternslize it. You need to approach this as… | /r/askMRP | 03/09/17 02:08 AM |
| 4 | askTRP Megathread May 10If only I could redo highschool and college. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/17 06:12 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread May 10When all else fails, everyone can connect with music as a topic. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/17 06:11 PM |
| 5 | She doesn't know the rules have changedGreat comment, however if you plan to use it again, don't call it a yacht, us guys just unplugging barely have a houseboat... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/04/17 12:38 PM |
| 3 | She doesn't know the rules have changedDon't forget, you're your own judge. She can shoot test all she wants. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/04/17 12:35 PM |
| 1 | I hate that everything has to be about sex.Lol that some good shit. | /r/askMRP | 21/04/17 11:42 AM |
| 1 | I hate that everything has to be about sex.Sometimes heh, they're passionate, which is refreshing and just what I need. | /r/askMRP | 20/04/17 07:09 PM |
| 1 | I hate that everything has to be about sex.So I have to wait for the hamster to come before I feed it bullshit. | /r/askMRP | 20/04/17 05:24 PM |
| 1 | I hate that everything has to be about sex.And you feel you're still a significant part of their life? | /r/askMRP | 20/04/17 05:23 PM |
| 1 | I hate that everything has to be about sex.I always thought if dread as a conscious effort to implement. This passivity has she'd new light on it's meaning for me. | /r/askMRP | 20/04/17 01:12 PM |
| 1 | I hate that everything has to be about sex.Got it, thanks. | /r/askMRP | 20/04/17 01:45 AM |
| 1 | I hate that everything has to be about sex.Off of your last paragraph, maybe I'm stuck, what's the next chapter? Read it all again for the third time and hope it gets clearer? | /r/askMRP | 20/04/17 01:44 AM |
| 1 | I hate that everything has to be about sex.See I've had conflicting answers about this in the past. I've been suggested to mention about the other ladies in my work cell that flirt. She has seen it - we work at the same place, just different jobs... It's like she's unphased. | /r/askMRP | 20/04/17 01:28 AM |
| 2 | I hate that everything has to be about sex.We have a 5month old and a 2 year old, she hasn't dieted or exercised she's still cute, but not HOT... She's looked a hell of a lot better in our 10 year relationship, but we're married and I am a human that has legit needs for sex. I've dropped from 230 to 190ish and already have damn good genes. I'd say I'm a 7 or 8. When we got married When we first met I was a beta in alpha clothing a snake oil salesmen, I was the guy in the Nicholas Sparks movie who could make the panties drop, but after th… | /r/askMRP | 20/04/17 01:26 AM |
| 1 | I hate that everything has to be about sex.See.. Sometimes I wish it wasn't all criticism on this sub. I've read the sidebar a time or two for some, I just don't need the validation of posting about it. I don't put her on a pedestal, i do what I want, when I want and if she's mad I don't give two fucks. I do the finances, which are on point and I look good... What more do you need me to say before I can get a few pointers? Not everything is in the books, unless dread is ALL I'm missing. I honestly sometimes have the notion that she just … | /r/askMRP | 20/04/17 12:55 AM |
| 1 | I have 12 hours on a plane to Asia. Between eating the best and drinking the best, I'm feeling charitable. Let's do this newbies. Ask your basic questions.That's a great way to think of it. " start a new one where she knows the better you" | /r/askMRP | 28/01/17 02:22 PM |
| 1 | I have 12 hours on a plane to Asia. Between eating the best and drinking the best, I'm feeling charitable. Let's do this newbies. Ask your basic questions.I have a mantra of "I work hard for those who work hard for me". Helps me weed out who I want to joyfully spend time on. | /r/askMRP | 28/01/17 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Need a couple pieces of advice for some immediate helpThanks man, now I just need to dobit! | /r/askMRP | 25/01/17 03:51 PM |
| 0 | Need a couple pieces of advice for some immediate helpYep, but will she deserve a top shelf man then? | /r/askMRP | 25/01/17 01:33 AM |
| 0 | Need a couple pieces of advice for some immediate helpDude. You know how they say in prison you want sex but the sex you want you ain't getting and the sex you getting you ain't want. I have a basic human need for sex, I'd rather fuck a supermodel, but I can't so I'll take what I can get (sometimes). I'm improving already done much work, just recently posted. | /r/askMRP | 25/01/17 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Need a couple pieces of advice for some immediate helpLol right. Wish that wasn't crazy expensive. | /r/askMRP | 25/01/17 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Need a couple pieces of advice for some immediate helpThanks man. I have read most of the sidebar before I was medicated for my ADD. Therefore not much sunk in. I really need a guy I can call text when I'm in a rough patch or have a question - almost like a red pill hotline. Hell a podcast of new MRP or RP people who call in and ask questions like love line would surely be a hit. I'm not there yet though. | /r/askMRP | 24/01/17 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Need a couple pieces of advice for some immediate helpDo you get free when you have kids? | /r/askMRP | 24/01/17 08:56 PM |
| 0 | Need a couple pieces of advice for some immediate helpIs there a standard form of running these complaints through that spits out a shit test/comfort test marker? I see your bolding the you and she, so basically what I'm getting is that if its me the insult/problem is with its a shit test always, and if it has to do with her its a comfort test? I'm curious however when it comes down to YOU are controlling ME, is this a mixed bag? Or YOU never include ME in OUR decisions with OUR family (maybe I should back off raising my kids and let her do it as s… | /r/askMRP | 24/01/17 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Silent Treatment + Marriage ConferenceI have ADD and am medicated, however being fun and a happy presence is hard for me when we see each other day in and out. Do you have any advice for being more "fun" and "bubbly"? Thanks in advance. | /r/askMRP | 24/01/17 07:36 PM |
| 4 | 10 ways to instantly boost your appearance.Bonus Tip: cologne in your head hair. Girls will spend a lot of time near your hair. This has the bonus of keeping any bad smells from being so bad in your hair. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/16 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Are Fogging and Negative Inquiry Really Assertive?I'd pay for an Audio version.... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/16 05:04 PM |
| 1 | My first field report - 2 months inSo checked this out. I feel like I met all of Tim Ferris's websites and was sold to on every page. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/09/16 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Pregnant wife, gaining too much weight-I'm starting to WorryThis. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/09/16 01:31 PM |
| 5 | PSA: Reminder On Dread Game- New Guys especially! Don't be a dumbass with Dread Game!Something I don't see enough when dread is talked about though is that you shouldn't be mad or resentful when you use it. Remember, you're the strong alpha, be fun, have fun, and don't let stupid emotions have you doing dumb shit. If you're going out with the guys, it's fun for you- you shouldn't be thinking about (man this dread is so going to make her want me because fuck her I do what I want). Have fun, that's it. No woman wants some cocky asshole who does what they want when they want. They … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/08/16 10:36 AM |
| 1 | BillsEmail sent, thanks for the help! | /r/askMRP | 20/06/16 08:39 PM |
| 1 | BillsApparently I haven't been able to demonstrate that. And no I don't believe ins myself, I feel like I'm so confused every step of the way through this. | /r/askMRP | 20/06/16 06:15 PM |
| 3 | BillsYou're absolutely right. I don't believe in me. I've read the books, I've been lifting for 8 months now. But I'm working on it. I seriously do not understand, cannot smell shit tests... No matter how many posts I read, or books I've read - shit tests go way over me... I've been a rug that gets stepped on for so long that I can't even tell when someone is shit testing me. I'm working hard, I swear I am. Maybe 10 years of her and I being together and me being a lame ass beta piece of shit just dug… | /r/askMRP | 20/06/16 06:14 PM |
| 1 | BillsI still can't no matter what I try, understand shit testing or how to detect them.... Is it me who determines it's a legit gripe? Shes been bitching since I started doing the bills 6 months ago that it bothers her. Doesn't that make it a legit gripe? | /r/askMRP | 20/06/16 06:13 PM |
| 1 | BillsI've been doing them going on about 6 months now. | /r/askMRP | 20/06/16 04:36 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to wife when she's triggered and throwing out ultimatumsDon't negotiate with terrorists. Or your second in command planning a coup | /r/askMRP | 06/04/16 11:51 PM |
| 1 | My Journey BeganI've once been told that Anger is a secondary emotion. Figure out what is causing the anger (frustration, sadness, anxiety, impatience) and work on conditioning those to not affect you. I've used it successfully on my wife when she is angry by saying, "you aren't angry, what's wrong" it often comes down to her being hung up with her mom's medical issues and it just brings her down. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/03/16 12:25 AM |
| 2 | [Theory] Shooting the messenger and your 30 day chip.Wow, thanks OP for the op-ed on my post I really appreciate all the insight you and the others have given me. Thank you all - but that is empty unless I act on it. I really need to do this and am working as hard as I can to understand these concepts and teachings. I have acted, she was clearly not over it and I took the advice to own my shit, and have done more of that lately. For some context, her location was over the loft and in the living room down a story, my music is playing in a closed do… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/01/16 04:10 AM |
| 3 | Gaming the wifeShopping at 9pm i love it. What are you shopping for? " a wife that puts out, I hear there's a great deal on the ones from Russia this time of year" | /r/askMRP | 23/01/16 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Did I mess up? Possible failed shit testShe was right, I was wrong. She had a real concern and I just took the mood out of it, which I should have had OI against anway. | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Did I mess up? Possible failed shit testYeah I'd even struggle to give it a C+ I'm a newb to this stuff, it will take a while. Most of you guys are spot on - I need to Own my shit and become the captain before I can start barking orders to the first officer whose been steering the ship for so long. | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Did I mess up? Possible failed shit testAnd I try the whole A&A but that just gets laughed at like the bully in a high school, because I've been drunk captaining so long. I have no leg to stand on. | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Did I mess up? Possible failed shit testThanks for this, it really has cleared a lot of the fog I'm looking through. | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Did I mess up? Possible failed shit testI really think her biggest shit test was that I was just ignoring her... In all reality I didn't have anything to say. I could have Fogged her by saying, your probably right I should keep my music turned down - but I didn't think if that on the fly, and didn't want to fuck up the interaction by being all, "in sorry your Majesty, does one queen not like rock music in their keep" or kissing her ass. | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Did I mess up? Possible failed shit testYes on my third week of stronglifts 5x5. I love it. I'm a happy guy, beta me obviously wants to rush in and fix her. Obviously though her anger is a secondary emotion and she has a few family members not doing well (mother has cancer, niece having health issues at 2 years old). I want to give her comfort, I do, but I feel like she should seek it rather than automatically expect it now. I'm no white knight anymore. | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Did I mess up? Possible failed shit testBluepill dad and mom who is bipolar as fuck... So basically yes. No I'm not complaining, trying to figure out if this is a pass, fail, or something in the middle. | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Identifying Shit Tests nipping Passive-Agressiveness in the budShe makes comments on my diet. We were going out with our friends last night and she was being shitty, "what are you going to do about your diet?" I said, "I'm going to eat some pizza if you must know" "but isn't that against your diet?" "Yes" and she tried to start in more... It's not her fucking problem to worry about my diet. | /r/askMRP | 20/01/16 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Identifying Shit Tests nipping Passive-Agressiveness in the budSo the top comment in the link you mentioned in your first post is in regards to MRP women and their passive aggressiveness. Do I nip it in the bud or STFU and lift with a little implementation of shit test busting? | /r/askMRP | 19/01/16 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Identifying Shit Tests nipping Passive-Agressiveness in the budMoving slow is key. I'm running the map and squashing reds. I've already created a budget and am working out doing starting strength. I wanted to move onto the social aspects between my wife and I to try and hit it from all sides. | /r/askMRP | 19/01/16 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Identifying Shit Tests nipping Passive-Agressiveness in the budI've tried the shit test solving but she mentioned once that my sarcasm sucks... I laughed it off. My A & A responses suck and unfortunately most examples I can find are what you'd say when trying to pick up a chick... Not to a wife. | /r/askMRP | 19/01/16 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Identifying Shit Tests nipping Passive-Agressiveness in the budI've been stfu and I've read NMMNG 2x WISNIFG is near the end (I should probably read it again at least the second half). There is a lot of garbage in that book the techniques is where its at. | /r/askMRP | 19/01/16 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Identifying Shit Tests nipping Passive-Agressiveness in the budYour correct, I've been so beta everything she asks is her ensuring I'm at the bottom. | /r/askMRP | 19/01/16 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Identifying Shit Tests nipping Passive-Agressiveness in the budI absolutely agree. I'm not asking for the easy way. I have a stumbling point and asked a question. I'm so used to this hole I dug and one of the major pieces of scaffolding to repairing this mess, that is myself, is identifying and destroying shit tests. I guess what I'm looking for is something along the lines of "if what she says benefits only her its a shit test." Or "if all she says judges your integrity as a man", its a shit test. The Passive-Agressiveness is huge too and goes along with t… | /r/askMRP | 19/01/16 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Identifying Shit Tests nipping Passive-Agressiveness in the budI like this mode. Kind of like observing a chess match | /r/askMRP | 19/01/16 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Identifying Shit Tests nipping Passive-Agressiveness in the budRead this but it doesn't help point out LTR shit tests or passive aggressiveness | /r/askMRP | 19/01/16 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday I unplugged. I'm 34 years old and feel reborn. My observations...Get digital copies. And put them on your phone. Open another amazon account just for books if you must. I have a rule where I only read on rest days between lifting the weekends are for getting shit done around the house, and I check Reddit on my breaks. I'm fairly new to this all as well, shoot me some private messages if you want someone at your level. I'm 28 married for 4 years, together for 8, beta for all of them. We have a 6 month old little girl at home. My life is Being the best dad --> … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/16 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Everything is brokenAnd FFS you don't need to fix it. Fix yourself so that either A.) It doesn't bother you anymore/is a non issue, or B.) It fixes itself to your acceptance (i e. Lift then read, if you build it (a good piece of man trophy) good things will come). | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/01/16 03:43 AM |
| 1 | The_Titleists’ Get Big GuideDebating doing this as a part of a lifestyle change... Could you post a sample of meals you eat? I cook for the family so family meals are great. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Am I not supposed to EVER GET MAD?Beautifully stated | /r/askMRP | 08/12/15 02:50 AM |
| 2 | CliffNotes version of WISNIFG?Quality material. Hope you can get a better mic soon. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/10/15 08:36 PM |
| 1 | The Red Piller's Guide to Weight TrainingSo do I measure before i put it all together? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 04:20 PM |
| 3 | The Red Piller's Guide to Weight TrainingAny real easy way to track calories. I cook a lot, and am not really good at ballparking. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Unfuck your appearanceIt's actually masculine-style.com | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/09/15 05:39 PM |
| 1 | That initial kick back - what's normal?I've gotten to this second state, how do you combat those statements? "You're being such a dick lately?" "Go on, just walk away like you always do." Just got a gym membership, and she says, "When are you going to do that? Your just going to leave me and the baby home alone?". I'm so bad at answering these attacks. I often just state facts, " yep, I need to get back in the gym." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/05/15 02:35 AM |
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