UnorthodoxPhilosophR Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	What to do after getting their attention?	Outer Game	UnorthodoxPhilosophR	/r/seduction	17/01/25 01:41 PM

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12	Teenage job for the most contact with woman? Part-time bartendering, or billiard clubs, or gyms, depending on what you can have most fun in by yourself on your own.	/r/seduction	24/07/26 02:59 PM
1	Inability to talk to women and even men 💯 I agree with the root cause analysis of this fellow, however as someone who's JUST RECENTLY recovering from "not having any social skills" I wanna tell OP that a lot of inner work will be needed. For me, it was 3 main things, 2 internal: 1. My father issues had left me with a big void in me about "manhood" in general, like how to show up as a man, and assume a masculine frame. Lack of this had me on shaky foundations, where others' opinions or words or attention (or lack thereof) easily swayed…	/r/seduction	29/06/26 01:06 PM
2	What to do after getting their attention? Casual. I'm good at being a FWB but hooking up is something I'm just starting to learn, and it's much harder than I anticipated lol	/r/seduction	17/01/25 02:13 PM
1	What to do after getting their attention? Hmmmm. I guess all the videos from PUA have biased me to expect reciprocity in conversation and vibing, which is absolutely not true irl.	/r/seduction	17/01/25 02:03 PM
1	I have extreme anxiety about approaching groups Show intent of having fun and be chill about it. Don't immediately start addressing the single one directly. Continue engaging the group like you did before, and keep teasing the single one more than others. Usually, they start getting a bit physically agitated (you can see them changing the leg they're standing on, or playing with their hair) when you're teasing them and staying playful with the group overall. It also depends on the context honestly, if you're in a club, you can very quickly go…	/r/seduction	13/01/25 04:22 AM
4	I have extreme anxiety about approaching groups First of all, I feel you. Secondly, it won't go away until we try it bro. Just approach and do your best, see how it goes, and repeat until it becomes easier. One thing I can tell you is that you have to first not be needy or clingy or too impressed from the start, secondly, act friendly to the rest of the group as well as the one you're aiming for, thirdly qualify early on by directly asking "who's single among you?" BUT do not jump the gun immediately towards the single one.	/r/seduction	13/01/25 04:11 AM
1	Arighty boyos, what could I have done different last night? Seems to be like you lack showing sexual intent. Almost all the cases you just described seemed like they wanted some action, and you did progress physically with them which is good, but you need to make it clear that you two are gonna have sex. Now how to do this is also not necessarily easy, so I suggest reading about it online and calibrate what you read with the situation. Man I wish I had the same experience in Japan, ffs, they're so sex negative it's absurd 🤦🏻	/r/seduction	13/01/25 01:28 AM
6	How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on? One of the girls I'm seeing is also not at all reciprocating my touch or giving me any direct green lights, to a point that I was going to cut off the relationship after the first date to which she responded: "If I wasn't interested, I would've let you know upfront" (after our first date) which was a clear green light for me. Still, it was puzzling for me as to then why the fuck didn't she reciprocate any of my attempts to escalating things physically? So I decided to read about this online and …	/r/seduction	11/01/25 11:31 PM