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See if you buy chicken, rice and beans in bulk, it will be cheap. And you will have enough to buy veggies and stuff. I can bet you she meal preps which is how she gets her meals that cheap. If you buy and cook in bulk, you will be able to make each meal come out at $5 or just slightly above.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 03:05 PM
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Nuked my last Reddit account after a year. It's an ongoing thing with me. And all my social media have different usernames. Too many stalkers lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:34 PM
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The list of jobs isn't exhaustive. It's an example. In this sub, someone posted steps one can take to become a book keeper. And how it doesn't require a degree. You pay for a course, take the exam and get certified. This post just talks about remote as an option. There is no where in the post it says it's gonna be easy. All things take time. And for most resumes, you just need to put relevant experience. An entry-level resume is vastly different from one with a lot of experience. During my trans…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:13 PM
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Of course! The way he made her rape about him says it all. It's not I wish I was more supportive of my high school gf after she was assaulted. It's woe is me that my gf was assaulted & it makes me feel like my pee pee is small. Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:06 PM
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10 bucks says he was horrible to her in the last year of their relationship. He victim blamed that poor girl. But he claims he didn't break up with her because she's his best friend. Meanwhile he goes ahead to say he didn't break up because she was only support system. So he didn't break up with her because he wanted her to support him the last year of high school. Then tosses her aside for someone new in college. Scrotes really tell on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:31 PM
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It's great you posted here. This way the ladies here can get a hiring manager's perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 08:47 PM
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Will do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:00 PM
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Aww, thanks. I'm happy to help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 10:49 PM
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For sure. It's why I made the change. Thanks for catching that. Because the whole guide is to help people, not confuse them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:32 PM
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I know they are. I am a marketer as well. The thing is some job posts I've come across say copywriter when they mean content writer & vice versa. Anyways, I've corrected that. When I started out I was doing both, but have specialized in the years since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 08:03 PM
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I forgot Flex jobs That makes a lot of sense. I'll do an edit to include these in the post. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:20 PM
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Thank you so much for encouraging me to post this to help other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:08 PM
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Will do. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:19 PM
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Sure. I'll send you a message right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:00 PM
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Hey Ladies, I was listening to this episode and I absolutely love it. One of the ladies mentioned something about ex-sex workers going back because of the ease about setting your own hours. Remote work is the way to go. Especially if your team works asynchronously. That way you can plan your life and set your own hours. And you don't have to be a developer to work remotely. You can teach, write, do book keeping, transcribe, design art, etc. If you ladies ever want to have an episode on remote wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:10 PM
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I'm interested in reading this. Will you be posting an abridged version on the subreddit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:40 PM
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My life has been quieter and easy since the friendship ended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:27 PM
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You're spot on! I was friends with her before I discovered FDS. I was already distancing myself because her energy brought mine down. And she was very self-absorbed. Being on FDS gave me the push to end the friendship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:32 PM
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I just had to end a friendship with someone who says she is a feminist but does nothing to better her life. Her entire life is arranged to spend the weekend with her boyfriend. She's always saying how she likes my life and my apartment. That she wants that for herself but won't get a job or send in applications. Always wants to come to mine on a weekday when I'm done with work & wanting to relax. Then gets pushy when I say no. I'm prepping for the next day and trying to destress, I don't need to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:13 PM
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I was vetting someone who is proclaimed anti-misogynist who believes woman & men should be equal. Guess why I blocked him? Because he didn't see anything wrong with sexy school girl trope in porn and sex workers who use it in their content. First of all, the porn was a huge no for me. He says he's anti-pedophile but sees nothing with sexualizing teenagers. Doesn't see anything wrong with grown women dressing up in school uniforms to cosplay teenagers so scrotes can get their peepees hard to imag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:44 PM
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OMG exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:07 AM
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My major red flag for when a man doesn't see me as an autonomous person is telling them something that I like that may be deemed controversial & see how he reacts. For example, I'm childfree and I use this everything to weed out men who don't see me as my own person. Last year, I told a purportedly "feminist" man that I was childfree and would never love any man enough to put my life on the line like that for something I don't want or care about. Cue the justifications on why I shouldn't say tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:04 PM
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OMG I love this episode. There was a post on the sub about the pink pill website. I checked it out and I came across a post where women were bashing FDS because FDS only works for pretty women. And the ladies on the podcast are right. You don't have to be Miss Universe to have standards. You can't change the world but you can change your outlook. On the bullying aspect, I was fat shamed all through my teenage years because I was curvy af. Today, the way I looked as a teenager and still look is n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:19 PM
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I'm a huge Tolkien fan and I'm living for this dissertation on Tolkien's character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 11:13 PM
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Yup! Her uncle was a true LVM & so weird. Who tf is that obsessed with his niece?!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:28 PM
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I've made it a policy not to comment on people's bodies. I hope your daughter grows up accepting her body. And I'm happy she has
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:54 PM
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That's the funny thing. I was at a healthy weight but everyone made me feel fat because I wasn't skinny like my friends or siblings. Some of the skinny people from high school are getting implants to look like the stereotypical trend right now. You can't really blame yourself because we're raised to be polite and not rock the boat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:09 PM
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You are so right. I used to think I was fat growing up. Everyone called me fat. In University, I focused on loving myself. I didn't change anything about myself. And refused to till date. Somehow, the way I looked/still look is now the trend. If I had worked on getting myself thin to fit societal standards when I was growing up, I'd be fighting to fit into my skin now. I'm glad I opted out of following societal standards. I love my body and how I look regardless of the trend now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:02 PM
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🤏🤏🤏🤏🤏🤏🤏 Supporting my South Korean sisters! So proud of them!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:14 PM
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You forgot "Are you going to poison me with slugs from my garden?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:18 AM
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I'm listening to this for the second time. You ladies are doing the goddess's work!!! It's so insightful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:34 PM
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That documentary is just a thinly veiled PR job for OF! They couldn't be more transparent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:22 PM
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I'm thinking about getting the same surgery. Maybe ask in childfree to see what other women say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:37 PM
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Random idiot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:43 PM
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Honestly, I don't think I'd have kept quiet. I'd simply have said "he is attracted to dead women & wants to have sex with dead women who can't consent. I'm not exactly his type because I'm alive". Besides, it will be helping future women avoid him if they know preemptively what he is into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:42 PM
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You are so right. For me, therapy and meds have been life changing. I have so much energy. I trust myself more. And it is the only way to level up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:42 AM
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You're welcome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:51 AM
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I know! He tried to tell me that my sisters were obviously taller than 6 ft even though one is a model & is exactly 6 ft. The other is taller by just an inch. And the crazy thing is I didn't even care to confront him because I didn't care. I broke my physical requirements for him & he turned out to be an LVM. No more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:59 PM
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My ex lied about being 6 feet tall. Until he met one of my younger sisters. Both my younger sisters are very slim and are 6 feet & 6 ft 1" respectively. Dude was a measly 5ft 8inches. Why lie though? Maybe he felt he needed to measure up to my other exes who were both 6ft +
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:44 PM
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It's terrible. There are so many atrocities. That episode made my heart hurt. It was so awful to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:01 AM
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For ladies who wants to look into how awful and evil Autism Speaks is, start with this video from Blair (aka the illuminaughtii): https://youtu.be/5Va_XXoD5LE She has a whole playlist on Autism Speaks & other problematic things concerning autism (like people thinking bleach cures Autism): https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLqZc-IxvRf2eBvy4-zYY-gproblematic I hope this helps everyone here be a better ally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:09 AM
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The Glamorise bra is the same for me. I love jogging and it makes me feel like I don't have breasts at all. It was so amazing. No backpain or feeling self conscious. The Glamorise bra originally retail for $60 but I got mine for $19.99 and in two colors. One in black and another in brown. If you have any friends who do cardio, you can recommend this to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:32 PM
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I just have a recommendation for ladies with bigger busts who work out and are looking for a great workout bra at a cheaper price. Check out Glamorise bras on Walmart. I bought one for $20 and I had to buy another because the first one provided amazing support during my workouts. It is the best sports bra I've had in a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:40 PM
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Wowza! What good looking man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:36 PM
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I'm on year 3 over here. And it's been the most peaceful time in my life. Concentrating on me, my health and my career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:59 PM
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I do this with my niece. I tell her she's my baby and a kickass person. She's 6 and now calls herself a queen. We do brunch and other stuff. I send her lovely presents. My latest is a bunch of her favourite flowers and a headband. That little girl is gonna grow up loved & with high standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:31 PM
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He's truly delusional tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 11:34 PM
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I'm so happy for you! You are doing great. With you being happy and free, your baby will get to enjoy the best version of you possible! You've got this, sis! We're all rooting for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 10:46 PM
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He's not worth another thought. And you're doing amazing, Sweetie! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:22 PM
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Here's the funny thing from this short novella. He claims he broke his deal breakers for you. Does he expect you to jump up and down for joy? Isn't that a good indication that you were right to break things off as you both weren't a good match? You saw red flags and decided to end things after communicating you weren't a match. He claims he saw red flags but stayed. Yikes! It means you were so right to run far away from this scrote. And if he was a well adjusted person, he would have said cool, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:03 PM
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What I've never understood is how men lurk here. Like I don't go to subs that don't interest me to lurk and insert my opinions. I go to subs I like and I'm welcomed at. It's so mind boggling to me. You don't like FDS, then don't lurk on FDS. It's really that simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:39 PM
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I'll check that out too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:53 AM
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Thanks for the podcast recommendation. Always on the look out for feminist podcasts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:51 PM
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It is. Just search for Murder Most Irish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:50 PM
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Yeah, that woman is sadly not your friend. I know it can be hard trying to save friends, but until they want to be saved, it's best to keep your distance. Also, this man hates women. See how he's telling on himself. The entitlement to your time & response is telling. Apparently, he expects you to sit by your phone pining for messages from men. What an asshole!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:34 PM
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Will do. I'll need to flesh it out with more details.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:43 PM
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The technology is over a decade old. Not sure if it's public yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:51 PM
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Wow! I thought that only happened on TV shows lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:49 PM
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This had me howling!!! Imagine trying to keep up with a 20 something year old woman and having a stroke in the process. Hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:59 PM
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There is more. Bill has a standing yearly vacation with his ex, the woman he dated before he married Melinda. He'd go to her cottage in North Carolina and hang out for a week. Oh, and he asked his ex's approval to marry Melinda. And the Epstein thing! Disgusting! It feels like she waited until their kids were grown to be like "fuck it, I'm out!". I hope she gets half of his billions and lives a great life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:14 AM
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The technology exists for creating sperm. You can create sperm from bone marrow already. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/04/070412211409.htm#:~:text=Adult%20stem%20cells%20extracted%20from,how%20sperm%20cells%20are%20created.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:31 AM
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Definitely interested in this list. Do you mind sharing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:11 PM
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I love reading stories of childfree women. I love the fact that there are many childfree women in this community. Society depends on women willing to bear children. Without us, society will collapse as there won't be new labour or soldiers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:33 PM
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I totally understand. Please keep posting. Looking forward to more insights from you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:52 PM
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Hey OP, Can you come on the podcast? I would love to listen to your insights on relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:36 PM
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I'm speaking in the context of surrogacy. If you as a woman who is with a HVM decide to have kids, that's fine. Are there risks with pregnancy? Sure! In a HV relationship, there are ways a woman can be compensated to mitigate the effects of pregnancy. For example, a woman in a HV relationship can get surgery to correct things like prolapsed uterus and other stuff. She has financial backing of two incomes to help correct such things. She can take time off from work & have a partner who shoulders …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:12 PM
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That's what I said to him. I'm no longer friends with him. Too many red flags for him to be a good friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:43 AM
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Surrogacy is very exploitative of women. I've had a man who claims to be a feminist say that when he gets married, he would rather have kids via surrogacy because pregnancy is rough and he wouldn't want to lose his wife. It boggles my mind because I told him surrogacy is very exploitative. It's basically a rich person renting a woman's body for 9 months. But guess what, the effects of pregnancy continue past those 9 months. The woman in question could suffer mentally afterwards. Have complicatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:47 AM
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It feels like you have described my family. All my life I have been told that being different is bad and that I was being difficult by wanting to have a different identity from that of my sisters or family. Not following in their path of University, marriage & kids. I am not close to my family at all. My sisters are married and complain about never having lived alone or experiencing life for themselves, the way they want. Then in the same breath tell me that I will die single, alone and unfulfil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:13 PM
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I need this blanket too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:16 PM
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Wearing my natural hair in a pretty high bun with a cute navy blue headband. Your uncle can die mad about it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:21 AM
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Listening on Spotify right now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:49 PM
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You're right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:07 PM
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One of my favourite Instagramers made a video about a man coming up to hit on her in a park. She says no & she wants to be left alone. This man wouldn't leave. She got so uncomfortable with this creepy scrotes staring at her from yards away that she walked to a square with more people. She approached two women to tell them what was happening. And guess what, that creep had harassed both women too. He followed his new would-be victim back to the square where she met other women he already harasse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:02 PM
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Yeah, he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 01:04 PM
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I like how honest he is about things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 01:03 PM
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I love Dr Youn. I watch his reels all the time. He post educational and funny content. I love his series on countering the misogyny from men when their wives/girlfriends go under the knife. For a plastic surgeon, he doesn't actually push his business. For example, he never actually says you need to get plastic surgery if you want a bigger butt. Instead, he says try exercise first and other things. And plastic surgery should be the last option. From what I have seen on his Instagram, he seems lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:38 AM
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Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:05 PM
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And this group of women who want mainstream acceptance never realize that no oppressed group has ever freed itself by appealing to the morals of their oppressors. Oppressors won't be oppressors if they had any morals and realized it's wrong to keep a group under our boots even though their oppression benefits us. They would rather dismantle a system that oppresses others to find a more equitable system. But yeah, choice feminism is just bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:29 PM
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I have a whole ass list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:31 PM
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LMAO! Can't believe he goes around committing crimes against fashion and being creepy to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:00 AM
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That's what he deserves. Imagine thinking your need to disrespect women trumps their safety and a business' revenue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:28 PM
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The audacity! It's like men think any woman around them is supposed to cater to their needs. My uncle apparently wanted to pawn off his children, whom I've never met, to me for 2-3 months over the summer holidays. Like the sheer audacity made me speechless. He apparently didn't want to burden my sisters since they already had kids. I said no. Then he tried to guilt me. I told him I was busy and needed to go. Then blocked him. I just can't with such people. They're absolutely disgusting and entit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:27 PM
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I find it incredibly offensive and dehumanizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:37 PM
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If someone didn't give you their phone number or okay someone else giving it to you, getting their number and calling them is a violation of their privacy. He deserves far worse than being embarrassed & uncomfortable. Because he already violated your privacy, even if it was your dad's number. I bet if he had gotten through to you, he would have made you deeply uncomfortable and creeped out. So yeah, I have no sympathy for any such person. My policy after the gym incident was to block anyone who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:51 PM
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Like the same way some rando on another female focused sub told me that a male trainer at a former gym taking my contact info from the receptionist's computer and calling/texting me to ask me on a date when the only thing I have ever said to him was hello, meant I was personable. I found it to be a violation of my privacy and I ended my membership at the gym. Imagine thinking that someone saying hi to you, a member of staff at the gym they go to, means they definitely want to jump on your penis …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:30 PM
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Stopped watching him where he made a video talking about how he's single but his young female cousin has a crush/bf type thing. And there was this voice over with "is this a whore house?" I was so disgusted. I blocked him. I don't know what makes this man so comfortable to use whore house when talking about a female child. Nah, I don't condone such trashy behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:53 AM
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I usually say: hey everyone, hey folks and hey people. It's gender neutral and very respectful of everyone present.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:18 PM
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Here's an internet hug from a stranger. One thing I want to say is that doing your best is all you can do. Being disillusioned can make you start to doubt your ability to change things. But keep doing your best. I'm glad this patient has you. She knows that not all medical professionals will dismiss her and her situation. I really hope there is a way for her to get housing and be away from her home life because that's toxic. And again, thank you so much for trying to help her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:15 PM
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First one is my ex. If you didn't wear a tank top and get stared at by creeps, I wouldn't have ignored you. This is after I have asked what's wrong. Instead of communicating, he would go radio silent. Then a few days later when I confront him about the radio silence, I'd get hit with the above. I wish I could go back in time to visit 21yo me and tell her to dump him sooner. Not 8 months later. Like at the first sign of his manipulative & insecure shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 11:56 PM
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Listening to the first episode!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:05 PM
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I definitely believe this is a trickle truth situation and it's worse than a "fart fetish".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:36 PM
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He is definitely guilt tripping her. And manipulating her by acting like he is vulnerable. He isn't. She needs to uncouple her life from this man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:35 PM
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Why does this "fart fetish" sound like a prelude to a major kink that she will definitely be turned off by?! It's like a cheater trickle truthing you by admitting they had a crush on their coworker. Then once you've calmed down, they will admit they had acted on their crush and had an emotional affair. Before finally admitting that the emotional affair was a whole other relationship. Feels like he has a "been shat on" fetish and is trying to ease her into it by using a lesser thing. Also, why di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:49 PM
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I was just thinking the same. He could have easily killed her if the cameras weren't on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:57 PM
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You should.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:36 AM
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I'm West African, I can't cook without scotch bonnet peppers. I adore them but they're so full of flavour and work in a homemade pepper spray in a pinch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:23 AM
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Same in my country. I have this spray with Scotch bonnet oil dissolved in alcohol. I have used it twice on male neighbours who harassed me. Works wonders. In a pinch, you can use the scotch bonnet oil to give heat to food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 11:15 PM
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Dr Tony is such a vibe. I love his videos. There is one where he talks about the husband stitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:41 PM
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You're welcome. I too was once an adherent of choice feminism. But in the last 3 years, I've come to realize that choice feminism isn't real feminism because it doesn't empower women and appeals to men. I love this community because it's helped deprogram me. And it keeps helping me. I hope more women come to FDS because we all need to be deprogrammed and learn to truly empower ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:47 AM
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One thing I want to point out about the anti-FDS quote is the feminism the person is talking about sounds like choice feminism. And wtf is choice feminism? It's basically feminism lite where women get to choose. But that sort of feminism falls flat on its face when you consider that women who are adherents don't undergo any form of de-socialization to be able to make choices that actually benefit them. When women subscribe to choice feminism (aka feminism lite or whatever you want to call it) wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:42 PM
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You just described my mum and how she's called me fat all my life even when I wasn't. And when I added weight, I obsessed over losing it. And when I did finally lose the weight, my mum will make passive aggressive comments about my weight loss & then tell me that I'll gain it all back. We don't really get along because I refuse to make myself smaller & follow the wife/mother path like my siblings. I know my mother got the short end of the stick with my father. He is a true LVM (I don't want to g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:17 PM
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I didn't even know he was in You. Every couple of months, this stuff comes up. Last two times were underaged girls on Twitter and Instagram. He sort them out first. One even went to see him when he had a show in her city. He claims he didn't know they were underaged. Yeah, right! You only need talk to a 16yo to know that she's a literal kid. He's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:05 AM
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This isn't the first time I'm seeing this Comedian on the news for messing around with underage girls or assaulting women. I used to watch his comedy and thought he was funny (for a man) until I saw the news about his percy pedo behavior. Stopped all of that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:33 PM
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LMAO. As another African, this is literally many women I know. This is why I have very few female friends. It's hard to find women who don't buy into this BS. A common thing for these types of women is to drop their single friends once they get married. They got picked & feel they're better than you. Even if they married an LVM who doesn't provide or contribute to the family in anyway. I can't tolerate pickemeishas. I have been one. I have recovered and I need people around me to recover too. Be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:36 PM
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Same sis. Childfree af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:00 PM
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I found FDS because someone was badmouthing it as a hateful sub full of single hateful women. Came over for a look and never left. Lol Same with a few other subs I belong to. Found them because people were demonizing them. It's just free publicity at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:47 PM
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I don't listen to music that degrades women. Or music that's written as romance but displays LVM behavior. E.g Ed Sheeran's New Man and Happier. Even songs by female artists that condone LVM behavior are not on my playlist. E.g some of Beyonce's songs. Just like food, what you read and listen to affects your mental and emotional well being. So I'm particular about the kind of music I listen to. I haven't listened to Hip Hop in years. I made the switch from Hip Hop to Alternative rock 10 years ag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:34 PM
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Women are not rehabilitation centers for damaged, mentally ill or broken men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:14 PM
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Congratulations on getting out! I'm so happy for you! Internet hugs from another sister!!! We're all rooting for you, queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:39 PM
15

And I'm so grateful for them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 01:12 AM
17

FDS is really awesome! I'm glad I found this place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 01:12 AM
69

Women from poor countries like Myanmar are already been trafficked to China to marry these scrotes. It's infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:37 PM
21

In addition to dealing with sexism, black women have to deal with racism & plain ignorance. Imagine a doctor who thinks you can tolerate much pain because of your skin colour. Or a doctor who doesn't even know what skin cancer looks like on dark skin. I always opt for female doctors. And always black female doctors. Can't be dealing with sexism & racism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:02 PM
10

Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:02 PM
62

Exactly. And call you clingy while abusing you so more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:13 AM
181

Why are men so obsessed with being needed though? Being wanted is enough. But no, you gotta need them. They will abuse, gaslit, manipulate & break you down so you can need them. Be ware of men who spend time trying to make you need them. They are abusive af! Like Trevor Noah said: ...Men want a woman who is free because their dream is to cage her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 11:30 PM
66

This is the truth. All my breakups have been because I don't recognize myself anymore in the relationship & being sick of low effort & disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:58 PM
98

My limit is 2 years. If you don't know by the 2nd anniversary, then it's time to keep it moving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:43 PM
10

You really do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:06 AM
35

Your hands are so pretty. You should consider hand modelling. And I love your ring ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:24 PM
333

LMAO!!! Ladies, is it a hate crime to stay single? 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:07 PM
120

He doesn't want strangers in his house. He won't do the care work without complaining. He's an utter waste of space
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:40 PM
39

Why is this woman still having sex with this man? Like I don't get it. Throw the whole man away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:34 PM
390

The selfish asshole refused in home care because he doesn't like strangers in his house. He said he had to act like mom & dad to teenagers who can absolutely feed, clothe and take care of themselves. Not even toddlers or little kids. I bet he has never raised or done any parenting of his kids before. What an absolute asshole!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:21 PM
27

I agree with this, OP. Go straight to HR. That scrote needs to respect privacy & to quit harassing female coworkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:48 PM
76

Amen to this! Early this year, some random scrote that I met at a friend's party found me on Instagram. After 3 conversations, asks me if I wanted to be friends with benefits. So, I asked him "what was the benefit for me?" Is it money? Cos I don't need his money. I had a great job. Is it emotional needs and companionship? Cos I have great friends who uplift me in every way. Is it sex? Cos having sex with him isn't a guarantee of an orgasm. And my vibrator can do it in 15 minutes tops. Best of al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:22 PM
16

What a load off your shoulders! I'm so happy for you 🤗 🤗🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:03 AM
49

OMG! I'm so happy for you, queen! Here's to the best years of your life 🎉🎉🎉🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:15 PM
2

Who lives like this? Fleas don't even live like this! Wtf! I hope this lady is a professional cleaner & billed this dirty scrote for a lot of money. I'm so darn disgusted 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:04 PM
49

This post literally reads like: My husband is trying to murder me by pushing me off the stairs. He will most likely claim I accidentally fell if I'm badly injured or dead after he pushes me. I'm scared which is why I'm posting here for reassurance. Also, I'm 6 months pregnant. But let's go ahead & ignore all the statistics & warning signs that points to this scumbag I married trying to murder me. How do I get my husband to stop trying to murder me?!" I feel terrible for this woman. I hope she ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:37 PM
15

Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉 This is some serious queen sh*t!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:59 PM
87

She has blinders on. He wants her to stay home & raise them even though she will potentially earn more than he will. I don't think she is ready to face reality. Such men will tamper with your birth control just to get their way. I learnt this the hard way. Hopefully she gets out before it's too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:51 PM
176

The funny thing is she doesn't even want kids. I love the sub this was taken from. Everyone is telling her to dump him. I hope she follows through and joins #KickHimOut2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:30 PM
14

You're right. He could try worming his way back within the 3 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 10:41 AM
105

You're so right. One of the disservice done to women is asking us to communicate with people who don't want to hear or listen to us. You can communicate everyday with brick wall and get nothing back. I have a policy of never saying anything more than thrice. If I have to repeat something, it's obvious you don't take me seriously & I'm wasting energy that can be used better in other areas of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:16 PM
178

She did communicate but he uses anxiety as an shield to deflect & not listen. I'm so happy that this queen is leaving this leech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:35 PM
18

Anyone who calls women "females" is someone that you shouldn't even give the time of day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:30 PM
4

You're a queen. Don't let anyone treat you less than a queen. Rooting for you!! 💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 10:11 PM
1

Oh. Happy belated birthday. And great job on the cake. It looks amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:09 AM
2

Happy birthday, queen! 💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 10:55 PM
5

They do it intentionally to see how much you can take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:52 AM
94

So damn true! My ex: I don't deserve you. I'm lucky to have you. Pickmeisha me: Awww My ex: * goes ahead to show me he doesn't really deserve me* When people say things like this, believe. Don't hang around thinking they're being romantic. They're not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:23 PM
48

And they bloom. You get amazing flowers. And they reward your hard work with growth. Source: indoor plant lady
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:42 PM
21

And things will be a lot easier once she leaves his ass. She won't have a black hole draining her electricity, wifi, groceries & water. She can move to a smaller place since it's just her and her child. More freedom & more money. I'm even willing to bet she probably chipped in to buy that gaming setup that her waste of a space husband is glued to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:05 PM
100

He says he has 6 baby mamas to choose from as if Ciara isn't happily married to a HVM who worships the ground she works on. This guy is toxic & LV af. Anyone who sees him in a positive light belongs in a dumpster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 10:59 AM
5

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 10:50 AM
3

My ex won't listen to me on any issue. I'd often warn him that the issue could lead to bigger problems in future. He never listened. And I was always right. Then he'd ask me to help him fix messes he made. I resented him so much. He was LV. I know better now. I won't put myself in that situation ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 10:40 AM
17

I did this shit once and it ended with him owing me $2k which he still hasn't paid back after 2 years. Never again! I refuse to be fix it felix for any man. Let him build himself before coming to me. Come correct or stay home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:40 PM
71

I saw so many comments gaslighting her. She made the right choice to block & delete that dumpster fire. You can be exclusively dating someone to be sure before it turns into a relationship. You can be exclusive romantically or even sexually. The fact that men in the comments are losing their minds is funny af but very unsurprising. No woman should let anyone triangulate them like that asshole tried to do to her. I, for one, am incredibly proud of her. She stated her boundaries. He agreed. He cro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 03:17 PM
8

He sounds controlling. Like who keeps a tab of what they do for their partner? I bet he brings up all he's done in an argument as a way of controlling her and making her feel bad. Time to throw the whole man away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:06 AM
39

I always tell them to die mad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 01:26 PM
214

Traditional is the African man's way of saying I'm a misogynistic bastard who will make you regret ever meeting me. Source: An African woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:11 AM
17

Wtf? I hope she dumped his ass. What an asshole!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 02:32 AM
2

I adore Dr Ramani. Reached out to her for a quote early this year and she was so gracious. Def a queen in my book. And her YouTube channel is great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:19 PM
43

This idiot says to go outside. But to go outside, I have to carry pepper spray, have my keys in my palms like a knuckle duster, be hyper aware of my surroundings to be sure nobody is following & make sure to be civil to men so nobody gets butt hurt & assaults me for saying no. Our feminism isn't radical enough tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 01:16 PM
130

Another of his quotes from the same book that I love: Like a compass pointing north, a man's accusing finger will always find a woman. Remember that, Miriam. And this is true in every sense of the word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:44 AM
37

It's never too late to start afresh. Let that man go and move on, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:09 PM
12

Time to cut your losses. She's in this cycle and until she decides she has had enough & wants out, there is nothing you can do. You also need to think of yourself too. You're not her therapist. She uses you as dumping ground & acts all offended when you don't want to be around the person that abuses her. I had a former friend like this too. Her boyfriend was abusive. She would cry to me about stuff he did or said to her. He'd lovebomb her & she'd ignore me for weeks. When he hit her or cussed he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:54 PM
140

I once commented on a post about harassment on TwoX. I was sharing my experience on how a trainer at my former gym took my phone number from the receptionist & called me to ask me out for drinks. The most I ever said to this guy was hi & hello. And how violated I felt. And a random man told me that I shouldn't take it that way. That asking a personable person out for drinks was okay. Personable to him was simply a random woman saying hi as she walked past him. Like wtf! I really wish they would …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:53 PM
5

Hugs from me. 🤗🤗 I'm glad you have such a great guy in your corner. This too shall pass and you will come out stronger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 12:45 PM
24

LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:03 PM
7

I don't even make up to 2% of that and I don't want to get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:44 PM
9

I remember the reality show. He did come across as a great dad on it. But his recent actions prove he isn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:24 PM
16

Looks like his daughter can't wait to get away from him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:09 PM
108

TI is guilty of this. I feel awful for his daughter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 08:47 AM
23

I love her poetry. If you haven't read it, you should! It's full of queen sh*t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 08:16 PM
1

Exactly. And the thing is many of them won't believe you. So you have to let them learn by experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:12 PM
34

I pity the poor woman and I'm sending her tons of love and light. She's gonna need it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:58 PM
43

Girlfriend, not slave. Girlfriend, not live-in maid. Girlfriend, not an enabler for your dirty crusty ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:30 PM
38

Wow. That's super depressing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:25 AM
150

Indian men are the worst. Every time a creep has traumatized me with nude photos of their unwashed genitals, it's either Indian men or the men from my country. I watched this Netflix show, Indian Matchmaking, and I felt so bad for many of the women. Their families were pushing for the marriage so bad that they paid a matchmaker. There were so many successful women who believed they weren't complete without marriage. I hated the coddling of the men and the entire misogyny. I hope women in every p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:12 PM
28

It's a corruption of up and down according to Urban Dictionary. So, dude was probably running from pillar to post insisting she sign a pre-nup but he was the gold digger in the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:56 PM
7

Congratulations 🎉🎉! Here's to the rest of your life, queen!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:22 PM
12

Ugh, so much! Last year, this feminist group in my country had a women only event. The wait staff, bouncers and everyone involved in the event were women. They had a panel on different issues affecting women and ended with an after party. The scrotes couldn't stop crying that for 4 hours, women were in a space where they didn't have to watch their drinks like a hawk, they didn't have to put up their guards and could have fun without men around. Scrotes claimed the event was aimed at discriminati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:34 AM
48

Throw the whole man away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:43 AM
18

Wtf!!! What a psycho!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:20 AM
14

She probably got tired of breaking out in hives and pimples. She just had to wash it because her face can't take it anymore. Men are so fucking gross!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:16 PM
145

This is solid advice! I'm gonna use it. I was so happy to find this subreddit. I was leveling up and working on myself after my last relationship 2 years ago. I made some ground rules for dates and what I expect. I was pleasantly surprised to see similar stuff in the handbook. For example, if anyone asks me for a coffee/tea date, it has to be at this French-Italian cafe I'm a regular at. They serve cute delicious pastries, gelato, sandwiches and amazing coffee. Their afternoon tea is so amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:13 PM
3

I wouldn't give my beaten up 2nd hand copy of the Hobbit for a man! Whoever designed that shirt needs their brain checked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:37 PM
16

I hope she makes that an ex-bf because wtf!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:00 PM
45

When someone shows you who they are the first time, believe them and act accordingly. If he ghosts, cheats or does anything that's a deal breaker, walk away from the dumpster fire and keep it moving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:00 AM
14

It's this same attitude that have regular guys thinking they can beat a pro female tennis player because testetorone & sh*t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:27 PM
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