| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | Meditation | UnsureAboutNext | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 12:52 AM | |
| 10 | I made it! | UnsureAboutNext | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/24 11:29 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 17 | Guys it’s really simple. Don’t get married period!You lost me at Trump. Yea; marriage is fucked but your Trump comment is more fucked and I now know not to listen to a word you type. Not super against Trump or anyone but to think any one man can change things, haha what are you eight? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/25 03:32 PM |
| 1 | MeditationThat’s amazing! I hear you, I have this feeling of love and I really want to make sure that feeling translates in my interactions with others from now on. To start this all off I first had to just isolate myself and go, what’s my reality? Turns out none of it mattered and what I found was this energy that is very nice. The labels in this world are the most dangerous thing imaginable to an individual. My ex saw a therapist in 2017 for five minutes and concluded I was bi polar then the therapist r… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 01:54 PM |
| 2 | MeditationI bet Bali is real nice! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 04:40 AM |
| 1 | MeditationDont really know what technique yet I guess. A couple weeks before my trip I was like constantly going into nothing without really knowing anything then after my trip I’ve just been using the same tools. I do put on classical music for like one to three hours plus most days though and just see what happens. Definitely need to keep learning and we’ll see. I think of importance is when I had my trip I was joirnaling with classical music on just seeing what came. Took about 2.5 hours until I let go… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 03:15 AM |
| 1 | MeditationYea the like pure love thing is very interesting, still working on how to display it and deal with it. When you can conceptually love John Wayne Gacy as much as your child, it’s an interesting place to be. I understand not understanding that and how it might sound nuts! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 03:12 AM |
| 1 | MeditationYea | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 02:29 AM |
| 2 | MeditationThank you for the words! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 01:23 AM |
| 2 | MeditationThank you very much for the words! I can’t help but look at the day I tripped naturally as my rebirth. I wrote “am I alive” after, I had no idea how profound that one experience would be! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 01:23 AM |
| – | I made it!Good! I wish you the best. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/24 12:59 AM |
| 4 | How do you cope with guilt?Only thing that helped me was to actually know and realize I want nothing in life. The power of now and all that. Took years and years and more than a divorce but I’m now where you could put me in a cell for the rest of my life and I don’t think it would affect me. When I was younger I realized all that stuff but didn’t really know it, now I genuinely know it to my core. Crave nothing, want nothing. It’s all good after that. Psychedelics help. I built all my tools like 15 years ago and after a b… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/24 10:29 PM |
| 5 | Wife has a boyfriend already…In my mid twenties I read tryptamine palace, the god theory, stumbling on happiness, the power of now amongst others while tripping for months. I came to some good conclusions then life got in way. Married, kid and all that. Separated two years ago it was bad then did a rebound marriage which obviously was bad. Lost everything and slept in my car for a few nights. Over the past six months I’ve gotten really content and have used my tools of the past, no drugs yet. Planning to do a retreat now my… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/24 11:51 PM |
| 6 | Wife has a boyfriend already…Ayahuasca retreat | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/24 11:04 PM |
| 5 | Am i evil ?If you’re evil then so am I and I’ve done years of therapy and thoughts and have concluded I’m not. Your life is yours, it’s all your perspective and no one else’s. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/24 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Modern women aren’t worth itHaha for sure! Oh mine does | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/24 10:36 PM |
| 4 | Modern women aren’t worth itPretty much. Single forever for me and loving it | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/24 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Need to vent…Your ex wife is awful! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Still can’t believe I’m hereSo happy to remain single forever! I should have taken the attempted suicide like a year before we met at a sign haha | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/24 11:43 PM |
| – | Still can’t believe I’m hereYou’re preaching to the quiet, been there! I could share some crazy shit! My ex had be diagnosed with a different mental illness every other month. I don’t doubt you weren’t abusive, my ex claims and still claims so much from me. Just the other day I was messaging her about some child schedule stuff and she calls my responses outbursts which they definitely weren’t. It will get better. I know the time feeling! It’s awful. You just have to figure out you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/24 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Finalized today.Haha, yes! | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/24 10:09 PM |
| – | Still can’t believe I’m hereWhat I’ve learned is that women are different than men. We view marriage as forever, they use it to build themselves up and destroy us. I was married 8 years to the “love of my life” and she was nuts. I also thought we would work things out and we’d grow old together but she portrayed me as the monster once she got into therapy and ultimately divorced me. It fucking sucked! Like bad! But after two years I love being single and have never been better physically or mentally. Nothing helped me unti… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/24 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Need your supportI got separated two years ago, divorced last year. It was hell! No easy way to describe other than hell. My ex also treated me like shit and had me diagnosed with all these mental illnesses at various times, have been on countless medications etc. I still have to deal with her because of our daughter which absolutely sucks. But I will say my physical and mental health have never been better. I love being single, it’s amazing. I messed up and married someone else like right after my divorce, shoc… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/24 09:51 PM |
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