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It's the halo/horn effect.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/26 01:22 AM
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This is true based on my experiences in real life. Often times I would meet women (mostly non white) at communist/socialist events who would be highly outspoken about feminism and then when I would meet their partners nearly all the time they would be white tall traditionally masculine men. You would think that progressive people would give unconventional men a chance. And the points about going 50/50 is also true based on my experience, it's like they want to have their cake and eat it too. Dat…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/25 12:56 AM
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When the average woman is single you can assume she is still sexually active, when an average man is single you can assume he is not sexually active.
/r/BlackPillScience01/05/25 12:53 AM
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I was a part of those online communities before Elliot Roger and when that incident happened it felt so bizarre seeing a word used by such an obscure small online community become part of mainstream language and how it is used as just a generic insult now. It is also how I know how heavily straw manned "incels" are. It is actually so bad, similar to people thinking Canadians live in igloos.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/25 01:41 AM
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This doesn't contradict the black pill, you are just being racist and calling non Swedish immigrants ugly. A good looking man is good looking no matter which country he immigrates to.
/r/BlackPillScience24/04/25 12:42 AM
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But isn't the common sentiment that gender equality would lead to less of this happening? So just more reporting of it doesn't explain it.
/r/BlackPillScience24/04/25 12:41 AM
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Primitive low class behavior
/r/BlackPillScience22/03/25 01:46 AM
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It's because good looking and high status men have women throwing themselves at them, so they have no need to be nice, it's only the undesirable men that are forced to be nice to women.
/r/BlackPillScience02/03/25 10:24 PM
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yeah and this only applies to average and below men. The top % of men who have women throwing themselves at them are just as non-romantic as the average woman.
/r/BlackPillScience15/02/25 05:49 PM
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It's really only on reddit (filled with outliers or liars) where it's common to hear about men making less than their wives and even letting their wives work while they stay home and raise the kids. In real life hypergamy is extremely common and obvious. In more patriarchal developing countries it's more money and status based, and in more equal western countries it's more looks based.
/r/BlackPillScience15/02/25 03:59 AM
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I don't agree about social skills mattering based on my experiences and what I see in real life based on the single guys I know. I will do my best to explain why I think is: I have a friend who is extremely social, his work requires him to talk to many different people every day, I don't want to dox myself but basically he is kind of a social worker or social worker adjacent. He's very extroverted and people love being around him, No one would point to him as an example of a guy with poor social…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/10/24 12:02 AM
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I think often times people use the word objectified as a strawman. When a man or woman are horny it's normal to want to have sex, that doesn't mean they are objectifying the other. Like do people objectify their accountant that does their taxes? the cashier that is cashing you out at the dollar store? The doctor treating your illness?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/24 02:16 PM
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I don't know why there is such a push to portray lonely unwanted lowest of the low men as the ones sexually assaulting most women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/24 12:32 PM
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I don't think there is anything wrong with being nice, or too nice. The way people perceive other men as being a pushover or weak is based on how they look. A short ugly guy with recessed features and a thin frame who doesn't speak out when someone insults him will be perceived as being timid and a pushover, while a tall good looking robust thick skulled guy would be perceived as being stoic and morally superior for turning the other cheek. And despite what I read on reddit most of the "nice guy…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/24 11:36 PM
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Women have sex for other reasons that physical attraction, like for money, or for a promotion, or she had to settle with a guy and wants a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:24 PM
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It's looks, money and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:22 PM
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I have many cousins and friends with young children and I have spent a lot of time with them taking them to parks and amusement parks and play dates, and it never helped me with women. The only thing that helped me was getting surgery, and my current girlfriend even tells me that I would be a great father, so I know it's not me being overconfident with my skills with children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:20 PM
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No looks are extremely important. improving my looks is the only thing that helped me with women. Otherwise there would be no correlation with good looking, rich or high status and success with women. What women say and what they do are often times extremely contradictory. In surveys and on dating profiles they might say things like they are attracted to intelligence or humor but when it comes time to actually date it's just looks, money and status
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:17 PM
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Yeah there is also money and status. and to a lesser degree dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:12 PM
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Women virtue signal. After I had surgery and was able to get sex and relationships women will say they are attracted to my intelligence or humor, but I know that is 100% bullshit, they are attracted to my face, if it were my personality or other traits I wouldn't have had problems with women before my surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:09 PM
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lol at the standard reddit advice of therapy only for ugly losers but therapy for asshole guys is never mentioned as an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:57 PM
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On reddit people absolutely do not believe that because of the halo effect, in their minds if someone struggles with dating they 100% must be an evil bad guy who is always up to no good and disrespects women, they can't comprehend that in real life the majority of sexless guys are genuinely good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:54 PM
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It proves blackpill because you said you would get your son surgery to look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:53 PM
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No amount of socializing or going on dates helped me, fixing my face through surgery is the only thing that helped. It is also how I realized that women in fact do approach and that you really don't need to put any effort into it, as long as you pass the threshold women make is extremely easy and obvious. Charisma and social skills = looks. It's textbook halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:14 PM
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A lot of those guys got arranged marriages or married their cousins if they are ethnic, I think a lot of white redditors are completely unware of how common that is in ethnic communities, also a lot of them are average looking so obviously they will be able to eventually find a wife, but it's very rare for them to find a wife that is a looks match, the vast majority of them date down in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:10 PM
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This is a strawman, as you are assuming men who are not successful simply lack social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:08 PM
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1/1000 is an extremely high rate, the actually success rate of going on a date for an ugly guy is closer to 1/300000. And even then that is just a date with no sex or intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:06 PM
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This aligns with how hard men have it in western countries, because things like incels don't exist in non western countries with more favorable gender ratios. Then on top of how hard men have it, people actually think men have it better than women in western countries which just amplifies how hard life is for men. And then you have people trying to downplay and dismiss it by saying both genders have problems, but that is a bullshit argument, the equivalent of saying billionaire only made $240 mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:00 PM
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It's only ugly people that you would perceive as being visibly self conscious and uncomfortable. It's called the halo effect. Someone like John Mayer would never be perceived as uncomfortable when he legit has anxiety and panic attacks and has to take medication for his anxiety, Good looking people will always be perceived as being confident. An ugly guy owning his flaws will still be ugly and sexless and will not be able to attract anyone despite how confident he actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:59 PM
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When people say they have an ugly friend they are often times just lying if on the internet. But if they say this in real life often times it's a guy who can't accurately rate other men and the guy that they point to as being ugly is always extremely dimorphic and hyper masculine and very good looking to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:56 PM
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Yeah like money and status, not behavior, humor, intelligence, or personality, or any other blue pill things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:54 PM
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Also there are good looking guys who treat women like shit, who are addicted to drugs, have anxiety and take medication, and all sorts of other bad things, who have loving relationships and active sex lives. No amount of behavior or body language is going to get an ugly guy laid. Then on top of this is the halo/horn effect, an ugly guy will never be perceived as having good demeanor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:53 PM
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Good looking people are good looking even when making ugly facial expressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:47 PM
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If you are good looking you can treat women like shit and be red pilled and do well with women, or you can a redditor and blue pilled and do well with women. If you are good looking literally any strategy will work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:12 AM
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Reddit advice is the equivalent of a priest telling you to pray away your problems, it's idealist nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:34 PM
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I think this is common in certain groups, but not ones the average redditor is familiar with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:45 PM
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yeah every single thing you read on this subreddit is contradicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:57 PM
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I thought women don't dress up for men? that they do it for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:55 PM
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Dating apps are the best most efficient way, if you struggle with the apps you will struggle everywhere else as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:35 AM
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You will never change the minds of redditors, especially the ones that post here, because both feminists and redpillers hate porn, it's one of the few things they both 100% agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:58 PM
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Redditors have absolute brain dead takes on porn. Fallacy after fallacy with not even a single but of critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:56 PM
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I have a PUA friend who is extremely confident and would approach women all the time, but he was never successful not even once, he is actually one of the main reasons I don't believe confidence matters, and also there are legit autistic men in relationships and guys who have anxiety and take medication who have active sex lives and loving relationships. If I consistently saw short ugly balding men get women with confidence then I would change my opinion of course, but I never see that in real l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:22 AM
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One thing I have noticed is that anti-porn/masturbation is something the progressive people and extreme pua/redpill type people both agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:06 AM
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I have a friend who is into PUA and sometimes when I'm with him he will randomly approach women, and I can confirm women in fact get extremely hostile, sometimes he deserves it, other times it's uncalled for. And yes he is short, and ugly. Also there are posters put up in my area asking men not to approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:44 PM
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Most men aren't even addicted to porn. Roughly 200,000 men are addicted to porn in the US, 69% of American men watch porn and the adult male population is 138 million. So roughly 0.2% of men are addicted to porn. Porn addiction isn't a serious problem as it is often portrayed on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:34 PM
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There are more men than women in the 18-35 demographic in western countries. That is why men are having a problem and most men date down in looks. If you go to non western countries with better gender ratios in mens favor then you are more likely to see looks matched couples. In the west the only men that can get a looks match are the ones that marry their cousins or get lucky with an arranged marriage or the ones who have very good c suite level jobs making 250k plus a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:26 PM
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I'm always surprised when I see the boyfriends of progressive outspoken ethnic women, the majority of the time they end up being white jock type men, where I would think those would be the type of women that would be more willing to give more non traditional ethnic feminine men a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:22 PM
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If a women spends money on you then it means she is truly attracted to you and not just using you for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:19 PM
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yeah I used to think foreplay was very important when I used to be sexless and would read posts on the internet. Once I actually started being sexually active I realized foreplay isn't that important at all. And again I'm not saying I don't believe what people post on the internet but based on my real life experience it seems like most of what you read on the internet is posted by outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:13 PM
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Are there any studies that show that women are more likely to orgasm piv with a good looking guy or a guy with a big penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:10 PM
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It's because often times what women say and do are completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:08 PM
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This is what I thought before I had an active sex life, I thought I would need to worry about rhythm and not being a jackhammer. But when I actually started having sex it seemed like all the women did indeed want me to be a jackhammer and rhythm and oral didn't really matter. This is and some other experiences I had is why I take everything I read on the internet with a grain of salt. Not that I don't believe what I read, it's just that the internet is filled with extreme outliers that one is un…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:03 PM
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All of my incel friends growing up had loving families and large social circles and many hobbies, They were just ugly and had no girlfriends. The vast majority of them are ethnic and religious and just ended up getting arranged marriages in their late 20s and early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:27 PM
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If you are a parent you need to pay close attention to your sons facial development, especially around puberty, if you notice they start to develop an overbite or a hook nose, you need to get a consultation with an orthodontist asap. At a young age it's still possible to take steps to fix their development. It gets significantly harder once they are adults and fully grown. Also you need to make sure you son is cool and has status at school, so follow the latest trends to make sure your kid becom…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:25 PM
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This is basically what I did, I fixed my face by seeing an orthodontist and a maxillofacial surgeon, and now I have no problems with women. Improving your looks, through surgery or losing weight, making more money, or finding a way to gain status are the only things that will help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:23 PM
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This isn't true at all. Getting a girlfriend has been one of the best things to happen to me in terms of quality of life and mental well being. But if you are still ignorant then your advice is good, similar to religious people who think if they suffer in this material reality they will be rewarded in heaven. Which is fine, but only if you are ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:20 PM
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Me too. But I had to do a few drastic things before I got one. But having had girlfriends and sex without paying for it now has 100% improved my mental health and overall well being and quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:18 PM
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In the western 18-35 demographic there are more men than women. It's just as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:56 AM
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The only time this would ever work is if the guy is ugly but has a big dick. Any other circumstance it's better to just be rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:52 AM
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It's not as bad as redditors who literally use examples from fictional movies and tv series as proof that confidence and personality matter, or the ones who point to high status and rich ugly to average looking guys to prove that looks don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:48 AM
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From the wiki An empirical study examined the mate preferences of subscribers to a computer dating service in Israel that had a highly skewed sex ratio (646 men for 1,000 women). Despite this skewed sex ratio, they found that "On education and socioeconomic status, women on average express greater hypergamic selectivity; they prefer mates who are superior to them in these traits... while men express a desire for an analogue of hypergamy based on physical attractiveness; they desire a mate who ra…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/24 12:46 AM
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yeah you can tell when redditors just give generic npc answers if you actually have real life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:31 AM
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this is a double standard, if a guy expresses his sexual desires everyone will label him as objectifying women, men being sexual and enjoying sex is heavily discouraged in modern times.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:26 AM
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When men treat women badly the women still has sex, when women treat men badly there is no sex. One problem is a lot worse than the other. A man ghosting you after you have sex, and a women insulting a man for being short and not having sex with him, are both problems but one is worse than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:25 AM
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Why do you care, the men who complain or shame women aren't the men those women are interested in anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:00 PM
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It's just a good looking guy, it can be anyone from either extremes of femininity and masculinity. Justin Bieber is a chad on the feminine side and Brock Lesner is a chad on the masculine side. Also the type of women that post on reddit aren't the type of women the top 20% of men go after so it makes sense that a lot of women that post on reddit pretend to not like Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:31 PM
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Yeah before I recommend surgery the first thing I always advise guys to do is to lower their bf% and often times this is all they need to do to improve their looks. The vast majority of people that are perceived as being fat have robust jock type skull structure and thick bones which are very dimorphic and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:23 PM
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I had no success with women and only started having success when I had surgery to fix my face. My social skills were the same before and after and I only had success with a better face.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:13 PM
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Redditors want to desperately believe social skills matter because they think it's something they can work on and get better at, rather than admit that genetics matter. No amount of arguing and debating changes material reality, think of how many people are religious on Earth, most people need to be delusional to get through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:10 PM
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Women date up. Average men can get ugly to below average women, and no amount of social skills will be able to get an ugly guy to get any women or an average guy get a looks match or someone better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:06 PM
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Why did you use an anecdote when you were a kid when the conversation is about adults. Children don't have sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:03 PM
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People perceive ugly people as having poor social skills. If social skills actually mattered there would be no correlation with looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:02 PM
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Women have it easier in life. Sure all people have problem but some problems are worse than others. Imagine a billionaire complaining that one of his 12 maids is unable to make it to work today, and a homeless man who struggled to get food for his daughter and then trivializing the problem the homeless man is having by saying everyone has problems the billionaires and homeless people are the same because they both have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:50 PM
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I find it funny how women think the word "fuckboy" is an insult. It just shows you how wildly different their life is compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:31 PM
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The problem is not the dating apps. The dating dynamics would still be the same if all dating apps disappeared.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:45 PM
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This is just a textbook strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:26 PM
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Yeah I agree that the men who suddenly start receiving attention from women in their 30s should resist their urge to just marry the first woman that shows interest in them. She just sees you as a second choice and you will always resent her because you were a second choice. Just pump and dump them and catch up on everything you missed out on and if you want children focus on your career to make more money and then get a young gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:18 PM
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RP doesn't work anywhere, and if it does the guy would still have been successful without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:34 AM
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yeah and the rest of the men have no problem with women and would have no need to attend such an event.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:56 AM
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If you take an ugly 50 year old guy and put him in a groundhog day loop to try and hook up, manipulate or "groom" an 18 year old woman it will never happen, but if you put Brad Pitt in his place it would happen. If a woman is not attracted to a man no amount of manipulation or lying will get him laid. Grooming isn't how reddit portrays it, real grooming happens at a much younger age and the Woody Allen situation is a good example of this. An 18 year old women who finds a 30 year old guy hot and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:23 AM
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A lot of them are selfish and have been in relationships without disclosing it to me, I'm always afraid I will die buy murder suicide when their boyfriends or husbands find out or walk in on us. Also on tinder the average man has it significantly worse than women and are far more likely to be a target of a scam or getting set up to be robbed. This has happened to me once so I always make sure we meet in a public place first, and sometimes this is a huge turnoff for women who just want the first …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:08 PM
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redditors only resort to the entitlement talking point when they realize all their previous advice doesn't actually work, otherwise it would be the first thing they say when someone asks for advice on how to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:46 PM
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Most "nice guys" in real life are genuinely nice guys, and not secretly evil Machiavellian misogynistic red pillers like reddit makes them out to be. It's just that through their feedback loops for being ugly they have no choice but to be nice. the good looking guys through positive feedback loops who have women throwing themselves at them have no need to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:43 PM
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That is one way to know for sure she likes you. Women who are just using you as a second choice, or as a provider will never spend money on you. Women will only spend money, book a flight at her own expense to fly out to you, buy you expensive gifts, allow you to be a stay at home father, etc if there is genuine attraction. So even something as simple as receiving flowers is a very good sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:40 PM
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There aren't many women in society who don't date up. Also it's looks, money, and status, in your situation you are more attractive than her, it's as simple as that. The vast majority of couples I see in real life the man is the better looking one, only exceptions are when the guy has money or status, then they have a higher chance of getting at least a looks match. Men dating up is extremely rare and I suspect only happens with extreme wealth and status, or in areas with a lot more women than m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:04 AM
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There is nothing wrong with being fetishized.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:37 AM
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That's the only way you know that she really likes you and is not just using you as a backup or as a second choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:32 AM
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Most men would be extremely happy if this happened to them, random women trying to get your attention on the street and wanting to talk to you would raise the ego of the vast majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:48 PM
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There are more men than women in the western world in the 18-35 demographic. That is why women date up and men date down. If you go to countries where there are more woman than men in the 18-35 demographic then you are more likely to see looks matched couples and if the guy has money or status, even dating up. This is why it seems like average men and average women are not equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:55 PM
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I tend to take everything I read on reddit with a grain of salt, either reddit is filled with extreme 1% of 1% outliers or people lie on the internet. Just some examples I can think off the of my head. It seems like every redditor has a bidet, where in reality they are very rare in western countries, at least in Canada or the US, and even for cultures that wash themselves with water they will just have a yogurt box or cup. Everyone on reddit seems to hate McDonalds, Tim Hortons, and other multi …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/24 02:56 PM
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I'm not saying it's impossible but it is extremely rare. 100% of the time in my life where there has been a man being friends with a women, one of them secretly liked the other, and 90% of the time it was the man who liked the woman. Also before my surgery when I was incel, I had no female friends, I could have if I were a simp but it's in my nature to keep genuine friends and not to simp. But after my surgery I suddenly found women trying to enter my social circle and become friends with me, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:29 PM
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I don't know about the past, but the majority of people I know that are in "traditional" relationships seem to be happier than the people I know in "non-traditional" relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:59 PM
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Status matters a lot, it can be extremely high status like being a famous actor, or even local status like being the son of a local Imam or Mayor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:54 PM
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Yeah I think a lot of women, especially the women on reddit would be shocked to find out that their partners don't truly find them attractive and that they just took whatever they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:12 PM
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If you are young and she says this it's not a problem as women are only with men they find attractive when they are young. But if she says this when she hits her 30s then it just means she couldn't get these guys to commit and she is using you as a second choice, so this would be a red flag. However this red flag doesn't matter as the guys she ends up with will likely have no other choice and will just have to accept her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:40 PM
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I remember before the trans topic became so widespread that people would be called sexist pieces of shit for saying that men and women's brains worked differently, but now in the trans conversation people are using it as proof that people truly are the gender they identify with. I think it's a classic case of people only believing things when it fits their bias, and rejecting or downplaying things that don't fit their bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:31 PM
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Yeah this is one of the things that give away that someone doesn't know what they community is actually like. Anyone who truly has spent time in the communities and all the adjacent ones would know the vast majority of men blame themselves, but this contradicts what people want to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:22 PM
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From what I have seen this is absolutely true. All the couples I know the man is the better looking one, only exception is one friend that comes from a high status family(His dad is a respected imam in the community) who was able to marry a looks match, and another friend who makes 250K + as a c suite executive who was also able to marry a looks match. Women because they benefit from this will try to portray these couples as being looks matched or try to gaslight people into thinking the women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:03 PM
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Incel just means involuntarily celibate, the vast majority of people on reddit who attack incels are incels themselves. However the term has become mainstream and is just a generic insult for ugly people or misogynists now rather than the actual meaning. There are things you can do to stop being incel, however whenever I have posted my experience of what I did it always gets removed here so pm me if you want to know what I did.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/24 09:47 PM
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This all depends on the gender ratio. As far as I know there are more men than women in the 18 to 35 demographic. But maybe the ratio is just as bad for people over 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:53 PM
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Dating coach, man or women do not help men. Because they can't help with the things that matter like Looks, Money, and Status. It's a grift, the equivalently of going to church and trying to pray your problems away.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:38 PM
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And there are men who have "bad" personalities that have sex lives and loving relationships. And this talking point also implies that all women are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:36 PM
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Yeah, you need to take advice from someone in the same situation as you, same looks, similar income and status. Otherwise you just get advice from people suffering from survivorship bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:03 PM
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I agree to an extent. IRL women still date up, its extremely rare to see a man date up, and uncommon to get a looks match in western countries where the gender ratio favors women in the 18-35 demographic. But their standards are slightly higher on tinder. So for example IRL a 5 women might be with a 7 man. But on Tinder she might exclusively go for 8 and above.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:13 AM
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Men are used to rejection and don't usually lash out, the examples you see are the outliers or good looking men who are rarely rejected. However women rarely get rejected and don't usually know how to handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:10 AM
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Take everything you read on reddit with a grain of salt, either reddit is filled with the 1% of 1% of outliers, or people lie on the internet. Observe these dynamics in real life and come to your own conclusions based on your own material conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:01 AM
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You will just end up being an ugly guy who has hobbies. Unless you gain status from the hobby, like if you become a successful twitch streamer, or win a darts competition then hobbies are useless. Anything that does not improve your looks, money, or status will not help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:44 PM
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Before I had my surgery, I would try extremely hard to get dates and find a girlfriend. I would spend thousands of dollars on things like okcupid to pay for access to new users and would message them first before they would realize how many options they had. I spent thousands more on joining random social hobbies, always would try to meet new people. With all of my effort I would get maybe between 0 to 3 dates a year. Sometimes the dates would go well and we would talk for hours and they would e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:57 PM
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I don't think is is unique to women, this type of response is extremely common and the norm on reddit for example. Or debates in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:39 PM
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With money you can get direct or indirect whores, with status like being a famous musician or streamer, the women you are with will eventually leave once the novelty of being with someone with status fades off and you are just another ugly man to them. To get genuine attraction you need to use looks. But the problem is not everyone is good looking enough to attract women so they need to use a mix of money, status, looks, gender ratios, etc to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:38 PM
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Blue pill and Red Pill is the same, one is just PG and politically correct and the other is R rated and vulgar, This red pill advice is the equivalent of blue pill incels who say things like "I'm focusing on my career/studies/hobbies" when asked why they don't have a girlfriend. It's basically a way to protect their ego, so that they can justify to themselves the reason they aren't getting women is because they don't want to even be with women right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:34 PM
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None of the women I've been with have had a problem with me having used escorts in the past. Which is the opposite of posts I see on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:47 PM
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I know autistic people in relationships. There have been posts on reddit of doctors and lawyers and other professionals who struggle with women. Social skills are severely overrated on reddit. I went from being sexless with no attention from women to actually being able to date and have sex by fixing my face. I've had women at hostels I was staying at who I never spoke a word to basically grab me to their room to have sex with me. Improving my looks is the only thing that made a meaningful impac…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:28 PM
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I agree, but I also think most women are blind to the amount of power they actually have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:07 PM
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I think both men and women are the same, women just have way more opportunities, men just take whatever they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:45 PM
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I think what you say is true in real life with real men, but the type of men that post on reddit really seem to like dominant women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:19 PM
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Based on my experience growing up all of the average ethnic men I know either got an arranged marriage or tried and failed to date in their 20s and ended up getting an arranged marriage in their 30s. Out of my average white friends they were able to get maybe two or three relationships between high school and their 30s with large gaps between girlfriends. All of them also dated down and weren't 100% happy with their partners, they just took what they could get. They also struggled with casual se…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:18 PM
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Most men just take whatever they can get, and if something better or someone they truly like becomes available to them they will leave their current partners or cheat on them. Look at any guy that becomes famous or comes into money, the vast majority leave their partners and then start dating people who are more attractive than their pre fame partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:06 PM
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My advice on how to filter women is specifically for guys who only started receiving attention from women in their 30s. If she is in her low 20s then she probably genuinely likes you as women are only with men they like at that age If she makes more money than you and is willing to provide for you, then she likely genuinely likes you as women wouldn't spend money on men they don't like She is in her 30s as well and is also a virgin Any other scenario you can't truly be 100% sure if she genuinely…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:00 PM
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The problem I find is that everyone has their own definition of all the pills. I'm sure a lot of people will have problems with the way I view and define the various pills, but I'm always willing to change my views, so please correct me if you think my assessment is wrong. This is what I perceive or think about them. Blue Pill - the generic contradictory basic reddit type "believe in your dreams and anything is possible" type stuff I can never be Blue Pilled, the blue pill is idealist and I'm a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:05 AM
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He's a nice person with a good personality that respects women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:16 AM
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I find those who judge those who judge weird
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:14 AM
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That's a strawman, you don't need to be a chad to be in a relationship. They just have a much easier time and a significantly easier time with casual sex and fwb. However what I guarantee is that all the guys who you know in relationships are better looking than their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:06 AM
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It also goes the other way around, TBP generalizes just as much as TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:01 AM
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It's not dumb as well, Imaging telling a slave and a slave owner that arguing over who has it harder id dumb as well. Everyone has their own challenges and these slaves that are always complaining just need therapy. We live in a material world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:58 PM
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the blackpill is not like the red pill. It's evidence based and materialist. The blue and red pill are far more alike than with the black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:54 PM
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But some problems are better to have than others. Women complain about getting men they want, Men complain about getting anyone at all. One is clearly worse than the other. You wouldn't dismiss a homeless person complaining about finding food to eat for dinner by saying that birds keep shitting on your yacht and you have to spend 10K a week to clean it all up. problem does not equal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:47 PM
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This is an interesting topic. I generally believe that women and men can't truly be good friends. Any time I have seen this growing up the guy always liked the girl, but I'm sure it happens the other way around. I think the power dynamics are too skewed for this to be the case, most women have their sexual and relationship needs filled while men usually don't so when they become friends the man is likely to want to date or have sex with her. But if the man was a celebrity or had a lot of money w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:39 PM
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Yeah when an average looking guy is single you can assume he is not sexually active, but a single average looking woman is highly likely to be sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:27 PM
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I remember there was a normie post on a mainstream subreddit a while ago asking something about the physically attractiveness of partners and like a disturbingly large amount of women posted that they don't find their partners physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:15 PM
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They want to settle down and have a family eventually, but the guys they were fucking while younger will marry better looking people closer to their own level, so then these women have to go for the scraps and leftovers. It all just comes down to supply and demand. Or maybe the ugly to below average men collectively just suddenly start respecting women and improving their personalities once they hit 30. I never really believed in the women lower their standards in their 30s talking point until I…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:11 PM
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Everyone has types, but ugly is no ones type. For example some women might like good looking tall men with blonde hair, or good looking emo men, or good locking jocks, or good looking guys with glasses, or good looking gamers, or good looking musicians, or good looking goths.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:11 PM
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Yeah it's the meme contradictory advice of just be friends and find common interest with her, and don't just be friends because you want to date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:07 PM
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The blackpill is not just be attractive. It's a materialist lens to view sex and dating. Black pill is that Looks, Money, and Status matters. You can be ugly but rich or famous and do well with women according to the black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:16 AM
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I say this all the time, the red pill and blue pill are more alike than people think. One is just presented in a clean pg way and the other is presented in a vulgar R rated way. It's the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:03 AM
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It's only a small percentage of men that can even entertain the thought of having regular sex outside of a relationship. It's extremely rare, out of all the average looking friends I have they are lucky to be able to have sex between 1 to 3 times a year when not in a relationship. So I don't think much would change for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:38 PM
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I disagree based on my own social circle, I know a lot of incels who are in large social circles who have good outgoing engaging personalities who have no luck. I don't think social circle matters that much. I think if you tell a guy who struggles that he is single because he doesn't have a large social circle and then he works on getting a large social circle and is still struggling, the goal post will be moved to criticize his social circle and you will tell him to join a better social circle,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:36 PM
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It's very easy for the average women to get sex and validation when they are single. While it's very rare for the average guy to get sex and validation when not in a relationship. I think if you looked at the top % of men and compared them to women the happiness levels would be similar.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 01:39 PM
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Another thing that is a problem is that if you as a progressive/leftist disagree with any little thing you will be ostracized and called a fascist. When the left pushes men away like this obviously they would be more likely to congregate with people who accept them. The rise of men moving to the right is a direct consequence of the actions of the left. The left needs to do a better job being more inclusive and open to good faith criticism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/24 11:03 PM
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I can tell you that there are definitely some jaded men in their 30s but the vast majority of them are just happy to finally have a girlfriend/wife, they take whatever they can get, often times they will marry the first woman that shows interest in them, they don't use the one time in their life when they have options to date around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:48 PM
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yeah, reality is extremely different than how redditors portray it. Everyone knows that the good looking hyper masculine robust dimorphic men who don't respect women get laid the most. They can afford to treat women like shit because they have so many options, the reddit tier men have no choice but to be nice to women and respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:33 PM
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They settle. A lot of men would be shocked to find out that their partners don't find them attractive. However women aren't conscious of what they are doing or of the dynamics going on so maybe they truly believe that their preferences have changed as a means to protect their ego when they find that they can't get commitment from the guys they are attracted to. Similar to ugly guys who say they are focusing on studies or work when they are asked why they don't have a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:54 PM
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The red pill is the a vulgar version of the blue pill. the common blue pill reddit advice would be like "work on your personality and behavior" while the red pill advice will be the same thing worded in a different way "You just need to work on your game and learn how to cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:55 PM
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That describes almost every job on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:25 PM
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The same strategy is used for therapy and for men talking about their feelings. So I'm willing to concede that people shouldn't talk about it openly if you concede that people shouldn't talk about therapy or men talking about their feelings openly as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:25 PM
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The vast majority of any worker don't want to be where they work. If you gave 10 million dollars to a random janitor, accountant, uber driver, nurse, etc the vast majority of them wouldn't continue to work their current jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:22 PM
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No one calls them sex toys, most people respect them as they do with any other service workers, like accountants or therapists. The fact that you call them sex toys is just projection and reveals a lot more about you than the men you hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:21 PM
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No one will do their job for free, not even therapists, doctors, plumbers, etc. that doesn't mean that they can't like their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:19 PM
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It's a service, would you say the same thing about a massage therapist, your accountant, your plumber, or literally any other person that provides you a service? Also I've extremely open about my escort use and no woman has ever rejected me for it, maybe reddit type women would reject me but I rarely meet them in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:17 PM
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This isn't true, none of the women I've been with have cared that I've been with escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:14 PM
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It's actually the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:28 PM
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People will push back and call you a class reductionist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/24 01:19 PM
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Hot men can be objectively creepy but the women they are being creepy towards are less likely to perceive it as being creepy. Two people can act and behave the exact same way and one can be perceived as creepy while the other is not. Creepiness Study - Results (knox.edu) "The third factor measured the extent to which creepiness is an inherent part of the individual, and it consisted of two items: Some people can do the exact same behavior as someone else and one person can be perceived as creepy…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:16 PM
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It's based on the halo/horn effect. An ugly guy will be perceived as being more creepy than a good looking guy doing the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:11 PM
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Red Pill is just the same thing as PUA from decades ago. I was never into PUA and always thought it was stupid but I used to be a part of adjacent communities like PUAhate. My opinion is that the red pill is literally just a more vulgar version of the blue pill, and people are grifters on both sides, the names of things may change over time but the basic grift is the same, extremely similar to religion actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:43 PM
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Yeah this is obvious. It's also the reason most men will leave their partners if they suddenly have access to women they are truly attracted to, like if they win the lottery or become famous. I think a lot of women would be surprised to find that their partners are only with them because they have no other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:37 PM
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If it's a low status social circle the no, if it's a high status social circle for example if Brad Pitt or Trudeau are part of your social circle then it would be like a + 100000000000.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:34 PM
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I don't know about weakness but the best looking guys have so many women going after them that they don't need to be nice and can treat their women like shit, if they leave they can always just get another one. That is why women forgive abuse, because the guy they are with is good looking. While non good looking guys have no choice but to respect women and be nice to them,.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:23 PM
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People will just keep moving the goal post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:35 PM
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Women on reddit and feminists in general will say things like mansplaning or manspreading are bad, but I've had women I've been with say they like how confident I am when I explain things to them and they also like manspreading. I used to always try to be respectful and not manspread, but after women I've been with told me they like it I stopped giving a single shit about what redditors and feminists have to say about anything. Even if what people on reddit say is genuine and they aren't just ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:18 PM
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That's just the textbook thing ugly guys say when people ask them why they don't have a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:52 PM
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yeah this is very common, a lot of men would be surprised to find out when a good guy joins a social circle, or is at a job with a lot of women, they will basically run through all the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:52 PM
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Yeah I'm a part of many different groups( Atheism/religion, capitalism/socialism, idealism/materialism, black/blue/red pill, etc), and it's extremely common for people to misinterpret and strawman your side, very few people actually take the time to understand opposing views and make good faith criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:50 PM
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I improved my looks through surgery and now I have no problem with women. I cringe every time I read reddit comments about people talking about personality or social skills. Also the red pill does not believe looks matter, they believe game, personality, behavior, pua, etc works, the red pill is just a vulgar version of the blue pill. It's the blackpill that takes a materialist scientific view towards sex and dating that claim looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:48 PM
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It's not, it's the other way around. These men have so many options they can afford to be emotionally distant and treat women like shit. It's the opposite for undesirable men, they have no choice but to be nice and respect women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:37 PM
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Good looking parents can make ugly children and ugly parents can make good looking children, However there is a higher chance that good looking parents make good looking children and ugly parents make ugly children. It would be like saying you won't accept a 99/100 chance to win a million dollars because there is no guarantee you will win, obviously heavily exaggerated but you get my point. So if you are against that because you think it's eugenics you must also have to be against aborting fetus…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:15 AM
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Lifting doesn't work. I know a lot of incels who have good bodies. Also I too used to be one until I got surgery to fix my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:43 AM
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Dating and relationships: Key findings on views and experiences in the US | Pew Research Center Nearly half (47%) of all Americans say dating is harder today than it was 10 years ago Most daters don’t feel like their dating life is going well and say it’s been hard to find people to date. A majority (57%) of women – and 35% of men – say they have experienced some kind of harassing behavior from someone they were dating or had been on a date with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:37 AM
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Because they are in a relationship and not dating. It's like saying people who don't live in poverty don't complain about how living in poverty is so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:34 AM
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There really isn't a porn addiction problem. In the United States where pornography is highly unregulated, 200,000 adults are considered “porn addicts” among the country’s 40 million porn consumers. That's 0.5% of porn watchers that are addicted. Compare that to some of the alcoholic statistics I found Alcoholism Statistics & Alcohol Abuse Demographics - it seems there are 14.5 million people with alcoholic use disorder with roughly a little over 100 million people over the age of 26 who drank a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:27 AM
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Because unlike the common narrative men actually don't have the power. Men take whatever they can get and the vast majority don't really have options so they have no choice but to be whipped. If they leave it could be months or years before they can find someone else, while the woman can find someone literally within the hour you leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:02 AM
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Women and even men are not aware of their behavior, they aren't conscious of going after cheap sex when they are younger and then settling down, and all the other dating dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:31 PM
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They have no option, after they get pumped and dumped and realize the guys they're going after them are just using them for cheap sex they have to settle for the type of guy you are talking about as a second choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:23 PM
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A lot of young undesirable ignorant men would be surprised to find out that some of the women they think they would accept them would actually reject them in reality. And something a lot of women and good looking men don't understand is that the average young guy can't even get women they are not attracted to, a lot of men truly do have 0 standards. Before my surgery I was not able to get any women, doesn't matter how ugly or unattractive I found them I would be rejected by everyone, even trans …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:20 PM
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I have a friend that since university and all throughout his 20s would cold approach, join all sorts of clubs, go to clubs weekly, always out and about being social with many friend groups, went to the gym regularly, and had a very good job, yet he was never successful with women, not even once. He ended up just getting an arranged marriage in his 30s. He was basically the personification of the standard reddit dating advice, and the thing that I find hilarious is that he still thinks personalit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:56 PM
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No this is wrong, all the ugly guys collectively suddenly improve their personalities once they hit 30. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:06 PM
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Yeah blue pill people are just virtue signalers, but the red pill isn't any better. the red pill is just a vulgur non politically correct blue pill. They are both idealist views. The blackpill is the materialist view on sex and dating that is distcint from the red/blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:56 PM
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Yeah the equivalent of a skinny low dimorphic framed man is a thick framed fat woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:40 PM
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The man is the better looking one in the vast majority of couples. If a guy has a good job or comes from a high status family he might end up with a looks match, and it's extremely rare for a man to date up, you basically have to be extremely rich or have a significant amount of status to date up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:39 PM
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I know many incels and none of them are like that. they are just ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:38 PM
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How people perceive your personality is based on how you look, and how you behave is based on positive or negative feedback loops. Incels act the way they do because of a negative feedback loop, they aren't incel because of the way they behave, it's the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:36 PM
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Yeah people don't know anything about sex or dating and just give nonsense generic contradictory advice like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:31 PM
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I don't think so, things are more likely to just stay the same than get worse. In fact it's more likely for things to get better with more and more wars occurring in modern times.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:30 PM
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Therapy is not going to help a guy who is starving, similar to how it's not going to help a guy who is sexless. Once those needs are met then you can focus on other things. Therapy is useless for most real tangible problems. Imagine going to a slave in the 18th century complaining about their working conditions and you just tell them to get therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:23 PM
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This is another one of those things that you hear all the time on reddit but is not common in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:17 PM
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I know a lot of incel musicians, maybe this stereotype was true in the past but not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:54 PM
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If you spent any amount of time in those spaces you would realize the vast majority of them don't blame women, they blame themselves. It's a very commons strawman used by people who have no knowledge of the communities
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:38 PM
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I haven't experienced this when men are around, but I have noticed women flirt with me right in front of my girlfriend before
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:19 PM
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I'm a man and I'm able to just passively exist and get relationships. Something a lot of redditors will never truly understand is that women do in fact approach all them time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:53 PM
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Despite the common sentiment, women are the ones with real power. If sex robots were to exist they lose that power and privilege. The guys who would be using the robots aren't the guys women want to be with anyways so in theory it should be win win. The fact that some women get so triggered over it is extremely revealing,.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:50 PM
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Very little, like only the top 20-30%. Growing up only the good looking guys had active sex lives and constant girlfriends. All my average looking ethnic friends and below average white friends never had any success with women. I have one average looking white friend and he had two girlfriends in his 20s and there were extremely long gaps in between and casual sex for him was very rare, maybe one to two partners per year. All my above average ethnic friends had no problems with dating, even all …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:34 PM
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In western countries, there are more men than women in the 18-35 demographic. It's very easy for woman to date, have sex, and relationships, while it is significantly more difficult for the average man. Men basically take whatever they can get, beggars can't be choosers. This is why you see so many men simp for any type of women. Even if all men stopped being simps it wouldn't change anything, it's the symptom not the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:27 PM
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it's common blue pill advice that has no basis in material reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:24 PM
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Yes, you can spend a billion years in a groundhog day loop and will never be able to talk/game your way into attraction. It's looks, money, or status. Any advice you receive that doesn't improve one of those things will not help you with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:03 PM
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Reddit is either filled with liars or such extreme 1% of the 1% of outliers that you should take whatever you read here with a grain of salt. For example on reddit you will constantly see people talking about how showing emotions as a man is a good thing but in reality crying in front of your partner as a man is a very big no no. If the redditors are not lying and are being genuine, the chance a guy will run into a women who has no problem with men crying in real life is so astronomically small.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:58 PM
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Yeah it's just a more vulgar "red pill" way to describe moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:43 PM
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That's a strawman, I don't think anyone thinks that being good looking means your partner won't cheat on you. There are things like money and status that also matter. Also you can't use celebrity, high status or wealthy examples to determine how things work for normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:22 PM
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I used to see escorts for over a decade, and not a single women I've been with has shown any issue with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:07 PM
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Based on my experience women have gone batshit crazy when I have rejected them, suddenly all progressive virtue signaling goes away and you will be accused of being gay. I think it's because women are not used to being rejected in general and don't know how to handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:02 PM
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A lot of them do though. But on reddit it's usually the opposite.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/24 01:44 AM
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I find the "red" pill people to actually be extreme idealists and "blue" pill in reality. The vast majority of stuff in the community is a bunch of nonsense. Men just gravitate towards it because they get nothing but misandry from other communities, it truly is idealist in the way religion is idealist. The "Black" pill community is actually a lot better as it's a materialist view on sex and dating rather than viewing things through an idealist lens. However there is a lot of overlap in communiti…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/04/24 12:33 AM
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This is the best place. There are some "blackpill" forums I visit but they are filled with like 80% nonsense, 19% undercover PUA astrotrufers and 1% good discussion/content.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/24 06:54 PM
2

This is the first time I heard about this stat for indigenous men. Usually you only hear about missing women and it made me assume the number was larger for women which is why they would always talk about it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/24 01:42 PM
4

If you go to forums and places where lonely men congregate 99% of the posts will be about men blaming themselves. Occasionally there will be a post where someone blames women and it will get screenshotted and shared with reddit to make redditors think all the men are like that. There can also be times where men bring up some factual statistics like women having an easier time dating because there are more men than women in the 18-35 demographic in a certain area, and people will interpret this a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/24 06:25 PM
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It's replaced the word "Virgin" or "Loser" or "Retard" it's just used as a general insult now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/24 02:55 PM
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Short Morning routine - This is laughable - Physical attractiveness matters for men far more than it does for women, and men can take a long time to get ready as well, not all men have short hair, some of them have long hair that requires more maintenance after taking a shower, some men shave, some men do a quick workout when they wake up. Some men wear makeup as well . Also women don't have to take a long time to get ready, they don't need to apply a lot of makeup, they can shower the night bef…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/23 02:56 PM
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It would be social suicide in the current climate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/23 09:33 PM
4

Generally there are very few subreddits that allow criticism or debate/discussion. The vast majority of subreddits are just safe space echo chambers people go to to vent or shitpost with people with similar views.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/23 04:17 PM
4

To be honest never in my life have I ever experience any gender expectations other than when I'm around my religious friends and their families. I don't conform to any masculine expectations and it's not something I worry about or even think about. However online there is so much discourse and discussion about it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/23 10:54 PM
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If we live in a patriarchy where men have all the power why would men be killing themselves more than women who are being oppressed?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/23 01:03 PM
53

I'm a Marxist and I'm a part of many left wing communities on the internet, and unfortunately in any community I've been a part of if any member tries to question that we live in a patriarchy or says anything that contradicts the feminist narrative you will be banned an ostracized. There is absolutely no room for good faith discussion from what I have seen. So I usually avoid the topic or stay quiet when it comes up for fear of being ostracized. The way they see it is that we live in a patriarch…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/10/23 01:27 PM
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I believe the average man has a harder life and more challenges than the average woman. Women have so many opportunities and options in life and receive a significant amount of support from society. Then everyone believes men have it easier which just amplifies how hard they have it. Just some examples. Women have the choice to stay at home and find a provider or they can choose to work and be independent. Men rarely have that choice. Socially Women might have trouble dating people they like, wh…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/23 04:25 PM
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I don't agree with this. Some problems and challenges are clearly worse than others. You can point to a rich hedge fund manager that has to deal with his exotic tiger pooping on his furniture on his private yacht and then point to a man that doesn't have enough money to feed his family and then conclude rich people and poor people both have problems therefore they are equal.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/23 04:20 PM
10

I don't understand this, I have a lot of female family members who would travel to Italy and be disappointed that they weren't catcalled. I told them it's because there were men with you, but if it's harassments why would you be disappointed if it didn't happen to you. On the other side I think most men would be very happy if women catcalled them, I know it would raise my self esteem and make me very happy if I were treated the way these women are harassed. Growing up we are always told to treat…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/23 01:37 PM
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