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There are men who have zero female friends but get sex or have a relationship. There are men who have female friends but are virgins or are single. It can help but its not that simple and sometimes unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:32 PM
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50/50. I do think its possible for men to get better but it's not guaranteed even if he does work on himself since they are ceilings when it comes to looks and personality and also there is luck. Also women can still be attractive even she stays healthy and ages well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:20 PM
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Well most didn’t like it in the first place unless the guy was attractive, which was rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:18 PM
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I agree with parts of this, especially not forcing attraction, respecting rejection, and not building fantasy narratives from basic politeness. But I think the idea that attraction should already be “more or less a done deal” before asking someone out is unrealistic. Human attraction is often ambiguous, messy, and uncertain. People misread signals, hide attraction, act shy, or only develop feelings after more interaction. If everyone waited for near-certainty before initiating anything, a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:33 AM
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I think this is a much more reasonable comment than some of the others, and I agree that social awareness and taking rejection well matter a lot. But I still think there’s a contradiction in modern dating advice sometimes. By the end the standard becomes “don’t make a move unless it’s obvious they’re really into you,” but attraction often isn’t obvious, especially for shy, inexperienced, average-looking, or neurodivergent people. A lot of relationships started because someone took a chance despi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:24 AM
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I agree social awareness matters, but I think “only approach when attraction is already obvious” mainly benefits attractive or socially skilled people who already receive clear signals. A lot of socially inexperienced people genuinely can’t read attraction well, so the advice starts becoming circular: “take initiative, but you should already know beforehand if she wants you.” Also, humans are honestly bad at predicting attraction sometimes. Plenty of relationships started from situations where o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:19 AM
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I agree, though it does undermined the advice for struggling men to ask women out. They can't do that if they can't find any indications that a women is attracted to them. But I agree with your advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:30 PM
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Treating us like theres a secret way to all of us is an issue yall created That's a bit unfair women, and men do give guys struggling contradictory information when there looking for advice. But I agree with the rest of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:18 PM
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I don’t think friendship is the issue though. I think most people value friendship a lot, but unreciprocated romantic feelings can still genuinely hurt without that automatically meaning “I only wanted sex.” Most people want both emotional connection and romantic/sexual desire, and wanting to feel desired doesn’t make someone incapable of friendship. Otherwise heartbreak after rejection wouldn’t even exist. You can genuinely care about someone as a person while also feeling sad that the attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:02 PM
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It's progressive overreach
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/25 12:29 PM
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Dating, Reletionships and so on are complex so theirs no right answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:48 AM
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I agree on everything except the looks and personality, being funny or having a good personality cannot overshadow looks. It will only help you in your own looks range.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:41 PM
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I think it depends on how you say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:33 PM
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That's the Black Pill not Red Pill
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:11 PM
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This is the best answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:43 AM
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Depends on the person, it can increase the attractiveness of some men but do nothing for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:29 PM
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Eh, the women who sleep a lot would mainly sleep with attractive men, so it doesn't benefit them if men sleep around. They're angry that they don't sleep with them. Which is why they hate them, but they still want sex so having to wait pisses them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:42 AM
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When did he imply that he saw women as prizes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:50 PM
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Person A wants a relationship with Person B, B simply wants to stay friends so B rejects A. Thus A was friendzoned. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:48 PM
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He was above average but definitely not handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:38 PM
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This is the best answer here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:35 PM
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And other people (mainly progressive types) tend to do the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:30 PM
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I'm surprised their are still people on this sub that bel looks don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:08 AM
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It's simply down to looks, the reason why most people get friendzoned is because the friend isn't attractive to the other friend plus all his/her positive traits make him/her a good friend but not reletionship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 10:14 AM
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"highly extroverted" you mean attractive right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:20 PM
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"So? Just because men give alot of money to women on Only Fans and Sugar Babies, doesn't mean I'm about to sell my body for money." I don't understand what you mean by this, if you don't wanna have a only fans account that's up to you. Likewise, if men want to pay women on only fans it's there choice. " So as I expected and said in Paragraph 2. This was never about "Women always going for the bad boys", nice guys just want an easy lay and they're mad that the assholes are fuck boys." That's a ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:18 PM
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Depends on the context. I could see a nice guy complaining that girls go for hot bad boys simply because he believes that he deserves female attention for being nice. On the other hand, girls sleeping with attractive assholes aren't really giving these guys any incentives to stop. It's supply and demand. If the bad boy has lots of option despite his behaviour he has no reason to change or treat women better because he can afford to be a asshole and still get laid. It's just how dating works. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:04 PM
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People lower their standards all the time. Which is why ugly traits get passed on. It still doesn't change the fact that their still bad traits. Also while beauty is subjective, there are simply some features that are more appealing than others and this can be proven by data. Finally, if it's because of the media than why do babies respond to attractive people positively?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:08 PM
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Genetics aren't that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:51 PM
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It's biological, we seek attractive mates because it's are animalistic nature. Plus, some traits are more attractive than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:45 PM
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End the friendship. Makes it much easier to take the blown and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 08:04 AM
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At the end of the day, if your attractive you can make anything work. Whether your manly or a pretty boy it's fine as long as your hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 12:55 PM
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Some guys have to simp and spend money on attractive women in order for them to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:52 AM
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1) How about if I'm not interested in a relationship and I'm just looking for sex? 2) A women can still call you manipulative, since they can't tell whether you slowly developed feelings or just wanted a romantic relationship from the start. 3) Asking a friend out can ruin the friendship in some cases. 4) What do I do if I found a women attractive? I can't start a friendship because that would be tricking her but I can't ask her out either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 10:46 AM
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But knowing a women platonically first and then asking her out is seen as manipulative by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:07 AM
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It was more likely because they were basketball players.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:47 PM
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I'll say it's both. Men have have harder time getting their sexual needs meet and they often don't have strong support groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:18 AM
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Thats only half the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 06:04 AM
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The idea that you can attract women with money is an myth, unless your an millionaire or billionaire. And even then you will only attract golddiggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:10 AM
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Interesting, I heard from the women on reddit that you shouldn't talk about an woman's body when hitting on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 09:32 AM
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SOME people have friends from college not many, the nature of friendship means that an lot of people you once knew will eventually leave you. I barely remember the friends I had from secondary school or even university, sometimes romantic relationship tend last longer than friendship with have examples of marriages that lasted for 20 years or more, in some situations where friends abounded you someone SO stayed with them. Friendship can be just as fleeting as friendship. Not to mention friendshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 07:17 AM
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Friends are definitely not forever, in fact an lot of friendships grow apart as you age. That's an major part of growing older.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 05:12 AM
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But how did these players meet girls that were willing to have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 11:02 AM
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Why is it bad that an guy is only looking for sex. Not everyone wants an relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:07 AM
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You can make friends while still cutting the people who aren't attracted to you out of your life, while getting the same benifits. Good for you for staying, but if I want an relationship I'm not gonna be happy with an friendship plus cutting the friendship makes it easier to move on anyway. I simply work on making new friends. So, staying friends when rejected is an skill I have no interest in learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:22 PM
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An link?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 02:14 PM
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