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#KickHimOut2020UrsulaVanTentacles/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:52 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYUrsulaVanTentacles/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:54 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEUrsulaVanTentacles/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 03:53 PM
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I've never understood this. My old neighbor used to get up at 5:30am everyday to make her husband his lunch for the day. This man was 30 years old. I can understand a one off thing but every damn day? It ain't the '50s anymore. Come on ladies, do better ... men won't. I'll make my kids lunches but I'll be damned the day my husband asks me to make his 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:50 PM
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This is absolutely vile. I know how bad it was growing up for me, I started getting catcalled and harassed as young as 10 - and that was 18 years ago. So I can only say this doesn't surprise me with the violence and misogyny that is not only accepted, but promoted in porn and completely normalized so young boys think its normal. I have 2 daughters and I worry every damn day about what its going to look to like when they get a bit older. Something has to change, immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:33 PM
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And in other news, the sky is blue. Sad but true 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:59 PM
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There's so many things wrong with this good lord. I don't expect him to do anything the little one bc their not his, um, I'm sorry, what? My boyfriend treats my oldest daughter who isn't biologically his, exactly the same as he treats our 2 year old daughter. Why, oh why would you ever consider having a child with a lazy pos whos legs apparently don't work 🙄 girl no. He doesn't treat her, or her child like a person... but she's considering having a baby with him? I can't even begin to wrap my he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:22 PM
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I remember years ago this guy tried arguing with me about his height. I'm 5'6 and he tried claiming he was the same height. No no no, dude was easily 4-5 inches shorter 😂 he was so insistent that no, I must be taller than I'm letting on. Like no what do I have to gain from lying about my height, I'm not an insecure man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:16 PM
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Thank you. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:56 PM
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Most likely, probably wanted his ego stroked and couldn't accept it when you wouldn't. Good for you, you held your own and completely shut it down 🙌 amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:54 PM
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This is how the abuse started for me. These are glaring red flags. The screaming turned into grabbing my face, or arms so I couldn't walk away. To angrily pushing past me or elbowing me hard and claiming it was an "accident", I'm "making it something its not" (gaslighting the hell out of me), holes in walls, things thrown around, to eventually full blown punches, kicks, and choking. If someone is experiencing these things please, please leave at the first sign. It always escalates. Run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:41 PM
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I love how they only (pretend) to give a shit after you've stopped putting up with theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:27 PM
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Thank you. It's been a rough ride, it's taken years to finally get here with lots of being manipulated back in along the way, but I can finally say I did it. For myself and for my daughters. I'm looking forward to living in a peaceful home and putting all my focus into my children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:52 AM
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The shopping cart 🤣😂 I can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:30 PM
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Yeah. This actually happens way too often. My ex was the kindest, most caring man until after our daughter was born. The abuse started when she was about a month old with screaming, throwing things to eventually physical as well. I wouldn't trade my children for the world, wouldn't change a thing. But for you ladies who havent started families be very, very careful and put yourself first at all costs, it's very risky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:33 PM
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This was the case for me. I look back embarrassed as hell that I crawled after him so many times to be told again 2 weeks later it "wasn't going to work" yet again. But yeah, he was dating a coworker like 2 days later. 🙄 Pretty sure I was being used a placeholder until he got her into an actual relationship with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:02 PM
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Sure! I don't remember much tbh because it was 7 years ago but I'll PM you what I can remember.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:51 AM
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I'm in Canada and my city actually has a program like this that I used after I had my first daughter. Women volunteer to come help a few hours a week with the baby while mom relaxes, gets cleaning or dishes done that have piled up etc. I had a lovely older women who was incredibly kind and I valued her help so much as I was struggling so badly by myself with a newborn. They need more programs like this everywhere, being a new mom is hard enough especially doing it by yourself. I love seeing fell…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:34 PM
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Spot on. I had this conversation a while ago actually. When I was a teenager I was either a) flattered or b) too young and timid to ignore them when older men would hit on me. I'm 27 now and I literally am sickened realizing they were predators. When I was 17 I had a boyfriend who was 21 at the time and didn't think that was a big deal ... the same guy is now 31 and has a child with a 22 year old who he impregnated when she was 18. Theres so many men like this its disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:11 PM
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I didn't know stepdad but from what I heard he was very good at manipulating people, the type that can talk his way out of anything. His sisters in therapy and doing well but holy hell, we all just wish she had questioned the camera incidents to avoid what transpired. But definitely a relief she reported him and he's put away where he deserves to be, to rot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:29 PM
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This is exactly how you handle a situation like this, yes mama, yes 👏 True story: friends stepdad told his mom he was installing cameras around the house for "security purposes", his 16 year old sisters room included. Well, apparently pickmeisha mom saw nothing wrong with this. You know where stepdad is now? Prison, because last year pickmeisha found child porn on his computer along with videos of my friends 16 year old sister. I have 2 daughters and I'm telling you right now, if ever heard a ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 07:42 PM
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"It is so hard to find good, quality porn", that's because it doesn't exist you moronic shit stain, it's all based on the degradation of women and toxic solely for men's enjoyment. He seriously thinks this is some groundbreaking, amazing revelation that makes him a good guy. Color me shocked that this is what a man thinks makes him a prize. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:54 PM
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Yep. And its pathetic. A LVM I dated years ago broke up with me (thank god) and within a week was dating his coworker nearly a decade younger than him. I couldn't even be mad about it because scrotes are so scared of being alone and dealing with their actual EMOTIONS they need a woman at all times, I actually thought it was sad. And no, that relationship didn't last from what I heard 😂🤷‍♀️ I got to work on myself and grow, so it worked out for me I guess!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:55 PM
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An example would basically be that men will watch porn , get off to the women in it, contribute to the industry by consuming it. Then they turn around and shame the women in it (call them "whores/sluts", "disgusting" , "I'd never date a women that's done porn" etc.) So basically being a hypocritical asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:42 PM
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I had to google to see if this was for real, alas, yes it is 🤦‍♀️ I'm happy I wasnt around in that era (we still deal with large amounts of sexism but holy hell that's another level).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:26 PM
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"Musty, dusty, crusty assholes" 😂😂. Pure, pure truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:57 PM
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Yes, yes, yes 👏 men like to assume that because your being polite (because you HAVE to be, your at work) that it's an invitation to be hit on, or that your hitting on them. No, bro. I'm working. I had a guy come in daily and one day he waited outside for me to finish my shift, I walked past him and he proceeded to follow me to the bus stop, to tell me how nice I am and to ask for my number. He assumed I was interested in him because of the basic decency I had to show all customers. It was stalke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:36 PM
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Yeah, I've never understood this either. "Last night of freedom" you've BEEN in a committed relationship for a while, but because there's rings involved now is the time to give up being a nasty pig? I would hope that would have been a standard before you got engaged. The whole concept is weird as shit to me, I dont think I could stand at the altar with a dude knowing less then 24 hours ago he had another chicks boobs in his face and her thong clad ass in his lap 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 02:04 PM
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Honestly these magazines "dating and sex advice" columns (looking at you Cosmo) are such a joke. Their all aimed at benefitting the man. You would think magazines for women would be directed at empowering women, but no. This is the world we live in unfortunately. Thankfully a large portion of us are waking up 👏 the men on the other hand, that's another story altogether.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 12:51 PM
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"Something culty is definitely going on there". 😂🤣😅 Boy, bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 11:07 PM
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Yep. In October they found videos of a missing 15 year old girl posted on PH (there were 58 videos in total idk if they were all on that specific site). Its disgusting, almost anyone can get verified. The amount of underage girls and non consenting girls and women probably posted there is vile. BuT iT gEtS mY dICk HaRd fucking men need to wake up and actually give a shit what they are contributing to by consuming this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 09:03 PM
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Same. On the bus, right beside me. TF is wrong with people. I sat there in shock and was creeped right out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:08 PM
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Came here to say this 🤣😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:20 PM
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Right? He's almost old enough to be my dad on top of that. Creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:39 PM
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Its absolutely disgusting. To be proud at the fact blows my mind. Clearly gets some sick kind of pleasure out of deceiving his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:59 PM
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Same to you hun, my DMs are always open if you need to vent. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:19 PM
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And that's totally normal, I'm dealing with all the same feelings right now, be angry, be hurt, be sad and down the road you'll hear his name and it won't even phase you. Hes showing you who he really is now so be grateful you dodged a bullet. You got this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:15 PM
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This is incredibly common sadly and I know exactly how you feel. They'll tell you they only want you, they want to work on themselves yadda yadda, while simultaneously trying to rebound. It BOILS MY BLOOD honestly, my ex was texting me daily "I love you I'm sorry maybe we can work it out" while trying to get the next female that would pay him any amount of attention. Honestly just take the pain and move forward with your head held high. Forget what hes doing, and take time for you. Heal. Best of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:07 PM
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This was my thought too. Its literal torture, idc how much money your being offered I can't see it being voluntary...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:09 PM
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Oh dear god this is GENIUS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:32 PM
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I laughed way too hard at this 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 05:26 PM
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Agreed. Sometimes you have to learn from people what you don't want in a relationship. So happy you realized you deserved better! I hope you find your HVM that you deserve!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 05:24 PM
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LOVE this list. All the little things matter, like showing up on time. It shows respect. Having friends (and family) that treat you with respect - so important. You nailed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 05:21 PM
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Because men dont like to hear the truth, and women dont like hearing the truth about their crappy men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 10:14 PM
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I have to agree with this. I experienced the same thing when I confided in my ex about my mental illness, anytime I got upset about anything it was thrown in my face and deflected back onto me. "Shes a psycho" , heard it from him and his family. That shit will break you. It's an invitation to be manipulated. If they can use it against you, and to benefit themselves, they will. Mental illness is a part of you, but it's not you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 02:24 PM
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Amen 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 02:13 PM
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I read this a while back, and I was really impressed with the answer. I dont know why men find it so hard to understand something so simple, or maybe it's just that they don't care 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:40 PM
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Lmao. Oh the horror. Your girlfriend wants to be treated right and self improve, quit shaking in your panties boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 04:58 PM
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This hits so close to home. Giving someone the benefit of the doubt just to be fucked over, and your left feeling like a complete idiot. 10/10 do not recommend. Keep your standards sky high ladies! We deserve it ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:11 PM
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Ugh. 🙄 I have no words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 10:29 PM
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I honestly don't remember exactly I just know it was something along the lines of the same shit I've heard 100 times pornsick motherfucker "It was honestly an accident, well if you didnt do xyz I wouldnt have done it" ... again and again and again... Save your gaslighting bullshit and move on the next one bro. It was just as irrelevant as everything he said during the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 04:01 PM
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Amazing, thanks for the inspiration! I'm glad to hear you got a good one 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 07:55 PM
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Yes! I hate how it's portrayed in society that "all men watch porn m'kay? You'll be alone forever if you don't accept that". Nah. That ain't it. I've seen first hand how it can ruin relationships and your damn mental health. I'm holding out for a porn free man. 🤞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 07:52 PM
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I've had the opposite experience. My first serious relationship he had a sister and was honestly the most misogynistic, egotistical asshole I'd ever met. Zero respect for women. My last ex had THREE sisters, and was an angry dickhead. Selfish pig. Literally the only man I've dated who was respectful and a genuinely good person, only had brothers. I don't get it because in theory you would think men with sisters would have greater respect for females, wanting to set an example and treat women the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 03:57 PM
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Bigolhonky: I like long walks to the bus stop, can't afford a car because my friends basement is quite expensive. I dont get checked, but I swear I'm clean... although if you do receive a surprise from me... surprise! I like to keep them guessing. I'll send anyone pictures of my dick, but if your extra lucky I'll SHOW you I am a literal dick. My family's kinda crazy, they didnt raise me right. But family dinners are always interesting, Haha! My favorite saying is life's too short for bullshit. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 11:17 PM
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Preaccchhhh! 🙌 I've given up on dating, I'm a selfish bitch now and want no part of it. Theres good men , yeah absolutely. But I'm biased because every one I've given my precious time to has proven to be a drooling, pussy crazed, self serving asshole. Titties, porn, me me me. Nah. I'm good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 06:23 PM
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