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I never said the woman doesn’t have to give compliments or also do nice things for the man. It’s a two way street, no need to serve women or society.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 05:29 PM
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I’m a woman who I guess I can say I like a dominant man but “dominance” is very different for each man apparently. I used to date a guy who was just manipulative and liked playing these mental games with me. Being dominant to him was just controlling me, I ended up leaving him one day without notice and never looked back. Chivalry, feeling protected because “he got it” feeling like I can rely on a man without him wanting to control me/change me is what a dominant man is, for me.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 03:24 PM
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My family is somewhat like that too, I tell myself that we learn from the bad things too. If anything, you now know what not to do in a relationship and what you want to stay away from, that’s valuable.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/25 12:47 PM
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Sorry you have to go through this OP, the same thing happened to me and it was soul crushing for a bit but it gets better. Remember this isn’t about you, it’s about his insecurities and him trying to justify his disrespect towards the relationship. What’s about you is how you take this and what you do with it, it hurts I know, but don’t make it personal. It would have been the same with you or any other girl. It’s a hard idea to accept because we want to be the one but the red pill ideas are abo…
/r/ExRedPill12/03/25 11:47 AM
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Sunscreen with color was a game changer for me. Also if you really take care of your skin you don’t need much.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/24 08:22 PM
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Thanks and yeah. I don’t know his reasons and I’m not gonna stay around to figure it out.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 07:30 PM
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We haven’t had sex
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 07:29 PM
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Yes, totally. That’s what I thought as well, just needed to hear it from other people too. He’s been clear from the beginning and I shouldn’t let my feelings get in the way of what I want long term. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 03:01 PM
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Thank you for this! It was a very good insight. I do agree that we have a crazy checklist in our heads, I’m very aware of it and am always trying to manage expectations. I don’t have a list like blue eyes, blonde hair etc I’m very open to dating all type of people but I also want to feel the desire for someone. I’m very loyal when I’m head over heels for someone, I know it’s a matter of decision too. And what you said about a guy not paying the bill and us thinking he won’t provide, it couldn’t …
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 06:17 PM
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I was dating a guy before this one, he had the big hands, talk guy, amazing jaw line, I was drawn to his eyes, everything about him turned me on. We also had so much in common but not similar values. We talked about finances etc and he said he didn’t care about money, he was a freelancer and sometimes just hoping a job will come up. I want to have kids and I definitely don’t want to struggle, it hurt me but I had to cut him off.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 05:42 PM
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I really feel you. He’s also in IT, very smart, super intelligent and ambitious, has 2 businesses of his own, a very good job, eventually wants to live off his businesses and move to another country to retire, close to his family. I don’t feel repulsion and I do enjoy being with him, he doesn’t try to force things and it’s very pleasant. We also have similar values. I know he would help me with my career a lot which is just starting. The other day I looked at him and said ok I like his legs and …
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 03:47 PM
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I wouldn’t say too many, but it doesn’t take me long to find someone who’s interested if Im actively looking. However dating is very tiring for me, I’m an introvert. The main thing for me is I don’t always find people who have the same interests as me, that’s the hard part.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 04:51 PM
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I haven’t and I don’t feel the desire to do so if I think about it. We’ve seen each other twice, idk if physical attraction can grow by us just doing things together, I do feel comfortable and good with him. I just don’t know how long I can go before it’s just unfair to him as well. I would be wasting his time.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 04:44 PM
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He wants to pay but I think it’s just to have me around. I think that’s pretty obvious but yes mixing things is just not something I want to do. If we end up together sure, I can help him he can help me no big deal.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 04:37 PM
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I think it’s a bit unfair to him as well, everyone wants to feel desired I think. I know I do. I’m not sure how I can “test” if there’s sexual enthusiasm at some point. Im not gonna go to bed with him just to try and see if there’s something there.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 03:07 PM
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I’m not repulsed by him but there’s just things in his body I don’t like. I’m very fit and even though he has a good and healthy lifestyle too he doesn’t have the usual fit body. It sounds shallow too, I know.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 03:04 PM
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I’m starting to feel bad and guilty because he’s including me in a few things in his life. I’m in marketing and he wants me to help him with a few things at the brewery and I would Love to but then I’ll feel like I need to give him something in return. He also said he likes me the other day, I didn’t say it back because I don’t and I think it’s just awkward for him. He keeps insisting though.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 03:02 PM
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I keep seeing these disorders being related to the red pill more and more. It’s validating in some way because that’s exactly my experience. I don’t think all red pillers are but there’s definitely some correlation with narcissism mainly, in my opinion. And yes these guys know a lot about psychology and are diagnosing people to control them it seems like. My ex used to say I’m too unstable emotionally but he was playing psychological games with me all the time, how am I supposed to be ok if you’…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 05:49 PM
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I would say with terms like alpha male, being a bit obnoxious too, in my country they have ads so girls will follow them 😭for some reason I relate martial arts with them too, seems like they’re all doing that and smoking cigars. If they want to hookup with you they won’t care about tattoos. If they want a relationship maybe yes.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/24 07:53 PM
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I’m sure there are more bad than good effects but it seems very rare to find a man who doesn’t. At least in my experience.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/24 06:20 PM
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OP mentioned adding more competition anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 01:09 AM
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Not gonna lie I’ve been seeing lots of these girls too lol it surprises me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:33 PM
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Assuming it’s been a while since you’ve been seeing each other. I would move on too. I don’t like the competition anxiety lol I won’t compete. I know women who would really fight though. Also my thought process would be, if he’s still looking, he doesn’t see myself as a potential candidate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:23 PM
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I’m saving this and reading it before every date I go to
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/24 08:45 PM
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This is interesting because I have friends who “have hit the wall” by red pill standards and they put up with less things than I do for example. I guess it depends on the woman and how desperate she is. Younger women have more options so yeah she can be more selective in a way. The guy treats her badly and she gets another guy, but also once she’s in, she’s in, she’ll do whatever you ask her to. Maybe same as the desperate woman who hit the wall already?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:13 PM
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Yes they’re are, no doubt about it. But when we are younger we are also more naive. And we are more likely to accept certain behaviors. For example, cheating. A younger woman is more likely to accept it or be persuaded to think it’s ok. My ex was into the red pill and I know that the girl before me let him sleep with as many women as he wanted, he convinced her that it was ok. He cheated on me in the most evil way and it hurt me but I left. His friend was persuading his gf to become an only fans…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:37 PM
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I always thought that the preference for much younger women came from the fact that usually (not always) younger women could be more easily manipulated too. Besides of course them being better looking in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:25 PM
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I think by the time we leave we have grieved the relationship already. It’s not a decision that you take from one day to the other. This is when the woman breaks up. That doesn’t necessarily mean we move on emotionally but we are in the acceptance stage already. Men go out and try to have as much sex as they can maybe because they’re hurt but trying to put up a “I’m good face” the grieving comes a bit later. When we women already accepted and are trying to move on. That’s how I see it. I read yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:00 PM
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If I play Pokémon go?
/r/ExRedPill23/02/24 01:49 AM
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I don’t know if it’s a sign of red pill but from my experience they do call each other king. Men are the prize sounds like a red pill thing to say. Run.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/24 12:22 AM
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My ex cried in front of me once and then he acted like I was gonna loose all respect for him because of it, he said things like “I don’t think you should loose respect because it was x situation” like he needed to explain why he was upset. I can’t think of a family that will be lead by a man who thinks he needs to be a robot. At the end I lost respect but because I was being disrespected SO much. Plus walking on egg shells was not fun. How can you have a healthy family when you’re tense and afra…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 02:54 PM
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I think men and women value different things. You want to feel physically wanted because you’re very visual, you’re a man. We want to feel emotional connection and safety. Just the fact that I feel this connection with someone, makes me be attracted to him and makes me want to be with him, and him only. I don’t care about other men. Connection sometimes needs to come before physical attraction, for women. We are just different and that’s ok. You will be physically wanted by your partner. Edit: s…
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 06:39 PM
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