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Useful-Lion/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:49 AM
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I wrote about this above. I ideally want to adopt but I would feel more secure having other women around me to be aunties basically- and form a matriarchal clan of fierce women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:17 AM
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I have never wanted biological children of my own, and have always wanted to adopt if I can get my life together enough. I had this beautiful vision yesterday of having a nice house with land, adopting two daughters, having my best friend live in a house out back and basically having it be a matriarchal compound with practical magic/Addams family vibes. I could see us all out back watching a movie on a big screen with our assorted pets and cozy pillows and candles. Basically the exact vision you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:12 AM
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And we do it backwards, in heels, while being paid less, combating sexism, dealing with periods and hormones and kids and childcare, etc etc etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 09:18 PM
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Omg I was an art history major and never did anything with it but my best friend is now a professor and she says she brings up the anecdote to her students of how I was so triggered by Frank Stella and his pompous attitude in a video we had to watch in modern art class that I walked out. 😂 Don’t even get me started on how overblown that guy’s ego is. He makes SQUARES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:52 PM
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This is so true and so depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:07 PM
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With so many men it’s like where do you even begin with all the unattractive features
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:10 PM
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Literally a pick me only fans girl I know of in real life gets ghosted or cheated on by every guy she actually dates but still gets off on online attention with captions like “say hi to your girlfriend”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:05 PM
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And if she was the girlfriend they’d cheat on/disrespect her as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:04 PM
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I guess it’s expensive (or - well- not really) to be an undateable troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:21 PM
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This sub and my last awful relationship have made me realized that. I’m so excited for my fabulous house and a career and hot tub to look forward to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:18 AM
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OH NO this is my last relationship shakes with rage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:25 PM
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It’s so cliche that it’s like her song title but she really is stronger than anyone expected. And I was just re-watching Slave 4 U after her documentary and realized that she was so much than the sex object they tried to mold her into. She was a belly dancing sensual goddess which is why so many people were entranced by her. I hope maybe her sons will come to her rescue somehow, that would be the happy ending her story deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:54 AM
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She’s like a modern day Marilyn Monroe but she’s surviving and we have to awkwardly face what we did to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:32 AM
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I love the tales of potential HVM in here even though the ratio is 1 to about 35. But it’s so cute and pure when they do pop up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:26 AM
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Like I’m not competing with your coworker at the pizza place thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:23 PM
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Yes! I upgraded a friend to friend with benefits out of quarantine desperation, and first he’s going on about how lucky he is and how I’m his dream girl, and next thing you know he’s trying to neg me by “accidentally” flashing his dm’s with another girl in them. So I blocked him to call his bluff. Let’s see if she actually wants to fuck you buddy or if you just sabotaged what could have been a dependable hookup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:55 PM
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I don’t know but I do know that every time I drag a guy home I feel embarrassed for my cat to witness him 😂 because she’s just so much better and classier and above it all. That should really tell me something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:07 AM
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Exactly. And he was actually better in bed because he worked harder for it 😂 so my hooha knew exactly what it was doing. But men ruin all good things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:30 AM
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Yep. It gives them a self esteem boost so then they think maybe they can get other women out of their league and start being a player like the bros they look up to. Gross gross gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:31 AM
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It’s like the ugly men can’t wait to start treating you like shit like everybody else does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:09 PM
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I was just thinking about this- every time I’ve ever gotten a psychic or tarot reading (which- I know, it can be woo woo and silly but I still enjoy them) the message about any guy in my life is that he’s not a good idea. And usually most of the things in the reading pan out to be true, including that! I always thought it was because I pick the wrong men but of course it’s that men ain’t shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:07 PM
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As a stand up comedian if I had a nickel for every time I’ve heard this phrase... meanwhile every single man who does it is godawful. They just relate to each other’s sad scrote material and clap each other on the back for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:33 PM
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They’ll probably be so intimidated they’ll start with the negging even earlier. “Are those real degrees?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:29 PM
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Exactly. I posted above but I always get entangled in banter with men because I’m trying to somehow get the upper hand and make them feel stupid- but there’s no way to win like that because any attention is good attention and feeds their ego. So even if you perfectly call them out on being a negging scrote they’ll smirk and say something else to keep you engaged. This is kind of my Achilles heel with men but I need to learn to rise above it and save my energy for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:24 PM
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(Checking his internet settings) “did we lose connection? I had a whole explanation ready for her!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:15 PM
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AMAZING! I get so exhilarated by this sub and the actions women are taking to put LVM and NVM in their place. It’s the catharsis you rarely see in real life or on other relationship boards. To toot my own horn, I have a manager at my job who tries to flirt with me via negging (I think he thinks I’m in my 20’s- also he’s apparently married but doesn’t wear a ring) - and as soon as I realized all this I called him out on the negging but he didn’t stop- he said “oh I see, you’re just sensitive” and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:13 PM
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They are so absurd. Their lives revolve around getting sex when they think the other person is hard to get or not into it. When we ask for it, they’re “not a piece of meat.” Why are men so badly made, like to think we could all just be having lots of sex and enjoying our lives but no, they have to make it impossible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:25 PM
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My ex was super into choking me in bed and I convinced myself I was into it because I was still a pick me. Lo and behold our relationship ended with him strangling me on my kitchen floor. Biggest wake up call I’ve ever had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:21 PM
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This sub is literally voluntary celibates because the quality of men is so awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:16 PM
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Lol that’s a good idea- why not! And I can envision all the icky energy clearing away ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:01 PM
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I so want to do a bit where I mention this sub and how we divide them by high value males and low value males and be like “but don’t worry... none of you would be low value males... you’re all NO value males”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:59 PM
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Literally the only thing I don’t like about this subreddit is how often it reminds me of men and their disgusting hygiene... Like literally it wasn’t my imagination that THAT was what I was smelling last time I hooked up with someone Ewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:13 AM
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I do stand up comedy and FDS is helping me hone my routines 😂 it’s both sad and a relief to see I’m not the only one having these observations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:30 AM
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“He picked ME to fold his socks and cook for him while he jerks off to only fans and leads a double life! I win.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:43 PM
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I mean they already hate vaginas, are super into pushing for anal, and only respect other men, so.... makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:41 PM
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Ugh I wished I’d lived by that philosophy prior to now but sadly didn’t - I would love to get an exorcism for my hooha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:32 PM
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So freaking true. My cheating lying ex once put a car battery in for me and wouldn’t shut up about it - “what would I do without him?!” Um, call Triple A? And they won’t stick around for months wasting my time and negging me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:33 AM
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Looks so peaceful and cozy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:10 AM
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And they actually get mad at you and or smirk when you try to stand up for yourself or expect more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:09 AM
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Yup my mom literally taught me to not trust my intuition and to be walked all over for the sake of pandering to a man. Having a really hard time sustaining a relationship with her these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:08 AM
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Thank you! Nothing financial, he just strangled me the day before everything went into lockdown and it keeps getting postponed and postponed since then. The state was the one who pressed charges so I am working with a public defender and trying to make sure I stand my ground as much as possible to get him the maximum possible sentence. And I’m seeing close up how much the legal system doesn’t seem to care about domestic violence. His pick me ex wife who was the cause of the fight and who he had …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:12 PM
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Oh. No. And it somehow still won’t even translate to eating pussy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:48 PM
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Men have a lot of audacity rating women on a ten point scale when we have Jason Momoa running loose in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:43 PM
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You’re so goddamn lucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:43 PM
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Ooooh this is a great idea. I would if I didn’t have to hold on to damning evidence for the ongoing court case against him. 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:38 PM
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Truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:30 PM
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YES. I was going to make a whole post about the audacity of this (just because YOU’RE lonely, why am I suddenly obliged to talk to you?) but I see it’s already covered. This is someone who just got out of a long term relationship and so has decided I’m the one he’s going to use his passive aggressive tactics for attention on. So it’s helping me remember that these are the types of guys women are in long term relationships WITH - aka the grass is not always greener and the more I interact with me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:57 PM
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Over 100? This might be a you problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:27 AM
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The one cute story that came out of this was the kid who made thousands of dollars because of his mom buying him GameStop stocks for Christmas and wanting him to learn about the stock market. As for the rest I can’t say I feel bad for any of the bros who seem to have no understanding of how the stock market works despite supposedly being so logical and prone to rational decision making.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:11 PM
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I know, it didn’t seem as wholesomely funny as everyone was making it out to be because of the weird vibes coming off that guy. Men ruin all joy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:59 PM
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This made me spit take. I don’t know how anyone can say women aren’t funny after reading this sub. Well of course, they would, but for obvious and pathetic reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 07:03 AM
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Don’t worry dude I can tell by the four sentences that you’re insufferable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:57 AM
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Even though the last few guys I’ve slept with haven’t overtly made fun of anything I still get that vibe from men more and more. Like it just feels icky now to be vulnerable and uninhibited in front of them because the hatred of and looking down on women is so strong. So even if they’re technically making you feel good it’s not ultimately about wanting you to feel good and they’re secretly judging/resenting/mocking your pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:15 AM
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This is exactly right. I’m learning more and more from this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:00 AM
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But only on MY terms! When I want! YOU can’t want me to want it! Then it’s too much PrEsSuRe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:00 AM
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Can’t believe how many times I’ve had to learn this. 😂 I’m too imaginative for my own good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:57 AM
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This made me cackle. Queens indeed. I wish my mom wasn’t such a pick me and she could have used divorce to make my dad’s life miserable, alas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 09:47 PM
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At least misogynists can change a tire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:53 PM
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Accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:02 AM
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I thought maybe that might be one of the few categories of potential HVM :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:22 PM
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Jesus Christ they do this with everything. This is not at all lucrative but I do stand up comedy and every time I mention it a guy will have one of two responses “oh, I’ve always wanted to try that, I think I’d be a good stand up” or (patronizingly) “say something funny”. Never like... oh cool, tell me more. Actually I forgot the third is always something about me being pretty because “there’s not a lot of attractive women in stand up.” COOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:20 PM
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I can’t imagine being attracted to any man to the point where I need to look at images and jack off to them. Ever. Not even Jason Momoa. It’s so incredibly dumb and creepy and this is what men spend 80% of their time doing, like apes. I also hate that I really enjoy physical sex and yet have to go most of my time without it thanks to this exact asininity. (If that wasn’t a word before it is now)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 10:19 PM
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Even if they do have great dick it’s usually attached to someone extra terrible so it’s a zero sum game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 06:04 PM
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Same. For me it’s always seemed like a very personalized struggle because my father was obsessed with playboy and naked women and they were always shoved in my face, and I somehow thought that the fact that every guy I’ve dated since has been porn sick and I have to compete with Insta models is somehow just the guys I’m picking due to childhood trauma or whatever. It’s such a relief in a bittersweet way to realize that it’s nothing to do with my particular father or decisions- this is just the w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 06:00 PM
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Its definitely a matter of personal tastes which isn’t to say art history isn’t full of a ton of over-glorified males. Van Gogh was such a wackadoo I have a hard time seeing him as a pompous egomaniac - I mean, he was, but in a very absurd way to the point I think most women and people avoided him. Artists like Picasso and Gauguin who groomed young girls and actually had charm were much more insidious. I also remember how much I loved writing a paper which compared the male impressionists to fem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:23 PM
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Van Gogh was an expressionist. He tried to hang out with the impressionists but they all rejected him. There were plenty of dudes glorified for Impressionism like Monet and Renoir. There were some famous female impressionists as well , like Berthe Morisot and Mary Cassat. I majored in art history specifically this time period and I’m fascinated with it - and I’m a raging feminist but I love Van Gogh. He was a complete basket case and completely consumed by his artistic and spiritual mission. He …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:15 PM
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Probably simultaneously patting himself on the back and jerking off to his own perceived brilliant words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:03 PM
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By his logic he already did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:02 PM
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Precisely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 04:57 PM
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They whine when you start asking for that too much too. They’re NoT a PiEcE of MeAt! And then they still cheat while complaining about your insatiable sex drive. Fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 04:55 PM
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I just tried to watch My Cousin Vinny- because I’m in an ongoing court case with my NVM ex who assaulted me. The one positive thing I got from the rewatch is that I hope to channel some Marisa Tomei vibes on the stand—- other than that I was horrified by the age gap and her cool-girl-ing around talking about cars while wearing lingerie to win over a 50 year old Joe Pesci. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:46 AM
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Is this English?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 05:49 AM
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Most movies show the woman’s career as BAD and the VILLAIN of the story which is why at some peak career moment she returns to the low value man instead and we’re supposed to cheer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:12 PM
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Ugh I just accidentally was on a pick me’s only fans filled Twitter account and then I read this post right after and it was like whiplash. This is exactly the way to handle scrotes. You are an inspiration 💅🏻💃🏻✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:10 PM
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They literally are useless and they’re panicking. My ex once changed my car battery and it was the one “manly” thing he did and I never heard the end of it. I still bought the car battery so all he did was stick it in (his wheelhouse). He was like “what would you do without me? Who would change your car battery?!” Um.... Triple A?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 03:22 PM
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This is amazing. I want this life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 03:19 PM
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Hilarious. This really does nail it. “If you’re not going to pretend to be less than you are and laugh at all my dumb jokes and make me feel manly and important by asking me to open a can, then you can live your life the way you want and laugh and decorate and eat chocolate and not share space with a smelly misogynist who verbally abuses you, makes your life more chaotic and miserable, doesn’t clean and is most likely cheating on you.” What a loss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 03:17 PM
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Too bad that’s impossible for males
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:50 PM
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“Just ask”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:55 PM
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If you really wow him, ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:55 PM
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That’s amazing. That’s the kind of thing you wish you’d done after the fact in most situations but I love when the belligerent urge takes you right then and there. It’s the only way to get them to actually leave us alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:50 PM
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They’re so stupid. My NVM ex was on snap chat (GIGANTIC red flag) and I’d never used it before but I liked all the dumb bear filters and would send him silly heavily filtered pics occasionally and he’d be like “you have no idea how hot you are.” They really are too dumb to tell the difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:36 PM
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That’s the greatest thing about this sub- every single guy I’ve dated has had the same issues but I was internalizing it and thinking it was something wrong with me. Now I see that yes- I am drawn to shitty men because of past trauma- but that’s only part of it and in fact it’s just that at least 90% of modern men are shitty. I could have had a perfectly normal upbringing and still end up with someone porn sick and gaslighting and secretly funneling money to only fans - and in fact if I didn’t h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 11:54 PM
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Yes. AND another thing I’ve realized is that I tend to bring out the good in people. Not stroking my own ego because it’s actually a negative thing when it confuses me as to someone’s true nature. I’m very playful and so the men I interact with tend to become more playful and lighthearted when we hang out- my last boyfriend would dance in my living room with me, we would take bubble baths together, he bought a puppet because I had one, he started playing blues guitar and telling me about his scr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:42 PM
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They don’t realize that you really can suck on it 😆 not that they’d care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:51 AM
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We’re not pathologically obsessed with criticizing their appearance the way they are about us; I don’t even have the energy to care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 02:00 AM
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And we have to do all that just to... not have them go near it. But they DO like to mock it now, saying it looks like deli meat. You wouldn’t have heard that in the 70’s!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 12:05 AM
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Wait I just posted almost the exact same comment above and got confused when I read this because I thought it was me! I do stand up too and am seriously considering quitting because of the number of LVM you have to put up with... but then that will just allow them to continue saying “welp, guess women aren’t funny” when it’s really that we have better things to do than spend every night in their swamp creature boys club. Anyway I’d be interested to hear about your experiences :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 12:03 AM
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I’ve been saying this in my stand up comedy sets. They’d rather eat ass than pussy wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 12:00 AM
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They’re obsessed with “getting pussy” yet hate actual vaginas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 11:58 PM
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This sounds right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:28 AM
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Yes! I get more attention from cute men that age now than when I actually was that age. They like the confidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:31 PM
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They couldn’t be more wrong, as you get older you just get a wider range of men bothering you, now it’s the creepy old men AND the 21 year olds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:29 PM
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They’re pathological. I rent but my apartment is very intensely decorated because I have a strong eclectic sense of style, and the last guy constantly negged everything in it while asking how I was ever going to live with someone since it would mean toning down my flair. Which got me thinking.. maybe I don’t want to ever live with someone for that reason. I’d rather be surrounded by things I love and have control of my surroundings than give it all up for a LVM with basic taste.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:25 PM
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Ugh I fell for this one. The guy spent three nights a week overnight at my place so I thought there’s no way the woman living with him thinks they’re together but she must have been just as easily lied to as I was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:55 PM
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Also I will never understand how men need to be so visually stimulated by women at every hour of the day. Like when is it enough? And why is it so normalized for them to be perpetual 12 year olds horned up over titties? I think Jason Momoa is the sexiest man to walk the planet but the most I’ve ever done is leave a thirsty comment on his instagram, I would feel like a complete creep touching myself to his pictures and I don’t even actually have that impulse. The bar for men is just so incredibly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:03 AM
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With my ex he got me to somehow be his therapist about his “ex” who of course it turned out he was never planning on leaving. Fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:47 PM
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That was my ex. I couldn’t figure out what he was trying to use me for and this finally makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:45 PM
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