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Regardless of your religion or beliefs, if you're not discerning and can't think for yourself, you will be a slave to whatever you follow.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 02:35 PM
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LoL
/r/askTRP12/10/16 07:02 PM
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Just do unto others type of thing. It takes just a little more effort on a man's part to do the right thing, but it's important to our development as men to learn and establish morals and virtues. Each person working on themselves over time will create a new change and dynamic in our society, at least for us men. That's what makes us so great, we have the ability to work as a team, whereas women argue, bitch, and complain.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 07:02 PM
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I agree, but isn't everyone responsible for their own actions? I get that the corruptible people are desperate or stupid, and those people are the problem. What's funny is that lack of morals and virtues are/is: A. What most men have to deal with in women. (Just trying to get them to be honest is something we don't even expect from most women anymore) B. Knows no boundaries. You can be black, white, or whatever and make little or lots of money and still struggle with morals and ethics and being …
/r/askTRP12/10/16 06:57 PM
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True. Then that puts the responsibility on the parents and moves the focus to them, which raises the next obvious question - How do you get the parents' morals on track?
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:08 PM
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Accept your life for how it is and work on it daily. In my opinion, you can't emotionally do this, it must be logical. Work on being consistent with your goals and you'll do fine. I just started doing weighted dips and could barely do regular ones about 6 weeks ago, and my physique is looking more and more impressive. Working out has been the greatest decision of my life. Every man needs to work out. Be consistent! Above all - know that you can do this. There are so many men here who are just li…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 03:55 PM
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Yeah, lol. Both my parents are like farts in the wind. Oh well, just keep doing.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 03:48 PM
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You nailed it - Started dating her when she was 18 and still "pure young lady". Oh, we both lived in a small town of around 10,000 people. Maybe find small town girls?
/r/askTRP07/10/16 07:55 PM
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It's like a hyena fucking around until the lion gets tired of him.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 05:21 PM
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My wife was raised with a strong Religious (Christian) background and a firm upbringing so she's very hard-working, humble and has a desire to want to please. She's put up with me being super beta for the past 10 years we've been married. She makes good money, has a masters degree, and is very logical. She's not a NAWALT, she's just a mature female with some morals.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 04:28 PM
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Naw, he's just being a dick. We already own the home by now (less than 24 hours). But you're right, I had nothing I could do about it but watch him act like a dickhead.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 04:16 PM
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You're right. I knew he had won as soon as lost my cool. The whole thing caught me off guard. I guess it's been a while since I've spoken to an asshole. I think I figured out why: I broke because he's more aggressive and he represented all the bullies that picked on me when I was in high school but was too afraid to fight back because I was afraid of an ass whooping. His attitude towards me struck to my core and I let it get to me. You're right, and all I can do now is learn from it. P.S. - Just…
/r/askTRP07/10/16 04:22 AM
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Thanks for the advice, VZ. I'm realizing now it was a good wake up call for me to work on myself more.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 03:50 AM
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Tell me about it.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 10:49 PM
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Don't get caught up the red pill stuff. Just because it's good medicine doesn't mean we need to take it all the time. I suggest looking for some balance in your life and to realize life is way too short to worry about getting your dick wet. Try kayaking, glider rides, geocaching, go outdoors and get dirty and muddy. The point of life is to experience it. I've got 10-15 years on you and I can tell you from the future to not waste time on women, they will come into your life. To me, the point of a…
/r/askTRP30/09/16 01:13 AM
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I bought a pull-up/dip/push-up station for $80 and have been hitting that with a very simple routine and seeing great results. Mon: chin-ups and dips Tue: rest/long walk Wed: rest/long walk Thur: push-ups Fri: pull-ups Sat: rest/long walk Sun: rest Two days off will give you enough time in between to be able to heal. Since it's bodyweight exercises, most people suggest going until complete failure and to always switch up your routines, pace, reps, and sets. Here's a really good video of a vegan …
/r/askTRP30/09/16 12:56 AM
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For modern men and women connected to modern society with our society's current morals and ethics of what's acceptable and unacceptable - this is how most men and women who dont have an established set of morals will act. They simply follow what's wrong or right based on what society says, not what their own morals and ethics say, which leads to strife and struggle between man and woman. Honestly, how are the women of third wave feminism not a collective "Eve" from the Garden of Eden? They're ju…
/r/askTRP29/09/16 02:41 PM
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I agree, too. Getting pussy is one thing but dedicating your life to getting pussy under the name of RedPill seems a little extreme. RedPill to me exists merely as a reaction to third wave feminism. I don't stay on these forums too long because most of it seems to be filled with whore hounds who just want to get their dick wet. (Which is immaturity on their end for letting their cock dictate what here doing in their lives.) However, there is a major part of RedPill that helps men learn to become…
/r/askTRP28/09/16 04:45 PM
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It's pretty good. Not a lot of it applies, such as we're going to start working out together that often, which I think will help. Like I've said before, neither of us have friends or family and we live in a new town and know zero people. We're also not on any social media. I squashed all friends, social media, etc because I knew that shit was bad for a good LTR. I read that levels of dread thing and I'm going to eat the meat and spit out the bones. There are glaringly obvious things I need to fi…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 10:52 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP27/09/16 09:31 PM
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I don't understand why it's for my benefit that you refer to me as a "christcuck" and then proceed to give me info that you think my marriage is doomed? Seems that what you wrote was very self-serving with a touch of your own anger/agenda. Don't harbor anger with someone because of their faith/religion. You don't know me. I put that I was a Christian so I wouldn't get all the dumb posts about lawyering up, fuckin other women, hitting on other women, or anything that went beyond my personal moral…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:19 PM
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That's probably the best advice, and doesn't go against my morals or ethics.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 05:23 PM
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Ignore her. Imagine her as a 9 year old girl - She's acting pretty immature right now, right? Most women act like 9 year old girls. We give women maturity too easily.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 04:06 PM
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The point of life is to experience it.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 03:16 PM
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I'm married, too. I can relate to your difficulty with sex. My best strategy is to just work out and ignore her a lot more than I want to. It's difficult but for me, it's a daily commitment to kill the beta inside. I would ghost her for a few days and plan on kicking her the fuck out or see if she changes before that. Usually my wife will breakdown and cry if she thinks I'm leaving her. Just go do stuff on your own.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 03:15 PM
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Here are two things I've been trying: I like to have practice conversations with people at the checkout stand of my grocery store. If I mess up its no big deal because they won't likely remember me, and most likely don't care. When I talk to women, I imagine them as a 10 year old girl and that takes away any nervousness for me. I guess it makes me act in a non-sexual way, which kills my stress. Maybe this is a good option for starters like me. These are just things to try on your own if you like…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 02:58 PM
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Stopping improved things for me. I don't like how it affects me psychologically and my ability to hold my frame. Plus it makes my dick look smaller. Your body can tell the difference between vagina and just hand. Masturbation is second place in my mind.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 01:21 PM
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I use my sensitivity as an advantage. One trick I do is to simply cum in the beginning of sex and enjoy it (blowjob, etc) then it's her turn. I kiss and rub all over and build her up until she's ready. By the time I'm hard again, she's begging for it and I'm able to last. That's what works for me. Side note - I do reverse kegels, no porn, and no fap as well. Seems to help me with keeping a much larger flaccid state. I went from a "grower" to a "shower". Food for thought.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 04:41 AM
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A nanny has been ruling for too long.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 02:20 PM
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I read a quote by Ghandi that said something like - "everything in life is pointless to do, but it's worth doing" What I got from the first part of that quote is that we're all going to die, and even though we could experience all sorts of wondrous and marvelous things while we're here, it's all sort of pointless in the big scheme of things in the sense that nothing we do will change the world. The second part of the quote is saying that the whole point of life is to live these experiences! The …
/r/askTRP18/09/16 09:08 PM
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Your gut says NO, but your dick says yes? I'd go with your gut. My gut feeling is that she's looking to you as a resource i.e.; money, shelter, conveyance, dick, etc. I would play out the scenario between you and her in your mind and ask yourself where you see you two in five years? Just my opinion.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 08:55 PM
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This is my opinion, take it for what it's worth. I used to be mad about all of that stuff, too. I think it's more of an issue of acceptance that a growing number of women who act like that exists, but I'm not saying you have to like it. The best thing to help you move past the anger is to understand that a majority of women aren't being raised by mature women and to a mature level. So we're dealing with a lot of immature women. There's really not even a standard for how women should act. From my…
/r/askTRP18/09/16 08:48 PM
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This guy nailed it.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 07:29 PM
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I'm working on quitting, too or at least scaling back to weekends only. Just keep hitting the gym and maintain your frame. Maybe set a reminder every three months to check your status and path you're on in life. If after three months you see a decline in your work, health, etc then you would know to quit smoking weed, or cut back.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 07:28 PM
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Just my opinion but I think you should be doing it all for you. Get strong for yourself, get lean and look awesome for yourself. Once you get your body looking great and your confidence is up, you'll probably not even think twice about that one female once you're getting hit on by many. Basically lose the desire for that woman, you're not serving yourself by doing it. If something isn't serving you, it's worthless to you.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 07:13 PM
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What would be the alpha way to handle that scenario?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 07:06 PM
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Just an update - my knee is healed, I'm walking and recovering fine. Been hitting my dip/pull-up/push-up station that I bought and I've been getting lots of muscle growth and losing weight. Still tracking calories and once we finish buying our new home I'll get a job asap, which I know is still a huge problem and it's my last big issue. My wife and I have been talking a lot and I've been working on building a frame, which is hard if you have no frame of reference on how to act. I've just been fo…
/r/askTRP13/09/16 06:11 PM
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You're being consistent, which is good but it sounds like you're beating yourself up for not reaching some level of perfection in your head - Am I close to what the issue is? Just being consistent will get you to your goals. It would be impossible to maintain such perfection.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 04:25 PM
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I wouldn't be with a chick who had "guy friends", period.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 04:18 PM
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I'm 36 and trying to do it, it's never too late. I have a lot of the same issues but no father in the picture. Weed can be hard to quit for some, myself included. I lost 60+ lbs doing 8/16 Intermittent fasting and I'm down to 19% body fat and working on the last 10-15lbs. I bought a dip/pull-up/push-up station for $79 and I've been hitting that for just a month and I feel great. You need to focus on being consistent with what you want to achieve in life. If you want that muscular body, make a pl…
/r/askTRP13/09/16 03:46 PM
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It feels like women spend more time patting theirselves on the back than doing the actual work. Men deserve equal representation - especially by companies as large as Google.
/r/MensRights05/09/16 02:13 PM
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I could not agree more. This is what should be taught to future generations to prevent decline.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 06:48 PM
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Good to stay mindful of that
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 06:46 PM
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For weight loss I recommend the 8/16 method of Intermittnet Fasting. I wrote a ton about it on a Wordpress blog - all free. It's how I've lost 70lbs so far. Basically have black coffee for breakfast and two protein-based meals for lunch and dinner.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 06:29 PM
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Thanks for the advice, it's perfect and exactly what I need to do! I'm really grateful for this help, nastynickdr! Thank you.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 03:11 PM
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Just had sex with my wife. We talked a lot of it out, I was smothering her from my issues from the past (previous bad marriage, domineering mother and my parents brutal divorce when I was four that stretched out for years). My wife told me she's not going anywhere and doesn't want a divorce. She said I was being needy and it was pushing her away. I feel much better now and she's sleeping on my chest as I write this. We both have problems, we just needed to iron that shit out. So far so good, I j…
/r/askTRP14/07/16 04:19 AM
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Thanks for the help, I greatly appreciate it. It sounds like exactly what I need to do. I do need to give myself more credit, I've got a good penis, a decent looking face, and once I get a job and hit the gym I'll have a lot going for me. Thank you so much!
/r/askTRP12/07/16 08:35 PM
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Last time we had sex I fucked her really good (3 orgasms and 1 the previous time. she likes the orgasms she says but she doesn't like the work getting to it. I made an analogy Of climbing a mountain and seeing the beautiful view from the top but the work and energy spent getting to the top doesn't seem worth it. She laughed really hard and said that's a really good metiphore to how she feels. She's never liked dick pics or sending anything, she doesn't like porn or even saying the word penis.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 07:54 PM
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My wife was single because she has a medical condition that most guys can't deal with (alopecia) but I liked it because it kept her humble to be missing something that every woman wants. Neither of us have family and we don't have friends, we literally are each other's friends, lol. I talked to her this morning and told her that when my knee heals up I'm going to get a good paying job and work to become the breadwinner or to make as much money as I can. Thanks for the info! I was raised with a d…
/r/askTRP12/07/16 07:48 PM
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