How do I become more alpha?

  1. Married 11 years, together for 13.

  2. 36 year-old white male, 20%bf and going to the gym 4x a week. Lost like 60lbs and currently working on gaining muscle and slowly losing fat

  3. Wife has masters degree and makes well over six figures. I have little education with a basic IT background (could do tech support but it's a beta job in my mind).

  4. My wife and I have zero friends (yes, we're each other's friend)

  5. We're Christians and follow the Bible and want to grow with each other in Christ.

  6. We just bought a new house and are moving in shortly.

  7. She's more like a guy, even hates women who act like manipulative bitches.

BASICALLY I feel that I need to build my alpha mindset to keep a strong marriage. She's been responding to what small amount of alpha male that exists within my new frame I'm working on.

What do you guys suggest? I'm currently unemployed and I know that's a huge deal with women, but I'll never make more than her.