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Don't address it. Don't approach her. Just treat her like any of the other people in the group that you're not super close with.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 02:42 AM
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You hold the keys to comittment. She holds the keys to sex. She wants more comittment and comfort. You already have everything you want which is sex. Since you're already banging all the power is with you now. You should slow trickle the comfort to maintain the relationship. Eventually she will push for a new level. More of your time, monagmous LTR, more of your time, Marriage. Once you have reached a level of comittment that you are not willing to go past you will butt heads as she keeps pressi…
/r/askTRP27/04/15 06:34 PM
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Good book. Don't worry about it so much. They'll stop as your behavior becomes less supplicating and validation seeking. Do you.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 01:47 AM
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You'll only get sucked in if you allow yourself to. Fuck her and ignore her. If you can't handle that or you're afraid you'll catch feelings don't go.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 01:46 AM
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Short rules then he goes into more depth with historical examples of it in action. If you google you can find a pdf with a summary of each rule.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 09:34 PM
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The guys jacked, succesful, and good looking. She sleeps with him. If the guys white it's fine. If he's black it's not? That's discriminatory based on skin color alone. If you were to next based on the other guy being a low SMV deadbeat or her going through some odd phase where she is actively choosing to sleep with black guys for the shock factor. Then that's more understandable and you're nexting for different reasons.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 09:32 PM
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It's racist, that's why you get labeled as a racist. The saying is from the 48 laws of power by Robert Greene. If you're going to act a certain way because you hold unpopular beliefs then don't advertise it. It's the same reason why you don't tell anyone about TRP in real life. It can come back to haunt you.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 09:23 PM
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Pretty racist but it's a personal choice. Just don't go advertising it to everyone. Think as you wish but act as others do.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 09:05 PM
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It roughly follows the SMV chart. 18-26 party years, 26-35 lock down a beta years, 30-40 looks fade. If she partied a lot the looks will fade sooner.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 09:03 PM
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If you're interested in day game check out Roosh and Krauser. They both have books Roosh - Day Bang and Krauser - Day Game Nitro. Krauser's blog is also excellent.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 09:00 PM
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Dinner and a movie at your place. No need to call it a date. Very easy to escalate Just say: Let's do dinner and a movie at my place on Tuesday
/r/askTRP26/04/15 08:54 PM
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If you wish to continue plating her just act nonchalant. If it's a deal breaker for you, move on and realize you're more cut out for a LTR. Plates will eventually fuck other guys or fall off your rotation. The key to plates is keeping several going at once and picking up new ones.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 08:45 PM
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Sure, the mistake you made was minor. If she's into you, she'll over look it. If she flakes or doesn't respond move on. Good luck.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 08:39 PM
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I'd be careful here, you're sounding a bit clingy. If you haven't said it, just say you're welcome to stay until monday. If she declines just drop it.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 08:30 PM
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She was just teasing you man. It was also a test of wills which you recognized and passed. Do yourself a favor and buy a 100 pack of condoms off amazon.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 08:27 PM
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Get more going on so you're too busy to notice these miniutia. Stop excessive messaging and mostly message just to arrange meet ups.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:24 PM
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You've got the right mindset. In regards to the period tracking. I've heard of some guys using an app to track their plates/ltr but in my opinion this goes too far. Make mental note of her period (don't be weird and ask but you'll find out if you're fucking regularly) and observe how she reacts to certain behaviors at certain times of her cycle. Fucks it will be fitness tests to see if you have good genes. Provider it will be a comfort test and for her to feel emotionally and phsyically taken ca…
/r/askTRP26/04/15 04:35 PM
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I think you handled this well. You didn't get verbally upset and break immersion and used action to punish her. With holding your own orgasm was a power move. Girls get validation from being hot enough to get men off. This girl is either broken. Enjoys causing psycological pain to men targeting one the most common and deep seated insecurities during sex. Or it was an autistic move on her part to get you angry and more dominant. Keep us posted on updates.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 04:13 PM
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Cut ties. A true life long friend doesn't disrepct you for 5 minutes in a hot pocket.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 07:51 AM
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Improve your SMV to the point where you don't need to lower them.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 04:55 AM
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6-8 servings of alcohol.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 04:54 AM
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You're looking for tricks and hacks instead of becoming a man of value. When you have and provide value people will respect you. Read The Way of Men if you want to know what traits will get you respect from other men and subsequently women. When the men respect you so do the women. Learn to judge your value by more than empty facebook likes.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 02:22 AM
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Leading up to a girl having her period she is looking for alpha fucks and good genes. After the period she is looking for comfort and a provider. In a LTR you must balance alpha and beta so that both needs are met. If she is texting you a lot or calling just toss her a smiley face and say busy at the moment or smiley i'll see you on "next day you're meeting" You have to give more comfort for LTR than a plate or you'll fry her hamster going no contact for 5 days a week. You're unknowingly using d…
/r/askTRP26/04/15 02:18 AM
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Don't bring up the as friends bit. No need. Just text her things like: "Note review today friend?" Don't try gaming her, don't kino, don't flirt. Just be a professional. Study together if it benefits you and get out.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 02:11 AM
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Soft next for a 2-3 weeks then see if she can meet up again.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 02:06 AM
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Start DM by making a comment poking playful fun at one of her pictures.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 02:03 AM
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Was the plan meeting at the party seperately? You should have planned to pick her up or traveled there together. Your last response was bad. Showed a lack of Outcome Independence and Abundance Mentality. You: Just got to the party Her: I can't make it I'm feeling sick You: Ok, feel better Ping her a few days later. You: You missed a crazy party, let's "activity" on "day" She flakes again after that and you next her and move on.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 01:54 AM
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You should of held the door. It's not beta to hold a door if it is going to swing back and hit someone. Just give it the pass off push, so she can catch it. Not getting the bag was the right move. Her comment at the table is just the tip of the ice berg, she's likely shit talking you to other employees. Just be civil and do your job.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 02:29 AM
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What's smart use? I believe after 2-3 drinks there are no more positives. Maintaining that level then becomes the challenge.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 05:24 PM
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This is the first reference I read of it. It may have developed on earlier PUA forums though. I know Rollo was involved in SoSauve before he got into blogging.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 04:54 PM
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I don't think she would get this. It's try hard in my opinion. I'd next but, if I was going for it. "Haha oh shit. Sending my limo over now."
/r/askTRP17/10/14 04:49 PM
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That response combined with 12 day wait time makes you her obvious drama prescription filler. Can you explain? He means, she got bored 12 days later and wanted to create some drama so she looked at her tinder chats and took a shot at you. If she was actually offended she would have responded right away.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 04:46 PM
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How'd it go?
/r/askTRP17/10/14 04:40 PM
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Just try it out man. Have fun with it. There's no silver bullet or magic phrase. The key is opening and practicing. I want you to try it 10 times and report the results back here.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 08:25 PM
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Good people tend to be attracted to other good people. It sounds like the one thing really missing from your life that you do want is a good friend and a good companion. You just listed all of the traits that you would want in a friend. I'm sure that friend would also want you to possess those same traits. Become this person: kind, smart, strong, dependable, altruist, honest, easygoing, with unshakeable moral values and that doesn't accept bulls**t, a REAL nice guy, not the needy, manipulating k…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 04:45 PM
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This is an excellent place to post such things. Holy shit man. Good job listening to your gut and getting the fuck out. That butch was a piece of work. You may wish to write down everything that happened that night well its still fresh in case she comes after you with the school or law.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 02:08 PM
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A hierarchy of relationships looks like this. Your children - Good family and good friends - others children - Good women - strangers -bad friends, coworkers, bad family - broken women Taken from an Afghanistan vets 47 tips for men in there 20's http://www.dangerandplay.com/2014/05/01/afghanistan-vet-airborne-infantry-soldiers-advice-men-20s/ The red pill strategy and knowledge is amoral. It can be used however the weilder chooses. It's up to you to determine if your a man of honor who respects …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 07:54 AM
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Here's what you should of done. You knew these drunk bitches were trolling you. You sensed this right away. You needed to maintain amused mastery. These are drunk little girls playing around. They are hilarious. They don't mean anything to you. The best thing I would of done is said the minimum possible and just told outrageous lies when they questioned me. Have fun with it. The wrong move would of been flirting back or trying to initiate at all. This is playing into their frame. They didn't con…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 06:35 AM
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Don't hang out one on one. Don't reply to all of her texts. If you want to be very overt just say "hey you're a great person but I don't think of you romantically." It'd be best to wait for her to ask you to hang out one on one again and then drop the previous line. Just be upfront and real. Don't lead her on and you should be fine with the other ladies. Two other tips. Don't look down on girls because they like you for your physique. That's a 100% valid reason to and you should be proud that yo…
/r/askTRP30/08/14 06:18 AM
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The key to life.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 06:05 AM
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You're a jerk/douche/asshole = you're giving me bad boy tingles You're close. Your reply was too long. It could be as simple as "I am" with a smirk. I typically just laugh and agree because I know it actually just means tingles. Shorten it up. Agree and amplify is a perfect move for this shit test. Side note to other readers, there is a difference in being the playful independent jerk and actually being a shit head. Don't over do things and pay attention to the vibe of the interaction.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 06:04 AM
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Flirt with everyone, escalate with few. Be the guy every girl wants and girls will start flocking to you to hang out. Just don't escalate and keep them in orbit.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 05:53 AM
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A tactful way of doing this is during a logistics text. "I'll pick you up tomorrow at 5. Btw, admission is $20 bring cash."
/r/askTRP30/08/14 05:51 AM
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I was going to disagree based on age and probable experience but each case is unique. Be aware of your investment and the opportunity cost.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 05:50 AM
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I don't mind period sex. I've had it before and I'll have it again in the future. Push for whatever you want man. This is a personal preference and what you can manage with the particular girl.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 05:47 AM
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If a chick is actually verbalizing the word no and we haven't discussed this before and come up with a safe word. I'm fucking done. Intimate activities are over. There are plenty of other girls who don't do this and then you don't run the risk of rape allegations. Better to sacrifice a ONS or a plate than get dominated by the courts. If she is not being specific and stopping your advances but still into the activities you can use hot and cold to bypass this. Doesn't work every time.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 05:46 AM
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People always want to get a good deal. A good deal is punching above your SMV number. Girls who fuck around during their youth will get to sleep with guys 2-3 points better than them. They then believe that this is the fair bargain for them. The issue is these guys are just flings and ONS. Not commitment. They get older notice their beauty is fading and try to cash out in the form of marriage. The only issue is their skewed perception of their SMV value due to getting alpha dick. They want a guy…
/r/askTRP30/08/14 03:27 AM
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Nice progress. People can definitely pick up on your vibe and it sounds like yours has changed for the better. Perhaps you could share some changes you made that you believe contributed to this effect.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 02:55 AM
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Infinite reasons and a lot are situational. If you're a woman, what problems have you run into finding a man?
/r/askTRP29/08/14 09:33 PM
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It's a sub for women to discuss their particular side of sexual strategy. It's most concerned with managing to land a ltr with a quality guy and then marriage. This days this can be difficult. The sub doesn't discuss slutting and riding the cock carousel because this strategy can be summed up in look good, be easy.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 09:24 PM
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A good move in this moment is called the pressure flip. Turn the statement around on them. "I'm not that easy. I'll need dinner first." You can also ignore it, or acknowledge and stack into your frame. "Okay, I'll see you shortly" What's happening in the background is the girl is looking for plausible deniability. She can't justify coming over for sex to herself because that would make her a slut. She needs an excuse to come over and then "oops, things just happened."
/r/askTRP29/08/14 09:20 PM
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You've made the right moves so far. If she brings up you fighting him again, just tell her you will keep her safe. I think this is what she is looking for. Your protection. There is another move girls pull who enjoy drama called "let's you and him fight." It's when they play 2 guys off each other. Your girl sounds decent though and I don't think this is her game.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 09:13 PM
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It's best to acknowledge these sorts of things and then stack the conversation in a direction you choose. "Damn, I'm getting lunch at noon join me" Best to use text for logistics and occasional pings to keep interest up on long game prospects.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 08:27 PM
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This is kind of fucked. Your best move is to just go silent. Anything else will feed into the issue.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 07:48 PM
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First off I want to congratulate you on having the self awareness and motivation to improve yourself. You are doing the right things. 1 month is great, 1 year is going to be amazing. You need to set your goals. Do you want kids ever? When do you want to get married? Is marriage non-negotiable for you? Being real here, if you have gained a lot of weight he may not be as attracted to you and feels he could marry better. Since your time is precious, I would recommend only spending 1 year improving …
/r/askTRP29/08/14 07:45 PM
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This is overt communication. This is the primary way that a man communicates. This is why this seems like a good idea to you. Men are very logical and straight forward. Women are primarily interested in covert communication. What can be said with out saying it. When a man approaches in this manner, without taking the lead or giving a women wiggle room to hamster than she is forced to make a decision. They are forced to have agency. It is also an attempt to negotiate attraction. Never do this, at…
/r/askTRP29/08/14 07:28 PM
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It does get a lot of positive endorsement. I actually recently started taking. Have 2 months experience. It takes a long time to get good, years. So prepare to stick with it if you want to see the confidence gain and other benefits. Work out wise it is okay. If you want size and aesthetics, I'd say lifting is better. I felt better after lifting than MMA. Another downside is you end up burning shit loads of calories so you have to eat a lot. About 500-700 calories for an hour class. This can be a…
/r/askTRP29/08/14 07:05 PM
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The thing they all had in common was you and a want to increase social standing. It wasn't the girls, it was you.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:27 PM
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Regardless of your goal I think you should act without intention. Don't go to this event thinking about how can I get this girl back. The fact that you're still pining for her after she dumped you awhile back shows the wounds are fresh and you could have a bluepill relapse if you go after her. Go to this event. Don't seek her out, don't avoid her, if the opportunity presents itself, take the lead and initiate the pleasantries. Treat her like an aunt or cousin you don't see very often. You have g…
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:22 PM
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I don't care either way as long as there's no lingering drama from either. I don't want to deal with crazy shit on my night out. You should aim to be the man that would cause jealously/regret/tingles in these girls over what they once had. I'm curious why you asked this question?
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:07 PM
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You deflected that shit test quite well. Nice agree and amplify. Just continue on. It sounds like you have a good thing going.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:01 PM
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You need to back off and not invest further. Ping her from time to time with invites to other activities and continue with the flirtations. If she isn't into this, then cut your losses and next her. Your SMV wasn't high enough. If she is into the flirtations you will probably do well that night. I'm guessing you ran into her Anti-Slut Defense the first night. Analyze the situation, make your decision in 7 seconds, stick to it and move on with your life. You've got better things to do than worry …
/r/askTRP29/08/14 03:58 PM
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If you have other girls it sounds like your game is on par. So that's not the issue. Define how much more time you want to put in the relationship. What you want out of it. Then pursue this and drop her if you can't get what you want. No need to ride her validation train. Not sure on ages, but she might be inexperienced and needs more comfort and rapport from you before sex. The fact that she isn't putting out and wants to wait for connection is signaling she is more interested in a more traditi…
/r/askTRP29/08/14 03:51 PM
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I believe that there is a next level after the red pill is internalized and you are strong in frame, body, and mind. When you have the ability to accept things as they are and still allow yourself to be emotionally vulnerable and bond with a mate, creating a life partner. (Be careful this isn't a son-mother vibe. If it's leaning that way, you are not ready and have work to do. The only person who can handle your problems is yourself.) Your self improvement journey and internalized awareness of s…
/r/askTRP29/08/14 03:39 PM
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Here's some actual advice for your question. Be the sociable with all, don't just laser focus the women you want. Seduce everyone you meet, get them to like you, enjoy having you around, your energy. Then if you're getting positive reactions from the woman you're interested in just ask her. "Hey I'm free Thursday, let's grab a drink." If all goes well and you've succeeded in becoming intimate, don't change your working relationship. Follow all workplace rules regarding relationships. Be more for…
/r/askTRP29/08/14 03:21 PM
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Awesome handling in my opinion. Being unphased is the right reaction. You want to avoid clingy mate guarding reactions, they show you are lacking in other options and are an attraction killer.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 03:04 PM
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Ask yourself what you want from this relationship and what you are emotionally strong enough to handle. Then pursue it. If you want to fuck her again, then engage and do so with that in mind. If you find these texts annoying, just delete her number and block it. Remove her from her from your life. If I was in your shoes, I would block her number and delete all social media connections with her. I would remove her totally from my life. If she continues to to text you, I would just reply "unsubscr…
/r/askTRP29/08/14 08:09 AM
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Beta behavior is rooted in scarcity and neediness. They are in a rush and scared they will lose what they have. Alpha behavior is rooted in abundance. There is no rush. They will always have enough. If one girl gets away who cares, there are more.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 08:30 PM
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