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RemindMe! 1 day
/r/seduction24/10/20 01:44 AM
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I didn't find socializing to be intuitive, at first. It wasn't until I started learning about psychology, biology, sociology, economics, and even things like stand-up comedy and writing until I began to understand people. You ever see how animals will all look around together, or have weird rituals like sniffing each other or bowing to each other or whatever else? Well people do the same thing... because we're also animals. Learn about body language, and you'll start to see people instinctively …
/r/seduction22/10/20 05:07 PM
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Glad to hear that. The a LOT of the advice I see on here is garbage, especially when it comes to the more directive stuff, so I don't mind sharing at all. A lot of people will say that you have to express sexual intent, but I don't think that's true. You have to express interest, and I suppose demonstrate sexuality if you must. Sometimes, I've noticed, there's a very clear line between creating a connection and making it sexual. There have been many times that I've sat with a girl all night, cha…
/r/seduction22/10/20 01:31 PM
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I think that's one of those things that just takes time and practice. I find most of the advice online is pretty garbage (this thread being a good example), because at the end of the day, people are pretty simple. Amateurs will say that people like to feel wanted--not true. They like to feel appreciated. Amateurs will say that people like to feel heard--not true. They like to feel understood. They'll say that people should be "negged" or complimented--especially not true, because every situation…
/r/seduction22/10/20 12:45 PM
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I would say I give my number about half the time. I almost never ask for a number, so typically they'll give it to me or ask for mine before I get to the point of offering mine. That's because I'm a bit of a tease and it's kind of thrilling to see how long you can keep flirting and escalating with no promise of future interactions. Happy to walk away from a good conversation or spontaneous chemistry because hey, I got my weekend back (that's hyperbolic, but you get my point, I hope). I think for…
/r/seduction21/10/20 07:24 PM
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Giving my number has worked for me 100% of the time, and I suspect that people who think this doesn't work aren't very good at reading a room. If things are lukewarm or you're forgettable, of course it won't work. But when you can feel that she wants you to pursue, it's a great tease and an even greater show of confidence to say, "you know what, take this..." The reason this works for me is because I won't give someone my number unless I feel very strongly that they'll follow up. Please don't wr…
/r/seduction21/10/20 06:16 PM
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may Will.
/r/seduction12/10/20 07:07 PM
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More often than people think.
/r/seduction29/09/20 10:50 PM
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Thanks! And that's smart, noted. Appreciate it!
/r/seduction26/03/19 02:30 AM
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Actually, u/pizzapepsi is a dumpster fire himself. His comments are mostly either "fuck you" or "so, retard?" He posts fairly frequently, but they're mostly sob stories and hating women because he doesn't get them, accented with insults like "whore." It'd be one thing if he were a frustrated guy that could use a pep talk and some good advice, but based on his profile there's nothing for him here. People have tried giving him advice and responding to his posts, but his responses are always hostil…
/r/seduction25/03/19 02:33 PM
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For sure, but I think posts that talk about confidence and humor and independence use... well, those words. The posts that say "girls want an alpha, so stop being a bitch and show them you're a man" are A) behind on the times, and B) superficial. They dance around the idea of confidence, but can't quite get there because they're more concerned with making rapey eye contact and picking out the right bedazzled shirts. Edit: not to mention that the anthropologic characteristics of "an alpha" have m…
/r/seduction24/03/19 08:55 PM
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Bingo.
/r/seduction24/03/19 07:13 PM
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Any post that talks about the "alpha attitude" is bullshit.
/r/seduction24/03/19 05:55 PM
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You were dancing and she increasingly breathed heavily. And she was aroused and lost in the moment, according to you. Seems presumptuous. Might be worth talking to her. Can tell her that you were in the moment, and that if you overstepped any boundaries you'd like to know so you don't do it again. Simple as that.
/r/seduction05/03/19 01:40 PM
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And laser eye focus can be awkward at best and creepy at worst. Same with "potency," which is odd terminology for the sub. And while I talk to girls the way I would to my guy friends, that's *definitely* not universal advice. And there's such a thin line between assertive and asshole that "confident" is probably a more accurate descriptor. Three for ten ain't great dating advice. ​
/r/seduction04/03/19 10:26 PM
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You offer comfort and support for women of all shapes and sizes, bra.
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:08 PM
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If you're not being approached/approaching, you could use some social capital. People who might say to a girl, "You're single? You should meet so-and-so." Quickest way to branch out your social network is to invite people to things. Most young college students are insecure and want to feel wanted. Extend an invite, and you're making them feel good about themselves, which makes them feel good about you, which means they might be more willing to "recommend" you to someone else. As a friend, or oth…
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:07 PM
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That's what I'm saaayin!
/r/seduction19/07/18 03:50 PM
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I just responded with a long rant about people not being straightforward about issues like this, and you put it much better than I did. Glad to see it.
/r/seduction19/07/18 03:01 PM
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A lot of people are going to suggest you ignore her or follow this "three step solution to getting a girl to be interested again" or whatever kind of douchey bro-advice floats around these pickup circles. This is textbook relationship stuff. Not about picking her up or subconsciously tapping into her sexual arousal by touching her arm while she's distracted or any of that bullshit. She's getting a hold of you, she's cancelling, and you're feeling in the cold. There's no psychology trick that's g…
/r/seduction19/07/18 02:59 PM
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If you fuck the girl, then tell her, she'll probably feel used and get pissed. Especially if she's given you no signal that she wants the same thing. I would get close to her, escalate things, kiss a bit, but before things get R-rated, give her a chance to back out by being upfront with her, which is that you're not looking for a committed relationship. Anyone who tells you to fuck her first doesn't realize that they're the guys that girls tell horror stories about.
/r/seduction18/07/18 01:50 PM
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Yep! Don't be afraid to be experimental, of course, but always keep in mind what the other person will think. To a friend, those might be perfectly fine representations of you are. But to a stranger who either wants to fuck or find a soulmate and will likely decide in less than two full seconds, it may not be your best first impression. You're a salesman. Sell yourself.
/r/seduction29/06/18 03:29 PM
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Your first picture is you posing with guitars like they're someone else's kids, your second is the back of your head at a restaurant, and the third is you power posing in the least interesting place possible. Good news is that you're good looking, fit, and have fine style. Seriously, you're starting from a great place. But as other people have said, it looks sooo unnatural. The guitars look forced and your smile is forced--a sign to girls that you are trying too hard to be interesting. Might I s…
/r/seduction29/06/18 11:37 AM
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It's not so bad. You can explain that it's temporary, that it's just the situation you're in, that you're saving up or it was convenient based on where you work or where you're looking to go... I'm currently living with my parents and it never became a problem. Never brought a girl over, but didn't have any problem with dating. Just don't shy away from it; own it!
/r/seduction27/06/18 05:52 PM
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Wasn't going to read it, but like a car crash, I just gotta see the wreckage. Edit: Yep, pretty bad. Would have been helpful in high school, but that's about it.
/r/seduction27/05/18 04:41 PM
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Validating a woman with the expectation of getting something from her is the definition of needyness. It's simply weak as fuck. Disregarding all the alpha prick talk, it's true that validation doesn't lead to reciprocation because attraction is not a transaction. You can't buy your way into a girl's heart (or wherever) with compliments, and to expect that you can is a complete misunderstanding of nature of the interaction. You do you, and if she likes you, you're good. If not, move along. Simple…
/r/seduction16/05/18 06:35 PM
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And paid.
/r/seduction03/11/17 12:05 AM
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I made it through about four before I got too uncomfortable to continue.
/r/seduction25/10/17 09:51 PM
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Practice, practice, practice. The sooner you have dozens and dozens of experiences to draw from, the sooner you'll improve. This is not only a problem here, but a problem for many people exercising completely unrelated skills. So often people expect to read a "How to" and automatically have moderate success, but that's not how it works. You've got to put in the hours. So whether it's sketching, plumbing, sports, seduction, or whatever, you've got to experience being bad before you can experience…
/r/seduction27/07/17 01:13 PM
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Work out.
/r/seduction27/05/17 03:47 AM
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I live in a big city, and I have good success with coffee shops, and even grocery stores. It's not so much about the location, but more about finding/creating opportunities to interact. For instance, most people have the same routine in grocery stores, starting at one end and going through aisle by aisle. If I run into a cute girl three or four times, maybe I'll make a face acknowledging that we keep running into each other. Then the next time, I'll comment. And it's not like it's the only thing…
/r/seduction19/05/17 04:40 PM
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You don't. It'll happen on it's own. All you can do is wait it out and make the most of it.
/r/seduction14/05/17 01:21 PM
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Yep. Dumb post.
/r/seduction27/04/17 03:33 AM
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Instead of finding a reason to speak to someone, allowing an opportunity to arise. For example, if you're sitting next to someone in a coffee shop, rather than finding a reason to strike up conversation, wait until something strange or disruptive happens. Then you can make a comment and start some chatting, and because it was premised on something outside of your control, it seems as though you weren't looking to speak with them in the first place.
/r/seduction16/03/17 11:25 PM
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This is what I tend to do. Don't pay them any special attention until you interact with them organically. Then go for it.
/r/seduction16/03/17 08:09 PM
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I mean, in my experience, people (not just girls) don't do it explicitly to be funny. Something within them craves the attention and the reminder that there is someone who seeks them is enough. They very often justify it to themselves in perfectly acceptable ways. She may be thinking to herself "well, I'll see if he's free and we'll see" knowing she won't commit and then--oh, look at that, something else caught her attention for the day and you're thrown on the backburner. But hey, you'll be the…
/r/seduction09/02/17 11:15 PM
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You bet! I hope it helps. And I hope you don't mind if I was too frank about it, but I used to do this type of dog-chasing-tail loop with girls who I think just enjoyed the attention. I'm not saying that's the case here, but it's such a detestable way to treat someone and I would feel bad imagining it's the case with you. Good luck, and let me know how it goes.
/r/seduction09/02/17 10:43 PM
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Either of you. I mean, I obviously don't know the dynamic of your relationship, but based on what you've provided, I would recommend you just tell her to stop asking to hang until she's prepared to agree to a date and time. By all means, keep texting and whatever you normally do, but if she's making you uncomfortable with her behavior, don't put up with it. You can be more assertive with her or you can walk away, but for your own sake, don't put yourself through something that only stresses you …
/r/seduction09/02/17 10:00 PM
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Dude, if you can't lock in a time, just move along. Also, *you're.
/r/seduction09/02/17 09:38 PM
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Whoa, interesting. What kind of poses were you in? And when you say worth it, in what way?
/r/seduction23/12/16 02:45 PM
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I've heard that, but I feel like that's got to be a West Coast thing. I can't imagine that working anywhere on the East Coast, except maybe in small cliques in NYC. Are you W Coast?
/r/seduction23/12/16 04:46 AM
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Awesome answer.
/r/seduction10/07/16 01:44 PM
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Totally agree. Making out is like a pressure valve - you use it too early, and by the end of the night, no pressure. Save it for later, and you're cruisin. Good article.
/r/seduction26/05/16 07:02 PM
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Be honest, dummy.
/r/seduction26/05/16 03:28 AM
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Buzzfeed is just sad FTFY
/r/seduction26/04/16 03:11 PM
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Every time I wear it I get compliments. It's a miracle cologne.
/r/seduction17/01/16 10:11 AM
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Sounds like you want someone to make a decision for you...
/r/seduction13/01/16 11:57 AM
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I'd just like to know I'm successful in doing this. ...that's validation. No pop psych required. Just do what feels natural, and since you're treating this girl with no respect anyways, don't worry about it.
/r/seduction08/01/16 01:02 PM
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Toilet game is still a numbers game!
/r/seduction28/12/15 04:09 AM
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Have Interesting Conversations How did I not think of that myself?! /s
/r/seduction21/12/15 04:13 PM
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Not the The Patriot, because you'll end up watching it. Source: experience. Love that movie.
/r/seduction23/07/15 10:16 AM
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I mean, shaking hands with a girl can be a great opportunity. If it's not a formal situation, make sure it's not a formal handshake. Big smile, not too tight if grip, very playful tone, and make some touching with your off-hand if you can...
/r/seduction04/06/15 06:32 AM
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You could not have posted this at a better time for me! I was just riding the bus wondering why such we, as "social beings," are so antisocial in these situations where it's literally perfect for just sitting and having a nice chat... Great post - thanks for sharing the find!
/r/seduction08/11/14 02:14 AM
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Freedom of Speech!
/r/seduction20/09/14 04:25 PM
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Interesting take.
/r/seduction24/06/14 08:32 PM
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in reality, it's mostly just guys trying to learn how to grease the wheels of social interactions so they're more comfortable/enjoyable for everyone Ding ding ding!
/r/seduction23/05/14 12:51 AM
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Almost like reverse-behavioral economics.
/r/seduction23/05/14 12:49 AM
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Bitches deserve respect!
/r/seduction22/04/14 10:47 AM
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Sometimes you just know. There's a big difference between polite eye contact and genuine interest.
/r/seduction14/01/14 03:09 AM
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Wouldn't try this in my small-ish city where I run into people I meet when out, but would definitely do this elsewhere. Sounds fun.
/r/seduction04/12/13 08:48 PM
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Just because a PUA "rule" says "never", it doesn't mean you can literally never do something. "Can I touch your butt" is playful. Touching a girl's butt whom you don't know is sexual assault.
/r/seduction16/11/13 12:44 AM
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With the small child behind the girl listening in. Was pretty hilarious either way. XD
/r/seduction04/11/13 01:56 PM
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Nice, keep it up!
/r/seduction02/11/13 05:12 PM
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Exactly. Never turn away the opportunity to talk to someone, even if you don't immediately see any benefit to it.
/r/seduction02/11/13 05:11 PM
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Awesome advise. Elicit emotion.
/r/seduction10/10/13 03:43 PM
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Unless your basket has good egg-bearing handles.
/r/seduction06/10/13 12:44 PM
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He's asking girls for coffee because he's an addict, and when he lost his job last year, and his apartment not long after that, he turned to begging and putting numbers into his phone which doesn't have a SIM card.
/r/seduction06/10/13 12:41 PM
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Totally true. I wouldn't want to date a girl that drinks as much as I do. Unfortunately, I haven't let that stop me. XD
/r/seduction22/09/13 11:29 PM
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Did some traveling in the UK for three weeks - it was awesome. By the end, I could pretty go up to a girl and ask her straight away what she was doing that night. Traveling is definitely a great way of breaking out, especially if you have trouble with it.
/r/seduction15/09/13 01:29 AM
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Brilliant! As an economics-oriented thinker, this may change things for me.
/r/seduction12/09/13 04:11 PM
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I think this way all the time. Maybe the path you have to take leads you somewhere better than the path you wanted to take.
/r/seduction10/09/13 10:53 PM
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Lucky gal to get a Round 2.
/r/seduction10/09/13 01:33 AM
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Mate, little person sounds much worse. Let the man call himself what he wants.
/r/seduction10/09/13 01:32 AM
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Maude
/r/seduction18/08/13 02:43 PM
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D:
/r/seduction16/05/13 12:23 PM
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*their
/r/seduction16/05/13 12:22 PM
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She was probably not assertive enough to tell him to fuck off and just rolled with it. Doesn't mean it worked, it just meant that he was pushier than she was assertive.
/r/seduction09/05/13 07:31 PM
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I'm sure most girls like cocky, rude guys.
/r/seduction09/05/13 06:53 PM
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Or she is unassertive and felt too pressured to walk away? Maybe forcefulness like yelling into her phone and grabbing her hand isn't the best way to get her attention?
/r/seduction09/05/13 06:48 PM
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No, I mean that's what the girl was probably thinking. I mean, he came off (in my opinion) like a pushy jackass, not a funny charmer.
/r/seduction09/05/13 06:30 PM
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It was probably a courtesy laugh because she didn't have the heart to say GTFO creep, I fucking said no... that's my initial thought at least. EDIT: Okay, I don't know where this defensiveness is coming from. The guy put her in an awkward spot, anyone can see that. Sure, maybe she liked it, maybe his confident assertiveness worked on her, and maybe she felt attracted to him. But I, at least, cringed watching this, watching this lame pick-up, where she looked uncomfortable. Maybe she's not assert…
/r/seduction09/05/13 01:25 AM
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Apparently not to this woman.
/r/MensRights27/04/13 01:53 PM
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Contemporary Issues in Black Research: Teaching Blacks Not to Steal: The Cognitive Effects of Poverty Do you think the above speech would go over well? Probably not. Do I think you should refuse to post it? No. Do I think you should, in some form, expose how ridiculous tihs is? Yes.
/r/MensRights23/04/13 06:25 PM
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Wow, she's obviously not a lawyer.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 11:43 PM
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May it serve you well. (Like it couldn't!)
/r/seduction31/01/13 01:51 AM
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RIGHT?! Granted, Pirates are rad as fuck. And so are ninjas. And so are cowboys. But no one ever talks about Vikings! Why not?!
/r/seduction30/01/13 08:01 PM
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Nope. But Vikings are awesome, and they're pretty assertive in the first place, so it works for me. XD
/r/seduction30/01/13 08:00 PM
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Good saying. For anyone who's wondering, this is what I've been telling myself lately when I lack courage. A Viking wouldn't care
/r/seduction30/01/13 12:21 AM
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I do see it, I just don't think this is a huge MR issue. Yeah, she just strolled out because she thinks it's peachy for a woman to assault a man. But you couldn't just pull any woman out of a crowd and expect them to behave the same way. If the authorities were called, I don't think a jury would be easy on her because she's a woman, and they might see that her behavior is more significantly influenced by her being an inner city cunt, rather than being a woman.
/r/MensRights26/01/13 01:58 AM
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Can't prove it was gender related. Hate to say it, but they're right. She may have felt like because she was a woman, she could lash out at him and he couldn't do anything about it. But she also clearly had an attitude, where is she was a guy, she probably would have punched the beard. She's just a rotten person.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 10:18 PM
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She would have ripped her weave out.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 10:17 PM
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You know what's really not fair? How men get to have so much more testosterone in their bodies making them bigger and stronger. Such inequality! Women should demand free sex changes so they have the equal opportunity to become big and strong.
/r/MensRights24/01/13 02:15 PM
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It's gunna be ugly when the first report on captured female soldiers gets out...
/r/MensRights24/01/13 02:12 PM
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Not when you have a 220lb terrorist coming at a 150lb woman with a knife. She might have combat training, but if he's stronger than her, she's probably going to need more combat training than the Army offers (especially if she's caught off guard, or with her gear on).
/r/MensRights24/01/13 02:10 PM
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If she does a poo, you got a keeper.
/r/seduction21/01/13 03:45 PM
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It's part of a bigger problem. In America, at least, it's required that you feel bad for minority groups, and demonize those vile majority groups. Minority/majority not suggestive of population, but of "advantaged/disadvantaged", of course.
/r/MensRights13/12/12 06:56 PM
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Oh jeez. That's a little more complicated... haha
/r/seduction09/12/12 10:42 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/howtonotgiveafuck/
/r/seduction09/12/12 07:13 PM
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Wild Beta uses Sneak Attack!
/r/seduction15/11/12 01:30 AM
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Water is free, by law, but it's just cups of water from the tap. To get an actual, physical bottle of water, it costs $$.
/r/seduction05/11/12 01:24 PM
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It's totally true. I had a girlfriend for the first half of college from high school, and after that I always had trouble talking to girls I was interested in. They were everywhere though, and now that I'm graduated (graduated this year, so it's only been since may) I don't get a chance to talk to girls, let alone even see any. It's an amazing opportunity to be surrounded by girls in college, don't waste it!
/r/seduction20/10/12 12:39 PM
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Awwwwwright
/r/seduction17/10/12 01:13 PM
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I'd actually go for that one... XD
/r/seduction07/10/12 10:54 AM
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Hey babe, I could get you a discount on Geek Squad ah heh heh... yeah, I know some people. ;)
/r/seduction05/10/12 08:01 PM
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Banana Republic?
/r/seduction05/10/12 07:56 PM
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Literally everything you just said is something I would say. Except I'm 6'0''. /internethandshake EDIT: Felt link was appropriate.
/r/seduction05/10/12 07:55 PM
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Word, I feel ya. I guess it's a bit unfitting to start this discussion in /r/seduction, but whenever I've gone out (until now, unfortunately), it wasn't to go pick up girls, it was to hang with friends. Even going out to bars or parties, I would be with people, feeling comfortable, and meeting girls would just happen in the course of shenanigans. Not something I actively pursued. So my clothes reflected that. Pretty plain style, admittedly, but I'm cool with the simple look. But I also don't wan…
/r/seduction05/10/12 07:49 PM
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Haha they're not polos. And The khakis are not actually khaki khakis, I improperly named them. They're just regular pants. Don't worry, this is not me. XD
/r/seduction05/10/12 07:43 PM
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feelsgoodman.jpg
/r/seduction05/10/12 07:38 PM
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Nah, band tees are cool. When I used to go to house parties, I wore my Modest Mouse, Gogol Bordello, or MGMT shirts and I got mad compliments on them every time. But when I started going to bars, it's not as appreciated... EDIT: Formatting. XP
/r/seduction05/10/12 07:36 PM
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Nothing wrong with it, dude. I love band tees. But when you (I) have little facial hair, it can give off a young look is all. Haha
/r/seduction05/10/12 07:28 PM
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You got it. It really is crazy. You literally just need to know someone's name, or have something in common with them. "Hey man, we live on the same quad, what building you in?" Easy as that, now when you're out with people, you're handing out head nods and sups and people think you're cool (even if you're not really haha). Even better, you run into this person later in the week, and "Hey man, any good parties Friday?"
/r/seduction05/10/12 07:24 PM
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Well, I guess H&M wasn't a very good descriptor. It just seems to me to all point toward this... Which isn't bad, just not what I'm into, exactly. And I am subscribed, and get a lot of good stuff from it, just not ready to adopt the more popular styles from it. tighter looking fits I'm definitely down with this, btw.
/r/seduction05/10/12 07:20 PM
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Meet as many people as you can, all you gotta do is meet then. It's funny with college, you can be friends with someone just by knowing their names. Impressing a girl is way easier when every couple minutes someone is saying sup to you (don't get distracted obviously). Social capital in action.
/r/seduction05/10/12 05:35 AM
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Question - your opinion on t-shirts? Not band tees, not silly Hot Topic tees, just plain graphic-free tees. Accompanied with some khakis slacks (obligatory belt) and top stitched shoes. I ask because you identified the young look, so I'm curious if you think that is college freshman sounding. Edit: Not v-neck, navy blue or a faded brick red are my favorite two. I'd go to /r/malefashionadvice but they're a bit too H&M for my tastes, just yet. Edit 2: I shouldn't have said khakis. Guess they'd be …
/r/seduction05/10/12 05:25 AM
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very well good EDIT: Well is an adverb. Doing well. Well written. Good is an adjective. It is good. Grammar is good. Not trying to be a dick, but...
/r/seduction11/09/12 05:05 PM
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This is probably one of the best pieces of advice I've seen here. Well put!
/r/seduction29/06/12 02:41 PM
2

Friendzone is a lie.
/r/seduction03/01/12 03:54 AM
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O_o A million upvotes would not be enough to show this monologue's worth.
/r/seduction17/07/11 02:36 PM
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Read the whole thing. What did I get out of this? Bitches love old shit. And bears.
/r/seduction17/07/11 12:52 AM
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Nice job, man! You've inspired me with what sounds like your new found confidence to check out this 'Rules of the Game'! Thanks!
/r/seduction13/07/11 07:45 AM
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