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Is she playing with me?

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February 9, 2017

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Title	Is she playing with me?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	February 9, 2017 9:21 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5t2wxy/is_she_playing_with_me/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/is-she-playing-with-me.1420031 https://theredarchive.com/post/1420031

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[–]Vaginuh 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Vaginuh 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I mean, in my experience, people (not just girls) don't do it explicitly to be funny. Something within them craves the attention and the reminder that there is someone who seeks them is enough. They very often justify it to themselves in perfectly acceptable ways. She may be thinking to herself "well, I'll see if he's free and we'll see" knowing she won't commit and then--oh, look at that, something else caught her attention for the day and you're thrown on the backburner. But hey, you'll be there next time she feels the need to text someone.

So it's not always so nefarious. Nonetheless, it's not healthy in a relationship; not just a romantic relationship, but platonic relationships, too. It shows a lack of respect for your time and energy, and it's particularly harmful when the person is emotionally invested and the negligence takes a particularly harsh toll.

Anyways, a lot of people are selfish and fail to recognize it. Part of growing up (assuming they ever grow up).

[–]Zenos1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link