VampireKissinger Archive

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3	CMV : There’s nothing wrong at all with modern dating. Women are just attracted to less men. Age? Among Millennials and especially Zoomers, women are far more qualified and have far higher academic achievement than men. Here in the UK young white males are now the worst performing demographic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 03:42 PM
4	CMV : There’s nothing wrong at all with modern dating. Women are just attracted to less men. You'll be surprised how women in these countries and conservative areas also uphold patriarchy. They have socialization that a strong patriarchy is the norm and girls grow up with patriarchal goals seen as a positive. Mens goal is to provide and protect for family, woman's goal is to make her man happy, manage the house and raise children. That is how most of the world exists outside of the developed west and it isn't seen as a bad thing. If a feminist revolution happened in these areas, most wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 03:32 PM
2	The guys who have "game" do not talk to women as "regular people" Yeah realistically, the absolute worst is that they will laugh at you with their friends then mockingly smirk at you during the night when you walk past. Just don't go for neurotic Tumblr feminists if you are scared about being put online.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 02:56 PM
2	The guys who have "game" do not talk to women as "regular people" No this isn't true at all, I was plenty charismatic with women and have (to this day) plenty of women friends. I wasn't getting laid tho by just being friendly. Game is seduction, it's a completely different set of skills, when I was on game, and have watched people with amazing game, I barely even had to know anything about the person from conversation before picking them up, in fact I will say, speed is actually a key component. Conversation only exists to facilitate flirting and seduction, an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 02:52 PM
6	Why can't people just be honest with men when it comes to online dating? You aren't getting 0 matches because your pictures are bad, you're getting no matches because you're ugly. Back in the day, no, Classic OKCupid was amazing because you really got to see the person's personality which meant you might meet up with someone because even if they weren't dating material, they were extremely likely to be an awesome friend. Before Match became extremely predatory, tinder and swipe apps were decent, I would get up to 30 matches a day, the algorithm didn't fuck over men so hard to force them to buy premium. Downloaded Tinder recently and got 3 people like me in a month. I'm no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 08:58 AM
1	Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approach Never even heard of it, I'll check it out. Edit: yep right there muh bones cope. Pure narcissism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 02:59 PM
1	Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approach Yep, why I find incels and Redpillers annoying despite actually agreeing with a lot of the general observations about modern dating. They become consumed by their anxiety to the point it becomes a weird faux-narcissistic disorder. They refuse to change or even try, and often become insanely entitled. Reality is they need to drink concrete and harden up. Move to the city, get a job, start lifting, work on style, posture, speech and then start hitting up bars and speaking to people in the smoking …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 02:56 PM
2	Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approach People stormed Congress for online memes and thought "it's a joke bro" would be a good enough excuse. Sadly tonnes of people are very online and can't separate online from reality, especially as the media is filled with people with think Twitter is the real world. Another thing is that a lot of people are stuck in Suburbia, which as a 20 something, can be insanely socially isolating. This is why I always recommend young people move to at least a small-medium sized city and a inner city share hou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 02:50 PM
3	It sucks to be single and alone, for both men and women, and I'm tired of people denying it Lives with 7 women housemates in my last share house. They were in anxiety riddled breakdowns if they were single more than a month.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 10:17 AM
14	It sucks to be single and alone, for both men and women, and I'm tired of people denying it Normal people aren't all over Reddit and Forums and Twitter, Reddit leans to basically people who are introverted, spectrum and nerdy. This is why Reddit city subs are filled with the worst hall monitors who like, want police called on people having a party in the park or everyone spouts and plays dumb with "I'm a good liberal" Democrat/Wokie talking points despite knowing they are wrong. (And I'm a goddamn Red and even I find it insufferable). Redditors pretend it's fine to be lonely because th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 10:04 AM
2	Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s? So what bars do you hang out at? Lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 07:22 PM
2	Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approach Agreed with both, the issue is nice guys are guys who are often socially isolated or are stuck around nerd groups with no game, and their anxiety leads them to being too online which leads them to being too influenced by the extremes of Tumblr Feminism (who are just the feminist equivalent of 4channers essentially) and flamebaiters like Guardian columnists. What I needed was a guy to just show me in real life what game looked like, and I needed to self reflect and work on myself and it did work.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 06:19 PM
3	Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approach Most have extreme social anxiety and are too online so get terrified by MeToo and ironically take what idiot Tumblr feminists and their idiot culture war megaphones at The Guardian say about social interaction/dating way too seriously. When MeToo happened, even my women friends started complaining how even normal guys suddenly became standoffish and lost their game lol. They also very often have a personality disorder because they let their anxiety CONSUME their personality and they usually have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 06:13 PM
1	Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approach Most people are polite. Nice people don't go far in life because they are seen as people pleasers and door mats and are naturally targeted by social pecking order and even people who don't know them, will naturally try dominate them in social interactions. As a people watcher, you can always tell who is the nicest in the group, because it's always the one who is the bottom of the group hierarchy. This is why so much self help and therapy content is aimed at nice people to basically teach them to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 06:02 PM
5	Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approach Said this in the other thread, my fuckboi phase was when I acted pretty shitty and misogynistic to women. I was extremely dominating, very forward with my intentions to be inside them, my flirting was aggressive and challenging (I would make sexual bets and such). I am not exaggerating, there were weeks where I would hook up with a different girl, every other night. The reason I stopped was because it wasn't me, I was disgusted by how I was acting and I couldn't keep up the misogynistic patriarc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 05:57 PM
1	Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approach In fairness, rniceguys is now just legitimately filled with women shitting on... actually nice guys or guys who are just awkward/bad initiative rather than the actual bitter nutcase who flips out when his target goes with an actual guy with game. This is why "Nice Guy" as a concept gets memed a lot by guys, a lot of the times, the guy is just nice, but has social anxiety. The other issue is that of course they are trying to get laid, they have taken bad dating advice from idealistic feminists an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 05:50 PM
1	Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s? Just socially regarded lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 03:33 PM
4	Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s? Pubs, in the UK, I just sit in smoking areas and talk to everyone, every few young women I chat with will start flirting. That's me as of a few days ago, I think I'm a solid 5 but I get 7 a lot from women I ask.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 01:30 PM
3	CMV I personally believe there are 4 groups off Men in terms off Dating desirability. Yeah women would approach in smoking area or something, but social autist (not actually autistic but had many very autistic, nerd friends who I picked up bad social habits off) meant I couldn't hold conversation, and I got super anxious when they flirted, I also never made the move even when they were giving obvious ins. They quickly became bored and moved on. Only one girl ever made the first proper move out of hundreds over the years. Women will pretty much never kiss first. It took quite a bi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 01:23 PM
32	Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s? 30+ year old here. It's far easier for me to pick up 20-25 year olds in my 30s than it ever was in my 20s. Young women like older guys, they like dating up, they are very submissive in the bedroom and often have a hardcore daddy fetish lol. (That fetish/kink polling release the other week showed it's one of the most popular fetishes among young women) It's far harder to date women in their late 20s and 30s though because they have insanely high standards for career, income, assets. Going on a da…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 11:03 AM
4	CMV I personally believe there are 4 groups off Men in terms off Dating desirability. When talking about this stuff, it's all very broad generalisations (sociology always is) and it's 16-35 with 40 at absolute latest. Millennials and Zoomers. X and Boomers grew up in an extremely different dating and social scene so they aren't really relevant to modern dating discussion. (No offense to the geriatrics here, you probably should be worrying more about your funeral plan tbh)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 10:53 AM
1	CMV I personally believe there are 4 groups off Men in terms off Dating desirability. I don't agree with this entirely, I have loser, BPD male friends who are extremely successful with women because they Cool-Maxx (tattoos, skateboard, surf) and have no empathy or shame so are ridiculously charismatic and forward. I think in the end, I still think at least in your 20s, charisma and appearance (looking fashionable, hot, shredded or "cool") are the biggest relationship traits. I've been told I'm a 7-8/10 but I struggled with women all through my 20s because I was ridiculously shy a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 10:52 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I have no idea what that means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 03:31 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread No Reddit women, art hoes, granola girls, etc do. (People on here) The 80% of girls you see on tinder with duck lips and bleached hair in a dress 2 sizes too small and stilettos with a bio "wine and cheese" marry guys like this. Look at every Deano irl, they generally are players.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 03:26 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Because very commonly young women like older guys, don't like young men, and have daddy fetishes. Loser 30+ year old and when I had access (when I lived in the city instead of the godawful burbs) I was literally picking up 20 year olds almost every other day. Only reason I stopped was because I found hookup culture extremely depressing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 03:24 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Mid 30s here, lol I got more 20 yo tail at 30+ than I ever did in my 20s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 03:21 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread No, I have the real fucking world where everyone laughs at bullshit blue pill "advice" as bad "women advice" (never take dating advice from women is the common Normie saying) and how in every beer garden across the country you can see men being dominant and succeeding, and women being attracted to dominant, assertive, masculine guys. I can watch my fuckboi friends pull all their "toxic masculine" tricks and pick up in under half an hour, I can see nice guy doormats seethe as another more asserti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 03:17 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread There is criticism of sex work and porn among actual feminists most "feminists" aren't feminist in a coherent feminist theory sense, but "woke" virtue signalling neoliberal sense where sex work is positive and cool and selling yourself on the market is the ultimate free expression and validating! Have tonnes of respect for actual feminists who hold a consistent feminist framework, they are though very few and far between these days and are slowly being pushed out due to the whole TERF debate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 03:11 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Eh, I go out every weekend and talk to Randoms constantly, when Normies talk about dating, it's pretty similar to the observations you get here. I would say most Normies would be closest to purple pill. I mean, Normie dating habits can be very wild, Facebook and insta DM sliding is a popular way to get dates and dick pics often work (I've talked to tonnes of women who admit to sleeping with guys if it's a good one), something that nobody will even argue for here lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 03:06 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Online dating has hit it's most predatory and the worst it's ever fucking been. I used to hit about 30 matches a week or so, now maybe 4 hidden likes and they aren't even in my feed ever then it's like "pay £30 for gold" yeah no. Even the most naive guy now knows how online dating has changed the dating game. I've even spoken to fuckboi "chads" who fucking despise it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 03:01 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread The trends that are now mainstream discussion absolutely would have been considered redpill a few years ago, go read r/dating now, people are extremely open about calling out shitty or entitled behaviour from women and saying outright realities about dating that again would be "redpill" a few years ago and that's liberal Wokie echo chamber Reddit. The "ick" meme would have been unthinkable a few years ago, it's literally making fun of men being non-masculine and it's massively popular among wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 02:59 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Watching the discussion go from "cute girls in media and video game is psychic rape by the male gaze" to "actually selling nudes and doing gangbangs on Onlyfans the day you turn 18 is feminist" in just 10 years has been wild.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 02:52 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Anyone else feel that "redpill"/"purplepill" has basically won the debate in the mainstream? Outside of Reddit which is a virtue signalling echo chamber, I feel like everyone kind of just kind of accepts certain "truths" that would have been called redpill a few years ago, even when talking to women friends they generally are pretty agreeable to purplepill. Even on TikTok you see young women with the ick stuff and similar dating memes be far more truthful about what they actually find attractive…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 02:49 PM
0	Redpill vs Reality Yeah, I have great friends, tonnes of women friends, hell I even had a hilarious 6 months where I accidentally lived in a women uni society house because my name in the west is more common among women, so that's where I was accidentally placed. My general rule these days is "most people are shallow", thats just the reality. Redpill stuff is extreme, but it's based on a seed of truth. Most women are shallow and absolutely do find "toxic masculine" traits attractive. How do I know? First have fuck…	/r/ExRedPill	26/06/23 12:44 PM
3	Redpill vs Reality Cluster Bs are about 1 in 10 people. They are waaaaay more common than people think. And they are genuinely malicious and manipulative. Ive dealt with more than my fair share in life and they are creatures of predatory instinct and extreme selfishness. Even when they do "favours" which they do during lovebombing manipulation, it's always backhanded and will put you in a worse position down the line or done to build brownie points to guilt trip down the line. Yes they have trauma and endless sob …	/r/ExRedPill	26/06/23 12:23 PM
3	If you define "creepy" behavior on a subjective basis, then would men be justified in labelling unattractive women who approach them as "creepy"? Men are far more at risk of severe social backlash than women. I've literally been dragged into a cell for an entire day and interviewed by police, then put on bail for a month, simply because I was the last person a woman at a party remembered talking to while drunk. She literally woke up one morning after the party, didn't realise how she got home, her last memory was speaking to me, so I get my house raided by police and thrown in a blood soaked cell for a day then interviewed for fucking hou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 07:53 PM
6	If you define "creepy" behavior on a subjective basis, then would men be justified in labelling unattractive women who approach them as "creepy"? "Creepy" and "Psycho" are very different though. Psycho women are that, psycho. You engage with them, and they speed run through the "WEE WOOO I HAVE SEVERE BPD" red flag list. The hilarious thing, guys will generally always bang psycho crazy, There is a reason "Don't stick your dick in crazy" is the most common advice guys give to other guys, and all guys ignore it. A "Creepy guy" to women is usually just a guy who has bad social skills and is awkward and makes hilariously bad attempts to flirt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 07:38 PM
1	Dating is really not that hard - a perspective from Europe Yeah, moving to Europe, I got laid more in a month than I did in a half a decade back home. British girls especially are pretty... forward, lets say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 07:05 PM