VanSeslas Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Questions for the veterans		VanSeslas	/r/askTRP	04/05/18 12:35 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Power is everything Where can we read more about the three charisma elements?!	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/19 02:49 PM
1	Just because you struggle to do something doesn't mean it's difficult. My man, do you have a blog or any social platform where i can follow you?! PM me if you don’t even want it public. This is the type of quality content am searching for	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/19 05:13 AM
17	Imagine going out for the sole purpose of picking up girls. I personally feel like the contradictions come from people giving their own take of whatever “success” they’ve had rather then simply sticking to the core rules that allow different outcomes. It has become so hard / boring for me to read through certain posts cause halfway through it, you just realize the entire post is just another version of a rule that’s been on the side bar for ages. Or it’s just another post about someone who, for some reasons, hasn’t accepted the harsh reality of certain c…	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/19 05:10 AM
1	You May Think You Have Swallowed the Pill, but Have You? Or: How I Finally Swallowed the Pill after Seven Years: Part 2 Very excited for part 3. I love this. This is not a rant, these are actual facts and something i am still going through and think a lot of people scrolling through the sub need to understand. I swear that this feels it was written exactly by me. You can have all the theory of this sub and hang around the most alpha male out there yet you still feel like there’s a problem in your own development. Curious to know how you kept it going before I leave a more detailed comment on everything you wrote.	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/19 06:01 PM
1	Giving up on the dream lets you enjoy reality Absolutely. Think of it this way. Say you’re always misunderstood by your friends about a certain hobby you have. You get it, talking about it with em is pointless, why get mad at them if u obviously know they’ll never get it? More times than often, whenever you end up in a conversation related to that hobby, u don’t get mad for whatever ignorant thing they might say about it. But just a few times here and there, it makes u sad/angry that they just don’t fucking get it, cause deep down there tho…	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/19 04:39 PM
1	The dinner date The fact that so many people are in disbelief that what you wrote actually works ( without even going out there and trying it out just as an experiment) really makes me question what this sub is turning into.	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/18 06:05 AM
1	First day of daygaming and what I learnt Loved the report. I can totally relate to the anxiety feels when you take all the will in the world and finally approach but you don't know what to do next lmao. We've all been there. You're still young, you'll definitely get better at it.	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/18 04:18 AM
2	How do/did you develop thick skin? Professional roaster right here. It’s useless. If you ask someone to roast you, that means you’re mentally prepared to get called out on anything. That doesn’t hurt. However if out of nowhere, u get someone roasting you over and over on sensible stuff you didn’t expect to be made fun of, two situations occur: you either remain a little bitch complaining about it and confirming what the person is saying or you’ve heard it so often that it doesn’t do a god damn thing to you. That’s what is called …	/r/askTRP	25/04/18 12:54 PM
39	Indifference and Control: Why You Don't Wanna Be Chad Such a fantastic reply my man.	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/18 12:44 AM
4	How is it that my friend who's considerably less attractive/sociable than I am, managed to swoon all the females at the bar last night? [Field Report] One thing you need to understand about TRP is that it doesn’t always follow a ‘script’. There are just general rules to follow but the same frame won’t work for every girl. From your description, what I can get is that either your friend is an alpha, either he displays the character of it very well. He doesn’t give a fuck about being there but a few minutes later is cracking jokes ==> mystery and Unpredictable, he’s not moved by any IOI sent by your friend==> outcome independence, he didn’t even…	/r/askTRP	14/04/18 12:59 PM
11	You can't sidebar and monk mode your way to success - eventually you have to step out into the real world. And the real world is not as easy as it seems. A guide on how to make the transition. Loved the whole post. One crucial thing I think you didn’t mention and that is is the skill of calibration. This is a skill ONLY the real world experience will help you develop and it’ll serve way much more than just “advices” you read everywhere. A very good use of calibration is where you spoke of how slow you should take things when you get home or have to “mask” your intentions till you get her home. Some girls WILL get BORED cause of how you mask your intentions. Legit. Some girls get horny…	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/18 03:00 PM
4	finding out it was a whole easier for chad “ Men date down, women date up. Hence, the higher a woman wants to date, the more likely she is to do way much more than the man she’s seeking to have”. It all comes down to SMV (and SMV includes both frame and looks). Did she make it way easier for another guy?! Only two things: - The perceived SMV of that guy in her eyes was way higher than hers and she’d have made it very simple for him knowing she shouldn’t even be part of his league in the first place. This is typically the type of girl you…	/r/askTRP	05/04/18 08:20 PM
4	[FR] How to kill interest in 3 weeks The breakfast wasn’t even a mistake lol. Here were your actual mistakes: - Frame breakdown: Not sure what your frame was like before you got to the deed but everything you did afterwards screamed this : “fuck this was so good, we HAVE to do this again. “ . Beta behavior. Neediness and display that u don’t get enough of it which takes us to the next point - Pussy on the pedestal: Never, ever be the first one to show a girl how fantastic the sex was. Unless she’s more than just a plate maybe. Alwa…	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/18 05:42 AM
9	When hypergamy hamster collides with maternal instinct. Amused mastery at its finest.	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/18 07:34 AM
135	[FR] The Importance of Being Direct In the wise words of Denzel Washington: “myyyyy man”	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/18 06:23 PM
7	A Billy-Beta acquaintance has zero clue his fiancee is about to leave him. Guess the reasons. Example: let’s say your friend slowly stopped taking care of his fitness. Slowly turning into a “chubby” looking guy for god knows whatever reason. Blue Pill mindset: “She loves me for who I am as a person. My physical apparence doesn’t matter that much to her after all we’ve been through “ You with the Red Pill mindset : “My man you’re playing with fire” Wrong way of presenting the RP truth to him: “All women are hoes, and your wife ain’t no different. She’ll leave you the second you stop being…	/r/TheRedPill	11/03/18 03:03 AM
8	FR - The Dark Hilarity of the Cock Carousel I’m here for stories like this ahahahahahahahahahaha	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/18 08:37 PM
1	How to keep from sleeping with a guy you're not dating? For women, nothing is ever simple. Which is why you tend to overcomplicate the simplest things. It’s not like she’s asking us if she should go to a bar and have sex with a stranger. She’s developing a connection with a guy, that might be great but she’s still hooked onto her ex. She’s horny, the guy is nice. She’s not a virgin. Just do it. If you like it, keep doing it and watch how the relation goes. If you don’t like it, hey, at least the craving is gone. However if she’s not doing ANYTHING ab…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/03/18 05:32 PM
1	How to keep from sleeping with a guy you're not dating? He’s not an asshole to you. He’s nice. You like him. Make love to that man. Simple as that.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/03/18 05:16 PM
1	Topic:5 important things I learned when my 1 year relationship ended. The more I spend time on TRP, the more I have a deeper and better understanding of all my past relationships as well as the ones of everyone around me. You're doomed if you don't learn any of this stuff early enough to know how to handle situations when they happen. You're doomed.	/r/TheRedPill	28/02/18 01:01 AM
21	Life is too short to be a chump. The 80/20 rule isn't a theory, it is law. Not every action yields an equal result. The key to personal success is finding the 20% of things that give you 80% of your results and to double down on those motherfuckers. Here is a guide. Your comment is gold. Was using the principle of what you said to explain to a female friend of mine that all I need when talking to girls in the club is 3 mn. If after 3 mn, i do not have any interesting sign that the convo is leading somewhere promising, am out. She failed to understand it, but it’s a skill u develop the more u talk with people and realize some girls are just not worth YOUR TIME.	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/18 08:38 PM
5	Is there any right way to "ask a guy out"? Dear ladies, there is no WRONG way for a woman to ask a guy out. ESPECIALLY if you have a crush on him. You just do. “Hey, wanna go out sometimes?” will be just fine. We love women who take the lead when they want something from us. And we always give straight forward answers. It saves you time. It saves us time.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/02/18 01:48 PM
25	[FR] The Deep Conversation Cockblock “Make a deep and meaningful connection and really it seems like you are perfect together...Then she won’t fuck” THIS! THIS! THIIIIIIIIS. This is a trap I’ve fallen into wayyyyyyyy too many times but you learn as you go. A girl can/can’t be into casual sex, ONS but only with guys that are able to set a sexual frame they hold with them with no problem. If a girl finds you “perfect”, she’ll see you as “boyfriend material” to keep and will purposefully try not to be “that kind of girl” with you. If …	/r/TheRedPill	16/02/18 01:37 PM
1	Comfort Game in the #MeToo era I personally think you did very well. Everything in life is about ‘balance’. While TRP gives us ways to be ‘alpha’ and the ones in control, keep in mind that our ability to calibrate every situation with our knowledge is more important than dumbly applying what we’ve been thought. At the end of the day, SAFETY first, u lost nothing by doing what you did.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/18 02:15 AM