VantaWitch Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
38	Not a man but….	Rant	VantaWitch	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/24 07:45 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How to justify it to her? she doesn’t think twice about hurting you the way she does. also just the fact that she has you backed in a corner feeling fear of telling her is the abuse she’s been putting you through at work.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/11/24 03:45 PM
1	Not a man but…. just because it’s legal doesn’t mean you’re not an ass 😂	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/24 09:28 PM
1	Not a man but…. lol seems like i would have been labeled selfish by you even if the roles were reversed. thanks for the compliment ✌️	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/24 09:25 PM
2	Not a man but…. sure, and lets just end up creating a world where everyone screws everyone over :shrug:	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/24 03:00 PM
2	Not a man but…. if women get shit done by complaining and pointing out inequalities, and women grow up men and date men... and men are not allowed to complain and point out inequalities... ;) at that point who cares about a sexy look, if being appealing only serves to be taken advantage of?	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/24 03:00 PM
-5	Not a man but…. believe me i know. :/ i wish there was a way to be liike "hey listen im a woman too, but heres some bs im noticing. like chill its not like im some type of pick me. its legit like a world issue. you fuck it up for them you fuck it up for you in long run. lord know at your age you'll end up w a divorced man at some point lol"	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/24 12:39 AM
3	Not a man but…. im $200k in debt more realistic :') thanks LOL	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/24 12:00 AM
0	Not a man but…. i can only speak for my experience, but in my case and my boyfriends case, we found each other. two 30 year olds in similar career fields with a similar situation. he understands that for me, love is not just a take situation, but love exists when two people care about the future of "us" as a unit. he has my reassurance that i will help be his "guard dog" and fight with him (even for him in areas where he's told to shut up) because of inequality. i'll make sure he gets time with his kids and tha…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/24 11:43 PM
2	Not a man but…. feelings would have led me to continue fighting for them to see our worth. at some point you have to assess if youre being ran through the shit and if they're even appreciative of any of the things youre doing for the "us" unit.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/24 10:34 PM
2	Not a man but…. 7 years total w my spouses both times** sorry lol 4 years married of the 7 w first spouse 2 years married of 7 with my second spouse edit to add: my boyfriend has been with his exwife 8 years total and 7 of which married. (6 &1/2) so another very close to home divorce experience to compare.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/24 10:33 PM
3	Not a man but…. tell me about it :') i, too, have to pay half equity to my ex-husband even though he never contributed towards the mortgage or even the downpayment. plus (hopefully i can contest this) alimony. :'''''')	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/24 10:13 PM
4	Not a man but…. true, i can never experience what its like to be a man, neither do i claim to. but there is something that i for damn sure see, and that its that my boyfriend is getting ran through the dirt in his divorce for the same things i would get grace for simply by just being a woman. my only motivation here is wanting to spread some hope that there is an end to all of this shit, because my boyfriend and i were in legit so much frustrating turmoil dealing with the shit we have to go through because the …	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/24 10:11 PM
5	Not a man but…. honestly i should lol... i fear im going to experience the same flaming backlash i received from all the women in my family for leaving my ex-husband for wanting to be a stay at home dad/house husband even though we never had any kids :\|	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/24 10:05 PM
8	Not a man but…. first marriage was a really quick one straight out of highschool with the hopes that we were both going to move out of our parents houses and become something of ourselves. he never really got a job, would be 2 weeks on-off, ended up dropping out of engineering while i kept it up, expected me to work 3 jobs + finish my degree and keep us afloat. second marriage, he was my manager at my retail part time job during college. much much older than me but had so much ambition. i really thought he woul…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/24 10:02 PM