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Various-Attitude-352/r/Divorce_Men08/09/25 07:36 PM
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Your name fits the emotion behind this post lol.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 12:40 AM
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Nope, nope, and also nope. She needs to figure her own internal issues out herself. Same as the rest of us.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/26 11:04 PM
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Yep
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/26 04:32 AM
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Omg that Xi part made me lol so much. Might be true tho honestly, my ex thought tiktok was like the gospel truth lol.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 10:14 PM
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Solid suggestions. I’d say the hard part is finding the methods to practicing these as the individual. Everyone is different.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/26 05:57 AM
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Was 230lbs, now 200lbs. Ran 3 miles every day for a month straight, started working out and lost appetite. Admittedly the fire if burning hatred has died down recently so i gained 5 lbs from starting to eat normally again.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 08:17 PM
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No. Just, no.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/25 04:41 PM
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Saved this post. Really needed to hear some of the things being said here.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/25 04:47 AM
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Saved. Thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 07:24 PM
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Saved
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/25 07:09 PM
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We all wanted to fix things, brother. Women work a bit differently.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/25 07:08 PM
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Nah, I don’t think it was for the child. She had another kid and life becomes more work. She got FOMO from social media.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/25 07:03 PM
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As someone who loves love and wishes a forever relationship can work.. I understand I need to make my way to the conclusions of this post— word for word, man. I was a fool for thinking a woman will stick around forever. Just have fun and whatever happens, happens.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/25 07:29 PM
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Hi, married 10 years, separated for 2 months now. Im pretty sure my STBXW had undiagnosed BPD and I know how difficult it is to live with someone suffering with it, I can related with being painted as the villain. The truth is, mistakes were realistically made on both sides, and you now have to accept your new reality. I think for me I was in love with the idea of my wife, but as time goes by you start to understand that things were not perfect. Here are some tips things to hear that have helped…
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/25 02:54 AM
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Don’t reconcile easily/quickly. She needs to earn that. If she truly loves you she’ll wait out a year for you to come to a decision.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 09:21 PM
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That’s great advice. I let myself cry and swell up with anger when I was at my worst… it’s hard to keep composure when there is a kid you need to keep a smile on for.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/25 04:41 AM
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I’ll say.. felt like I died, body cut into pieces and tossed off a bridge the first 2 weeks. I literally couldn’t sleep the first two days… I’ve never been through that before. How to you cope?
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/25 04:39 AM
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Wow two years? Man, how do you cope? tightens seatbelt
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/25 04:38 AM
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Dude…. Are you AI cus that was like too accurate
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/25 07:23 PM
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I have moments of hatred towards my soon2be ex too. But even I know that the road doesn’t end until you learn to forgive… the pain of betrayal, grief, lost identity, it’s a lot and you can’t help but want to put the blame on someone and have them pay the price. For your sanity, and mine, I hope we learn to forgive and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/25 07:21 PM
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“She’s already planning for it. Tick tock… you’re on the clock.” Yup, this. Make a plan now but more importantly plan for the emotional rollercoaster cus you’re gonna go through it. Lots of resources online.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/25 11:05 PM
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Damn.. i don’t blame you for feeling so low. Kids stopped talking to you AND she’s pregnant? That’s rough.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/25 11:01 PM
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Damn. This is real shit.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/25 05:32 AM
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Hey man, my birthday was earlier this month too, and my wife asked for separation 3 days before it. I felt exactly the same as you. Lost my best friend and lover of almost 10 years. She also has depression, so i know the struggle. As far as what to do next, just accept and recognize the situation. Grieve, cry, get angry, try to forgive her FOR YOU. Walking helped me ALOT, listening to old music, staying off of social media.. listen to Rachel Sloan’s videos on youtube. Helped me make sense about …
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/25 05:43 PM
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My wife(9 years together, 3 of which married) and I are going through early phase of separation. I’m still going through the stages of grief and it feels like she’s moved on. What’s crazy is how much some of the stuff i’m reading applies. We both put up with a lot in the relationship. Fighting, miscommunication. Ive been asking for couples counseling and for her to get therapy for her depression (years), there was always an excuse not to. Wife’s mental state declined over the years, while I look…
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 09:03 PM
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I hope things get better for you.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 08:29 PM
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