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People tell us to choose better and there's little to choose from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/22 03:08 AM
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These 2 men have resorted to making each other feel good, since they are incapable of pleasuring actual women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 05:04 AM
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Red flag 1: oh you drew a picture in kindergarten, great, I would love if we got together Why?!?! Why does he want to get together when he doesn't even know anything about you? LOL. These men are lucky women aren't serial killing like they are, because they are in a rush to be alone with a woman with no concern for their own safety. I hope he meets up with a brut in a dress that treats him like the POS that he is. 🤜🏻💥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 05:32 AM
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It's not about being super suspicious, but you don't want to be overly trusting or pressured into being nice. The words predator and guilty in this context are veering too far ahead, as you'd be making assumptions about the person, instead of properly vetting them/getting to know them. However, If you are getting tons of red flags, but can't figure out why, just block & delete. Don't second guess yourself. It's always wise to err on the side of caution though, and that goes for any relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:33 PM
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This man is simply cheating on his wife, it's not a polyamorous relationship. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:49 AM
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I visualized this, LOL 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:37 AM
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Both of these people are media whores who'll do anything for attention and don't care who they hurt. Their 'storyline' of a life feels very forced. After she was dragged for her excessive-plastic-surgery-famous-for-nothing persona, all of a sudden she's a lawyer getting wrongfully imprisoned black men set free. Then you have Kanye giving history lessons on Harriet Tubman along with other bipolar antics and breakdowns 'in front of the cameras'. She knew exactly who he was, but didn't care, becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 03:02 AM
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I was shocked as well at the amount of men angry and screeching that they don't have access to this space. What is wrong with them? They are so entitled, so predatory, so lacking in judgment & morality, that they are willing to invade other human beings spaces and go where they are not wanted. I enjoy a woman only space to relax and destress, and the relief I felt reading the rules that they will be BANNED ON SIGHT, I can't even express it. Their self-serving opinions are not wanted here and "th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 06:28 PM
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Came across this post & recognized how typical this type of abuse is. In this woman's case she needs to get rid of this abuser who is attacking her self esteem while helping to fuel her eating disorder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 05:04 AM
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For now, she is blinded by love, but soon she will be slapped back to reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 09:24 PM
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In my opinion, moving in with a man who hasn't yet married you can be a devastating life altering mistake. Most women I know who are married waited until after the wedding and in the very least the engagement. But I've certainly seen unmarried women left with cleared out bank accounts, babies needing child support, and other atrocities. Its important not to rely on a man's word alone that he will marry you, as actions speak louder than words. Such a promise is akin to a 'verbal contract' which i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 10:21 PM
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Damn... I shed a tear, because I felt so deeply when you said "Women are a resource they want to control and feel entitled to". This outlines the reality of our struggle to be human beings in a society that views us as property... chattel... mules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:42 PM
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These are deranged men triggered by everything adult women say and do, which explains their tendency towards pedophilia, porn, prostitutes, and other deviant woman hating behaviors. Normal men-- I repeat -- Normal mentally healthy men don't care what's posted on this sub. It does not describe them, because they know how to interact with women of all ages. They recognize that women are human beings who have a right to seek out partnerships that are balanced, mutually beneficial, and uplift their …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:26 PM
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This! It's a struggle to undo the social conditioning of being objects for others to benefit from vs. living to fulfill your own goals and make yourself happy. I find it especially cringey when I see much older female Hollywood stars get an extreme amount of plastic surgery so they can compete with younger women for men's sexual attention🤡. It's like they want to continue being objectified and push the narrative that beauty is women's only value, not character, not talent, not skill, only lookin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 11:24 PM
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Projection at its finest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:55 PM
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That's true, but I meant it more in the sense of a man who presents themselves as a more safe trustworthy introvert type - a quiet homebody, hardworking, a bit lonely etc. to hide their sexual scamming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:15 PM
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Very good point about the way our genuine friendships with women develop naturally over time in the beginning and are never the result of the words someone says, but instead how they act in different situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 06:48 PM
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If it sounds too good to be true, it usually is. He claims to be introverted, but is highly socially skilled which is a huge red flag. Lots of humblebragging and motivational speaking, ready to take over the world & make millions, he just needs her love LOL. His hobbies also seem incompatible - the gym, raves, and self isolation. He seems like he wants to create the impression of someone who needs to be in a relationship and is a great catch, but if he's busy painting pictures, how can you see w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 06:13 AM
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WTF - The bar is in hell. 😳🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:30 PM
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Kudos to you for getting out of that situation. Alot of people don't realize how distressing living with a sloppy person is and will gaslight the hell out of you. 'Oh you can just clean up after him, don't make a big deal out of it', but it's neverending cleaning. To me leaving filth & clutter everywhere is a type of abuse. These men wouldn't rent a hotel room with junk everywhere and they probably didn't have their place like that when they met you, they wait til you are deep in the relationshi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:28 PM
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It's quite suspicious that these men can spend so much time with women and don't know what their women like. Do they listen to anything their women say or are they just smiling and nodding their way through the relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 09:48 PM
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There are alot of dynamics that make this a last alternative for women seeking relationships. My biggest concern would be why a woman was willing to leave the father of her children in the first place. What exactly did he do? Don't expect an honest answer filled with self reflection. So many women will do anything to keep a family together, so automatically the man is viewed with suspicion. Also, money wise, now his money will be divided. He makes 100k, I make 100k but has 2 children. He now rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 10:47 PM
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Looking back that's a very emasculating position to be in for a man, sitting and watching a woman eat & pay for her own meal on a date you invited them to. He didn't think it through, probably assumed that I'd invite him in and pay for atleast a drink for him trying to be nice. But I didn't, because it felt like he was testing me & I was totally disgusted by his cheapskate antics. Even worse he stood out there waiting, wanting to explain himself - "wE cOuLd gEt tO kNoW eAcH oThEr WiThOuT sPeNdiN…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 08:09 PM
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Dodged a bullet with that one. Found out later he had been married twice, "divorce wasn't finalized AKA MARRIED!!!", and he had 3 kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 06:53 PM
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He probably replays that day in his head in therapy "I really wish I'd stood up to Mama that day🥺😢..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 06:49 PM
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Scrote roasted ! 😬😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:24 AM
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This comment needs to be it's own post. Pickmes are only rewarded with crumbs, abuse & more hard work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:07 AM
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He said she was a very important person in his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:02 AM
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I left him at the door & put the bag of groceries in the fridge, then we went to a restaurant. I said thank you though.🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:01 AM
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the ring isn't for him to marry her, it's to keep her from marrying someone else. this way he doesn't have to pay child support & he gets free hot meals & rent money while keeping an eye on the mother of his kids. she needs to get a moving van one day when he's at work 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 12:01 PM
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yes. predators vs pickmeism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 09:58 PM
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oh please ... they aren't wholesomely selecting women based on their pErSoNaLiTy & hObBiEs, so they need to stick their entitled outrage where the sun don't shine! 💅🏽😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 04:09 AM
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In my personal opinion, too long of a length is totally overrated, but girth on the other hand 👀 ... Now that's what I'd be checking for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 04:04 AM
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This is boss energy & I love it ! Wish I could upvote this post more than once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 12:14 AM
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It's possible this type of caveman sees women as objects, not people. Any relationship they have with you will be as an object, not a human being. It will be difficult to communicate, as their mental connection is to your body parts and attributes, rather than true compatibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 12:09 AM
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He didn't forget, he enjoys seeing her disappointed and unhappy. Anyway, he's outlived his usefulness and serves no benefit, time for him to be cut off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 10:19 PM
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Men ignore their biological clock partly because their bros keep them misinformed and delusional. Men have decreased fertility after 40 and a 20 to 30 year old wife can't correct that. They also pretend age gap relationships are normal when they are in different lifestages than their partners making them completely incompatible. Unfortunately it falls on women to reject these 'Rumpelstiltskins' who are full of wishful thinking, delusions, and deceit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 07:19 PM
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Any manlet who claims 'sEx wOrK iS jUsT wOrK' should be forced to be a sex worker for other men. Let them be raped, drugged, beaten and abused for a few measly dollars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 10:37 PM
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👏👏👏 & it's crucial to seek out the support of people who want to see you thriving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 10:41 AM
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Where are these conversations occurring and how well do you know these men? If you want someone to truly express romantic interest with a nice date, they'd have to know you well enough to have an emotional investment. Maybe just take more time getting to know them as friends, so that they can know if you're a nature lover or vegan or love the opera, etc. If they don't know anything about you other than what you look like, they will prematurely ask you out for drinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 05:49 AM
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Coffee = Automatic No
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 08:21 PM
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The word gold digger seriously needs to be reclaimed, nothing is free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 06:10 AM
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It depends on your career. Alot of jobs don't care that you're a mom and will pressure you to go above & beyond at the expense of your children. They know you have kids & they don't care, their bottom line takes priority. So no, this isn't women attacking other women about difficult choices to put food on the table for their children, it's about society devaluing the role of SAHM while making sparse accommodations for working mothers. Either way, women with children aren't winning, it's always a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 06:05 AM
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Well he's not high value then, because he stops short of giving you what you want & making you happy. YOU decide what his value is. Perhaps you valued him too highly while not valuing your own needs, which is how this relationship became unfulfilling and imbalanced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 05:36 AM
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Be friends with boys and see if you share the same interests. If they aren't a worthwhile friend,, ignore them. Avoid getting physical, even kissing, as it clouds your judgment. Some boys will be trained to be deceitful with the end goal of tricking you into sex. To avoid this, don't have sex with any of them & don't be alone with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 09:22 PM
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Actually... It's better to have a "no phase" Where you learn how to say no to all the people looking to make themselves happy at your expense. There's absolutely no benefit to free loose casual sex - not financial, not emotional, not physical - no benefit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 02:41 AM
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'a woman fleeing a scrote' how aptly stated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 03:12 AM
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Either they are lying or unintelligent & I'm going to go with the latter. Incels hate women, FDS critiques men. I'm convinced men become illogical at the whiff of any female criticism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 06:45 PM
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There's an age gap & a HUGE attractiveness gap as well - some men are deeply jealous of a young woman's beauty. He claims it was an argument, but it's a typical sadistic male fantasy to harm certain types of women that other men fetishize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 08:29 AM
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Forget about those photos. There are naked photos of women all over the internet. This may be your major worry, but he may be thinking about other things. I wouldn't tell him that I was worried about the pictures, because he may then weaponize your fears against you & show it to everybody. If he shows them to anyone you know, just say he digitally remastered them & they're not the real you. You can also contact the police for harassment and revenge porn, if he ever tries to distribute the pictur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:57 PM
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Romanticizing 'the one that got away' is also a form of negging. It's a backhanded way to say that there's some other woman who they're truly in love with that isn't you. Also, they most likely won't be able to put in 100%, but you should if you'd like to replace her. This creates an unbalanced dynamic where you would be putting in more effort to win his heart, but his low effort behavior will be excusable. This behavior is also a defense mechanism where they idealize someone they have no chance…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 08:42 PM
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Men are ending up alone, too, but they won't admit they are worse off than women with much higher rates of suicide and addiction. Too many men refuse to engage in relationships where they aren't abusive, unfaithful, and controlling. So women leave. So no, we aren't single at 40, because we're stuck up. We're single, because we never met a man worth staying with & men have refused to be a good partner for anyone, because of their toxic machismo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:35 PM
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Agree wholeheartedly. Whether or not you have children, relationships evolve to people taking care of each other and running a household. A man can be a HVM on paper with wealth, looks, and material possessions, but how does he care for others. If something were to happen to you, would this man care for you the way you care for him. Or... Will you be cooking and cleaning while you're sick, as he watches sports or plays video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:43 PM
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Yayyyyyyy & welcome back. Also, a special thank you to the mod team for their help & support. Really happy to see this sub up & running as it's one of the few subreddits that caters to us ladies and our romantic experiences. Too many of these men folk were getting excited over the past few days, since they desire silence and the lowest of standards from us ladies. Glad to see we've weathered the storm & persevered ! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 11:04 AM
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Welcome back queens 👑 and class is now back in session ! Glad to see the subreddit up & running and thank you for the fierce refocusing. I'm not here for politics, I'm here to improve my romantic life. This forum has shed light on so many experiences I've had as a woman in romantic relationships & it's truly an agent for change. Loving the queen energy from the mods & thank you for empowering us ladies and opening our eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 10:42 AM
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Well my love language is GIFTS, bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 01:43 AM
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Lowkey, men are simply jealous of young beautiful women, because they want all that attention for themselves & realize they will never be that valuable or desired in society. So because they can't be that beautiful, they try to own these women. When that doesn't work, they settle for the notoriety & feelings of power they get from killing or abusing these women. Young LVM with young HVF is a very poor match indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 09:40 AM
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In every true crime show, the killer always plays on the sympathy & kindness of the victim. Women are socialized to be nice, which makes them easier targets for predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 09:29 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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