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Plenty of a takers?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:00 PM
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Gotchu
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:59 PM
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Now do you think males should approach women? I personally don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:59 PM
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I’ve never seen a women act disgusted or try to send my male friends to jail or whatever insane catastrophizing I see some dudes here talking about. You think that doesn't happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:58 PM
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With great results?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:27 PM
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I don't think men cheat as much as people think because they don't have the options to cheat. Unless we're talking hookers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:03 AM

you want to get laid as a man you’re still putting effort into having sex with a random person, which in my opinion demonstrates an even greater lack of self control I don't see your logic here. First off you're implying that men who hook up only are having random sex encounters. Which is untrue and you're also framing it as that is the only thing they want. Which is also untrue. Second, how is putting in effort into having sex display a greater lack of self control? If anything he's putting in …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:14 PM

A woman is going to take the more “experienced” one over the guy who can actually make her orgasm? That is not what I said. I said women will take the more experience guy over the inexperienced one. In most cases neither guy will make her orgasm. (They can both learn to eventually. But typically she'd rather have the more experienced one) But she'd rather have the more experienced one. Most women have no problem teaching someone how to make them orgasm as long as they’ll listen, which unfortunat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:05 PM
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Yeah somebody has lost their minds. It's not possible? Based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:30 PM

Women do care about body count though Id argue that most women don't. At least not near enough to the same degree as men do. but most with low body counts (for moral reasons anyway) want someone who values intimacy the same way they do. Id argue even then those women typically don't care that much. Unless you're talking about the heavily religious ones. And high body count does not equal experience, which most women acknowledge, because most of these men are getting high body counts from hookups…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:28 PM

Ill try to explain it the best way I can Men usually care about body counts because they have more pressure on themselves to perform. Whether it's making the first moves, being smooth, being funny, being great in bed, being spontaneous. Also a lot of guys instinctly also want the peace of mind of thinking they didn't choose a promiscuous girl to insure that their babies are actually theirs (false pratenity) This in turn makes guys insecure because when women have a lot of bodies because they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:13 PM
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I didn't miss it. It's just bullcrap. There are plenty of promiscuous women who have had strong men in their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:02 PM

EXACTLY
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:36 PM

I actually do agree here. I've always thought that hookup culture is a myth anyway because most men don't even participate in it. Just alot of women and a small minority of men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:36 PM
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Im saying for that guys that don't watch violent porn. They usually need it. Because they will get too frustrated
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:11 PM
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It's Funny because 1 also solves this problem
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:37 PM
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Women cannot control this, it's due to absent or weak fathers and whore mothers. This is such an eye roll inducing answer. So you don't many women who have casual sex who actually have fathers in their life? If you ever grew up in a church you'd notice that a lot of the church girls ended up becoming wild after highschool. Not the majority.... Just alot to notice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:36 PM
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Ok my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:32 PM
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I agree. 2 is a lot more advantageous than people think
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:32 PM
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This is really hard to pick here. My First choice was 1&4. This seemingly solves all dating problems. Women outnumber men. So.... Booyah. Guys don't have to chase as often. And if guys can accept being single for longer than 4 is the ultimate second pick. Less thirsty men However I'm a little perplexed. Men are still going to want to fuck. And that isn't gonna change. Now women outnumbering men would massively solve that problem.. but I would love to see an option where Number 2 exist. Where wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:31 PM
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In my opinion. Women not being afraid of rape doesn't change anything. The women is still very likely to find most men unnattractive anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:26 PM
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There is way more sexual frustration today because of porn due to over stimulation. Quiting porn is a common recommendation in self improvement spaces to motivate men to focus on real women. Nah porn is the only thing keeping guys from absolute bonkers or insane. Because of not for porn guys would have no outlet for their sex drives. And with dating getting harder most guys would get extremely more frustrated than they already are
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:25 PM
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What's there to think about? Only men who actually like the woman want to date her So you're one of those women that think that just because a guy heavily lusts after a woman he can't simultaneously like her? I'm making an accusation but that's what it sounds like
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:23 PM
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So have you ever noticed how like 90% of Red Pill ideology involves getting angry at women for not wanting to fuck you? I haven't. What red pill you been watching? Only Fresh and Fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:56 AM
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Probably none. But hey men want pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:54 AM
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But that's unfortunate what most women want
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:29 AM
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9/10 unless you know you are at least above average it's better not to try to ask out your friend. But In most cases you should be fine either way even if she rejects you. Depending on how long you knew each other. But in most cases girls don't like dating their friends
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:29 AM
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I don’t know why men think that it’s so rare. Because it is rare. The women don't have to be attractive. It's still rare
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:16 PM

A lot of average women do get looked over/ignored in favor of the hot ones. In what reality is this true? Do you live in Russia or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:07 PM
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Not necessarily. I had women associated with my jobs approach me even when I wasn't actively looking to date. Maybe workplace dating doesn't happen as much nowadays, though. I really boggles mind how tone deaf you guys sound when you say stuff like this. Most guys are not getting approached. That just sounds like a specific to your scenario ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:05 PM

Depends on how attractive the guy is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:02 PM

That sounds kinda slow
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:01 PM
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How much control do women have over the dating market? I'd say probably about 80 percent of it. Yes their are a lot of women frustrated in dating but it's not because women don't have options. It's because women usually don't like the overwhelming majority of options. So its generally like this.... The overwhelming majority of men 6+ and below are in no go for most women. Most women don't want those guys because they know they can do better. Most obviously want the guys in the 9/10 category but …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:57 PM
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Confidence means Jack shit if you're not getting much results
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:16 PM
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They don't have to .... But they alot more reserves and aren't fond on cold approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:48 PM
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It's almost as if I just said that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:48 PM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:47 PM
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Well it my mistake. It seemed like it was framed that way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:46 PM
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Like you can date women in their 20s if you want. The odds that you find many women over 25 that don't have kids is very small in America
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:41 PM
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Yeah so it evens out and don't count. Most barbers don't make that much
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:40 PM
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Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:38 PM
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No. But I take it with a grain of salt because you're experiences maybe specific to you just like mine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:37 PM
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No not really. I heard Canada is not very welcoming towards guy in the red pill/pickup community at all. And from what I've seen a lot of guys I heard that dating is not as forgiving there either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:28 PM
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Yeah I almost never see this. But I don't think the women on Purple Pill live in different realities
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:26 PM
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Well my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:25 PM
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Somebody give this man an award. No two awards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:07 PM
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It is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:06 PM
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He lives in a parallel universe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:06 PM
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Did you know that women also get bullied and mocked and insulted for being short ? By who? Other women? Never heard of guy doing this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:06 PM
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Yes but I think the height standards for women have gone up significantly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:05 PM
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First off where are you getting your info? And where did you get they are the breadwinners? Sounds made up to support your biais
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:56 PM
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You being hella disingenuous when you say that's what most married women are.... Where you getting this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:52 PM
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It's becoming horrible!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:48 AM
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Again no. I think you are looking at it from a simple mindset. Most men assume that buying women drinks is the chivalrous thing to do and that most women prefer that. And getting upset is just a byproduct of getting rejected. Because most people get upset at rejection. That doesn't mean they see them as prostitute. They just don't have enough to offer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:01 PM
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Yeah, but that's more because people are coming at it with the wrong intentions. If a dude enters a bar and assumes everyone is a prostitute, That is not what most men assume tho and in the same vein if a woman enters a bar and assumes all the guys can read her mind about exactly what she wants, she's doomed to fail. Not really. Because they have enough options that eventually they do find a guy anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:46 PM
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My bad then. But I think it's bound to become that way anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:36 PM
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Gtfoh. It's not a defeatist attitude. It's the truth. And also I like how you tried to slot me into a category of buying women drinks. I have never once entertained doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:28 PM
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I just don’t understand how some men can put women on such a high pedestal that they become outcome dependent on a stranger. Like are there men anymore who enjoy talking to women? See this ridiculous mindset just kills me. It's like this alternative world that only womanizers live it. Most people are somewhat sociable. Doesn't mean they just wanna chat up women they don't wanna know all day. Yes if they are attracted and somewhat friendly sure. But at the end of the day they are talking to women…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:26 PM
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I think it would help if bars/clubs maybe had dedicated nights for singles, maybe with wristbands or something to signify what you're looking for (hookups, dating, men, women, etc) where they would intentionally have the music present, but quieter so you can actually talk. It would be exactly the same as before. Thirsty men just endlessly buying "single" women drinks and going home alone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:23 PM
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It's always easier to get results approaching other women with women or as a couple than doing it as a straight man. Oh the irony
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:22 PM
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Many women aren’t interested in meeting strange men in bars and going home with them. Unless those said guys are hot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:21 PM

The most tone deaf comment I have seen on this post
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:18 PM
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So pretty much approaching girls is dead. Only dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:07 PM
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Y
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:05 PM
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I find women to always be more receptive IRL than on apps even if things recently are more uptight. Bars have fewer single people though. But I find men are so afraid to approach now that it’s very easy to talk to women in a way now. No I am so sick of people spreading this bullshit. The reason most men don't approach is because you're odds are getting a yes by approaching is so painfully low. It might be better odds than dating apps. But it's still painfully low. The only reason it would be eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:04 PM

Ugh this comment resonates with the dumb comments I have read
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:02 PM
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Preach!! I'm so sick of all these 30+ guys telling me cold approach was sooo common back in the days and girls welcomed it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:02 PM
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Hey women want you to read minds
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:59 PM
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You know why they fail. It's because men are not throwing their money away on women. And women aren't willing to do it on other women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:21 AM
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Wrong. They definitely go for free drinks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:20 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:45 PM
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You have a rare set of parents
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:19 PM
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Rule of thumb. Most women dont like dating younger themselves. Especially if they are 30+ and the guy is in his 20s. So in most age gap relationships the guy is usually older.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:14 PM
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They're used to the idea that women are hungry for relationships and somehow a half decent guy who just shows up will have women throwing themselves at him regardless of circumstances. Sometimes I wonder if Parents are living in parallel universes. Im not old by any means but I don't think the majority of girls ever worked this way. Girls have always been extremely picky. Also this is probably the same naivety my mom has. We were having a conversation one day and she told me that she ran into my…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:11 PM
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I don't. They wouldn't understand exactly what I'm going through and what exactly to say to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:03 PM
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When did I try to imply they were?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:37 PM
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Would you date fat woman who is trying to lose weight? A woman over 30 who still hasn’t gotten married yet? W woman with a past? Why are we acting like we don't live in America? That describes most of our dating partners If we're going off the general.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:17 PM
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You're being too unreasonable. I don't think OP was ever implying that women would start dating a homeless man off the street. So he's asking how obese. That's not a bad question to ask if you asking an extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:16 PM
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Tomato tomahto
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:00 PM
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I learned alot but I don't like to say too much because half my comments form an angry mob around here where people chase me all over reddit harassing me Harassing you for your controversy takes or for.... Um.... Services?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:47 PM
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No it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:04 PM
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OMG I had totally forgotten about that laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:04 PM
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One of black mirrors best episodes. Even knowing what he knew he removed it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:13 PM
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Again that's not the question
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:19 PM
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I used to work as a stripper+ for women. Best job in the world second What else have you learned about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:55 PM
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I would like to believe the free porn users outnumber the of subscription guys. However guys never fail to amaze me in this day and age of simping and tricking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:52 PM
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I still don't see it Also the entire point of sex boys are not because of women. The entirety of why they would be made is appeal to lonely men. Women are usually never lonely enough to justify buying sex bots. Even if they aren't interested in pursuing relationships with certain types of men. Even as a companion they would still probably be more likely to date women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:50 PM
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No because I don't buy their answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:48 PM
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Why would attractiveness determine whether you can be direct? 😂.... Wait you're not joking. (Heavy Sigh) Telling women upfront that you won't sex is not a luxury average men cant afford. There isn't really no "on to the next" unless you're a masochist and approach hundreds of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:47 PM
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Manwhores are more valuable in society than virgins tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:40 PM

If not… no. I will not fuck this man even once for money 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:39 PM
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I don't think that's what OP was asking. He was asking if the guy was your ideal type. Not Hugh Heffner
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:38 PM
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I'll be the asshole here. I think a lot of women are being disingenuous here with there answers. But too be fair alot of them aren't aware they are being disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:37 PM

Stop the 🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:35 PM
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He was addressing women in the post. The doesn't mean he has no incentive to lie to men. First off he could be lying to other men about his dating success to make his point better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:34 PM
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For example, if men want to have casual sex, pretending to be interested in a woman beyond that is only going to result in them going on a bunch of dates or going through a long "talking" phase, which may not even get them what they want if the woman is trying to use them for foodie calls, flattering companionship, money, etc.. Being direct about wanting casual sex prevents this. In theory. But you usually can only be direct about sex if you're attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:32 PM
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A Mass Effect reference? In Purple Pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:29 PM
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Is OF really niche now?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:28 PM
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I also think a lot of these men will be LIVID when women start buying sex robots with 8-inch penises and 6-pack abs. The male sex robots will also do chores and listen when the woman talks instead of smiling and nodding. Funnily enough, AI can mimic real human conversation better than some men can. You really try hard to push against the grain didn't you? I think the idea of women buying AI Sex models in a state similar to males is never gonna happen. Buying a Sexy Ken Doll would essentially do …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:27 PM
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It is funny how it shifted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:46 AM
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Me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:02 AM
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No. Go back to sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:02 AM
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Not near as easy as it sounds
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:01 AM
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If any guys yes pool was big enough it would be easy. But most guys don't live in that reality
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:34 AM
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Stop viewing testosterone as a burden and view it for what it is: a literal biological motivation inside of you to go achieve things. It is a huge burden tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:33 AM
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Yeah you getting blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:32 AM
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Men are strong. Resilient No men are supposed to be. Regardless of the context You still haven't explained the "problem" part. What do you think will happen if this continues? Low self-esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:31 AM
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Thanks bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:30 AM
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I didn't Make it seem like anything you just spoke all that bullshit. Obviously coming from a woman this is something that seems like utter malarkey
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:29 AM
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No but they did have wifes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:28 AM
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Horrible answer 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:28 AM
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Something doesn't have to make you sick or die to not make it problematic for you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:54 AM
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Yeah because I forgot you're my neighbor
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:52 AM
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Yeah but it's hard to get a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:35 AM
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First of all, careers don’t mean shit when it comes to sexual attractiveness. Oh God you're not joking Women are actually quite horny believe it or not and are very willing to have sex. Never said they weren't. They just not on the same level as men not near the same But otherwise good points
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:35 AM
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Definitely not lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:33 AM
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Thanks bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:33 AM
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It's not easy when you have a higher sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:33 AM
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Lol I fixed it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:32 AM
1

Maybe it's because more men are getting more lonely and it's a little harder finding partners due to more people in general
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:32 AM
0

Making friends is hard. Need to invest more in pets
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:24 AM
2

I’m sad to find out that it’s some Herculean task. How did you find that out?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:52 AM
-1

Just deal with it, to put it bluntly, actively fucking is not a need and you straight up just have to accept where you’re at. It feels like more a need than we think
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:52 AM
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Now if intimacy is what these high testosterone men seek, then it wouldn't resolve fully the horniness problem, would it? It's both... But how long can men realistically rely on porn, masturbation, or hookers before it's a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:50 AM
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They have higher standards for men being more physically attractive, being extremely good at game, and being really smooth when they want to hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:06 PM
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Again tho. The Top 20 percent is not just because your physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:53 PM
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No you're not. I don't see how guys misconstrue that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:23 PM
-1

Either that or you're a wild exception
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:22 PM
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No you can't. I think you're missing what the top 20 percent is. It's mean to represent the elites
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:56 PM
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Top 20 is just being above average in most of these areas. I would highly disagree. The Top 20 percent is the higher echelon of men. Being above average is not enough for most women to consider the top 20 percent and chase you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:55 PM
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Top 20 is just being above average in most of these areas. I would highly disagree. The Top 20 percent is the higher echelon of men. Being above average is not enough for most women to consider the top 20 percent and chase you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:55 PM
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Did you forget the point of the question? The question is highlighting the top 20 percent of men. No that one guy that is exactly a girls type.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:36 PM
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Tall, athletic, makes a least 5 figures (if that's a thing), has good game, physically attractive facial wise, funny, smooth, has his own car, place, dresses nice, and has big career goals
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:17 PM

Acceptable for who? Who's judging your n count in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:43 AM
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No one on God's green Earth would care enough to say this. You being HELLA disingenuous with that statement
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:38 AM
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For guys. It's extremely important if you want to cut through most of the Bullshit and have girls down for you very quickly. Think about it. If you're a famous YouTuber. It doesn't matter if you don't have a lot of money or looks, of you are fairly known women are gonna want to date you because you're pretty well known and you have some good career choices. Just think about the tons of women who only respond to guys with blue check marks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:38 AM
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Understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:00 AM
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The people who have it easiest are attractive men. They get the benefits that both genders typically enjoy. Why do you say that all relationships men enter result in a dead bedroom situation? That’s objectively untrue. He didn't say that man didn't have it easier he said that male dating struggles are not equal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:15 AM
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No. The 80/20 rule is true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:13 AM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:12 AM
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They don't initiate enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:11 AM
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Yeah I do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:21 PM
2

Moderate to attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:40 AM
3

I don't think I will
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:38 AM
1

Most women are chased heavy by the majority of dudes. So yes they do live life on miny celebrities
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:03 AM
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I didn't say it was one. But it's a big reason
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:02 AM
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It depends on how hot the guy is. But in general I'd say to the point where he overstays his welcome. He's explosive mean after only meeting up for weeks, he's flaky on the first few dates, he expects a lot after only dating for a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:43 PM
-1

I'd consider this a myth rather than an understanding It's not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:42 PM
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I will not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:13 PM
2

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:26 PM
4

That statement is delusional. Why you little.... Reads tag. Ah makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:26 PM
4

This
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:34 PM
2

This..... Is a FANTASTIC answer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:33 PM
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You've really interpreted the wrong way. No it's just a really dumb phrase
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:32 PM
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It means that some men treat women like an alien species… either an angelic one or a hostile one, and end up being weird around them. There's a precise reason for that. Women are a lot more pickier than men and have a lot more options than men. So in a way a lot of women are celebrities and a lot of men are fans. Just because you say women are people doesn't mean that a guy is all of a sudden going to know how to talk to women. Especially if he's wants her romantically
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:32 PM
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And that's precisely why the phrase is so dumb to begin with. Most guys understand women are people. That doesn't all of a sudden mean that a woman is going to be easy to talk to especially if you have little no experience doing so. I'm pretty sure a lot of fans say celebrities are just people but they foam at the mouth at the sheer presence as well. Doesn't mean that most Joe smalls are going to make friends with Wiz Khalifa or 50 cent. Despite what most women tell you... They do live the lives…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:31 PM
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I'm so glad this post was made
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:29 PM
1

I still disagree here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:24 PM
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No not really. That's not what an abundance is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:14 PM
1

Again. Why bring this up if most men don't have an abundance of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:11 PM

I think because women aren't wired to pursue and if they take the risk and get rejected it's devastating because they've never experienced that before. Happened to me once. I highly doubt I'll ever try it again. That's real rich to say I can't take rejection because I've never approached before. You're in a position to not have to... Rejection is a part of life. How do you think we feel on our first rejection It doesn't feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:24 PM

Men tell us over and over and over Here we go over that women who are rejected are morbidly obese and ugly and that they would happily date any marginally attractive woman who showed interest in them. Women tell men that a man could be handsome or a good catch, but they aren’t interested in him for reasons like “chemistry” or something. I don't even know what you tryna say with that second paragraph. But yes if you're not butt ugly you can approach men and have a pretty decent amount of success
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:56 PM
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It's not. It's cool. Well where do I start? To give you the short version. I have been incredibly lazy for the past few years. Hard for me have that inner drive for me to do anything other than getting by through work and that really sucks to know. I'm pretty bad at making friends. Not only do I not have also in common with alot of people but I tend to be overly mean by force of habit because I used to hang with some friends that used to poke fun of each other all the time that I thought it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:54 AM
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Wow. I takes alot courage to say this openly out loud. And honestly this sounds alot like me. I'm a bad person to date as well even though i would love a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:32 AM
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Y not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:05 AM
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That's a hella rich comment coming from you. Its easy to say having no partners is not a big deal when you can easily get them. Also who said we don't like these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:17 AM
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Meeting alot of below average to average women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:20 AM
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Nah. I heavily disagree. You might just be the exception
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:06 AM
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Because if they don't then they don't get women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:56 PM
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A little of both. I think alot of women be prideful
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:46 PM
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Because I'm an asshole and petty
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:27 PM
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Competition doesn't always mean bad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 11:17 PM
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What makes you think they are not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:45 PM
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Don't make the first move It's so amazing how girls can try once and say fuck that. I'm not doing that again. But guys do this and there shit out of luck when it comes to dating Don't cry over a guy Same as above
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:45 PM
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Nah. For most women even the below average ones
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:38 PM
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I don't know if that's nessesarily what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:33 PM
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Not often, but I haven't entertained men who offer low-effort dates or men who have me split tabs in the courting phase in over a decade. Why not? I will say that the only times I've dealt with another woman's presence has been when a "friend", who likely friend-zoned him for months or years, suddenly decided that she had feelings for him when he announced he was in a relationship with someone new. That has happened a couple of times and why I don't date men who have female best friends who aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:32 PM
2

Well for guys... You have no choice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:31 PM
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I guess female competition is not a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:31 PM
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Well now you know I'm not gay
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:30 PM
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Why, have you had to compete with a lot of women for the men you're interested in or something? Well I'm a guy so no. I'm interested in girls
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:21 PM
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Not once?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:08 PM
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When I met my husband he had a roster of girls and a situationship with his ex. I thought he was very hot, but after hearing about/observing his romantic shenanigans I disqualified him as a partner. It wasn't until a year later after he dropped all the girlies did I start to reconsider him as a someone I could be with. That comes with the territory if he's very hot. And you probably thought that because he was hot because he had so many women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:08 PM
0

Well three's some I haven't before
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:06 PM
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Nah but it's still probably Tru
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:53 PM
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Most men are misogynistic, no shit. They've been trained to be unfortunately Bish whet? Where you get this malarkey?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:45 PM
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Not all women want to fuck Chads and then settle with Beta bucks once they are older. If argue that most US women do eventually end up doing that tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:44 PM
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I just don't think it's worth it. Especially considering the effort you put it. It's just torture for men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:46 PM
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Not the same comparison at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:35 PM
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That's my biggest problem with cold approach. For you to get results you need to take tons of rejections before you start getting results and the little results you do get can't justify the absolute bonkers number of women you approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:22 AM
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Nonsense. It’s viable for average and up men. Nah. Game matters. Social skills. Awareness. These things can be developed, honed, and weld like a blade. But of course, getting into the +6.5/10 SMV will range will help you immensely if you’re average. Hit the gym. Well yeah if you wanna become attractive then start approaching then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:18 PM
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Im not approaching anyone. So you need to stop using me in your scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:17 PM
1

Most men aren't cut out for cold approach. That's only viable for very attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:01 PM
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These are the guys that would be well off learning to cold approach women. I heavily disagree. Unless you're saying they are cold approaching to strictly make friends and/or get some social circles going
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:00 PM
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I'm cool with that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:59 PM
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Look at girls in the eye and say “your cute can I get your number to 20 girls” - do it for 20 random girls you’ll probably never meet again on the street. If they say no just fuck off and keep walking and feel like a complete bellend or just feel like ok that’s fine whatevs. Nah that shit is absolutely dead. You’ll probably fuck up after that first part as I did 🤣🤣 and still do 🤣🤣 but it’s ok- one or 2 might say yes. And we can work from there. Or they might look at you like your crazy, which th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:58 PM
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You are probably right that the # of approaches needed for cold methods is higher, but the average time needed to approach is wayyyyy smaller. Easily enough to offset the other factor, all with less collateral damage. That's debatable. Because what if other women see you approaching? It's similar to applying for a job, really. The person who mass applies is going to land a job before the person who carefully studies each workplace for compatibility before applying. Of course. Like cold calls. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:57 PM
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You need to be either 1,2, or 3 to cold approach women for dating purposes Insanely attractive Have Amazing Game Be a glutton for punishment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:53 PM
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Lemme think..... Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:51 PM
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Dude I don't know what the fuck you're speaking but it sure as hell isnt English you’ll also start getting girls left and right, because the rejections legitimately will stop mattering and you’ll ADD something to most of the girls you interact with as long as you’re not breaking laws or being too nice. Yeah if you're a masochist. But most men ain't built that way
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:51 PM
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You're bound to take a shit ton longer on cold approaches. The rejection rate is mind-blowingly high. I only could say it's beneficial for hardcore masochists
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:07 PM
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If you wanna do it you can. It's alot better than walking up to a woman you don't know. Unless you're a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:06 PM

Ive never been a fan of bars for the longest because I'm not the biggest extrovert, I'm not a big drinker, and not as socially savy. I would recommend bars over OLD but never been good in bars
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:04 PM
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NewsFlash. Most men are unnattractive But if you want to cold approach with the intention to date then you obviously should focus on your physical appearance first. I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:51 PM
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Basically
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:51 PM

So bars
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:51 PM
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I don't recommend going after friends. You go after acquaintances. Somebody you might see on a regular basis but not enough to make them your friend. 1 success for everyone 20 women you approach is actually good numbers for most cold approachers. However most guys aren't in that group
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:50 PM
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Dude no. You obviously didn't read. I said if her body language is indicating that she's giving you signals
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:48 PM
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Guess we have two different definitions of warm approach. All and all it's usually not beneficial to approach unless you're hot, got a alot of game, or you a masochist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:47 PM
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So cold approach is essentially just good for getting social then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:45 PM
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No warm approaching is more so when a women is more aware of your presence and probably wants you to approach. Or it's a social setting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:43 PM
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What do you meam there is ni obligation to speak to you? What do you think are they going to do if you start a conversation talk shit to you out of the blue. Most times it doesn't happen and if it does you can lean to talk shit back. Exactly what I just said. They can choose to ignore you or excuse themselves Yes you do rationalise your lack of social skills because you imagine stupid scenarios of what they can do when they mostly don't, and evem if they did what's the problem, talk shit back bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:40 PM
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What country?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:22 PM
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Very many of them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:19 PM
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Most girls nowadays don't go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:14 PM
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Yes it should be accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:13 PM
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It's a US thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:10 PM
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No I think you're husband is probably the exception. My dad is 50 and he cold approaches alot. Doesn't mean I know a ton of men that also do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:08 PM
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Cold approach at least allows a man to play the numbers game. If he approaches enough women, one just might say yes. Well if you're a glutton for punishment. Then have at it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:07 PM
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That's more so warm approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:07 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:06 PM
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Virtually all of my long term relationships have been from a cold approach I'm proud of you woman respect a man more when he has the courage and confidence to go after what he wants Sure it makes her more impressed. But she's still not gonna wanna date you if you're not attractive. You're just bold and unnattractive Night and day difference between a respectful cold approach and a disrespectful one. Of course there is. But that's not gonna magically skyrocket your results on cold approach either…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:06 PM
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They are only fine with it if you're an attractive man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:02 PM
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They didn't Cold approach. Their was alot more social events and community back then. So they meet doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:02 PM
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So cold approaching is useful for mostly building social circles?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:00 PM
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Cold approach is not about chasing women it's about developing your social skills in order to get decent conversations. Well if it's just for that. Then do just that. It's not for dating then You can refuse girls while you cold approach because at beginning you just initiate conversation in order to get to know them. They are also at no obligation to speak to you. Especially if they are rude You rationalise against cold approach because you know that you would be cringe, that you dont know how o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:59 PM
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True depending on your goals. But I'm talking about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:57 PM
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You can still meet women in person. Me not liking cold approach doesn't mean that you wouldn't be able to find women to date in real life. You can still socialize with women in social settings and talk to women in a social circle. I agree that OLD is utter shite. I'm not advocating it's better
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:57 PM
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Is it though? The odds that you can get an actual date is probably slightly better on tinder. You'll be their for a while. But so will you at cold approach. And it takes a shit ton more effort as well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:50 PM
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Seriously - just going up to a chick and saying hi is nbd if you’re not all weird and oily about it. Some of them are quite happy to have a chat. Happy to have a chat. That's it. If you're cold approaching for dates. Then it's not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:49 PM
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I know what it means. I'm saying unless you're a small minority of men it usually is not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:47 PM
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Yes but that's alot of women to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:46 PM
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Asking her out straight away takes a few minutes to reach the same outcome. No. That's if you're attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:44 AM
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Then don't use Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:44 AM
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Well either way. Most of the time you don't get those. So you shouldn't approach
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:42 AM
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The how is important. But you need to be a locario for consistent results
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:41 AM
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I don't see no point unless you're trying to make friends
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:49 AM
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That's a warm approach
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:49 AM
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I don't think you'd have much luck with me, you failed at step 1 already. I'm better at seducing myself than you appear to be. Un uh. Don't be like that heel. Nobody is perfect ya know. I'm still learning
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:43 AM
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You giving me game on how to fuck you? Nice... I'll bookmark it. You like backdoor action? Of course you do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:34 AM
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Sure but most men are not gonna want to put in that massive amount of effort for so little results
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:30 AM
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No I never insinuated that. You're very unlikely to get a yes doing that. Of course unless you're rule one and two. I'm aware of that most red pill and pick up artists advocate for men to not do that. You can approach women and have full blown conversations with them but you still are very unlikely to get success if you're looking for numbers, dating, sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:07 AM
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Of course anything is possible. But the odds aren't in your favor
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:02 AM
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Well... You're right. Dating is shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:00 AM
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I disagree. Cold approach is just part of tool box a man must have at his disposal. We have a rule in the writing community... learn the rules before you break them. As a guy you should know how to cold approach before you deliberately choose to not use it. I have that same rule when it comes to sports. Learn the fundamentals in and out so you can learn to bend and to break the rules at your disposal. But your premise comes from the fact that you believe that cold approaching is a fundamental sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:58 AM
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know you probably think you’re coming as some type of suave James Bond-type when you pester and bother a woman who’s merely trying to get her Taco Bell and go back to work… But I promise you, you aren’t bruh. And even if she engages with you, it’ll be merely out of curtesy in most cases. Not to mention it’s still stupid to proposition someone you don’t even know for other reasons… She might have a man, she might be a lesbian, she might literally be on the run for poisoning her last ex… It’s not …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:33 AM
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I've had a lot of great experiences with really cool women I met through cold approach in my life. I think it can be a really great way to meet people and gives you a lot of freedom and flexibility in your dating life. I wouldn't necessarily recommend doing things like street approaches for most people, or even doing cold approaches at bars/clubs. It really depends on your goals and what you're willing to put in - cold approach isn't some magical panacea for your dating life either. There's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:30 AM
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If you're approaching to just make friends then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:25 AM
1

Are you saying cold approaching works fine for you? If so cool but it might just be because you have some big intangibles
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:25 AM
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I did. He calls himself MrsKittenHeel
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:22 AM
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Basically
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:20 AM
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Read her body language. If she seems like is attracted to you then you approach
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:45 AM
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Women prefer bad boys because people tend to respect alot of guys who are the nomad type guys. Which are guys who don't follow the norm and try to do their own thing. Whicheams they usually are very independent. They also like bad boys because quite frankly they are more exciting. Most women are gonna find most men boring. She likes when a guy doesn't follow societal rules and sometimes doesn't follow the rules she sets for men she dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:44 AM
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FACKSSSSSSSS. I agree. Especially in 2023 dude.. Nobody from either gender likes that shit (unless the person approaching is a 10/10 model with top-tier fizz tbh Thank you. Most guys don't like doing because of all the work that entails doing that many approaches and being perfect and women don't like when men they don't like approach them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:41 AM
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da fuk? Da FUQ Uh, you go on dates to get to know them. Obviously. You don't need to approach to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:40 AM
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No I'm not. And reaching into my posts wasn't nessesary. Since I don't condone cold approach you have to make it personal. Nah bro you blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:01 AM
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There are some redpill philosophys I agree with. There are some I don't. And that's something I'm heavily against. Which is cold approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:54 PM
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Its not that much of privilege unless you're attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:46 PM
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This.... Is the Top answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:46 PM
3

Cold approaching is stupid and it doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:45 PM
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Nah no one is saying that bud. We do advocate to not cold approach tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:45 PM
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So yeah, there is no place to pursue women. I'm sure there will be these ladies and boomer men who are 200% convinced I'm wrong and will come up with some rationalization so they wont have to face the reality. Are you being forreal or sarcastic here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:43 PM
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What if she got a beard?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:42 PM
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being viewed in the male lens (how and what turns men on, how men get aroused), when women's arousal pathways are inherently different then mans. It's usually alot lower and alot more finicky
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:30 PM
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Yeah I don't agree with that premise either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:34 PM
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Wym
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:28 PM
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Never heard of em
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:29 AM
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No kidding
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:28 AM
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I agree. This is what I've seen as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:27 AM

You can date/sleep with women with less in common with you if you have looks, good personality, and great game.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:10 AM
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Nah. You're wrong. Not moving off this stance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:08 AM
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I'm going to continue ignoring women like you. Thank you very much. I love you guys. But you guys give the most ass backwards advice when it comes to dating for men. It's always been this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:48 AM
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It’s always hilarious reading shit like this, because people like you always claim that “just act normal” and “just be yourself” is terrible advice even though it is quite literally the best advice out there. Nah. it's actually terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:41 AM
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Well in my honest opinion. Things are on the very VERGE of being that bad. Women are more pickier than ever before, alot are very entitled, and the off chance you do find one that likes you enough to date/fuck you they quickly fall off the face of the earth afterwards because they are so incredibly flakey and they have way more options than you. Now imma be honest. Alot of the really vocal passport bros are one of those dudes that be overreacting on viral TikToks of one obviously narcissistic ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:27 AM
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Sure, if the man won't put any effort into his appearance. Everyone has to comb their hair, etc. Again. That's just how it is. Most guys aren't in that category. They aren't attractive. No one is talking about the effort men put in. Regardless most women don't find them attractive. Or not attractive enough to be receptive to So, you just knew they were lying. Because women always lie. This is ridiculous. Never said that but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:22 PM
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It just doesn't make sense from a genetic POV that the majority of men are unattractive to the majority of women Might not. But that's how it is Have you honestly selected those qualities because you've had many conversations with many women? Yes. And I know how women like to virtual signal and leave half truths. Especially in this instance
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:39 PM
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That's all it is. Learning how to socialize
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:06 PM
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It comes down to socializing and knowing how to talk. Literally proved the point of my post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:52 PM
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I still don't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:47 PM
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Is it wrong to appreciate attention from a man a woman finds attractive? Do you personally enjoy telling people "no", particularly when you KNOW it took some courage for them to ask in the first place? There's nothing wrong with wanting attractive men to approach you as a woman. The problem is when it comes to the majority of guys are not physically attractive. So the general rule for code approach is usually.... DON'T. And if they don't? Isn't it possible they have good reasons for not doing so…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:32 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:54 PM
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I noticed. You're one of those people I talked about in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:52 PM
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Nope. Most of these people who think that they are being themsleves are being the worst version of themselves and expecting people to love them for it. No. You keep believing that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:49 PM
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Nah. Most people are themselves. It just seem like the people who gives this advice just find more reasons to why this advice is ridiculous. Most people's selves are not always attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:37 PM
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Once again, treating other humans as humans despite having a uterus isn't a social skill You can say that as many times as you want. It's still bullshit. I'm sick so of you guys thinking you're so smarter than you actually are. it's baseline decency. But you know that don't you, especially as your first instinct is to throw an insult and to show that you're only actually interested in being sociable with the women you find attractive, showing that since you don't give a shit about how you treat …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:02 PM
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Nah. That's you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:57 PM
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No, it is not contradictory. It's only contradictory if you believe what you said after that, which is not true It is There's a specific term for that: friends with benefits. Women fuck their friends, just not the ones they have no sexual chemistry with. You're so naive. Most women DONT fuck their friends. I don't know what "ability to move things forward" means. It just happens :-/ Move things forward as in approaching, getting her interested, getting her number, asking for a date, etc My whole…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:48 PM
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Wow you guys can be daft. I don't agree with your premise or any of you women who say that BS that treating women as human is the key. It's an oversimplified way of looking at man who don't have social skills. Most guys know they aren't talking to aliens. Sorry you didn't come up with a new discovery. They just can't communicate in an attractive way that women want. That's the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:59 PM
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As much as I hate hearing this answer on this sub. They only want to be approached by the men they find attractive. They obviously don't have the balls to approach themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:53 PM
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What I learned is yes, talk to women like they are human. As in, talk with them like you are genuinely interested in who they are as a person. Accept who they are as a person. If you can't accept and be interested in them, move on; why would you want a relationship with someone you don't like? I think most of you learned nothing from this post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:51 PM
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Most women are not gonna have much reason to listen to RP advice because their not men obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:49 PM
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Be yourself We really in 2023 and still repeating this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:48 PM
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You don't flirt to them, you aren't trying to get close to them, etc. The fact this needs to be spelled out is mind boggling to me. OMG thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:48 PM
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Nonsense. If a woman likes you as a friend and doesn't want to fuck you, it's not like she will want to fuck you more because she doesn't like you. What you said is contradictory. Most women if they see you as a friend don't see you as anything more than that If you want to get laid, you want to be in intimate situations with them. If there's any chemistry at all, sex just happens naturally given sufficient intimate time together. It's the biological imperative of our species. Not how it works. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:47 PM
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This is probably one of the biggest problems of why some naturals aren't good teachers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:45 PM
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This is probably the best summarized explanation I done heard in this whole sub
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:43 PM
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Be yourself People still say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:41 PM
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I'd say you're full of it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:40 PM
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Either way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:15 PM
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Alot of those men just lack social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:14 PM
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That's only if you're assuming that they only put out formulaic advice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:06 AM
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Treat them as you would a man then, would that help? It would help somewhat if you're trying to make friends. But you usually can't treat them that way if you wanna date them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:05 AM
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I don't agree. It has nothing to do with sanity. It's simply that those guys I'm talking about just need more development with social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:03 AM
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Most people can't always afford therapy.. the learning how to communicate is something most guys are going to have learn from making friends in their jobs, school, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:02 AM
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Most guys know they are just people. That doesn't make them easy to talk to or attract
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:55 AM
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With other criminal women. No that's not what it said How much you wanna bet that more women in jail or prison have had more sex than women who weren’t criminals? If you could I'd wanna see the source
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:25 AM

I wouldn't go that far my man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:24 AM
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Oversimplifying a complicated issue
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:04 AM

there r people who rolled africa or middle east and are dead/not knowing if they r gonna die Damn true that man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:32 AM
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I think there is a study that most men in jail or in prison have had more sex than men who weren't criminals
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:43 AM
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Just as there are bad men, there are women who possess any number of negative traits. Criminals tend to attract women who are either criminals themselves, or who have severe mental health issues or substance abuse problems. I've been around more than enough women to know that a crap ton of em them that aren't suffering from mental illnesses and aren't criminals themselves. Yet they date very sociopathic and narcissistic men. It's usually the fact that the although alot of sociopathic and narciss…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:34 AM

So confused about this post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:17 PM
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It's mostly excuse I hear from women when they want you to abide by certain gender norms that benefits themselves. It's kinda like when you ask women why they don't make the first moves they say "I'm old-school" Guys do this too when they say stuff like a guy is made to appropriate with many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:54 PM
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Everyone is gonna be out here criticizing op, but PPD users being the idiots that they are will never make the connection in their heads that there is no real way for men to meet women. That's the unfortunate reality of you're mot hot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:51 PM
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This is one I will actually die on a hill on. Only cry when you lose your family, or lose a dog. Myron Gaines might be problematic but he's has a good point that if you ever need to cry about something let it be around your male friends and not your girlfriend of it's not one of those two things I mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:48 PM
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I think many far over rate this as an issue. I think it’s very low in the list of gender discriminating issues. Nah. I think that's just I'm your area
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:44 PM
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If only those men didn't take it so poorly and didn't ruin it for other men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:42 PM
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Don't forget the whole "I'm old-school" excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:40 PM
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Trans
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:11 AM
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He's TS?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:52 AM
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Most guys do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:22 PM
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I'm a way yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:46 PM
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Ok I'm listening
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:37 PM
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I feel like I need to address both sides. Do women find emotional vulnerability attractive? Yes/No. They do find it attractive if a guy who's very emotionally stable and great at expressing himself without coming off as weak or whiny that they like as attractive. Do guys find emotional vulnerability attractive? Yes. They like feeling like a man a woman can rely on. We all got that simp spirit in us
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:36 PM
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Yes we do have a way of knowing because there are thousands of able-bodied women out there who cannot get sex Imma stop you right there. You're lying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:29 PM
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Sorta I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:29 PM
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Lol ah, there's the tiresome ad hominem you redpillers always revert to when you don't like the point someone is making. You right Ok but it isn't a very good one Why is it not? I literally acknowledged how it can be a challenge for shy guys. But so can many other things: Asking for a promotion, raising one's hand to answer a question in class, etc. Life is full of little challenges like that, yet I only ever encounter guys making an argument to change these things when it comes to initiating ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:56 AM
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Sure, but I don't think I'm reaching based on personality traits to suggest women are more self sacrificing and considerate I don't believe that. But you're entitled to your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:53 AM
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Dating done right requires effort, on both sides. Idk why you're whining about this when effort goes both ways in a healthy dating dynamic. Asking out and planning a date is nowhere near as complicated as fixing power lines either, lol You're not the brightest are you? I'll take what is a metaphor for 500? It's analogy. Yes dating takes effort on both sides but usually in the initial phase of meeting and dating the guy is doing most of the work. Because he usually has to take lead. I made the an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:29 AM
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She stands a much better chance of getting a yes if she's a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:33 PM
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If you can’t be bothered, you’re interested enough You repeating that doesn't make it true. By that same token because you didn't approach are you not interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:26 PM
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I would rather chew glass than propose to a man or ask him on a date but I don’t have a problem with the rest of those things. I believe a lot of women set themselves up for failure by taking a man’s initiative away by doing a lot of the traditionally male roles. Unless they like providing for a man, idk I just couldn’t see myself doing it and the men I have dated didn’t see it happening for us either. Really? Rather chew glass? Why exactly? Because your that afraid of rejection that much? Also …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:17 PM
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They approached me, and it was fine. If you don’t wanna, you don’t want me, which is also fine Your premise is that if a man doesn't want a girl then he probably doesn't want her that much. I'm saying that's not true. How do you know what they wanted if you never talked to the guys that didn't approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:40 PM
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No. It's not bro
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:33 PM
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You might but not most women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:12 PM
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Asking a woman out on a first date is not inherently "doing all the heavy lifting", lol. To you it's not. It is for most guys. Because you're making the first moves. Most women don't... So obviously they can't see why it's such a big deal. Its like me saying no big deal behind a guy fixing power lines. But is she who he wants, or is she merely convenient at the time? It's harder for her to know when she's the initial pursuer; Just like guys have no idea when they approach. whoever they can get e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:12 PM
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We have no way of knowing either way. You can't possibly give give it a no duh type of answer because that's not what women have to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:03 PM
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How exactly is that beneficial for both sides? I haven't been seeing that. Although personally I wouldn't discount striking up the first conversation (without doing the asking out) as a first move. So women can still make the first move without asking men out. Guy gets woman to approach him. That's a win because he's not doing all the heavy lifting and someone clearly shows attraction to him Girl gets benefits because she's approaching the guys she wants This could be said about anything regardi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:45 PM
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Women don't go on shooting sprees when they can't get laid lol The overwhelming majority of women that are not physically disabled can get sex. And the ones that are physically disabled can't go on shooting sprees.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:42 PM
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Not positive overall, lol. I generally get the impression those are the guys who lazily and selfishly don't want to put equal effort into the relationship, are commitment-phobic, and oftentimes are looking for easy targets they can take advantage of via forever-gf situationships, plate-spinning, etc. They tend to be the types who act through weaponized incompetence and they tend to be settling for the women they treat this way, usually without the women's immediate awareness that they're getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:34 PM
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Again, there’s no upside if the guys I want don’t want me You've only approached 3. You don't know if most men don't want you. Obviously if you're getting approached then that's not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:31 PM
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Because of the upside. The upside is that you can approach the guys you want right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:16 PM
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Or it could just be that he doesn't think he's good enough for marriage, doesn't know if he's ready yet, or doesn't think she would be open to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:59 PM
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Or he could just like the girl. Why do we assume that a guy will always take advantage here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:57 PM
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Nuts is an overstatement
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:56 PM
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Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:56 PM
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And that's probably what most women assume. Unless the guy in question is hot of course
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:54 PM
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You honesty think 3 times is enough to make a consensus? Imagine if most men gave up intiating after 3 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:52 PM
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If he really wanted to, he would That's not really true tho. Alot of guys don't approach in reality. And alot of men they don't approach not because they don't want to. They don't approach because the odds are stacked against them that they will get a good reaction or a yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:51 PM
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I don't agree with cold approaching in general no matter which gender does it. I'm more so the same way now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:24 PM
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She should assume that he only wants sex if a man that she wants to date acts in any way physically attracted to her? Nope. If a guy is openly flirting in a way where is openly flirting I'm a sexual manner or complimenting her body then it's a good chance he might have fast sexual intentions She approached him. I'm talking about in most scenarios. And in most scenarios guyy approach
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:24 PM
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Just because you approach doesn't mean you are willing to have fast sex. You can still tell the guy you want relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:21 PM
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Doesn't that depend on the guy? Because most guys pursue because that's what they have to do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:20 PM
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Enough times to learn that it doesn’t work. Well lets hear a ballpark
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:19 PM
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I mean, I think dangerous is pretty obvious. Men are more dangerous and arguably the most dangerous thing for women besides I dunno, traffic and ovarian cancer? If you're approaching dudes you're opening yourself up to interactions with individuals in a way a woman who doesn't approach isn't. You're relying entirely on your character judgement with less data on the man to filter rather than both societal pressures on the man, mental pressures on the man, and with the increased data of how he app…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:17 PM
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Because the women can usually tell based on his body language (does he look like he's turn on), his words( he usually has to come up with a reason why he approached or if he decides to compliment her body or figure), and his actions ( is he eyeing up her body or is he insinuating that they should meet up late night somewhere) Those are telltale giveaways. And some guys will flat out say it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:11 PM
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Very inspirational
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:09 PM
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Did you not read my comment? I specifically said that women wouldn't feel so bogged down. Specifically talking in terms of their options be alot of guys they don't like. If they approach men they don't have to rely on waiting a long time for a guy they do like to approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:07 PM
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Because in most cases a guy doesn't benefit from being overly overt in that manner because girls are more picky and it's more a turn off unless a guy is an Uber Chad. And most girls can detect if a guy wants just sex anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:04 PM
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Why not specifically tell him you're not looking for sex? Just like most women do even don't approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:00 PM
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Ok bet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:59 PM
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How often did you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:59 PM
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Ayyye good point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:58 PM
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Trust and believe you have not approached enough guys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:58 PM
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My premise doesn't mean that creepy men wouldn't still approach. The premise is that if most women approached the men they want then they wouldn't feel so bogged down by being approached by guys they don't like. You would have the best of both worlds
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:46 PM
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make the first move because I don't see why not and I'm not missing a romantic opportunity because of my own inaction, my thoughts exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:43 PM
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I know but humor me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:43 PM
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Most women already do that. Many women will initiate hook ups. I don't think they do it nearly enough tho I don't think women should cold approach, but it would be nicer if they felt comfortable to ask out men they're interested in from their social circles. Y
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:43 PM
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Women approaching men: I think it's a terrible idea and I've never done it. But, if you wanna go for it, why not? I think it's dangerous and brings a lot of baggage, but maybe you like to live on the edge or deal with bullshit I don't. Dangerous and deal with baggage. In what ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:41 PM
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Often, the woman doesn't even know she is attracted or interested until a guy who does know that he is approaches her and does it well. Women being forced to initiate might usher in a sexual dark age where nobody gets laid. That sounds mad extreme. Also a woman is of course not going to know she's attracted to someone she doesn't know. Unless she likes his looks from afar
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:39 PM
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I buy my friends drinks and stuff. Hey hey whoah whoah. I'm talking about would you buy a guy a drink you don't know 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:37 PM
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Bad idea unless you are long term friends already. Why is that? Strange men will assume you are easy or desperate. Well that can happen. But you don't have to stick around for those men. If they are strange then leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:36 PM
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No not guaranteed. But your odds of getting a yes is significantly higher than if a guy does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:31 PM
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Rejection is a part of making the first move
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:27 PM
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Approaching men: I don't think I'd ever directly cold approach like men like to do. However, I could see myself asking a friend to introduce me or perhaps initiating a casual conversation. What if it's a situation where no friends are around? Buying men drinks: My family tells me I'm cheap so I'm certainly not going around spending my money on random men. If it was a close friend or someone I'm in a long term relationship with then sure. What's your opinion on men that buy women drinks? Proposin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:27 PM
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You don't think guys wanna be wanted and want you to make the first move?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:42 PM
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Well that sounds like a woman answer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:19 PM
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No way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:05 PM
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Most girls don't like initiating. I wish it was something alot didn't mind doing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:42 AM
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You mean Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:41 PM
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Ask him how often does he think you initiates 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:41 PM
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How did you initiate?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:35 PM
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So you don't like initiating?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:24 PM
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I think that usually means he initiates
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:23 PM
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I'll rub his neck/back and then grab his junk. Damn? No candle light dinner? He not some whore you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:22 PM
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How do I initiate? Listen, we’ve been together forever. Most of the time, there isn’t a romantic buildup ahead of time. It’s really not sexy how either of us initiate. Lol Just, “Hey, do you wanna do something?” Or some variation of that most of the time. Simple is good. Sometimes that's all you need. Unfortunately most couples nowadays would try too hard to throw signals and nobody picks up on them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:22 PM
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I'm sorry what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:20 PM
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How often does it work? Almost never unless I'm like as blunt as a baseball bat to the face which I hate and ruins the vibe for me. I should admit, I'm terrible at it so that seems to be the reason for such a lack of success. I'm not good at being just subtle enough for it to stay flirty and fun. And I admit, getting shut down because he was exhausted the few times I did manage to thread that needle certainly didn't do much for my confidence or desire to keep trying. I still do, but a lot of tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:20 PM
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How often?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:15 PM
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I don't even know why you put this answer up here like most men that aren't in this category tolerate this type of behavior. I've been to a decent number of bars. Most men are willing to throw hands or throw guys out that do this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:51 PM

He's not being serious
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:50 PM
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No one on God's green Earth would care enough to say this. Correction. You wouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:49 PM
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I will not
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:59 PM
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How are they half as productive?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:58 PM
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Same here for ke
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:57 PM
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You're the one to talk 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:45 AM
1

Neither do you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:44 AM
3

No the hell you wouldn't. You got some nerve saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:27 AM
1

Come on it's not that bad. Most women don't need to seek out sex. Sex is easy for them to get
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:18 AM
2

I did not care about their disinterest either. It's like a deep apathy to sex and romantic relationships. I would love to have the feeling of apathy to sex tho It happened during my past relationship. My ex-gf was upset that I didn't initiate sex anymore ( Sounds like something a woman would complain about. And of course she never initiated. Shit like that really pisses me off with women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:05 AM
2

I’m just not getting how you think that men have too much aggression to begin with I never said they did. I said it would control over aggression. Most guys are simps
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:49 AM
1

Whut?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:48 AM
1

Are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:47 AM
1

Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:47 AM
1

We already give women many pills to kill their libido. Birth control, anti-depressants. Lots of medicines for women that kill their libido. Does it really effect them much? They can still get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:47 AM
1

Y are you talking about the anomalys
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:35 PM
1

You can simply stop taking the pills. And women are productive without a sex drive as big as ours
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:34 PM
1

Wym
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:33 PM
2

That's what I'm saying. At least my mind is off sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:33 PM
1

Well I'm glad to see a person had a positive change. Any difference with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:16 PM
2

I think it depends on where you live. If you live in a country where it's only acceptable a man approaches a woman, then yes, the man takes a higher initial risk. But when it comes to if a woman accepts his approach, she is taking the risk. No. Most of the time the guy is taking the risk. Making it too complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:15 PM
0

Because having lower libido usually doesn't effect women as much as males. They usually have male suitors so their libido somewhat comes back around attractive males. And of course most women usually slow down on BC if they don't like the negative side effects. Expecting them to take a horny pill is levels above what they are willing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:42 PM
2

OMG facts!!! Same my boi. Same
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:40 PM
2

But guys arguably take a bigger risks when it comes to proactively finding and acquiring mates
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:37 PM
0

Women take huge risks because they want a relationship and don't know if the man they are interested wants that until he gets to know her better. They don't want to feel rejected. They don't want to feel they invested in something that didn't work out. As far as getting mates? That's the risk I'm talking about You should talk to more women No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:22 PM
1

I can tell by your answer that we would not agree about these topics in the slightest
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:21 PM
1

Nah. I think they mostly would just tough it out until they find an attractive enough guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:21 PM
1

How does it effect you with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:20 PM
3

It could curb their libido so it doesn't drive them to act desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:19 PM
2

Too much aggression is negative
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:19 PM
-1

No. I'll speak for men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:18 PM
1

Alot better alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:05 PM
1

The pill is not a cure for depression obviously. You'll need more help than just a pill
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:04 PM
0

Right
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:03 PM
3

No. I'm not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:56 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:56 PM
4

Because it can get rid of the pain of having to look
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:55 PM
1

And do you take them? How does it effect your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:55 PM
2

“If a man was truly suffering he would do what is necessary to relieve the pain. “ Gross Gross how?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:54 PM
2

What did she say that resembled misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:53 PM
2

Great point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:52 PM
2

Because sex is not everything that men want. Never said it was. They also want kindness, connection, romance, empathy etc. Of course. But a huge thing alot of men are missing in this day in age is consistent sex and how male horniness makes dating horny alot harder. Because make thirstiness
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:49 PM
1

But the pills are dirt cheap and they help with moments where guys need it most
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:38 PM
5

Most women wouldn't wanna take it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:37 PM
1

How insulting and demeaning would that be for them. Good point. I know I will probably not convince them. But that's infinitely less insulting than men doing shit like paying for only fans
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:37 PM
1

I think I wanna start studying how lower libidos effects animals. I know that was random but oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:36 PM
3

That's seems stupid. I would happily take make BC if it was available. Are these even mainstream? I doubt most males heard of it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:35 PM
1

The main problem with dating today is insecurities and the fear of takings risks. Fear of failure and rejection. It goes for bot men and women. Men for the most part when it comes to getting laid, and for women letting a relationship grow into place. We want it all without taking any risks. I highly doubt that's the problem with dating today. Women don't have to take much risks. But guys have always took risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:34 PM
1

Good
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:11 PM
0

Interestingly enough iirc reduced sex drive is one of the harms that resulted in the trials being axed. what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:05 PM
2

The problem in dating is that you don't have what the women you want desire. obviously Jeffro. But this solution is a lot more realistic than a pill that turns ever guy into Hank Moody.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:02 PM
1

Dude you're being mad ridiculous. A women is never gonna take a pill that makes her more likely to get in on with men she didn't already have a burning with desire to fuck before she took that pill. And even if she suffers from low libido she's not gonna wanna come off as thirsty to the males she is attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:00 PM
1

What's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:56 PM
2

Pandas are literally too lazy to have sex. Pandas going extinct. This is really true?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:55 PM
3

Eg dating apps don't function if only chads are on there I would love to see this average women would get 0 matches just like average men do if it was only Chad on there. I highly doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:54 PM
-3

Loneliness is more bearable when your less horny
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:52 PM
4

No not nessesarily. Women have nothing to gain from that pill. Males do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:52 PM
2

You're not completely getting rid of your sex drive. You're simply suppressing it. And it only works for a day
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:51 PM
2

Why would it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:51 PM
2

What you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:50 PM
5

This is like trying to solve a headache by shooting yourself in the face. And no it wouldn't work. Lmao. Ain't no way you made that comparison. This is overcorrection by an extreme amount
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:49 PM
2

And it's dirt cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:32 PM
3

Ahaa. What woman would agree to taking those pills?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:31 PM
1

The average amount of sex in a relationship is once a week, That seems generous
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:29 PM
2

I think you are giving men too little credit imo. However I guess I should have made a poll beforehand and asked men would they be willing to take it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:19 PM
3

No no no. He's right. And I was fresh and fit fan
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:05 PM
1

You're so wrong it's not even funny
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:01 PM
14

I love how certain men shout from the rooftops that ”women never take accountability” for anything, but then come through with some obvious BS like this. Cheating is bad. Full stop I gotta say you telling the truth here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:56 PM
2

Yeah that's the unfortunate reality. I think approaching just destroys men self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:03 AM
5

Precisely
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:51 AM
2

If you are already not getting laid how much lower can it go? You obviously aren't looking at this from the perspective of most guys. Most guys don't cold approach. Yes most men know they are ugly and have no game. But that's a totally different feeling to be reminded that every single day especially by the women you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:29 AM
6

Then be attractive Gee. I wish most men thought of that You then get B by talking to women and approaching them. Just short convos about anything. Start with women you aren't attracted to or just random strangers, go fro there. It's possible to get some conversations going but usually the guy won't get nearly any results
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:15 AM
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Wouldn't cold approach be a means for someone without game to develop game? It can be. But I'd argue it's an extremely time consuming and a high self esteem killer. The amount of women a very socially awkward guy would have to approach to get adequate levels of game would take too long and he would take a mind-blowingly high amount of rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:14 AM
2

The answer sounded very condescending
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:34 PM
3

Bish shut up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:27 PM
2

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:21 PM
2

Already decided. Not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:06 PM
3

It takes way too long. And you have to take so much punishment for you to actually be good. You can improve your skills with social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:58 PM
10

No you're just an idiot. Don't compare our situation to yours
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:46 PM

Either way the ideal scenario is if the women approaches but that will never happen so therefore men should not approach
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:05 PM
7

No. In general
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:04 PM
6

Fuck all that. You need to approach Way too many women to get consistent results with cold approach. That's not just a stomach for eating Ls. That's full on being a glutton for punishment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:42 PM
8

Still not worth it to cold approach. You could be approaching forever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:33 PM

That’s because approaching with an explicit energy of trying to pick her up in many contexts, IS CREEPY, because it’s inappropriate but that’s just WAY too high level of emotional intelligence for some men. You are trying to sound way too smart here. It doesn't have anything to do with emotional intelligence. They approach because they are horny I work in a bar, I’ve literally seen thousands upon thousands of social & romantic interactions. The problem is, socially awkward men are creepy because…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:31 PM
4

Maybe not for you but for most women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:29 PM
2

Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:29 PM

Don't know how the hell that correlates
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:28 PM
8

But again. Most guys don't have game and aren't that physically attractive. So usually not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:28 PM
3

So not worth it basically?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:27 PM
1

You don't either
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:27 PM
0

It's 9/10 not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:26 PM
5

He didn't Cold Approach. He used to lure women in by asking for instructions.... And pretending he car troubles or he was hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:26 PM
1

I done this a fair amount of times. Alot of the times when I did it (when I used to approach) was because I usually was pressed for time or I didn't know what to say
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:25 PM
9

We never exchanged one word. You literally don't know anything about me and obviously you just want to fuck me. Who cares? It's ok if Chad does it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:20 PM
8

So basically. Don't cold approach
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:19 PM

No, that’s just cope for being socially incapable. No it's the truth Women aren’t going to call the cops if you act normal. Y’all should really get female friends before you think of dating if that’s so difficult. I'm so sick of bullshit answers like this. I can't fuckin stand it. What's normal to some girls will repulse others. And most girls think approaching is not normal. They are only receptive to it usually if it's a guy they like approaching them. Their are plenty of examples of guys I kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:19 PM
5

Women are usually too complicated. It's best to just get women that are at your hobbies. Or in your social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:16 PM
24

Well unfortunately that's how 2023 dating is right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:15 PM

If you think you’re gonna get arrested or thrown out of a place you don’t know how to talk to women without seeming creepy, aggressive and/or thirsty. Or most women see it as creepy regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:15 PM

You will never get banned or arrested simply by cold approaching in a tasteful manner Beg to differ
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:14 PM
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Most guys don't have A and B. The problem is cold approaching is just too ineffective for the majority of men. It only works with men who have lots of good looks or game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:14 PM
2

That's the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:28 PM

Because you still get sex. Genius
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:14 PM

You serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:08 PM
2

No. It's a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:35 PM

Better than no sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:34 PM
0

I'm sure many of them even think sexual assault is a prize for women Going to one extreme to the next. Exaggerating much?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:33 PM
17

Hopefully in the future more men will realize this and a successful dick strike can take place. They won't. It's only going to get worse
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:17 PM
2

Great answer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:00 PM
1

Lol that's why you don't sign it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:59 PM
-3

This is the best thing I have read today. I actually howled laughing. I would more than 100% happy to have provided a test for my children's Father but his ass would have been out way before it was 5 minutes after he asked Then he dodged a bullet. Implying that you paid for the crib then you not kicking no man out stop it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:56 PM
-1

Asking for a paternity test IS accusing women of cheating because you suspect that the child isn’t yours and someone else got her pregnant. No. It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:54 PM
0

No. You just make no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:54 PM
1

It means women as a whole are way better at being human than men are." Hella disagree. I think this simply means that women are less prone to inflicting and being victims of violence than men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:51 PM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:48 PM
1

Great answer. I thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:47 PM
2

Less than 10 percent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:46 PM
1

Either you put a ring on her finger. Or you're married yourself which makes women even more likely to sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:45 PM
4

It's just an analogy man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:43 PM
0

There are plenty of less attractive women willing to do them with average men who manage to interest them. Lol no it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:42 PM
5

There's a reason almost every pick-up artist teaches men to hint/lie about commitment in order to bed women or get a date. This is not even remotely true. And I used to follow alot of puas back in the day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:40 PM
0

This... Is actually a great answer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:36 PM
1

Well maybe besides here I don't hear alot of people claiming for governments to stay out their business when it comes to mandatory paternity because mandatory paternity doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:35 PM
0

I haven't really heard many people vocal on wanting to keep the government out of mandatory paternity tests. Where have you heard this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:31 PM

Wym everyone else? You mean the top?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:56 PM
5

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:52 PM
2

No. Never. It's a complete waste of time, energy, and it comes across as incredibly thirsty
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:52 PM
1

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:50 PM

It's an insult towards both. Men for having no standards and some women with huge egos thinking there the shit because they can get play
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:31 PM
5

It kinda gives up insta gratification and not value sex as much because porn is easily accessible. Does that stop me from watching porn tho? Absolutely not. Because women are super freaking difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:50 AM
1

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:03 PM
7

fuck and marry dangerous violent men before even consider going on a date with a autistic one . If the guy has social skills right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:17 PM
5

But I don’t really buy this whole narrative that “creepy just means socially awkward.” Creepy men are generally both very bold and lacking social awareness, or they actually enjoy making women uncomfortable. Lol no. This is just another womens way of villainizing awkward men. Women do this all the time. It's the same reason they villainize "nice guys". So they don't feel bad about rejecting them. The majority of men don't want women uncomfortable. The creepy guys usually lack social cues, have p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:16 PM
1

This is the biggest cope ever. Mostly women think this way about men. I like how you tried to do the switcheroo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:13 PM
2

That's real ironic considering the claims women make so much on the Internet
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:12 PM
11

Clearly you've never seen the sort of couples that go to cons and furry conventions together. Plenty of awkward weirdo girls dating awkward weirdo boys. They cosplay together and have Star Wars themed birthdays. I don't buy this that much. Alot of those guys might be weird but they usually have a decent amount of social skills. And by decent I don't just mean the bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:11 PM
1

Still married?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:04 AM
5

Y is it low
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:40 AM
5

I got confused
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:26 AM
3

What bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:24 AM
1

Men care so much abt hookups, we don’t know who actually likes us and who just uses us as a toy Odd are if they are sleeping with you they like you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:09 AM
2

I think women have it easier, but in my personal experience as someone who likes to date maniacs Y
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:07 AM
6

At least that’s been my experience, and other women have said they’ve had similar experiences. I think a lot of women of relationships subs would come for you if you said this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:04 AM
9

Men rejecting one woman one time in his 20s could mean losing half a lifetime worth of opportunity Ugh. I know this feeling too well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:00 AM
10

I can't take your comments seriously. Are you trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:55 PM
6

And overall men have it easier than women tbh How tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:54 PM
6

automatically win the oppression Olympics though. What if we steal all the trophies 🏆?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:34 PM
7

But on the other side of the spectrum most straight men are not permitted to wear this. So they can't use that flexibility to their advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:05 PM
12

Seeing as women are just used for sex at best This sounds disingenuous does it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:04 PM
7

theyre held to higher standards so by default theyre more attractive, they generally take better care of themselves physically than the average man I don't know if I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:01 PM
10

Most men are not attract enough to get women to sleep with them without dates so most guys end up dating those women to get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:00 PM
8

That seems to be go both ways for men. So do you believe most women are not describable to most men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:59 PM
13

Isn't the common consensus is that women are generally more attractive than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:53 PM
5

Do you not think men are generally more undesirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:52 PM
1

Yes those are the rare exceptions. But even then I'd recommend not doing unless you're getting clear signals
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:55 PM
0

I didn't say I discredit everyone's experiences. But Im willing to bet most are being disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:54 PM
-7

No that's you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:45 PM
0

WAMEN do. Because a lot of hookups in their head "don't count"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:45 PM
-10

Because people don't lie about their body count right? Typical
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:25 PM
-7

Contrary to manosphere most women have an N count of less than 7 She actually believes this fellas
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:15 PM
7

No this is why men should stay the fuck away from cold Approaching women. Because women are way too complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:56 PM
6

Women give signals if they want men to approach the problem is they are extremely subtle and unless you are really good picking up on signals then you're kinda screwed. So you gotta play this silly little game of picking up women's hella subtle signals. That's why in my opinion unless you're a guy who has a crap ton of game or you you are very physically attractive then you should NOT be approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:55 PM

Real crushes or celebrity crushes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:49 PM
2

Because they are probably confirming a suspicious they already had. Usually girls who usually date a lot of fuckbois usually still end up dating them by sheer habit. It takes a while to break
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:06 PM

Now go to da gym you lazy sack!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:53 PM

This tells me girls don't get many crushes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:48 PM

It's a joke love don't beat me up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:48 PM
8

Most women know they are dating the same men. I guarantee you the women who actually use those groups already know the guy is around
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:46 PM
4

Duh. It's a little word preselection
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:45 PM

Maybe this is easier for me because my crushes never last more than a couple weeks and I know they’ll eventually do something that turns me off 🤷🏾‍♀️ Is it different for men? They seem to have a harder time moving on. This is the most girl answer ever! And yes typically from what I've seen guys have a harder time moving on because they aren't as picky and don't have as many options
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:42 PM

Lmao. Well when you do decide to go. You'll find your crush there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:41 PM

I don't know, I tend to have at least one-two active romantic crushes and way more sexual crushes at any given time. Lemme guess. They go to your local gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:20 PM
1

Shut up. Completely missed the point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:57 PM

I don’t want male friends again That's too damn bad. You keep digging!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:52 PM

Are that dense to believe some men don't realize this? Typical. Uh lemme enlighten upstage your women are smarter than you think comment.... Most men know this. However I'd argue that's not how it works for most men. They don't tend to get over their crushes as easily for obvious reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:51 PM

I got over it relatively quickly and was just enjoying his company. I think most girls get over crushes easily because they don't have many
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:06 PM

Good for you. Wish that extended to all men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:41 PM
1

U trying way too hard to paint his chick as every bad money hungry chick that you hear about on Tik Tok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:23 PM
-1

OP is saying talking the reality of average to below average men. Not women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:33 AM
-1

Of course not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:34 AM
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This is why guys complaining about women’s high standards by blaming women is dumb. I don't think most men blame women for this. They know that thirsty men are a dime a dozen. They are actually way too many to be honest. So it seems like a lost cause already to even attempt to tell most men to not be simps or thirsty. It seems like a laughably losing battle
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:24 AM
7

And I’m an average or below woman That's precisely the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:14 AM
1

FAX
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:48 PM
0

You're wife is a whole sociopath and opportunist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:44 PM
4

If you got it you got it. And if you don't? Missing the whole point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:39 PM
1

Lol right. The logic gap
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:38 PM
2

It depends on what you're talking about. Are you saying men value sex more for themselves or when it comes to their spouses cheating? Two different questions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:37 PM
1

Women are trained since childhood about "stranger danger" so they consider any approach a threat. It's a sh*thole. Which is why most guys shouldn't cold approach
/r/seduction07/10/23 06:03 PM
1

I don't see how war makes men hold the power. Unless you're saying war makes more men die so therefore there are less many then women.
/r/seduction07/10/23 06:03 PM
1

I don't see how that changes much
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:48 PM
9

This is always a bizarre argument because women want men too. I'm not so sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:36 AM
1

The caveat is that with less accountability /lower expectations comes less accessibility / opportunity and vice versa in all cases. Chicken/egg flavored double edged sword. Wym here?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:35 AM
1

I used to listen to him all the time. Good stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:34 AM

Women do not have a higher sex drive than me I don't know where you're getting this from
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:50 AM
1

I lacked motivation to get better when in actually I could have cleaned up my bad habits. I was so focused on being a certain position and mad that I wasn't getting playing time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:46 PM
1

You might have been fat but you're in better shape then most people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:59 PM
1

You can still learn those skills and get experiences after highschool
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:21 PM
1

Yeah that really sucks... I can get why they want taller players as a goalie as well. More range to cover. It could be some coaches though that prioritize athletics and instincts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:08 PM
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And if you fail? Well, you’ll have little to show for it You learned a lot and played with the best. All those benefits I mentioned before getting to 7. Hell you can train other players to succeed where you failed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:05 PM
0

Don't do Uncle Rico like that. By contrast, odds of getting a 4-year in-demand degree and landing a six-figure job by relocating is way better. There’s also the trades that could be extremely lucrative. They could still do that after highschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:04 PM
1

Y'all still gotta get past them cowboys
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:57 PM
1

Hey y'all got some decent new starters
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:54 PM
1

Your child needs to be able to have achievable goals, and they shouldn't be forced by their parents to pick arbitrary goals when they may be more interested in something else. If they feel really strongly about not wanting anything to do with it then I think that's enough to not make them do it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:54 PM
1

Why would it mess up their development?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:44 PM
1

Sorry to hear that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:44 PM
1

Professional sports is just not a realistic path for most people. I am absolutely a promoter of sport for things like physical fitness, building social skills, etc. But for money, travel, or fame, just study and get a nice job. Most people want a nice job and do most jobs even give these benefits out of highschool or middle?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:41 PM
-2

If you're playing college sports at least.... you're having loads of fun, get to train and learn from some of the best players, and your still gaining status from being on a college team.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:39 PM
1

Ayye. Repeat Superbowl?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:37 PM
2

Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:33 PM
1

Ayyyyee. Them Eagles was sweating against the Patriots last week lol. I'm glad you was able to do multiple sports bro. I only did 2 and I sucked too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:33 PM
2

Lol u gud. Great point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:28 PM
2

Quick response tho. Something I just thought about. If someone is exposed to sports early and is trained from a young age wouldn't they technically in a much better position to physically fit and can't compensate their lack of Genetic Talents?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:28 PM
1

Dude you could have proved me long later. You had to start making sense 10 minutes after I post 😞 how I do the delta?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:26 PM
1

That's great. To each it's own bro. What sport did you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:24 PM
-1

Why do you draw the line at professional?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:13 PM

I don't know where the hell you heard that from
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:55 PM
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No because if yourself is not attractive you're gonna learn real fast that women don't like it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:13 PM
1

Yeah I feel you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:58 PM
1

Now go make me a sandwich Ok you can block me 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:30 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:30 PM
1

But how much tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:29 PM

Unfortunately 🤣. I mean but even then most other races copy them as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:20 AM

A Basic white girl is the hardest to get
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:19 AM
1

On a scale of 1-10?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:47 AM
2

Well I've been down bad for years so for me not really. But for everyone else....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:35 AM
3

That is very true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:31 AM
2

I get why
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:25 AM
2

Makes sense but here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:02 AM
3

Well typically most women don't like most men. It's hard to be a social butterfly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:59 PM
1

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:58 PM
3

This is a common excuse that I'm so tired of hearing. Most men are bitter after the fact that dating sucks. So the women weren't picking them before they became bitter. It makes it where if a guy says anything that doesn't resemble an agreement than it's a "see I gotchu... that's why you don't get WAMEN" comment. It's such a childish way or arguing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:58 PM
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That rings true with me to a degree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:56 PM
2

If you're saying it's not that hard then you must have an idea of what they are lying about otherwise they could easily identify those lies and work on them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:54 PM
1

When I was there age I was in co-ed sports leagues and almost everyday after work we'd grab drinks at happy hours. You're implying that those same guys have jobs that have that type of environment
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:51 PM
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I think it's hard for most average guys because they've never been taught how to act. We've lost touch with tradition, and most young men no longer know how to be a gentleman and signal to women that they would make capable fathers. That's really the key to successful dating, show women that you would make a good father. So most men are struggling because they are subconsciously showing women they are assholes or make bad fathers?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:26 PM
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because I could definitely pull women if I wanted Key word is You. You could pull women. Doesn't mean every guy is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:24 PM
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I have. They still have struggled. Putting in the work doesn't mean you are guaranteed results. Even alot of effort
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:21 PM
3

So what are men lying to themselves about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:20 PM
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I hate when people do this. It's like telling a starving person that food is overrated. Of course it's easy to say if you're not struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:20 PM
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No. Because it could just be her friends and social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:12 PM
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Every heterosexual man I know in real life is either married or dating someone or many someones. You are who you hang around. Most women don't hang around men who are lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:12 PM
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This sounds like a convenient excuse to just date women. I don't know your personel reasons for why you find women more appealing. Probably the same reasons every other women does which that they are less dangerous and/or you find them more physically appealing. But don't try to sell the idea that your not interested in men because Redpill/Andrew Tate/ The manosphere made you not want men. Most men don't even remotely resemble the groups you have mentioned. And even if they did you probably woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:35 PM
3

Where in Asia?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:30 PM
3

So you think most men just don't put in effort? You've never heard the countless stories of guys putting in heavy effort and haven't dated in years?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:12 PM

You sound like a undrafted free agent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:52 PM
1

Best answer here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:21 PM

No they are indeed complicated. Very much so than men. However they are incredibly picky
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:15 PM

If you read my comment I was implying that Im applying the parameters to guys who aren't good looking guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:13 PM

You just answered your own questions sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:49 PM

You are correct to a certain extent. Women are the pickiest they have ever been. So being a good communicator, a good listener, are great. But it's not enough. You absolutely need to be more than anything to be a guy who has all around great conversation skills(ie funny, smart, able tp pick up on signs, good at handling objections, able to tell stories, etc). More than anything women usually fall for guys who they feel kinda know women better than they know themselves. As hard as that is to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:40 PM
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Who said that they did? Well if no one will date or sleep with him, that's his options. Kinda my point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:15 AM
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Delusional people think everyone else is delusional. Not really a comeback just the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:14 AM
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No they wouldn't. I think you're just talking about your experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:12 AM
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Did you read my post? Because most women find inexperience as unnattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:11 AM
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A person who doesn't know how the world works would think that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 12:56 AM
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No you just don't know how the real world works. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:52 PM
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Exactly what I said most older women don't like younger men. You're searching for a needle in a haystack
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:19 PM
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Most inexperienced guys are not gonna be good at maintaining composure and being relaxed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:38 PM
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I didn't say you need to date most women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:36 PM
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What's wrong with being 50 years old with a balding haircut? What are you an ageist? 😭. Not quite luv lol I'm 26
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:49 PM
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Lol I saw what you wrote 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:44 PM
1

But you are good enough at talking to women that they don't believe you are inexperienced
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:36 PM
1

I'm somewhat inexperienced. Now where do I sign?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:28 PM
1

Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:26 PM
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Not really. Most older women don't wanna date younger men let alone teach them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:24 PM
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It really is. Most guys aren't 9 and 10s in looks. So guys usually have to learn how to learn what women want. If they never really had much experience growing up they never learn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:24 PM
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It's not hard to find inexperienced men since getting one night stands is not easy for men to come by
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:09 PM
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But again. Hiring an escort is demeaning. Also you run into a ton of problems with that. An escort usually wants to do her job and go home. So to have extended sessions with her client to teach him what women want doesn't usually fit what she likes to do. Since that goes into Territory of her getting too close to a client. The only way she would stay is if that guy was gonna fork over alot of money for her time. And most guys don't have money to blow like that. Also even if he did hire an escort…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:06 PM
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Dude... I can't believe I'm reading this...y'all making this way too complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:00 PM
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I'm not a woman so I'm not chasing any men OK, and what’s the cure for inexperience? Someone’s going to have to bite the bullet and help those guys get the experience. Or would you rather all chase the same small pool of guys who get all the experience… and who have all the options? That's usually what women do anyway. Not every woman but most
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:50 PM
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Nobody said it was the responsibility of women in my life. Again I think people keep talking in circles. It's not about experience in dating, it's about being able to listen to a person and connect with them. That's sounds good in a fortune cookie but it's not near that simple. Unless their is some more extra connotation to the word connect. Which could mean anything. You don't learn that solely by dating, you learn it from all kinds of relationships, from family to friends, colleagues and co-wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:45 PM
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Let's be more clear. I think in most cases it's alot more common to find very inexperienced men than it is to find more very inexperienced women. When it comes to like partner counts and dating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:38 PM
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It doesn’t matter what “most” women want. It matters what the women you want to be with want. Uhhh are you serious? That definitely matters. Most guys have to deal with what women they are more likely to meet the most. And that's the norm for women. A guy can look his whole life for outliers but he runs a pretty slim chance of finding that outlier unless he's a pretty attractive guy himself. And most guys are not. And besides, men boosting their n-count is mostly just about their own egos and va…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:36 PM
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I think you've summed it up. Don't know what second timers are though. Sex is always gonna be kinda awkward to teach and most virgins are learning how to be dominant and work to a special women's needs. And most women don't wanna teach that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:28 PM
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Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:19 PM
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It's the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:47 AM
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Obviously he's not gonna know energy or be pleasant without enough experience or if he has learned fast enough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:47 AM
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You are a wild exception. You married a guy 8 years younger who'd also inexperienced? You're not the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:46 AM
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Dont you think most women past a certain age usually have a decent amount of experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:36 AM
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Yes it is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:11 AM
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Experienced men doesn't mean that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:30 AM
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They obviously know you are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:27 AM
1

I think this is just simply what you prefer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:26 AM
2

Yeah that's definitely a big exception. Most girls don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:54 AM
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Yes but it's already assumed women will as supposed to guys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:39 AM
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Well experience, learning from a bunch of others as well
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:16 AM
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I do. Why you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:16 AM
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Most women don't like fuckbois. Don't believe you at all. I doubt you met many fuckbois
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:12 AM
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I think that study said women care less about men being virgins. First off I think it's a good chance that the women surveyes could have been lying and my point was that women that like men that inexperienced. Thats alot more than just being a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:11 AM
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Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:07 AM
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No I meant what said. Most women are pretty decently experienced past a certain age in America
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:07 AM
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Doesn't have to but usually it does. I'm not talking about the exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:06 AM
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Yeah you can't just assume most experienced men have stis
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:06 AM
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Well even then I think your friends are the exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:03 AM
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Based on what though?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:02 AM
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You can't be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:58 AM
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There is obviously a grace period where girls are not gonna be as judgemental. This is probably through ages 16-21. Beyond that. A women is gonna get concerned. Or most women will
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:52 AM
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Exactly. They know how much it matters
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:50 AM
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Dude you are not acting like a human and acting like a robot. You are approaching from an age of somebody who is confident. A guy who has no experience and had no good success with women is definitely going to think that way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:50 AM
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Imagine two guys: Guy A is sexually inexperienced, but doesn't really care: he knows he might fuck up in bed, but he'll be able to laugh about it when it happens and he knows he'll learn and get better over time. Guy B is sexually inexperienced, and does care: he worries about what his partner will think of his inexperience; he worries about how he's going to perform; he worries he'll never be able to get the experience he feels he needs; etc. Guy A will be fine with women, but guy B will have p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:49 AM
2

I do too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:47 AM
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I'm repulsed by fuckbois and creeps. I'd be willing to be most women like fuckbois. I don't see how's creeps are related Most male virgins aren't a problem. The ones who are angry about it and have a bad attitude are a problem. For you maybe. And I think you are trying to hard to sell the idea that women are rejecting those virgins because of them being angry virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:47 AM
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He probably doesn't need that many if he learned a lot from her. But if he didn't I would probably say like at least few before he can operate at somewhat decent rate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:45 AM
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Lack of experience with women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:44 AM
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So nothing. That's it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:32 AM
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If a dude sucks at sex they’ll just assume he sucks, not that he’s not done this before. Most virgins partners had no idea this was their first time Guys with no experience do a lot more than just suck in bed. They don't take charge, have as engaging conversation, aren't confident
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:26 AM
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I think a guy who's experienced enough and has no sti would be a different story for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:24 AM
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You can be but that's the thing you are faking experience
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:22 AM
3

THE MUFFIN MAN!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:21 AM
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But that doesn't disqualify inexperienced guys, they can have plenty of chances and that's how you get experience. I don't know about that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:19 AM
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So are you telling me that non of your friends have dated men with high body counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:18 AM
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No. They just don't wanna deal with them off rip
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:15 AM
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Experience shapes how a man conducts Himself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:53 AM
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That's because you're heavily religious. Most non religious women don't care about that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:01 AM
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So, it's not even a bias thing as much as it is a human nature thing. If women could have orgasms as easily as men, they'd be more willing to overlook a man's lack of experience. And if guys had more options
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:46 PM
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That's not really based on success. That's based one what they have observed in their lives. So they say stuff that aligns with their reality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:43 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:42 PM
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No I'm simply talking about guys who are not always in the complete hot or ugly category. There are lots of normal looking guys that are inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:32 PM
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I think that's more so looking at the other side of the extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:29 PM
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Lol virgin women that aren't religious are super hard to find in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:24 PM
2

Do you know.... The muffin man?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:22 PM
2

m or F?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:12 PM
2

Who me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:11 PM
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I agree. Most women don't want to deal with virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:09 PM
0

Ok... Let's a Chad looking guy who's a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:07 PM
7

Well of course. If any women found out that Harry Styles was a virgin I don't think they would care
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:30 PM
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You said it better than I could. You're 100 percent right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:28 PM
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Well that's kinda of a what can you do scenario. Which kinda supports my point on experienced men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:27 PM
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I hate it too. But women are never going to be direct for anyone who doesn't resemble a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:12 PM
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I think you overanalyzed it actually. Lack of confidence usually stems from inexperience or low success rates. People who succeed most of the time are confident. Despite what alot of Internet gurus say... Confidence (at least not the fake kind) is reliant on success
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:58 PM
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It does go both ways however I'd argue guys are not near as turned off by inexperience than women are and are lot more willing to teach women what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:56 PM
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It's best to never tell
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:54 PM
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A man whore is one end of the extreme. But whatever if we're gonna talk about manwhores most women would rather date a guy closer to manwhore status than a guy who's in the virgin category
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:54 PM
4

Why you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:52 PM
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Healthy people recognize not everyone is in the same spot. Also for a man to have this experience it means he has had to been through some things, this can be a catch 22. This is fairly common thing I hear. And frankly I'm not buying it. We always hear and see it online used as a talking point but frankly it's not true. Which is that a lot of things that men or women are attracted to which might not be what we wanna hear like women being more attracted to taken men... Or people responding better…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:52 PM
1

Men that really want women to approach and ask them out because they're too scared to do so. Yet you claim to be red pilled, you claim to be strong, you claim to be alpha. Sad. We have failed our son's and turned them into castrated manlets; men in name only. You tried. Most men who claimed red pill when it first started were simply talking in terms of knowing the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:45 PM
5

Not really. Most men don't need to advertise they are single. Alot are just single
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:43 PM
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Women do that because women alot of times won't are usually very picky about claiming a guy publicly if he doesn't check all her boxes yet. Also women like to do this to give other guys false hope when it actuality she's still dating the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:43 PM
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On the other hand didn't it just come out that 30% of male Tinder users were not single? Don't buy that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:41 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:55 PM
1

Y u say that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:57 PM
91

The overwhelming majority of men are big romantics. So no matter how scary you convince them divorce can be.... They still won't listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:27 AM
1

Generally speaking the 20 year old. But if the guy was also 20 it would be a different story for the 40 year old woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:42 AM
1

The solution to dead bedrooms is staying single and having casual sex with protection & birth control So never get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:46 AM
0

Most women don't really complain about the quality of their partners, that's an internet phenomenon much like how redpillers aren't representative of men as a whole out in the real world And that's major bullshit. And you denying that is just straight ignorance or just major cap from your end. Women do indeed complain about their quality of partners all the time. And this is not just a new age internet thing Ms Long Dick. Since you wanna act so masculine. And if you weren't talking about yoursel…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:07 AM
2

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:59 PM
1

That's was dumbest reverse psychology chest thumping ass shit I've ever heard. All these weird ass questions. You want an attractive woman to put aside all of her options and do the work to approach you? First off. I did not mention myself at all. So you get the fuck off my back. Cause I'm talking in general. Since women like the complain about the quality of the partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:47 PM
1

Wth are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:57 AM
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Aha. Yes. I know I’m right because I see it real time Exactly my point. You using your anecdotal to fuel what you think is rooting in reality when it's not. It's the exceptions Let’s say he has two women. One he’s really into and she’s his idea type but she’s high maintenance the other he’s not as attracted to and she’s low maintenance. He’ll go for the low maintenance woman if he can date her. Whether or not he does he’ll still forever complain about the high maintenance woman because she’s eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:56 AM
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Aha. No. You're not right about this one. I think you just think this way because you probably know a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:49 AM
1

That's wild
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:43 AM
1

But again thats my point. The women that don't expect you to are such a miniscule part of population that you can't rely on them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:42 AM
1

You being serious? The amount of women who expect you to intiate is extremely small in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:18 AM
2

Where did they say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:17 AM
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The best out of what’s available to you is not the same as having one offer. If you have one offer you almost have to take it especially if having nothing makes you depressed. Women have multiple options because they can choose a man or decide to stay alone and they’ll be fine regardless. Again you're not taking into account has multiple options. And I'll bet 9 times out 10 if a guy is getting approached he looks like he has plenty of options. I think I know the real reason women don't approach.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:23 AM
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You're making a guy out to be weak and timid if he doesn't approach but that's not a fair assessment at all. Because approaching is very hard to succeed and do as both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:18 AM
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You're using that as a Crux tho. Because the guy might have plenty of options. Just like the girl might settle if you are the best she has out of her options but you aren't exactly her standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:16 AM
3

No. I just don't Foolishness. From you particularly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:08 AM
19

We got over it. Why can't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:06 AM
7

Most people enjoy to be chased. It's an ego boost
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:05 AM
7

I'm so sick of people telling men what they are supposed to do. If that's the case then women are supposed to stay at home and wash my drawers anytime with no back talk
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:04 AM
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It’s a hard sell that your a capable guy if you are too timid to face rejection for 20 seconds with someone you likely won’t be seeing again, or if it’s someone you will be seeing again that you don’t trust yourself to make it a not awkward situation if you get turned down. Dude get out of here with that nonsense. Do you Shame women for being afraid of rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:03 AM
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Don't know about that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:02 AM
4

Now that's a more honest answer. I don't do it because I don't have to and don't like rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:00 AM
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Men will settle for a girl that pursues them because they’re happy to be with someone and not have to make the first move. So are girls not settling for guys because the guys approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:59 PM
1

WTH are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:58 PM
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I think what you're actually saying is that men intiating is alot more easier. And of course why wouldn't it be? You're not putting you neck on the line and making all the efforts. The guy is. Just like most guys would prefer if girls were made more of the efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:57 PM
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That's why if a woman aproaches and he says no, it's even more humiliating for her than vice versa. They should understand rejection just happens and is a part of life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:56 PM
1

That plays a heavy role and wanting Intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:50 PM
3

I agree. Cold approaching is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:57 PM
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I find it hard to believe that a sex starved woman wouldn't take the initiative from time to time in her own reationship. You'd be surprised. I'm aware there's the expectation for men to lead, but the only solution I see for men who don't want to be in that position all the time is to find a woman who is more egalitarian, not in the lip-service kind of way, but one who also acts in that manner. I guess I'm upset that most women aren't like this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:56 PM
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I wish guys had the same libido as women. This is why lower libido pills should exist for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:55 PM
2

Good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:35 PM
1

You're hella wrong. Most women are more attracted to guys in their 30s and 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:36 PM
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Most age gaps relationships are where the guy is older. Most women don't like dating Younger unless the guy is 30+
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:31 PM
1

It will not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:30 PM
1

No it's because you blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:27 PM
1

Reddit is full of Hypocrites
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:15 AM
1

Que?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:21 AM
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I think you can as long as you do it long enough
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:39 PM
1

But I don't believe that's true tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:46 PM
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Guys aren't "always" in a better position to take advantage of women, but they have a higher chance of doing so because they're more desperate for sex than women are. That's true regardless of whether he's approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:05 PM
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I'm pretty sure this subreddit doesn't make up the majority. Also most men don't cold approach that much. Because it's such a low success rate and out yourself out there more than needed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:28 PM
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Well true Technically. I just been hearing some people go on about a myth saying older women like younger men which I don't think is true. Only maybe for men 30+
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:13 PM

Most women don't care about a man's body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:06 PM
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Yeah the overwhelming majority of women I see don't like dating younger
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:34 PM
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No. I don't agree. You're making it seem like guys are just always in a better position to take advantage of women. And this seems like a childish way of thinking about it. The women can still make her boundaries present by saying I don't want sex. Just like it's not guaranteed if a girl gives you her number that she likes you with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:15 PM
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Is that girl still your friend? Set her up with a broke guy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:13 PM
2

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:11 PM
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I'd say you're the anomaly. Most women are not ok getting rejected in that fashion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:09 PM
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I already said it's not gonna change. It's not even the fact that ust mostly instinctive. They just don't like putting their neck on the line
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:24 PM
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I grew up in the 90s, well before online dating, Instagram etc., and women who approached men were laughed at and called desperate. Often by the men themselves. I see nothing to confirm attitudes have changed, they may even have become more entrenched. If you approach a man there is a good chance he won't respect you. Not worth the risk. Again I don't buy this as a guaranteed. Some guys might just actually like the girl and are impressed that you actually had the confidence to approach. If you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:15 PM
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Alot of women think they're the minority for liking older men but in reality they are not. I'd say from what I've noticed that the majority of women find older men more attractive and yes I'm talking about physically
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:10 PM
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That's so messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:04 PM
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Some will, some won't. But why set yourself up for the ones that will? It's a higher risk strategy than waiting for a man to approach. It's not fool-proof, but it's likely that a man who has made the effort to approach does at least fancy you. You still have to vet him, but he's passed the first hurdle. You run a higher risk but also the benefit of approaching is that you actually approach the men that you like. Instead of constantly waiting for guys you don't like to try make the first moves. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:02 PM
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Why is it so hard for you guys to see that this is the problem? Men are more likely to say "yes" to a woman even if they don't actually like her That is not the equivalent of what I said. I said guys are less selective. They still like you that just aren't as picky
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:49 PM
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I don't see why you guys always assume that guys just will always take advantage when you approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:46 PM
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No that's just the guys you approached
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:49 AM
2

So confused
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:12 AM
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The world is about to be turned upside down. The young attractive female population is about to double or triple over the very short term. I mean within 10 years. What makes you so sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:06 AM
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but technically and literally it is the first move That sounds like a contradiction to the first part of sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:32 PM
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generally, if a girl likes a boy she'll let him know. it usually doesn't manifest in hey baby what's your number. she will let him know by being physically near him, making lots of eye contact, flirting, touching him, saying i like you, etc. that should be considered a move, shouldn't it? I'n wayyyy but not really. It's signaling more so that the guy makes the first move. Like if a hot guy was giving you signals to approach all day to say something to him. Is he making the first move?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:27 PM
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You know what I actually thought about it. You are right. They are afraid to look thirsty and that ties into fear. So you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:22 PM
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You guys up for that? Be the change, fellas! Well most guys don't really cold approach like that. But to get most men to not make the first moves would virtually be impossible because I could never get most guys to agree with it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:18 PM
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I don't approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:17 PM
3

You said you disagree with me. But I read your answer and it sounds like you agree with me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:16 PM
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They'll never want to put their neck on the line
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:15 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:14 PM
1

So WTF? Shes not approaching him then. They already know each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:12 PM
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I still don't buy that. It's a reason but I think the primary reason is fear and ego
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:11 PM
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Well yeah. But I expected that anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:10 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:09 PM
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That's a part of the reason. But it's not the main reason like women claim. It's mostly because of fear and ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:40 PM
1

If shes approaching men for relationships then she's approaching random men. What are you even saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:39 PM
2

but please consider that girls/women do get rejected all the time after the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th moves which quite honestly are done by either gender. it's happened to all the women here. including me. multiple times. Not that often. And it's lot easier to make the following moves because it's not as big an investment in making the first move. That's why women usually refuse to make the first move. so who has the ego now? When did I make it about who has a bigger ego in general? I'm specifically ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:38 PM
2

I'm not a fan of this masculine and feminine talk. I think it mostly comes down to incentives
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:50 PM
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Men love women who make the first move. Men love to sleep with women who make the first move. Men tend not to attach to women who make the first move. Which is why women don’t make the first move. You're being waayyy too disingenuous. That might be a small reason. But it's not the biggest reason
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:50 PM
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Be as sick as you want, it’s the truth The truth is that you're wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:49 PM
5

The Exception makes the rule then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:47 PM
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Again I don't agree with this reasoning. Women can still hold the same standards as when they approach. They can directly tell men they aren't looking for a sexual relationship. I think the problem mostly comes to ego and Male thirstiness. Women don't feel they should have to approach and Men are way too thirsty to have incentives
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:46 PM
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Men don't trust women who approach them (eg. sex workers). Women hate rejection and have no built in immunity to it, so they hate it to. Women love to talk about equality and so, but women never gave up their own privileges. This I agree with this to an extent. I think most men do want a world where women approaching is common. However the reason they are super suspicious of women approaching them is because it's not common for women to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:44 PM
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It's a too high societal and biological risk for a woman to approach a man. It will never happen. Only a few exceptions, here and there. That's what my post was addressing. I had hope previously that society would in fact change it's positions to where it is common. But I clearly stated that it will never happy because of women's ego. And clearly thirsty men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:42 PM
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You have poor insight into how women think. Attractive/average women don't have to approach men. They get approached by men all the time. When hoards of men approach you all the time as an indication of interest, it is natural to assume men who do not approach you are not interested. Men will still date women they aren't interested in, especially if it's not serious enough that their options to pursue women they truly desire are stymied by the presence of a girlfriend I already knew this. You're…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:40 PM
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The truth is that if women are interested in you, they make it VERY clear and you would have to have warp-speed turbo autism not to notice it. No. Im sick of people saying this. It depends on the women but I'd say most women don't make it very clear. How often have we came across incidents where the women thought she was being very obvious but she wasn't. She spent a bunch of time giving off really subtle hints. Now to be fair I've seen both. I've seen women throw themselves at a guy and I've al…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:36 PM
3

I don't believe that's the primary reason
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:32 PM
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Women tend not to make the first move because we'd end up being used for sex by men who aren't interested in actually dating us but figure we'd be an easy lay. Whereas if a woman isn't interested in a man, she'll probably just say no. This is not guaranteed to be a thing. There's plenty of women on this very subreddit who have literally told us that they approached their last boyfriends. And nothing changes that much when you approach and when the guys approach because guys who just want sex als…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:32 PM
4

But why would it change if approaching for women hasn't really went up that much over history?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:25 PM
3

That's not a guarantee. For some yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:24 PM
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No it's not natural and logical. It's all learned. There are plenty of men who make the first moves who are not natural. They had to learn
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:23 PM
1

This is already how it is from what you described
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:22 PM
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You're right. My mistake. You think a society where most women start making the first move is gonna happen eventually?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:21 PM
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Why would anyone want that? Greater chances women get a yes. Men don't feel so pressured to approach. Men feel like the women really like them. Women can be more proactive with their dating options. Woman approaching men beats the purpose and the biology. FFS... just approach the women you like and want. I don't know what you mean by that. We are not dogs. We can communicate What's wrong with men? Don't end up like me... Wym?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:19 PM
3

And what places are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:18 PM
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I just had a woman pay for a date this weekend? What are we on about? I would assume we are just in an awkward stage of social development. I'm just gonna assume most of you are completely incapable of reading. I clearly said I wasnt talking about the outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:58 PM
2

Again what makes you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:30 PM
2

Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:27 PM
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Because relationships get stale, the women loses attraction, both parties get more busy, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:11 PM
0

Again certain outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:10 PM
2

If I were to guess I'd say alot do eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:10 PM
3

Such a silly question. Most men do in fact care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:59 PM
1

I can't believe you fell for that. Most guys are not what OP describes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:58 PM
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No... Only some Do. You're looking at the outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:58 PM

Nah I find that very hard to believe. Women always got options. So it's very unlikely that they are above 25 a virgin. I said it's becoming more common. Non-virgins over 25 still outnumber the virgins. I don't even know what this means
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:12 PM

To see women above 25 who are virgins? Nah buddy you tripping. They aren't in bars in clubs but they aren't common
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:02 PM

No it's not ridiculous to be a Virgin in your early twenties no. I don't know her age so I don't know. But above 25 it's harder to see for women who aren't religious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:42 PM
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I know. But I think it's still bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:37 PM

Im not shaming her or anything for being one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:29 PM

Is she like Early 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:27 PM

I'd say more that it's getting a lot more rarer for women to be virgins in the US past 25
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:08 PM

What does this have to do with....?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:06 PM
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I've always believed women cheat more than men so that's one I'm on an island on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:04 PM

My first comment wasn't a shot tho. That's in general what most guys do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:58 PM
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Very common
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:57 PM

I don't those men are the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:56 PM

Woah there Cletus you not that special. You probably think they can get any woman they want
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:55 PM

You should. It's fun 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:53 PM

i’m a virgin also Stop the 🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:51 PM

I think they are accounting both
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:49 PM

I think most guys care. They just can't afford to really be picky over it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:49 PM
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I understand what you meant. I just didn't think it was fair on the guys end. You can breathe. I won't be at you up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:40 AM
0

I read what you wrote. You said you wouldn't write the person off
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:33 AM
-9

Why would assume that men who pay for hookers are more likely to be misogynists? You can say some men are misogynists who are married
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:24 AM
-2

Why wouldn't you rule it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:20 AM
-2

You're a misandrist for thinking this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:19 AM
-2

You're joking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:18 AM
0

You're a misandrist if you accept the money
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:17 AM
1

My poison?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:32 AM
0

Awww treat me better. I wanna be treated well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:21 AM
0

Good I hope so
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:22 AM
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Nah. I don't believe the narrative that only damaged women only fall for toxic men. I've seen the complete opposite. And most don't deserve better
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:18 AM
2

I find it mad annoying. Like half of the signs I don't even know what they mean and what date aligns with which. I just slightly play the game because it's literally what the majority of women like to talk about. But my head simultaneously wants to explode during this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:16 AM
5

Lol no kidding
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:15 AM
4

Who cares? Women like toxic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:14 AM
1

If I'm a rapper I'm sure I would
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:20 PM
1

Yeah pretty much and connection
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:36 PM
-2

It does however I'd rather have sex with chicks that like me more. I'm not saying I'd ever just not pay but I'd rather just take home multiple groupies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:07 AM
1

Hey you're the woman. Not taking advantage of your privileges 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:01 AM
1

Most rappers do this. Even the big time ones. Future admitted to spending a lot of money on women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:57 AM
0

If he was smarter and a lil bit more patient he could do it without paying that much
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:57 AM
1

Pretty much yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:14 AM
9

That's pretty much how it is as a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:36 AM
1

Are you average?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:36 AM
2

Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:35 AM
2

Yes alot of rappers fall into this trap. Even rappers like Future who is pretty much known for taking people's women (look at Larsa Pippen) and is regarded as probably the biggest playboy rapper in Hollywood. Known for his no nonsense attitude, fuckboy tendencies, and knocking chicks up. He admitted to Kevin Samuels that he spent of 3 million on women that year. It's not that I'm convinced most rappers have to pay. They really don't. Even when BMk talks about taking women on dates even then he d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:34 AM
8

That's why cold approach is not that effective for most men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:59 AM
0

Nah. They just don't give a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:55 AM
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-They never want to pay for anything because "thats unfair". Like aren't men supposed to be natural providers? I guess not. I think you are getting confused with natural providers and guys you expect to be your meal ticket. I hope you got a job. -Men are are also suppose to be protectors. But most fathers leave their families, thus not being the protector of the household Most women initiate divorce. So regardless of the fact. Even when most men stay to form a marriage the woman ends up leaving.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:54 AM
9

Well at least you're admitting dating is way harder for males
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:22 AM
9

Such a braindead answer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:13 PM
1

This is not a matter of men thinking they were doing the same thing. Most of these dudes didn't even know the lesbian chicks I was friends with. This is me seeing women do the exact same thing the guys were doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:38 PM
2

Wow I've actually never seen this post thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:25 PM
1

Because most women don't identify as gay. I'm pretty sure it's alot of factors for that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:24 PM
2

Im aware of this. But that's why I said most women don't trust and aren't attracted to most men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:23 PM
1

I mean yeah a fair compromise
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:22 PM
1

Nah I don't buy it. These women were doing and saying the exact same things guys were doing. They just have different standards for women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:15 PM
1

Well most women are creeped out by most men in comparison to women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:38 AM
1

Yeah I guess we have two totally different experiences. The ones I have known have
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:05 AM
-1

I would be delighted to be in that role
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:54 AM
3

I said date not marry. I think most women marry guys for convenience and most women are not always approached by lesbians
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:43 AM
2

Don't agree. I've seen tons of women do it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:27 AM
0

And I disagree. I think most women are bisexual to a certain extent and are physically attracted to women. And would date them... Abeit if they didn't get judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:16 AM
3

I think most women are bi
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:54 AM
1

I'm not ever talking about gay women dating other gay women. I've seen gay women date straight women alot easier than men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:42 AM
5

True
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:42 AM
2

Because when you're a woman most women feel safer around you because you're a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:41 AM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:44 PM
1

I've heard about that however I don't think men are as equally socially accepted to act that way. Especially in this day in age. Women are. I need to read more history to get context on that tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:38 PM
1

I got you. It does muddy the waters
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:36 PM
2

You don't think that people give off cues about their personalities? Isn't that what a first impression is? Yes and No. There are guys that give off really good vibes that women respond well too but usually gives who guys like that have to overly compensate to make the women safe because men are usually deemed creepy and scary by default by women. However there also a flip sided to this. Yes alot of women know how to come off ass non threatening but alot of women are seen as non threatening simp…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:34 PM
1

I think there’s something to the fact that because women are per se less threatening, there’s an easier time getting your “foot in the door” so to speak. The girl’s bathroom camaraderie kind of thing. Casual sex between women is also way more mutually enjoyable. Sex between men and women begins and ends with a man’s orgasm. Not the case between women. It’s also just safer. Less risk of pregnancy, rape, STDs etc. I agree however I don't think women's biggest concerns about having sex with other m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:28 PM
4

Not a narrative I'm pushing. But nice one tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:19 PM
2

I know. Thanks for the insight. Me personally I tell men they shouldn't ever cold approach because the odds you get a yes are incredibly tiny. When a women approaches other men or women her success rate is so much better. Unfortunately men are men’s worst enemy in these cases Why you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:19 PM
3

mmm. No. Mmm yes Women are willing to settle for soft lesbianism and Golden Girls-style "companionship" because it provides the "emotional intimacy" they want from a man but cannot get. They're willing to accept a little bit of lesbian lite sex when they cannot get a man. They can always get emotional intimacy from men. But they often trust men and are not attracted to the majority of men Also wym soft lesbianism. I've seen plenty of times where those same women came back to the girls for relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:11 PM
1

I wasn't really talking about bisexual women tho. I was talking about straight women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:05 PM
5

It's not difficult for a guy if he's the type of guy who women tend to trust. Most women won't know that on approach
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:03 PM
4

That's exactly what I'm saying. So guys have to work harder than other women do when it comes to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:03 PM
4

Most women are straight and not willing to date women at all. I don't buy this. The last part not the first The more I hung around lesbian and bisexual women the more Ive seen straight tons of women date other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:00 PM
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My pool is theoretically available women is maybe about 10%, maybe even less considering some women like kissing and dating other girls but don’t want to marry them and I am marriage oriented, not casual dating oriented. So it’s extremely rare that I get approached by a woman in the wild. As a woman myself, I know it takes a lot of guts to approach someone in the wild, regardless of gender. So on the rarest of occasions when another woman approaches me, even if I’m not interested in her romantic…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:59 PM
6

I've actually seen this a few times. I'd see a guy who would lightly touch a girl's hip while she's dancing on a pole and then a minute later a woman will give a stripper a full on smack on the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:54 PM
6

Sure, if they were actually trying to get some action from you That's not an excuse when men do it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:52 PM
2

You might not like pussy and tits but I believe most women do. So you're probably just an anomaly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:51 PM
1

That's good for you but why would that be good for most guys doing that if they are just trying to meet people? They are better off warm approaching.
/r/seduction08/08/23 06:40 PM
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I get what you mean by gauging a women's interest when it comes to her sexuality but it's also I think rather simple minded to imply she always sleeps around if she has fast sex with you. It could be she has fast sex with only you because you were her type. Usually a man goals is to have sex with a woman's as fast as possible. So he can know whether or not she is someone he wants to pursue further. I don't know if I would nessesarily agree with always intiating sex on the first date tho. It's po…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:13 PM
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No, they're not. You act as if people don’t ever associate with these kind of guys. Plenty of nerdy girls have met these guys The guys are either picky beggars or they're just straight up creeps. They alot of times. I find it hella rich that you think they don't. I know a decent amount of guys who are in that category so for you to say otherwise is wild to me. You speaking just to disagree at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:46 PM
2

Don't let Larpers here you say that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:44 PM
0

That’s just “Ugly = Better” propaganda and it just feeds into the delusions of dipshits into becoming ‘Nice Guys’. A person’s personality has little to do with their looks. Not a narrative that was pushing Incels and neckbeards debunk that entirely. They dont want girlfriends, they want HOT girlfriends. They want Ariana Grande, Cardi B, Megan Thee Stallion, Kim Kardisian, etc. They want the hottest girls on IG and Tinder. They want hot girlfriends but they are ok with below average to average wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:07 PM
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Oh no it is. But you're more likely to experience guys who are good at getting women to cheat than a guy who isn't. And most ugly guys are usually great ful for having girlfriends compared to a guy that's actually attractive. Also ugly doesn't mean much either also if the guy is a compensator. Some men are ugly but at the same time very attractive if that makes sense. But not all ugly men are on the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:43 PM
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Most red pillls will always folllow the first rule of the red pill. Never talk about the red pill. The closesr thing I know of a red piller is a natural (my brother). You woke up and decided to speak facts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:41 PM
4

So he's a Larper?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:40 PM
9

I'd say newer age red pill has gone more extreme but I do see a lot of red pill esque rhetoric with the guys I know who are great with women. And some toxic. But women still love them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:39 PM
0

Yes it is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:03 PM
1

Because most of them can't. Unless we talking bout hookers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:03 PM
1

They do cap alot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:58 PM
1

If you're down for the punishment that comes with it sure. But usually I think that's a last ditch effort
/r/seduction08/08/23 08:27 AM
1

No problem. Just pay me in gum
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:29 AM
1

What does that have to do with what Im talking about? You moving the goalposts my boi
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:28 AM
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No one said it guarantees. Just a stronger likelihood. So the guy who made the point was right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:28 AM
1

Yeah it's kinda like focus on yourself and women will come. But the women never come
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:06 AM
1

This comment has gotta be a joke 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:05 AM
1

Great response
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:05 AM
5

But people are more likely and more willing to commit to attractive people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:02 AM
2

I think women are capping tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:02 AM
3

I know I wasn't judging you. I guess it depends on your type. The rule of 6 I believe
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:00 AM
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Well I tend to think women's standards are too high so I don't know what to think for your situation. It's extremely hard to be an attractive male
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:58 AM
2

In my dating experience the looks of the man had nothing to do with their willingness to commit I think it does. You can only cheat if you can afford to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:57 AM
2

Do you are you high? There are tons of studies that support women prefer taller, fit, and more financially stable mem
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:56 AM
15

I'm not going to lower my standards That's not a shocker. Most women don't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:55 AM
5

For 8 years? Was physically attracted to him at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:54 AM
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I don't think most women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:53 AM

This doesn't sound legit. Sounds like a lifetime movie
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:52 AM
1

Shouldn't they start with social circle?
/r/seduction08/08/23 12:26 AM
1

From what I learned from the guys I know who are great at seducing is that the opener doesn't isn't really that important. Anyone can come with a clever pickup line or opener to make a woman laugh and sometimes stop her in her tracks... But itsvthe follow up thats the real part because most openers can be reused and preplanned out. The follow conversation usually has to be something related to her.
/r/seduction07/08/23 09:25 PM
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No. You must have forgotten what I said in my last paragraph. I said warm approaching is the way to go. There's a difference. And plus In the case you are talking about you seem to be saying to just talk to people in general. Yeah if you're talking to people just to be social and not from a perspective of dating/ being friendly then yeah I'd agree. But that's not what cold approaching is
/r/seduction07/08/23 07:22 PM
1

That's what I said in the post. That was question 3
/r/seduction07/08/23 06:07 PM
2

That's why you ask yourself those 4 questions I highlighted in the post. You have to ask yourself are willing to take high amounts of punishment to get to that height. I don't think most guys are willing to do that. They should in fact build up their social circles I agree tho. But I think that's what they should primarily focus on.
/r/seduction07/08/23 05:36 PM
1

I mostly agree. Unless you can answer yes to these 4 questions
/r/seduction07/08/23 05:34 PM
1

I agree wholeheartedly. It's better to just use social circle and if you're gonna approach it should always be warm approach. Cold approach can have its uses but only for a certain caliber of men
/r/seduction07/08/23 05:11 PM
1

I don't know where in the post you got the idea that I perceived women this way or trying to sell you on this. When you say it just comes down to Can you prevent rejection from hurting your confidence? Well that's one of the points I brought up in my post. Most guys aren't equipped for that level of rejection. Which is why it's important for men to ask themselves that question. It was last and final question
/r/seduction07/08/23 05:10 PM
2

So basically warm approaching
/r/seduction07/08/23 05:07 PM
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2) absolutely required and there's only one way to get there - practice The amount of effort and cold approaching a man has to go through to go from zero game to massive game is insanely high. yep, I don't bother with cold approaches - warm approaches makes life way easier. I may create an opportunity for such an approach - catch her attention in some benign way, but yeah, cold approaches are a young man's game. I agree. See 2/3. I worked in sales for a long time so yeah, I have thick skin. I kn…
/r/seduction07/08/23 05:06 PM
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I get what you're saying but not everyone is cut out to be a door to door salesman. It's just not a job that alot of people are comfortable with doing. And even if alot of people were to do something like door to door sales it would still effect their mental because rejection from customers is not near the same effect as a woman rejecting you. Because usually it could be tied down to just having bad sales. But if you're cold approaching not only are women confirming that you have poor salesman s…
/r/seduction07/08/23 05:03 PM
0

No
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:16 AM
8

Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:58 AM
0

Nah not at all. I'm a fun guy. But sometimes I like being myself. It sounds like you're projecting what you want into men. That sounds like a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:56 AM
-5

Are you kidding? Because being yourself is boring 🤣. And sometimes maybe yourself isn't all that cool
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:53 AM
-1

Women aren't as horny as men tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:53 AM
5

Most people try to date someone their age. Most guys can afford to date younger most women can afford to date older
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:51 AM
-1

Nah. People lie all the time on the internet. Because you can literally be anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:50 AM
-6

Yeah right 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:48 AM
2

Men don’t care about women they only care about spreading their seed Wrong AF
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:43 AM
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I don't think that usually works unless you knew the girls for a few days or weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:46 PM
2

Right
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:45 PM
6

Im not a fan of that advice. That only works for really attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:08 PM
2

Like as soon as you meet them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:05 PM
0

What do you mean by honest or upfront? Like what scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:04 PM
3

I'd say only ask them out early if the signs are OBVIOUS
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:51 PM
3

It depends on what you mean by upfront
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:50 PM
2

Most women are not ok dealing with inexperienced men. Nor do they like teaching them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:49 PM
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You should ask out women that are your acquaintances so to speak. These are women that maybe you have talked to on more than one occasion. Like let's say she shows up alot at your job, she's a friend of a friend, she a neighbor, etc. There's a big difference between a friend and an acquaintance. An acquaintance is somewhere you might meet somewhat frequently but not enough to where you guys are friends. Asking women out as soon as you know them has an extremely low success rate. Not only is this…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:47 PM
2

🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:26 PM
1

Mgtow will never effect women long term because they always have enough options to where it won't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:54 PM
4

For women it is. People come on bad times constantly. Sometimes people don't have a car, a house, or money. But women will not date a man without these. Men often will. That's proof enough that men have way lower standards than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:49 PM
2

Of course not. But it kinda makes OP my point better when I say women do have very high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:39 PM
5

Nowhere did I imply that you had to. You need to read harder
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:29 PM
3

I remember I had to make that realization to. Because back in the early days it was common knowledge that men are the more hornier sex. Then we kinda went into a point in time where everyone on the internet was saying that men and women's sex drive are virtually the same. And I believed it. I no longer believe that. Men have always had a much stronger sex drive than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:12 PM
3

I didn't say you were. I clearly said you're discrediting why they exist if you think average men are pulling alot of tail
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:59 PM
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I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:53 PM
5

You are deluding yourself. I think you have just very specific scenarios to go off in your personal life. Average men do NOT pull the most are you high? That discredits the entire existence of redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:51 PM
9

I've seen Men who are unemployed and pessimistic, still have Women in awe of them simply due to confidence, is the bar really that low? It's funny how you're asking is the bar really that low when men are unemployed but you don't ask that same question when you see men dating unemployment and pessimistic women. And I can pretty much guarantee that happens way more than when women date unemployed men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:50 PM
41

It's both. In this day in age alot of men are unmotivated and falling behind in society. Suicide rates are up, men are going to college less, men are not leaving their parents homes as frequently, and men aren't having many partners. However let's not kid ourselves. Women's standards are insanely high. Of course if you ask women this they'll say no because they don't feel their standards are high themselves. The problem comes into play when you have to deal with women who like to virtue signal. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:48 PM
1

And they are just as ruthless with their rejections or the women who try to approach them and their exes I think I agree and slightly disagree here. Getting women as a woman is 10 times easier than getting women as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:24 PM
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Yes they do... You should listen to their stories. The same problems us guys deal with... Entitlement, Trying to be a woman's emotional rock, women being fickle, harder to impress, they never make the first moves. Being a woman is easy mode for dating compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:04 AM
1

I'd say status Max is the most important
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:54 AM
3

No men do give a shit. They just aren't going to say it. Also it's not always that they don't give a shit... But they can't always afford to be picky
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:53 AM
3

Because usually women do in fact lie. It's better to just not believe her number she gives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:52 AM
1

Do you have a tldr
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:51 AM
1

No you are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:36 AM
1

Girls want athletes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:03 AM
1

Ok then. Butter Chicken it is. That wasn't so hard was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:03 AM
1

Yes they are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:02 AM
1

I don't believe it's bunk at all. Maybe from the perspective of other women yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:44 PM
1

How I'm simply asking what she wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:06 PM
1

So what do you want to eat for dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:03 PM
2

Hey I remember you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:32 PM
1

I'm sorry. Not buying It
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:59 PM
1

I think you are confusing yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:35 PM
1

The confusion around women stems from men not seeing them as human beings with brains and individual autonomy. Not this crap again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:28 PM
2

And she still wouldn't be hornier than me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:25 PM
1

I think it's more that women are not all the same and you cannot develop and apply a formula that will work with all or even the majority of them. That's what frustrates men. No. Most guys are aware of that. But they are alot more subtle and misleading about the way they convey to other how they want things
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:16 PM
2

Lol with the species label
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:15 PM
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