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| 88 | Omfg this bullcrapOne thing I really like about my boyfriend is he never lets me pay for stuff. The only time I ever managed to pay for a date was because he had never been to the place before and I was prepared at the register. No matter how much I tell him I can pay he’ll never let me. Makes me feel special. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 08:10 PM |
| 30 | If he makes an unreasonable request, let him GO. No sticking around, no explaining, no negotiating.I think it’s especially crazy that guys would do this because of how amazingly my boyfriend handled that sort of thing. He has always made sure that I am comfortable and enjoying what we are doing. He knew I was really nervous about penises in general and made sure I was never doing anything that would make me uncomfortable. And he did it with such ease and kindness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 11:35 PM |
| 8 | I never want to hear “you deserve better” from a man again.I’m not sure either, I’m pretty sure I’ve made it clear he’s not being toxic or burden me emotionally. Our core value for our relationship is that we are a support system. That includes me helping him realize that he is “worthy” of me (I don’t love that phrase but I can’t think of a better word). He helps me process my family issues. We support each other as all couples should do, but I’ve made it clear to him that if he was a burden we wouldn’t be dating anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 12:25 AM |
| 11 | I never want to hear “you deserve better” from a man again.My boyfriend has lower self esteem (which breaks my heart because he’s amazing) And when he’s having a low moment and I’m comforting him he’ll tell me I deserve better. It makes me really sad because not only am I super lucky to be dating him because he really is a great guy but also he doesn’t even realize how great he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 06:34 PM |
| 3 | No Excuses.Our goal for our relationship is that it makes us better. I think it’s a really good basis for everything we do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 06:05 PM |
| 7 | No Excuses.I’m having to help my 20 year old boyfriend learn how to get his work done, but that’s more of a conditioned thing we’re working on. I’m okay with it cause I love him, and he’s been helping me realize some issues I need to work on with how I let my family treat me. There’s a difference between helping eachother be better people and being a caretaker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 09:46 PM |
| 61 | Can a man get any lower than this?Confuse don’t abuse!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 02:32 PM |
| 43 | Ending things with a HVMYou gotta be upfront. Dating him because you feel bad is worse for him. Tell him how you feel and all that stuff about him being a wonderful guy but just not the guy for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 06:31 PM |
| 27 | AmenI am the most oblivious person on the world, and I was still 100% sure my current boyfriend liked me within 24 hours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 11:28 PM |
| 2 | "Never apologize for the space you occupy in this world."My boyfriend is an inch shorter than me and people act as though I’m supposed to compensate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 10:28 PM |
| 28 | WEAR A CONDOM OR STFU. Birth Control is NOT 100% effective and comes with INSANE side effects that SIGNIFICANTLY impact our quality of life.One of my teachers told us women are incapable of being fulfilled without children. In short, you’re completely correct. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 11:37 PM |
| 58 | WEAR A CONDOM OR STFU. Birth Control is NOT 100% effective and comes with INSANE side effects that SIGNIFICANTLY impact our quality of life.I go to a super Christian highschool and the kids there think it’s a sin to be on birth control because “it’s the same thing as abortion” I swear the boys going to this school are going to be terrible people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 07:22 PM |
| 16 | 👑 ♀ 💜I love that concept so much and appreciate your encouragement! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 02:22 AM |
| 57 | 👑 ♀ 💜It’s so hard to remember not to do this even as a woman. I catch myself thinking “Well I’d be better at this” or “my friend is better at that than she is” and then I have to scold myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 12:03 AM |
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