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Why?
/r/MensRights11/07/26 11:09 AM
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Just a guess, but maybe UAE or Saudi Arabia? Japan?
/r/MensRights10/07/26 10:45 PM
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I wasn’t asking you directly, just food for thought. I agree with you. But my point also stands: why are we even debunking things that aren’t debunkable? That would explain way she’s only “debunking” what’s convenient… because it’s not even debunking, it’s just propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:34 PM
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Let’s be honest, feminism is not egalitarian. “when one of the most significant legal defenses for a woman's bodily autonomy was struck down in your lifetime, while there hasn't been a draft since your grandfather's” That’s an INSANE thing to say, so out of touch with reality…. Just look at Ukraine. And what sense does it make that an egalitarian movement is called after a gender, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:51 PM
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It doesn’t persist today tho. That’s why we need an egalitarian movement, not a feminist one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:45 PM
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Then why identity as feminist and not egalitarian?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:36 PM
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I don’t understand why “debunk” things that are not debunkable. Why are we trying to debunk biological facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:35 PM
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What??? 😭 How do you even reach that conclusion? I’m talking exclusively about men who act this way towards women they don’t know… often intervening in a conflict they have no context of.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:18 PM
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Many are probably cucks who won’t get the attention of women otherwise. So they do it for validation and to feel morally superior. They probably also see more successful men as their competitors, so they take the frustration out on them. Others are the hyper-masculine archetype, who see women as weaker and believe they must protect them at all costs (fuck context or justice). This also happens a lot. In the end, they’re probably deeply insecure and think their masculinity comes from acts like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:08 PM
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you are indeed right
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:12 PM
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Easier said than done. I feel for them.
/r/MensRights29/06/26 03:07 PM
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But you know that’s not how it works. Men are still expected to perform their traditional roles, only women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:41 PM
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Good point.
/r/MensRights29/06/26 02:05 PM
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"Women end up in significantly worse financial shape after divorce than men do." It doesn't surprise me that this stat is true. If we consider many women work less, earn less, or even live off of their husbands money. But it seems to me that they tried to frame it as "the law favors men" lol.
/r/MensRights29/06/26 11:37 AM
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But what is the official reason for the bans? And why do they get flagged while women’s ones don’t?
/r/MensRights29/06/26 03:31 AM
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https://opo.iisj.net/index.php/osls/article/view/2199
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:39 AM
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Damn… life can be pretty brutal. I don’t like to hear people saying these things about themselves, it makes me feel bad… but I’ll assume you actually are very ugly, since you said so. Please don’t lose hope. I know looks matter, and it’s probably even worse when you’re a woman… but looks really aren’t everything. Not all men are too superficial, and there’s also a lot of ugly men out there. Or do you not want an ugly man? If thats the case, maybe you should consider lowering your standards. But …
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/26 12:21 AM
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Uh? How does that relate to the topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:11 PM
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Of course not every woman is the same, and this pattern shows way more often on social media rather than in real life. But you are spot on, tbh. Prime example is OnlyFans, a place where women deliberately objectify themselves (in the worst ways possible). But as soon as someone treats them as an online prostitute it would be wrong? Yea, fuck off… I know a woman who does OF is probably the most extreme example, but the same applies to many other women. So yea, I think you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:48 PM
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Yea, I really don't get why some men are like that. Most men are just so desperate... no wonder women don't desire them. And then they get frustrated, become incels and start hating women online, lol. And I understand there are some unfortunate men, who are either ugly, unintelligent, or whatever. Not everyone is lucky, and that's sad. I do get why those men become desperate and resentful. But the average man, at least from my experience and around my age (22 years old), is still way too despera…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:12 PM
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Honestly, I won't judge you there. And IRL, if you give some men an ounce of kindness they mistake it as you being into them. Sadly it sucks cuz you try and be a friend and they reject that unless you're offering sex with that friendship. As far as my experience goes, this is true most of the times. I understand there are normal men out there but sadly too many men see kindness as us desiring them. And this honestly just sad. It's true, but sad. It shows how so many men are deprived of kindness.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:57 PM
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Let me just say I didn’t expect these answers at all. It’s crazy to me that people are focusing on something else entirely rather than on the main point. And by doing that, they’re exactly proving my whole point. I really didn’t expect this at all. It’s also crazy how a fair, almost undeniably true, argument (the argument that people tend to be biased and only care about what benefits them) can be so controversial. And all because I shared a personal opinion earlier in the text… when that wasn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:54 PM
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Great example, given that in some countries women can’t even legally rape someone. Also, by "being held accountable" I didn't mean criminally specifically, but look: - Women receive lighter sentences than men for the SAME crimes: https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2144002 Examples: 1) https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/roksana-lecka-jail-nursery-abuse 2) https://www.ctvnews.ca/edmonton/article/alberta-teacher 3) https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c0jywyd8xg8o 4) https://marico…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:41 PM
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Well, that’s a better approach. But you are probably aware that most people don’t think that way. Also, I believe intentions do matter. I mean… it’s probably better to never care whether the intentions behind what someone says are pure or not, than to dismiss valid points because we think their intentions aren’t pure (when they actually are). In other words, it’s better to let someone guilty go free, than to lock up an innocent person (or so I believe). However, us never questioning the intentio…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:40 PM
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I said I TRY not to be biased. I also say that EVERY human (including me) is subject to bias. Can you read? Did you bother to? This is exactly the type of behavior I refer to in the text. You didn’t care about the facts, only your own feelings, that’s why you commented something that’s not true. You are simply being biased. And you completely ignored the whole point of the text… Your focus was to accuse me of saying something I did not say. And I’ll tell you one thing, I was extra careful when w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:26 PM
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The second you even hint that your problems are "worse" than any other group, you're forcing people to reckon with your ego, not the topic at hand. Where in the text did I mention MY problems? Please point it out. You are failing to understand the basics of my argument. Or perhaps you don't wanna see it at all, because I believe I clarified things as much as possible. You could have very easily discussed the issues men face without bringing women into the conversation at all. The comparison is w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:15 PM
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Yes, those issues and a lot more! I don’t associate with those people (incels). That’s exactly what I’m talking about in the text. Many men shit on women because they are romantically frustrated. And that’s not a valid reason. Similarly, a lot of women do the same thing… Maybe not so much because of romantic failure, but for other reasons. That’s literally what my whole text is about!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:04 PM
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What I mean by being held accountable is how often I see people pointing the behaviors of men or women out. I personally see men being criticized and "vilified" a lot more often than women (and for reasons women wouldn't). I'll give you some examples, and even attach some links to further prove what I mean: Woman "sexually harasses" a man on TV - no consequences (imagine the outrage had it been the other way around): https://x.com/Joeytaylor123/status/2069717223686525330 No words for this one: h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:57 PM
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I'll show you why I think that's not the case: I didn't say "men called out for it more often" as an undisputable fact, I said it as my personal opinion: I have the personal opinion that men face more injustice than women (and the fact that many people refuse to accept men face injustice at all is proof of this). This is, of course, my perception. And you're right when you say that "people are more likely to actually hear criticism that relates to them personally and let what doesn't pass over".…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:40 PM
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To serve as an example, this is exactly the type of people I’m talking about in the text:
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:17 PM
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Holy fucking shit. I’m sorry for that man… Are you okay now? How did she react when you left? Damn, that’s crazy… It’s so utterly unfair that men don’t have any protections against this type of thing. It’s also so unfair that these women rarely get what they deserve. Women abuse men as often as men abuse women (if not more), but it always goes unnoticed (because no one cares). Women are portrayed as perfect in our society, and only men are held accountable for their wrong doings. I don’t know wh…
/r/MensRights27/06/26 09:41 PM
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omg, poor guy why did he not leave as soon as he saw what she was? life in prison with a minimum of 15 years… does this mean she’ll be out in no time?
/r/MensRights27/06/26 08:35 PM
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It’s bad to segregate adults, but children is actually insane. It’s TERRIBLE that this is somehow considered completely normal. It boggles my mind.
/r/MensRights27/06/26 06:25 PM
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How is stabbing your partner to death a “very stupid thing”? You know what a very stupid things is? Staying up late when you have to wake up early tomorrow (me rn). Murdering someone is not a “very stupid thing”.
/r/MensRights26/06/26 12:03 AM
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I don’t know those people, only Trump. But I didn’t say otherwise. There’s also idiots on the right. There’s idiots EVERYWHERE. In my opinion tho, the idiots on the right are either less (in quantity), less loud, less idiotic individually or all. There’s something about those leftists (the particular ones I’m thinking of right now - which are too many) that makes me question A LOT of things about humanity and society. I don’t know what else to call them but insane. And I don’t get that feeling w…
/r/MensRights24/06/26 12:14 AM
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It will only get worse as people are more and more isolated, more and more chronically online, more and more exposed to all sorts of information, and MANY other aggravating factors. I don’t really know how we would solve this issue. Again, I’m not a psychiatrist, but I think it’s inevitable that it will get worse. I mean, what can we do about this?
/r/MensRights23/06/26 11:17 PM
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Depends on the leftists, I guess. The vast majority of leftists I see (on the internet) totally like and support these groups. I know there may be some smart leftists out there (I’m sure there are), and I don’t rule every leftist as an idiot right off the bat, but I do have the opinion that most of them are complete idiots (at least on the internet). And they promote harmful ideologies, so I’m guessing most actually believe in them (so not tools).
/r/MensRights23/06/26 11:12 PM
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Are you basically saying that his motives basically “don’t matter” in this situation? And that any person that’s prone to this kind of behavior (like him) would do it, using ANY reason to rationalize it? So even if it seems like some real issues and social injustice pushed him to the edge, that would be kind of an illusion, since he was already prone to get radicalized regardless of the reason (so: if his motivation wasn’t this one, it would have been a different one)? Is that what you meant? If…
/r/MensRights23/06/26 10:59 PM
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The same could be said the other way around. Who hates mass immigration? Who hates cultural degeneracy? Who hates leftists, liberals, and trans stuff? It is said in the tweet that he also inveighed against these. It’s not good practice to take such conclusions off of things much more complex.
/r/MensRights23/06/26 08:48 PM
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Spot on!
/r/MensRights23/06/26 08:24 PM
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I didn't read the full thing, but it seems to me that he isn't neither left nor right. Not everything has to be labeled, and not everything is black or white. But yea, they are gonna twist it, though it seems he fits the "incel" label (by definition). "An incel (short for "involuntary celibate") is a person, usually a young heterosexual man, who is unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite strongly desiring one."
/r/MensRights23/06/26 08:19 PM
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this is crazy
/r/MensRights23/06/26 07:53 PM
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I’ve never seen a woman being taught “how to treat” a man… But almost every man has heard from a young age how he should treat a woman. It’s just peak victimization and gaslighting. Plus all those “never hit a woman” and “women first” remarks… Men are taught nothing else other than to respect and prioritize women, all their lives. It’s honestly sickening, given what women give back to men. Gosh, even when women are in the wrong and initiate a physical altercation men are criticized if they defen…
/r/MensRights22/06/26 12:01 AM
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That’s so true. I’ve noticed that the online and offline realms are COMPLETELY different, especially when it comes to this particular issue (men vs women). If the online reality was the only one I knew, I’d have ZERO hopes for society... And I don’t understand if people just change when they are behind a screen, if it’s bots, or if all the bad people stay on the internet and don’t go out much, but it’s a real phenomenon: people suck on social media. Fortunately, real life is a much different. Bu…
/r/MensRights21/06/26 11:11 PM
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It’s crazy that some men can’t see it. Good for them, I guess… unless it strikes them and they are caught of guard. Men aren’t as sensitive as women (in general), so that might be the reason why some (most?) don’t see it. Men are also taught to be “strong” and to “man up” since they’re born, so… And of course, like you mentioned, all the propaganda that both men and women are fed. Maybe it’s not so surprising. But there is a lot of injustice, not only cultural but even institutional. There alway…
/r/MensRights21/06/26 09:28 PM
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I agree with OP and with you as well. Yes, MRAs should try to go mainstream, and etc… But honestly, I think the key factor for this movement to succeed is not putting in more effort (tho, of course, it always helps), but instead giving it time. Timing is one of the most important aspects when it comes to these things (to many things actually). It’s like how you can present someone with the best food in the world, but they still won’t eat it if they aren’t hungry. Oh, but when they get hungry aga…
/r/MensRights21/06/26 09:20 PM
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I think you are being too pessimistic. I don’t believe it will EVER be 99% of women. It sure is the majority of them, but there’s still many honest, sympathetic, intelligent and fair women out there (and there will always be). And I have noticed things starting to shift already, honestly. I think the feminist movement has started to lose momentum in the last few years. Slowly but surely we will get there, I am positive. I know society is all messed up right now, but it is possible. You know what…
/r/MensRights21/06/26 08:42 PM
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And if that was the case, why do people expect him to fix it? She can fix it too. Doesn’t she have hands and a brain? Aren’t we equal? Hello???
/r/MensRights29/03/26 01:35 AM
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I wonder why…
/r/MensRights19/03/26 10:33 PM
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Trust me… I’m 21 and growing up I NEVER thought I’d think like this (let alone say it out loud), but PLEASE put women back in their fucking place, it’s so urgent… They’re destroying our fucking society… Extreme times need extreme measures.
/r/MensRights12/03/26 08:04 PM
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They are so fucking entitled… it pisses me off so bad
/r/MensRights10/03/26 07:52 PM
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don’t be on a side where they hate you
/r/MensRights07/03/26 03:50 PM
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this is insane… fucking disgusting
/r/MensRights05/03/26 08:35 PM
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💯💯💯
/r/MensRights02/03/26 11:47 AM
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Men are better even at committing suicide, and women are attention seekers even when committing suicide 😭 (jk)
/r/MensRights02/02/26 04:13 PM
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Very interesting question, I gotta say. Well, I think everything can happen. You certainly would expect a change, given what happened… But it really wouldn’t surprise me that all stayed the same. I guess most feminist women also left Ukraine, will they even come back? And I say most feminists left, because I’d hope REAL women stayed to help their country… but I don’t know that for sure. I really don’t know what will happen. Ideally, things would change a lot, and not only in Ukraine, but also in…
/r/MensRights29/01/26 04:19 PM
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You’re damn right. But look: At least back then, when conservatism was dominant, both genders were expected to perform their duties… Nowadays, we’re all “liberal” on paper but, in reality, men’s traditional roles are still enforced (and will particularly be enforced when shit hits the fan). On the other hand, women’s traditional roles were left behind, and they can now do whatever they want. They have all the privileges without having any responsibilities. Is this fair? No, not at all. Now, let’…
/r/MensRights19/01/26 01:55 PM
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Do they even live in this world?
/r/MensRights18/01/26 01:30 PM
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Agreed. I guess the purpose is to show women also commit these crimes and are not as good as they’re portrayed. By yea, not related.
/r/MensRights17/01/26 10:04 AM
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Hope she never sees the light of day again. This is fucking heartbreaking.
/r/MensRights17/01/26 10:03 AM
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I actually thought about this earlier today. It’s just pure hypocrisy… welcome to 2026
/r/MensRights06/01/26 06:02 AM
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whew, you definitely made the right choice
/r/MensRights05/01/26 07:26 PM
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Cool stuff. Thanks for sharing.
/r/MensRights30/12/25 02:46 AM
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Obviously, no one deserves to do time for something they didn’t do… No one said that. But yea I agree with you.
/r/MensRights30/11/25 01:44 AM
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But we shouldn’t have sympathy for them… If they are guilty, they need to be punished harshly for taking a life. The problem is punishing killers differently according to the gender of their victim. That’s literal sexism and it’s injustice. The problem is also that women don’t get a sentence even remotely close to a man when they kill someone. And they still come up with bullshit laws to make things even less fair. That’s the problem. Maybe killers now will target men EVEN MORE, since they know …
/r/MensRights29/11/25 04:50 PM
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I’d say it’s a useless law. It has probably little practical effect. However, the message it sends is disgusting… The world we’re turning into is a sad one. I would love to know how is this justice… specially given men are the overwhelming majority of homicide victims. Also, femicide is a bullshit made up term, but whatever.
/r/MensRights29/11/25 04:41 PM
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oh my god…
/r/MensRights17/11/25 09:28 PM
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That doesn’t happen because: A lot of men are too busy to worry, think or fight about that, as men (in general) need to work harder jobs, provide, and so on. Men are also the least sensitive gender (in general) and that gets boosted further since society makes men suppress their feelings since they’re kids, so most men don’t even realize what’s happening cause they never developed that part. Men are more likely to sacrifice for the well being of others and also men are indoctrinated by society t…
/r/MensRights22/04/25 01:34 PM
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But she, as an individual, can be different, like a lot of people can be (no matter if they’re women).
/r/MensRights12/04/25 10:54 PM
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don’t be close minded bro… I know how the world is but there’s truly genuine people out there. Hope you realize that
/r/MensRights12/04/25 09:28 PM
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I’m currently 20 and I honestly don’t know how to answer you. I don’t know what I wish someone would tell me, I don’t think I want someone to tell me anything, I just wish society was equal and fair for all. With that being said, I think the fact that you care is enough. Just keep being a good person and keep doing a great job and helping people equally. Thank you for caring.
/r/MensRights12/04/25 09:26 PM
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disgusting…
/r/MensRights11/04/25 05:01 PM
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I’m still too young to have children, but I already think about that and unfortunately you are right. I think we can only hope things get better, tho I doubt it… let’s see
/r/MensRights29/03/25 11:34 PM
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yea I know… people having more empathy towards each other would be key for A LOT of things in our society, including this one. But yea, ur right, it’s never gonna happen.
/r/MensRights06/02/25 11:02 PM
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Yep that’s true. I guess it’s like instinctive or something and some men are stupid and don’t seem to think that much. That’s true for many other behaviors all around our society. Most humans are just stupid and act like “animals”.
/r/MensRights31/12/24 02:52 AM
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I too hate the school system and yea I guess that’s true to some degree, but only if you let it. Nothing shapes who you are more than yourself. About the rest I didn’t get what you were getting at, how do you not agree with what I said?
/r/MensRights25/12/24 01:58 PM
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You need to know how to attract the right ones, they exist. It’s not easy as the world is filled with superficial, stupid people (not just women), but there’s plenty of great women out there, believe me. Don’t judge everyone as the same, it’s only bad for yourself long term. Society sucks, but there’s a lot of exceptions, best believe it.
/r/MensRights25/12/24 01:41 PM
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yep exactly
/r/MensRights21/12/24 01:07 AM
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what the fuck??
/r/MensRights06/12/24 04:46 AM
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bro don’t give them attention, they are CRAZY. I’m starting to think this is legitimately an illness cause of how serious it has gotten. Unreal
/r/MensRights07/11/24 02:12 AM
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No I’m serious. I had never thought about that collectivist/individualist perspective. It actually probably explains A LOT of things in our society.
/r/MensRights04/11/24 12:16 AM
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great comments in this post nice
/r/MensRights02/11/24 02:17 AM
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Wow I think you should definitely do it. Thats really sweet of you and they will think so as well!
/r/MensRights29/10/24 06:51 PM
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