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I have a hard time to find a clothes which fits me well. Few comments down there is a very good comment/guide with "Fit is everything" statement. I can not agree more therefore my goal is: I will find a tailor in my city who can make or at least adjust the clothing to my body. I am going to order first piece there. A shirt or pants.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 04:17 PM
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Marriage is a gift an adult man gives to a woman. Gift of protection, life guidance, sharing resources etc. If you are not 100 % sure she is worthy of that gift do not proceed forward. BTW it is a poor tactic from her to "demand" the gift from you. Poor tactic or poor understanding.
/r/askMRP22/04/17 05:46 PM
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[s]he gets all upset and says "this is why you don't get sex, all you do is talk about it." Isn't this your answer? She is actually telling you it straight. Do not talk, act.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 03:18 PM
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don't set such low standards for vetting a mate Good point and well taken.
/r/askMRP14/04/17 02:59 PM
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That is something she brings to the marriage if she wants. Yes. However you can not demand it, nor enforce it. Therefore your marriage proposal is a gift to her, no strings attached.
/r/askMRP14/04/17 06:30 AM
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Call me an old fashioned blue pill piece of shit but there is not any benefit to man nor there should be any. The marriage is proposed by man to woman. What you the marriage implicitly says is: I will physically protect you. You will enjoy my company. You enter my life style. You can enjoy my guidance. I will protect our kids. I am giving you access to my resources. It is a gift to you, no strings attached. If you are with a woman and you have strong urge to give her everything above than go and…
/r/askMRP13/04/17 05:22 PM
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Don't.
/r/askMRP12/04/17 02:36 PM
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I was at the very similar place as you are. After 15+months of swallowing the pill, a lot of improvement, few set backs I have been/I am at the best physical and mental shape of my live (thank you MRP). I was at a dread level 7 basically. I marriage improved a little bit or maybe I just saw shit tests for what they were. However My wife did not react to my advances, watched TV shows, finger fucking cell phone all the time.... I struggled with the idea for 2 months or so. I concluded that I eithe…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 05:44 PM
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Fitness I experienced several major set backs in last few months. Some of them due to injuries/pain, some of them due to in consistency and some of them because I was not intentional enough. I have been suffering from lower back pain for some time now. After reexamining my squat technique I realized that my lower back rounds. That happens in the bottom position. A massage therapist pointed out several times that my lower back muscles are very stiff. That seems to have a direct impact on my squat…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/17 06:23 PM
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I have suffered several set backs in last half a year in lifting. Mainly due to small injuries/pains in lower back area. The reason seems to be insufficient mobility which rounds my lower back during squats. That leads to the lower back pain. Therefore I am going to implement a regular mobility training at least 4 times a week. Focusing mainly on spine mobility and chest/shoulder mobility. Besides of that, I am going to do a regular 5x5 (with transition to 3x5 later on). Plus 100 pushups/day is …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/17 03:34 PM
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Luck is combination of your preparation, opportunity AND awareness. Luck is fabricated.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/17 12:29 PM
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The hard part is realizing that you mortgaged your future with your marriage vows. Now it's time to pay up. Literally you have to ransom out your freedom. I am in negotiation with my wife about splitting our assets etc. right know. This sentence is really spot on.
/r/askMRP15/03/17 02:56 PM
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You say MRP is not about saving marriage but the man. That seems to be false. MRP is actually very pro marriage/anti divorce. The dread level escalation goes up to 10. If it was about the man only, I argue you would end up at lvl 7. Levels above are clearly focusing on "saving the marriage". If a woman which needs to be dread 7+ (her hypergamy instinct is very strong) is worthy of the effort is the other question.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/17 10:51 PM
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I have had very similar thoughts lately as well. You really verbalized it very well. Release the whole post, let us rehash it. I want to rehash it because I have very contradictory thoughts on that subject. I agree with all those "you should not have to's". At least they are so comforting.. On the other hands, we are dealing with primal human instincts. In this case it is hypergamy tendency. And hypergamy does not care... Maybe we shouldn't have to but maybe it is a simple necessity. Finding a w…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/17 07:25 PM
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It is a result of the overall MRP direction towards family life etc. When you read posts, some of them goes: "blah, blah, STFU, read, lift, put your shit toghether, run the household, be a good dad, run a family budget etc. etc.". Now, I do not have any issue with first three of them. However the rest is really aimed to build a better, more reliable provider. Isn't that a base for the "beta" game? Nothing wrong with having some good beta qualities, but people who end up here are typically good A…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/17 12:45 PM
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Why? Isn't that a merit of MRP? Merit of 12 levels of dread etc.? Edit: Ah! Now I got it... lol
/r/askMRP28/01/17 07:28 AM
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What's your opinion on 'the cube'? What is "the cube" exactly? I tried to google it but did not find anything relevant (do not think it is a movie right?)
/r/askMRP27/01/17 09:51 PM
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Why would a married man with kids be randomly approaching women in a store? Well, because he finds them attractive. That is enough. Marriage status does not change that.
/r/askMRP24/01/17 07:13 PM
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My Smartphone Did you really get rid of your cell phone? Just wondering, did you type this post on desk computer?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/17 05:20 PM
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I can get denied sex and not get butt hurt (for the most part) but one thing I am having an issue with is her never initiating affection like cuddles, kissing, hugging. It's always me. She never shoots me down when I initiate but it's seriously getting old having to always be the one to start things off like that. Why would you want "affection" from her at the first place? That is worthy of self inspection. Do you think it can lead to having sex with her? Is it a kind of validation seeking behav…
/r/askMRP04/01/17 07:45 PM
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Hit me in the back and when I turned around to face her she caught me with a hook right in the mouth. Besides of what other people aready suggested I am wondering about following: Is she physically and mentaly superior to you? I mean this is basically a bully behaviour and bullies usually target physically or mentaly weaker targets. Is it because you are weak or you project weakness to her to much? Btw you realise she could have had a knife in her hand..
/r/askMRP03/01/17 05:10 PM
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Everyone has one victim puke here. This one was yours. That is fine. Now stop thinking about your wife. Read top 20 posts on MRP including comments and side bar, lift. And for sake of God do not share your "feelz" and "plans" with your wife (AKA STFU). Submit in OYS section your progress in establishing your own point of reference (AKA frame) weekly. Did I mention lifting already?
/r/askMRP03/01/17 04:53 PM
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It is great to hear you have made it through 5th week mark. It means the habit is probably a little bit ingrained into your life style. That is a huge victory. Speaking of the injuries, try to minimaze them by having a good form. It is easy to say, hard to acchieve though. The strenght training is a long term activity, take your time .. I have been lifiting for some time (still sticking with 5x5) and the form perfection is a neverending story. I bought Starting strength book two days ago. It is …
/r/askMRP02/01/17 03:22 PM
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but it is troubling that she tried to interfere with your gym time. That is kind of AWALT behaviour. Nothing to be worry about. Ignore and go lift regardless what she says is the best approach.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/16 01:26 PM
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Bench @160 5x5 this morning, row @90 5x5. Squat @260 5x5. Your Rows seem to be very low in comparison to other lifts. Have you been injured? Is it because of a muscle disbalance?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 01:19 PM
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Cover contract: I am going to do A and the other party suppose/is expected to do B. Cover communication: I am going to do A and the other party suppose/is expected to do B. There are two different elements here: With covert contract the party B is not aware it takes part in the game. Party B is completly oblivious to the fact you are "comunicating" something. It is not like party B understads but decided not to act in desirable way. the wife was invariably astonished when she discovered she was …
/r/askMRP28/12/16 10:05 PM
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Lifting I pinched my back about 10 days ago. Not exactly sure how I did it, however I feel a little bit of discomfort even with regular day to day activities. Moreover I did something with my trapezoid as well. As a result I decided to deload my squats and dead lifts significantly (basically to 50%) and build myself back over the time. I hope this approach spare me of an another injuries. Diet Because of my deload, I concluded it is a good time for caloric restriction a little bit of cutting. I …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/16 09:47 PM
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"Amy Schumer" is hot. No, she is not. Just had to say that haha.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 01:34 PM
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Is pornography a worldwide problem or just labelled bad by the feminist imperative? Without any sarcasm here, it is "a worldwide" problem only in US. There is even huge business around "dealing with addiction" etc. That being said, there are some negatives especially with extensive porn consummation. How many of you are struggling with this addiction ? It is not an addiction. Although I can grow to kind of compulsive behavior which is not good (you are pissed - you rub one out, you feel neglecte…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 01:11 PM
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I have, if it was a reference I did not catch it. haha
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 07:46 AM
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Chad is out there, waiting. Every minute you're not lifting, Chad gets stronger and you get weaker. That is a religious approach. They are keeping people in line with shaming or fear mongering. Is the mythical Chad the way how to keep people in line? Any woman can be seduced and fucked by a stranger. Does it mean he is some kind of unnatural super human specimen? I doubt it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/16 09:29 PM
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It takes near Olympian levels of cognitive dissonance to claim that women are childlike and simultaneously destroyers of worlds. That is one point I really struggle with when reading some MRP/RP posts. It is because overgeneralization and kind of black/white thinking.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/16 02:55 PM
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My Victim puke: I'm the only one trying to do anything resembling apologizing and this is how she reacts. She seems to have not accepted this in the least as a gesture to move forward. She turned around and walked away from this conversation. Do not assume that your apology is free out of the jail card. Or your claims about being responsible. Any person has a right to react as they wish. Assuming otherwise is a covert contract. Not accepting your apology or responsibility peep talk is legit appr…
/r/askMRP19/12/16 09:29 AM
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As /u/thefamilyalpha says: verbal intercourse is optional. Was not this myth busted by Jack10?
/r/askMRP18/12/16 04:38 PM
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-Oh! Here's a big one. She now asks if it's okay to make certain purchases. By requesting permission, it frees her of responsibility or guilt if it's a luxury purchase or guilty pleasure. This is a great observation. My wife has started to act in a similar way. It takes a decision/responsibility burden away. Good post.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/16 08:37 PM
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Interesting discussion so far. Here are my two cents: First of all, all that "I do not care what my wife of others think of me" has some limits. People are social creatures and from this perspective we are on the market all the time. Jack10 had a great thread about "marketing an exclusive brand" where he addressed it pretty well. You do care about your maket standing even if you tell and pretend you do not. Second point is, that it is not true you are not getting anything from playing video game…
/r/askMRP13/12/16 08:57 PM
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Per her agreement with MC she's supposed to be "enthusiastic" about it. I can not believe MC would go this route. A third party negotiated a desire for one of the couple? The fact you can not negotiated desire is well known nowadays between MCs (isn't Mating in Captivity pretty popular out there?)
/r/askMRP12/12/16 09:31 PM
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I have bought a jumping rope this morning. That should help a little bit. I paid for 12 trainings, that is basically 6 weeks. I will write update on my progress in few weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/16 07:48 PM
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You are young and there is a plenty of time for you looking for "a marriage" material. A rape victims, soldiers with PTSD, torture victims, serious car accident survivors, death of own child experience etc. etc. are not a marriage material. Those experiences are very hard to deal with and human psyche tend to be damaged for ever. It will be an another hassle to deal with in your future relationship. If my present SO experienced any of those events today (after we got married.. just to be clear),…
/r/askMRP11/12/16 09:58 AM
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She broke trust, and trust can't easily be regained. You can not break something which does not exists at the first place. Unless by "trust" you mean a fairy tale about living Happily ever after regardless circumstances or how shitty prince Charming becomes.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 07:03 PM
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except unlike the first time, where they adapted to what they thought the woman wanted, this time they will just be themselves and let the woman come along... or not. Before I fully embraced this, I was fearful of the possibility of the divorce. It would mean I did not manage to adapt to HER needs and ultimately failed. Nowadays I am just putting out unmoderated myself with all goods/bads and it is up to her if she get along. If she does not, not a big deal. It is not a failure, we are just inco…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 09:07 PM
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still not down 5% body fat 4-5 % body fat is a threshold for competitive body builders at the competition phase. It is not something people should be aiming for nor it is suitable fat level for extended period of time.
/r/askMRP07/12/16 08:18 PM
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You didn't post your age. I am 40 so not yet THAT old however I need to be more intentional about regeneration than 15 years ago. Are you tracking your calories? Yes, targeting roughly 2900-3000 calories. I do not hit it every day though. Especially during business trips.. I got a complete different take on Models than you did. His point as I read it: open a hell of a lot of women isolate and polarize quickly. If they don't like you, you'll know it quickly and won't waste more time with that wom…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 06:50 PM
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5x5 working weights: Bp 205, box Sq 207.5 (dropped 30 pounds to focus on form), DL 265, Ohp 120, rows 140. Thinking about squating just 2x a week instead of three. Recovery has gotten hard. Thoughts? Speaking of the dropping squats, it depends how long have you been on 5x5 program. If it is less then 6 months I would keep pushing. I went through the same issue with recovery/regeneration and there is really not a lot of things you can do. Make sure your carbs and protein intake is high enough. Ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 06:33 PM
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Lifting have been in check last two weeks. I am almost back at my PR weights. Last session I did 4x5 - 130 kg dead lift with is my new fucking PR! Being at body weight of 82kg, my estimated 1RMs for 3 lifts sums at 372 kg. It is going to be a long way to 1.000lb club (454kg).. However as soon as I am back from the business trip I am going to start with a creatin suplementation and I am going to push envelope even more. Other hobbies I visited MMA/Grapling gym 4 times in last two weeks. It is kin…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/16 09:15 PM
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That is pretty spot on. I mean, live your life as you were single. If you think about it, it makes a lot of sense. You do what needs to be done. Things you would do if you were single. If you want to have a drink, have a drink. If you want to go to gym, go to gym. If you want to play a Battlefield, play the fucking game. She is not your judge, you are.
/r/askMRP29/11/16 12:01 PM
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This is pretty much spot on. Exept for last sentence. You know, no one is going to be here for you. MRP is not an elite brotherhood or something. Do not fall into exceptionalism trap. In ideal world, you would reclaim your masculine identity back and than you would forget that the MRP has ever existed. We are not living in a ideal world though, are we?
/r/askMRP24/11/16 07:43 PM
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Yes, it is. You get an ability to back up and export. Even more important you get the warm up series as well. Therefore you do not have to even think about weights at all. For squating 225lb for example, it gives you 5xempty bar, 5x empty bar, 5x 90lb, 5x180lb 3x200lb warm up (or something like that) and than you go for the kill. It gives you the exact plate weights to use on the bar for the main series. Ie 2x45lb, 1x5lb to each side. I purchased the full version after about a month after I had …
/r/askMRP24/11/16 02:26 PM
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Good to hear you started with 5x5. It is a good program, stick to it. And there is a very good app specifically for this program. Download it, use it.
/r/askMRP23/11/16 06:56 AM
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Check your head position in your squats and if its anything other than trying to hold a tennis ball under your chin then I would be willing to bet that was the cause. Ha! I have to check mine than. Definitely not doing it correctly. Great tip.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 07:24 PM
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When do you finally wake up and realize that an attractive man doesn't deal with these same problems? This! I think some people get caught into the exceptionalism mentality on this sub. The idea they have goes as "I found MRP, I lift, I own my shit, I am in this with other dudes and therefore I am a badass" yet their significant other does not get wet for them. At that point you see posts "I do everything right and it is not working... " If a man is a badass, he does not lurk here and he does no…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 10:04 AM
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In the last 6 months I have been trying to do more on my own, I have joined Yoga classes, been skydiving, started a martial art (Aikido) You have been skydiving??? That requires a mix of being crazy, big balls and a lot of courage. If you can do that, you can do anything. As a beta, I do find it confronting in the gym, the free weight areas has a lot of guys there, and not being experienced puts me off doing the weights. I have started 5x5 with empty bar. After six months guys started commenting…
/r/askMRP19/11/16 08:28 PM
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Also are you prepared to leave her if the sex never gets better? Spin a plate? Settle for shitty sex? If she doesn't think you'll leave her, then your dread can't work. I went through several stages in last 12 months. Yes, I am fine with divorcing her. I want to go to dread lvl8 before I file. There is a lot of work to do on myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 09:18 AM
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WOW, that is reason for NEXT alone in my book She is not ribbing it to my face. She is just an alpha widow sort of. Nevertheless, you are right and it is a reason why I consider my marriage dead beyond possible repair.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 09:15 AM
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Women are genuinely attracted to 20% top guys. truth right here, especially with social media and media saturation I think this top 20% theory is mostly true but I think for some women that percentage is larger. The lower SMV a female is, the larger that % of men is that she'll have genuine desire for. There is not a clear cut. That's for sure. However if you want to get her best you better be in that bracket.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 09:12 AM
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It's you lead, she follows. Not you plan, she decides. That deserves to be set in stone.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 07:22 AM
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That list of yours... I am starting mine today.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/16 04:28 PM
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Diet is pretty locked in. I track my macros…to really gain muscle, I need at least 3000 calories, 410g of carbs, 273g of protein, and 101 grams of fat. Three thousand calories is a good general goal for bulking. 410/273/101 is more than 3500 Cal though. So do you target 3000 or 3500?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/16 04:14 PM
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does that mean she is above your SMV regardless how much you improve? I can see SMV discussion on this forum a lot. It goes like that "My SMV is higher than my wife's, yet she do not want to fuck me...". It is pointless. Regardless of how big gap (if any) between your wife's and yours is, if she does not want to fuck you your SMV is too low for that particular women. Objectively speaking she is 5,5 and I could be 5,5 or 6 (180cm, 82kg, 100cm chest, 87 cm waist line, 85kg bench press, 120kg squat…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/16 03:45 PM
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Last two months were pretty hectic. However the relocation is finished, the crew is settled back in home country and Ms. Veritas got a job. My garage gym is finally set I am back to lifting 3 times a week. I deloaded a little bit however weight are climbing up again. I am not close to my lifts from 3 monts ago though.. I switched to a little bit adjusted 5x5 program - reddit-link. I spend time climbing and my technique is getting slightly better. My plan is to increase callories as soon as I hit…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/16 09:39 PM
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she says she suffers from chemically low libido Women say a lot of things. She is just not attracted to you. Low libido and lost of attraction are two different things. Athough that is not the point I want to make. If you are physically attractive (almost six pack...) and applying red pill skill set well, than you are getting a number closes or f closes pretty often. However you are here worying about her "low libido", so I guess the paragraph above is not the case.
/r/askMRP14/11/16 09:31 PM
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Why do you think being a bartender or a DJ is somehow better than being a PhD. in science? You are not boring because you are educated/carrer successful. You are boring because you are lazy or afraid to do exciting, out of your comfort zone stuff. It is an extreme cartoonish example but think about Ironman. Do you think this character act as pussy just because he is PhD in robotics? On other hand do you think all bartenders and DJs are big, strong, decisive badasses? I would go for Tony Stark ov…
/r/askMRP11/11/16 03:20 PM
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If you are a religious man (Christian I assume), you can try a Wild at Heart book.
/r/askMRP11/11/16 03:07 PM
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If you can/have time to listen to the podcast, go for podcasts for sure. I suggest to start with episode one as he kind of build it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/16 02:03 PM
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Yeah, it is a very fine line one has to walk. Part of my job is providing future products cost analysis to my superiors. As you can imagine there is a lot of uncertainty there and sometimes it is more of foreseeing then forecasting. I use "I think.." when I want to clearly diferenciate between my professional opinion/estimate and objective already proven reality. That being said, I had to reprogram myself not to do that in regular social situation. It is a world of difference.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/16 09:17 AM
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I bought a book as well, however I put it aside because he covers everything in more detail I the podcast. The book is good if you don't listen to podcasts. If you do, the book is redundant.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/16 01:55 PM
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Jacko podcast is an awesome insight in the mind of the true badass. Someone referenced to his podcast a half a year ago or so. I have been listening from epizode one. A lot of leadership topics, warfare, martial arts etc. Own your shit at its finest. It should be on sidebar in my opinion.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/16 01:15 PM
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TLDR – No. A hard body cannot brute force a beta mind, but a hard mind can cultivate a hard body. Never skip brain day. Bludgeon that fucker until its red. Do your damn homework. I don't think there is a line between body and mind. Our brain is just a very complex chemical factory. People are literally just a body. Hard body can brute force a beta mind. After you got a hard body (through dead lifts), "beta mind" is brute forced forged as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/16 12:14 PM
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>OMG, NO SHIT. Practice commands "suck my dick now". Stand in the front of the mirror and say this 10 times a day until cured of this bullshit. That is an exercise I am going to do as well!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 08:34 PM
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"XYZ is inappropriate behavior for a married woman." This approach is advised here pretty often. I do not really understand it. The men are being made here and if so.... why to fall back to shaming tactics? Is it not simple:" I don't want you to go to that party (to meet your ex, to go drinking with XYZ etc.) enough? Fuck society and "what is expected from married woman". A man has his own expectations. I mean sure she can decide what ever she wants to do, but now she is aware you do not approve…
/r/askMRP19/10/16 11:34 AM
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That link! Side bar material?
/r/askMRP06/10/16 03:56 PM
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This one is really awesome!
/r/askMRP06/10/16 03:45 PM
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So.. You are lifting for the pussy and you will even put a poster on the wall to reinforce that mindset? I would choose something with 1000lb Club vibe. Maybe a strength wars logo painted on the wall. https://yt3.ggpht.com/-6S7ipqyhYg4/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAAA/VL9sk5vNZYs/s900-c-k-no-mo-rj-c0xffffff/photo.jpg
/r/askMRP06/10/16 03:44 PM
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Just for my understanding, your wife does not react to your MAP (you have been lifting for last ten months, haven't you?), she does not fuck you, is mad because you are thinking about fucking someone else instead, records your conversation AND plays it to other people for their amusement. With that being said she gave you last chance (she is such a unicorn isn't she?) and You blown it! Why do you want to placate her and keep her around exactly?
/r/askMRP05/10/16 03:55 PM
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My wife was pissed as well when I took over our finances and budgeting. It was not as dramatic as your cease is though. I think it is OK for them to be a little bit upset because you are basically changing status quo. The fact she escalated conflict to such elevated Defcon level (divorce threat and wepononizing kids) in no time is frightening. I am curious how experienced MRPers would act.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/16 01:58 PM
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Good points from both of you. Iron sharpens iron.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/16 03:57 AM
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I am practicing the game on her. However as my understanding goes lvl6 is gaming other women BUT not to go in for the kill. What is the point then? If wife is not interested, she is not interested. Gaming other women without f close / number close is doing something for her (giving her chance to see you as an attractive person, hoping she will treat you better). If you need to do that she is not worthy of the wife status IMHO. I will put it other way. If you need to go to lvl8 in order to let he…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/16 07:09 PM
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It has been almost 2 months since I relocated myself and the crew from our assignment abroad back to home country. The OYS report has been long overdue. Lifting After not lifting for 2 months I am starting again. I basically dropped all lifts to 50% and I am going to build myself back again. I am sticking to 5x5 as I really like the simplicity. I decided to build a garage gym together work with friend of mine. Powerack, bench, Olympic bar and weights. Everything has been ordered and should be in…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/16 04:43 PM
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This is exactly where I am right now. It happened after I had put her down from the pedestal.. What I am curious about and I do not have an answer for is: "Am I just cynical bastard or this is how decent healthy men feel about women?"
/r/askMRP14/09/16 07:41 PM
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It will get better when she is not on the pedestal eventually. Although the more important question I have is: Why do you want to spend time with her at the first place? Don't you have anything better to do than to craving for attention of disinterested, unloving woman? Deal with the answer alone as it is your own life.
/r/askMRP08/09/16 07:38 PM
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I can not believe how romantic we are. So many up votes! It is basically MRP porn isn't it? Good job man!
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/16 06:10 AM
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Good parts: I relocated my family to my home country. It was pretty hectic month but everything is settling down at the moment. There are few issues still open but it was easier than I thought. The crew seems to be fine with the change as we are coming back to our friends, grand parents etc. I connected back with my old friends and I have already initiated, coorganized and enjoyed our first short climbing trip. Bad parts: I was in gym only about 5 times in last 3 weeks. No excuse here, I was an …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 08:32 PM
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Divorce is an ultimate nuke. You do not threat with nukes explicitly, you use them. There is a reason why ICBMs do not have an auto destruction procedure after a launch. You can not and should not come back from it. If one comes to the conclusion the divorce is the way to go... than it does not make sense to hide it. Why would you do that? To stay out of fear? Because of money? What people think? Dying inside knowing you couldn't pull trigger when you should have?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 05:23 PM
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Mating in Captivity is a good book but reading your story.... you need NMMNG more and right know. There is no cure for you in Mating in Captivity, put it aside and read it again AFTER you finish sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 06:53 PM
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I do not agree on this. Being an ATM is a beta trait for sure. However even that is at least a little bit of value. I am not saying you are buying sex or affection but why being ATM (supporting though long term training) for a person who barely talk to you??? Let us hold women to at least minimal standards....
/r/askMRP06/08/16 07:10 AM
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I have been kind of confused recently here on MRP. People are talking about "not deserving being fucked by a wife", not having "enough value to be fucked by a wife" or in this case "don't have finance nor logistic taken care of"... Those are good valuable beta qualities to me. They are good to have in general but they do not generate attraction very well. Chads are getting some without "having finances or logistic taken care of" and that exactly same wife would fuck him enthusiatically. After he…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/16 02:06 AM
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I am pretty sure you are going to get some heat from vets here. I was as confused as you are therefore my few cents: In my opinion a very simple answer to "when to have a talk" question is never. Women talk, men acts. If you have to "talk" a women to something in your relationship, you have already lost. There are some instances (option A/B in MMSP, soft and hard ultimatum from Professor's 12 levels of dread) where you are suppose to "talk". However that is the last futile attempt to revert an i…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/16 01:16 AM
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I don't think women are entitled to any kind of special protection. That being said "my woman" is protected by me as long as she does not lose status of "my woman". Most of my personal friends see that in the same way. I am not scared of future. Oh, I am one of those "weak Europeans".
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 11:52 PM
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Interesting reading. I caught myself thinking : Well, is the woman our final goal (customer)? Or is something else our final goal (our vision, integrity or anything else). The former would be like GM or Ford approach , the latter is more like Tesla approach.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 12:24 AM
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Your wife knows how to hold the frame, doesn't she? Regardless, invite pastor anyway. Your wife won't be at home so you can have good one to one time with him. Are you afraid what he or anyone else think about you (not having wife there etc..)? That would be just another reminder how non existent your frame is... I was in the same shit as you are 8 months ago. Lift, read, build your frame.
/r/askMRP10/07/16 03:11 PM
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The problem you've got is, how will she ever be able to respect you again if you take her back? And that is the reason the marriage is over. There is no chance she would respect him. Sure OP, you can work it through and stay "married" a. k. a. being an ATM for her but that is about it. Just my two cents.
/r/askMRP08/07/16 05:27 PM
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It did not occur to me as PA when I was booking the trip. Later on I was thinking about it and that prompted my question. I will take your approach next time to eliminate any PA bullshit on my part..
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 05:44 PM
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Lifting is OK. After de loaded I started 5x5 again. The weights are getting heavier however it is still manageable. I focus on a form and it pays off as my wrist and tight pain seem to be gone.. My diet is shaking due to bad discipline. It is not terrible per say, but I do not track macros with the same focus as before. The result is I am stagnating with my weight (trying to put at least two pounds before end of the month..). I still struggle being consistently disciplined. I am pretty disciplin…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 12:49 AM
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This is a good set of pictures to gauge one's body fat ratio. http://paindatabase.com/body-fat/
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/16 06:13 PM
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There have been several posts about coopendency recently . You, as many of us, are getting exactly what you are willing to tolerate... Being "verbal about things" really does not mean anything.
/r/askMRP04/07/16 01:25 AM
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I read the whole story and I do not see it as a "too much of a dick move". If the communication and trust is broken between a captain and a first officer, one of them has to leave eventually. Your team literally almost crash a boat! That is a serious business, not a fucking joke. I want to call you on one thing although: The kids came rolling in and started asking if we made up. I told them to ask the wife and kept reading. Why this kind of passive aggressive shit dude? They saw you as a captain…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/16 09:14 PM
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You are probably right about 1rm. I prefere to list 5rm as it does not vary from day to day as much as 1rm does. I have never tried my 1rm actually.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/16 12:35 PM
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You are 165lb and you do 215 bench press and 355 dead lift? That is pretty nice (it is for 5 reps right?).
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/16 10:51 AM
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How long you have implemented red pill into your marriage? about 10 months ago Where are you at on the 12 Levels of Dread? 5 with some activities belongs to level 6 (starting with pick up things..) How long have you been married, and how is it going? 12 years, career beta from beginning, 2 kids (10 and 6 yo). My marriage is done and I just want out. It should be pretty smooth as she seems to be on same page. How is your sex life? (quantity and quality) No sex life at all. How are you? (happiness…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 02:23 AM
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Your MAP is not suppose to save marriage. It is suppose to save YOU. Saving a marriage as an ultimate goal is a false promise and misunderstanding of the concept.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/16 02:35 PM
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To let her know on purpose is beta as fuck in my opinion. It is like saying: "Look mom, some one else wants me... and you should too." or "Oh, someone else wants me, why not you? Please!?!?". If you want to fuck that other girl, do it. If you don't, don't. It is not your wife's business. Not an expert, just my 2 cents.
/r/askMRP24/06/16 09:49 PM
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Owning: Lifting Lifting goes well. I have recently stalled on the Madcow program after about 10 weeks on it. I got some results out of it (Squat: 265->290lb, DL: 275->300lb, Bench: 185->205lb, Row: 185->205lb, OHP: 110->120lb, 5'11, 182lb). Although my overall progress has slowed down. There can be many reasons. I got an insightful feed back from u/bogeyd6 as he pointed out I might have a "volume problem". I looked at several options. After some thinking/evaluating I decided to take a break from…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 09:09 PM
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"ILYBINILWY" divorce A situation is never as well defined as it was in this case. ILYBINILWY will not make a catchy story as it goes down to amicable solution usually.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/16 11:32 AM
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Her: F***, let me tell you. I'll sleep on the couch so the dictator can get his sleep. You: "I prefer glorious leader!!!" That is really witty. I almost look forward for having some small shit test to play out this line!
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/16 10:50 PM
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Well, there are several description of David in the Bible. Most of them are alpha as it gets. The story how he killed Goliath is cited frequently however his description before this story set him as a badass already.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 10:18 PM
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Well, my wife doesn't go with me to the gym. She just started to listen to my counsel. She asked me to go with her few times to check her form. I guess I led her to lifting. She did only cardio if anything before.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/16 01:09 PM
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She said, “why didn’t you answer your phone”. I said, “I was busy and had it turned off”. This is still DEERing. You switch off the phone because you did not want to answer her inevitable calls. That is fine. However the true answer then is: "I did not answer because I didn't want to answer.." Do not employ any passive aggressive shit. It consumes us inside. Reread WISNIFG, it helped me a lot (4 times through the book so far..)
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/16 12:14 AM
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Yet it is hard to explain. When someone sees value in you it’s unlike anything else. Validation from a woman is like honey isn't it? That sensitivity is deeply ingrained in our DNA. And women are masters in it IF they want to. Just saying...
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 11:42 PM
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I am with Bogeyd6 and Seapan on this. There is really not a substitute for a heavy lifting. It stresses your body in a way you can not achieve otherwise. The surge of the testosterone (and other hormones) to you blood stream can not be matched by anything else naturally. Also nothing build a confidence as lifting heavy weights. Not the fact you might be bigger but the fact you are able to squat/deadlift weight majority loosers can only dream about. I am not disregarding body weight exercise. I a…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 10:11 PM
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to use google to search it with the options site:reddit.com inurl:marriedredpill THAT is an awesome advice! I did not know one can search like that through social media sites.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 05:16 PM
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I have not been posting OYS for several weeks. Partly because things progressing in slower pace and partly because I was slacking. Good parts: Lifting is going pretty well. I am grinding through Madcow program for a second month. I slipped on my diet and sleeping regime and that resulted with failing 3 major lifts last week. It was a great reminder that when pushing weights further and further everything counts. I went back to regular sleeping regime, increased calories and I am hitting my new P…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 01:48 AM
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But just like chronic sugar consumption in the diet of the modern human, women will find that immediate wants do not satisfy long term needs. This is just wish full thinking at the best or miss guiding at the worst. It is unrealistic to expect people (either men or women) prefer long term benefits to quick short term gains. You can as well be looking for the unicorn (men or women).
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 11:22 PM
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Haha, that made my day!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 03:22 AM
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This post is a joke, isn't it? Right?!? Seriously. Married 3 years, younger attractive woman ... How can this unfold... The problem is, I don't really have the need to do anything past friends with her, but she is gorgeous and funny, and I'm looking to get back into weightlifting for some time. Do not lie to yourself. If you want to bed her, go for it. There might be a fallout from your actions however it is up to every man to own his shit. You don't need an advice™ (permission) from anonymous s…
/r/askMRP30/05/16 02:03 AM
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I do it from time to time. Usually after hot shower. I see it just as an exercise for my will. And of course it is a James Bond routine!
/r/askMRP26/05/16 01:14 PM
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No, my current body weight is about 179lb. So still not that strong. I want to give Madcow a try. One maybe two cycles. I really like the initial deload phase. It is 4 weeks and it gave me chance to be on caloric restriction. I will take a look at 5/3/1 in summer, after I am done with this Madcow cycle.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 08:25 PM
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I seriously cannot look at myself in the mirror anymore without striking a pose or two. I don't even think it has anything to do with "looking good" in the ordinary sense. In fact it's the same way when I see any male or female with a toned, low body-fat body. Yes they are physically attractive, but the message received from every cut and curve brought out by the lean muscular form yells "success". I have started to suffer from same obsession recently. It is almost a reward after the workout is …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 08:16 PM
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That 1000lb club is a great goal. What is it exactly? Dead lift, squat and bench 1RM?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 05:33 PM
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Aha, lifting. Besides of reading It is probably the only part of MRP I kind of do well. Started about half a year ago with 5x5. I do not know my initial lifts as I started with an empty bar. Back in twenties my max was about 225 on squats and dead lifts, about 140 bench press at weight of about 160lb. Yes, I was that pathetic. I am 5,11 initial weight half a year ago was 167lb. I recently switched to Madcow program as I was not able to add weight every training with 5x5 program. My stats from la…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 04:27 PM
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The thing is.... it is not a loss for her. She doesn't want to fuck you so she is not loosing anything. Why to soothe your ego with "it is her loss". Just own the fact.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 09:38 PM
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My last two vacations since I found MRP were pretty pleasant for all of us(me, her, 9yo and 5yo). I set up everything, planed everything and executed everything. She did her part (preparing meals, packing for kids, some driving etc.). However I did not put a burden of making any decision on her. I took an input from her for sure (let us spend a night in hotel X instead of Y as the breakfast is better, let us spend one more day here instead of there..). I evaluated it and decided what to do next.…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 11:22 PM
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Schucks, OP can and will leave' Both elements have to be present. That is the key think to understand.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 01:00 PM
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This. TRP pictures horror stories only. According to my preliminary research I have a very good chance to get 50/50 custody in divorce scenario. Granted, divorce would be a case under jurisdiction in EU but is it really that different? Divorce is lose / lose scenario for all parties . You go this route when you are cutting your losses anyway. When you are close to the edge, 50% assets, 50% custody and all that crap does not matter anymore. There is just peace in mind, clarity about what needs to…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 12:46 PM
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Thanks for an insight. I will definately take a look. Python was on my list as well actually. I will google up few tutorials so I can poke around a litttle bit.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 02:10 AM
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It is only a hobby for me. I am not going to be a software developer by trade. Therefore I did not put too much thought into it. Points I considered: I wanted something close to the metal. Something which keeps me reminded I am working with physical machine and physical memory. I wanted something. I could possibly use for tiny devices like Raspberry PI etc. Something. I cold expand into a higher level of abstraction. If I ever get to that level. You made a good point about learning obsolete and …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 01:07 PM
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Good parts: My lifting goes well. I switched from 5x5 to Madcow few weeks ago. After initial deload I am back at my max and I am going to push weighs up for next 8 weeks. The goal is to end up with 2 plates on benchpress and 3 plates on squats and deadlifts. Diet goes well. I was on caloric restriction for the deload phase and lost about 1 inch at waist line. At the end of this week I am going to eat slightly above maintenance to support regenaration and slightly bulk. I am acting as an independ…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 11:19 PM
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I personally do not enjoy driving. It is a boring chore someone has to do. If I want to enjoy the road I am riding my sport bike because that is for fun.. That being said.. I do not understand why people think driving is "alpha/dominant/high value" activity. Does Captain of the USS Enterprise pilot the ship? No, because for Mr. J. L. Picard the final destination is important. Not the piloting itself. Piloting/driving is a chore for pilots...
/r/askMRP01/05/16 10:47 PM
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Meanwhile, the rest of us would work out in teams, because if the ship took a roll, someone had to hold either side of the bar when doing squats. That made my day!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/16 04:32 PM
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Your biggest problem with initiating is your inability to remove yourself from your house. You spend way too much fucking time with her and not with other girls. Go out with your friends and spend time gaming other women. Practice that shit. In my head I am picturing you initiating as "hey lets have sex" and that is almost a 100% shoot down until your smv passes hers. You lack OI because you dont even know there are other outcomes. This is spot on. I let it sink a little bit down to my brain. Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/16 11:07 PM
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It is a good book. She emphasize that desire cannot be negotiated and the fact that to much confort kills desire. She does not offer any silver bullet for solving it. Well there is no a single silver bullet as we know.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/16 05:24 PM
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Good parts: Lifting is going kind of well. I have switched from SL5x5 to Madcow. I expect it it will take me a little bit forward to my lifting goals. Speaking of Madcow, I realize the volume is a little bit lower than 5x5 therefore I would like to add 1 or 2 assist exercises for my arms. I will google something up. Diet is on the track most of the days, I am slowly cutting and I want to do that for next 4 weeks. That will go well with Madcow program as it starts with light deload. Not so good p…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/16 01:52 AM
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That is pretty good analogy.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 02:23 PM
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It has been a second time you pointed it out recently. I am going to look at this flaw of mine more closely from now.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/16 11:38 AM
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My lifting discipline is back on track. Despite being on light caloric restriction I managed to add 5 pounds on all lifts but squats last week. My weight slowly going down and I think (for fist time in my life) I can get 6 pack by August. I have started to plan a big climbing trip with friend of mine for this fall. I can not wait to be on the rock climbing again! I organized a family trip (extended weekend). I basically took care of almost everything except for packing for kids. Those 3 days wer…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/16 11:40 PM
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Yes, I was overreacting. Probably combination of residual preworkout, endorphins from lifting and a little bit of adrenaline from drawing a knife at home scenario. Haha.
/r/askMRP12/04/16 12:13 PM
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Yeah, I got to that realisation as I was writing the post. As I said now I feel embarrassed by the fact I was even thinking about any gratitude. Plain simply this is what men do. We protect our homes. Morning is always better time to look at things from detached perspective.
/r/askMRP12/04/16 11:49 AM
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I can 100% say it was not a case. I am at 99.999% of dead bedroom scenario. More over I would never initiate at the time she or I are going to sleep.
/r/askMRP12/04/16 11:34 AM
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I would recommend using gloves with wrists straps though, grips minimum. Using wrist straps only is as well a solid option.
/r/askMRP09/04/16 07:06 PM
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It seems to me that marriage treaty is different in US (probably majority of posts on Reddit) and elsewhere. Is it fair to say people who complain about "divorce rape" are living under US jurisdiction? The one described above is very close to what I am expecting from my divorce. Assets split 50/50 - makes perfect sense to me as we both contributed Alimony is not common besides of few occasion where the formal spouse can not support on their own (due to long term illness for example) We will get …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 07:08 PM
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I used a sparring partner analogy for myself a lot before. However I found out that it just was just covering my fear of leaving and be in the wild again. More over, if the sparring partner is too bad, you will get a bad instincts.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 06:48 PM
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Lifting: I was strugling with my lifting in my last OYS a lot. I have deloaded recently basically all my lifts and I was at the edge of leaving 5x5 to other program. However I took feedback from you guys, reset my squats with 20 reps of about 65% max and now I am back at weights I struggled before. The difference is that now I see myself progressing beyond my limits again and the goal is to add at least few kgs (10kg squats, 15 kgs deadlifts, 5 kgs benchpress, overhead press, rows) to my lifts. …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/16 01:37 PM
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I was not clear enough. I read TRP as well. Everything which is submitted by "Vanguard" flair people at the least. Just today I have read there a great post. It is just the level of negativity and signal to noise ratio which is much better on MRP over to TRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/16 06:29 PM
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This is the kind of post and wisdom I prefer MRP over TRP subreddit. I can not agree more.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/16 06:00 PM
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I am roughly 82kg/180lb and 182cm/5'11 tall.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/16 03:11 PM
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it's happens because the "high value" male gives his wife absolutely no reason to fuck him That should be set in stone.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/16 02:23 AM
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She has started her strength training in gym (5x5) about 5 months after me. She might be lead able in the end. By me or by someone else. It depends on my decision in near future.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 08:30 PM
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Yes, I understand that. I is a projection/reflection of myself. That is why I don't blame her or anything. It is up to me to go through that.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 06:44 PM
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I am basically at the same spot. Mrs. Veritas is not at the pedestal anymore and my oneitis is almost gone. Now when I look at her and I feel almost disgust. She is watching shows, Facebook and other social media all the time. However I think it is more of my own projection. I am disappointed by the fact I did not see it before and by fact I waste portion of my life. I think it takes a little bit of time to get through. The final goal is true independence where I do not care at all.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 06:17 PM
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Strong enough? I keep it simple for myself: Deadlifts: 4 plates Squats: 3 plates Bench press: 2 plates Overhead press: 1 plate
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 10:52 AM
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I will definitely give it a shot. I am going to start with that squat routine. I will try cowboy for my bench and overhead press afterwards.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 12:02 AM
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Thank you for keeping me on track. I really appreciate your time. First of all, all those weights are in pounds. That being said, I am looking for clarification. Pick any of the below and do it for one full week. Squat Failures: Take 60-70% of your 5RM and squat it 20 times without taking the weight off your shoulders. (Breathing Squats) Should I do that every day for a week?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/16 10:23 PM
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My last OYS was terrible. I was looking for validation and permissions to be a weak shit. I did not have a courage to lift heavy. Squats and deadlifts especially. I was quickly put in check by few guys here fortunately. I am back on track with 5x5 and I am going to stick to it for at least 14 days before I finally switch the program. I started with a caloric deficit. The goal is to shrink my waist from 89 cm to 81. I struggle with outcome independence. I have felt disgust every time I take a loo…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/16 12:36 PM
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Or they Just plainly lie.
/r/askMRP20/03/16 06:25 PM
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You are right. More over I realized that me stating those numbers was just one big validation seeking fail.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/16 12:28 PM
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What I do not own: Excuses. I make a lot of excuses and I fail take ownership for failures. The most evident recent failure for me was my 5x5 program. In last 2 weeks I failed all my lifts on several occasions. I am talking about 270 squats, 285 dead, 185 bench, 110 overhead press. Pretty shabby weights in comparison to the most guys here. Now, whole last week I was thinking about changing program, I was looking for something not as hard as 5x5, I was looking for relief from the squats. Somethin…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 11:43 PM
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RPW actually hates MRP because from their perspective: if a man does not get it naturally, he is a looser or ATM at the best for ever.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 03:22 PM
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It is a marathon, not a sprint. It is a low intensity warfare. .. That is a situation I am in after being few months on the journey. I think a lot of guys can relate to that as well. In this kind of scenario, the discipline beats motivation all day long. Motivation gives me a shot time boost for a peak performance. However motivation fades rather quickly. That is why there are so many Facebook pages with "motivation, inspirational quotes" and they repeat posts over and over again. Discipline on …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/16 04:01 PM
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Being more mindful of the social dynamics helped me a lot. As well not being a whiny bitch. Extreme ownership of the projects as well as my personality. I got "stepped out as a leader of the team, blah blah blah, exhibits leadership qualities blah, blah, blah corporate newspeak...." on review with my superior and I was promoted shortly afterwards. Definitely works for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/16 11:12 PM
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I did not submit OYS for an entire month, so here I go. Since I have found MRP I adopted several new habits. 1. Lifting has been on track most of the time. I am still sticking to 5x5 although my progress is very slow nowadays. I am not going to achieve everything from my 60DoD fitness goals, but I am going to hit some. I am going to switch to some other program at the end of the March. I have been tracking my diet and especially macros. I do not have to be so religious about tracking itself any …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/16 03:30 PM
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I scheduled an reminder to my calendar 8 months from now (5 months until we are back in home country plus 3 months). Those last 3 month I want to escalate from D level 5 to final solution quickly so I do not lose momentum. I will decide for Option 1 - filling divorce or Option 2 - an affairs at that point.
/r/askMRP29/02/16 04:43 PM
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I scheduled an reminder to my calendar 8 months from now (5 months until we are back in home country plus 3 months). Those last 3 month I want to escalate from D level 5 to final solution quickly so I do not lose momentum. I will decide for Option 1 - filling divorce or Option 2 - an affairs at that point.
/r/askMRP29/02/16 04:43 PM
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Very short OYS today. Not on track: I experienced a huge failure of my discipline last week. I did not track my diet properly, I did not eat enough macros (especially protein), I was lifting only twice and I did not wake up as early as I planned to in several occasions. There is nothing more to say nor there is any excuse. To fix it, I will refocus on my 60DoD goals again and exercise my discipline. On track: Not much last week with exception for reading. I reread WISNIFG and applying fogging an…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 11:35 AM
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His podcast is as well worth of listening to in my opinion. The book is definitely on my reading list for this year.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 05:30 PM
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MY ATTITUDE: Again, I'm still being that happy go lucky guy every day. I'm energetic once I get home and until I hit the bed. This is definitely a byproduct of lifting (before I started exercising I would be lethargic after a full day at work I observed the same effect on myself. I guess the elevated testosterone level makes it happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 06:42 PM
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Bad *I wasted my first week on my 60 DOD program, espacially on the "seduction" field. The seduction is arguably my biggest weakness and I reluctant to engage it fully. I just protect my ego by not expose myself out of my confort zone. Good *My diet and lifting is back on track. Being very close to calorie and macro targets consistently. I am still sticking with Stronglifts although I had to deload my squats and rows. *I finally started with BJJ training. I attended fist two clasess and I really…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 05:03 PM
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Hard to swallow for me. Especially: Don’t expect her to fuck you the way she fucked ‘them’. She views you to be a weak bitch she resents and she will continue to view you this way until you go back to your role as beta bitch or your marriage ends. I know these two points are very likely true. I have a really hard time to go over it and I resent her. "marriage ends" is actually very appealing option. There is no silver bullet for killing my ego unfortunately. Edit: spelling
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 02:43 AM
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I am trying to adopt exactly same approach. I just wanted to point out that you can not demand her being FO. Your are lucky if your spouse can and want be FO.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 12:34 PM
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CAPTAIN/FO....this is watered down RP to appease the newly unplugging and sell books. I came to this realisation as well. C/FO dynamics can work for some, but it is preached by Athol and others to weak guys as I am as a kind of responsibility relief. Like they are saying: "You do not have to deal with life decisions alone.."
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 11:43 AM
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Shit I own Nothing worth of mentioning this week. Just regular jazz except for: I have started with "waking up early morning" as is suggested in Jocko podcast. Waking up at 5 am for last two days. I have to admit that a jet lag helps me a bit. It will get harder in few days when I my inner clock synchronizes with a local time. Getting better Fighting my oneitis. It gets better and better, there were now relapses last week. I see hers goods/flaws more clearly nowadays. I read through WISNIFG agai…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 05:38 PM
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Fitness I am going to stick to 5x5 program for another 3 months. I am going to start with 5% deload as I did not lift weights that consistently due to businness trip in last 14 days. Squats DeadLift Bench Rows OverHeadPress 230lb 245lb 175lb 175lb 90lb 265lb 305lb 205lb 205lb 105lb Regardless if I reach or overcome these nubers, the main target is to STICK with 5x5! Diet My diet seems to be in check for most of the time. However I am going to hit my calorie and macro targers consistenty. The mai…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 06:01 PM
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Fair point. Apparently I am not out of the anger/bitter phase yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 07:39 PM
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I would really question the underlying premise. You seem to think that success = present wife reacts positively etc. As I see MRP, the success is that I DO NOT care if she reacts or not. If she stands up, good! If she does not stand up someone else will. That assumes I am the man, having some game, decent SMV etc.. That is the MRP/TRP success to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 07:20 PM
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Last night - the wife came to me and said "high five - that was an awesome weekend." I agreed with her, but couldn't help but think to myself: I wasn't trying to make the weekend great for you. I was doing it for me. First of all good job. Secondly I had a very similar thoughts in past. As soon as I realized that being a passenger in a man's life is really what woman is/wants to be, I started enjoying these moments. Only some of them qualify as first officers.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 06:26 PM
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The good parts I am getting much better in holding my frame. It has positively influenced many parts of my day to day living. The mood is good in my household, I got promoted in work, wife has started asking for my opinion/advice etc. We have met her female friend recently and after I left them, her friend was talking to my wife about "how sexy (grey hairs) and manly I am. My wife was pretty surprised and cold not hold it for her self and told me that about a day afterwards. Way to go! I am rere…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 05:33 PM
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I have found out a BJJ gym close to my house. When I am back from bussiness trip I am going to start there.
/r/askMRP13/01/16 09:37 AM
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It is worth od reading in my opinion. The book adresses sexuality from both male ald female perspective. The good thing is that is is not "5 steps to improve XYZ" like book. The book makes you thing about sexuality in broader context and does not offer any straitforward solution. Just my two cents here. Edit: spelling, grammar
/r/askMRP10/01/16 04:47 PM
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Doesn't matter, just get into it. This is exactly what I think. It does not matter that much. Just do it. Thank you for the list.
/r/askMRP08/01/16 02:08 PM
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I have never been "a hero" and I am not going to be in future. Moreover I am pretty good in avoiding unnecessary risky situation. It comes down to situation awareness, doesn't it? Heck even when I was a police investigator I always called for backups if I suspected the situation could be sketchy... That being said, I have been training some kind of martial arts for majority of my life. It is more like finding myself again and do what I enjoy to do. I was watching few youtube videos about JijuJit…
/r/askMRP08/01/16 02:06 PM
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Thank you for summary. Speaking of ground fighting, it is not my intention to focus only on that aspect. I just realized that I have ZERO zero experience if shit hits the fan and I end up on the ground. Apart from that I do not care what I am going to train. It does not matter in the end. It would be great to continue with Bujinkan however there is no instructor in or near my home city.
/r/askMRP08/01/16 01:42 PM
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The good parts: I am more and more untouched by my room mate mood swings. A few days ago I realized that I am observing my wife being in "bad mood" endlessly watching TV shows on the couch like some kind of bacteria in microscope..After 5 seconds I just went on happily working on my things (a small micro controller home project) completely untouched by her frame. I am on caloric restriction for about last 10 days. I am hitting my target pretty consistently. Slowly loosing my waist and still main…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 03:28 AM
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That's a solid advice. I have started with this approach two weeks ago. Still doing 5x5, focusing mainly on not loosing strength and eating bellow maintenance. The nice thing is that when your strength starts declining, you know you cut calories too much and actually lost a little bit of muscle...
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 03:39 AM
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It works if you work it. Still in Deadbedroom though. However I am at the begining, there is a long way to go to OptionA/OptionB resolution..
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 04:08 PM
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What I owned: Vacation time with the family: I took my family to a short christmas vacation. Gave them something to do and enjoy. I am getting used to fact that planing, organizing and result (succes or fail) is on my shoulders. In past I resented my wife when she was not involved in planing, organizing etc. Knowing now that it is a regular women apporach really gave me a serenity. I actually enjoyed looking at my wife and kids just enjoying the ride... What I am working on: Family budget: I pre…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 12:48 AM
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I have been on work assignment in US for 3 years now. In comparison to my home country I can definitely see a cult of child and a cult of woman here. I think it is present everywhere to some extent but here it goes on overdrive.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/15 08:12 PM
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Your wife is not a cunt. You describe her as being nice to the people she value. She just doesn't value you. This. It has been tough to accept it for me however it is true for most wife material out there.
/r/askMRP25/12/15 07:54 PM
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That! I really need to internalize that.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 08:40 PM
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When people say sugar, do they mean carbs in general or just certain carbs like glucose and fructose?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 10:58 PM
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I own:* Lifting, dieting - I broke through 100kg for my 5x5 squat rutine yesterday. It was my personal goal for last 2,5 months or so. I pretty sure I will go at least 20kg beyond in next few weeks. I have been able to hit my calorie target range for several weeks in row now. Finally I am in charge of my nutrition. It will be handy in the cutting stage. Shit I am working on:* Killing onetis with my wife - I realized I still kind of looking for her validation from time to time. I realized I toler…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 11:47 PM
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My behavior is same as of o those abused women. I rationalize and excuse why I stayed and did not leave her 5 years ago... Well, that is kind victim puke.... At least I got to this realization.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/15 09:29 PM
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Good parts: Lifting. It works pretty well for me. I really enjoy an elevated testosterone levels in my blood streams. I am not tired in afternoons anymore, have much better mood in general.. Gained about 10 lbs in last two months which I am generally happy with. Reading, eating, sleeping. I have been very intentional with these since I found this sub reddit. Bad parts: Outcome independence is still my problem. Although it is much better nowadays I am still not there yet. Through introspection I …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/15 06:28 PM
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Thank your for your input Gentlemen. My take away: I will stick with 5x5 as long as I can recuperate from it. At least one more month as I wanna break 225 lb for my squats. I will take more carbs on training day and maybe a little bit less on other days. I will try the rolling foam and walking. More water and BCAA supplementation ( I am on creatin already). When I reach my limit I will switch to different program.
/r/askMRP08/12/15 08:14 PM
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Thank you for your insight gentlemen.
/r/askMRP05/12/15 11:26 PM
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I am pretty sure I can go beyond 100kg on squats. I have not been forced to deload my squats and dead lifts yet. It is just regeneration I am worry about. Especially if I add anything else like climbing or any martial art.. I will definitely give a Madcow a try when I get to my limits with StrongLifts.
/r/askMRP05/12/15 10:30 PM
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I am at 82kg/181lb. 182cm/5'11. My goal is bulking (in last two months I went from 77 to 82kg). That being said, with mentioned calorie intake I put some fat on as well. That makes me think that I eat enough. I will try walking as you mentioned.
/r/askMRP05/12/15 10:24 PM
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I do not think guys on the dead bedroom plan (as I am...) think their woman does not want sex. She just don't want to have sex with that particular guy. I would argue that is generally understood. How to kino efficiently if the subject resents your touch... That is the hard part. At least for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/15 05:07 PM
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There is a possibility to push it even further. Shaving with your knife!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/15 07:07 PM
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I do "grab her in move" on her and I really enjoy it. As for her being receptive.. It really depends, sometimes she is, sometimes she isn't. Sometimes she acts like my touch is repulsive to her. I have been a weak sauce for a long time. The reprogramming will take some time.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 03:28 AM
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I need to own : Initiating - I really failing here. I realize I am almost clueless how to initiate with a women properly. Have to work on my timing and building momentum through the day. (thanks for good feedback last week u/bogeyd6). As well "last moment resistance" is something I need to work on.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 12:47 AM
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I like how you described SMV. Sure it is in our (and their) heads and it is subject to situation usually. The reason people are obsessed with their SMV is the ego self preservation mechanism. I am guilty as well. It creeps to my mind all the time. It goes like this: I am at least 5 and she is probably 5 as well. She is not interested though. That would assume my SMV is actually lower than 5. But that would be embarrassing for my ego. Therefore I have to dig into SMV deeper and self confirm I am …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/15 02:42 PM
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Shit I own: Lifting - this is probably the easiest part for me. I like how lifting boost the hormonal production in my body. I feel happy, I am not tired at the afternoons etc. Diet - I am bulking nowadays. Pushing consistently 2800 - 3000 calories. I hit my calorie target several days in row. Shit I need to own: I need to initiate more. I initiated several times in last 14 days. Got hard no every time. Good thing was I was not butt hurt. Bad thing was it discouraged me from initiating. I loose …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 02:30 AM
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Ahh, that is a good way how to look at it. Thanks for feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 03:35 PM
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What I own: Lifting - working on 5x5 program 3 times a week. I have never been fat. I fight the opposite battle - gaining a weight. Holding my frame towards my kids I have stopped looking for validation from my wife What I am working on: Dealing with shit tests. I am better in spotting them but I still keep jumping to defending and explaining myself. STFU is still conscious effort for me. I have initiated last 2 days. I really did not do that for ages and I just trying to get outcome independent…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 02:19 AM
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I wanna slowly progress through 12 dread stages. That is basically my plan. I am not rushing anywhere ("when to next your wife" basically outlined a route for me). I am currently at level 2 to 3 taking my time. I do not hurry up. Looking forward for your book!
/r/askMRP31/10/15 12:30 PM
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So, I have The meditations, The manipulated man and The day bang delivered to my kindle. Thank you for tips Gentlemen. As for ideas which have not sunk yet.. I am talking mainly about the general TRP way of explaining intergender dynamics. I am referring to the Rationale male book. It was an eye opening reading for me. However the fact I mean nothing to my wife (or any other woman) is pretty painful realisation (Hypergamy does not care chapter and others). It will take some time for me to be at …
/r/askMRP30/10/15 11:10 PM
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That is what I do. I am basically using my wife as "a sparing partner" now. I can see some implementations work, some were messed up by me. Some work well for me when I socialize with other people. My kids can observe something is a little bit different. They follow my lead pretty naturally and that is a big achievement for me. It makes our evenings easygoing. Of course I can not say 100% I will dissolve our marriage. It is just the most probable scenario. I just do not want to be with her anymo…
/r/askMRP30/10/15 04:15 PM
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I might left a wrong impression. My life is improving as I apply ideas from the book. I can see improvement between me and my roommate as well. Eliminating Cover contracts is huge for me for example. When I said majority has not sunk yet, I mean it is still a conscious effort, not a first and automatic reaction (like fogging during the conflict, not being defensive after shit test etc.)
/r/askMRP30/10/15 12:39 PM
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That can not be true. I consider myself being almost career beta and even I am bleeding from my eyes reading this.
/r/askMRP20/10/15 08:06 PM
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Again, if one of my Navy buddies died today, my wife would expect me to feel pain and I would tell her "It sucks". But not a tear would be shed in front of her. Maybe I'd get together with other Navy guys and we'd drink and cry into our glasses, but my wife would be spared that side of me because that is for me to handle with my Men. This.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/15 02:48 PM
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I did not mention shit tests because I still struggle to identify them in time. I mean if it is something clearly outrageous I ignore them or ignore them smiling... And for those more subtle? I probably failing them..
/r/askMRP22/09/15 01:17 PM
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Yep. I got that.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 11:02 PM
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Wild at Heart paved my way to MRP. It is a great book if you are a Christian.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/15 01:31 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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