VertumnusOV Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation?	Discussion	VertumnusOV	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 02:59 PM
1	I don’t understand the mismatch of meeting a partner’s needs.	Discussion	VertumnusOV	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 02:07 PM
0	Changes post “I do”	Discussion	VertumnusOV	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 02:02 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? Does your husband need a friend to just sit silently and watch YouTube videos with? Let me know 🤞🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 07:38 PM
1	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? I’ll get the ✂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 07:15 PM
2	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? That is on topic…if your partner has a need - I’m not talking desire - then it’s the same thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 05:19 PM
2	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? So, emotional needs are not needs. Why should I sit and listen to you talk for hours then? Gaslighting is negating truth - truth is all people have some level of sexual needs (even if that level is none). If I tell you I need sex 2-3x a week and you tell me no I do not, that is gaslighting dear….Christ.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 04:57 PM
1	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? They aren’t whores.. but many men would gleefully do all of those things lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 04:55 PM
-1	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? 👉🏻💍👰🏻‍♀️🤵🏻👶🏻👶🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 04:46 PM
2	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? It’s a disingenuous argument to say that since you won’t die from a lack of something that it is not a need. How is this not clear to you? Also, you do not get to tell a man, or anyone, what their needs actually are. That’s called gaslighting, dear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 04:45 PM
3	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? Pretty generalized statement. Many men respect sex workers. Talk to a sex worker. Most will tell you much of their time is spent talking with and listening to their clients.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 04:44 PM
4	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? What’s the big deal about talking about your emotional concerns with yourself? Is it really that terrible to journal instead or consult a therapist? It is your own obligation to give yourself the emotional fulfillment you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 04:42 PM
3	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? Likewise, why come to me with your emotional needs when you can just get a therapist? 👂	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 04:40 PM
2	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? Sex is not always an emotionless act, even with sex workers (hooker is derogatory). So no, not win-win.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 04:40 PM
2	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? Your fallacious argument that because you won’t die from not having sex means it’s not a need is definition of not debating in good faith. That’s why I correctly repositioned your bad faith argument to show it makes no sense in other contexts either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 04:39 PM
1	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? Who who rebut what you said? It makes sense. But how you phrased it made me laugh	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 04:37 PM
1	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? Again, no one is saying a woman HAS to have sex when she doesn’t want to. I referenced the subsection of women who say/believe that “his sexual needs are not my obligation.” My response to them is then how can you demand he fulfill your needs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 04:36 PM
1	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? Urges =/= needs imho	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 04:34 PM
2	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? Is logical reasoning not your forte? lol I was throwing your illogical argument back in your face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 04:33 PM
2	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 04:31 PM
3	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? Emotional support is not a need. You will not die without a man sitting there listening to you complain about the petty parts of your day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 03:44 PM
-2	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? Are you still youngish and just as naive? Asking for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 03:43 PM
0	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? I agree lol that’s why I posted asking for discussion. How can anyone deny the needs of their partner but demand their partner supplement their own needs? Just divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 03:39 PM
3	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? Oh I hear you, I’m not excusing cheating - infidelity is despicable. I was talking about the shock - “you cheated [after I haven’t given sex in years….]” I am in no way condoning or excusing cheating, but I never understand the “can you believe he cheated on me” when you aren’t fulfilling his needs and you know that you aren’t doing so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 03:31 PM
0	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? I didn’t presuppose women only need emotional fulfillment. Reading comprehension is hard huh? I spoke about a subsection of women who believe they aren’t responsible for their partners sexual needs but still expect said partner to be emotionally fulfilling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 03:28 PM
2	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? Can you elaborate on the unpaid labor part?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 03:25 PM
7	Are sexual needs a mutual obligation? Books. So hot right now. Books.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 03:24 PM