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5

Yeah, chill out there Sir Chad-o-lot!
/r/seduction03/11/24 08:43 PM
13

If you're not approaching, you're not fuckin!
/r/seduction15/10/24 10:29 AM
1

Pregnancy and STDs. If those weren't a thing, women would be much more open to having more sex. I see why women only have sex with higher value males, they have to be more selective for survival purposes.
/r/seduction04/09/24 10:00 AM
1

Hired guns aren't ideal, as they're paid to be nice. Don't ask her out etc. Go do it on real womenz that aren't paid to be nice and see how it goes.
/r/seduction25/08/24 11:20 AM
4

He's probably one of those weird incels that writes the same thing with different names in other subs to get reactions and up-votes. Some weird kids out there these days 😆
/r/seduction17/08/24 09:35 AM
9

100 points!
/r/seduction13/08/24 01:53 PM
0

This. Family (blood relative women are fine), friends, therapists etc. are okay to talk to, never ever talk to a woman about your problems, she will hate you for it.
/r/seduction20/06/24 12:52 PM
1

Bot
/r/seduction09/06/24 10:54 PM
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Bot
/r/seduction09/06/24 12:15 PM
2

Get a cold approach coach, that will really help. Look for wings online as well, also really helps. For me, solo game is only possible if I've been consistently approaching whilst out with wings.
/r/seduction03/06/24 12:23 PM
4

If you're gonna do it, you gotta go all in. If you know, you know. 60% of the time, it works every time. Good luck out there, soldier.
/r/seduction25/05/24 06:09 PM
1

Bro, you pulled your female doctor? That's like elite level PUA.
/r/seduction20/05/24 12:10 PM
1

Lol at the gene thing, it sort of makes sense but doesn't: statistically, men are much better fighters than women, so why would you, as a woman, want to escalate a situation to put yourself in potential danger just to make sure the man doesn't pass on his genes? 😆😆 Back in prehistoric times, the man would have killed the woman who told him to fuck off and then went on to pass on his genes with some other woman anyway. You got any scientific source on it or was it just something you heard/read? S…
/r/seduction19/05/24 10:20 PM
-11

As a female, you wouldn't say 'f off' to a potential creepy attacker, that will DEFINITELY make him attack you. The girl was just being a moody bitch cause she either was approached 10 times already that day or she was having a bad day or she was just being her normal bitchy self. OP you will come across a lot more bitchiness, you have to remember some of these girls are approached multiple times a day and get bored of it, you need to accept that and go approach someone else. Don't let it put yo…
/r/seduction19/05/24 10:16 PM
2

How attractive is your gf? Maybe you just want bigger and better.
/r/seduction19/05/24 06:26 PM
14

Yea it's a risky bidniss.
/r/seduction17/02/24 10:31 AM
1

Search for 'DayGame infields' on YouTube, lots of content out there for you, my guy.
/r/seduction23/10/22 12:47 PM
1

DayGame is solid.
/r/seduction22/10/22 10:08 PM
4

I'm stealing "you cock juggling thunder cunt". Thanks.
/r/seduction22/10/22 10:07 PM
1

Seems like there's a lot of late teens on this subreddit. When you get older you'll be thinking "it's not gross to want to hit on younger girls." I'm late 20s and I don't think it's gross at all. Personally I tend not to find 18 year olds as attractive as early 20 year olds though, early 20 year olds seem to be more mature in their look and their personalititties.
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:08 PM
1

OP you answered your own question: the girls can tell you have an issue with your race, thus they aren't going to want to be with someone like that.
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:04 PM
1

It might be because you're trying to do too many things at once. Forget about girls, they should be at the bottom of your totem pole. Get your head straight, get a job, earn some good money, live well. When you have all these things in order, then think about girls again.
/r/seduction31/10/21 03:10 AM
3

It depends.. To answer your question, OP: I agree with most here that you should actually push for a kiss or even sex on the first date. If she kisses you/has sex with you on the first date, it means she has also done it with a lot of guys before. So just beware and don't try and lock her down. If she doesn't kiss or have sex on the first date, it will usually mean she doesn't intend to ever do so, but it could also mean she's a bit more respectable and doesn't do either of those on the first da…
/r/seduction09/10/21 10:09 AM
-2

Maybe don't call her 'large' because then people will get on your ass. Just say you're not as attracted to her as you are to other women. In my opinion: abundance is abundance.. but deep down do you really class a girl you're not attracted to as abundance? I personally don't. It gives off a 'desperate' vibe to others and even yourself. Now if you're sleeping with 2 attractive girls, that's good abundance. If you don't find someone attractive, don't sleep with them. Be honest with yourself.
/r/seduction18/08/21 08:26 PM
2

Is the question you're asking 'how to get options?'? Or how to show her that you already have options? If you already have options, you don't need to show her anything. Your behaviour will let her know you're an independent man that don't need no woman. Getting options is a whole other topic.
/r/seduction18/08/21 08:22 PM
1

Let's just say if you don't try, you'll never know. Hired guns are very difficult to get out on a date, though, and they'll tend to give you their number to get rid of you. So if you're going back to that store, prepare for it to be kinda awkward if you bump into each other. Imo, meet a random girl out on the street or in a bar etc, much less chance of ever seeing them again if they reject you there and then or if you don't mesh well after the first date.
/r/seduction16/08/21 09:30 PM
3

Don't feel down if nothing happens, feel really good that you've gone out and given it a shot. Now keep the momentum up by going out regularly.
/r/seduction13/08/21 08:40 AM
1

Hey man, thanks for the post. Do you have any advice on AA? I wish I didn't have any, like you.
/r/seduction02/08/21 09:36 PM
1

Grats dude, thanks for the report, keep at it 👍
/r/seduction02/08/21 09:34 PM
29

It's like asking a fish how to catch a fish...
/r/seduction13/07/21 03:25 PM
2

At the same time, remember it's not the seduction Olympics. Don't feel as though you have to approach every hot girl you ever see. It's about being calibrated and don't shit where you eat. If you feel bad about not approaching then that can actually be a sign of scarcity. To truly reach an abundance mindset you need to know you could approach a girl if you wanted to, but only when you feel like it, when it's a good time to do it, and the right place. Remember, you're in control. There's many wom…
/r/seduction29/06/20 09:07 PM
5

It's a red flag. Keep your witts about you and always go with your gut feeling. Never ignore your gut feeling, I did that once and I got burnt badly. If she's acting like she could cheat now, she will DEFINITELY cheat in the future. It's all just a matter of time. Then again a lot of guys stay with girls because they have nice tits and a tight pussy, irrespective of their personality and whether the girl actually respects them.
/r/seduction30/08/18 03:49 PM
1

Good job man, most people wish they had the determination that you do.
/r/seduction02/08/18 07:04 AM
1

Whatever tickles your pickle
/r/seduction30/07/18 01:22 PM
1

Aw fack off you facker
/r/seduction30/07/18 01:20 PM
1

Or both...
/r/seduction30/07/18 12:55 PM
1

More old copypasta. Don't feed the troll. What a douche lol.
/r/seduction30/07/18 12:54 PM
1

This is old copypasta. Don't feel the troll.
/r/seduction30/07/18 08:36 AM
1

Hmmmm I wouldn't recommend not drinking when going to a party where you know people, if you're not used to it then you might appear boring. Start off by practising, find a wingman online to do some nightgame with you, and both of you don't drink, and just go to nightclubs where you'll be inconspicuous, practice being social, talking to both guys and girls, and obviously practice your game. Once you're a lot more social when sober, you can then slowly integrate that when meeting friends at a a pa…
/r/seduction27/07/18 11:20 AM
1

I'm taking it you're only doing night game? That's a bad road to go down if you're drinking as well, not so bad if you game sober though. Do day game instead, so many good looking girls, you'll get rejected a lot but to find a high quality 8/10 again you'll have to stick at it.
/r/seduction27/07/18 11:02 AM
1

Nope. Unlessyou don't plan to work there long, then go ahead.
/r/seduction20/07/18 12:17 PM
3

If you're in a career, don't fuck with the women there. If things go sour (they ALWAYS do), you're fucked!!! Same with gym. Sure, make friends with them and get friendzoned, but don't try and fuck them unless you're willing to move gyms.
/r/seduction20/07/18 10:34 AM
2

Oh shit, got eeeem.
/r/seduction19/07/18 01:32 PM
1

Yeah I really don't think this is a bad thing at all. Let's be honest, you ask her how many people she has slept with, she'll tell you 25% of the real number. They cancel each other out. I've lied about what university degree I was doing as well, as criminal psychologist sounds way cooler than fuckin software engineer lol.
/r/seduction19/07/18 07:19 AM
3

I sometimes lie about my age as some girls are weird about it. I've tested it and if I approach an 18/19 year old and say I'm 27 she gets turned off immediately and ignores me. Say I'm 22 and she's all over me.
/r/seduction19/07/18 06:32 AM
2

That's definitely a new one! Good luck.
/r/seduction18/07/18 01:55 PM
1

Before, during lunch, and after work. Weekends.
/r/seduction28/06/18 07:30 PM
0

You've answered your own question. College. It's simple: Daygame on college campuses. Even better: Daygame and nightgame in college campuses.
/r/seduction28/06/18 07:27 PM
2

I got my first full close after about 3.5 months. Don't try and go all out with daygame, just keep it consistent over a long period of time. The best you can do is both daygame and nightgame.
/r/seduction28/06/18 07:25 PM
3

Keep going with DayGame. The more you do it, eventually you'll get success. How long you been doing it for?
/r/seduction28/06/18 07:11 PM
5

Doing really scary stuff like that is never a bad thing, I will admit going very direct somewhere where you go often is somewhat difficult because you'll be seeing the people again. Guys fall into the trap of thinking that the gym is a good place to pick up girls - it is, but if you keep going really direct all the time then all the girls will catch on that you're a player and you'll eventually get a bad rep. Best thing to do is to just make friends with everyone (guys included), eventually a gi…
/r/seduction26/06/18 07:33 AM
1

Research: "guys grow fucking tits"- Every Doctor ever. Case closed. You're welcome.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 06:34 AM
1

And your wife doesn't fuck other guys? Teach me your ways, our lord and saviour.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 10:05 PM
6

Fucking lol. So much bad shit happens to people on steroids and especially once they come off them. Natural selection at its finest right here.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 09:52 PM
4

There's your problem: you're trying too hard to improve yourself and your inner game is shit because of it. I've fallen into that trap many times and realise what a huge waste of time self improvement actually is. I mean sure, I do productive things, but not to get girls, only because I genuinely enjoy doing them. I'm not thinking to myself 'Ah shit I have to go to the gym to look good and get girls, this sucks...' I think 'man I can't wait to get to the gym, makes me feel like a million bucks, …
/r/seduction19/06/18 02:30 PM
1

If you have the money then do it. Touring Europe with some top PUAs? Sweeet.
/r/seduction11/06/18 11:27 AM
-1

Don't shit where you eat.
/r/seduction10/06/18 09:06 AM
0

Move.
/r/seduction09/06/18 10:19 PM
2

A true PUA.
/r/seduction09/06/18 09:13 PM
2

People need to understand that approaching at high pressure places isn't a good idea until you've mastered low pressure places. The reason you're scared is because, like you said, you haven't approached in a long time. Maybe go do DayGame for a while, get good again, then think about approaching at a place like the gym.
/r/seduction08/06/18 06:56 AM
3

There are definite cons to nightclubs but also pros. In a nightclub, any girl is fair game, and if they say they have a boyfriend then you know it's definitely on at that point. Girls don't go to nightclubs to hang out, they want to get fucked right in the pussy cause they're dirty sloots. In comparison to daygame, there will be many women you approach that will genuinely be in relationships, so the concentration of single, slutty women in daygame is far lower than that in a nightclub. To immedi…
/r/seduction07/06/18 01:42 PM
3

Good job man.
/r/seduction04/06/18 07:04 PM
1

Because if you're asking how to seduce her on reddit then you'll fuck it all up and it'll be really awkward and she'll probably put rape charges against you or some shit. Just don't do it.
/r/seduction31/05/18 08:46 PM
1

Oh dear. Oh dear oh dear. Dropping everything for a woman = gg. Good luck pal, you're gonna need it. P.s. my advice is sort your shit out and stop being a pussy bitch and go no contact with all girls until you stop being a bum.
/r/seduction31/05/18 08:06 PM
3

The worst thing a man- and by man I mean MAN- can do is give one iota what a woman thinks of him. Not saying I'm a shining example, but look at all the truly successful guys, they don't give a shit what a woman thinks.
/r/seduction31/05/18 07:58 PM
1

Uhhhmmmm... just dont.
/r/seduction31/05/18 07:55 PM
-2

Fuck her right in the pussy!!!!!
/r/seduction28/05/18 03:51 PM
9

You're focusing on girls: wrong mentality. Girls are like cats, they can sense when you want to snuggle them, they feel your neediness, and so they don't let you near them. You gotta be stealthy and sheit.
/r/seduction28/05/18 08:11 AM
5

Most 'beautiful' women genuinely hate themselves on the inside, they just hide it well. The key a lot of guys need to remember is that the only person that gives you validation is yourself. If you don't love yourself then you shouldn't be trying to feel better by being 'loved ' by someone else. We're born alone and we die alone. So many people these days take themselves for granted. I know I still do, even though I preach the message of loving oneself, I'm no shining example of it, and that's wh…
/r/seduction27/05/18 09:04 PM
3

Nah, as long as you're not a fat ass and you try to take care of your body (some form of exercise is ideal, doesn't necessarily have to be gym) then im sure picking up a gym girl will be relatively simple. Like any girl though, many factors will come in to play. The trap some guys fall into is 'well I need to look really good to get girls so I need to go to the gym all the time and ignore everything else in my life', then they wonder why women don't approach them because they're shredded.
/r/seduction27/05/18 07:46 PM
9

Go for anyone I find attractive, which includes gym-type girls.
/r/seduction27/05/18 07:38 PM
1

Do whatever, if you have other girls on the go then it doesn't matter. If you don't have other girls on the go, sort that out first.
/r/seduction27/05/18 10:31 AM
1

Stop watching porn.
/r/seduction26/05/18 09:40 PM
3

Game is just another string to my bow in order to lead an interesting life that I will cherish and look back on with fond memories (including the times of rejection and 'failure'). What you say is true.
/r/seduction26/05/18 09:17 PM
0

It's a long road, but at least you've started.
/r/seduction26/05/18 07:48 PM
3

Oh don't get me wrong; I completely agree. What I was saying was that if you're really scared of doing a DIRECT approach (when you're really scared of even asking a girl for the time), then take a step back and get used to asking for the time first - not continuing the conversation and changing direct, I literally mean go up to a girl in the street and say 'hi, do you have the time please?' In a very normal, relaxed way. She'll probably give you the time, you say thank you, and eject. I've never…
/r/seduction26/05/18 07:42 PM
2

So you're actively approaching women and having sex? If so, then yeah I can see how some VERY successful guys (and I don't just mean financially, I mean across the board) can bag and tag women without any regard for them, but this is a primary reason why they're successful as women's natural tendancy is to suck the life out of men - It's not their fault, they're biologically programmed to do it for protection of their offspring. To be honest, if/when I get into another serious relationship, I ju…
/r/seduction26/05/18 07:37 PM
1

Before you go, maybe do what I'm doing - take smaller baby steps. I can't go out and approach a lot (mainly weekends), but I've just started with asking girls for the time, then directions, and next weekend I'm gonna approach a girl. If you can do these things with ease then yeah go straight for the approach, but if you find approaching too difficult, just start with time and directions to get you used to talking to random girls. Then eventually move it to direct approaching one girl, then the n…
/r/seduction26/05/18 07:14 PM
-3

Kek'd hard. Good idea on that last sentence, get yourself (thoroughly) checked, my guy.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 07:20 PM
2

To be honest, most guys who take game seriously simply move to the city. If you're stuck in a small town or no access to a large city then you're really handicapping yourself.
/r/seduction21/05/18 06:24 PM
1

I'm doing babysteps still. If you check out GoodLookingLoser approach anxiety program, even though he says not to change it, I changed it because some of the stuff he gets you to do will get rid of your anxiety but will also make you look like a creepy rapist. I just took his asking for the time, asking for directions ones, I do so many on whichever day, and I'm working up to doing full direct approaches again. Seems to be helping. It's all about doing the drill, irrespective of the outcome - if…
/r/seduction20/05/18 03:19 PM
5

Look up daygame on youtube. Welcome to the world of daygame.
/r/seduction18/05/18 06:34 AM
1

Tinder really is a huge waste of time. No girl is going to respect you for using online dating. Day Game is where you get get really hot girls, but it's a very long, difficult process. Don't expect success instantly.
/r/seduction18/05/18 06:31 AM
4

Great job man, always refreshing to read solid field reports like these. You brushed off the rejections well, kept playing the game, and almost scored. Just goes to show how perseverance can really make or break a PUA. I'm taking it you were solo gaming?
/r/seduction16/05/18 08:15 PM
2

It's fine to text whenever but if you feel like you're texting all day every day then make a conscious effort to only text important/funny/interesting etc. Stuff. You don't want to be constantly available. Make sure you're a busy person so you don't have time to constantly text.
/r/seduction15/05/18 06:38 AM
1

When you need her. If you need her, stop needing her.
/r/seduction15/05/18 06:34 AM
19

Enter the world... of DayGame. Check out guys like Tom Torero, Street Attraction, James Tusk, Fluid Social - all on YouTube, and be blown away by the DayGame adventures that await you. Don't rely on meetups to meet gals, get your ass out of bed and on to the streets, bookstores, shops, coffee shops etc. To meet the gal of your dreams.
/r/seduction13/05/18 05:52 PM
2

And succ
/r/seduction13/05/18 05:46 PM
1

Mehhh different things work for different guys. I'm of the proponent that if someone suggests you do something and it's just not you, then don't do it. But make sure that the thing you do do is effective. So if you're not a social media kind of guy, perfectly fine (same with me), but you gotta make sure your IRL game and text game is up to par, because like the other guy says, girls can get a better grasp of who you are from social media. The downside to social media is that you're not really my…
/r/seduction12/05/18 09:16 PM
-3

Don't. You're welcome.
/r/seduction12/05/18 05:35 PM
1

The faster you forget her, the better your life will be. Girls can be massive cunts, but don't let them know it.
/r/seduction11/05/18 08:18 PM
1

Black guy cucked me a few years back and I'm a solid 7 white guy.
/r/seduction11/05/18 08:16 PM
1

Online game should ALWAYS be a supplement to IRL game. To be honest, even if you're a beginner/intermediate at IRL game you shouldn't even be thinking about online game, use the time you'd spend online to practise IRL game. Online is for the diehard IRL game pros.
/r/seduction11/05/18 08:14 PM
2

Thanks boiz, getting over AA when solo gaming.
/r/seduction11/05/18 08:07 PM
2

I doubt it was the question you asked, I'm guessing you just were nervous and it came across disingenuous and awkward, which is fine! It's a learning game, you have to accept that if you're brand new you're gonna look awkward and feel afraid etc. Perfectly normal at this stage in the game. The key is to keep cold approaching random women who you'll never see again to get over that hump until you just do it naturally. Check out Good Looking Loser approach anxiety program, he gets you to keep aski…
/r/seduction11/05/18 07:45 PM
1

You're a good man, there's not many good men left in this world. You were honest and you broke up with her, even though it was painful for You, you did the right thing. NOW GO FIND ANOTHER GIRL AND FUCK HER RIGHT IN THE PUSSY!!!!!
/r/seduction11/05/18 07:31 PM
1

Well she consented so there's not really anything legally wrong that they did. No it's fucking terrible game and getting a girl shitfaced and using her is disgusting and your two buddies should get a life. I would say they should kill themselves, but I've left that lifestyle behind.
/r/seduction11/05/18 07:26 PM
1

Not worth it, she'll probably say you raped her if she let's you have sex with her. Not worth it man.
/r/seduction11/05/18 11:32 AM
2

I fkin love these gritty, amateur-style (not in a bad way) field reports. Makes pickup more real, compared to that guy 'oh yeah went to the bar last night and fucked 5 girls in their butt on the dancefloor whilst everyone watched, yeah I'm so cool' Good job for making the approach, just remember that's 1 new girl you've tried to speak to, which is 1 more than 99% of guys will speak to in a year. Keep going.
/r/seduction10/05/18 07:28 PM
7

I mean, if you're doing it to get into a better social state, then sure. But you're making this girl some kind of crush and that's never a good idea if you want abundance in your life. Remember they're paid to be nice to customers.
/r/seduction10/05/18 07:24 PM
1

But you're saying socialising with people is a bad thing? I don't think OP is saying only exclusively talk to female workers, it's actually a great way to pump you up into a better state because your brain will find comfort in the fact that you've spoken to someone you don't know and you've got a good reaction. Your brain doesn't know it was a female worker. I agree with your point on rejection therapy as well, but if you need to ease into it rather than going up to the first girl you see in the…
/r/seduction10/05/18 07:20 PM
3

I say why not? It's not like you're gonna have 20 different social circles anyway and you'll never see anyone again after this year is over. To be honest, it's best to daygame at a College when you don't actually go to College. You get all that 18-22 year vagene and you don't need to worry about reputation cause you don't even go there lol.
/r/seduction10/05/18 07:14 PM
4

If you focus on the goal too much, you lose sight of the process.
/r/seduction10/05/18 06:40 PM
5

Correct
/r/seduction10/05/18 06:39 PM
1

Check out engineeredlifestyle on youtube, he's not a very attractive, tall, black guy and he's regularly pulling girls.
/r/seduction09/05/18 06:44 PM
1

Careful.. If you think this relationship will last forever, then you're sadly mistaken. Don't make the same mistake I did by dropping game when I got into a relationship. As soon as shit hit the fan, she was able to take her pick of guys (she was a solid 7, I am also but girls aren't gonna approach a 7 male) whilst I was a nervous wreck with girls cause I mainly only spoke to her or her friends, never any girls I didn't know. You might think 'Ah well I'm sure there'll be times when I talk to ran…
/r/seduction09/05/18 06:42 PM
2

General rule of thumb is text her the same night so she remembers you straight away then it'll help refresh her memory in the morning 'oh yeah that guy I met last night sent me a text'. I haven't done night game in a long time but its something like 'Hey (nickname you gave her), you better not be being a naughty little potato! (Your name)' I send random shit like that cause it doesn't matter what you say on a text as long as you're not needy and she was attracted to you in the irl conversation. …
/r/seduction09/05/18 06:26 PM
10

To be honest it's best that game is tucked away, less competition from other guys. If you think about it, it's true... we don't really want even more competition.
/r/seduction09/05/18 06:21 PM
1

I apologise, you just come across as bitter because girls won't immediately bend over for you and let you insert your peepee in their poopoo without having any sort of connection. I'm not trying to be a dick towards you, just trying to help you realise that your mindset is all out of wack. My advice is start to see girls as people rather than conquests. You're welcome. Don't mention it.
/r/seduction07/05/18 07:52 PM
27

It can be a bad mindset. A really good video I saw was when Julien from RSD was talking to this girl and she seemed really stern and not interested. He was trying a few things to get her to liven up a bit and warm up to him and it didn't work. I can't remember the line he used but he said it and she suddenly cracked a big smile and you knew he was in at that point and I'm fairly sure he at least got her number with ease. There are mainly No girls, a few Yes girls, and a fair few Maybe girls. You…
/r/seduction07/05/18 07:09 PM
4

She's too young
/r/seduction07/05/18 03:07 PM
1

You don't like small talk because you're desperate and needy, and girls smell it a mile away. They're not gonna want to hang around with you let alone sleep with you if you're like that. They're not there for your enjoyment, contrary to popular belief.
/r/seduction07/05/18 11:47 AM
1

Lol I'm just messing with you
/r/seduction06/05/18 11:02 PM
2

Aye aye aye mama mia
/r/seduction06/05/18 10:37 PM
2

Not gonna lie, that's a great point that I didn't think of. And yes, abundance mentality is one of the most important things, not just in game but in life in general. I lost my virginity via daygame and met a great girl who, even though we don't speak anymore, I still hold in high regard cause she was a genuine girl and very cute. Even though losing your virginity isn't that big of a deal, when I think back on it I think 'I'm glad I did it with someone who I actually liked as a person, and it wa…
/r/seduction06/05/18 09:54 PM
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You need to judge if this girl is in to you or not first. Check out some kino guides, it goes through each stage of kino, if she pulls back on a certain stage, stay on the previous stage for a while until she's more confortable. To be honest if you use the kino guide a massage won't be necessary, it transitions to sex.
/r/seduction06/05/18 08:19 PM
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Nah, although that's still a good thread to read. This one: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2isktg/newbie_assignment_14_daily_assignments_to_get/?utm_source=reddit-android
/r/seduction06/05/18 07:43 PM
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As long as you're still approaching other girls then I don't see a problem in keeping a light line on this girl. Just don't spend all night texting her when you could be doing something more productive. Girls can sometimes get off on wasting a guy's time.
/r/seduction06/05/18 06:57 PM
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Yeah I guess.
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:32 PM
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How attractive would you rate yourself? If you're like a 7 or above and you didn't spit any game on them then they were probably interested.
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:29 PM
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Don't listen to this guy about escorts, you'll regret it heavily. I busted my ass daygaming and eventually lost my virginity to a beautiful 21 year old, and so can you if you stick at it and approach.
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:25 PM
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Dont delve too deep into pickup research, just have a strong idea of daygame and nightgame basics and go out and employ them. The worst you can do is sit around reading all the theory and not applying it. Best way to lose your virginity is to approach and learn from your mistakes. If you have approach anxiety, there's a really good '14 exercises for approach anxiety' thread on this subreddit, search for it. If you want higher quality girls for an LTR then do daygame primarily, I'd advise against…
/r/seduction06/05/18 04:16 PM
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The reality is, when you first start approaching in a mall or street or anywhere that's not a club or bar; you're not gonna be a Don Juan, you're gonna be rusty, you will come off as nervous. The only way it can necessarily be creepy is if you're a creepy person with creepy motives. I get guys are attracted to girls and want to have sex with them, but portraying that when you first approach her will definitely come off as creepy. It's maybe not as socially accepted to approach during the day, bu…
/r/seduction06/05/18 02:25 PM
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Yeah okay you might be going out and 'failing', but how many guys actually have the balls to go out alone and approach? You can't be so hard on yourself. Solo game is REALLY difficult, I wish I could solo game like you man, you don't know how good you got it.
/r/seduction06/05/18 07:08 AM
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Just realise that it's completely normal for you to be shit again at pickup when you haven't done it in a while. It's the same as going to the gym, if you lift weights and get big (spend the time practising and getting good at game), but then not go back to the gym for a month and not eat enough, you'll lose all the muscle. However, there's muscle memory, which means when you go to build the muscle back up again, it will grow quicker. Same with game, you'll notice there are subtle things you'll …
/r/seduction05/05/18 08:30 PM
1

That sounds like it could be pulled off.
/r/seduction05/05/18 07:08 PM
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Firstly do some DayGame and texting research. What I've learnt is that it's a bad idea to want to meet up straight away via text, makes you look too thirsty. The absolute best way of setting up a date is to plant the seeds when you first approach her. A basic daygame model is: Approach, open, Assumption, stack, vibe, investment, close, or something to that effect. In the closing stage, that's when you need to get info on when she's next available. When she's invested into the convo and you've ha…
/r/seduction05/05/18 07:06 PM
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Good job team. Yeah don't let cunts ruin your night, just keep hustling and ignore them.
/r/seduction05/05/18 06:24 PM
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A true playa can easily drop a complicated woman because he knows he can easily get another girl within a few days. It really doesn't seem worth all the hassle.
/r/seduction05/05/18 05:50 PM
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Once a week is pretty standard to be honest.
/r/seduction05/05/18 05:36 PM
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Check out some DayGame videos on YouTube. Type 'DayGame beginner and you're bound to get some good ideas. The direction one is fine if you have approach anxiety, but eject once she's given you directions.
/r/seduction05/05/18 03:54 PM
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Dancefloor game isn't my thing at all for this exact reason. It's better to man up and talk to her when she's off the dancefloor (or on if you're badass enough lul)
/r/seduction05/05/18 01:02 PM
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I think you're on the right track. Keep learning, keep focused, just be consistent with everything. Don't put game as a priority over having a decent income though. Your own survival is key.
/r/seduction05/05/18 01:01 PM
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Lol that first sentence: you'd be surprised!!!! But yeah sure not every girl is going to like having her ass or necessarily her vag eaten, but I just do it anyway and the girls I've been with seem to like it. But each girl is different.
/r/seduction05/05/18 12:57 PM
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It can be risky, but it generally pays off. Girls like a guy that takes risks. The worst that will happen is she'll mumble 'nuh uh' when you tongue her ass, which means just lick her vag and leave the butthole. If she's okay with you massaging her ass on and off for 15 mins, then she's fine with you tonguing her vag at least. The key is taking small steps. Just lying her on her front then tonguing her ass like they do in the pornos isn't going to go over well, obviously.
/r/seduction05/05/18 12:11 PM
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You put too much pressure on her with the first text. The date request/statement whatever should be at least the 3rd text. You seem too thirsty if you want to get her out on the first text.
/r/seduction05/05/18 08:23 AM
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No one ever lies on their back for a massage... you simply give her a normal back massage whilst she's lying on her front and very slowly work your way down (I'm talking 15 mins so she's VERY relaxed and starting to get wet). Massage her thighs and calfs first and then work your way back up slowly to her butt, slightly pulling down her booty shorts or whatever she's got on, massage the bit you just uncovered (and when you have enough exposure, massage the side of her asscheeks with your knuckles…
/r/seduction05/05/18 08:16 AM
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Take babysteps. Learn how to game solo to begin with, this will help make friends and have lots of sex.
/r/seduction05/05/18 08:09 AM
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Don't go out with the other group of friends?
/r/seduction05/05/18 08:05 AM
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Well you've made the right decision by asking for help, that's the beauty of the internet. You've had a very difficult upbringing and you're going to need support on your journey. Are you able to have sessions with a psychologist in your country for free? If so, definitely start there. It will serve as a way to get your feelings out to someone who won't judge you.
/r/seduction05/05/18 07:08 AM
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Probably.
/r/seduction05/05/18 07:03 AM
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Wow you're like my idol, I've been thinking about starting my own business and being able to travel more. currently stuck in a 9-5 office job, pays well but would love to start my own online business. Any tips or good books to read or ways to find good business ideas? Can I ask what sort of business you run? And yeah maybe it's just a fleeting idea having children. They do definitely seem like a bad idea at times.
/r/seduction04/05/18 10:53 PM
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Tbh the only experience I have with North American girls are in the UK, but they seem way more social than British girls and my god they're like leagues above British girls in terms of looks as well. Maybe if I went to the US frequently it'd be different, but that's what I gather.
/r/seduction04/05/18 10:49 PM
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Solid advice. It's really simple, people: approach.
/r/seduction04/05/18 10:43 PM
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I'd say focus on yourself primarily, if you make girls the be-all, end-all you're gonna have a bad time. Think of it more as facing your fears, as a bonus you might meet a girl that you click with. What can you do tomorrow that you couldn't do yesterday because it was too scary? Did you perhaps pass on approaching a 10? Tomorrow, approach a 10. Then try 2 sets, 3 sets. See how far you can get our of your comfort zone, not for women, for yourself. The more you face fear, the more opportunities pr…
/r/seduction04/05/18 10:38 PM
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Thats great advice, but easier said than done. How'd you manage to do it? It's a place I want to get to, but isn't it difficult being around drunk people? How can you be as social or even more social than them?
/r/seduction04/05/18 10:22 PM
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You'll find cold approach a lot more efficient than any meetup will give you - although still go to meetups as it's simply an addon to your main way of meeting women, which should be cold approach. I've done a lot of wing daygame but not a lot of solo game so can't really give you a whole lot of advice as for me it's a totally different beast due to social state being essentially dead when you first get into the field. I guess if you feel nervous just do babysteps first, so maybe start with aski…
/r/seduction04/05/18 09:59 PM
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Good job man, I actually hope I'm where you are in 15 years. Although I would like to have kids when I'm older, but definitely not get married. The freedom you have at that age must be awesome.
/r/seduction04/05/18 09:54 PM
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Sweet, awesome that you're getting out and approaching. I'm still taking baby steps to up my confidence more so I'm not direct approaching yet but will be soon hopefully. On the eye contact thing, what's your method? Do you start eye contact from really far away and hold the eye contact until you pass? Or do you wait until they're close then give them eye contact and a cheeky smile?
/r/seduction03/05/18 07:49 PM
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Meh the whole valuable thing makes it seem like you're an object for a woman to make a bid on at an auction. That doesn't sit right with me. The best advice is to be the person you want to be. No, not the hero in your little MMO game you play or your favourite hero in the infinity war movie, I'm talking about YOU! Do things you've always wanted to do, create things, love things... And fuckin approach some girls you little pussy bitch.
/r/seduction03/05/18 07:46 PM
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East Asian girls are REALLY difficult to game unless they're heavily westernised (grew up in west from very, very young age/born there). They're super conservative.
/r/seduction03/05/18 07:36 PM
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With nightgame you can be a huge bullshit artist and easily get away with it because everyone is drunk. Even better is if you're not even drinking and you have to conjure the confidence from within. Literally say the most random excuse ever 'yeah my friend got stuck in the toilet taking a shit' with a serious look on your face if someone asks why you're alone. It's your reality, not theirs.
/r/seduction03/05/18 07:34 PM
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Hey, so you're already approaching? I'm starting to get into solo daygame approaching, do you just do a standard direct opener or what?
/r/seduction03/05/18 07:29 PM
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Coooool
/r/seduction03/05/18 07:27 PM
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