ViciousFrilledLizard Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Forcing your wife to provide sex on demand: An Example of Godly submission..... Nerd answer - are you retarded? The units remain unchanged. Use any damn unit you want.	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/12/15 04:52 AM
2	Red pill theory: When a male tattooist gives a female a tattoo, he is marking her as his territory permanently. Maybe her tat will be something inspirational like "I'm not yours, it's just your turn. --Walt A."	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/12/15 02:21 PM
2	Red pill theory: When a male tattooist gives a female a tattoo, he is marking her as his territory permanently. They'll desperately feed social media in a futile quest to backfill the expanding void.	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/12/15 05:47 AM
3	Red pill theory: When a male tattooist gives a female a tattoo, he is marking her as his territory permanently. You can always see it in their eyes.	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/12/15 05:36 AM
6	Red pill theory: When a male tattooist gives a female a tattoo, he is marking her as his territory permanently. What if I opened her eyes to the pointlessness and futility of life and all existence? You can't wash off nihilistic pallor.	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/12/15 05:28 AM
3	Red pill theory: When a male tattooist gives a female a tattoo, he is marking her as his territory permanently. What about a giant fucking stone monument, though? That could be pretty permanent.	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/12/15 05:19 AM
8	Red pill theory: When a male tattooist gives a female a tattoo, he is marking her as his territory permanently. More permanent than PTSD, you say...	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/12/15 04:10 AM
1	TRP nutrition guide, calories are not the same Oh man, don't go there. The mind-body problem fucks me up. I obsess over it.	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/12/15 02:26 AM
2	TRP nutrition guide, calories are not the same How many calories for that burn, though? I need to log it.	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/12/15 01:25 AM
2	TRP nutrition guide, calories are not the same How about you elucidate specifically how you determined your TDEE?	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/12/15 07:07 PM
2	TRP nutrition guide, calories are not the same Maybe you can build a perpetual motion machine while you're at it. Ok, lets get META here for a bit. Does the whole thermodynamics of the Matrix bother you at all? I mean why the fuck don't the machines just put solar panels in orbit? Where the fuck is the food coming from? But no they need human bodies for power? Why not something easier to handle like ferrets?	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/12/15 06:09 PM
3	TRP nutrition guide, calories are not the same Did you fail biochem? Because I'm pretty sure you failed biochem.	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/12/15 06:00 PM
2	TRP nutrition guide, calories are not the same Everything always fits inside the thermodynamics envelope. There is no free lunch. End of story. You don't know the roles of ghrelin, insulin, and leptin in fat loss any more than anyone does. It's the topic of active research.	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/12/15 05:54 PM
6	TRP nutrition guide, calories are not the same no homo, dude.^Not ^that ^there's ^any ^thing ^wrong ^with ^it. I mean, like you, I'm losing a pound a week while adding plates, so... currently fucking FAT The laws of thermodynamics are just feminist post-modern relativist lies, right? Such freaking morons in the manosphere ruining it for all educated men with their stupid luddite banter. Gibbs was pre-feminist and alpha as fuck and he's turning in his grave at this lunacy. "Oh, I'm not eating at a deficit but losing weight anyway" Well, what'…	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/12/15 05:12 PM
1	TRP nutrition guide, calories are not the same theultimatefad diet	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/12/15 04:33 PM
2	[FR] Didn't STFU This Time I read them all. Each and every one.	/r/askMRP	29/10/15 05:36 PM
-1	[FR] Didn't STFU This Time You seem have some romanticized revisionist history of the death of the nuclear family. The traditional nuclear family died when industrialization caused men to leave the house for work. Women stayed behind and took on additional roles in the house. As housework became more and more mechanized, women became idle and also left the house for work. It wasn't feminism that pulled men out of the house.	/r/askMRP	29/10/15 05:25 PM
-1	[FR] Didn't STFU This Time Mechanization destroyed the nuclear family. When women aren't employed at home they certainly shall go out and contribute to the family's economic well-being rather than sit around being lazybone freeloaders.	/r/askMRP	29/10/15 05:06 PM
-2	[FR] Didn't STFU This Time ☑ Shit tested by whinemoreplease	/r/askMRP	29/10/15 04:50 PM
2	[FR] Didn't STFU This Time Feminism's primary goal is not unhappy marriages, either.	/r/askMRP	29/10/15 04:27 PM
-6	[FR] Didn't STFU This Time I don't think anti-feminism works in your frame. A strong man is not anti-feminist. Your frame is strongly feminist and critical of the insurgent radicals. Thinking feminists are not anti-male. Many women and feminists are also very critical of the noisy radicals. Don't needlessly make enemies of friends. Even you are not anti-feminist--you encourage your wife to have a job. Expect a better feminism than the lazybones bullshit drama feminists from your women.	/r/askMRP	29/10/15 04:15 PM
2	Why is your Frame so Weak? I've been pondering "frame" intellectually for the last week or so. Searches generally bring "frame" up in the context of a cognitive bias. The semantic idea of "ego override" as used here sort of sat wrong with me because in Freud's structural model, ego is usually thought of as the mediator between the id and superego. The "frame" that's talked about here seems more like the "ego ideal" part of the superego. The goals of the TRP frame and the introspection really seems like it's about creating…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/10/15 02:25 PM
1	Owning your Romantic Nature I hope you realize that's an acknowledgement of one of the central pillars of feminism--that a women's comparative lack of agency and power forces her to live a reactionary life. Living in the moment is a luxury derived from power and status. If you lack power and agency then you must wait for the next thing. This is a forced dynamic, not intrinsic.	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/10/15 06:16 PM
1	Owning your Romantic Nature because it isn’t about her, it’s about you. When you generate your own happiness without expecting or needing anything from anyone else ... is pretty much exactly solipsism, isn't it? Pot, meet kettle.	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/10/15 06:02 PM
1	Owning your Romantic Nature Yes, I get that. What I'm trying to understand is this insistence that women are any less romantic than men and what grounds that assertion? Previously I thought I was able to trace a thread that it was based on the hunter/prey dynamic, but you're being pretty clear about rejecting that. Yes, I can accept that men are romantic. What exactly do you base the idea that women are less romantic on?	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/10/15 05:48 PM
1	Owning your Romantic Nature I didn't say women couldn't be romantic, they just aren't at that level as deeply or as frequently as men are. What you're calling "romance" is the male act of pursuit. Under that limited definition (which is not the standard meaning of the term), then you may be correct that men take action to pursue women to a greater extent than woman take action to pursue men. It is false to induce from this that women are less romantic because what you're observing is an artifact of the assumed redefinition…	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/10/15 02:25 PM
1	Owning your Romantic Nature At first the perspective that men are producers of romance and women are consumers of romance is appealing. But honestly this is idea that men are more romantic than women as a severe distortion. People are very romantic--everyone experiences and expresses emotion. Romantic expression can take many different forms. When a woman chooses to cook you a nice meal or bake your favorite cookies, that is a parallel romantic expression--be aware of the opportunity to acknowledge and receive her and cons…	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/10/15 01:52 PM
2	Should I stop initiating? Consensus is a politician's morality. "should" is an external perspective and lacks integrity. If you want to find what makes you happy and what makes you unhappy, you need to look inside. Only you can do that. We can give tactics and reflect what we see back at you like looking in a mirror, but you have to own strategy. You are your own eyes and beholder. Whether or not you accept "should" from TRP, MRP, TBP etc is the same mirage.	/r/askMRP	23/10/15 11:15 PM
2	Should I stop initiating? Maybe a role play? Discuss a fantasy you'd like to play out with her that involves her seducing you.	/r/askMRP	23/10/15 07:31 PM
4	Should I stop initiating? Let me put it this way: if your wife had a routine of initiating sex with you every night and then all of a sudden that just stopped, what train of logic leads you to "oh, it's all good, she's just not fucking me because she wants me to initiate once in a while"?	/r/askMRP	23/10/15 06:53 PM
2	Bluepiller with a question for BluePillProfessor I don't see anything from you in the Own Your Shit thread, cupcake.	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/10/15 11:12 AM
2	How to handle: Occasional Biting / Violent / Cruel Sexual Behavior from wife? OI? Shit Test? IDGAF? Have you and your wife tried something like http://mojoupgrade.com/	/r/askMRP	22/10/15 07:26 PM
1	[FR] Time to Pay Up! I've fallen out of the bittorrent loop and need to figure out the correct ways to use it now. My impression was that everyone uses private trackers now or something. Anyway for whatever reason google worked today so I have it. I was mostly wondering where the "legitimate" place to purchase it was nowadays.	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/10/15 06:41 PM
8	2/3 chase Rule vs Covert Contracts If you do then I will (unspoken) This is not a covert contract, this is conditioning. It's providing feedback for another person's behavior (the feedback could be either a reward or a punishment). A reward provided by another person is not possible with a covert contract. Covert contracts provide reinforcement on your own behavior in a way that in reality can only provide punishment. i.e. suppose you think: if I clean the kitchen, then I will get enthusiastic sex. You cannot actually provide thi…	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/10/15 06:28 PM
1	[FR] Time to Pay Up! Hmm. When I did that last week all the downloads had been pulled. But it worked when I tried again today. Google must have been PMSing. Thanks!	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/10/15 06:05 PM
2	[FR] Time to Pay Up! How do you customize the Clue Warning? Hamburger menu Reminders Select a reminder (e.g. open the "Period" reminder settings) Edit the message (e.g. edit the text "Your next cycle is about to begin")	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/10/15 04:49 PM
1	[FR] Time to Pay Up! /tangent-ish where do you find ligit SGM? All I can find are $150 used editions, the website seems to be dead. Link in sidebar is 404	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/10/15 04:25 PM
1	Discovered an anti-Red Pill Sub and had to post Hey now, is it manly to be illiterate and uneducated today? I can never quite tell. Technically the preferred terminology is "sexual dimorphism". It means that males and females take dramatically different physical forms. Like how male and female peacocks are dramatically different--the males are large and colorful whereas the females are small and camouflaged for nesting. My favorite example is the anglerfish. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anglerfish The male anglerfish basically is this tiny l…	/r/MarriedRedPill	21/10/15 07:21 PM
1	The problem is that men are fooled about feminism and so called feminists Is this surprising? All snowflakes can be the alpha of the pack simultaneously if they just apply themselves and work hard enough at having the worst people skills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/15 07:08 PM
2	Why does my libido suck? Are you on medications or in need of medications/therapy? It sounds like your doctors are trying to help you work on your medications to reduce the sexual side effects. Untreated psychiatric issues can also result in low libido (possibly reading too much between the lines here and this really isn't the place for this sort of support). I'd focus on what your doctors are advising.	/r/askMRP	21/10/15 01:17 PM
1	How much would you pay a month to not be married? No, I don't think they have any instincts about the legal institution of marriage per se. I do think that the legal institution of marriage was built to satisfy their needs. The errors of Marriage 2.0 are well-intentioned overreactions with horrible unintended consequences. It's a mistake to make the leap that the unintended consequences satisfy the woman's needs.	/r/MarriedRedPill	21/10/15 11:06 AM
1	How much would you pay a month to not be married? The whole divorce travesty is extremely new on the evolutionary scale. The evolutionary status are that divorced women are discarded and worthless. If you accept the red pill premise, the plausibility is zilch that women operate instinctively in a way that makes them feel more comfort outside of wedlock.	/r/MarriedRedPill	21/10/15 02:10 AM
2	XPOST: Found this on Deadbedrooms. Nice Guy documents his attempt to have sex with his wife mcsweeney's is a comedy website. My favorite is when they do Ayn Rand as Dear Abby. http://www.mcsweeneys.net/articles/ayn-randers	/r/askMRP	20/10/15 08:24 PM
2	How much would you pay a month to not be married? Why exactly do you think she's going to entertain having your children out of wedlock? Is this an actual thing that people actually do deliberately? I mean, I know ASD can be pretty elaborate, but... seriously? The only cases I've heard of are extremely successful women (where they're protecting their assets from the man). What part of the female body agenda makes you think this has a snowball's chance in hell? I'm dead serious, I'd love to read about this. You think your chances of visitation r…	/r/MarriedRedPill	20/10/15 06:33 PM
1	How much would you pay a month to not be married? Dread is fear of losing a marriage, you're playing peewee softball.	/r/MarriedRedPill	20/10/15 05:00 PM
2	How much would you pay a month to not be married? Are you sure dependents are included at no additional cost in your program? Because I've never had a job where that was true. Adding my wife to my plan costs me either $390/month (high deductible plan) or $480/month (HMO plan).	/r/MarriedRedPill	20/10/15 04:07 PM
6	How to avoid helicopter parenting? hawkishly "helping" them face any adversity the child experiences I agree with what you wrote but I want split a small hair here about "help". There is a nuance that is important. Helping them progress pass challenges is good if you do it correctly (it instills a sense of mastery). Helping them by shielding them from challenges is not good (denies opportunity for mastery). Helping them by removing consequences is not good (instills a false/incomplete/contingent mastery). When they've climbed too…	/r/RedPillParenting	19/10/15 09:31 PM
2	Track Your Wife's Cycle, seriously In the American market they found that women prefer to menstruate monthly even when on BC (periods provide feedback that they have not become pregnant). The European market is different and often they don't have the placebo week and don't menstruate.	/r/askMRP	18/10/15 06:43 PM
1	Track Your Wife's Cycle, seriously Which BC? I'm guessing not pills.	/r/askMRP	18/10/15 04:14 PM
3	Is it okay to divorce? You've been on this for 1.5yrs and yet all your logic is built around recent posts to these subs? Liar. Read the sidebar.	/r/askMRP	16/10/15 07:02 PM
2	Guy who rescued a deadbedroom after stumbling onto RP tactics is now angry and getting propositioned by hot young women I don't think that there's a deliberate agenda to lie about what women want. And I don't think this is new, either. The mystery of what women want predates the written recorded. As a species our brains have evolved a very adaptable platform that now relies on learned behavior. Once language took over, we could transfer vast amounts of learned behavior to the next generation. This is extremely evolutionarily successful because it replaces short-lived individuals with long-lived societies. Societi…	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/10/15 04:37 PM
1	My wife is....different. I would like to hear brutally honest opinions. Maybe your could pivot the rusting bobby pin into a prank. She finds in in the bottom of her coffee cup. She finds it in her toothbrush. She finally throws it away... But no it's back on her keyring. Basically it starts showing up in her space and she can't get rid of it.	/r/askMRP	15/10/15 06:03 PM
2	My wife is....different. I would like to hear brutally honest opinions. I don't know that abuse is the first place I would go here. She's described as very cerebral and in control of her lower brain. Her emotions are so well controlled that he cannot use them to manipulate her. Mostly I'm not sure what OP's goals are here. Does he want her submission, intimacy? Mostly it seems like his issue is that it takes a lot of his effort to access the wifely behavior he desires. But sexually he says she does respond. Obvious question is whether something disinhibiting like al…	/r/askMRP	15/10/15 02:54 PM
3	Opinions on "How do I make you feel loved" I think you need to re-read the body agenda section and understand how it plays out as game theory. Kay spells this out very well. The crux is that the unconscious female body agenda has not adapted to the modern environment and this leaves women with conflicting needs. These conflicting needs are satisfied by the incompatible alpha and beta male traits. Neither of these traits in isolation can satisfy the female body agenda. Women will not be satisfied long term with purely alpha traits nor pur…	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/10/15 10:17 PM
3	Literally started reading MRP two days ago and had to post this (my first post)... It's not like he was literally asking what day is was--checking the day/date is trivially answered that from the same phone he's using to text the question. It was an obvious setup for the "hump day" response.	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/10/15 04:55 PM
2	Reading Levels and You Translations are shortcuts. Read it in the original Latin.	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/10/15 12:46 AM
0	Reading Levels and You Why is making your own notes be a bad thing? Maybe if you don't understand what I'm writing you should take notes. Who is to say anything would be lost if it were? That's argument against using Cliff's Notes, dufus. Glad you're finally waking up.	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/10/15 07:29 PM
0	Reading Levels and You A lot of people have trouble with advanced English text for a variety of reasons. Some people should just put their nose to the grindstone. Some people do not speak English as their first language and can't follow sophisticated writing. Some have jobs that require them to read and edit text and are burned out on it by the end of the day. I'm not the one who asked for the cliff notes for WISNIFG, but my point is that an outline or notes can be very helpful for reading difficult texts--when OP ask…	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/10/15 06:40 PM
-1	Reading Levels and You Project much?	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/10/15 05:37 PM
1	Reading Levels and You Hey, I'm all for reading difficult texts, but don't pretend WISNIFG isn't couched in unwarranted intellectual veneer worthy of /r/iamverysmart. You're going to have to accept that it's a book with an important message but despite its writing. Read some fucking Faulkner or Joyce if you want to flex your literary muscle. Or read some fucking metaphysics or some postmodern criticism shit if you need a labyrinthine prose fix.	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/10/15 05:27 PM
1	Reading Levels and You Sounds like your literature teachers have worked you over well. Meanwhile psychologists and educators know better.	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/10/15 05:14 PM
-3	Reading Levels and You The action items you provided are exactly the intended use for Cliff's Notes. Only lazy idiot fucks think of Cliff's Notes as substitutes for the actual text. They're reading and comprehension aids, not replacements. That thread is just full of idiot sadists and masochists who don't understand this.	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/10/15 04:47 PM
3	CliffNotes version of WISNIFG? So, basically you're trying to guilt him into reading WISNIFG? :) The execution of that book is awful and in desperate need of a competent editor. It reads like hamster food.	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/10/15 09:26 PM
2	Advice needed, I can see what's happening, did I handle it OK? She's going through a life change and looking for comfort and validation of her emotional state. All you need to do is acknowledge that you hear what she's saying about her emotions and reinforce her good behaviors. That is to say, in the big picture focus on the fact that her overall actions (working full time) are what you expect of her and don't allow her words to bait you into derailing your plans. Do let her know her actions please you and that you are proud of her while acknowledging that …	/r/askMRP	07/10/15 11:06 AM
1	So I'm starting Athol Kay's MAP book... I'm not going to waste my time on vapid bullshit. If you have an argument to make, state it.	/r/askMRP	01/10/15 06:30 PM
1	Here's a good one: Wife wants printout of my Amazon purchases I think you can share prime without giving access to payment methods I believe this changed recently when Amazon overhauled Prime Households to include sharing of streaming benefits (prior to that prime households shared the shipping benefit, but only the primary account could access prime streaming). IIRC when Amazon added streaming to households, they also required sharing billing methods which caused a minor blogosphere tempest. Existing households had the option to continue with shared shipp…	/r/askMRP	01/10/15 06:25 PM
1	So I'm starting Athol Kay's MAP book... I don't follow how your qualification renders the measure useful?	/r/askMRP	01/10/15 06:09 PM
1	So I'm starting Athol Kay's MAP book... I use https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.zagalaga.keeptrackpro IIRC in the free version you can only have separate trackers and there is no scheduling. The pro version has the scheduled notifications and lets you set up groups of trackers (which then behave like forms). There are others, but keeptrack was the most flexible and feature complete when I was looking, and it exports easily.	/r/askMRP	01/10/15 04:29 PM
1	So I'm starting Athol Kay's MAP book... Frequency of unprompted blowjobs is a very indirect outcome. It's like evaluating your athletic training based on how often you medal at the olympics. From a self-improvement and behavioral feedback perspective it is not very actionable. It can be very motivational, however.	/r/askMRP	01/10/15 04:09 PM
2	So I'm starting Athol Kay's MAP book... You may want to look at /r/quantifiedself. For attitude there are a few approaches that can range from subjective ratings (think: the pain scale where you choose a smiley face that you feel matches your immediate state) to structured questionnaires (like the ones used to screen for mood disorders etc). I personally have my phone scheduled to pop up an end-of-day review questionnaire to record my behaviors etc.	/r/askMRP	01/10/15 04:02 PM
1	Here's a good one: Wife wants printout of my Amazon purchases Technical suggestions re: Amazon You can use the "archive order" feature to move things off the main order list. The order can still be found, but it's somewhere else. I use this to try and prevent accidental present spoilers. I'm not sure I'd show her the list, but if push comes to shove... You could share the account, but remove the payment methods you don't want her to use from the account. She could just never order anything directly and instead use an unlinked account to add things to a sha…	/r/askMRP	01/10/15 03:33 PM
0	Holy Shit... Am I Actually a Beta Bux? It's not necessary, means its not necessary. Pregnancy is always about access. It's quite a very big leap to read in that evolution cares one iota about female orgasm.	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/09/15 06:14 PM
2	Holy Shit... Am I Actually a Beta Bux? It is extensively documented in the serious scientific and medical literature. The quacky pop-psych crap/self-help industry sells a different story and will occasionally launch into science denials. It's part of the sexual insecurity mythos society/ad agencies push on men and women. Female orgasm is not necessary for reproduction so genetics doesn't give a shit.	/r/MarriedRedPill	25/09/15 03:10 PM
–	Sex technique - looking for an actual guide Keep doing random things Seriously? We're a bunch of STEMlords and the best we can come up with is random walk guessing? And if not, can't we gradient descent or anneal or something? Isn't there some sort of decision tree forest we can apply? There's no room for praxis or sex appreciation theory? Just some sort of outdated apprenticeship model? What is this the stone age?	/r/askTRP