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DebateVikklee/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:07 PM
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DebateVikklee/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:17 PM
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Question for RedPillVikklee/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:05 PM
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Would you love the woman if she weren’t a woman? No? Sorry, not unconditional then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:37 PM
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I’m very anti porn. They CAN get it for free. And way easier than they can get it paid. Onlyfans: find a creator, put in credit card information, make an account Pornhub: google it, click on it. I hate both.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:14 AM
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I actually do not think onlyfans is feminist at all. That’s a topic for another day, though. Women don’t like guys who pay other women for sexual things. It’s an odd thing to imagine anyone paying their hard earned money on things they can get for free under the guise of it being “personal”. It’s on the same level for me as men who pay for subscription porn (pornhub premium or whatever else there is)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:43 AM
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Part of human development is social interaction. Someone who purposely excludes themselves from interacting with their peers is cause for concern on a development and mental health front. It can be a sign of autism (which isn’t a bad thing) that should be caught early by teachers and parents in order to properly care for and support the child. Children who are quiet (especially in preteen-teen age groups) are often abused in some way or bullied, which is also cause for concern and should be also…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:10 AM
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Well teachers are not only responsible for grades, but also for ensuring emotional and physical well-being of a child. A child who keeps to themselves and never speaks (especially in high school) is a valid cause for concern. There’s nothing wrong with being quiet, but OP argued that we cannot be concerned about quiet kids while also wanting kids to be quiet in class. Which doesn’t make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 11:59 PM
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Loud and quiet aren’t the only options there. Having rowdy kids who don’t pay attention is bad. A kid who never speaks and has no friends which is the POLAR opposite is also bad. These statements can perfectly coexist. There is a healthy middle where a child has friends and speaks when prompted to, but does not act out in class. Youre assuming there are only two options, and therefore assuming that this is an impossible standard. It is a perfectly reasonable thing to want boys to pay attention i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:39 PM
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That’s not what he wrote at all. He is writing that people dislike one thing, and then when men do the other thing, people dislike that too. And that problem is entirely based on the fact that different people have different opinions that contradict one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:23 PM
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People can’t have criticisms unless EVERYONE else also shares their opinion!! No variance in opinions guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:43 AM
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How many feminists have you actually talked to that think male feminists are undesirable or weak?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:33 PM
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I understand what you mean. I think they’re wrong, but I can’t prove that. I can make as many sound arguments about psychology as I want, but nothing will change the minds of everyone else. I think it’s wrong, aswell, to legislate what adults do in their love life (as long as both parties ARE consenting adults).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:54 PM
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There are a lot of arguments against age gap couples, but nothing to prove they are “wrong”. We have a legal “adult” age where anyone is allowed to make whatever decisions they want in regards to their personal life. Plus, these relationships change as they age. Maybe 30 and 20, but one day they’ll be 60 and 50, and then it’s morally ok? I’m just saying it’s hard to draw the line between wrong and right on the behalf of other ADULTS. Legislating relationships between adults is how we ended up wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:52 PM
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It’s hard to really make certain kinds of relationships illegal without infringing on peoples freedoms. A child and an adult is pretty objectively bad in western society, but it’s not the same for most other age gaps. Weird, sure, immoral? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:40 PM
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It’s genuinely just having your significant other spend some time around your family and friends so they can come to a conclusion on whether or not your significant other is as good as you think For example: I dated a guy and thought he was pretty cool and brought him around my friends, and then afterwards every single one of my friends pointed out that he didn’t speak very nicely to them (their own conclusions, not as a group, not all of my friends even knew one another) and treated them like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:31 PM
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I wouldn’t mind. Especially if he has a past history of abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:24 AM
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I need to “take accountability” for watching bad stuff when I was literally 13? I wasn’t blaming friends. I was blaming Hollywood for pushing that stuff on young people. I don’t know why youre saying “most women” are okay with it. Just because the large voices on social media tell you something, does not make it true. Showing me a meme from an incel forum does not at all prove your point. “See I’m right!! Look at this meme!” I’ve seen that meme, and it’s not accurate. Which I would have been abl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:40 PM
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“You can’t refute it”… yeah? I admitted I was wrong. I did watch rape/abuse content as a young teen because my friends watched it and it was pushed on me and every other girl in that generation. I did NOT say I liked it. I did NOT say I would watch it again or that I agree with its contents. You want to push some weird opinion onto me that I think women can consume rape content. I don’t. I disagree with “booktok” and its glorification of rape. I disagree with movies or porn that women watch that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:29 PM
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I roll my eyes when people insist men ONLY think with their dicks. It’s not true at all. Men are just as capable of intelligent conversation and thought processes as a woman is. To insist that an entire gender is less capable than another for literal thinking and decision making is absurd. Men have the capability to be complex, deep, emotional, intelligent, mature, etc. Theyre not just sex machines that get by until the next time they can have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:26 PM
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Literally. This guy did not understand my point at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:20 PM
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This is not the “gotcha” moment you think it is. It’s not a double standard for me to misremember a movie I saw literally 7 years ago. Sure, 50 shades of grey is bad. So what? Do you have another point to “prove” me wrong, or is this it? I said a LOT in my response, and the only thing you could come up with is some weird trick question? I’m willing to wager that you don’t ACTUALLY care about the depiction of assault in that book and youre just using it as a tool to say “haha woman have double st…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:20 PM
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Because it’s easy to miss the signs of abuse when you’re in love. It’s easy to excuse behavior when it’s all seen through rose tinted glasses. Having your friends and close family members “vet” a man is just a safety precaution. A lot of family members and friends see red flags before you do by a LONG shot. There have been times where my friends or family have brought a man around who everyone got a weird vibe from, and then a couple months later they break up because he was awful. Women are als…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:12 PM
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This example is used a lot. I do not agree with the content in 50 shades, but it is NOT abuse or rape in any way. Consensual bdsm is not my cup of tea, but it is not wrong. If two adults want to consensually beat the crap out of eachother I do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:08 PM
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I would voice my opinion, but there’s nothing I could do to stop somebody who sees no problem in it. I would have to gauge whether or not the porn consumption and its contents is a dealbreaker for me. There would be a difference between a porn addict and just a guy who uses it once in a while to jerk off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:22 PM
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I see both of those on the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:25 PM
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Don’t women watch more noncon? Maybe, I don’t care. I don’t, and I don’t want my man watching it. I draw the line at girls in pigtails or braces. I don’t care if I “misunderstand” incest porn. I don’t think women watch more scat and blood porn at all. I’m okay with kinks as long as they aren’t violent or predatory. I am allowed to not want to date somebody who consumes that material, thats not imposing my views on my partner, I just want to date people who share my moral views.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:20 PM
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If a guy watches porn that clearly depicts “noncon” or abuse against women I do not want to date him or be around him. If a guy watches “teen” porn or any porn with actresses that are supposed to be childish I do not want to date him or be around him If a guy watches incest porn I do not want to date him on the sole reason that I do not want my future children around somebody who clearly gets off to the idea of being with family members If a guy watches scat or blood porn I will just think he is…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:15 PM
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I actually am not distrusting. I’m in one of those marriages where my husband is the sole provider. I trust him fully. I was just explaining the reasons where somebody might want to have financial freedom in a relationship. I also don’t have a problem with men doing prenups or paternity tests in general, but I would be offended if my husband had no indication of me being disloyal and asked for a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:51 PM
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If you depend on another person for everything, you will have nothing without them. If they abuse you or cheat on you, what will you do? If you leave, you have nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:32 PM
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Thats not true at all. Men are much deeper than just sex addicts. They need more than just “getting laid” to be happy. Isolation isn’t good for anyone. Humans are not just animals and depend on multiple types of companionship to be loved and supported and fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:24 PM
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I don’t think it would be beneficial to men’s mental health AT ALL to provide them with a reason to be isolated constantly and still have “company”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:44 PM
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Amen to that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:57 AM
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Why is being a simp a bad thing? aren’t “simps” just happy guys who love their partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:34 PM
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No I understand the point of the message. It’s just incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:22 PM
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That is not at all womens biggest problem LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:10 PM
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I don’t think you understand what humanism is. Anti humanism is not at all anti humans lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:50 PM
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So if you want monogamy, why follow rp or the example of fboys? Wouldn’t that teach you to go after casual sex. Doesn’t rp teach that the indicator of your value is the volume of sex you get? I feel like that contradicts your desire for monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:27 PM
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That makes sense! Thank you for explaining. I appreciate it!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:23 PM
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Humanism would insist that every person has the capability to deny their nature and be the best version of themselves. I assumed anti humanism because of the “taught some BS about people being good” which would infer that people are not good. I think animalism or whatever is also a term for humans basically just being advanced animals whose actions are driven by nothing but animal instincts. Idk if that’s true or If im remembering wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:14 PM
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Thank you for answering! That makes sense. I think that a lot of redpill ideology is very logic based, whereas opposing ideas are typically more emotion based. I appreciate your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:01 PM
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That makes sense. How do you feel as a woman about how a lot of people twist the redpill into a woman hating club? I imagine I would have a hard time identifying with a group that allows such behavior, but I know all people are different. Do you feel criticized when people attack the redpill because of this behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:59 PM
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Well selfish doesn’t mean bad or evil. It just means they think for themselves. It’s a selfish act to have children because you want them (since the world doesn’t need population) but having kids isn’t a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:47 PM
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Yep! Just personal preference. I love being married and wouldn’t trade it for any kind of individual freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:36 PM
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I think the only downside is the fact that you have to share everything now. When you’re the only pilot, everything is the way YOU want it. Your house? decorated the way you want. Your time? Spent the way you want. Your money? Goes all to wherever you want it to go. When you get married, you get a copilot. Every decision and space becomes shared. Your house? You have to compromise on decorations and location. Your time? You now have an obligation to spend it with someone else a lot of the time. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:32 PM
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So it’s just anti-humanism? The belief that all people are selfish and bad and there’s nothing we can do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:24 PM
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I just think you should date people with beliefs that match yours. If you are dating a religious woman, you won’t have to worry about those things. If you want to date girls that wear revealing clothes and club, go ahead, but you have to be okay with that You can’t change anyone’s morals or interests to be more like yours. That’s controlling. If you want a woman who does not do those things, then find a woman who does not do those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:36 PM
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This isn’t really an unpopular opinion. Most people older than 18 have the same thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:09 PM
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Alrighty pal, sure thing bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:12 AM
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I’m also late gen z (19) and they DO teach this. Maybe not for you, because you’re a man. Different experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:58 AM
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We are taught to be kind to our partners. Literally my whole life I have been told how to act according to what men like. It has been instilled in my brain to be a submissive wife since I was like 8. Don’t be too loud, men don’t like that Don’t be too opinionated, men don’t like that Have lots of sex with your husband or you will get cheated on Keep your house sparkling clean at all times if you want to please your husband Ask your husbands permission before changing your appearance or wearing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:21 AM
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Also typically you can tell by what somebody is saying how educated they are, and a lot of times their level of speech does not match their education level apparent by their point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:50 AM
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Well the whole post starts with a quotation mark, which could be a mistake, but more likely somebody left it in when copying it from chat gpt. The dashes too, very obvious. Some people actually use them, but I doubt the day-to-day Redditor is educated enough to use them perfectly. They also used a lot of big words and wrote it in a way the average person most likely would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:46 AM
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It’s a little ironic to use chat gpt to write your post about anti technology
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:53 PM
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I think women are great leaders. I just think they aren’t able to go as far as men a lot of the time because they’re fighting their nurturing nature to succeed. You can’t be kind to everyone and run a successful company or political campaign. I think a lot of women are able to do it, but I don’t think it’s comes as easily as it may to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:57 PM
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That doesn’t apply to job titles. I think anyone if they really put their mind to it can do most things, but there are just biological differences that make certain things easier for one gender or another. I could not hold a manual labor job like almost every man could. I’m sure some women can, but they’re at a major disadvantage. Men and womens bodies are so different and made for different tasks. Women are biologically weaker. Our bodies are simply not made for back-breaking labor. Men typical…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:44 PM
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No not at all! We just have different strengths and weaknesses. I could never do everything a man could do, and men could never do everything women can do. Real equality is understanding we are both different and celebrating those differences and how they work together to function in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:34 PM
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There are plenty of differences between men and women. Our bodies are simply built differently. Our personalities too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:43 PM
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I don’t know how often that happens, though. I don’t think I’ve ever met anyone who has ever complained of that issue. Not that it doesn’t happen, but this thread is the first time I’ve ever heard about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:20 AM
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It’s not apathetic to say that women have bigger issues than men do. I’m not saying men don’t have issues, I’m saying that women have bigger ones. Nobody sees men as the inferior gender in most capacities (minus the random tiktoker or twitter user). Foreign events meaning that women in other parts of the world are rapidly losing rights. They literally are not allowed to SPEAK in public. There has NEVER been a time in history when men are discriminated against based on gender. There has NEVER bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:40 PM
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Until you have to live your life knowing nobody will take you as seriously as they take somebody of the opposite gender, I don’t want to hear about sexism. I’m sure men face sexism, and it sucks! Sexism sucks for everyone. I just don’t think you understand what it’s like to be a woman at all. I don’t think you understand what the world is like as a woman. It’s also incredibly tone deaf considering recent foreign events.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:25 PM
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Growing up with parents who don’t love one another is extremely damaging to a child. It’s not really much better than having divorced parents. Your parents are the first time you see love. They are the model for how you think relationships should be and work. I know so many people who grew up with parents that argued constantly and they usually ended up marrying or dating people who they argue with constantly. Raising kids is hard. You need teamwork to do it and that cannot be done when your tea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:36 PM
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I don’t think men having lower standards means they love unconditionally. Would they love those women if they weren’t women? That’s a condition. Would they love those women if those women abused them horribly and cheated on them relentlessly? Most wouldn’t, thats a condition. Would they love those women if the woman never left the house and sat around the house all day watching TV and was 600 pounds, maybe a couple men would, thats a condition. I think you’re misunderstanding what unconditional …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:25 PM
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Now where are you getting this information? I’m pretty sure every psychological study ever done would disagree with you. Humans genuinely do not love unconditionally. It’s not how people work. Men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:50 PM
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How exactly are men capable of unconditional love and women aren’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:31 PM
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Humans are not capable of unconditional love. I’m sorry to tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:48 PM
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My grandparents slept in separate bedrooms because my grandmother liked white noise and my grandpa couldn’t sleep with it (He also snored but they never admitted that was also a factor). I love sleeping in the same bed as my husband, but i think when we get older if we started to snore each others ears off to the point of sleep deprivation, we would definitely sleep in different rooms. I think it would make your partner more of a commodity and it would be more exciting to see one another every m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:32 PM
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Why should I care? I’m sorry I do not care about your sex life in any capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:13 PM
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I’m married and have a loving husband who treats me well. The most common themes I see are: Young men with no experience in life who seem completely brainwashed by the incel or black pill communities online. They seem so assured that there is no hope for them and it’s depressing to see. Youre 17, please go out in the world and make some of your own experiences instead of basing your worldview and self confidence on what the other men (or some toxic woman influencers) say. And people asking quest…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:04 PM
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Your head is so far up your own rear that you cannot accept any perspective but your own
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:31 PM
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Just because somebody loves you does not mean you owe them a relationship. Also three matches on a dating app is not love, it’s just people who found you interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:31 PM
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I don’t think I would want to be with somebody who isn’t cheating simply because they’re afraid of the law. I want the person I’m with to not cheat because they’re afraid of losing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:45 PM
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Lots of options doesn’t mean they’re all set for life. Guys on social media or dating apps often are looking for hookups or flings. I would rather three kind men match with me than 300 fuckboys,
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:14 PM
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What viewpoint makes it make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:23 AM
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Anyone who watches an interview with Ted bundy would understand just how charismatic bad people are
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:42 AM
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I think your fan fiction could do with some paragraph spacing. I would recommend better character dialogue. 6/10
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:39 AM
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So all of the hot men (20 percent) are being taken up by the hot girls and the below average girls? The math doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:31 PM
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I don’t really care what other people are into. I don’t think that’s realistic at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:17 PM
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That’s not even what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:01 PM
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Physical attraction is important, yes. It’s a bold take to tell me what I find most important against my own words.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:32 PM
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I didn’t even have the term “high value man” in my radar until the Andrew tate bros started spewing it everywhere. A high value man for me has always been somebody who would take care of me and be a good father to future children. That’s literally all I ever thought about in terms of dating and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:47 PM
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I used to be from California where everyone was extremely influenced by Hollywood and LA (which were very close to where I lived) the beauty standards were outrageous and you didn’t really see many average or below average people. The more average and below average people didn’t really have much of a chance and the majority of them were obsessed with becoming more attractive. Everything was about looks. Plus the cost of living there is so high that everyone is also extremely wealthy (or homeless…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:45 PM
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When I moved from one coast of the US to another, the dating scene and just people in general changed drastically. I’m sure my experiences as a neurodivergent woman might be different than a neurotypical woman’s experiences aswell. It’s hard to get people to agree on things when everyone’s lived experiences are so different. People see life through the lens of their own life and it’s very hard for us to see it any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:24 PM
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It’s almost like people date who they like, regardless of what “league” theyre in. What a shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:28 PM
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Even if you’re standardizing yourself out of the gene pool, it’s still a you problem. If somebody genuinely has standards that are unreachable then that is entirely on them when they are alone in the future. I don’t see the point in being upset at them for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:14 PM
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You have to be delicate, or they’ll take it as an excuse to hate women and then the problem will only become worse. They’re really the snowflakes they accuse women of being.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:46 PM
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Most women I know who have been “radicalized” have done so after watching themselves and every woman they know go through awful things at the hands of men, and then go home and watch men do even worse things to children and one another. It’s hard not to be afraid and want things to change. Some people just take it too far and lose sight of the point. Before I get attacked, I’m not saying all men are this way. I’m saying enough of the men in the world are this way for there to be a major issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:13 PM
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And I’m not sure any man would be happy knowing the woman he is with “lowered her standards” (settled) for him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:35 PM
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Haha well there’s a reason car insurance is often more expensive for younger people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:28 PM
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I think the only chance for society at this point is an EMP. Unfortunately that will not happen so we gotta stick with all this crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:43 PM
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Honestly I think the whole “looksmaxxing” thing actually made sense. Sometimes all you need to be hot is a good haircut, wearing clothes that work for your body type, being well groomed, and getting a skincare routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:41 PM
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An 18 year old with a prefrontal cortex that is not fully developed is not going to have a healthy relationship with somebody who is 30. The prefrontal cortex is responsible for decision making and impulse control. 25 people literally do not have the full cognitive capabilities that a 30 year old would have. When people shit on age gaps it’s usually because the older party is in a part of their life where it doesn’t make sense to be with somebody fresh out of high school or college with no life …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:37 PM
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People who are delusional and immature will be very outspoken about that. It’s also social media. Social media amplifies the voices of the most extreme sides of everything. Nobody wants to watch regular people talk about opinions, that’s boring! All of the controversial opinions go viral because it’s exciting. Don’t believe the women you see on social media and don’t think they represent the female gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:28 PM
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So you want women to settle, and yet you will not give a “below average” woman a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:24 PM
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Totally. It can feel frustrating to feel like you can never measure up. As long as you don’t turn that frustration into anger and hatred, it’s okay!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:22 PM
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Who is they?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:21 PM
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I’m not surprised at all the dating market is shit, actually. Have you looked at the recent generations of people? We are all shitheads with dopamine addictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:09 AM
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Do you truly think telling people what kind of person they want to be with will work? Do you think shaming men and women for liking certain traits is going to work? There is no solution for this except acceptance. We have to move on with our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:06 AM
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Those women do complain they don’t get good men, youre right. That’s their own fault. See what I’m getting at? I’m literally agreeing with you here man. Some people have too high of standards and set themselves up for failure. It’s not our responsibility to be upset about those standards on their behalf though. I cannot tell another person what they should want or aim for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:59 AM
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It isn’t a problem. I think you’re misunderstanding the point. It’s okay to be upset you didn’t fit somebody’s standards, it’s not okay for you to expect them to lower those standards to fit you. I think you’re so set on telling yourself I’m a bitter and radical woman instead of listening to what I have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:57 AM
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If a man rejects me on the basis of my appearance, he is missing out. The guys aren’t worth my time simply because I won’t waste my time being upset about it. I cannot force anyone to love me. Not worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:35 AM
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I don’t complain. I have been rejected before on those and that’s okay. Sure it hurts but it’s not going to make me hate men. Those were shallow men not worth my time. I’m married to a man now who fits all my standards with no issue and I fit his.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:27 AM
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I do still stand by that. Men are entitled to their standards just as women are. If those standards are unrealistic, then those men will die alone. If a man ever rejected me on the basis of “too fat/ugly” I would probably be relieved he was honest and move on. Sure, it would hurt, but it really shows me that man is not worth being upset over. Shallow people exist and there’s nothing we can do to stop it. It’s their own downfall, not ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:19 AM
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Also, it does apply. Men who only want a blonde bikini model will probably end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:59 AM
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Unrealistic beauty standards don’t mean MEN have unrealistic standards. Hollywood is genuinely unrealistic. Those actresses and actors spend thousands if not millions on beauty treatments. Those are not fair standards to have to compare yourself to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:59 AM
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So what was the point of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:32 PM
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So what do you think women are supposed to do to fix this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:28 PM
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That end part is… crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:22 PM
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I have bigger issues on my plate than arguing extremists
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:47 PM
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Give me such date points then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:06 PM
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I’m not here to argue about plus size people you told me that it was unfair there was no movement for men and I told you men should start one if they feel a need for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:32 PM
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I don’t think it matters. Womens standards have become “inflated” because they no longer need men to survive in the world. Marriage and relationships are for pleasure. People who are starving don’t care what they eat, people with lots of food are very picky. When something is for pleasure, youre entitled to choose something that pleases you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:29 PM
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Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:25 PM
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I think everyone is entitled to their own standards, even if the standard is “only purple people with three heads!”. Like, that’s a THEM issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:25 PM
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The plus size movement isn’t for men to lower their standards, it’s plus sized women wanting to feel represented and beautiful. If you want men’s plus size movements, men have to start that. Just as women pushed for their representation, men should too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:24 PM
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Social media and the news is literally created to amplify the worst of everyone. Why would anyone want to watch a news program where reasonable people say reasonable things? That’s boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:20 PM
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There will always be sects of people who hate literally everything men do, but they don’t speak for everyone. I don’t think men have unrealistic standards and the ones who do, end up alone. Ive always found the complaint to be that men stick their wang in everything (not true)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:14 PM
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It’s perfectly okay to be sad and upset about not having a relationship. It is NOT okay, however, to “cope” with that by radicalizing to a movement that centers around anger. It is NOT okay, however, to spend your time online harassing women or generalizing every single one because of some bullshit statistics the redpill throws around. It is NOT okay to turn your loneliness into fuel against an entire gender. I feel bad for lonely men, I do, the dating scene nowadays sucks. It’s truly unfortunat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:38 PM
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It’s objectively bad because of it’s affects on the consumers brains and the exploitative nature of the content and the making of it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:05 AM
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Well because porn is objectively bad, whereas books can be debated
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:22 PM
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They’ll spew that “fact” forever. No amount of logic or reasoning can change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:47 PM
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I am of the belief that nobody is permanently suitable or unsuitable. I think maybe 1% are unsuitable completely, but not permanently so. I think every single man in that category could become suitable if they were to groom themselves, get a job, or become a happier and healthier person. I’ve seen women I know date men who are stinky, unhealthy, lazy, treat her badly, have no job, and live in a pigsty and still manage to find a girl to date. I am not sure ANYONE is beyond help (subtracting maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:46 PM
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This isn’t a debate. You saw one or maybe even TWO women do this (or some TikTok or street interview) where this is true and ran with it. There’s no way you can logically think that all women, or even the majority, would do this. How stupid and shallow do you think women are?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:30 PM
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This is so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:55 AM
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Public transportation: girls are safer together and are usually more physically intimate because they trust and care for eachother Wedding day: dresses are very hard to put on and NEED assistance, suits are not. My husbands friends were in the suite with him but my husband didn’t need help. I definitely needed help and most women do. Hand holding: women are more physical with their love languages. Again, if they’re straight, why does it matter? Women going clothes shopping together: girls just l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:39 PM
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I think in high school, but those were literally children. Once everyone grew up it was different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:27 PM
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Since the beginning of time men and women have NOT had it equal. It’s not just responsibilities either. There are still countries where women can’t even get an education legally. There has never been a time where men have had to fight for a right that women have. There are countries where women aren’t allowed to speak, educate themselves, or be SEEN. Violence against women that goes unpunished even in western countries is extremely prevalent. There were times in America where women couldn’t wear…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:19 PM
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Well because obviously it’s okay for THEM to be “lookist” but GOD FORBID women do it too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:04 PM
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I think you’re around just one particular type of people all day at the gym and that might be skewing this a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:00 PM
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That’s not in the girl code at all, but some groups of women might do it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:22 PM
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In all social movements, there will be people who misunderstand the point of the movement and go their own way. This often gives the original movement a bad name and discredits everyone who identifies with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:14 PM
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Well i would think that feminism benefits men in some ways too. A challenge on gender roles also has helped men who don’t like them and pave way for men’s own movements surrounding gender roles. Feminism has also been involved in the lgbt community and their rights and that would also include men. I’m not totally sure whether the term means that feminism helps men too, or that men can be feminists. But both are true in my eyes!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:16 PM
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I’m saying that it’s true. It’s not just for women. I just sensed your next statement would be about how if men have to defend women why don’t women have to defend men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:34 AM
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Well recently there have been more and more princesses, but not everyone grew up with those princesses. The main 4-5 of them are what I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:06 AM
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It’s completely okay to want to protect groups of people outside of your own. Historically, women needed men on their side to help get rights at all because we held absolutely no positions of power. Also, regardless of gender or affiliation, it’s only right to speak up about injustices when you see them. If men ever lose any of their rights I will speak up for them, just like I expect men to do the same for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:05 AM
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I don’t mind Disney movies, but a lot of them at that exact way. Aurora, Snow White, and cinderella were the ones that a lot of people grew up with since Theyre all from the same era. They all are about copy paste versions of eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:56 PM
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When you’re taught your purpose in life is to attract a Prince Charming, would it not be considered a failure on your part if anything less than Prince Charming was your option? I’m not saying all women think this way, or that I do, I’m saying in the cases where women are disgusted (which only really happens on social media) there could be underlying reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:03 PM
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I would be okay with losing sex, I wouldn’t be okay with losing relationships or other physical intimacy. Sex is just the cherry on top of a happy relationship and it’s not necessary for me to be happy or feel fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:31 PM
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Women are taught from a young age that their worth ties to what men think of them. “Be kind, men like that” Disney princesses all acting the same (docile, gentle, beautiful, not very opinionated) and therefore getting the prince While boys were fighting eachother on the playground, adults were asking young girls about boys or calling us “heartbreakers” Movies and TV often only depicted female characters in relation to male characters. (The best example for me is Padme from Star Wars. Beautiful, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:19 PM
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I’m old school feminist. I don’t believe in hating men, I don’t believe in overthrowing every man centered space, I don’t think sex work or porn is empowering, I don’t think men and women are equal physically, etc. people don’t call themselves feminist as much anymore because the second I tell somebody I’m a feminist, they think of the “kill all men” feminists and I lose all credibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:35 AM
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I always try to speak out against injustices when I see them. Circumcision is mutilation Women should not have more lenient sentencing for the same crimes Men’s mental health needs to be addressed Etc However, it’s not my responsibility to fight for these things. I will always advocate for them when brought up in discussion, but my responsibility ends there. I’m a feminist, my passion lies in protecting women and advocating for them. It is not feminisms job or womens jobs to help men solve their…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:31 AM
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I think all relationships do this. People tend to change how they act around certain people. People also adapt qualities or mannerisms of people they spend a lot of time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:48 PM
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I think a lot of feminists go a little wild and forget the purpose of feminism. It would have been better to pressure the Girl Scouts to change, but that’s not what happened. This does not prevent men from having their own spaces though. There is nothing stopping them from forming new groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:54 PM
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Well that is a really sad example and it’s unfortunate that happened. This could have been negated, however, if the Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts did the same activities. People wanted girls to be able to join Boy Scouts because Girl Scouts sucked. Where boys went to fun camps and learned to tie ropes or use Swiss Army knives, Girl Scouts was more focused on sewing, cookie selling, and a lot of gentle activities. People also disagreed with them because they were teaching little girls political ideo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:37 PM
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Yes but when reading those books you can’t actually see them. When they’re described as handsome it’s literally just a word on a page. If women were into those men because of their looks, it would be a little silly to read a book in the first place because there are no pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:52 PM
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Literally nobody prevents men from having male centric spaces? Maybe somebody will say something mean about it but it’s not prevented in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:51 PM
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Have you watched/read twilight or 50 shades? Both of these make love interests are literally obsessed with the FMC. Edward goes to extreme lengths to protect Bella and literally can’t be around her because he loves her too much. Women are definitely NOT into Edward because he is hot. He literally looks like a corpse and glitters like a disco ball.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:36 PM
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It’s a little different when men make fictional girls with hugs tits and ass with a small waist, as opposed to women writing about men who will treat them well and protect them. I understand the point that all genders like to make fictional characters that they desire, but I think it’s a little different in most cases. For example, female comic book characters often are scantily clad and have little to no character development other than romance with a male character. There are exceptions to thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:29 PM
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I agree with this, however it’s okay to be sad about being lonely. It’s just not okay when they begin to feel angry and attack others online. People will always wallow in self pity, we can’t change that. It’s just kind of sad when they get so caught up in their victimhood that they spend all their time online complaining about not getting laid instead of changing it. Even going so far as to become a “volcel” and join online hate forums dedicated to saying vile things about women. The original ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:08 PM
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50/50 only financially is not 50/50. House chores and cooking are literally a full time job. I am not working full time AND being a housewife. If men think 50/50 means only that they both work, then that is not fair literally at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:29 PM
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Women don’t hate 50/50, they hate men who say that because they don’t want to pay for dates or provide but also aren’t willing to do 50 percent of cleaning, cooking, and raising children. This turns into: both the man and the woman work, but when they come, the man sits down and relaxes, while the woman cooks and cleans. I’ve seen this dynamic in real life so many times and it’s so sad. Women are usually ok with 50/50 as long as there’s a guarantee that the man will also be doing 50 percent of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:51 PM
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Have you ever been tested for autism? I don’t mean that in a mean way, there’s nothing wrong with that. I’ve found that women always know there’s something just a little bit off about me. Guys are typically easier for a lot of autistic women to befriend because they don’t really care if you’re weird. Just so you know, a lot of women also don’t care. I had your problem too but I was just befriending the wrong women. I was able to make friends when I sought out other kind of “outlier” women. This …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:19 PM
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I love when women support women. You’re the best. Hope you have a good day!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:12 PM
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My biggest issue now is not making it too bland because I’m the kind of person who will eat Mac and cheese everyday for two months and he is more of a well seasoned steak and potatoes man. I have to learn how to season things and not suffocate him in garlic LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:06 PM
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I never used to do it, because I have a chronic illness that makes it hard for me to stand for long periods of time. My husband and I had a lightbulb moment where we realized that I can pull up a chair at the stove and sit. Because of this, I only recently started to cook and learn how to. I make a killer grilled cheese but that’s about it. I enjoy it and want to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:01 PM
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I’m not a man but I am in a traditional marriage. I suck at cooking. We negate that by cooking together since he enjoys cooking and I want to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:55 PM
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I am not entirely sure how your point disproves or even disagrees with mine. Do you mind elaborating a bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:59 AM
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Biologically yes, but societally no. We as humans (at least in modernized civilizations) have moved past our basic primal urges. Humans are also biologically selfish and flawed, but what sets us apart from other wild animals is our intelligence that allows us to deny our nature. Humans are intelligent and privileged enough to be more than just animals who succumb to urges or do whatever they see fit. Sex is like this, in my opinion. Sex is for reproduction, but has now become about human connect…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:58 AM
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How will you know that unless you try? How would you know you’ll never achieve it unless you persevere? What are humans if not resilient and known to chase after the things they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:43 AM
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Well I wasn’t concerned about the robots feelings in any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:25 PM
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I don’t think most people would be comfortable with their partner being with a sex robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:24 PM
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I don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman complain about rape culture when men wear tight clothes. I don’t think that makes any sense. Wear what you want, if you wear anything that makes people upset then that’s your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:44 PM
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Yes, but those people will never move on to having real sex then. Plus, you don’t think people in sexless or miserable relationships will convert to sex robots? If you look at the comments under videos showing female robots it’s very obvious a lot of men love the idea of having one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:34 PM
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Sex is something primal I agree, but as a society we have moved past being animals. In a world where there is absolutely no shortage of people, there is no urgency to reproduce except for pleasure and the desire to have a family. I am also religious, and pretty old fashioned about sex. And you’re right, the world has already been replacing lots of human connection with a digital counterpart. And it sucks. People are more depressed than ever. There is genuinely a giant mental health crisis right …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:32 PM
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Bold assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:27 PM
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Does the study show the men became more feminist AFTER having more sex? Because this could very well show that women prefer men who respect them, rather than showing that men are biased because they get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:48 AM
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Nope it’s not me personally being comfortable. Not everything in life has to be convenient and readily available. I am all for people being happy, but not at the expense of others. You truly don’t think sex robots being the norm will affect society in any negative way?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:47 AM
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This solution may bring people comfort, but I don’t believe that comfort should be given at such a high potential cost
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:45 AM
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You can’t, but you’ll never search it out or improve to get it if you don’t have to put in all that effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:02 AM
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That’s very true. Both sexes are capable of that. I’m just unsure how many men OR women would be against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:01 AM
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I don’t know if lonely people is something we can ever fix. There will always be those who never marry. It’s sad and unfortunate but I dont think there’s an ethical solution to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:53 AM
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Well why would husbands stay with their wives when they could have a cheaper, more conventionally attractive, always willing, version? I don’t know if I can confidently say I know many men who would choose their wives over a robot who never tells them no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:49 AM
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History has never been a pretty place. I don’t think something being historically common means it should be acceptable now. There are reasons why these things aren’t normal or accepted anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:47 AM
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This is such a bizarre question. Of course finding out my husband lynched people would be worse than if he cheated on me. I don’t know why youre assuming that women would think the opposite? Both offenses are relationship-ending though and I don’t think it matters beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:41 AM
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I mean this in the nicest way possible, the idea of this is terrifying. We are describing replacing intimate human connection with automation/technology. Sex is a beautiful and sacred act between two people and turning it into some commodity that can be bought and sold is strange to me. Maybe I’m old fashioned. You say that shelter, water, and food needs are solved with infrastructure, and that therefore means that sex should also be? Sex is not a basic human need or right. It is a pleasure. hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:39 AM
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If redpill is so motivating and understanding, why are all of the redpill guys so angry even after consuming all of the guides and tutorials? How come I don’t see many guys with success stories but see a LOT of redpill guys who are still stuck in the loop of “woe is me”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:20 PM
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I don’t think it’s productive at all to place the blame on others for your failures. It completely halts any self growth. The redpill seems to teach men that all of their misery and anger is the fault of society and women instead of motivating them to overcome this anger. Nobody will ever improve if they play the blame game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:16 PM
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Prostitution isn’t safe for women and never will be. In countries where it’s legalized and “regulated”, the majority of sex workers report being abused and wanting to leave the industry. It’s a predatory industry that is fueled on women in desperate circumstances who will endure abuse and diseases to provide for themselves and their families. It’s not a glorious or remotely feminist industry. Also, if men no longer have to be nice to women to get sex and relationships, I dread how they’ll act lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:53 PM
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Anyone is going to pick the most attractive person in a room. Real life dating is not choosing between lots of people in a room.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:24 PM
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Men having low standards does not mean women should lower theirs to match. It means men should have higher standards. I wish guys would get this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:23 PM
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I don’t think our opinions on other peoples happiness matters
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 08:03 PM
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Science says otherwise to what part of my comment? And would you be willing to provide this science?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:38 PM
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It is scary! If my husband left, I would have no money, assets, and no experience to get a job with. Love and relationships are risky though. I picked a good man though, and he would never do that. If he dies, I also would be taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:54 PM
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I’ve met lots of conventionally unattractive men who are in happy relationships. I truly believe there is someone for everyone. It may be harder to find somebody if you’re not conventionally attractive, but I am of the opinion that I would rather be ugly and find somebody who loves me for me than be super hot and always worry if they only want me for my body/status/money/etc. it does get easier once people get older aswell. High school/college students are much more immature and idealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:39 PM
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I don’t think men would be any happier if women approached men. The women who rejected all the redpill guys are not going to change their minds and approach them. Incels will still be incels. The only difference will be that the guys who don’t get approached will no longer have the option to approach women. You’re also underestimating how often women do approach men. Me, and most women I’ve talked to online and in person, have all shared experiences where we have approached men. I don’t think as…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:26 PM
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Just because the majority of a group agrees on something, doesn’t mean the exceptions are liars. I’ve met men who like small boobs. I mean, one of the biggest porn categories is “teen” which depicts almost entirely women with A-cups. I don’t think it’s fair to call people liars just because they don’t share your preferences. I’m sure a lot of men also don’t share their liking of small boobs because I’m sure they would get a lot of weird comments about being into children because of it. It’s impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:44 PM
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The porn industry and its consequences affect everyone regardless of gender. I’m sure there are some crazy kinks men are into simply because years of desensitization has led them to continue down the rabbit hole of more and more deranged things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:16 PM
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That’s pretty common for activists no matter what they’re fighting for. Change isn’t free and it takes a lot of hard work and perseverance. My husband works in politics and people send death threats over very silly things. If you want change, you can’t let people saying mean things scare you away from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:39 PM
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Things changed for women because we fought for it. If you want changes in society for men, fight for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:42 PM
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The term isn’t referring to the mother of the child, it’s referring to a child. The term “fatherless behavior” is used to insult girls who don’t have a dad in the home. It’s basically saying “she has daddy issues so she is a slut or weird”. It’s not that child’s fault her dad left. That’s the fathers fault. Yet, since deadbeat fathers are so common nobody bats an eye at the man’s contribution to that child’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:01 PM
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If you feel fulfilled by spending all your money on women who pretend to like you and enjoy having sex with you, go for it I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:58 PM
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I don’t think people try hard enough in marriage. Attraction and affection are things that naturally start to go away if you don’t work at it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:53 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:53 PM
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I don’t think just because something used to be the norm, that it’s therefore normal and okay. There are reasons why we don’t do certain things anymore. I’m sure in the caveman days we bashed eachother in with rocks pretty regularly, but that doesn’t mean that it’s okay to do it now. It’s taboo largely because a lot of it ISNT consensual. While the sex itself may be, a lot of prostitution or escorts are human trafficking victims. A lot of those women don’t see much of the money they make and ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:52 PM
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I’ve dated all body types and loved them all tbh. I prefer skinny/sleeper builds but I am sucker for guys with chub too. I think I just like men haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:47 PM
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That’s not true. I’m a horror movie person and besides slashers (which suck anyways) most of the villains suffer from a mental illness. Also, the scariest movies about men are the ones based on true stories. I’m not going to become scared of men because of Freddy Kruger, but I will become scared of men by watching the news or documentaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:45 PM
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there are plenty of movies depicting female killers or villains. I’ve never met a man who is afraid of women because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:26 PM
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Well a lot of women who are into these things are actually victims of sexual assault themselves. Watching the content is almost like a coping mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:57 PM
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I always hated that term. Especially used for women. Youre basically calling her a whore and yet the term stems from the fact that a man let her down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:14 AM
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I agree! I wish there were better mainstream options. I think a lot of people enjoy the conveyor belt dating approach though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:20 PM
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I will never take the “just accept it” approach to things like this. We should always raise concerns as we have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:13 PM
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I don’t think people should be able to “shop” for new relationships. I’m sorry that happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:03 PM
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I agree. They can definitely be improved upon in a way that makes them a little more productive and helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:01 PM
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People are always the problem, that is true. My point was that dating apps bring out the worst in people. They enable that shallow and unkind nature of humanity to thrive unchecked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:00 PM
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That is true! But, in recent culture, it’s not “expected” to be kind anymore. Unkind people used to be perceived as bad, and most people wouldn’t hang out with them. Now, unkind people are normal and even celebrated. Celebrities and influencers are rude to eachother and strangers and nobody bats an eye. Rudeness is dismissed as “cultural” differences in the real life. I think we should bring back the expectation of kindness as the baseline for social interaction. Back when manners and respect we…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:58 PM
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What about the guys that like fat women? There’s a whole community for that, ya know? People all like different things and hold different standards. A 10/10 to me might be a 7/10 to somebody else. Relationships require some form of physical attraction but leagues and beauty standards do not determine what all people are attracted to. Guys who marry fat women, love those women. They see more than just their weight. It’s not settling if the people are happy. My husband might be in my league, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:03 AM
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It’s hurtful to not get matches, no matter who you are or how conventionally attractive you are. People should not have to date within some subjective “league” they have been assigned to based on the current and ever changing beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:54 AM
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Well if it works for you, I’m glad! There are success stories and I’m happy to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:46 AM
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That’s literally my point. Dating apps are bad. Those men are worth more than their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:45 AM
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Are you sure? Have any statistics? Evidence? Experiences outside of social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:39 AM
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Well, gotta adjust to that I suppose. I think it IS harder for shy men. I think they’re going to have a rough time and it’s unfortunate. I feel sorry for shy people in this world. I don’t think dating apps are the solution though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:38 AM
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That doesn’t mean that woman is shallow though? It means that man has low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:36 AM
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I don’t think that men having no standards is an insult to women. If guys are interested in those women, that’s not those womens fault. Also, plus sized women DONT get thousands of matches. I have plus sized friends who get very hurt when using dating apps because a lot of men don’t swipe on them. I think your perspective is a little skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:35 AM
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Women don’t thrive on dating apps. They get a lot of matches, but I don’t think a lot of men wanting to have casual sex with them is going to get them any closer to having a fulfilling relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:27 AM
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Well a lot of guys do become shallow on dating apps. It’s not a gender exclusive phenomena. You’re telling me that you go on dating apps and swipe for women’s personalities? Probably not, because you can’t see their personalities. All people are shallow on dating apps because that’s all they CAN do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:26 AM
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It doesn’t negate my point either. If on dating apps, people are just products, that means dating apps are dehumanizing, and therefore bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:24 AM
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If only a small percentage of men are extremely hot 10/10’s, why is it considered so easy for all women to obtain them? Truly there are not very many 10/10 guys, just like there are not very many 10/10 women (if you believe in an objective attractiveness standard anyways)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:22 AM
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I love that analogy! I don’t think people can be captured well in just a few photos and words. They’re deeper and more interesting than that. I love people and think they’re worth more than just their appearance in a couple pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:53 AM
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Shy guys found women for hundreds of years without dating apps. Not all of life has to be comfortable. Sometimes people have to go outside their comfort zone to get the things they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:51 AM
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Men are worth more than their appearances, as are women. They shouldn’t have to market themselves with pictures and taglines like some kind of product. Theyre worth more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:50 AM
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People aren’t products. Objects don’t have feelings or worth besides monetary. I’m not sure how the two are supposed to be compared.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:49 AM
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That’s just a huge red flag. She wasn’t worth it anyways if she does things like that. Keep your head up!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:17 PM
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Attraction isn’t and shouldnt be the only factor in dating. Sure, women are maybe attracted to the 20 percent or whatever redpill guys spout out all the time, but they don’t consider attraction the only factor in romance. Dating apps mean that all other factors are taken out and women are only choosing based on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:59 PM
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Well a positive effect of a negative thing doesn’t mean that negative thing is no longer negative. It just means in certain circumstances it is useful. I’m an introvert and met my husband “naturally”. Convenience and comfort don’t mean that it’s “better”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:56 PM
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If social media “unmasks” the true nature of people, am I allowed to hold men to all of the things they say online? Are rape threats and jokes just the “true nature” of all men? No? I didn’t think so. Social media is not representative of reality and the majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:08 PM
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Women don’t have to be in a relationship to survive or succeed anymore. Women obviously would have lower standards years ago when women had to depend on men to survive and provide for them. Relationships now are for pleasure and companionship so women are more likely to be picky because they have the right and privilege to be. Men are not owed a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:04 PM
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If real life dating is suffering because of dating apps, wouldn’t that mean that the problem lies in the dating apps, and not real life dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:01 PM
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People on dating apps are real people, that is true. But the person in real life is so much more than what you’ll ever see on a dating app. You’ll never see the cute passion somebody has for their interests, or the way they treat everyone around them with kindness, or how they do a happy dance when they eat food they like! These are all things that make people beautiful and loveable. These things would never be shown or appreciated on a dating app. The wonderful person who smiles at everyone and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:00 PM
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That is literally what I am saying though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:56 PM
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Just because reality is rough, doesn’t mean we should lie down and take it. People do suck, that is true. We shouldn’t just go “oh well, that is the way the world works! Nothing we can do” and allow people to be hateful and rude without any judgement. Whether or not the majority of people are shallow and rude in nature doesn’t change the fact that they should be expected to be kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:56 PM
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Are you completely closed off to the idea that maybe dating sucks for everyone? I am not open to discussing this topic with you unless you are going to be open to opinions and experiences that go against your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:52 PM
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I agree. It’s extremely degrading. People are so interesting and beautiful and it’s just a waste to encourage people to market themselves like a product.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:48 PM
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That’s not quite the point of this, and I think context clues could tell you what I meant by “natural”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:47 PM
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I think sometimes being “honest and genuine” isn’t productive. I might be old fashioned, but I believe that kindness should always be the standard for social interaction. I am not a big fan of the “say what you think no matter what other people feel” mentality. I think as a society it’s important to care for one another and be kind, even when it’s inconvenient. I don’t see any good that could come from it, besides maybe saving time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:45 PM
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So, you agree then? I am a little confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:42 PM
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I don’t think that it’s a good thing people aren’t held to social standards in online spaces. It eliminates kindness and decency in favor for shallowness and bluntness. It’s more efficient, sure, but it’s not very pleasant for the ones being rejected coldly constantly. Maybe it’s more convenient to be allowed to be shallow and rude to suitors, but I don’t see it as a good thing for society or dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:41 PM
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Dating is uncomfortable. Love is uncomfortable. It’s not supposed to be easy and simple. It’s a lot of work and takes a lot of trial and error. I’ve approached men and gotten rejected and that’s ok! Every relationship you will be in will fail, until the ONE that doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:40 PM
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I don’t agree, but I see your point. I think the kinds of people who would reject somebody in a cold approach simply on their looks aren’t the kind of people that person doing the approaching would want to date anyways. I think dating apps are making people give up and lose hope and it’s making me a little sad. I have met guys who I thought were so sweet and I would have totally dated, but most likely would have swiped no on if all I had to judge them on was their looks. People are so much more …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:38 PM
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I think you’re missing my point. I’m saying that looks based behavior is ENABLED on dating apps. Being a shallow person is what dating apps are made for. Why would women or men choose average people, when much more attractive people are on the “table” (even if those more attractive people don’t want to match them back).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:34 PM
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Dating apps sucked for me! I got plenty of “matches” and conversations but they were all superficial and boring. It seemed everyone on them was looking for a quick, easy, relationship or hookup but didn’t want to actually put in the work to form a connection or pursue a real relationship. I got hundreds of “likes” and my husband only had a few (we didn’t meet on the app, but both used it at some point), and yet both of us had the same amount of success on it. Personal and physical connections in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:32 PM
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Online is real life, but it’s not natural life. Online spaces are becoming an everyday part of everyone’s lives, that is true. That doesn’t mean, however, that online manners or social structures mirror peoples actual belief systems. Through a screen, everyone acts a little different. It’s also so much easier to lie and be a much worse and crueler person online. I’m saying that people giving up on dating because of an appearance based system is silly. In person (I should have said that and not “…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:27 PM
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In these examples, men are supporting other men because it helps them in some way. Almost like teamwork as opposed to support. If men really supported men, they wouldn’t be so upset at other men who step outside of the manosphere and think for themselves. They belittle and accuse men of being a “white knight” if a man defends a woman against men. Feminist men are seen as pussies and sellouts who just want to get laid. The entire redpill ideology tells men that they’re not good enough to get laid…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:37 PM
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Nothing that the other women haven’t already said. Or nothing that you couldn’t read and learn from the other 100 dick size posts on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:26 PM
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Oh look. Another duck size post where a man tells all the women about their preferences and refuses to listen when they disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:40 AM
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Size doesn’t even matter typically when making an orgasm. Most women don’t finish from penetration and can’t. There aren’t too many nerves in the vagina. This is why women say they don’t care about size unless it’s painful. What you do with your hands or mouth is what matters. Also all women have different anatomies and the length of their canal changes sometimes (in a way). The cervix moves around sometimes during different phases of her menstrual cycle, so even an average guy can be too big du…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:34 PM
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I have interacted with plenty of women who hate rap because of that and a lot of them aren’t even feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:09 PM
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I think if you read the conversation at all you would know that I did not say that men write that on their dating profiles
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:06 PM
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That’s true It also gives the “skinny with big butt, blonde, blue eyes, huge boobs, 10/10, gamer girl, not weird though, promiscuous but conservative” dudes (or the female equivalent) a reality check when they put those preferences in and not a single person pops up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:40 PM
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It’s definitely harder to meet any people outside of school settings where youre forced to meet and interact with people every day. Most people I know made their friends or even met their partner in school. It’s not hopeless outside of school though. Lots of people make friends from work. Even if that’s not an option, there is still a chance! I just looked up social places around my city. There’s card game store that has social events with other nerdy people, a local bar that does monthly social…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:04 PM
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I would want those profiles to be honest if those are their standards. If a guy had those standards written into his profile I would know to steer clear because obviously he is a porn addicted man with unrealistic standards. I don’t think any good would come from shallow people hiding that theyre shallow and then hurting peoples feelings later on by rejecting them for not fitting their unrealistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:56 PM
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I don’t know what I would need all that money for. My goals in life are to be a wife and a mother. My husband provides for me just fine and I don’t wish for anything more. All that money wouldn’t buy the fulfillment of being loved by my husband and loving him just as much in return. My biggest want in life is to be a mother some day, which no amount of money could ever replace. This question was asked so you could prove to yourself that women are gold digging and shallow. Nothing more. I hope yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:50 PM
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Honestly I think I would prefer if people DID write their hard preferences into their profile so nobody wastes their time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:40 PM
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I think it’s a bad thing that it’s becoming more normal to say hateful things online because “it’s just online” so it gets brushed off These “online only” jokes and opinions eventually bleed into real life For years a lot of people said crazy things under internet anonymity and got away with it because everybody said it was “just trolls on the internet”, but now I’m meeting people in real life who are saying these things with complete confidence because of how normal it is for them now. I think …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:45 PM
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This isn’t true at all. My husband is a huge nerd. We spend our days playing video games together and watching anime. We go and see the new movies that come out together and nerd out about them. The reason I fell in love with him was because of how nerdy he was. He just info dumps about lord of the rings to me and I return by info dumping about video game lore. We don’t have every single thing in common, but what we don’t have in common we try to learn. I hadn’t seen a lot of movies he loved whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:03 PM
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That’s actually not true at all. Women do enjoy being tossed around in the bedroom sometimes, as all people have different preferences. Men do not always have the preference of porn where the women are enjoying themselves. Especially considering any porn made by major studios at the very least has women who are clearly faking it. This is evident by the sheer amount of men who have hours of “video education” on sex and yet have no idea how to turn on a woman, find the clitoris, give oral, or know…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:49 PM
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I think people are just mean to eachother and humankind is hateful. I don’t think it has anything to do with a deeper meaning. I think people just suck and will take any opportunity to elevate themselves at someone else’s expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:30 AM
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That’s not at all equivalent. One person is a victim of a violent crime, the other is an unfortunate family situation. I’m sorry for what you’ve been through, but that’s not the same at all. We cannot force people to be good people. That’s not how laws work. We can, however, force people to not commit crimes. Leaving your family is not a crime, it’s just sad and unfortunate. I agreed with you and said that men and women should be held responsible for having children, I’m not sure what you’re ups…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:03 AM
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Just because you are miserable and sad does not mean that every person in your case would feel the same way I think both parents should take accountability if they create a child. No life should never begin just because the parents won’t step up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 12:43 AM
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I’ve met plenty of people with absent fathers who grow up just fine. Maybe instead of worrying about the mother carrying the child, we should teach men not to abandon their children under any circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 10:42 PM
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If a question is asked it’s because the person asking wants people to answer. I answered honestly. Not with an agenda. Just put my two cents in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:03 PM
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I don’t think any brain is a desirable experience. Man or woman. I don’t think brainrotting ourselves is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:02 PM
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The thing is, I don’t owe you a list of sources, when they are readily available to you with a simple google search. This doesn’t invalidate my argument either. I simply don’t want to use the energy to get all of this research together when there’s a high chance you wouldn’t listen to it anyways, as people on the internet tend to do. No amount of effort can change the mind of somebody who doesn’t seem to want to inform themselves. My goal wasn’t to change minds or convince people, just to answer…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:25 PM
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There have been times where I have been attracted to a man who I was not attracted to at first because of his personality. I can’t speak for every woman, but at least for myself personality matters a lot. Even more than any other trait. A guy can be a 10/10 millionaire with abs and I would not be with him if he could not make me laugh. When meeting men for the purpose of a relationship, such as on a dating app, attraction is almost all that matters, since I don’t know the men. I am just swiping …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:50 PM
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Have you ever looked into porn and its effects on the brain? Or are you basing your perspective on bias? There is very little data showing porn as anything but harmful in most circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:33 PM
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There are genuine memes about hot women who date mediocre guys. Rating people and peoples preferences isn’t directly related to the people they date. When faced with 10 men they don’t know, any women would chose the most attractive guy to them. It’s what people do. Dating isn’t like just choosing the hottest man though. I’ve met plenty of hot guys who I would never date because they’re shallow and boring. I have also met guys who are not attractive who I have found absolutely amazing and did wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:07 AM
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Have all these things happened to you personally? Or is this what the men on the internet tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:03 AM
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Sex ed does suck! I think that’s a pretty universal experience. I think sex would have been way more magical to actually experience if I had known nothing beyond anatomy and photographs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:37 AM
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They aren’t though. I have never heard a woman around me complain about an ugly guy. I have heard many women complain about players and fuckboys. Most women I’ve been around have always complained how disgusting men that sleep around are. Most women I know are usually dating guys leagues under them because they love them and their personalities and find them to be attractive. Most of the hate I see for unattractive men is entirely online. That’s not how people really think. The internet amplifie…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:35 AM
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Not quite! You could even use pictures or drawings. Those aren’t so dopamine heavy. There isn’t bright saturated colors with exaggerated actors and constantly changing scenery. People survived for thousands of years with no porn. They would write sexy letters to eachother or draw people in sexual ways. Plus, if you have no idea how sex works or what it looks like, your education system failed you or you are too young!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:26 AM
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It it literally talked about all of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:07 AM
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I’m sorry but a woman being rude to you or rejecting you is not an excuse to dedicate your life to an ideology that revolves around hate and anger. She rejected him and called him a mean name, that’s it. The girl in that show could have literally berated him for hours on end and it still would not be an excuse for him to join redpill. Because that woman is just one woman. She is not a representative of the female gender. People are mean and people do mean things. It has nothing to do with gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:04 AM
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Well if women didn’t exist, men would reproduce either asexually or with one another. So porn would probably still exist unless sex didn’t exist. Weird hypothetical haha it doesn’t really matter. My point was that besides the damages of pornography on people in general, it’s bad for your brain to be overwhelmed with all of those chemicals and for them to be readily available through a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:45 PM
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Other types do exist, but those types are not the ones consumed typically. With enough porn usage, people become desensitized to the regular and HAVE to turn to the violent to get off. Even if the porn isn’t straight up bdsm or non consent, it’s “reluctant” women who are being manhandled by much bigger men. There is a reason the front page of pornhub is bbc gangbangs and step family and violence. The average porn consumer does not consume loving, consensual, gentle videos. If they did, those vid…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:14 PM
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Have you ever looked into the effects of porn on the brain?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:27 PM
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Looking at your post history it’s pretty obvious how much you are bitter towards women for your lonely lifestyle. I think you need to realize that your miserable and lonely life isn’t the result of being a “low value man” but the fact that nobody wants to be around somebody who makes their whole personality about bitterness and hate. You need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:58 AM
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I think men are victims of the porn industry. You’re being told it’s normal and necessary as a man with needs but it’s destroying your brain. If women didn’t exist, porn would still be bad. It’s like a TikTok or phone addiction on steroids. Also, you don’t have to watch porn to get off. It’s a good use of your imagination to conjure up images in your mind. Porn is not only destroying your brain now, but it will affect your relationships in the future. You will struggle for years recovering from …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:00 AM
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Well, I don’t love my husband for his physique or his career, so no, I wouldn’t leave him. This is such a stupid question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:15 PM
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Genuinely if I don’t have to pay for anything ever again and get spoiled rotten, I will care for the house and child without complaining But your post also applies to men. I’ve met plenty of men who say they want a housewife but also want their wife to have a job. They expect their wives to work 40+ hours a week and then come home and care for the children, cook, and make the house spotless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:09 PM
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In the examples you’re giving, those were the model marriages. The problem was, most marriages are NOT the model marriage. Spousal abuse was common and even considered normal under the guise of “punishment”. If you look at old advertising you can see a lot of hints towards it or even just ads depicting the husband spanking the wife to correct her actions. It was normal to yell at your wife, drink lots of alcohol, ignore your children, “medicate” them with sedatives and hard drugs when they’re fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:12 PM
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Honestly a lot of it depends on the girl. Younger girls under 18 usually joke about wanting rich guys and are obsessed with the “supermodel” celebrity type, but most of them grow up and realize those standards are unrealistic unless they are also rich and famous. It’s the same as teenage boys wanting the movie stars they see on TV or the bikini models in posters. Those kids grow up eventually and realize nobody looks like that. All the women my age or older (except a few that never matured past …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:19 AM
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Minimum height: 5’3 (I’m 4’11) Minimum fitness level: enough that i don’t worry he will die young and leave me or that he won’t be able to enjoy adventures without being winded and tired Minimum income: 50k? I don’t know, I don’t think about it a lot. I just care that he is a hard worker Minimum date: dates don’t cost a lot, and I’m not one for fancy food. Legit maybe twice a month and something fun like a picnic at a park nearby (probably 50 bucks if you do it right) Minimum entertainment value…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:50 PM
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All the women I’ve met with desires for big age gap relationships almost always had trauma associated with older men :/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:44 PM
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Are these the standards the average woman requires, or the standards that the other redpill men have told you about? Because in my experience I’ve never met another woman who requires all of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:08 PM
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The thing about these “guidebooks” though is that all of the happy married men I’ve ever met did not use guidebooks. The whole idea is a little insulting to men aswell. People are flawed and silly and that’s ok! The person who you want to spend the rest of your life with is the person who accepts you for your bad and your good qualities. If these guidebooks are what I’m thinking they are, they’re reaching men to overwrite who they are in pursuit of a relationship. I think that concept is ridicul…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:28 PM
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If you know so well what women wants, why do you need a guide book? And by women generalizing men, I did not mean whatever weird meaning you found in my words. I mean when women say “men are bad” all the red pill guys go “NOT ALL MEN!! That is mean and generalizing!” Or when women say “men make me feel uncomfortable” or anything of the sort. Would you feel upset if a woman stereotyped you and generalized you and assumed things about you based on that? I assume not, because men are all different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:23 PM
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You literally cannot make a guidebook that works for every single person. The idea of a guidebook is just stupid in general. The redpill guys are generalizing women and dating into a “one size fits all” thing and it doesn’t work in real life. Sure, general advice of working out and treating people with respect is good, but it’s pretty obvious advice. Men shouldn’t need a guidebook on dating. Every woman is different and desires different things. I think generalizing women into some guidebook is …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 06:23 PM
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Very true! It’s always possible, but it would decrease the changes significantly. Plus before marriage you and your future spouse should always discuss when or if you want to have kids. It would even further eliminate it. There’s always a chance, but you can take preventive measures at least if this is such a big issue for you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:18 PM
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This might be a little too crazy and controversial but maybe don’t have sex before marriage. Not even in a religious way. The only sure way to ensure that you don’t get a woman pregnant when not intending to is to not have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:38 AM
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Outside of TikTok, women don’t actually think like that. There will always be bad apples in both genders who have unrealistic standards and are assholes about it. As a woman, I think women who uphold the 6’5 millionaire standard are silly and childish (not that I’ve ever met one irl, because they don’t really exist). Men are “villainized” for their unrealistic standards because a lot of them in real life actually uphold these standards. My uncle is one of those men. He himself is a bald, overwei…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:35 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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