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Advanced (Certain Basic Skills Required!) Vinegar_Tits_9/r/seduction04/10/22 01:04 AM
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LogisticsVinegar_Tits_9/r/seduction06/07/22 05:41 AM
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This whole post is just gross. My vagina just made the windows shut down noise
/r/seduction01/04/26 12:21 PM
1

Sounds like she’s interested but taking it slow. If that isn’t your speed I’d talk to her and tell her you are looking for someone more compatible (this gives her a chance to make a move, explain what her pace is, OR confirm your on different wavelengths)
/r/seduction01/02/26 07:06 AM
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There is another reason women don’t get physical on the first date. We don’t want to be physical so soon because A) if things go south we’re called sluts by the very same men who we slept with B) we don’t know you properly yet and want to actually get to know you better first (and want men to actually get to know us too) C) we want to spot any red flags before wasting our time Also we don’t typically like it when guys treat us all the same with this escalation stuff, every single woman is unique…
/r/seduction27/01/26 03:37 AM
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Exactly this. He definitely comes off as a player, trying to tick boxes till he gets to take a woman home. Reminds me of “I put kindness coins in, why didn’t sex fall out?”
/r/seduction27/01/26 03:30 AM
-1

Still wouldn’t consider it flirting though
/r/seduction27/01/26 02:13 AM
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If she offered them, you’re all good! 😊
/r/seduction27/01/26 02:13 AM
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Don’t touch strangers. Only do it If a woman offers you your hand or you feel like it is something she would be ok with. If a guy grabs my hand to check out my nails, I’m also likely going to assume he’s gay and friendly. The complete opposite of flirting. I’ve been having my nails done for years, and honestly I’ve only had other women want to look closer at them. No shade to you OP. Just been my experience
/r/seduction27/01/26 02:07 AM
-8

Ew. Surprised you aren’t drugging them too.
/r/seduction16/01/26 01:28 AM
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As a woman who has gone from n a date with someone, I would expect that both parties would like it to turn into something unless it’s clearly communicated beforehand.
/r/seduction07/01/26 05:47 AM
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She needs to know that he wants a FWB arrangement before he hooks up with her. Gotta be honest about expectations. Wouldn’t want things blowing up on him. Most women would feel manipulated, lied to or even coerced. I would definitely want to know what the expectation is before I have sex with someone
/r/seduction05/01/26 06:36 AM
18

Yeah, it’s almost sad. They don’t actually stand a chance with the 10, and the 6 wouldn’t want them either
/r/seduction25/04/25 07:39 AM
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Mate, you’re only 22, you have lots of time. I was a virgin way past that age. Work on building yourself up, you’ll be just fine.
/r/seduction03/01/25 04:38 AM
6

Dude, are you socially awkward or something? You are way overthinking things. Almost to the level of obsession
/r/seduction02/05/24 03:06 AM
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In love with how she looks. He knows nothing real about her
/r/seduction11/04/24 07:08 AM
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Oh yikes on bikes. So you are just going to use these women as a petty revenge? That’s so immature, honestly why don’t you just try and find 1 decent woman? What is the fascination with 2? Mo’ women, mo’ problems
/r/seduction02/04/24 03:53 AM
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No, that’s horrible! A petty, dick move. Gross.
/r/seduction24/03/24 04:45 AM
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This ain’t gonna end well
/r/seduction19/03/24 10:46 PM
-1

Yeah I disagree. Most men hit it and quit it. They just want a quick romp, then onto the next gal on the roster. Abundance mentality and all. Most guys on dating sites don’t even state their intentions. It’s mostly ‘unsure of my dating goals’. It’s all very tiresome.
/r/seduction05/03/24 08:51 PM
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“Men are future oriented” 😂 Bruh.
/r/seduction05/03/24 08:43 PM
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Nope. I’d never forgive cheating. It’s a non negotiable. You cheat, you never see me again.
/r/seduction01/03/24 12:36 PM
2

This is the correct answer 👆🏼
/r/seduction29/02/24 12:53 AM
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Jackie Chiles!!
/r/seduction29/02/24 12:51 AM
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Nah. I’d dip out and block with an answer like that. Even on a hook up app, we wanna know what type of person you are. And that answer makes you out to be a pretty huge dick.
/r/seduction29/02/24 12:51 AM
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I can’t speak for all groups, but the one I’m in is pretty damn decent. Like if a guy gets posted for no reason, admins tend to delete it…and most women call it out and defend the guy. The group has definitely caught out a few married dudes though.
/r/seduction21/02/24 08:42 PM
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I’m on one of these groups. From a women’s perspective it’s great. Saved my from going out with a guy who seemed so sweet…but had multiple AVOs out against him.
/r/seduction21/02/24 08:36 PM
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Just don’t do it at night or in isolated areas!
/r/seduction14/02/24 01:19 AM
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I take medication that is negatively affected by alcohol sadly
/r/seduction28/10/22 05:53 AM
7

That’s interesting. I’ve never had a guy reject me because I don’t drink. The guy I’m currently dating has cut down his drinking because of me though 😂
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:10 AM
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What if the woman doesn’t drink?
/r/seduction28/10/22 01:49 AM
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Best bets are bars and clubs and online. Women are expecting to get hit on there, so we tend to be more receptive and have our guard down a bit more.
/r/seduction26/10/22 09:12 AM
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Most women know what you’re doing. Guys do that to us all the time. I’ve even had guys follow me aisle by aisle in Kmart. It’s mega creepy
/r/seduction25/10/22 05:45 AM
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Oh big yikes. Definitely addicted. I suggest you seek help before you decide to be in a relationship with someone. Unless you want to be alone/single forever in which case, you do you!
/r/seduction25/10/22 12:53 AM
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If it’s for a one nighter, it’ll go. But if it’s going to be a regular thing, nah.
/r/seduction23/10/22 03:33 AM
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From a woman’s perspective? I’ll always choose the guy with his own place. The preference is: His own place Flatmates Parents
/r/seduction18/10/22 06:50 AM
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From a woman’s perspective, I’d definitely cancel. I’d see it as the guy not being interested, got others in my inbox that are…NEXT!
/r/seduction17/10/22 11:04 AM
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Omg dude, THAT’S what happened. Jesus, you did that negging crap, women aren’t idiots, they know about begging. No wonder she Unfriended you. Girl dodged a bullet.
/r/seduction17/10/22 10:59 AM
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Most women honestly don’t give a shit. I’m happy to be with someone the same height as me or taller I’m 165cm. But I’ve had crushes on guys considerably shorter.
/r/seduction12/10/22 04:06 AM
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Wow you’re unpleasant. But then again you’re on this sub…
/r/seduction05/10/22 04:25 AM
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Because we see the guys on this sub and it feels like humanity is doomed. Thank goodness there are some decent men out there. Just not on this sub 😬
/r/seduction05/10/22 12:56 AM
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That’s not true at all 😂 such an ageist generalisation. I’m 33 and if a guy turns me on, I have no issue with fucking on the first date. Maybe you just don’t turn women on? Maybe you pick younger women because they’re‘easier’ to please because they’re less sexually experienced. Either way…it doesn’t say much for your seduction skills.
/r/seduction04/10/22 12:45 AM
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I’m confused. In Your post history from 2 days ago, you said you have a gf. Which is it OP?
/r/seduction19/09/22 10:09 AM
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Yeah, it’s definitely what you did when you were drunk, it gave her red flags 🚩 Next time don’t drunk txt, and work on the jealousy because most women see that as a bit red flag too.
/r/seduction17/09/22 02:30 AM
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Normal human beings don’t fuck their cousins. Also I doubt you found any data to represent your flimsy hypothesis. I trust the New York Times more than I trust some Neanderthal on Reddit. “A recent survey has revealed the female population is actually less attracted to men who flaunt their beloved motor, compared to those who don’t.” https://www.lifehacker.com.au/2021/10/dogs-in-dating-profile-photos-commitment-levels/amp/ https://www.cbc.ca/amp/1.6256925 https://nypost.com/2017/07/14/posing-wit…
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:06 AM
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Do you have data to support your hypothesis?
/r/seduction15/09/22 06:03 AM
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Coming from someone who fucked his cousin (according to your posts) I think I’ll stick to my opinion Showing off a Fancy car = Douche that will only attract gold diggers.
/r/seduction15/09/22 03:00 AM
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As a woman, I’d rather see a picture with the cat. Guys with pics of douchey cars are a hard pass.
/r/seduction14/09/22 09:44 PM
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Dessert. Go grab some gelato or go out for a drink
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:44 AM
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“Interested in making a connection” 🙈 oh no. Way too formal and just gives off the wrong vibe.
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:38 AM
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Because the ugly and fat girls don’t want him either. He appears to have the personality of a mouldy sponge
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:22 AM
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What makes you deserving of these ‘hot’ girls? You sound like you need a reality check ASAP. The hotties don’t want you. Maybe sort out your life a bit, get a personality and go from there.
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:21 AM
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Yeah dude, leave her alone and work on yourself. She doesn’t need this kind of crap in her life. Be better, do better. Good luck
/r/seduction04/09/22 02:58 AM
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I’m on dating apps, and the guys that get my attention legitimately 100% of the time are the ones who read my profile and commented about something I’m interested in (eg I love Seinfeld, so guys who open with a Seinfeld quote are instantly ahead of the others) guys who don’t bother to read my profile and just say ‘heyy’ are deleted instantly. (I have a code word hidden in my profile so if a guy says it, again, he has my attention)
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:04 AM
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Women.
/r/seduction31/08/22 11:14 AM
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Clubs are terrible places to get women, especially when they’re with a group of friends. You can’t isolate them, it’s women code, you don’t let a guy isolate your friend unless she’s cool with it. Usually they’ll give each other a look that conveys that they’re interested in the guy, and the friends will back off. If you find a friend is being a 3rd wheel…then your ‘target’ is not that into you.
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:38 AM
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Finally! A non toxic post on this sub. Definitely good to set your boundaries as well as respecting others boundaries
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:27 AM
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Wait, so you mean you’re trying to hit on your customers? While you’re on the clock? 😬
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:25 AM
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😬 this ain’t it.
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:21 AM
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The fact that you actually call it ‘Hunting’ is mortifying. You’re talking about human beings bro.
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:18 AM
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Is that the main purpose of your trip? Because that would be so damn sad
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:14 AM
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Maybe you’re American, but where I come from Thongs are a type of shoe 🩴
/r/seduction25/08/22 06:50 AM
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Normally I use this sub as cheap laughs, but I think your advice is spot on! As a woman, I would MUCH rather be with a bigger man who is well groomed and neatly dressed compared to a svelte muscular man who walks around in grubby clothes, thongs, shorts and t-shirt and put NO effort into his appearance.
/r/seduction25/08/22 12:19 AM
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She’s young and inexperienced, something like that could really negatively affect her self esteem. It sounds like he actually cares about her, so I’d definitely put it off for a bit
/r/seduction21/08/22 09:57 AM
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Her body, her choice. You don’t have to go down on her if you don’t want to either 🤷‍♀️
/r/seduction21/08/22 09:37 AM
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I hope you’re joking!
/r/seduction21/08/22 09:36 AM
1

I’m not losing my job for any Hemsworth
/r/seduction20/08/22 09:15 AM
0

Yeah that’s bull PUA crap. Women have lives
/r/seduction19/08/22 11:07 PM
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Absolutely! She may have been working, I can’t have my mobile while I’m on shift.
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:16 AM
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PEOPLE HAVE LIVES FFS. I can’t use my phone at work so that’s 8 hours of no replies. She doesn’t live for you, she has shit to do. I swear women can’t get it right no matter what they do. Answer too fast = too keen/clingy, answer too slow= not interested. Do her a favour and ghost her, she’s probably looking for a grown up that doesn’t play games.
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:15 AM
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I love going to an arcade. Fun! And a bit of flirty competition when it comes to games
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:25 PM
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Never been there. 😂 this sub is purely for shock value. I get to see the sad little men congregate. I’ve never been so relieved that my boyfriend doesn’t have reddit. No guy on this sub is relationship material.
/r/seduction08/08/22 02:24 AM
1

Yeah, nah. If a guy did that to me, he’d get blocked instantly
/r/seduction08/08/22 12:35 AM
-5

Clearly not a Wentworth fan. Either way. This whole ass sub is cringe. Makes me laugh my vinegar tits off!
/r/seduction08/08/22 12:21 AM
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Oh no, so cringe.
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:54 PM
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In my opinion, as a woman, there are 2 reasons why I do this. 1. Flexing as the people above have said 2. Not wanting my fam or friends to know who I’m with/not revealing a relationship too soon/guy I’m with is shy and doesn’t want to be all over my Insta.
/r/seduction05/08/22 02:51 AM
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Definitely not this. This it just sad.
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:49 PM
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It will be 2 years in October if we’re being pedantic 😂
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:59 AM
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I was voluntarily single for the last 18 or so months! You re generalising and stereotyping women. I can tell you one thing for sure. Women hate that.
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:58 AM
2

Jesus man! Wtf. You’re not a bloody hunchback! Worst case scenario, get some professional photos taken for your profile. I’ve seen some damn ugly inbred looking guys out there and even they can get laid. Present yourself better and work on your confidence. I matched with a guy a couple of weeks ago who physically is NOT my type at all. But through chatting, flirting and eventually sexting, he got me so attracted to him that we went on a date and I took him back to my motel room for some kinky se…
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:50 AM
1

‘Juggling guys’ 🙄 have you ever met a woman? Most of us can’t deal with one, let alone a bunch. It’s exhausting
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:45 AM
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I know, how much more pathetic can it get? I originally followed this sub for sex and seduction tips….but I was waaaaay off. Despite the sub actually being called‘seduction’, there’s no seducing going on. It’s all PU artist bull crap. No decent woman would be interested in any of these guys if they knew about this sub.
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:44 AM
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I highly suggest online dating. I’m socially inept but online dating is the only reason I’m not a virgin anymore. Flirt your ass off, test the waters, then try sexting…get the woman really hot for you and within a week, arrange a time to meet up. 👌🏻
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:07 AM
0

Women aren’t dogs, you muppet!
/r/seduction02/08/22 02:27 PM
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Someone too eager to hook up straight away
/r/seduction02/08/22 02:18 PM
2

I laughed. That would probably work on me
/r/seduction29/07/22 11:53 AM
4

I’d prefer the note, especially if I’m busy or in a meeting.
/r/seduction27/07/22 09:23 PM
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Yeah. I definitely agree
/r/seduction27/07/22 10:00 AM
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Yeah, I definitely won’t pick a guy who smokes, ever. Smoking killed my dad and I saw, and still see what my mum has gone through as a widow. I decided when he died, that I’d NEVER be with a smoker. Besides I don’t wanna make out with a guy that reeks of smoke. Vaping, I’m not sure about as it’s still quite new, the studies on vaping aren’t absolute. But as someone who is dating to find my life partner, I wouldn’t risk it…
/r/seduction27/07/22 09:58 AM
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Omg dude, you need to stay single and work on yourself because no woman deserves that!
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:54 PM
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Definitely non smoking. That’s how I vet my online matches. If he’s a smoker, he’ll get deleted before he even says hi
/r/seduction25/07/22 12:33 PM
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A good sense of humour and feeling safe and comfortable 👍 Sleezyness, pushiness, and smoking/drinking too much 👎
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:50 AM
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You can’t dominate with such little experience, you’d get laughed out of the building
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:57 AM
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Aren’t as tight? Really?
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:42 AM
9

Also, some women are hornier when they’re on their period
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:09 AM
1

40 miles definitely isn’t much. I had a guy drive 25 miles to my place to pick me up, and take me to his place. And dropped me home the next morning. 75 miles total. Absolute gentleman, I made sure I took really great care of him
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:57 AM
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At night, it’s horrifying
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:53 AM
9

Stay single dude.
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:48 AM
1

You’re hopping from woman to woman. I’m surprised you didn’t learn your lesson in the first place. You jump from one woman, to her friend? Damn, that’s cold. She would have felt like shit seeing that.
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:46 AM
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You sound like a great and supportive partner. He’s lucky to have you. Hopefully you’ll be back to ‘knocking boots’ in no time 😉
/r/seduction12/07/22 04:53 AM
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Woah some of the toxic comments on here! Yikes on bikes! OP you’re doing everything right, he’s probably very stressed and overwhelmed. Just be there for him, keep being affectionate and hopefully once the stress eases, he’ll be back to his old self again.
/r/seduction12/07/22 02:13 AM
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Intellectually and emotionally matured. It depends on each woman. But generally by 25 a woman would be considered mature and grown up. These trick could work on someone younger than 25 I guess
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:24 AM
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Or it’ll annoy her. Or even worse; it’ll give another guy a chance to slide into her DMs and keep her busy
/r/seduction08/07/22 01:47 AM
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😂 you are spot on! He’s definitely not a grown man. Most women wouldn’t waste their time on those tricks
/r/seduction08/07/22 01:26 AM
2

YES 🙌 Exactly right
/r/seduction08/07/22 01:25 AM
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😂 me too, I’d literally get distracted with pretty much everything else and accidentally leave him on ‘read’ The tactic definitely wouldn’t work on me
/r/seduction08/07/22 01:22 AM
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😂😂😂😂 I had a feeling you were young. Grown women don’t fall for games like that. Thanks for the laugh though, it made my day.
/r/seduction08/07/22 01:17 AM
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Yep 🙌 you’re totally right.
/r/seduction08/07/22 01:13 AM
1

Yeah, absolutely! Can’t hurt to say hi.
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:23 PM
1

You’re the one asking for advice, not me. Also, women talk. I know about my best friends fantasies, they know mine. I know about their threesomes, they know about my FWB and hookups with men and women, and so on…. Pilots have been mentioned, doctors, mail man/courier, even a convicted murderer. Never heard a janitor fantasy. But hey, you do you. Good luck to you 🙏 Side note: the murderer was surprisingly NOT Ted Bundy 😆
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:16 PM
1

Yeah, me too. 😬 cringe city
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:07 PM
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Woman’s perspective: hold back on the info. You want a woman to like you for YOU, not how much stuff you have. Also, why I see guys parading their Tesla’s all over social media, I can’t help bet think it comes off a bit ‘douchey’.
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:04 PM
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As a woman, I have never heard anyone say that. Sorry. I’ve heard the male version; men wanting to fuck their maids. At the end of the day, you’re a man with a job. Try meeting women in other places not just at work.
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:00 PM
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That’s going to be very difficult. A lot of women have a ‘try before you buy’ type attitude. As a woman I wouldn’t be worried at all about sleeping with a virgin, but honestly most women will not wait until marriage. What if you get married only to find out you have 0 chemistry when it comes to sex. Your best bet is to date within your own religion and seek another virgin to date, that’s your best shot.
/r/seduction07/07/22 03:50 PM
2

Maybe you’re better off being alone? Enjoy your own company. Although I am curious, do you ever want to settle down with someone?
/r/seduction07/07/22 03:45 PM
1

Not. Even. Close.
/r/seduction07/07/22 03:34 PM
0

Totally agree with everything you said. As a woman I MUCH prefer online. Why? Because it’s on my time. I go on the app when it’s convenient to me. I can weed out the smokers, weed out the ones that are too young or too old, I can weed out the ones who have kids, the ones who just want hookups, ALL at the click of a button. The women of today work full time, we don’t have time to waste, so we filter out the people who we deem as unsuitable straight away and go from there. It is also safer than be…
/r/seduction07/07/22 03:30 PM
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Did she look scared or anxious? Probably a good idea not to follow women around. It’s possible she looked back to see if you were still following her (some women are hyper aware when they think they’re being followed) If you see her on the bus again, maybe say hi, then pay close attention to her body language, hopefully she will display positive body language towards you, but if not, then just let her be.
/r/seduction07/07/22 03:03 PM
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Ya blew it. Sorry. But honestly did you really think she was going to just wait around for an hour doing nothing? Then that cringe response 😬 Sounded like you we’re trying to pick a fight or egging her on (of course that’s just the tone I got from what you wrote, that’s the problem with txt, you can’t sense the tone)
/r/seduction07/07/22 02:56 PM
2

If she was your wife, would you want some guy to get her number and keep flirting with her? It’s not like it can go anywhere other than meaningless sex. And if it does turn into a relationship, would you ever be able to trust her not to give out her number to other men who flirt with her? There’s no winning here.
/r/seduction07/07/22 02:49 PM
1

Clearly you can’t be yourself, women can obviously see right through you. Definitely be somebody else.
/r/seduction06/07/22 09:37 PM
1

Thank you
/r/seduction06/07/22 09:26 PM
1

Thanks. I’m fairly new to this sub, and reddit in general so I think I took the name Of the sub in a more literal sense.
/r/seduction06/07/22 07:47 AM
2

It’s always a good idea to try and re-spark a conversation. The laughing emoji may mean a number of things, so I think it’s always good to re-open that conversation a few days later. Hell, send her a knock knock joke or something, see if her interest is still there. If not, then you can close the door.
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:52 AM
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👏🏻 YES 🙌 You’ve got it! Couldn’t have said it any better
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:45 AM
2

Just be yourself. We aren’t that hard to demystify. Be a little bit funny, a little bit flirty. And hopefully you will genuinely get to know whoever matched with you. You don’t need to overthink things. Worst comes to worst, find something you like in her bio, and bring it up in conversation. Stand out of the crowd, because women on dating sites get a lot of ‘hey beautiful’ as an opening line, and let me tell you something…it gets old, FAST. Don’t be afraid to be different
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:42 AM
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The fact you didn’t even realise that you’re onto re-runs hasn’t clued you in? She obviously recognised you, but you just saw her as another body, another number to add to your numbers game. But you see only what you want to see, any kind of answer from me will not do you any good, nor will you appreciate it.
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:35 AM
8

Yeah, just leave them alone.
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:55 AM
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👏🏻 you’re one of the decent ones. Guys that approach as many women as possible and don’t see them as actual people REALLY bug me
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:55 AM
13

Yep move on. The txt ruined it. Make a clean break from her and her best friend (girls talk, she’d already know how clingy you were) Time for a clean break
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:50 AM
1

Woah. I hope no one ever has sex with you ever again. I wish people like this had ‘UNDATEABLE’ tattooed on their forehead..it would make the dating game so much easier
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:44 AM
10

So…get laid under false pretences. Oof 😓sounds predatory to me
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:29 AM
2

Ok, so let’s make a practical guide for you to follow and stick to. Example: message every second or third day. If she messages you first, don’t reply immediately, wait a minimum of 1 hour. Avoid messaging her when you know she is busy I.e when she’s at work. Start with those few and build on them. Good luck 🤞
/r/seduction03/07/22 09:26 AM
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https://thefinancialdiet.com/dear-men-not-okay-hit-girl-paid-nice/ This link way also be helpful
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:12 AM
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I highly recommend the askwomen sub. You will get a lot of honest talk
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:06 AM
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Seems like you can’t read the room. Or take no for an answer. This sub won’t allow crossposting. But I suggest you go onto r/askwomen and there is a post specifically about hitting on women while they’re at work…the responses speak for themselves. The vast majority do not like being hit on at work. I suggest taking advice from women rather than trying to impose your will onto them.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:04 AM
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Seriously. Most of us hate being hit on at work. It’s uncomfortable.
/r/seduction03/07/22 05:51 AM
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Absolutely horrible advice. If a guy did that with me, he’d get his ass blocked and I’d be onto the next one.
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:44 PM
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Be submissive? Holy crap. Sometimes I’m so glad to be single. Do men really want a submissive woman? And if so, why do you think that is?
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:26 PM
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How about asking her about what she wants? Is she actually looking to find someone? What/who is her type? Is she currently into anyone? Suss her out. It takes two to tango, it not just about you and your feelings. You may find out she’s not into you, and then you can move on. You may find out she is into you, then you can move things further.
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:23 PM
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Yep, that’s exactly how I saw it too. He should try tinder and hook up apps. Leave the women who want a deeper connection alone
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:18 PM
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Read her profile really well. Is there something that stands out? Something you have in common? Ask her about it. She mentions she’s into board games? Ask her about her favourite ones, recommend your favourites…a couple of day after chatting ask her if she wants to meet up, maybe play a board game. This is of course just an example. Pick up on something she likes and engage with her about that, and then find a way of turning that hobby/interest into an actual meeting.
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:14 PM
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Nope, that gives off desperate stalker vibes 🚩
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:11 PM
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Honestly, like REALLY honestly. She has probably unblocked you to show her friends or something, time to move on, nothing to see here.
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:08 PM
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Jeans and T-shirt that fit well. Not too baggy. Plain white or black tshirt, nothing distracting. Seriously OP, you look great, just wear clothes that look good on you. Definitely Pinterest outfits that you think would suit you as inspiration
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:57 PM
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Yep, as a woman I totally agree with this post. When a man takes a rejection gracefully we see that as = he’s mature, he’s well tempered, he has respect for women. And honestly it does make a man more attractive. If a man does not take rejection well, we see it as = ‘wow, I totally dodged a bullet there”, he’s immature, he’s misogynistic, he’s unstable. So guys: ALWAYS be gracious
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:27 PM
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👏🏻 THIS ☝️
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:16 PM
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Oh gosh. From a woman’s perspective, most of us are just in customer service mode and don’t like being hit on while we’re at work. Maybe just practice chatting to her, but I definitely wouldn’t ask for her number. If she gives you her number on her own, then THAT is your signal that she actually likes you rather than just being nice because she’s at work.
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:06 PM
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It sounds like you’ve allowed yourself to become obsessed by her. Time to back away a bit as it’s easy to go from mild infatuation to full blown obsession. If you’ve got to the point of looking at her location to know where she is and who she’s with, you’ve gone too far. Your last sentence also has 🚩energy. She didn’t get in your head, YOU allowed yourself to be obsessed by her, she’s just out there living her life.
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:02 PM
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It sounds like you’ve allowed yourself to become obsessed by her. Time to back away a bit as it’s easy to go from mild infatuation to full blown obsession. If you’ve got to the point of looking at her location to know where she is and who she’s with, you’ve gone too far. Your last sentence also has 🚩energy. She didn’t get in your head, YOU allowed yourself to be obsessed by her, she’s just out there living her life.
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:02 PM
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While they’re at work. Nobody wants to be getting hit on while they’re just trying to do their job, especially if they are busy, ie a restaurant, or a retail shop in peak hour.
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:55 PM
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At 1.5 months most normal people would be onto second base (and that’s if they’re taking it slow) You definitely need to talk with her and sort it out
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:46 PM
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Don’t guys also have a type? There’s no point to going out with someone if you’re not attracted to them. Why waste their time? Otherwise he’ll just get bitter and complain about being “friendzoned”
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:40 PM
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It definitely doesn’t sound like you guys have been together for months… Something is wrong with this picture, and I don’t think it’s you. To be waiting for months for just a kiss on the cheek is strange and unusual and I think you’re probably better off as BFFs. Time to look for someone new I think.
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:11 AM
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Weed out* Sorry typo
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:51 AM
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Holy crap. It’s the tattoo dude.
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:43 AM
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Oof 😓 the second point doesn’t ring true for me, even if a guy is a 10, if he says something to give me red flags 🚩 I’m dipping.
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:38 AM
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Hate to admit it but it’s true. If a woman has a ‘type’ it’s hard to break out of that pattern
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:35 AM
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I definitely got the point, I’m not an idiot. I’m just saying some women won’t appreciate or respond well so approach with caution
/r/seduction30/06/22 06:40 AM
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That’s a good sign. Keep gradually upping the stakes flirt-wise. Hopefully the sexting will be the next natural step. Just please don’t ask for nudes or send 🍆 picks (unless she asks for them or sends them), that may cross a boundary for her. It’s a mood killer.
/r/seduction29/06/22 02:45 PM
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Silly* joke…typo, sorry
/r/seduction29/06/22 02:06 PM
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Yeah, sure but you gotta not shoot yourself in the foot right off the bat, asking for the time worked well in the past, but its 2022, the world has evolved. I’d rather a guy make a stilly joke or pun and make me laugh rather than just ask for the time. Unless you say that your phone has gone flat and you don’t know the time…that’s the only way it won’t backfire. You know what I mean?
/r/seduction29/06/22 02:05 PM
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Maybe not employees, they’re just trying to do their job, the last thing they want is a stranger taking up their time and likely annoying them. Just be friendly, have a lighthearted conversation, but in all honesty she is very very unlikely to respond favourably while she is working.
/r/seduction29/06/22 02:01 PM
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No, some guy coming up and asking for the time is 🚩 because most people have mobiles on them so they can check the time themselves, therefore making it completely obvious what the guy is attempting. Better off commenting on something happening around her (is the weather crappy? , is there traffic?) just some examples. Then maybe make a light joke or pun, and see how she responds.
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:58 PM
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I don’t think it’ll help honestly, she may tell you the time so as not to be rude. But internally thinking “what an idiot, just look at your phone for the time” You know what I mean? What about commenting on the weather? If it’s freezing, act up on how cold it is, chuck in a funny comment or movie quote or something to get her attention.
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:54 PM
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Oh nooooo 🙈 don’t ever say anything like this to a stranger. Maybe ok if it’s someone you are flirty with (and they are flirty with you too) otherwise you’ll instantly get red flagged 🚩
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:50 PM
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Time to move out. Once you are more self reliant the confidence will start to build. Work on yourself and then go with the flow. Go on a few tinder dates to get you back into things
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:41 PM
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Girl B. Girl A was trying to set you up with one of them
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:35 PM
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Ok, I definitely suspect you’re not a guy, because all your advice I’ve seen on here has been 💯
/r/seduction29/06/22 12:58 PM
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Don’t jump straight to sexting. Gradually build up your flirting and see where she takes it
/r/seduction29/06/22 12:54 PM
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Sorry but very few women would go directly to a guys place. Red flags 🚩 Invite her out for coffee at a nice cafe, build trust and rapport and go from there. Unless you are BOTH just wanting to hook up, then yeah, invite her over for some fun.
/r/seduction29/06/22 12:52 PM
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Respectfully disagree with your advice. The vast majority of women HATE being approached by a stranger when they’re just trying to do their thing. If they’re out shopping, leave them alone. Bars, pubs, clubs are better. But most women automatically have their guard up if they’re approached by a man they don’t know. But if you still insist on doing it, read the woman’s signals, if she’s giving one word answers, looking around a lot, and not smiling much, just say ‘have a nice day’ and leave her b…
/r/seduction29/06/22 12:50 PM
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Sometimes they just won’t be attracted to you. You might just not be her type. Just brush it off, keep your chin up and move on to the next one.
/r/seduction29/06/22 12:34 PM
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