I used to always think “I’m super easy to please, why aren’t things working out.

Turns out while I very chill, I wasn’t actually “easy” to please, I was just unlikely to bring up something that displeased me.

Basically I was bad at setting boundaries, talking about expectations, or confronting issues.

Being moderately tough to please, aka directly confronting issues when they arise, actually makes you more of a man and more likely to have a woman WANT to please you. I’m not saying to be toxic or be a dick, but when something feels off, bring it up and state your expectations going forwards. People want to be with someone worth being with, and if you don’t create and state your worth and rules then you’ll be walked all over and create zero sexual tension.