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This is most truthful post I’ve seen on the Internet! Get it out there this is exactly how they play the game and it’s up to you to not participate! Stay strong ladies !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 11:38 PM
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I agree . I’m a very strong female , but I’m also at an age where I can be . I remember being in my 20s even 30s and making a lot of mistakes and decisions because of others approval or opinion of me . I guess it didn’t come full curl LE fit me until my 40s and after a bad breakup. I felt very secure and comfortable in my skin only after a lot of self reflection and work . I guess it’s true when people say I wish I would have known them what I know now . If I could put just a few young women in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:39 PM
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I don’t know how this would be taken , believe me it is not shaming anyone female who enjoys these kinks .. but maybe we need to start with the females who want the attention so bad they put themselves out there on here . I’ve seen countless young women asking for daddies and calling themselves whores or sluts . They get off showing off pictures of themselves and the more the outrageous the more upvotes or comments and the men are downright abusive . How can we reverse this mindset with these wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:59 PM
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Just the part that he is a loyal truthful dedicated partner is better than over half of the men out there in the dating world !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 09:15 PM
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I probably wouldn’t make an effort to tell her as she is In Her 20s and if she’s involved with a man this age she’s being manipulated by something and won’t listen. You live away from it .. have your peace.. but , I would, say something passively if it comes up in conversation with her in a very indirect way . I feel that the only way these young girls will understand what they are getting themselves into with these older men has to come from women the same age or a little bit older . Once it’s …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 01:53 PM
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I cringe when they act like that . I used to take it so personal , but after encountering a few of these guys you will have the outlook “ I was good before ya, I’ll be good without ya” don’t let the door hit you in the ass on the way out ! Of course , I don’t do it in such a harsh manner , but I just act indifferent and don’t ever chase . It took me a long time and many guys like this to get me to this level of confidence , but when you do nothing shakes you !! Promise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 02:46 PM
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I love this sub and I don’t agree with everything , but I just scroll past . I do sometimes see posts of young women , like 20s, who really need this sub . I believe what it’s doing is waking more young women and mature women alike up on how to value yourself and expect better . I was once a pick me , I also have been depressed and hardened and bitter over dating in middle aged . Finding this sub and knowing I wasn’t imagining what is going on was a godsend for me . I truly want to get the messa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 02:31 PM
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Like this asshole right here ....then look at his profile .. he actually believes his own bullshit lol https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/g9souz/what_is_a_successful_early_50s_man_looking_for_in/foykcfu/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:53 PM
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That whole post thread was interesting to read , but I didn’t know how to post it in its entirety .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:39 PM
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Agree !!! And we don’t advertise it or objectify the younger men either . We just enjoy it !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:37 PM
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This what I mean https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/g9souz/what_is_a_successful_early_50s_man_looking_for_in/fowx8fq/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:02 PM
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Totally agree , that’s why I wish this sub was in more places then just reddit with this information. I’m getting tired of hearing from middle aged men that my value because I’m over 40 has somehow diminished and youth is so much better. They somehow because I don’t want to be 50 and send nudes and act like a teenager makes me somewhat of a bore or prude . When in reality, they aren’t even in my level . It’s infuriating .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:17 PM
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Great post . I’ve been in the dating world about just as long and the asinine behavior from these grown adult men astound me . If only what those men in your suburb did behind their fascade and was exposed they would lose their shit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:03 PM
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Exactly, great comment and awareness needs to come I feel from more women your age. When we do it we are seen as bitch old “ Karen’s “ etc . But , we can clearly see how manipulated and in danger these young girls really are in. They may be popular with the guys by doing this , but when they really do meet a man who shows them deep , positive intimacy, they will not recognize it and be numbed by this crap .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:53 PM
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I’m downright scared at what I’m seeing On here from men my age . I can’t believe they can get away with what they do .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:17 AM
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Thank you 100 times over for this post ! Spot in !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 10:47 PM
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Whatever floats your boat I guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 02:08 AM
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Well I don’t think you should be banned from here , but you seem like a nice person I wouldn’t do yourself a disservice by calling yourself something like that .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 01:59 AM
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Why did you pursue him so much ? And can I ask you why you have that title as your reddit name? I understand if it’s personal .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 01:52 AM
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It’s seems like this has just become normal. My heart breaks for her . I’ve been there and my life destroyed . I look back now and his leaving lwas the best thing that happened to me. I wish her strength and peace . As for the younger women out there, just as another post said above , put you first ! Secure yourself. Please don’t fall for this sugar daddy bullshit . Earn it on your own and think of the wives just like this sitting back at home .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 07:58 PM
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This guy is a piece of shit . I read his stuff I can only imagine what he looks like . A legend in his own mind I’m sure .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 04:46 AM
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I wish someone would write some more on how this phenomenon is effecting middle aged women some who are very successful , beautiful , and have so much more to give . It’s like once you turn 40 something your nesting extinction and once 50 you’re invisible all because these men think they are some big catch . I just don’t see anything positive at this point and wonder what 10 years from now will look like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 11:04 PM
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There is an old coworker on my Facebook who is on a relationship or rather I feel I’m in it too because she posts every dinner date , night in, fight , breakup , makeup . We go from love of my life to breakup quotes to I’m so thankful for you in my life posts .. it’s nauseating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 12:21 AM
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Oh my goodness , I was just talking to a man who said the exact same things to the word !! He was older gentleman . Immediately unmatched with him !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 01:50 AM
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Some days I feel like I’m the only one who experiences this , I thought maybe it was just my geographical area . Then I came on here and see others experiencing this as well . I don’t have the answer , but I refuse for it to make me more bitter . I think we just have to accept this is where we are , celebrate where we have been and hold each other up as women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 01:46 AM
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So does more hair , tighter abs and a bigger dick that can go more than 10 minutes and multiple times a night , but we are holding out hope for you guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 07:11 PM
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And I can say the same for the younger men ,, we don’t need to try harder . We all have made successful careers , raised our kids , own are homes and experiences t nothing from you , but to be genuine, happy , and mutually enjoy our company . Instead of being intimidated by it and going the easy route for someone you don’t have to put the work to impress . Just my thoughts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 07:07 PM
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I feel like the younger girls are what the men my age are going after , afraid of losing their youth and trying to obtain this fantasy that is always in front of them in media , celebrity etc that younger is better . I do feel we as 40 somethings and older are struggling and alone but in the future it will be us who have adapted and can enjoy life there and sadly these men will be alone and miserable . I don’t know what the answer is , but to enjoy our full lives for ourselves right now and let …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 04:50 PM
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