Why men come back... And why you shouldn't take him back

cherieblosum · 2020-07-01T21:27:14+00:00

Men come back because their life without a woman in it is considerably worse. They don't have someone to talk to, they don't have someone to sleep with, no one is around to cook or clean for them. All they do is sit in their filth, bored, depressed, and lonely.

FurryBellyButt0n · 2020-07-01T20:48:32+00:00

Toxic is when they can't treat you right but they can't let you go either.

Don't seek closure, the best way to get that for yourself is moving on, leveling up, and never giving them the opportunity to get back into your head rent free. You wasted enough time on that loser. You're off on a new, better path Queen!

lonelybones1 · 2020-07-01T17:07:02+00:00

My ex did this after about 2 months or so and wanted to see me again. Then I told him that I have better things to do and preparing for university. He got really bitter after that lol. 😂😭

BaffledBazaar · 2020-07-01T19:45:44+00:00

Happened to me, almost textbook. I didnt want to break up, he was getting shallow attention from others. Broke up, he played around for 3 months, but none of the people he thought he had a chance with actually wanted him. Then once he heard I was happy in a new relationship, he came back, CRYING. Couldnt even hide his resentment that I was seeing someone else and wasn't taking him back. Couldnt be happy for me, someone he allegedly cared about. Years later, he heard I was single and tried to worm his way back in at party and I had none of it. He spent the rest of the night sulking.

el-magnoona · 2020-07-01T14:50:32+00:00

I found this on drinksforgayz Instagram

DoeEyedBrownSkin · 2020-07-01T21:01:32+00:00

I love R.H. Sin. His books are such easy reads. Short poems about the woman’s side of relationships, feminism and just feel good poems.

Highly recommend!

OP, which of his books is this please? I have 3 🤗

Vinoandkisses19 · 2020-07-01T23:38:50+00:00

This is most truthful post I’ve seen on the Internet! Get it out there this is exactly how they play the game and it’s up to you to not participate! Stay strong ladies !

_Atalanta_ · 2020-07-02T17:14:16+00:00

Already learned this the hard way, but great to see it put into words! 👍

Ms_Tilly · 2020-07-01T21:44:21+00:00

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Title	Why men come back... And why you shouldn't take him back
Author	el-magnoona
Upvotes	380
Comments	23
Date	July 1, 2020 2:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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OP, which of his books is this please? I have 3 🤗