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NAH, SISDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:51 PM
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STAY WOKEDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:55 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?DoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 12:21 PM
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WHOLESOME CONTENTDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:47 AM
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FIELD REPORT DoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:15 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?DoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:24 AM
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REMINDER 👑DoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 09:01 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 09:13 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:04 PM
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#JustLVMThingsDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:14 AM
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PICKME CULTUREDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:15 PM
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#JustLVMThingsDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:49 AM
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FDS HUMORDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:08 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 06:09 AM
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PICKME CULTUREDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:42 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 10:21 PM
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STAY WOKEDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:41 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:04 PM
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NAH, SISDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 11:04 PM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:36 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 04:05 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:58 PM
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STAY WOKEDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 09:04 PM
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NAH, SISDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:25 AM
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FDS HUMORDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 07:52 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF FAMEDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:40 PM
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PICKME CULTUREDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 11:15 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:14 PM
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#JustLVMThingsDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:11 AM
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#JustLVMThingsDoeEyedBrownSkin/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:48 AM
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Walk away if he as little as blinks funny! Walk away with pride every damn time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:22 PM
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So much to unpack here. 1) stop living with men without commitment 2) stop being a forever girlfriend. 1 year max before moving to the next level or next better man. 3) there is not a “type of man who doesn’t cheat”. Men are as loyal as their options! 4) yes, yes, you’re less special to him because you have no back bone and you’re readily available. 5) what should you do? What you should have done 1 year ago is leave. Leave now and never look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:18 PM
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Where are they getting all these strange conclusions from? This is what happens when idiots sit in their musty basements for too long. Long term exposure to asbestos. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 09:19 PM
42

As it turns out 😂 shouldn’t he be grateful she’s interested in him? Audacity really is on sale this year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 11:19 AM
143

Lol mixologist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 10:22 AM
26

*Affect. Now I can sleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 04:51 AM
3

I use various brands but I love Freeman’s!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:59 AM
8

I’ve literally been masking daily. What pores? 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:23 AM
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Arguing over someone who can’t care less and is still saving pictures as we speak 😌 Great use of time. I wish women can equally care less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:17 AM
1

So I went to the salon... I already knew the end lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:13 AM
57

Lol what a roller coaster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 08:16 AM
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😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:30 PM
3

A way for me to pass time before my next date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:29 PM
11

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:28 PM
8

I didn’t wna question-shame but I’m wondering the same thing. Did she read the handbook or is she new here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:24 PM
7

Lol which man have you met looooves to just cuddle?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:24 PM
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So embarrassing, I’m not opening the link 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:21 PM
3

I would buy some groceries for myself and head right home to my comfy pjs ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:18 PM
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Sounds like our newest FDS ambassador.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:08 PM
74

I’m looking for the problem here. I can’t find it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:06 PM
3

That’s an insult against bullshit. Bullshit is still useful as manure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:27 AM
2

She should have unmatched him right there, in his face and walked out in the first 10 mins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:25 AM
18

In this case - If you have to think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:17 AM
7

Preaching to a voluntarily deaf congregation 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:26 PM
7

The Audacity. Not “can I spend the night?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:24 PM
4

If the roles were flipped, he’d have ghosted her. Please do the same, stop all this cOMmUnicAtiNg!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:23 PM
28

How tf do you even get shit on the tub for the love of God?! Was there an exorcism in there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:21 PM
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27 for a woman, Yh she’s likely mature. For a man? Oh my, it’s prime wild oats sowing time. It takes a rare man to be mature below 30 in these times. And they still don’t mature in their 30s-40s. So age really isn’t a sign of maturity, but the lower you go... 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:16 AM
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Slow clap...I hope she sticks to it. I had to scroll back to see his age, I’m not surprised. Too young and stupid to appreciate affection. And he knows he was gaslighting her telling her to lighten up. Oh I’ll lighten up alright, by offloading the deadweight you are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:45 PM
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I dodged that story, thankfully 😷😷😷😷😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:46 PM
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When a guy writes anything about his “cooking skills” in his bio 🙄 I can almost guarantee 100% he’ll ask you to come over so you can have “fun” cooking. He probably said he makes the best pasta and it ends up tasting like expired ketchup 🙄 Watch out for “likes cooking together” or “eating/cooking is more fun with company” 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 Bruh, you can’t even make toast without burning it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 12:34 AM
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I’m using this on the next scrote, gracias! 💐 Dead fish, debris and sewage go with the flow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:45 PM
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I go there when I need a laugh at 2 am and then sleep peacefully single 😌💤 What a cesspool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:42 PM
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Bruh 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 06:05 PM
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“Besides this being illegal...” killed me 😂 laughing on the road right now. Jokes aside, who birthed this imbecile?! Most women know that “spontaneous”, “go with the flow”, “don’t take yourself seriously” shit are for the “cool girls” to succumb to easy sex. Dumbo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:19 PM
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I think he’s 8. He missed spelling class.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:40 PM
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I asked him if he’d prefer me to be a peasant instead. Silence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:28 PM
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🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:33 PM
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I was called “Princess”. Gladly, he left me to reign in peace. Again, only the poors complain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:24 PM
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Gets high, hooks up with old tinder date, compromises her previous standard but wants a relationship because “tHeY geT aloNg aS peoPLe” And we wonder why men play women like this and mock them. 😂🤣 Women, know who tf you are! You’re wayyyyy more powerful than this low level crap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:56 PM
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This is like wiping your butt before taking a poop. And then leaving wondering why you stink 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:31 PM
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I bet he’s 5”2 and his beard doesn’t connect. As usual, only the poors complain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:10 AM
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I sniffed her too 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:09 AM
9

Thank you. Let me know if you find other HV friends, I’d like to join the fun, virtually lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:10 AM
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My father always says (in relation to success) there’s always room at the top. What I recently figured out is that the top can be lonely and that’s okay. Because not everyone has the guts to climb that high. That’s my view and I believe I’ll find my people whenever I do. That’s not a solution but that’s my perspective. Other than that, I have 3 close HV male friends but in a different country and we communicate quite well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:01 AM
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With this idiot, it wasn’t that deep. There is no deep explanation, he isn’t capable of deep thoughts. He just wanted the quick and cheap way. He isn’t deep enough to qualify as a premeditated serial killer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:52 AM
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Breaking news 👩‍🏫🧑‍🏫 Woman approaching expensive steak restaurant disappears! Footage features an old man limping away. Further investigation shows subreddit advising her to cOmMuNIcatE. Please do not try this at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:11 AM
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Virtual therapy will definitely work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:05 AM
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She should cOmMuniCAte 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:04 AM
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The firsts comment cracked me up! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:55 PM
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Can I just add how irritating it is that he uses “like” several times in his sentences? Definitely mentally underdeveloped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:10 PM
60

I don’t think he faked it to be honest, he just never got attention until he got fit. He looked like a supporting character in all their vlogs, just an empty shell. He was a 2/10 when they met. She relied on him for happiness. He probably felt valued, until he got fit and thought “wow, another woman is validating me”. Suddenly thought the grass was greener. It looks that shallow to me, no in-depth reason for that piece of shit to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:03 PM
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If you look closely, there were subtle signs. Not signs of murder but signs that he is pathetic/LV/empty. 1) he was overweight and looked like he had no game and super shy/subdued (watch the relationship presentation he made and him sitting in the park looking unfit). 2) she pushed him away, was bossy, declined his attempts several times but he persisted - nice guy/LVM with no options. And she finally accepted the “nice guy”. 3) She admitted she bosses/humiliates him (doesn’t mean she deserves i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:56 PM
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Goes to show you how guys easily end things with women. Women, be like this too instead of finding excuses to keep stupid men. If he breathes funny, cut him off. I don’t agree with him though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 09:31 AM
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Thankfully there was a bed frame. But his electric toothbrush was on the floor. Gladly, the toothbrush head was on the dresser. The flashback is nauseating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:36 PM
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One ex-clown said men who spoil their girlfriends are overcompensating. This 🤡lives in a cardboard box and didn’t understand the concept of chandeliers. He said a bulb is enough. Moral of the story - only the poors complain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:59 PM
34

Next - “take you to your grave cos I’m satan” 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:15 PM
20

This is funny 😂 just breathe 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:13 PM
20

LVM - “Oh are you good at Netflix and chill?” Me feigning ignorance - “What is that?” LVM - “takes 10 mins typing and typing - it means Netflix and relax” Blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:55 PM
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Trash beside the dumpster. Should have just hopped into the dumpster to complete the look 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:26 AM
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Y’all I’m tired of all these fancy words for single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:54 AM
27

Oh please! He didn’t. He’s obviously trying to look “decent” to you. So what he’s saying is you’re Jesus who suddenly pointed out his stupidity and he’s a changed man now? Just like that? Buhahahahahahha 🙅🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:49 AM
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I’m confused. He prefers monogamous play - whatever that means - but he isn’t monogamous? 💆🏻‍♀️ Watch what they do not what they say 💁🏻‍♀️ brilliant example here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:44 AM
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The look of confusion + silence 💀 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:32 PM
4

Haha. “Have” a boyfriend 😂 Sis, you had nothing. There’s nothing to dump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:04 PM
4

Sir, as a catering assistant, how can you afford to maintain such a Queen? Who was your math teacher?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:06 PM
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I’m confused satan. Why do you need to see how I’m doing? What will you do if I’m doing well or not? How does that affect you? Losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:04 PM
44

Ghost him AND go on tinder 😊 That would be maddening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:49 PM
10

Wow. Look at this wall of rubbish text when he could have just treated her better in the first place 🥴 Did you notice it’s still all about him?? “I”, “me me me”. Idiot. People like this really should be forever alone and stop making other people miserable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:38 PM
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Cute, pretty, sexy, gorgeous, beautiful as an opener = I want to have sex with you as quickly as possible with little effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:34 PM
35

Even Joey laughs at “being himself” 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:44 AM
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Naaa mate, I’ll grab the popcorn and enjoy the damn show. Why miss the opportunity to watch him crash and burn?! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:04 PM
2

Zara home has amazing candles too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:59 PM
1

Thank you! Enjoy your puppy! 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:44 PM
4

After my ex, I’m in a whole new country/continent, make more money than I know what to do with, work for one of the top 3 companies in the world, enjoy my hobbies, adopting a cat in 2 days, and most importantly, I have peace of mind 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:26 PM
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Yes, in due time. Shop if you can lol and don’t be too hard on yourself. It gets better, I promise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:23 PM
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Love it! 💐 So wholesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:21 PM
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Sis that’s a facepalm not tears of joy 🤦🏻‍♀️ He’s embarrassed and emasculated...in his pink shorts and flowers🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:18 PM
3

Tehehe 😩😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:11 PM
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🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:02 PM
9

Are you me? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:16 PM
5

Give her a few more years of this “lav” and naivety 😊 Even if I’m not busy, I will purposely go make myself busy just to ensure a man is not the center of my universe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:34 PM
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🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:33 PM
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What about you lol They can’t even make the effort to type it 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:11 PM
12

The best thing? GHOST HIM. NO explanation, NO goodbye. That would be maddening 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:11 PM
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People hate rejection, which is normal. BUT if you dump/reject a LVM? You have a target on your back. They’ll do WHATEVER it takes to gain that power back. That’s his end game. My brother explained this to me. Men are driven by their egos, nothing else. That’s why they always come back. Not love, EGO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:06 PM
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I don’t even know what that is... 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 08:50 PM
1

I love her!!!! Someone invite her here NOW!!! The friend we all need!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 08:46 PM
21

“Bored” = BLOCKED “WBY” = what?! BLOCKEDT!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:35 PM
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Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:54 PM
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Option 5 - leave them on read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:03 PM
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Zero logic. She likes you so she must be stupid? What a dumb leaf. We cannot win with these insecure idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:00 PM
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If you need to write a whole textbook about the problem, it’s time to pack and exit left. Men know, they simply pretend just to get away with crap. See bullshit, leave bullshit. Problem solved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:53 PM
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Lol men are not that dumb. They know what they’re doing, they simply act oblivious so they can continue and laugh behind your back. Adopt this mentality too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:50 PM
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He wasn’t polite to you, intruding your space. Polite for what then? Next time, scream “security!!” Lol nice for what??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:59 PM
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Child throwing tantrums over his cereal. Why isn’t he blocked yet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:06 AM
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Dive or swerve. Pretend it’s dodgeball.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:41 PM
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You know, they can lie as well just to impress women. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Can’t trust anything these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:48 PM
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What the hell? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:30 PM
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Good lesson on self respect. I’d ditch this train wreck if I were you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:39 AM
3

Can he learn how to write first, please? Gave me a damn headache trying to decode this crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:30 AM
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It’s too late now, she’ll probably see you as a hater if you criticize her decision. Congratulate her and go on your merry way. We’ve all learned the hard way; they just purchased her classroom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:37 PM
5

Just ordered it because of you, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:21 PM
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Pass the eye-bleach to us at the back please! 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:41 PM
10

This! My guy friend gave me this advice long ago. One guy told me he likes me because I’m shorter than him and most women here aren’t (among other selfish reasons). I felt it was just two weeks in so he probably doesn’t know me yet. LOL. Also said when I walked in on our first date, he felt like he lost control because I was prettier than when he met me (running errands in a bun and shades). He dumped me 2 months in because I wouldn’t put up with his occasional use of hallucinogenic drugs and ke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:16 PM
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Wtf did I just read? Lol this is definitely one of those mgtow children, trying so hard and desperately to prove dominance. She laughed. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:17 PM
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Clutching my pearls 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 11:32 PM
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“Yes, he is always available, even when sold”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:02 PM
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When men type like this, they’re 100% stupid, guaranteed. “Wife an asian girl”. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:00 PM
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Sis, you’re not a cheerleader. Stop cheering sad men up. No man will gravitate towards a sad woman at a party, let alone a man in a relationship. Sorry this happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:56 PM
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She said everyone in her town hates her 😐(me trying not to laugh). But who takes a girl on onlyfans/drives milessss for him seriously? 😑 Desperation is unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:28 PM
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She’s a LVW at 20 🤦🏻‍♀️ - onlyfans account, drives for 2 days to have sex with a man she never met and fights with him for commitment all in the same day, then rants about not caring about it for dayssssss 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ Her “exposing” him is not revenge. He’s getting popular and she’s doing all the work. If she was so “unbothered”, she wouldn’t make numerous TikToks about him. Her saying exposing him is karma, these men don’t care. I’m quite sure he’s gotten more women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:11 PM
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Unfortunately, her “exposing” him is not revenge. He’s getting popular and she’s doing all the work still. If she was so “unbothered”, she wouldn’t make numerous TikToks about him. Her saying exposing him is karma like these men care. I’m quite sure he’s gotten more women from this rubbish. He has more respect from his NV friends. She’s also a LVW at 20 🤦🏻‍♀️ - onlyfans account, drives for 2 days to have sex with a man she never met, then rants about not caring about it for dayssssss 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:06 PM
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I don’t feel bad for laughing 😆 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:43 PM
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“Beneath her armpit...” - Um, no thanks “Circling, lots of circling” - Um what? Lol “It’ll just pop up” - 🤦🏻‍♀️ “pew pew pew pew pew” - OK, wtf? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:21 PM
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💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:34 PM
5

I ❤️ Bob’s Burgers!! Do you ladies notice the neighboring store front changes in every episode?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:08 PM
20

Finally someone said this. He looks like a failed wannabe rapper while she looks neat and pretty. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:28 AM
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That idiot posted that? Where? So he supports this crap?? Isn’t he always pandering to women to be strong when his love life is in shambles??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:25 AM
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I am so grateful I didn’t date till I was 20. Even then, it was a shitshow. Focus on your personal growth, career and hobbies and watch yourself flourish and become a self-fulfilled person. It’ll influence your future dating life positively. Guys your age are raging with hormones, sex is only the motive. They are definitely not looking to lock 1 woman down. So date with this in mind if you really want to, to avoid disappointments. Other than that, no, don’t force yourself to “click” or force the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:32 AM
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BLOCKEDTTT. After sending him a suicide prevention hotline or something. Who has the patience for this incel convo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:10 AM
2

Definitely wouldn’t be dating any man in uni, they simply aren’t ready to date you properly. I’m not certain how to help but I’ll definitely recommend dating men with jobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:01 AM
2

Ah see, I don’t date uni men lol they’re still at uni, where the hell are they gna take you except the park? 😂 Plus I’m in my late twenties and work a pretty great job so some men I’ve met weed themselves out because they just know I’m not going to the park lol If I’m on bumble, I look at their education, job, grooming and bio. If all these look like he’ll take me to a park, I swipe left. I also ask for recommendations of great restaurants and bars since I’m new here. If they recommended dingy p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:55 AM
1

Yh I’m sticking to expats or (rear) high caliber Dutch men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:42 AM
1

Lmao! Here, being flexible is synonymous with accepting anything. They’re so used to women accepting tap water dates that a 10 euro glass of Chardonnay and meal is expensive. It’s a no for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:38 AM
27

If this crusty thing can have standards, ladies there is no reason to not stick to yours!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:24 AM
1

I would never be sold on this 50/50 rubbish. Barely anyone gets married?! Wtf. What kind of cool aid are they serving? Sounds like a pickmeisha country. I read somewhere that women actually criticize men for showing them affection, like calling them during lunchtime or giving gifts because they want to be treated like they’re iNDePendENt 🤦🏻‍♀️ The men here sure enjoy the fruits of feminism. And what’s the deal with all these low effort “walk in the park, bring snacks and cheap liquor, sit on a c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:21 AM
2

Again, I think you misunderstood. High heels and wigs aren’t practical everywhere. What I mean is sometimes, it looks like zero effort was put in. I’ve seen a lot of grunge boots and baggy shredded jeans. I think the lack of effort is quite noticeable compared to other parts of the world. Seoul for example. You’ll hardly see heels and wigs but just a cute top, properly fitted jeans and sandals/cute sneakers makes a difference. Oh and I was in for a shocker with the Dutch men’s dating style 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:05 AM
2

It’s okay not to wear makeup at all but sometimes I feel some people here need a comb. And what’s up with the funny pattern pants I see everywhere? There’s a masculine dress sense here and apparently, even the men have noticed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:58 AM
41

”For the third time this week” faints
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:02 AM
3

Just moved to Amsterdam and I’ve been facepalming so hard, my damn face is flat! 🤦🏻‍♀️ The local dating scene, the lack of grooming effort in some women. I’m confused man! So damn confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:50 AM
18

I’m not sure who is worse, Akshay or his desperate mother. He’s still a fetus and has some growing to do. I think they should get married 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:59 PM
1

His beard doesn’t even connect 🤦🏻‍♀️ are those boots meant to be hot? 🤢 Go away Johnny!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:53 PM
3

This was also on investigation discovery. So disheartening and vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 07:32 AM
3

He isn’t a gentleman - most people aren’t decent. My opinion is straight to the point because I expect people to be this way till proven otherwise. If she isn’t in the right headspace, maybe she should take time off dating to get better because it’ll only hurt if she isn’t. OP is asking how to bounce back. Bounce back by reading “establishing queen energy”. She asked on a public forum, not everyone’s comment will empathize or look the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 10:00 AM
4

My point is there is sooo much analysis poured into 1 man and 1 date. 5 dates and silence? Yes we can be upset. Just 1 date? Analyzing his words and meaning is pointless. He’s a stranger who owes her nothing. Not knocking OP but if you take men’s words with a pinch of salt, it’ll really help. My message to OP is to prepare for this. Dating right now is filled with disappointments and fun. And if OP is really looking for a way to bounce off this, read “establishing queen energy from day 1” in the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 09:34 AM
2

“It was lovely to meet you” is just that. That doesn’t translate into “I want to see you again”. We need to read statements for what they actually are, not between the lines. Can you actually call it ghosting if you only met once? I don’t think so. After a significant time has been spent together, yes. Just met last week? I doubt it. If OP was dating multiple people, gets serious with someone else and she didn’t notice he hasn’t reached out to her, I doubt if we’ll even have this post at all. OP…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 09:10 AM
9

It’s not about him “not being worth it”. Just because someone doesn’t want to see you after 1 date doesn’t make them worthless. There’s no obligation to date you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:05 AM
2

I’m not kidding, I’m just blocking 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 09:14 PM
50

We’ll get along if yOu dONt TAke yOuRself SeRiously = I’ll neg you flUeNt iN sArcasm = I’ll neg you i hAve mY owN tEetH anD hAir = he’s stupid enough to not know some people have genuine health battles or just choose to wear extensions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 07:26 AM
1

ORIGINAL POST + MY COMMENTARY I rearranged my calendar to accommodate his schedule, suggested a park near his place so he could just stroll over after work (I figured I should be more considerate since I'm unemployed and I would personally appreciate the same if the roles were reversed), {MISTAKE no1} Spent HOURS over two days getting ready (severe neglect on personal grooming since lock down), and was already on my way to meet him. {...WHAT?!} He bailed. {Sis, anyone could have predicted this} …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:32 PM
25

Ding ding ding!! Taps temple 🧏🏾‍♂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 05:15 PM
18

😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 05:12 PM
54

I was in the same situation. I didn’t even wish him luck before unmatching because I actually wish them bad luck. ~NiceForWhat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 05:05 PM
153

Plot twist: He isn’t moving anywhere. This is a “valid excuse” for when he ghosts. Taps temple 🧏🏾‍♂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 05:01 PM
15

Make this make sense please. I don’t even understand what I’m reading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:21 AM
1

First of all 👆🏻 you are not a pilot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:35 PM
66

No Paragraphs. It’s in the handbook, mirror their effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:22 PM
8

He’s not wrong about one thing though. Yes, she chose to be single and happy 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 12:15 AM
10

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 12:14 AM
8

Top lie. I rarely respond. But if I do, I tell them it takes the same thumb energy to open both the app and WhatsApp. My Instagram is private, so no. Call? Oh bumble offers calling options. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:59 AM
7

Even at that, there’s still no guarantee. Isn’t life fun? 😃🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 12:18 AM
39

🤡 She’d live for this everyday and she’ll die when he leaves for someone with self respect. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:59 PM
14

Only 20 years old with all these issues? I’m sorry for anyone who looks in this crazy little boy’s direction. Lost all brain cells to weed. RIP 🏁 🍼👶🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:50 PM
1

Da fuq? 😆🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:51 PM
13

😳😂I applaud your response 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:52 AM
3

Exactly! #NiceForWhat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:17 AM
18

Yes and no. It shows that leveling up looks-wise and hobbies will give you more options in men. It also shows that you need to be a “bitch” towards men (why men love bitches)- when Gerard Butler hung up on her crush and her crush became smitten. But, I don’t believe in getting the “player” - which ultimately was Gerard Butler. So take some and leave some. My guy friend recommended I watch it when I was confused about a guy. He wanted me to be tougher with men. Simply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:36 PM
13

Sigh... I am yet to see one where they’re TRULY living happily ever after and not a sham. But I’m not looking in that direction anyway, so 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:38 PM
13

He had the audacity to show his face lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:36 PM
6

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:12 PM
5

Name matches bio.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:09 PM
51

Exactly. When you’re unsure of how to respond to a man’s text, give your phone to your brother or trusted male friend to respond like you. Watch the miracle unfold. They’ll show you how to treat their fellow men harshly. Watch ‘The ugly truth’ where Gerard Butler hangs up on Katherine Heigl’s crush and accurately predicted his next move. Men know other men. I’ve tried it, works like magic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:46 PM
11

They’ll lash out at straightforward behavior but guess what? They only respect the women who treat them harshly. He literally said “tell me to F-off”, HE MEANS IT. Men slip up sometimes and tell you what to do, pay attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:39 PM
12

I’m just mad that you were STILL BEING NICE and he was still making you feel guilty for declining such a degrading thing. And paragraphs. Wth?! Stop being nice. Stop babying men’s feeling. Next time. “No” or silence is enough. Feel free to even tell him he’s stupid, shallow and immature for asking for such. Be harsh. Nice girls always lose. Divas get respect. He would never ask Beyoncé or Cher for such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:36 PM
8

Live and learn. No worries, most of us have been there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:42 PM
15

My mind already checked out when he invited you over because he has an oven. Lordt 😐 This man isn’t a HVM, he simply put in bare minimum effort. Ordering food for you is expected not magnificent. But house dates are low effort anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:46 PM
108

Even a man says “drop him” 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:21 PM
18

Or till marriage so the trash can realllly make it to the landfill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:06 AM
7

😂🤣🤣🤣 or he becomes deaf and can’t hear her cussing him out 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:40 PM
3

I wouldn’t even bother responding after “pretty far for me”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 12:05 PM
16

Last time I tagged someone, she got offended. I’d leave them to live and learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:00 AM
13

Musty shirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 09:08 AM
10

Original post 47M hookup sending me 25F mixed messages As the title states, he doesn't consider us a "hookup" but he hasn't dropped the gf title on me. He has stated that he's not seeing anyone else (I had earlier requested that if he does and he wants to still have sex, he needs to use a condom) and the other day, he left his shirt intentionally at my house post-"sleepover." He mentioned it in a text later and suggested I put it on when I got home. We ended up hooking up again later that night …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:26 AM
8

First if all sir 🌝☝🏻 it’s “you’re” not “your” 🧐 Secondly, 🖕🏻 Thirdly, if you’re really sorry to disturb her then don’t bother her. But we know you don’t mean it so, take your clown script and go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:36 AM
7

I’m shocked! Shocked I tell you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:31 AM
12

I love R.H. Sin. His books are such easy reads. Short poems about the woman’s side of relationships, feminism and just feel good poems. Highly recommend! OP, which of his books is this please? I have 3 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:01 PM
3

Just the word penis in a bio isn’t smart. Meaning he makes dumb decisions. We don’t want dumb people, so pass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:07 PM
31

Sis, men are not that deep with all this territory talk. He was testing your boundaries. Next, it’ll be his finger up your skirt. They’ll keep going as long as you allow it. They just want sex, simple. How you react determines what category they put you in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 10:29 PM
16

Nothingness lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:21 PM
46

I love how people in the original post comments are either nope-ing away from him or redirecting him to therapy (which he probably won’t take). A teeny bit of hope in humanity is restored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 11:04 PM
59

This is how men gaslight women out of sanity. If her sister or daughter or even her pet asked the same question, she’ll give the right answer in a split second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 10:00 PM
52

Speaking of true crime... Have you noticed how some women who were killed by their husbands on Investigation Discovery were “PickMes”? Seeing red flags early on and “enduring” the marriage until they were murdered? Being a PickMe has far worse consequences than the surface level problems we see here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:13 AM
23

Ouch. That comment burns. It’s a ticking time bomb. People never learn, social media couples hardly ever make it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:50 AM
12

Would probably get taken down by the patriarchy. Ever wonder why some fathers are overprotective of their daughters? Because men know the bullshit they’re capable of. Taps temple 🧏🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:44 AM
54

If this was me: 1) I would have unmatched after “bitches”. The audacity. 2) there would be no “lol”, “😂” or “lmfao”. These seem like nervous laughs or softening your words. Never be afraid to offend these insignificant abominations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:38 AM
67

Ladies, she created another tiktok after that, praising him for doing basic duties 🤦🏻‍♀️ y’all, I can’t 😑 And another one saying “tiktok whipped “them” into shape. Looks like she’s been gaslit enough times to share his blame and defend him or put up a good face for the world. Don’t do this and don’t post your personal life on social media. No one cares. In fact, people are waiting to see you fail. Ps - he looks like a fckboy too. Pps - they dated for 3 months, she got pregnant and he decided to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:14 AM
7

K, byeeeeeeeeeeeee ✌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 03:40 PM
28

First of all! A coast guard is NOT a sailor! 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:16 PM
108

His sob story probably is that his wife is pregnant and hE hAs NeEdS 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:08 PM
139

Sigh... In dating, very few things have a higher probability than a man bailing after sex too soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:03 PM
21

Coming from r/Seduction he WAS creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:01 PM
143

Stupid men will blame just about anything except themselves. Now, it’s the big city’s fault?! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 11:28 PM
5

I’m a bit shocked though. Yes, we’ve established that this man is up to no good but, how does this not sound disgusting to OP?! Why is it even a question? I’m confused. Not for the man but for OP’s sense of good and eww.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 06:20 PM
7

I’m a bit confused as to why a dumpster doesn’t irritate you to even ask about?? Why a dumpster doesn’t automatically sound like a bad intention to just you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 06:13 PM
16

Sis, this post made me feel like all our FDS work hasn’t paid off. Like we’ve regressed so far back that we’re saving women from dumpsters. 🤦🏻‍♀️ I’m perplexed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:20 PM
5

Are you still unsure of what to do? Also, why did you even consider the idea?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:15 PM
11

When men “lol” or “😂” unnecessarily - that’s an idiot’s flag 🚩 5’2, no job, has only had luck with party goers and drug addicts, cannot write a bio? Little boy, you’re definitely NOT winning 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:02 PM
34

What is an FDS member doing in dumpsters? Are you trolling? Diving into trash isn’t okay. Can’t believe I just typed that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 02:58 PM
24

To ease their stupid guilt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:41 AM
30

That rubbish “lol” they type after saying some rubbish annoys me. It’s their cushion for whatever bullshit they’ve spewed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:38 AM
3

Please pass the eye-bleach to us at the back. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 10:23 AM
2

You did the right thing, your friends seem like they’ll accept any behavior just to have any man. I hope you deleted his details. Next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 07:34 AM
15

So, who’s the loser here? 😂 dumbo. He’s so fugly that he can’t show his face or cultivate a hobby other than negative energy. Plot twist, we get a ton of matches and he’s an afterthought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 09:14 PM
25

Girl, tell him you’re on your way and mute him + pretend you never had this conversation 😂 Then when he asks you the next day, do exactly what they do - “uhh something came up, uhh muh bros” 😂 Time to have fun with these fools.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 07:08 AM
12

Good, I hope she keeps walking. Her boots were made for storming out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 06:57 AM
18

Abundance isn’t necessary quantity. Abundance is a mindset. Not worrying about saying no to those 10 LVM because your mindset is “better is on it’s way”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:42 PM
8

When men use that wink emoji, I feel so disgusted and I stop responding🤢 They actually think it’s a good emoji 😂 cringeworthy. They use it so test your temperature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:38 PM
31

I stop responding to men at 9 pm, and pick back up at 12 noon the next day. Saves me from the late night idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:36 PM
10

These boys and their new found audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:34 PM
3

Self realization is the right first step 🤗🤗🤗🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 05:49 PM
11

And...I hate to be the bearer of bad news but 😑 he didn’t actually do anything wrong apart from rejecting her 😑 which everyone has a right to. Everyone is entitled to turn down sex - that isn’t the definition of LVM. If he is, leave him alone. She asked, he said no, she’s mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 02:39 PM
20

Nothing fantastic can come from complimenting a man you’re not committed to. The first time he said no to sex should have been the point where you noped out. Best believe he isn’t dumb, he knows you wanted sex and he didn’t, so he talked about other random things. How old is he? Talking about mortal combat characters. Just why...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:30 AM
1

🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:24 AM
3

Like! Who disses champagne? NVM, that’s who.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:58 PM
6

Fcking hell!!!! 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:57 PM
4

More tmi 🤢 I did not know that! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 05:19 PM
20

Exactly. I prefer dating guys of average height because I’m short and I’m not trying to break my back or feel like I’m dating my uncle. That “women don’t like me because I’m short” sentiment is in their heads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:33 AM
15

This! Make him drive hours for a fake date to a pigsty - dogs are wayyyyyy better than this piece of shit. But no turning back. Once you have your say, ghost him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:23 AM
33

Pickmeishas’ mating call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:17 AM
80

Maids get paid and respected to do this. What does this woman get? Pubes on the sink for free. I can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 12:31 AM
9

I literally regurgitated my dinner ☹️🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:16 AM
1

Eh. People who are really unbothered don’t broadcast it and list all the normal things they have + putting 100% in one man? You know those people who repeatedly say “I don’t care”? Yh...buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:05 AM
47

“Ha okay. Send me the first $8k before our date”. Then 👻 They’ll learn, but probably not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:41 PM
227

HITTING IS PART OF UPS AND DOWNS? Okay, let’s beat this man senseless daily🤗🤗 it’s only part of life eh? Fool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:37 PM
108

Like everything about women must revolve around men 🙄 narrow sighted idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 08:36 AM
558

What in the world are we talking about for 2 stupid years? Edit: I don’t understand this award, can someone explain? 😂 thank you if it’s good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:08 AM
4

So maybe the flair isn’t obvious but this is for laughs not a rescue mission or seeking advice. I purposely engaged because I wanted to entertain myself for two minutes and unmatched. Not date him for two years. Clearly by now, we know how to block/unmatch, this is FDS 101. Taking this “wasting of time” thing far. We are also allowed to laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:26 AM
10

When they start debating, I peace out ✌🏽 If I engage, they either backpedal or I bruise their egos. I know because they suddenly take 30 mins to respond - their comeback takes that long and they eventually concede. Or Never mind because I’m on a dating site to be romanced, not engage in their pissing contest. Depends on if I have the energy and 3 mins to spare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:02 AM
84

I thought it was a joke but she’s actually responded to comments on TikTok: _@itsnursedonna: “I have been doing it for over five years don’t plan on stopping any time soon_” What the hell?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 02:35 AM
2

Sigh...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 11:06 PM
-3

Should I have packed my response in one paragraph? It initially sounded like a bad pickup line so I let it play out. It wasn’t, I had 2 mins to call him out and unmatched - simply because I felt like it, it was funny 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 09:04 PM
6

So I’m somewhere in Europe and English isn’t the native language in this particular country. I don’t fault them for not being perfect English speakers because I don’t speak their language either. But they comprehend and speak English every damn day so it’s not even an excuse. And I’m a grammar police so I’m already accommodating enough lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 08:51 PM
3

I mean, this rubbish cowgirl question started at 2 pm - I thought it was a funny pickup line and waited for the punchline. I went out, had lunch, came home, took a nap, opened the app, it’s 9 pm and he was still on it - it really was the best he could do 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 08:48 PM
12

He’s not interested. He isn’t Superman, why would the rising COVID cases affect his ability to communicate with you? Except he is a healthcare worker. If someone wants you, they won’t bid you farewell - he let you down nicely. But I like that you found another use for him lol kittens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 08:44 PM
1

He had a smart bio and actually put effort into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 08:38 PM
6

Backpedaling so fast, he can generate energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 08:11 PM
-7

Okay, sunnybunny 🙂 keep approaching men like this then 👍🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 07:48 PM
18

It also irritates me when they play dumb “hahah so confused”. Ditsy as fck 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 04:34 PM
24

😂 if that little exchange “confuses” him, he’s obviously dumber than a rock. I prefer the ones who are upfront, at least they own their shit, even if I don’t want said shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 04:32 PM
24

Its wonderful that you’ve realized it. And driving to you and paying is even the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:38 PM
3

Girlllllll I wish you gave the hoodie to a homeless man on his street or at least burnt it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:11 PM
26

I hope I don’t sound brash but it’s literally by carrying your brain with your heart. Be vulnerable with someone who proves they deserve it/it’s safe to be with. Don’t beat yourself up if 10 relationships fail because you have to end up with just 1 anyway not all 10. There are only two outcomes, relationships either work or don’t, there’s no in between - if you really think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:05 PM
54

Your one-line roast! 😂😂😂😂😂🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 Finish him! 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:59 PM
7

And the driving of him around + the choosing of the food to the paying of the bill + tip. The only thing missing here is her literally saying “please please date me”. Just no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:50 PM
39

I wish I copied and pasted this for him, his bewilderment! 😂 you are spot on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:49 PM
9

I wish we were all sitting together having dinner 😂 we’d be so much fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:44 PM
14

🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:25 PM
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“I really want to see you”, “Thursday - Sunday”, “whatever suits you”? Isn’t this love bombing? Why are you doing this? Looks like you’re chasing him and enabling your mistreatment. If he apologized for not making effort, then let HIM make the effort. Block and change please. I’m not trying to offend you but please stop doing this. It’s not enough to block him, change and stop treating men like sliced bread. If you need a push, consider this me pushing your buttons - be annoyed and block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:17 PM
64

Me too but today, oh dear today, I have 5 mins to spare. Sometimes, we need to hold the mirror up for them. Light that dim bulb they never use💡 so we spare the next woman the confusion. 🤡|🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:08 PM
17

I bet another FDS woman broke that lamp on a scrote’s head and walked away. Some women need to learn the meaning of ‘return on investment’, instead of investing all that money in a trash can AKA her boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:05 PM
33

Lmfao! Contact lens 😂 love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 12:47 PM
102

I swear! Like just get to the damn point instead of being weak. I actually have respect for people who are shameless about their expectations. Scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 12:32 PM
219

Listen to my story like, am I a podcast??! Am I a bedtime storyteller??! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 12:22 PM
7

What an idiot. When anything bruises their little fragile egos, they resort to condescending behavior. Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 11:48 AM
3

🤦🏻‍♀️ Realizing I haven’t gotten that lately 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 07:00 AM
83

Wow he needs to lower his standards, they’re higher than his height. Also, he’s hit the wall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:08 AM
84

I hope she intends to leave with said glasses because why is she buying a man glasses?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:06 AM
20

These idiots probably think porn = real life 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:38 PM
24

Number 5. Hallelujah! 🙌🏻 Vaginas are not ignitions. You don’t just stick it in and keep it moving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 10:51 PM
16

The mathematics of it all 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 10:34 PM
28

How some men get offended when we have standards but this man’s audacity and standard is normal 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 10:29 PM
56

And I just know instead of apologizing, he’s one of those “can’t you take a joke” types. Fool you ain’t Dave Chappelle 🤚🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 09:46 PM
30

They do it when they know you’re out of their league but they want you to see them as bigger and better than you, so you ultimately have no choice but to accept whatever they want. Reverse psychology. Losers. We matched two days ago, he’s super flirty with kiss emojis 🚩but I kept him around for entertainment, let the idiot fawn over me 🤷🏻‍♀️ I just let them act a fool for my amusement till something like this happens and I unmatch. And you’re right, I am stunning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 09:36 PM
13

They lack self-love. The media has made it seem normal. Low self esteem. Nothing better to do. No amazing life. Putting men on a pedestal. Pick one or multiple 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 09:21 PM
83

Unmatched. 🖕🏽 “Haha” “dear” “little” = subtle negging. Naaa MF I don’t know you like that. Fuck off 🖕🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 09:13 PM
6

Marriage is just one event? Let’s cut to the chase - it’s because he doesn’t have the money like he said 😂😂 the truth is in there somewhere buried under all his crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 04:57 PM
2

😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 WTF DID I JUST WATCH??!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 04:51 PM
8

Don’t beat yourself up too much, I’ve been there and we all have. The great part is the self reflection, realization and determination. We’re awake now 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 04:25 PM
12

Seriously, this post is worthy of a permanent spot in the FDS Handbook. Perfectly sums everything up. 👍🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 04:22 PM
5

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:21 PM
12

My God! After all that money, he still doesn’t want her 😂🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 07:51 AM
3

How psychos like this find people to marry them is another reason the world needs FDS. So he’s subscribed to Arranged Marriage + Newly weds + Divorce Help. All in one 🥴 😂🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 12:07 AM
24

🤣😂😂🤣😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:22 PM
16

Lmfao 😂 a loving cup. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I just googled that. Wtf I’m dying of laughter 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:19 PM
7

Slow 👏🏻 clap 👏🏻 doing the lord’s work. 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:47 PM
7

Don’t give them the blueprint to your peepee sis. Observe them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:43 PM
6

Even if he’s not telling you directly, he is hammering on this in order to normalize it before asking. Hoping you’ll stop being “uptight” before he drops the big question - “threesome baby?🥴 The fact that he doesn’t even respect your wish to stop bringing it up - why are you still accommodating his selfish ass??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:39 PM
12

If a man says #3 on a date, he will in fact get a drink or imprint of my palm on his face 👋🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:28 PM
22

Lol my response would be “if I was holding you, you would feel worse not better 🥴😂 stop texting me, I’m not a paramedic!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:25 PM
65

At least be handsome for starters. If we can’t learn, let’s have some eye candy at the very least 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:23 PM
7

😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣☝🏽😂😂🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:16 PM
8

Tell me what I MUST NOT have done 🥴🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:07 PM
4

I’m far lost in this thread that I can’t tell who is who anymore lmfao. But I’m making it clear (also as an abuse survivor) that I’m only referring to women complaining when men bail after sex after 1 month (which isn’t what OP did anyway) Not rape/abuse. Sadly, I have been there and had to kick myself to wake up. We can only hold ourselves accountable in that aspect, we can’t change men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:28 AM
2

AND if you take the time to read my comment, you’ll see where I agree. The timeline should be longer and his investment should be x10 before even considering sex. Even that doesn’t weed out the crazies but it’ll be fewer than shagging up in 1 month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:17 AM
3

I think you’re mistaken. We are not referring to committed relationships or abuse/rape, that would be crazy. We are referring to the first stage of GETTING TO KNOW someone - don’t WILLINGLY have sex with men you’ve just started dating in less than two months - it’s in the handbook. FYI, I WAS IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP - mental, emotional and then he choked me to unconsciousness. And even I can fault myself for NOT LEAVING ASAP - THAT WAS MY FAULT. But that not even what this post is about. This…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:08 AM
15

A woman actually said this to a guy’s face within 30 seconds of meeting. Savage 😂 The man told me, I re-glanced at his profile and saw why, he IS a bum. I faded into the bush like Homer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:02 AM
9

I’d also ask him to define “vibe”. Then sit back and watch the madness. 🧏🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 12:59 AM
4

First of all, if he keeps saying “homeboy” and “vibe”, just WTF. Did you meet him on the street corner? Secondly, MR CHEAPO, hanging out IS a date. Thirdly, use phone calls to figure out “vibes” if a $100 date is too risky, dumbo. These little boys need to focus on their coloring homework not dating. Way past his curfew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 12:56 AM
9

Kinda have to agree and disagree here. 1) You DO need to be harsh with yourself before it sinks in that you allowed this to happen. We’ve all been there. Intuition kicking you not to have sex TOO SOON but letting emotions take over thinking ‘’THIS one is different’/equality. We’ve ALL been there. Blaming men for disappearing after sex too soon changes literally Jack shit, they actually play this game smarter, let’s be frank. You actually need to sit down, accept your part and say - never again. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 12:37 AM
32

Scrolled back up to see their ages. 21f, 34m. Enough said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 12:01 AM
18

Scream and throw the entire man away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:11 PM
22

I’m just happy for the woman who left him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:05 PM
101

This isn’t even a red flag anymore, it’s a whole red light district sis! 🚨 Man + woman - girlfriend + cabin = cheating. Men show how they feel all the time, some women just want to believe in fairytales. Please invite her here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:35 PM
3

No worries, happy cake day! 🍰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 01:06 AM
12

If “Toxic” had a face, it would be this fruit loop. I found this comical to be honest because he pulled a ton of “tricks” that would have made me giggle because of experience and FDS. Sis, there is no girl screwing his “golden d**k”, that’s called game - to mess with your mind. If there was a girl there, why would he stress over a long distance relationship? 🤔 If he’s such a hot tamale, why does he keep coming back? 🤔 If you’re not amazing, why does he blow up your phone? 🤔 Look at your young am…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 08:28 PM
21

Wait, she’s also taking care of his elderly mom? Y’all, I can’t. 🤦🏻‍♀️ He actually said “he doesn’t like that they’re living together without marriage”. If this isn’t proof that moving in without marriage is a bad idea, I don’t know what is - if marriage is what you both want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 08:12 PM
18

Men actually show exactly how they feel, some women just try to read more complex interpretations. He showed that he doesn’t want you = he doesn’t want you. I feel for her, can someone invite her here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 08:07 PM
4

Hi5!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 07:32 PM
11

I got a BA for my birthday and I’m over the moon happy. I did my thinking and research for a year and went to the best surgeon in my city and I had the money and recovery time (quarantine/unlimited time off) open to me (I’ve just moved to a new country for an amazing job) so no regret. My clothes (including PJs) fit perfectly now and I’m perfectly proportional. There’s a beautiful difference when I go out 🙃 but subtle enough that my friends/family/new coworkers cannot tell. I’m 200% happy 😆 Best…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 07:25 PM
12

👸🏻💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 07:13 PM
40

THAT is emotional bait only a weak woman will fall for. Bear in mind, “take care” isn’t the last you’ll hear from him ESPECIALLY if you ignore him. Most men CANNOT handle being ignored. This is good ammo for you. My brother once told me “if you ignore or reject a man (some) trying to crawl back, you’ve put a target on your back. He’ll chase you like he needs air, but only to conquer you.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 07:09 PM
68

“Oh I value you more because you cheated” - said no sane woman. Do they read what they write? 😂snort 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 07:04 PM
8

“nOt hOoKiNg Up aT aLL” 🙄🤥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 07:01 PM
7

Unfortunately, I cannot deduce intentions from just a picture. I’m happy if they’re happy. My only take away is (in good faith) if he wants you, a pandemic won’t stop him. I’ve seen an influx of women complaining that their dates/bf are too busy to even text/call them. Nothing deeper than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 06:56 PM
28

We don’t know their back story, they’d possibly have a bigger celebration after 🤷🏻‍♀️. However, my takeaway is if he wants you, you’ll know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 08:54 AM
11

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 07:09 AM
81

Where some men are too bUsY to call you during quarantine, just know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:50 AM
20

OP, when you say he does the cooking/dishes, are you living together? It’s easy for men to become complacent when they feel they already “have you”. In this case, (possibly) living together without marriage - which I see marriage is what you want later? I would say go do you own thing/hobbies/friends/family away from him but I’m unsure of what the quarantine situation is over there so it’s tricky. In a way, you need to initiate the chase again by being a little distant. Maybe. It’s hard to chase…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:22 AM
52

I saw her comment. She is going to cOmMuNiCaTe with him 🤦🏻‍♀️ after all that communication + hinting = nothing. This is tiring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:16 AM
18

I read it and use it to my advantage 🤷🏻‍♀️ use everything to your advantage. I believe you can learn one thing even from seemingly useless crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:56 PM
10

“I love this woman, so I’ll make her wait in uncertainty” - said no man ever. Wait. For. No. One. I didn’t have to read the whole post to type that. Waiting for someone while they get on with their life, how is that fair to you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:53 PM
1

I choose between “I don’t have” or “it’s private” interchangeably. My choice, my crown. You’ve missed the whole point of “no means no”. I don’t owe a stranger I’ve just started chatting with in 5 mins an explanation. The whole point of this isn’t whether she has a number to give, it’s about being pushy and my crown stays 👑. You do not owe random men online an explanation for “no”. Go read the handbook, watch Michela Pink - you do not owe random men “honesty”. She also says don’t use your real na…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:42 PM
4

Tell him it takes the same thumb power to open Hinge and WhatsApp. Some lunatic kept telling me I’m lying after I told him I don’t have Instagram 3 damn times. Finally resorted to jokingly guilting me by saying “nothing wrong with a white lie 🙃”. I asked if insta is a prerequisite for life because that’s all the conversation started with and is about, he said “I’m overacting”. Gaslighting 🚩 I told him he’s quite forceful/rapey and probably why he’s only had 3 matches 🙃. Then BLOCKED! FYI, I have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:31 PM
176

Anyone else think WTF? Who yells “bitches” or even yells at Girl Scouts? What a wild world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:25 PM
37

Lmfao! Is this “compliment” supposed to make you feel special/make you drop your panties? OR Does he think you’re stupid to not know he’s probably said this to every young woman he’s matched with?? How does one “look” smart, mature and so young all in one picture? 😒 Absolute clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:22 PM
77

sHe cAn bE hArD tO tAlK tO sO I hAd sEx wIth SomEoNe eLsE 🖕🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 09:58 PM
1

Hiya! In the ‘about’ section of this sub - there are also more resources there. Here’s a link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 07:44 AM
57

23/24 year olds moving in together after 10 months 🤦🏻‍♀️ straight from his mother’s womb 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ what could go wrong? 🚩 What value does this man bring to the table? Not even fried eggs🍳 Bum bye 👋🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 07:38 AM
4

I hope OP cancelled this brewing shitstorm called a date. If I were you OP, just as he’s ignored my choice by sending me inconsiderate crap, I’d “forget” we had date planned 💅🏽 OR “Thanks for the repulsive video, please make a U-turn/go back home.” Then block everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 12:32 AM
98

“Pay someone to like you...alone, alone, alone”. She did irreparable damage, he’ll never erase those words from his mind. Such a badass! 👏🏻🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 12:15 AM
9

Naaaa, he needs to think I poop glitter and my eyelids are naturally auburn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:55 PM
7

He never struck me as someone to be with long term but that’s none of my business. She seems to be getting better but I can see she’s hurting inside from her recent videos. I want to hug her 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:30 PM
13

Truly sad. Just after Jamie and Nikki.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:26 PM
7

Wait, a married man?? That’s all. Nothing else matters. That’s worse than anything after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 11:07 AM
29

🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:51 AM
11

Comedy gold😂 But I don’t think she gets it yet. She still thinks the problem is her rather than her vetting criteria.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 11:32 PM
20

Don’t even get me started on the man. Somewhere in her comments, she said he mentioned these things in the first two dates she but brushed them off till now. Proof that these flags are usually there. Some women just see red flags as cute pink handkerchiefs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 11:30 PM
46

Put on her favorite dress, favorite candles, food, put up fancy lights (my God), smelled nice, all for a bum who wants to hook up OR offer her tantric breathing exercise and to live on a farm? I can’t 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 11:07 PM
28

First of all, what is he wearing? 😂🤣 ill fitting pants and Aladdin shoes. My chest contracted from cringing so much, continuously disregarded whatever the women said just to focus on himself. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 10:46 PM
1

Hi OP. This has been posted here before 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 10:00 PM
29

WAIT, WHAT? SLAPPED, STILL HAD SEX AND IS RATIONALIZING ASSAULT? I’m sorry for laughing but this is a circus 🎪😂 wtf??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 09:18 PM
6

Sis! He said NO RELATIONSHIP from the start. He said HE IS NOW DATING ANOTHER WOMAN. He said YOU’RE ONLY FRIENDS moving forward. He has explicitly told you HE DOESN’T WANT YOU. He isn’t dating her out of convenience, that’s your mind rationalizing it. He probably likes her. Stop trying to read other meanings to his direct words, leave him alone. You’re leading yourself on to something that doesn’t exist. Harsh but true. He didn’t do anything wrong, he told you the truth several times. Cry, dust …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:17 PM
56

Because she didn’t put him on a pedestal, she has a life and isn’t clinging to him for life. You can get an idea of this from the FDS handbook. People want what they can’t have and value what they work for. In this case, some men value women who value themselves or the chase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 03:52 PM
10

Let’s be honest, he wasn’t with a male friend. He was with another woman. Guys just don’t forget to check their phones especially when a woman/potential sex is involved. Glad you learned. This hurt to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 10:42 AM
2

But...why would you spend 45 hours on a gift for someone who cheated on you and didn’t choose you...? And ask him to post it on insta... He obviously saw an opportunity to use your need for his validation and he used it. She spent all about 10 mins buying him a pair of slippers. Do less ladies, do less. Or in this case, do nothing for your ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:24 PM
11

Why is she seeking his validation in the first place? Or am I missing something? She was fishing for compliments by comparing herself to another woman and crying because his response doesn’t suit her? She is insecure. He was just minding his damn business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:15 PM
5

Overcompensating much? 🙄 he should date himself, sounds like a catch - like his fishes. But fishes have bigger brains. There’s knowing what you want and then there’s this unrefined brat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:53 PM
8

This. I didn’t wna categorize her but only juveniles use that word. And if he’s using that word, he’s not mature enough to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:33 PM
18

Pizza is quite nice. Its tap water and 5 mins microwave popcorn from me - he can eat the unpopped corn as dessert. But, no date is ever invited to my home anyway 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:32 PM
11

🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩 And I’m certain the red flags were flying early in the “relationship” before this point because she’s already conditioned to not see this crap and is normalized. Possibly gaslighting as well if she needs to ask if she “needs to get over it”. Flowers and that’s it? His friend is the only one with some sense here, wanting them to break up - he sees the madness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:27 PM
63

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:40 PM
10

bRaNd aMbAsSaDor. You WILL regret it. That kiss at the end, certified creep 🤢 please tell me you reported him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 12:38 PM
6

🎖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 12:33 PM
95

hE kNoWs hOw tO hYpE mE uP 🤥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:48 PM
104

Guess what? He’s unemployed and lives with her who owns her own fashion store. Cooked, cleaned, and looked great for him and he STILL wasn’t content. What a shitbag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:43 PM
15

“Well mate, I don’t date idiots.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:05 AM
2

Brains cells flying off by the minute with these kids 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 01:44 AM
57

Ok, so he’s looking for a prostitute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:59 AM
4

Ditto!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 06:32 PM
7

The food looks disgusting, pancakes will flip in their pans if they hear us calling this pancake. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 06:08 PM
5

This solidifies my stand in FDS. Thanks for confirming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 11:49 AM
3

Or “ew” then block OR “ew go see a doctor” then block. Wait a minute or when you see them typing to make sure they’ve read your message before you unmatch/block. Imagine the panic that ensues 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 06:03 AM
245

sHe’S tOtAllY cOoL wItH iT bUt oNly wHeN sHe’s nOt hOme. Seriously, these delinquents don’t even put effort into lying anymore 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 12:17 AM
8

Freaking validation lmfao! Please use it generously 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:34 PM
66

I just unmatch OR if I’m feeling extra spicy, I say “hold on one second”, when they say “ok”, I unmatch 🤣😈 I’m imagining their confusion/sadness. Anyone who wants to meet up within 5 mins obviously has no standards and isn’t interested in getting to know me. “Fun”, 😉, 😜 in the first messages, I unmatch. Creepy and nothing serious comes from those emojis early on. Plus do you notice how these kids say something provocative and add 😉 or “haha” in the end to soften the perversion? And if you compla…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:04 PM
3

Ah okay. Makes sense, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 05:11 PM
20

We are NOT the same species as this troll 🤢😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:31 PM
1

😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:16 PM
3

Hmm 🤔 that’s a solid point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:21 PM
89

Lol some people missed the “put your best foot forward” class. What a degenerate at 41.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:06 PM
13

Yh like “see how women love me”. I don’t understand why people drag other people into their dating profiles. Although, some pick-up coaches use this as a tactic 🤦🏻‍♀️ Like “the kid is just my nephew”. So whyyy? Or I think they’re lying and it’s really their kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:03 PM
7

Dropping other guys for someone far away with no defined relationship is the crux of this problem. You’ll zero in on him and go bonkers He knows you’re sitting far away waiting for him - no motivation/competition. You’re already guaranteed for him with zero effort. Trusting what someone 5 hours away says without him earning your trust; basing your interest in him in just conversations/texts not actions. If I hand you a Rolex and it gets stolen tomorrow, you’ll be upset and move on. But not as up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 12:28 PM
8

Thanks for this. I was really curious because where I live, we are under strict lockdown and that was odd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 10:06 AM
12

Everyone has opinions, including you 🤝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 01:31 AM
13

Hol up ✋🏽 he shits his pants in the morning?? How did you get past that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 11:47 PM
32

They laugh at women like this and the women laugh too not realizing they are all clowns 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 11:20 PM
48

🚩 🚩 everywhere. You know what to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 11:10 PM
15

I’m genuinely curious why you met during quarantine?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 11:08 PM
4

Plus these damn websites and friends encouraging her to be exclusive in less than a month. I blame Disney.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 10:24 PM
17

She needs to delete the words and replace them with 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 10:14 PM
10

She’s planning to move to his country. Sis, I don’t understand how brains work anymore 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:46 PM
63

Ladies, I reached out to her privately and advised her not to send nudes + to join FDS. She said wouldn't send them. I blocked her from seeing my profile so she doesn't see this post. Fingers crossed for her - she's 23. This is how men take advantage of young women... Mods, please pin this comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:59 PM
12

I’m lost I swear 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:49 PM
10

I’ll invite her but, she’ll see this post🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:48 PM
11

I’m torn, I wna ask her to join FDS but seeing this play out is shocking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:45 PM
15

I saw “three months” and I just knew this would be some BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:44 PM
21

I am speechless. The boy is probably giggling in his little den somewhere out there 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:41 PM
3

Coincidentally, this video just came out, I think you’ll enjoy her channel too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:58 PM
25

Ah, he was on the lookout for low maintenance and he got that. Since his ex (probably) kicked him out because of his low effort, also expect him to leave you when you raise your standards. How do you raise your standard? Do less or say “I feel we’re too casual and I enjoy spending time out”. Or if you REALLY want to do less, decline home dates because “they are becoming redundant” or simply give excuses. And act excited when he asks you to go out. He’ll either get the message without you asking …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:45 PM
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Exactly! No more home dates, that IS low maintenance. If you say it started before quarantine, meaning you started accepting home dates 2-3 months into dating this man? That’s not great. Offering to pay, I wouldn’t but some people do. If you actually pay, that’s low maintenance as well. These men shouldn’t know exactly where you live either sis, people are dangerous. Don’t invite men you’re not exclusively dating to your home. Now, trying to switch this man to high maintenance dates after you’ve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:34 PM
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High maintenance isn’t about your degree, job or money, in this context, it’s about how you allow men to treat you. You can wear the most expensive things and have an amazing job but if you’re settling for bare minimum treatment, you are low maintenance. Also, the Netflix nights in with your dates? That is low maintenance. Enjoying your Netflix night alone is great, doing that with men you’re dating? Umm no, except you want Netflix and chill men. Also, elaborate on what dates you go on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:20 PM
16

😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:22 AM
16

You know what to do 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:39 AM
30

I noticed all the “HV” traits relate to him and should be standard for every human. All the “LV” traits relate to how he treats you/others. Prioritize how you’re treated and go from there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:36 AM
9

Exactly my thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:02 PM
4

Stand up for yourself isn’t harsh. But, do you. 👋🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 10:47 PM
11

Over email? Silence would have been better. And I believe being “nice” to LVM is what we are trying to eradicate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 10:40 PM
20

No one is blaming her but thanks isn’t exactly necessary. Thanks is the opposite of how she feels. Thanks = I appreciate your repulsive comment. Remember it was an email, not verbal. “That’s inappropriate” would suffice and go to HR. My point is, I wish OP stood up for herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 10:26 PM
50

And you replied like that? Encouraging that kind of communication? Why would he stop? You reacted like a “cool girl”. YOU EVEN SAID “THANKS”🤦🏻‍♀️my goodness... Maybe react negatively to him because reacting here does nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 10:14 PM
2

Caption this photo - 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 02:35 PM
8

I would have brought it up and decide based on his reaction. If he argues, drop him. If he apologizes, still go. He doesn’t seem like Satan. People make mistakes and he didn’t argue. From his response, he sounds reasonable. I’ll go against the other comments and say you overreacted. And horse riding, come on, that’s a nice date compared to the coffee craps people do now. But, do you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:43 PM
5

That’s great! I like to shoot 10 steps ahead so I would actually say “yes sir, it’s life threatening. He’s threatening my peace of mind 😑 lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:39 PM
4

Keep ignoring, call the police if necessary. What a troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:35 PM
16

You’re feeding the troll, why would he stop? Why are you calling, e-mailing and texting him to stop?! You’re reaching out. Block him and report to a friend with proof so someone you know is aware not internet strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:18 AM
22

I cringed at the paragraphs you sent everyday 😑 but I’m glad you’re awake now. 👏🏽 I also re-read the book after my last downfall, puts things into perspective. I’d rather be a bitch than a nice girl. If you’ve watched love is blind on Netflix, aren’t your shocked that Gianini and Damian are still together?? Although she was definitely abusive but that man cannot get enough of her lmfao! I cannot believe he’s still interested in her 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 10:36 AM
43

it mIgHt bE A cOoL oPpOrTuNiTy bEcaUse i’M a CoOl gIrL 🤡 Half a decade and that’s all she has to show? Half a decade down the drain 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:53 AM
8

You mean pen pal 🖊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 02:49 AM
19

hE iS a bAd tExTeR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 02:48 AM
6

Apparently dressing and smelling nice is “extra”. I wonder how they dress or smell on a regular 🤡💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:27 AM
2

🙀🤮 a 12 year old!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:05 AM
30

😂 but you’re now aware which is half the work👍🏽 Just look at men as guilty until proven decent. Lowers your expectations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:03 AM
54

Once you’ve been played, you’ll wait an eternity and understand why. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 12:54 AM
8

Its so disgusting. On the other hand, it shows that most guys don’t really have options if they “count themselves lucky”. It’s laughable. Having this in mind, no woman should be worried about losing any man. Throw him into the drought!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 11:37 PM
10

I stopped at “complaining about being broke” and skipped down to your new man. Kudos!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 11:31 PM
18

From the website: "Brazilian girls are hot, very hot! If you manage to get with one, you should count yourself very lucky; you have accomplished something most men only dream of. Other than that, they use their bodies very well, they are exceptional dancers and they know how to use their hips." Just WTF?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 11:05 PM
14

I’m usually mildly disgusted but this one has me super disgusted. Like mapping out this hookup plan THIS extensively?? Wtf. How repulsive are these men to stoop this low? Bleh! 🤮 I can’t add Thailand to my travel list because of how it’s been portrayed by disgusting men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:58 PM
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Anything like “travel addict 🙄 “constantly traveling” is a hell NO for me. Those are excuses to hookup and disappear since they “already said so upfront”. Most likely they are your neighbors without passports 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:56 PM
21

A scrote actually put time and effort into creating a wiki-style “get-laid-guide” per country with dumb statistics and all. Rating women per nationality in degrading ways. Laughable trash. It shows how much power women have - if scrotes need log-in required websites to “get laid” 🤢🤮😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 09:09 PM
8

Perfect time to hold out on sex ladies! Watch them go bonkers. 🙄 only incels with no life sit down and think of this. Like how? 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 06:25 PM
14

💀😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 05:48 PM
13

🔥 🙌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 05:45 PM
8

🤭🤢🤮💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 06:10 AM
28

FIRST OF ALL, why are you responding to a man who texts like a subpar teenager?? Low key/high key your fault, stop👏🏽engaging👏🏽with👏🏽trash. “U dint finish answering...” “Am surrounded by....” Ewww. I cringe and unmatch the split-second I see this. If he types like this, 7/10 times he’s crazy. Its my pet peeve so 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:24 PM
20

🙌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:04 PM
9

Or report as phishing 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:00 PM
17

Classic clown. Me me me. How you made HIM feel, how your friendship benefited HIM. No mention of what he has to offer or define how he has grown. He grew oh yh, grew backwards. Rubbish bag of idiot. And it’s WOMAN not Gal bish! Tell him I said so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 08:58 PM
41

If you spoke of a broad location, how is he “here”? How did he pick a spot in the middle of nowhere?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:31 PM
1

We are essentially saying the same thing. 6 weeks is 60 days not 90. That’s why I feel it’s too soon to even KNOW this man to want to commit a chunk of her life to him - I didn’t see anything wonderful about this man in OP’s post, just that he’s hot and they click. Surely, I hope OP has higher standards than this. She should expect it but expecting/asking after only two months screams desperate IMO. 90 days? Sure. I AM familiar with the FDS wiki and if you really read my comments, you’ll see whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:47 PM
5

K. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 06:25 AM
6

But all this at 6 weeks? For perspective, two months? Asking for a man’s complete commitment at just 6 weeks doesn’t scream high value woman to me. Not like there must be a set time to have that conversation but is she ready to hitch her wagon to his that quickly? During covid-19? Even I would run lol much less a man. Although, sex that early has already muddied the waters IMO, bargaining at this point is 50/50 - sex early/commitment so soon. I don’t see it as a question of values or incompatibi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:54 AM
1

I think of his 🤡face when she dragged him and I sleep better everyday 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:03 AM
4

SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE WOMEN IN THE BACK. 👏🏽 Always remember how they do not hesitate to drop you like a hot egg. Instead of thinking of “cutesy” ways to break up with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:56 AM
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Exactly! Let him worry about these things. I look forward to a time when men will seek advice on how to win women over for relationships instead of the opposite. Sit tight and remember who tf you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:53 AM
8

Oh and download more than two dating apps, high value ones. Bumble for starters but hinge and inner circle (unpaid version is tricky) are good ones. I have 6 apps. 20 matches on each as a minimum. Let’s see which one can meet my standards 🤷🏻‍♀️ I bet you won’t lose sleep over just 1 man. I see dating as interviewing people for a CFO position in my own company. You wouldn’t give it to the first “maybe” candidate, would you? 💁🏻‍♀️ You’re interviewing life partners, stakes are higher.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:40 AM
6

No problem 🤗 I wish I had taken my own advice two months ago. But I’ve joined FDS and put back my crown 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:32 AM
16

Always assume he is using the condoms with someone else/harem🤷🏻‍♀️ Another downfall of us is the way we date emotionally. See, early on, you’re already assuming relationship potential. These guys don’t date that way, that’s how they stay detached. Maybe approach it first with the mentality of “is he a decent human”. He should be looking to lock you down, imagine how that would feel - him posting on Reddit worrying about you 🤔 One thing that helps is writing his pros and cons. This is an eye open…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:25 AM
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Maybe you need some perspective. It’s just been 6 weeks, not exclusive. Why are you worrying about his condoms?? Are you looking for a FWB? Otherwise sis, if a relationship is what you want, leave this man’s condoms alone. FYI, you ARE just 1 woman in an ocean of women to him. If you’re not exclusive, no man just sits around thinking of just 1 woman, except in Disney movies. That being said, you should have your own ocean of men too so you won’t be worrying about a man’s box of condoms days afte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:01 AM
3

Lmfao! Evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:58 AM
23

I’m going to download tiktok only for this lady - love her content!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 01:35 AM
25

His angry profile picture matches his IQ. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 02:08 PM
3

I see this as a blessing, you don’t have to see his face or do anything 🤷🏻‍♀️ We women really need to learn to do NOTHING just like they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:36 PM
1

🙌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:34 PM
2

By being stupid sis, by being stupid 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 11:19 AM
2

😂🤣 I recently blocked one. Asking me questions and answering them himself 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 09:49 PM
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