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CMVViralimpulse/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 02:40 AM
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Question For MenViralimpulse/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 06:51 PM
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Question For MenViralimpulse/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:13 AM
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Post pic of ur girls? And lets compare
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:59 PM
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yea, i really dislike how most advice is vague, it's like if you can't figure it out yourself, you don't deserve to be a part of it. I think this is part of the reason I can't seem to move forward in my interactions with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:58 PM
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lol. i wonder what being fun around entails?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:49 PM
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You make it sound like there is no point in LTRs or marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 08:57 PM
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Low smv males existing is a tragedy. Sub 6 males should be locked in jail for life 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 04:21 PM
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reverse search. https://www.instagram.com/mariloublg/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 05:11 AM
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I will have to see her for myself, what ethnicity is she? Also I don't fit the male beauty standards myself, only the body of one. Is she unpleasant to be around? not very socially outgoing? not cheery to talk to?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 05:09 AM
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lol i don't buy that girls would solve most guy's emotional needs. It would mean dealing with his insecurities and will likely make him seem less confidence than when you met him. You'd be ok with staying home every 3 weekends in a month? Emotional baggage is going to always have a negative impact, imo. IT just depends who is willing to put up with it and for how long. You wouldn't be interested in a guy that had social anxiety and stuff. how can you have a 50/40 split? do you mean 60/40? and hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 05:00 AM
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average guys with wives and gfs, mean nothing. just date a 300 lb women, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 04:53 AM
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key to being attractive as a women. dieting, wearing makeup, dressing feminine. do you agree or disagree? how many of these did she fail at?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 04:47 AM
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really that's your reasoning? I want girls like these, average women aren't an accomplishment. https://puu.sh/CMrRW/2f274528e1.png
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 04:46 AM
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she's so hot lmao, and i had a girl similar to her looks playing dumb for me. she had a boyfriend UNLUCKY
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 04:38 AM
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I don't see any issues with my retort. do you consider that maybe they are not average and above average? I mean yea, reasonably any man that does not do well with women SHOULD lie about it. There are far more consequences for admitting the truth. It's a huge red flag for most women but also i guess it depends if you're an average girl? do you look like her? https://puu.sh/CMrRW/2f274528e1.png
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 04:30 AM
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bruh, i'm a guy but i don't think most guys in college have jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:56 AM
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interesting, what ethnicity are you? if you don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:45 AM
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ok, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:41 AM
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anything that makes their skin color lighter and have more European facial features. big nose and big lips are usually cons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:40 AM
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sarcasm??? i've had the feeling most posters dislike me for being negative all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:33 AM
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my role model is zayn malik but unforunately I think only mixed Indian types can be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:26 AM
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you're saying only a certain type of indian guys can get girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:20 AM
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lol the word women being used negatively is amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:16 AM
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a guy that struggles isn't going to admit it. jesus that's the worst thing to ever bring up to a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:06 AM
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do you have low standards physically or what? and yea i'm indian.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:01 AM
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nah, not into drugs. also why do you even care?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 02:53 AM
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i will be getting a tattoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 02:47 AM
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if one side only dates equal or up, you realize the other side has to date down right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 02:34 AM
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men date down, women date equal or up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 02:31 AM
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better than immature, dickhead by choice. goodnight :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 02:20 AM
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you've gone off your rocker, sorry you got upset tonight. maybe you will feel less angry in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 02:15 AM
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lol i don't even know if you're trolling or what. I would rather not date at all if I don't get my choice in girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 02:01 AM
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yes, i'm the least desired race. Yet you think anyone wants to hear that when I tell them? especially in 2019 when most people "view all races equally"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 01:48 AM
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nah man the 5'2 women would clearly date guys less than 6'0 even though for some reason they only seem to date 6'0 guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 01:46 AM
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you know my little sister called and my mom told her to find me a girlfriend LOL. I told them I hated valentines day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 01:44 AM
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i grew up with only white people, seriously my elementary + middle and high school was 70%+ white. all my friends except one, he's half black, are white as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 01:41 AM
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wokein, why aren't you on your valentines dinner date and spending time with your boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 01:38 AM
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models is the name of a BOOK.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 01:35 AM
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do you want to see a picture of me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 01:34 AM
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it's a multi million dollar industry now, so clearly still kicking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 01:32 AM
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100% real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 01:31 AM
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it's not everywhere but it's clearly a lot more than your just a handful of women. I'm a minority and I only approach white girls. models wrote girls will be rude to miniorites just out of bad experiences. What is really nice to you? when I think of really nice, i think of someone that talks to me and listens or doing something with that person you normally would do with a friend. In my definition most girls are not nice, they're indifferent. not rude in my approaches, considering saying hi and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 01:29 AM
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then how can you say that? when i just showed 3 in a relatively short time frame of each other. I also don't use pua techniques, or neg, or rude to them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 01:06 AM
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women don't have a personality detector, they have a dealbreaker detector. if you hide your deal breakers, she's yours. online it's just much easier to spot the deal breaker since you're not hiding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 01:04 AM
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you're basing your claims on online interactions? there is your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 01:00 AM
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which is fine because at that point there is no such thing as losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:59 AM
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because some men have jobs in their early 20's and others don't. my issue is no shit anyone if given 40 years will find a job and not be a loser anymore. which makes the whole discussion meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:58 AM
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yea lol, god i can even remember a few scenario of cruel rejection. "I'm a lesbian fuck off" pours her drink on my friend walks up to another guy and starts humping him in front of me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:55 AM
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you are an outlier, very few are able to change that without extensive therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:52 AM
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exclude men above 30 because what's even the point of comparing a 20 year old to a 30 year old? or even 40 or 50
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:49 AM
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your self esteem is mostly out of your control. if you only have good experiences your self esteem is going to continue through adulthood. the reverse is true as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:43 AM
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really? because they're playing videogames and don't have a job yet. yet i'm the LOSER LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:41 AM
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nope, you're incorrect. a lot of people say it's usually because the girl is having a bad day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:38 AM
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we're vastly different age groups remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:35 AM
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you know i sat across an average looking girl that was slightly overweight with a celeb looking boyfriend. she is much kinder than the average girl tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:32 AM
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most males are gigalosers, why only mention incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:25 AM
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one? try 5 in a month LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 12:22 AM
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Maybe, do you know what earrings I wear?? Lol but she's younger than you by 3 years. I guess you both visit foreveralone sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 10:37 PM
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Remember how i said you type my ex. Yea she would say that all the time. Literally word for word. Except the porn part. She watched porn as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 10:32 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 09:09 PM
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Dogs as your partner? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 09:02 PM
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A guy that doesn't exist. A good looking guy that will solve most of her life's issues and emotional needs. The guy most be adventurous, come with little to no emotional baggage, highly deserable to others but also extremely loyal to her. High financial security as well and high social value through leadership skills. Driven by passion in interests that she determines interesting. So who's stepping up to the plate?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:56 PM
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Because i always say its harder to be an attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:42 PM
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I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:36 PM
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Lol fuck man. I was thinking today is the day 90% of people are getting at least a bj or laid. And i'm gonna be reading a calculus book.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:36 PM
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Why don't you have a job? Not enough savings for 10 dollars?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:16 PM
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$0 every year. I have necklace I bought for a girl but she didn't want it so lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:14 PM
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Also if your peers are 80%+ white wouldn't you naturally be attracted to white people?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:04 PM
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Guessing they don't understand your comment. I know a few users that would disagree with you but guess they don't wanna say anything this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:03 PM
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Thats not my life experience with others. I can meet people but i'll never be invited to hangout or do anything other than be the occasional person for small talk. Also the other solution is to not meet anyone and I'm sure you know the outcome of that situation. You also use the word undoubtedly but thats's never happened in my of my years of attempting to join social circles. Do you think that makes a horrible person? Mentally retarded? Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 08:01 PM
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Lol asking this question for the 100th time? How about you stop browsing mgtow if you don't care about them. Oh wait you can't because it makes you feel emotions you don't usually feel and that makes it interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 06:27 PM
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define career women, i was under the impression career women DOESN'T mean college educated, it means a women that pursued her masters or lawyers or whatever high status job. basically the 1%ers of women that actually make their career into something significant. http://www.abajournal.com/news/article/lawyer_population_15_higher_than_10_years_ago_new_aba_data_shows if 1.3 million of the population of 325 million in the usa are lawyers and 30 % of them are women, that's still less than .05% of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:18 PM
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lol but that's what your analogy stated. You tried lifting 300 lbs once and then quit exercising when you couldn't. That analogy doesn't describe my situation at all. no one is going through years of training to learn how to make friends, most people do stop making new friends once they are satisfied with their current ones. Then they let other people come to them, instead of chasing friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:10 PM
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Not looking for unicorns, those odds are not in my favor. So most date up or equal to if they can't find better. I don't have a social bracket. There is nothing that makes anyone more or less worthy. Life isn't fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:55 PM
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Taking test can cause heart attacks. Thats why it's harder to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:53 PM
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I've been in the rage phase for years now. How am i going to know things will be better?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:52 PM
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Lol think what you want. I'm amazed how people put such little effort into it and think I should put even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:51 PM
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Lol you're not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:04 PM
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What sort of signals am i looking for before rage phase is passed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:03 PM
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Lol heart attacks?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:01 PM
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They don't. Which is why i won't. If more women start settling, then I will change my views.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 01:40 PM
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women are getting with average men because they can't punch any higher. How can we know women want their best option and still act like they're chasing average men. If average men is her best option, we know exactly where she is on the smv scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 01:10 PM
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average guy would be incel if he didn't settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 01:09 PM
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i'm above every measurement i wrote in the previous reply. I'm the least desired race, nerd due to career + hobbies, not willing to settle for girls below me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 01:08 PM
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high standards compared to people that aren't insane and think they having their equal is settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 01:06 PM
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I already did, it didn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 01:06 PM
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not worth it, that's having zero self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 01:04 PM
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never found indian girls attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 01:03 PM
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There is clearly a lot more to it since i'm already above most of that but get rejected crazy as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:57 AM
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I disagree completely. The guy that looks socially outgoing gets approached. Friendliness is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:54 AM
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and that's what i was getting at........
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:45 AM
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early 20's
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:42 AM
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um................... you realize non white women also date white men and have mixed babies as well. There are theories that pure race will be wiped out due to the acceptance of interracial dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:41 AM
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then why didn't you post in that thread saying you didn't have to try to avoid men? cause when i read through that thread there were only 1 or 2 women admitting they were too unattractive to be noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:34 AM
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average guy works 9-5, probs make 30-50k a year (early 20's). Has only 1 or 2 interests, usually sports and something more niche(rock climbing). average guy doesn't go to the gym, doesn't read in his spare time, most guys aren't that social with 3+ different social circles. average guy also watches TV a lot. Average guys don't want to stand out. what's your version of average?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:32 AM
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LOLOLOL so you're saying as a girl, no one would ever talk to you if you were minding your own business? That's hilarious to see after that one thread of what women do to avoid interacting with others. come on we both know that's not true. no one really cares about the 10-20% niche category of 50 year old women, overly obese, or antisocial women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:15 AM
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i mean you agreed to what i said, what needs to be debated? women basically want someone better than them in every meaningful way. That is high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:13 AM
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men do not have the FREE social value that women are given.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:12 AM
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well it mostly for your "in person they look for reasons to say yes" I find that very untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:11 AM
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because they've never had to approach. They assume everyone uses tinder or bumble or has massive social circles that introduce them to partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:07 AM
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they approach very safe options, we went over this. Women don't cold approach, they warm approach only.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:03 AM
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you can also go mentally insane if you never make a shot, why are very few guys cold approaching if it's such a life hack to get any girl you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:00 AM
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why? ALL guys have higher initial investment than the women, he's organizing the whole chance for a relationship. If the women doesn't start catching up or exceeding his investment. It won't work out because she's getting rewarded for caring less, that's the way i see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:55 AM
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attractive guys apply only. very few guys can cold approach, average dudes barely approach 10 women in their whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:54 AM
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so you're advocating for us to date old and out of shape women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:50 AM
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why should men be shamed for something 90% of women get for existing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:41 AM
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eyeroll, if you talking about asking someone you've already hung out with for months. That should be common sense. Most of will not end up in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:37 AM
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don't need to, my point is already proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:14 AM
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LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL i found the problem BOYOS. women think that's the average holy hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 03:03 AM
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lol yea i'm not beta buxing. i'd rather be single forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:57 AM
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you didn't list the nuances of what women actually want. They don't want the average guy for sure. They want a guy that is better than her in most ways. more confidence, more socially aware, more interesting, higher social status. Most girls wouldn't even compromise on income.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:29 AM
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you know that reply I made to plainjane, do I need to repost it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:16 AM
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havn't used dating sites. still meet the same choosey girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:15 AM
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explain yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:14 AM
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I agree with him, the less you invest, the more power you have. It's very hard to walk away from something you heavily invested in, this should be the girls job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:13 AM
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yup, that's part of my insecurity as well. NO dark indians are dating hot girls unless they're in like middle school lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:11 AM
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ok incels as in the true sense of the word are rare, guys with no dating life are pretty common
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 12:27 AM
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and that one gf, was probably his last or only option as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 12:03 AM
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idk man, the guy sleeping with 10 different girls at once is telling me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 10:59 PM
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can we stop saying guys can get laid, no shit anyone with standards for obese whales can get laid. let's bring it back to realistic standards in which I state again, most guys i come across are incel as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 10:49 PM
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desperation levels of gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 10:38 PM
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ok but i'm not accounting for mid 20's to late 20's that can bang landwhales, i only account for guys going for their peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 10:38 PM
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Not with average guys for sure. Most average guys i know have never gotten attention from women. My theory is good girls don't date average guys. Once a women reaches her 30's. Standards lower and these guys finally get a chance. It just doesn't make sense to me since I hear about guys complaining about being single all the time. 18-22 age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 10:19 PM
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Girls still won't sleep with average guys
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 09:58 PM
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Whatever. I still would say most men can't get laid. A lot of frustrated guys out there, go to any college campus and please tell me most of them aren't incel lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 09:07 PM
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The CDC also reports that virgins make up 14.3 percent of males aged 20 to 24. I mean i guess you can be 25 years old and hire a hooker but then 99% of men being laid is meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 08:40 PM
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Why is a citation still needed for common information?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 08:36 PM
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99% of men don't get laid lol. Male virginity is already around 11-12%. Wouldnt surprise me to see it reach 20% in a decade or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 08:23 PM
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This is actually very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 08:21 PM
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Lol the niche for indians in engineering is hiring prostitutes LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 08:07 PM
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Lol im pretty sure you have to be good looking. No average guy with average looks is pulling 7+ just by facing rejections
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 08:00 PM
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Men who don't shrink in the face of rejection can find themselves rewarded? Source???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 07:35 PM
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Lol can't wait for this comment to get blasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 07:22 PM
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Looks fine to me. Which post in particular?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 05:58 PM
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Depression isn't a badge you wear that tells people you're undateable, i'm fairly certain this girl was asked out on dates but declined.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 05:29 PM
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How lol. She chose not to date, thats vastly different than someone that wants to date but can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 05:20 PM
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Your last statement isn't true. Actually single women are happier than both single men and married men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 05:18 PM
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Low value men that do that are probably not getting what they want and miserable, why would that be a selling point?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 05:09 PM
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Women don't love you lol. They'll find another you in a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 05:05 PM
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I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 04:25 PM
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lol are you a white nerd? those guys usually have asian fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 04:02 AM
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They don't need to. They got an above average girl with no engagement of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 11:00 PM
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I didn't disagreed. Hence the envy especially if its someone you know. 34k a year is homeless in my city I make that much working part time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 10:42 PM
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How is it any different than the Bill thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 10:34 PM
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? Its a scenario for the worst possible situation i could think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 10:29 PM
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Nope, he's still anti-social, overweight, plays videogames all day. I guess people would rationalize it as she will leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 10:28 PM
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Lol. Not everyone had to work their ass off for an attractive girl. However yes, the odds are likely against you and that is why i am envious. Envious some beta males escape due to good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 10:21 PM
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Nothing makes a beta male better than an alpha male. This question is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 10:19 PM
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Lol @ negotiating ugliness. How long did you work on CBT for? Where you open minded going into it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 10:08 PM
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Um he most likely didnt have the same issues i listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 09:51 PM
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I used to go out everyday why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 09:44 PM
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Lol and where would she have gone otherwise to get attention? School and Work is the only place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 09:15 PM
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So you're saying guys would have zero interest in her if she didn't get treated?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 09:11 PM
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How did she get over her depression? Also her depression wasn't a hinderence to her dating life. Depression puts a dude out of dating for years with almost no way back in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 09:08 PM
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How does someone who doesn't take himself seriously and know how to party,not want to interact with others? He could be telling weird stories and get girls hooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 09:01 PM
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He's got a better chance than me. Just let him loose in a club. He has the personality imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:56 PM
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I think of it as they think all the other guys are trahs so they would rather wait than date anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:48 PM
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Are you white?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:41 PM
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Can i take my cousin for example? Shes grossly overweight and anti social. She has never kissed or dated a guy and i don't think thats changing anytime soon. She's 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:33 PM
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Queue every women saying compliments from unknown men as last.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:30 PM
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Speak for yourself, a women that has zero experience by 25 is a nuclear red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:14 PM
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Lucky you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:05 PM
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Uhh yea but i'm not the one arguing with that, nor am i mentioning first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:05 PM
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Whatever. I personally don't see it as genuine if you say the same thing to everyone you meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:49 PM
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Nope. You lose the genuineness of a compliment when you hand it out like candy. Would you rather be the 100th guy that was told you look well dressed or the only one?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:46 PM
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See my other point about personality rather than genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:45 PM
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Hardly, don't mistake someone's personality for a genuine compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:37 PM
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No one compliments a stranger. Also i think compliments by friends are worthless. Last Last Last Not last
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:33 PM
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So everyone on tinder is dating 1 to 1? Funny cause I shook hands with a guy thats getting a 100 matches a day and taking 2 tinder girls out a week. Clearly every guy experiences that since women don't like playing part time girlfriend fpr these dudes that date around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:31 PM
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None of my family members exercise. That's such a terrible excuse. The people that choose not to lose weight do it because they see nothing wrong. Same reason none of my friends lifted a single weight, should i stop being jacked because my friends aren't? Also most Americans would most likely lose weight if they had zero liquid calories and stuck to water. We congratulate people for exercising discipline but we don't even mention how it took years of shitty choices for them to end up like that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:15 PM
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This wasn't something I read online. I knew the popular kids in High school. They were dating each other within the circle. It was prettty common to hear that x guy was dating the next girl in the circle. Also I think you're a low value women since you don't understand that most women aren't constantly adding new guys to their social circle so they can all date 1 to 1. They usually take turns dating a guy. Yea there is one flaw in your 5 = 5 statement. Women have zero reason to date their equal …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 06:33 PM
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why is it harder in practice? It's easier due to snowballing affect. please tell me how learning a vastly different mindset or completely unlearning all the unattractive qualities about you is easier? especially when no one is going to point it out for you. this is why i say women have it easier in dating, shit mental + passiveness doesn't take her out of dating. It's a death sentence for a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 06:00 PM
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i am talking about relationships as well. not grossly overestimating, it's pretty obvious a 5 as a man is not equal to a 5 as a women. also women can serial ltr the same guy, it's pretty fkin common to have 4-5 girls date the same dude, while other guys never get a relationship in their 20's
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 05:55 PM
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I can explain the need to wait. So I was hanging out with my friends from elementary school all the time, I was never invited to join any other social circles after sophomore year in HS. So I stuck with my friends on the weekends. During this time, not a single girl came up to me or expressed interest so i tried talking to my family about the issue that not a single girl ever, expressed interest. they told me it'll get better when you're older ( even my sister who's had like 12 boyfriends said t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 05:50 PM
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why does it seem like every single person is overweight? it's bizarre how most people's problems are solved by losing weight and i'm like the fuck am I gonna do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 05:44 PM
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Ok but thats not going to change the way women will perceive you. You'll still be that loser that plays games like their 12 year old brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 05:39 PM
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Men don't have that privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 03:12 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 03:11 PM
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Lol who?? How do you even peak at 7?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 03:10 PM
1

Here is a comment about videogames. "The rate at which females mature causes them to essentially look down at gaming for the most part. Which is the real reason women tend to stay away from video games. The ones who do get into gaming are often immature and have a hormone imbalance or use the gaming identity as a dating service(which is more in line with female goals). Overall, gaming doesn't further typical female goals. Whereas hand-eye coordination, completion of physical/quantifiable objecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 03:05 PM
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Abuse meaning, they play videogames or watch too much Netflix,youtube, w.e
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 01:09 PM
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lol i feel like shit anyways cause most guys don't even try and they're still successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 01:04 AM
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teenagers have sex too, i know it's scary for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 12:24 AM
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you're not wrong, cold approach is fucking misery if you're a beginner or without some serious foundation of attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:29 PM
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i disagree, that a cold approach is not that rare, it's just a good cold approach isn't going to be seen as a cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:27 PM
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wtf, no one ever said all women get lots of attention from chad. all women get attention from men, some women get attention from chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:26 PM
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op is a women with a SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 11:23 PM
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I approach both day and night because it's the only way to meet women. online dating is trash, the quality of women willing to meet a regular guy aren't worth it, especially since men vastly outnumber women online, this allows women to have higher standards and inflated sense of self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 10:18 PM
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Bingo. Even pua's want money because they think it's a skill. The truth is, it would only lower their own value and skill if everyone was walking around picking up chicks. 2nd guy honestly has a better environment to succeed. Emotional support, maybe even financial support.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:35 PM
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You had to put a lot less effort because you already succeed in that area.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 09:17 PM
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That makes zero sense because you just said chad can't be held accountable by anyone. So how would a socially awkward person help?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:17 PM
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If you say so. I wouldn't say they're obnoxious, probably just too average. Lol i find both women and men to bitter at that age with unsuccessful dating lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 08:00 PM
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Yes says me because i think most guys are bitter at that age. Obnoxious is also subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:45 PM
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You would mostly be mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:39 PM
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Wrong guy. I'm talking about the engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:35 PM
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I don't see the difference between an incel the guy op is describing. A guy with any amount of success wouldn't worry about such issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:29 PM
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Look at what op wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:21 PM
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Op states guys that have trouble with dating. Which would mostly be incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:16 PM
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How are low rmv women worse? My friend married his gf 2 years ago. She has a useless as fuck degree earning 24k a year. But she's nicer than most women and cares about her appearance. Men outearning women in relationships is the norm. Pls tell me how low rmv women are single even though statistics prove otherwise. Are you defining low smh = uneducated
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:12 PM
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LOL. There isn't an xyz type of women that has perfect relationships. Long term stable relationship have absolutely nothing to do with anything other than compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:10 PM
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I seriously doubt you know many guys That openly admit to them being incel. Also income really has nothing to do with it. I think most low income guys really don't give a shit about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:09 PM
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Low smv and rmv women still get relationships. Low smv men do not. Stop thinking they're equal in value.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:05 PM
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Then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:03 PM
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There aren't that many women in that category
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:02 PM
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Thats not how it works but ok lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 06:56 PM
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Ive come across way more incel guys with 60k+ income. The guys that don't earn much just travel to a nee town and have fun. They genuinely enjoy their life. The 60k+ income guy just becomes bitter and abuses technology, porn, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 06:51 PM
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Men and women value different things. How many women go around stressing that their life isn't interesting enough for a man? Yet this is the issue for most of us that are out of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 06:48 PM
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The chad guy can fix his issue in even less time. Get a 2 year technical degree. Easy 50k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 06:47 PM
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This sub likes to pretend every women that graduates uni is earning 6 figures. My intution tells me that she gets her degree and finds herself a nice 40-50k salary job, if shes ambitious she will go for her masters, if she's not. No one is complaininh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 06:44 PM
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Illegal immigrants make 10 dollars an hour. Yet they still marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 06:34 PM
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This doesn't make sense in the real world. There are plenty of uneducated married couples. Some will work 2 min wage jobs. How are they screwed? The low rmv guy is probably going after educated women that out earn him by 3-4x as much. The low smv guy is screwed for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 06:30 PM
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The chad has a better life. Financial security isn't possible for a lot of people in this world and they do just fine. Having a successful relationship is far more important. There was a survey I read and the overwhelming majority picked finding a SO is more meaningful than a raise at their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 06:21 PM
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Lol. This experiment is so weird because no one fits exactly those character types. Also why would a chad want to lower his own value by helping betas and having women become even pickier?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 06:15 PM
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Neither side does that for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 06:11 PM
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lol????? you said it's unfair, think of how they feel. make up your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 04:48 PM
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yes you are upset, if you weren't upset you would have nothing to type at all, especially since your only point crying over something that is fair and saying it is unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 04:18 PM
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the only reason you brought it up was because it upset you, I never took the position it was unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 03:14 PM
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No. If you think you are entitled to attention When you can't even say hi. Thats on you But keep thinking that was what I said when it wasn't even close. Its still fair. The only perosn who thinks it isn't, is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 02:30 PM
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how is it karma when i was already ignoring them. you just seem upset for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 12:40 PM
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can you tell me more about your therapy sessions. are you ever sexist in front of them? do they make you work on a plan of action or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:25 AM
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it doesn't matter how they word it, they did something about themselves to gain acceptance from women and sex. you can have specific standards and lower them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:24 AM
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where is the presumptive part? some guys do experience this, even if you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 02:58 AM
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this is very true, even the most introverted, socially awkward type girls know where their looks stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 11:11 PM
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people need to make up their mind, either you don't care about the unattractive guy that asked you out or you do. last time i saw this situation, most girls where saying he doesn't deserve shit. Those girls don't deserve shit as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 10:50 PM
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a lot people are closed off now than the last 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 10:07 PM
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I see. It was a public email so it doubles as psa. Most reports i imagine are kept in provate for reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 08:45 PM
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You consider that an incident? I just think the girl got scared because percieved danger
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 08:14 PM
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I appreciate your honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 07:20 PM
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ANY GIRL CAN DO THAT. chaturbate??? even on twitch you can completely make your image more attractive than you are. shit there have been cases of guys putting a fake female cam and getting donations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 07:17 PM
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how can they feel something they have never felt? I'm not talking to them, they're not talking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 07:14 PM
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TWITCH LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL, the average girl is getting male attention, even below average girls are getting male attention. Is the reverse true? NO. so your whole argument is thrown off. How many women are in the actively pursue category? I'd say hardly any because if a guy isn't pursuing them then he isn't interested. Reverse the roles, how many men are pursing? nearly all of them otherwise they will be left with nothing due to competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 07:12 PM
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https://puu.sh/CK9yR/6e897094c9.png
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 05:34 PM
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you don't go outside LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 01:16 AM
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to be a top % man than a top % women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 11:41 PM
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no so please explain how it's better?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 11:36 PM
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the bad part is he could be entitled, violent, stalker. I wonder who is pushing that rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:36 PM
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how can you say that when we've seen enough threads of women here saying they try their hardest to avoid men and stop being friendly with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:32 PM
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because to learn how to make a women comfortable, you're going to spend a fuck ton of time making women uncomfortable just to not be socially awkward, even then some women will still be uncomfortable due to her own issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:30 PM
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clubs, bars, malls, school campus, recreational meetups. shit my school just sent out an email warning students about approaching women at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:29 PM
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i hard agree with you, my biggest fear about dating women 30+ is all the baggage and bitterness they will have. younger girls are happy go lucky, seem to be very uplifting and positive as long as they don't suffer from depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:22 PM
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top 80% of women actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:19 PM
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This conversation is over because i have no clue why you mention nice guys and red pill 100 times when i'm talking about average guys in every comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:10 PM
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Lolololol. You've spent over 20 replies trying to convince me nearly all men are awful. Meanwhile ive said there barely any nice guys. .005% but you keep arguing i'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:01 PM
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Lol. If you can't see the problem. No one can help you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 09:53 PM
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You're focusing on .005 % of actual men. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 09:39 PM
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Lol girl makes a choice the guy is a creep. God you're hopeless
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 09:35 PM
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Lol you'd think it would be 30 % consideirng 1/6 get raped and 1/4 aee sexually assulted. Plus all the women complaining about men just using them for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 08:03 PM
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You're the only one making those claims. Are you going to keep acting like you don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 07:29 PM
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So a girl choosing to marry a celeb at 18 is shameful in society? Grow up pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 07:27 PM
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Says the one insulting all men because they are entitled, call women whores, etc. Most men don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 07:26 PM
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Lol you're changing the story because you're mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 07:20 PM
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You have serious issues with where you are meeting men. It's very clear to me you have limited experience with the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 07:19 PM
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Yes it actually is. If you are going to act like every discussion related to women is because everyone wants to get in her pants. That is creating an argument when there never was one. Hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 07:03 PM
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Lol you lack a lot of self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 07:00 PM
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My goal is to breakdown all double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:59 PM
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all your complaints seem to be about women being used for sex, when it's never even mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:53 PM
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Did you lose all your savings? job? did you move back home? did you spend years paying alimony? I've never come across a man that got a divorce and said to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:48 PM
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can't say the experiences of the girls I've dated or became friends with reflect the same. Women absolutely learn to have less empathy for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:46 PM
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empathy was never defined that way. I see people defining it that way as a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:42 PM
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not enough to make 1/10 m&m analogy sound safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:39 PM
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lol??? it made no sense to me considering how many men can't even afford to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:38 PM
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have you been divorced as a man? how can you say divorce isn't bad? "in 2002 (latest survey data as of 2012),[37] 29% of first marriages among women aged 15–44 were disrupted (ended in separation, divorce or annulment) within 10 years.[38] Beyond the 10-year window, population survey data is lacking, but forecasts and estimates provide some understanding. It is commonly claimed that half of all marriages in the United States eventually end in divorce, an estimate possibly based on the fact that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:34 PM
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that's a projection if i've ever seen one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:32 PM
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it's even lower for men, so the person i replied to obviously is making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:29 PM
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and yet if 60% of marriages end in a divorce and 80% are initiated by women. that's much higher than 1/10 and yet clearly taking marriage is still encouraged by society. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/4gp27n/what_is_your_opinion_on_the_poisoned_mm_rule_as/ also read this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:27 PM
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"Not for a quarter of us. One in four of the currently never-married adults in the U.S. will remain unmarried when we are 40 to 50 years old." https://www.citylab.com/life/2014/09/not-married-the-odds-that-you-never-will-be-are-higher-than-ever/380686/ the trends keep pointing to less marriage and there is no stopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:21 PM
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what............................................... LOL I don't even think 60% of men are married by the age of 40, how the hell did you get 98%?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:15 PM
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simple conversation. I'd need more time to reflect on other behaviors that i would consider as deriving joy from rejecting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:13 PM
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most men generally have success? um says who? define success? I'd say a vast majority of men have the frame of i'm taking what I get. That's not a success, that's giving up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:10 PM
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I am arguing women don't empathize with men, they're not suppose to. a man is required to empathize with women. It's the whole basis of his interaction, if the women is uncomfortable. you're gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:58 PM
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I find fault with the now I have be the asshole again, women reject men in different ways. do you think a women that pours her drink on a random man, would feel bad or derive joy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:57 PM
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what is the percent of men in the human population that are violent to strangers? what about engaging in stalker behavior? don't you think your position is learned even in reality there could only be a few men capable of that behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:53 PM
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i am curious to see if anyone debates you on your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:49 PM
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do you think you still feel bad because you haven't rejected enough men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:48 PM
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Yea but i'm not exactly that outgoing. I swear most girls on drugs for hopping up and down for 6 hours straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 04:21 PM
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So i'm not very charismatic so i just say hi what's your name or do a situational opener. I ask them questions like what they do or weekend plans. I can't impliment flirting because everytime I show interest, girls lose interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 04:04 PM
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No. Its kinda why i came back here after being gone for over a year. Approaching frustrates me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:55 PM
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More than 30
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:48 PM
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Far more than then guys on here that claim they approach women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:47 PM
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Yes. If your eye contact doesn't make a women horny, you need practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:45 PM
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How is it numbers game if you only have to approach 2 girls? Meanwhile i have to approach hundreds even thousands.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:36 PM
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There is a difference from never being rejected and not employing numbers game cause they have a 50% open to close rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:32 PM
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Or maybe you're the only women that thinks he isn't good looking? But overall i amnfairly certain he is in the attractive to very attractive category for most women. Women's opinion doesn't always win. Women aren't all virtuous, nice, and operate on good faith. Literally had one talking shit about a nerd in one of my classes. If she wasn't popular, most people would tell her to stop being a dick. So you're wrong. Lol? No women reject guys because they want absurdly good options. I remember when …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:30 PM
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Ive never come across an average women that struggled in dating. Because its super hard to not gey noticed as a women. I like how you changed the women that were attracted to celebrities into child brides and slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:19 PM
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LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 04:53 AM
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he is 36 and only dates 22-25. thinks older women are trash
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 04:49 AM
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in my city, it's illegal. so i find it impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 04:30 AM
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he's not my friend but he is a 6 or a 7. but his smv is a 10
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:56 AM
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there is a difference between asking a girls number and her begging to see you again and making sure you have her number.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:51 AM
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girls don't want him for his money, he actually never wears anything indicating wealth, no watches, jewlery, jackets etc. just a really good salesman with 10 years of trying to fuck women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:49 AM
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he's above average looking, average body, 5'9
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:18 AM
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hard agree, my first thought was op is projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 02:11 AM
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it's for all users. but women have no need since they get pms.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 02:04 AM
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i mean his success rate is like 1/5? he's worked on picking up women for over a decade. Sure they all won't fuck him the same night but most want his number. Also when you're that good, you can predict which girls are worth even trying and which aren't. Probably the girls that look they got forced there are not even worth engaging with. My point is there are loads of women willing to fulfill the fantasy sex role with the right guy. These women are also not limited to club "skanks" some of them m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:39 AM
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you know confident men don't number game women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:32 AM
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wtf, is this true?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:30 AM
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actually he doesn't meet them at clubs, he's a commercial realtor, he goes to facebook events, business networking events, occasional bar. He's a master at sales though so most guys will never be that good. He also doesn't go for basic women, he attracts the intellectual type, business owners, strippers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:08 AM
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i believe you, a lot of girls fulfill their ego/ esteem from seeing how many types of guys they can seduce. obvs loser men in their eyes don't add to their ego/esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:05 AM
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I mean whats your rebuttal to guys that have easy acces to women ready for sex. I know a guy who is regularly picking up a new women every week. Clearly there are enough women out there, if you're a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 12:55 AM
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It doesn't because we know women are pickier about who they are sexually attracted to. But They think about sex almost as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 12:49 AM
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Nope. It wasn't from porn, it was from studies when women were hooked to a lie detector. They fantasized or thought about sex just as much as men. I will try to find the vid for you It was in one of your threads. You wrote men can't love women because of porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 12:40 AM
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Didn't you already post this? Also i think women are more sexual than men. https://youtu.be/S4LbOnkakjA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5PRJZFvW_mc https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1AcB3H1Ou0 I will find you a proper link that explains why women want sex more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 12:35 AM
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I use skin care so thats bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 11:31 PM
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Sorry i just saw the last line of your previous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 09:47 PM
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You're assuming every girl graduates college. Which isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 09:36 PM
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Seeing all the people complain about being single on valentines day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 09:33 PM
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Except the reality is that i had stuff their phone and purse in my pockets and i don't want to be responsible for either of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 09:27 PM
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Lol. Seeing all the other replies in this thread then seeing yours makes me laugh so hard. Is it a good or bad thing that no one hits on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 08:32 PM
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I give you the pocket thing, clothing sizes don't fit me since most people are overweight. I don't buy razors. I have an electric one. My ears are pierced as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 07:35 PM
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Sorry my mistake. You were asking the other person if the guys that pumped them are objectivrly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 07:15 PM
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Iv'e always been under the impression it's required for proper human development and mental health. The thing with bloops is, they say to buy an escort. But you'll be judged for it and i don't think it helps your mental health. One user was already saying that you have zero empathy if you consider that and should never be allowed to date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 07:03 PM
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The majority in the middle have a lot more standards that is often stated. Its also the double standards that most of dislike. 30k salary women only wanting men with 6 figures. Or obese women only wanting guys that are eay better shape than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:54 PM
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Yea, i expected like 9 other ppd users to roast you alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:19 PM
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Basic human need?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:06 PM
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6'1, good looking, actor/comedian. Amusing to me how women never seem to date the so called average men of the world but insist they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:02 PM
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If they were oridnary men. They would have no choice, they have positions of power and women are attracted to that far more than mysogonistic personalities. Good greif.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 06:01 PM
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What they can do for others. Womens case is produce a child and take care of it. For men, its how much they can sacrifice. Financially, romanticially, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:35 PM
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There are very few objectively attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:33 PM
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If its so important, why does no one do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:10 PM
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Which takes years. Not overnight
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:55 PM
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But i have to live that way for now or else i fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:43 PM
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I don't understand. Bubble includes??? Im not at home until 8 pm. So i have 4 hours of my bubble?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:25 PM
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Lol. There is nothing more to do, the rest is out of my control.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:11 PM
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i don't drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:47 PM
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Lol i like that kid already
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:08 PM
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When I say the same treatment. I never meant anything outside of dating. Neither groups of women are struggling. Average men struggle in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:33 PM
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I know a few guys that always show whatever girl they're pulling that week. Sometimes it includes nudes. I don't share nudes because I usually never get into that type of conversation. Plus i'd only share it to women. Thats what she would have wanted anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:31 PM
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No i don't think that. I think they get enough attention to not really have problems. I think their treatment is relatively equal. Its not like one is getting punished more than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:18 PM
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Lol you think neckbeards have enough confidence to ask out a women. Anyways no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:15 PM
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What does a normal life entail? Are they in their 30's? What you say doesn't match up to the average women I've talked to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:10 PM
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Do they stay inside all day? Are they overweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:08 PM
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Depends on the place but they do get that much attention if they wanted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:04 PM
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I work full time I only have 4 hours of free time a day and i spend it doing hw or reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:59 PM
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Has nothing to do with me so. Try again
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:57 PM
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they have their bitmoji too since i usually snapchat close. and you 're actually avoiding proof, also i thought people that are so terrible like me doesn't have bros? don't use hypergamy, you're using it wrong. hypergamy involves ending of relationship once a better one appears. women are accused of that because they are always being approached / in the game. Men don't have that luxury because they can't work on picking up women in a serious relationship. also if you think pete davidson is an av…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:38 AM
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i can't really be fucked to take any advice because i don't think any of it will improve, I don't even think those are my issues at all. My workload this semester is too high to go out to clubs or even put any effort into approaching girls outside of class. The girls in my class are below average as well, I already have contact/ got rejected by the decent ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:22 AM
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do you want to see my phone contacts? i've been talking to hundreds of different women, but please tell me how you and 2-3 women outnumber the amount i have talked to. what are you even talking about? you said guys go after popular girls like girls go after popular guys. yea except popular girls don't date average guys but popular guy and average girl isn't a rare pairing in the slightest. LOL, lets be honest, taking pot shots at anyone's character online does nothing. It doesn't even hold up in…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:17 AM
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washington D.C
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:04 AM
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how is that a lie, most women don't online date??? probably because they obviously aren't into the men on it. that's not a lie, that actually makes more sense than what you're spouting. you think popular girls are going after average men? even girls don't believe this. That's cause girls don't see chad as chad, they see him as the only guy that's dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:59 AM
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lol only if shes forced to, it's hilarious seeing the attractive friend trying to flirt with other guys and getting them to notice her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 03:01 AM
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lol then why don't rpers that do the same thing as me settle? oh wait they believe their effort should be rewarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:52 AM
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same as any other girl, you really think they are taking the first guy that shows interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:50 AM
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How to have confidence when experiences are mostly negative? Also can you truly talk to any girl? I have personally only met very few men capable of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:25 AM
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Um.. I said regular girls don't use dating apps. These ones do. With how many of them complain about men wanting them for sex. It's evident where they are getting their matches from.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:20 AM
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They try to be virtuous and say they would be ok with dating an average guy. I really don't think so, unless they are all overweight with social anxiety. I think they would be just as picky as regular girls irl. Regular girls irl show interest in popular guys, not average guys. They also don't online date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:11 AM
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Most guys I meet have a hard time finding a girl. They're even willing to drop their standards to none. I'm also not talking about attractive, socially outgoing, leadership type guys. I don't think thats an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:04 AM
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Well thats not the case. So i'm sticking to what i said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:02 AM
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That's not the impression i'm getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 02:01 AM
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Find the quote for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:45 AM
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Sorry you feel threatened.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:27 AM
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Thats cause women can't be honest. I would much rather have women tell guys they are straight up ugly than pretending to be nice or being rude in the first place. At least it helps the guy in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:24 AM
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Most women are picky? I had like 6 different ppd women say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:13 AM
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I have the physique. Just not into those types of women since I dont go for casual sex. I also think it takes the same effort for all women so I'd never settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:06 AM
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Nope, overwight women have same standards of non overwight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 12:59 AM
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That makes zero sense. Girls that are here only care about themself and their SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 12:58 AM
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Lol. If you were a guy and you tried talking to girls, you would understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 12:23 AM
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I couldn't care less you're a nobody. And yes I meant that socially awkward thing towards you. I don't think all women are mean. But the average women def has an inflated ego of her self worth. The only people who don't see it are women and that's easy to see why. You have zero assertions yourself of the actual standards of women. how can it be stronger than all the men that go out and interact with them? I seriously doubt you talk to your friends about all the guys that try to talk to them. Say…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 12:03 AM
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Yes i have. If they want to lie, there is no way for me to verify. 1 of them was asexual. She said she doesnt experience any attractiveness unless she has already been spending a lot of time with the guy. The other avoids all people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 11:57 PM
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Replace man with rare high quality attractive man. Most men don't experience pumping multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 11:52 PM
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My personality leans more feminine. I'd also stop being assumed as a predator and that is a big weight off my shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 11:48 PM
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Ive met girls that legit have never had that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 11:39 PM
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Why do you think women can do no wrong and don't have the ability to abuse their power? women find most men unattractive which was exactly where i was leading to with that question. I interact with women on a daily basis. Sorry we can't all be socially awkward, introverts and have boyfriends. I won't stop making claims about the average women's behavior until it improves. When you avoid people. Its very easy to have zero opinion at all especially about the way others treat you. I will point out …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 11:38 PM
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Ok then explain why women are constantly in rejection mode? Why do they reject 11 or 12 guys in a row for a conversation. Those guys aren't sexual? So whats the deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 11:14 PM
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I would have far more success as a women. Even tho financially i'd take a hit but thats fine because you can always earn more. The reason being is because I'm disciplined enough to dress well, stay in shape and friendly to people. I think thats the minimum for a girl to get noticed. Maybe 10 years of living expenses? To learn what I need to get everything I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 10:52 PM
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You know that feeling you get when you look at a girl and like her but have never met her? I feel like thats something only men experience. I think most girls don't have that moment for various reasons. It also has nothing do with seeing her for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 10:50 PM
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The very common okcupid study. Which seems to reflect my irl experiences as well. When I go out with women, they're rejecting nearly every guy that goes up to them for a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 10:44 PM
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Lol you have a point. Girls are so fking emotional to random people. You never know when one will lash out at you for approaching her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 10:40 PM
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Misconception about dating, people are giving their best effort. I thought the girls that showed interest in me eould give their best effort but they didn't. Didn't have much communication, didn't offer to hang out much, etc. Also didn't realize dating 3-4 guys was a thing. Probably because i only ever had the option of 1 girl at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:58 PM
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In my case. My career is nerdy and thus my hobbies are nerdy as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:51 PM
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How is men finding 50% of women attractive while women finding 20% men attractive equal thresholds. Usually the unattractive women are overweight as well. Not the case for the men..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:35 PM
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You just proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:51 PM
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You have a point. I think deep down though no one would go with months or years pf solitude. Even neets.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:43 PM
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You can't fully unplug imo. Thats why I will probably have another existential crisis once i bench 225.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:41 PM
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The only reason i added that part is because i find examples of miserable people that find someone and then their life turns around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:38 PM
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Where are the many many people disagreeing? Get some self awareness pls
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 06:58 PM
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Lmao I don't spread hateful rhetoric or insult women I interact with. It's really really vague as to why one person succeeds and others don't. A lot of people are even willing to admit luck exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 06:46 PM
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Nope. This is where redpill is flawed as fuck. NO ONE would ever be drawn to read that stuff is deep down they didn't seek validation from others. Now that you have control over when you want that validation, rpers claim they don't need it. However your life is entirely built around it otherwise you would regress back before you found RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 06:43 PM
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You're ignorant. People have no families due to abuse or neglect, death as well. Poor families also may choose not to keep their child especially in 3rd world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 06:29 PM
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In the world today, there are many reasons to not have blood family.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 06:26 PM
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Personality is harder to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 06:21 PM
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How is that a woe is me? I don't have a blood family. Thats why family in general is very low in importance to me. Thats the life I was given.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 06:14 PM
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I have zero blood family. So your comment isn't relevant to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 05:46 PM
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Well you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 05:45 PM
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Does it matter? Long term effects can go well into 30's+
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 04:30 PM
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I think it's your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 04:11 PM
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fair enough. I actually get along better with people that have no common interests. I mean you'd have to define weird, women having better chances of dating isn't weird. women thinking every man lives in chad mode and if he isn't getting women means he's probably mentally deficient is pretty weird IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:06 PM
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well yea, how can u know the guy that walked up to you and said hi, was going to pump and dump you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 12:39 PM
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ok but it won't lead to me having casual sex, only men that are willing to grind the never ending ladder and make it harder for average guys. eventually it's not even the top 20% anymore, some people claim it's top 5%. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/alflp6/womens_standards_are_rising_and_social_media_is/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 05:43 AM
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We can't just magically summon up an extra reserve of self belief when we're treated like garbage day in and out. We can't be expected to love ourselves if we're treated like we don't exist. that hit me in the feels bro. I hope one day my life changes and i can be accepted by average and pretty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 04:00 AM
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if there is one thing about this sub, it amazes me how many of you don't interact with women and pull this pseudo psychological shit. i very rarely have to display my attitude cause no one is talking about their dating life when they first meet someone. would you be foaming at the mouth to know women also have self defeatist attitude or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:41 AM
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my life is the same, the only difference is i worker harder than i have to. my friend is MARRIED.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:37 AM
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ok. i don't even think i've talked to you about women's prefrences yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:37 AM
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why are there are so many 30+ women on here telling me about what 18/19 year old girls want..........
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:27 AM
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this after both standards have been established and they are in a relationship. I actually don't get the whole accepting someone for who they are, maybe they mean that women get fatter as they age? who fucking knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:20 AM
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otherwise this wouldn't even be a topic of discussion. Also a lot of guys want to try it, very few actually like it, maybe those women were his first experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:14 AM
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that would go against op's premise of men should accept them the way they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:12 AM
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you're just not into it, some women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:10 AM
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does it even matter? i worked my ass off to go from introverted to extroverted, also have muscular body and i make decently above min wage. women are still pretty indifferent to me. surprisingly one of them is married but he has same level of job as me and his gf is socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:06 AM
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blue pill is defined as following the current cultural norms yes? The effects of female validation and online dating causing women's smv value to rise while men drop. Blue pill tells men to be a good boy and serve women. RP tells men everyone is bullshitting you to maintain status quo of current culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 02:34 AM
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lol what is this thread? a psa, is anyone even insecure about their dick size? you're either having sex or not, size is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 02:22 AM
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angry and anxious in a space that's meant for them to rant about whatever they want. not any different than femcels or whatever other sub. my friends aren't mgtow, or incels, they don't even use reddit. well i guess they are the perfect definition of mgtow ironically. they still say stuff like women don't find nice guys attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 02:09 AM
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i'm not a red piller though. I personally think men and women have different versions of love. If i had to guess, TRP says that because women take marriage vows and are overwhelming the one to divorce. marriage is seen as love for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 02:03 AM
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um you can't exactly say stuff like most men are incapable of loving a women, and think they don't have any degree of baggage towards men. Same reason i'm accused of being a women hater despite never seeing any of my interactions with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:56 AM
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and he'll leave her or she will leave him due to his own insecurity. I don't see the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:54 AM
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not an ad hominin, it's a double standard. look at all of wokein's posts, strong man hater imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:47 AM
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not unattractive women, women that never leave their house because they fear all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:45 AM
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again generations, upon generations of this shows women still want love from primarily men. Why don't they choose their careers more instead of marriage? https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/it-s-man-s-and-woman-s-world/201407/who-craves-relationships-more-men-or-women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:44 AM
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nope. i want an extroverted, bubbly girl. clearly she's going to be quiet according to this one user LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:42 AM
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there is also another group of women that has the equal chance of elderly women. i'm sure you know what i mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:36 AM
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I don't think you know what socially awkward means. If you're socially awkward you're more likely to be chill and not say much. i've been around a lot of socially awkward guys since i was in the self improvement community. women circle jerk about how shitty men are too, do you think they treat their partners with less respect? believe it or not some people behave a certain way when it does no harm and they behave differently when it harms some and has consequences. I mean my friend thinks the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:35 AM
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I don't really care to understand someone that thinks all muslims are terrorists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:27 AM
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i don't want a unicorn. you're talking about a thread i made when i was in a relationship. I've done all the self improvement things i can. Can i not choose to blame women? if women are actually shitty about it? throwing their drink at you, telling you to go away, labeling you for saying hi. like what? i blame myself? if only i didn't kill women in my basement. I'm indifferent to most women so it's whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:24 AM
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i strongly agree about perception is reality, I've seen women strongly warp their experiences based on their perception rather than actual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:18 AM
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i added more btw, no because you can clearly tell which ppd women are insane. (if they aren't trolling) like you write a lot of trolly shit. If women didn't think men are incapable of loving women, they wouldn't want romance so bad, they wouldn't want marriage, or love at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:16 AM
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only ppd women have deep seated hate for men. they want their version of love which is basically fairytale princess complex, and think compromise shouldn't happen. How do you accept someone for who they are? you don't, that's a failing relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:12 AM
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Idk, you were struggling to understand others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:08 AM
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Look at my thread from a year ago in ppd. Clearly incel. Talk about dimwitted lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:06 AM
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As if thats an insult. Ive been called worse by ppd women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 12:53 AM
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As opposed to going out and having my insecurities proved right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 12:51 AM
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Not all problems are solved that way. Karma is meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 12:46 AM
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Well they do. What was the site called lolcow? Or something. Also i just met an incel women in my school. If you wanna see her dm's to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 12:19 AM
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Incels officially lost its meaning ever since that sub got banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 12:16 AM
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This is a subreddit for crybabies as well. Dude no one should ever talk about their problems because they're all crybabies. Why can't everyone be a stoic hardass harass like me. Good greif They are at a different point in their life than you. I just think you have an insanely inflated ego if you complain that others can't be like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 12:01 AM
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Good for him. Still doesn't mean anything when talking about people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:57 PM
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No. Its cause u can't relate. You're a different person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:51 PM
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Women still believe average man have a chance. In fact they're saying average men have a better chance with all the creeps. To which i say bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:46 PM
2

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:45 PM
5

Really? Because if we said feminism only wants to benefit women we got told no. Does that also count for muslims as well? No What about Republicans? Democrats? You can't possible believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:39 PM
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You're ignoring them then. Cause i have seen such stuff on mgtow forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:31 PM
3

How can mgtows be incel if most of them fuck women on tinder and have experienced marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:30 PM
2

I was driving. Waiting to edit. I Will do it now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:16 PM
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All 3 of your points are wrong tho Incels) with the incels i talked to they're genuinely pretty chill dudes. A lot of them unattractive qualities such as low self esteem, social awkwardness, etc. Coupled with severe loneliness. I genuinely believe despite what you see them say over text. They would actually treat women with respect and be a respectable partner. The issue is women don't want those qualities so they miss out on everything and that causes most of them to either try and give up. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:12 PM
1

How can this sub claim certian attitudes that are anti women "long term illness" yet at the same time think anti men is fine. Did you all drop out of college or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 10:53 PM
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Lol you have a lot of mental baggage holy shit. Yikes. I feel sorry your boyfriend doesn't know about your mental issues. I didn't realize elliot rodgers was a personal friend of yours. Did you think he was a good person when he killed people or hated women? You can still think women have no idea what its like to be a guy without hating women. But you're an internet troll with how much you enjoy labeling people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 10:49 PM
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Befause women changed laws in their favor. Are you actually this dense? l. I'm a 1/10 because i can make a factual statement that women do not have to put much effort into having people talk to them. You can check my other thread for proof on this. You just sound butthurt for being wrong constantly and making up stuff that was never said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 10:41 PM
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You're a dumbass. If women were so fuckign smart at that shit. Why are they getting shitty relationships and beaten up? Huh? How do they even get raped in the first place? And your logic is so stupid because you call any women with self respect a bimbo. You probably don't even interact with anyone. Womens standards are too high. I'm saying that as a men that has to put work into being likeable with women. You can be urself with a shitty personality and still be liked and have a boyfriend. You wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 10:24 PM
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Because women's standards are unrealistic? If women only wanted a rockstar. How the fuck are thete enough rockstars out there to satisfy women? You're a women so your point of view is already stupid as fuck. women very rarely ever approach men. Do you know that that means? It means Women always have options since they can wait to be approached. Which also means she judges people before she even talks to them. A lot of women are going to make up bullshit about me because thats just how women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 10:10 PM
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Why is a women whining about men she will never interact with? You're arguing over some men having their own boundaries. Assuming all men are killers isn't boundaries, it's sexism. Do you understand the difference? I don't understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 09:50 PM
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The proof is women constantly whining about being approached by men. Then dismissing him as a predatory even if he never said anything or behaved in the way of a predator. Why would i lower my standards? Not into obese women when I workout 7 days a week. Thats fucking retarded. My standarda are pretty low already lmao. You want me to have no standards then you cry that men with no standards exist and see women as fucktoys. Creating on your problems much?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 09:33 PM
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Well those guys are dating so i don't understand. They just won't wife up most girls. Um because i've seen that prevalent attitude in person. If you think the average women is inviting and friendly, you're probably a women. You really need evidence to think that unhealthy thinking patterns means you're going to be mentally I'll. Isn' that the premise for nearly all mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 09:32 PM
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It doesn't. He just doesn't want to marry. You can't understand because you're probably married or want it. Thats not the same thing as avoiding all men outside of your friend group just because they are Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 09:04 PM
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You can't help me with the first one because I most likely already do all of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:53 PM
1

If you're ignoring 90% of men regardless of the location. You're ignoring average guys. The so is. Its impossible to say you're ok with avrrage men while also wanting the best. Like its actually impossible. The same as mine or lower 21-23 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:50 PM
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Weird how i have yet to find one in the last few days. And all you're really saying is its ok for Women to do 1 bad thing but for men it's unforgiveable. Either both can or neither can. Stop making double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:49 PM
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Terrible comparison. Women have the luxury of not showing interest to hundreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:47 PM
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Long term mental issues for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:46 PM
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Some men. Not all men. The men that can express interest to hundreds and even get 10 options back are above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:29 PM
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Most people aren't happy either. It could be for partner choices or etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:26 PM
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Except that mindset doesn't harm any women. But the female mindset of all men are potential rapists, killers harms both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:22 PM
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Isnt that a straw man? Or a jumping to conclusions. We don't literally think women are getting offered sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:17 PM
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Thanks for the concern, goalpost was never moved. Maybe you're thinking of a different user?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:08 PM
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How the fuck is any girl that doesn't dress like shes homeless a bimbo? How is any girl that has self control over what she eats is a bimbo? How can your 2nd point make any sense when girls are barely fucking asking out guys in the first place. Yet alone they don't even ask out averagr guys. They ask out the most appealing socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 08:02 PM
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I never ever used the word appreciate or nice guys. You're making that shit up. I said when a genuine guy talks to her or wants to be her friend. (Genuine as in, doesn't lie. Doesn't want her for sex) No you can't say that about men because men actually have to put in work for everything. Do you genuinely believe all girls are born being funny, kind, responsible, caring? Fuck no. Your point is so stupid because girls reject guys that are on the same level and only date upwards in terms of financ…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:33 PM
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My clarification was made and you kept switching it back. Go look for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:19 PM
1

Reminder that the women that are least likely to be sex assulted or raped cry about it the most. I'm amazed how first world countries with established civilazation have mass sexual assult and rape comapred to unestablished civilations where rape is actually unpunished.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:17 PM
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do you go around thinking every man is going to beat you to death or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:14 PM
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How many times are you going to argue against yourself? Women can fuck whoever they want. No one gives a shit except you. I specifically mentioned talking and friendship and you bring up retarded shit. God you're fucking stupid as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:09 PM
1

Do you know what the word indifferent means?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:54 PM
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No you did. Look at your oen words. I know the women that ignore guys aren't crazy rad-fems. Women are generally indifferent about guys unless they are attractive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:46 PM
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Replace sex with friendship and relationships. I think they certainly do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:39 PM
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I dont think casual sex is valuable to women. However, they get asked on dates, get included in social circles, complimented. Thats some pretty good advantages imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:33 PM
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I interact with average women. Women on ppd don't represent average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:25 PM
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You are either extremely dimwitted or having dyslexia. You keep repeating terrible men are terrible. No shit Sherlock. I have yet to disagree in a single instance of that. Can you please actually look at what i wrote instead of changing it to your own words.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:17 PM
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Well now you know that it happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:11 PM
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I said you're indifferent. Aka don't wanna be friends or talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:02 PM
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You're leaving out a lot of details. Such as social status, looks, etc. I remember many times girls just wanted to be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:41 PM
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Lol which is my point. The hard part is the attraction, not the compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:37 PM
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???? Where did i even say that. You've done this 5 or 6 times. Pls continue arguing with yourself because clearly you're not paying attention to what I am writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:36 PM
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you're terrible to talk to because you keep bringing OBVIOUS examples of guys that aren't what i am talking about. if every guy is going up to you and saying send nudes, why do you treat guys that don't the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:40 PM
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I consider school still a cold approach. And it seems even at school they are less likely to date an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:13 PM
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So she just teleported onto your dick? Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:12 PM
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Um..... How can you even know if the guy is nice or not if you don't like it when he says hi? Like I don't really care that you have to reject 1 asshole out of every 10 or 20 guys that say hi to you. What an insignificant thing to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:09 PM
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you can remove the maybe, there is no compromising with those traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:38 AM
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what escort would lose hours of her profit to go for a meal? you're just being silly at this point so i'm done.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:30 AM
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i'm being that asshole (sorry) because i wouldn't have gotten the idea if i never read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:26 AM
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i don't understand what's so confusing to you. escorts would make way more money actually fucking guys for hundreds of dollars instead of 20 or 40 bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:23 AM
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because they ask indirectly. but i've been asked directly twice, so there isn't really anything else to say about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:12 AM
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I was raised that way and then i stopped because i thought it was wrong for women to ask for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 04:01 AM
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you mean the guy that killed people and no-one thinks is nice? oh yea forgot there is one of him walking around everywhere, clearly why homicide rates are so high. stop arguing in bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:58 AM
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they also don't typically exist, which is why i asked if they were under your bed? and i can confidently say women do not appreciate genuine guys, they appreciate guys that are good looking, or charming socially. That's not what genuine means.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:45 AM
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probably all the ones that agree to meet irl. at least that was the case for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:39 AM
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where are all these nice guys hiding? are they under your bed? for the amount of complaining women do about nice guys, you'd think they would appreciate genuine guys. LOL NOPE.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:37 AM
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all women are virtuous got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:35 AM
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define nice guys, cause i doubt you mean the same guys i am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:33 AM
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i've talked to many women too, they want a guy way out of their league to be nice to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:30 AM
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like a normal girl going on a date. you act like it's rare
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:24 AM
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that's such a lie lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:15 AM
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strange how there are more women with daddy issues than good women. the first one, they'll still think you're boring/pussy/ whatever else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:05 AM
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really? because weren't you and other other users claiming that average men aren't settling and getting what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:49 AM
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????????? do you want a link of women saying attraction matters more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:37 AM
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he ignored you. isn't that obvious? It's the best you can get, not the best in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:35 AM
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you think the average man is getting 3somes with hot girls? you think the average man is even getting with the girl of his dreams?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:31 AM
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hard pressed to a find a women that doesn't want the qualities you just listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:17 AM
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these girls don't even sleep with you, just college students.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:15 AM
2

are you african american?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:09 AM
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and what is this extra work that women do that men don't do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:06 AM
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I complain about this because i'm being labeled before my actions are shown. you know what the word for that is called right? something women hate when it goes against them but loves when it benefits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:52 AM
1

someone was saying average IQ is more charming, higher and lower is aspie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:48 AM
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"behaving in a way that suggests one has higher standards or more noble beliefs than is the case." copying incel behavior with IQ comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:41 AM
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depends on the age, what's yours? what metrics are we defining average by? i usually do body shape, personality, face. most guys respect women, also this isn't even a bold claim but usually being successful with women involves you disrespecting her because it turns into sexual attraction, being respectful and compliant with everything is a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:38 AM
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social class? are all prostitutes upper middle class?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:32 AM
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just remember even if 1% of men are a loaded gun, you take zero chances. god forbid we say the same for marriage and women will be REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEing until the next century.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:31 AM
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90 isn't my real IQ but it's kinda hypocritical of you to react the way you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:29 AM
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i would 100% be ok with a women equal to me, too bad women don't want equal status/looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:25 AM
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except the unattractive women don't nearly have to go to the same lengths as a man and they often don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:24 AM
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really lol? even in person most women don't give average men a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:23 AM
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Are you an incel by any chance? Its funny how people will constantly say IQ literally means nothing, then use it as an insult against others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:16 AM
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It's probably something you don't understand. Not everyone can be themself and have acceptance from others. I'll never be invited to a party, make friends by talking to them,etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:13 AM
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Probs around 90
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:09 AM
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When every girl is the wrong girl. Lmao wish i had the same choices as women. I'd probably have a better disposition on life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:08 AM
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Thats your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:07 AM
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And men don't? Let me guess, he only wanted sex because he said hi and was kinda shy and awkward, so you gave him the cold shoulder and he stopped talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:01 AM
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Because i don't have low iq and I rolled a negative -6 in the charming department.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 01:00 AM
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I have yet to meet a girl in person that thought videogames was an okay hobby. Its a women repelant unless the women is immature herself. I play videogames maybe 4-5 hours a week and I had enough passion in them to actually compete for money. Yet most women label me as a loser because it's immature and for kids. Meanwhile she'll bingr watch the office a whole day and night away with her girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:59 AM
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So i'm an exception or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:55 AM
2

Depends on the circumstances, I think women are just as shitty as men but halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:54 AM
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Nope. Just wanna be treated as equal. Probably will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:45 AM
1

I get a very different impression from most women who talk about hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:26 AM
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That built social worth makes making friends easier as well. For guy, he has to provide something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:25 AM
2

Lol yea cause watching netflix is far more productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:22 AM
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Being told you're nice is actually an insult. Especially with people having different definitions of nice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 11:13 PM
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High pressure to succeed in all those or else ur fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 11:11 PM
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Is it fair to say it's easier to look better looking as a women with makeup, losing weight, dressing feminine. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 11:02 PM
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Link? Cause that seems to be pulled out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:45 PM
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Don't agree, plenty of women prefer vibrators over sex. However men don't prefer masturbating over sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:43 PM
4

To add to that. Self esteem and sex is tied together for men. Not the case for Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:39 PM
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You don't grow confidence and charm out of your asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:35 PM
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Lol you made up the groups. I think there is no good or bad. But one thing is for certain women judge men. Especially men that try to talk to them. That is the source of my issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:30 PM
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A life of action is different to everyone. I'm not leading the life I want but probably more active than 60% of the users
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:06 PM
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Then why would it be unbelievable for a bunch of angry women to shut down a male only space?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:52 PM
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When you refer to passive??? It clearly has a different meaning to you than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:52 PM
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I had to put it in because women's ego too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:50 PM
2

Redpillers don't agree with you though ????
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:38 PM
2

Right women are angels and never kill their children too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:37 PM
1

So like he didn't even say hi?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:26 PM
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Over 22. Passive world. I hope you realize only women have the luxary of being passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:09 PM
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Lol you need a break from the internet. It was women who shutdown the one i read, however i came across it years ago and didn't save it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:06 PM
1

How am i wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:32 PM
1

Not sure of its the same one i read 4 years ago but it's happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:30 PM
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Nothing wrong with being angry at unfairness
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:26 PM
1

This isn't unique to me... A lot of guys complain about it. Even on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 08:05 PM
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Because there is no way to not feel worthless when your entire existance has to be acklowdge d rather granted at birth. So the men that want to go back to high school want to fix the issues, is there men that want to go back to be social awkward, do nothing all day? Doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 07:55 PM
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Women shut down male only homeless shelters in Toronto. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 07:38 PM
2

Yea. I feel as though women claim suprioirty in both intelligence and morals when they say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 07:28 PM
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Obviously...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 07:27 PM
1

You're saying that like most women are immune to making mistakes and perfect?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 07:06 PM
1

Oh. I live near you. MD houses are cheaper than D.C ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 07:06 PM
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No. Women always ask or assume. Dating sites, okcupid, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:59 PM
1

Do you think it's fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:54 PM
2

Women kill their own children. Still never done any of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:45 PM
1

What is a "high paying" job to you? Also depends on location too. Housing market in toronto is different than New Mexico.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:44 PM
2

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:42 PM
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Is that any different than women chasing fuckboys and getting mad over it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:36 PM
2

That doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:34 PM
2

What makes a guy an idiot until 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:24 PM
1

What constitutes as more mature
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:23 PM
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The very first thing i learned was women are not going to accept the first man that goes u p to her. Shes going to accept the best man, which menas she has to reject nearly every guy. Maybe surprise? Women are fine with 40k
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:15 PM
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Why? What are the guys into that's different than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 06:06 PM
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Yes HER best option.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 05:38 PM
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You think women aren't rejecting every single man that comes her way ? Even if they are equal. Women's status is actually irrelevant, she can be a social outcast and do well in dating. Job is irreleavnt to most men. A lot of men are dating women that earn30k-40k. Someone has to, most women aren't that ambitious to chase 6 figure salaries. They have family goals instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 05:37 PM
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That doesn't dismiss anything. Why are men competiting against other men for higher social value constantly? Girls don't have to be the hottest one in the room to get attention, you just have to not be the worst one. For guys you have to be the best option for her to even consider you. Please tell me where men and women's wants are equal in this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 05:07 PM
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No they do not, also demanding high social value is probably what tips the scales in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:58 PM
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I think women have done a pretty amazing job at having their cake and eating it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:21 PM
1

This makes a lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:20 PM
2

For women maturing faster. They never seem to know what they want. Quite a mystery.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:14 PM
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Wrong. Most men want a women who is nice to them and attracted to them, while also takes care of herself( not overweight, dresses well) Stop projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:10 PM
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Some people fail less than others. Atlas was already saying im an outlier fot not dating in high school or college. Since everyone has dated by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:06 PM
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can you be our spokesperson, can you also make sure none of us fail, ty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 05:01 AM
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because women avoid risks, there is a reason why women get raped by people they know most of the time, INSTEAD OF STRANGERS LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:34 AM
1

how is it outlandish when the person you are defending agreed to me??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:31 AM
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it's not a fucking approach lmao, even the women were willing to admit it. you're insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:29 AM
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so what did you do after he told you, your looks are the problem? did you just give up?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/19 03:57 AM
3

they visit braincel, truefemcel, and incels without hate, can safely say they are not who they claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 03:46 AM
0

and you know very well why because self defeatist, self loathing, negative world view, is unattractive. Even though I find a lot of comfort in self loathing, it makes others mad at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 03:41 AM
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yea, there is inherently no value in hiring people based on looks over skillset, unless the job was similar to modeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 03:32 AM
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i'm not disagreeing with you, i am saying the people i was referring to are not vocal about their unhealthy views to others in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 03:23 AM
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It stresses me out actually that i'm not cool enough or interesting enough to be friends with people i try to be friends with. I feel like a failure pretty often, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 03:12 AM
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no, people that aren't vocal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 02:07 AM
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I've never met a person like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 02:06 AM
3

how does that work if girls very rarely schedule anything at all? They don't want to be the leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:59 AM
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he's the only guy that understands her. you just don't get it /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:54 AM
2

women don't explicitly say sexual attraction vs regular attraction either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:52 AM
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second option. when people say they're "taking a break from dating" doesn't it mean stop seeing people? how does one take a break if they never see anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:39 AM
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nvm, i can't find it, it was a 4 panel comic of a girl showing what men think no makeup is and what no makeup really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:36 AM
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it's still not an option. see my reply to the other guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:26 AM
1

it wasn't an option in my thread. If it was, guess what 100% of people would pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:25 AM
1

I feel like being truly content would require you to be ignorant in many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:23 AM
1

so you pick first option?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:22 AM
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you can't have both, it's not utopia
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:22 AM
2

i found a good meme, i'll show you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:15 AM
1

and what percentage of women do you think that is? i think honestly bottom 10%. while bottom 50% of men don't have choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:14 AM
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that's what the makeup is for, no women can truly have a butterface.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:12 AM
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most guys aren't confident so idk where you got that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:04 AM
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see my comment about approaching, women warm approach where they know the risk is basically zero. guys cold approach where there is high risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 01:03 AM
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agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 12:59 AM
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guys are into any women that isn't obese and uses makeup. can't say the same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 12:57 AM
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but your comparison used sex for both sides. The truth is women have choices to date the type man she wants, guys don't usually have choices. The only argument you could possibly make is that maybe she doesn't have fun on that date, but that's kinda the same issue men have to face as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 12:57 AM
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Is being socially isolated taking care of themself?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 12:40 AM
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Yea. I notice with minorities, you have to be outgoing a lot more than a white guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 12:39 AM
1

In most my arguments I never argue with the distinction of women only being used for sex. Its for dates/ dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 12:38 AM
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No. That was just my title, look at rest of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 10:16 PM
2

Any examples. What exactly are her unhealthy views and what is she doing about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 10:14 PM
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The only open feminist in public i have met had a boyfriend. Actually a lot of feminists do have boyfriends. (Both my sisters, friends wife) The ones that don't have issues with taking care of themselves. Weight + appearance + unfriendly are the ones without boyfriends. I got downvoted to hell on another sub saying you shouldn't put you're a radical feminist in your tinder bio. Turns out guys are into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 10:06 PM
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True. I have no idea what ppd women like they, they might not even by my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 10:04 PM
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I mean specifically unhealthy views on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 10:03 PM
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I was just repeating what i was told by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 10:02 PM
1

Are they outgoing? Light skinned? Tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 10:02 PM
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Why not? Ive been told many times that men with unhealthy views project it in their irl interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 09:51 PM
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No one is going to change your view. They barely want to engage in mine and i have a few better circumstances than you. (Social, muscular)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 09:36 PM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 08:56 PM
1

People that would consider getting one are missing the entire point. No robot can makeup for all the dating experiences you will miss out on, plus relationship building, emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 08:42 PM
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I'm a little different in that while I can be extroverted. I can't really find people to hangout with. Some say it has to do with interest but people don't tell me their intersts when I ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 08:40 PM
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Yes i am in America, my college is also a commuter school. (People tend to be less socially involved and just want to go home)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 08:26 PM
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Lol while agree with you, it's going to come across badly to others. There isn't a set of special social cues that everyone must follow. Women on this sub themselves have said regular IOIs doesn't mean they are interested but regardless men are going to have to make women uncomfortable no matter what. Its kinda what you get for having the current male and female dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 08:23 PM
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I've been going out for a year. College campus, mall, clubs. I never see 50/50. I see a bunch of single guys with all male social circles or i'll see a all girls with a girl and her bf. Rarely see single women befriending single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 08:18 PM
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What does that mean? No i guess Because Ive been told women want men to invest more than her at the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 08:13 PM
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I'll quote where i got the impression later. Not when I'm in my phone in the bathroom. Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 08:11 PM
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Yea lol. I had a girl recently tell me i'm a really nice guy and easy to get along with. If only she knew my reddit account hahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 08:10 PM
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Oh come on, You know you did. There is always sweeping generalizations about a guy that can't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 08:05 PM
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I'm not trying to be the 2-4 % that lives life without ever having interest from women. I don't hate myself, I think it's stupid to judge people for things they're not. Looks matter a lot no one denies that. If i have insane standards no one puts me on a pedestal so i guess you should really be asking why women have so much free social value for existing. You must be really bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 08:03 PM
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Really? Because facebook got a really bad rep after it's 1 mistake despite years of popularity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:59 PM
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You've made the assumption I'm a nice guy multiple times. Yet I don't treat women any worse than their peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:58 PM
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I was speaking with charm and looks out of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:53 PM
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How would a women even know???? Shes fucking labeling him most of the time before he even says anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:51 PM
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Online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:49 PM
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I would rather play bad boy cards than nice cards any day of the week. Because human generally are more forgiving to the asshole that acts nice once in a while than the guy that is mostly nice except and having a few incidents of being an asshole. Mistakes are a lot more unforgiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:47 PM
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The women that complain about dating asshole men but labelling them as nice guys. Then there are women that wrongfully label good guys as asshole. Either way nice guys don't really exist just a lot of mislabelling of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:42 PM
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How is it thirst and desperation if i don't go after any women and only the ones I want? You sound really unintelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:40 PM
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Those guys = braincel users. Assholes exist and women can avoid them just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:39 PM
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No they don't, THEY ARE TROLLS. Wtf. Most guys are beta as fuck and always do whatever women want. Double for those guys since they don't date and have weaker will power.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:33 PM
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What... Guys that dislike women online but are nice to them in person are also called nice guys (your example being Braincels users)? You just moved the goalpost. Please use logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:28 PM
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That's not a nice guy. He was never nice. Just label him an asshole. Nice guys are different. The nonstraw-man version of a nice guy, is a guy that will talk to you and be nice to you but when you reject him, he stops doing free stuff and talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:20 PM
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Because real achievements mean nothing to me and lets be real you can't get happiness from it. Thats why relationship goals is basically essential to being a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:11 PM
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Yes i can discount them because you're going out of your way to find themat You got shit all over by him because you chose to. That doesn't mean he is a nice guy. That just means you're terrible at judging guys. Don't be ridiculous women aren't besten into social cues. You had the same problem as weird guys at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:09 PM
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The only girls looking for friends are usually ones in relationships because they can't always get attention fromntheir partner or don't always want to do other thinus. Single girls don't look for friends, they have their girlfriends scout men for them. See the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:02 PM
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I'm against marriage so yea. So what you like underachieving girls or something? Stalled out??? More like i can't find more hours in the day to add any more of my goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:58 PM
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Indian +dark skin + oversized lips + chubby face despite being muscular and lean. There are more but i havn't really figured out what about my looks makes girls not want to talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:55 PM
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Briancels. Is like 5 posters posting the same thing. They're mostly trolls. We hung out in the library many times and rarely talked about school. Thats pretty much friendship is it not? Lol womens attitude annoys me so badly. It's always putting people below them and always bragging how they get whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:54 PM
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I already achieved what i am. All thats left is women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:50 PM
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I don't think you could help me. I can't take photos + not having convential attractiveness is why i dont even bother with online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:45 PM
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I already know no one cares about men unless they are high achieves. No none of this stuff leaks irl. Because i never talk about dating with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:43 PM
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Those women usually aren't single. They're in relationships. Single women don't seek social circles of single men the way men seek social circles of sinle women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:40 PM
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What do you mean. How could you help if you're a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:35 PM
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I mean yea, are women being approached by hundreds of men a day? Ofc they have time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:34 PM
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You don't make sense. Ok but I don't care about men that call women dumb sluts. And you shouldn't either because thats a straw man. If she didn't want to be my friend, she shouldn't have even tried in the first place. Why does every girl want men to be able to understand her between the lines nonsense yet, there was a post by a women that said unless you ask out the women, she won't think you like her?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:31 PM
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Thats not going to solve anything, robots will be cold and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:21 PM
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Yes. They will have friends and guys that hang out with those friends. But they won't go 1 on 1 to a random guy minding his own business. That's too high risk, they wait until they find out more from their girlfriends before approaching a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:20 PM
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It's stupid. I've seen how often plastic surgery goes wrong. Thats why it's banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:19 PM
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How is it a straw man if it actually happens? Maybe mind read wasn't the correct word for it but i don't know anything else to describe it. The nice guy archetype is a straw man. You think guys that are struggling with dating think women are dumb sluts? No most of the time it's why do women say one thing but do another. I had a girl do this recently to me. "We can be friends" meanwhile stops doing the things that were already making us friends. Texting, hanging out, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:17 PM
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I see it get thrown around how women are perfect at social situations( able to read the minds of low self esteem guys, mysognists) and men are just always socially awkard because they can't make the girl comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:06 PM
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I keep seeing people mention you'll meet people more specific to you. But the best OLD strategies is to be fake as shit and show off certain personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 06:01 PM
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How did women learn to not be awkward yet most men are awkward by default?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:56 PM
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You live a different life than I. You should consider most of what i say being real since there is at least 1 person that deal with those experiences everyday. What i say isn't that worthless. You're just close minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:46 PM
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Judging a book by it's cover
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:44 PM
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You have high social value. I'm not white, with that put aside. What about your personality do you have to work on? I've looksmaxxed for years and still invisible to women for friendship and relationships. If i chase those things i'll be alone forever. You say tong drag after attention but 90% of the world is doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:43 PM
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I won't invalidate it as long as its not the top voted answer. Because the truth is the only women approaching are doing warm approaches via social circle so the risk is minimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:38 PM
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Yes but women are saying they don't judge guys based on looks and etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:35 PM
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I can only cold approach, so Idk why you think it's a terrible idea when it's the only option for guys. Girls don't ever need to cold approach due to mutual friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:23 PM
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Thats a warm approach, when guys talk about approaching. It's a cold approach. 99.99 % of girls think they are approaching when it's just talking to someone mutual. Thats not even an approach imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:20 PM
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1 example doesnt prove the rule. Also we know nothing about who both sides were. However we do know women will never pursue a man that she values as less than her. Women think the majority of men are less than her, so I hope you know where i am going.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:19 PM
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I can't relate to you. I'm always dismissed based on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:15 PM
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Tall can be a replacement for hot but hot can't be a replacement for tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:13 PM
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.... Lol it's happened to me 5 times in a row
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:47 PM
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Approaching girls is a negative feedback loop. You say its no big deal and women do it too. Why do they think it's creepy and get irrationally angry when men try to talk to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:39 PM
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Lol weird how women can say that but still not really have empathy for guys that do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:33 PM
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I'm specifically talking about cold approaching. Women don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:32 PM
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Girls don't friendzone guys, guys friendzone themself. Girls mostly look at who their friends hangout with and guys in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:21 PM
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You really think they should be on r4r? They would have 100x more matches on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:20 PM
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As easy it is for women. Maybe another 1000 years when women's 20% of men they are attracted to shrinks down to 5%. There isn't a hard limit for any women's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:16 PM
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Lol if you think typing a message on bumble or tinder is the same as approaching. You're crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:14 PM
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But the thing is, girls are only approaching guys in their social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:14 PM
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There is aboslutely nothing further I can do to make myself more appealing. Spend thousands on shoes? Tattoos all up my arm? Like wtf else
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:12 PM
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Rarely.... Women mostly hope for you to read their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:09 PM
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Is your gf 12? Why would she waste time like that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:04 PM
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I feel like you're a contrarian to everything i say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:00 PM
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Is this really true though? From what i've seen. Woman want you to flirt or else you're boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:52 PM
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This so much... I'd rather hear you're cute or attractive over hearing you're nice or funny. Any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:47 PM
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I can't read their mind but from what i'm being told. Its really important in your success with approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:23 PM
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I mean my ex also said the same thing. She was pretty convinced most girls are have bpd
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:22 PM
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30%? I remember shocked by the number
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:56 PM
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The difference is you go out of your way to be nice to someone specific. Otherwise you're fairly indifferent to people unless they are nice to you first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:56 PM
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1-10. Approaches doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:54 PM
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Be nice to them. Even tho its wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:50 PM
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Isn't bpd extremely common in women? Like over 50% type of common
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:48 PM
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Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:47 PM
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Are you 4'11 on a bad day or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:30 PM
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I find it amusing whenever 5'2 girls are the most receptive to my 6'3 friend. Yet 6' girls, nah they won't even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:29 PM
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That will never happen in a million years. They can't handle rejection already.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:19 PM
1

Ok im below average i know I already
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:03 PM
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not talking about all time. https://www.reddit.com/r/r4r/comments/amvqgf/28_m4f_us_the_rare_pic_post/ https://www.reddit.com/r/r4r/comments/amxacw/26_m4f_england_but_i_work_nights_and_timezones/ both these guys look like they took the wrong turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 12:55 PM
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that sounds depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 12:52 PM
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you say that while vast majority of people still chase after looks. I was looking at r4r and the only guys that ever sit at the top of it are literal male models.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:17 AM
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define better?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:08 AM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 05:02 AM
2

I looked at the key points of ACT, it seems to be for people that do nothing with their life?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:52 AM
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why? it's not like our experiences would change if we never read red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:19 AM
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it doesn't shape anything because that would be sexist, and it's 2019. sexism is evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:13 AM
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and those qualities are essentially meaningless when people are giving advice to guys that struggle in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:09 AM
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probably lol but it's really hard not to. I still remember most of my rejections even though I shouldn't because it makes me think girls will always be nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:09 AM
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because you keep saying it's different for LTR and just sex. I remember their was a quote that literally said it's unfortunate for incels because the qualities a women want for a ltr are the same as the qualities for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:07 AM
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I'm arguing from a ltr standpoint as well. Because believe it or not, you think the guy isn't ONS material. He won't be LTR material as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 01:43 AM
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so zero?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 01:11 AM
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If I wasn't adopted and immediately flown to America, i'd be dead rn. My point is that you clearly had your cards well enough to align with friends and relationships. for me it's still an uncertainty for what could be the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 12:54 AM
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no that just meant you get dealt a really good hand. dude don't tell me it's so easy to make friends and get a girlfriend, i've seriously been putting my best effort in talking to hundreds of people, leading conversations, getting to know them and asking them to hangout.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 12:39 AM
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no lol, that's why i still try, so i can keep telling people they are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 12:34 AM
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Social skills are being left vague here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 12:08 AM
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I seen it with girls i meet in person too. They posted their pictures in the thread to so yes it was real
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 12:03 AM
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I just linked a thread from a girl sharing that experience just happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 12:00 AM
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Because i've been doing that for years and still don't have the proper "social skills" to get a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 11:59 PM
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going to work doesn't count as socializing. weekends do if you are meeting new people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 11:19 PM
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ok but that's not the point i was making with the original comment. it's that MOST women can have nothing going for them and still have a guy come sweep them off their feet and fix their self esteem, unhappiness, etc. for a guy. yea no, fairytales don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 11:18 PM
1

what does all the time entail?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 11:17 PM
1

well you're far more fortunate than me, so nothing else to add.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 11:12 PM
1

people that don't socialize tell me my problem is I've never talked to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 11:10 PM
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yea but they're not going out of their way which is what i meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 11:06 PM
1

i'm not convinced by your most men know women that sell their bodies are forced into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:55 PM
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women here keep posting how men can't handle rejection and go stalker mode/ crazy. rejection isn't a positive experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:51 PM
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The man shouldn't be accused of an inferior label or lacking of empathy over something he does not know? women get a pass for dating fuckboys already.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:49 PM
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I honestly think women aren't the more empathetic gender. How can they be empathetic but tell us rejection doesn't hurt? yet at the same time spiral into depression after chad doesn't want to LTR with them because he has better options. Anecdote evidence but a girl in school told me she had a crush on one of her guy friends, i told her to just ask him out otherwise he will never know, she blocked me the next day when she got rejected. Like what, she didn't even lose the guy as a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:46 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:42 PM
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I wrote women believe they are born diamonds and men are born coals. is that not true? do you really think they're putting more effort to meet average guys, have conversations, show interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:39 PM
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someone that doesn't want it? it's an exchange of agreed upon goods for services. kinda like marriage? sex trafficking/coercion is more common in 3rd world countries, in a first world like america? nah, i bet most sex workers are women in their 20s-30s that either don't have a degree or don't want to work harder jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:36 PM
1

? link. i've seen the opposite, women more likely to rate themselves higher due to better use of makeup, lighting and camera angles. I actually appreciate girls that put fatter and uglier in person as their bio because at least they're real.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:28 PM
1

how does that show a lack of empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:23 PM
1

yea, that makes me bitter so i guess my situation won't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:22 PM
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ok........ which says how women aren't willing to put effort but have exceedingly high expectations. in my other thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:21 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:14 PM
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how about both? they're both introverted and have social anxiety and tell me that i don't talk to people. even tho i have yet to find anyone that has talked to hundreds of new people the last 9 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:12 PM
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i'm short but i have hair, good job and future job prospects, looking for ltr. i'm not a "good man" because most girl's aren't open to conversations I initiate with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:11 PM
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the qualities i listed are of men that are very rare in the real world. Women don't want real men, they want the best men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:09 PM
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lol? you think women treat me like i'm top 20% not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:05 PM
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correct i've had no dating life in person. i don't count online gfs as dating for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:04 PM
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i like how any man that is less than the top 20% is a loser? you realize there literally aren't enough men around to satisfy what women chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:01 PM
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yes, even if they don't exactly say that, some women have told me that if any man see's a prostitute he deserves to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:53 PM
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really? i thought nagging was a women's way of saying there is a problem but she doesn't wanna deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:51 PM
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i've seen those posts before and from what i experienced, they had boyfriends or were overweight and didn't care for their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:21 PM
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oh lord, if it took you 20 years, i can't imagine how long it's going to take me. I actually feel really depressed about being 30 and having no dating life when most people are already dating at 16 and pretty experienced during college years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:16 PM
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my current friends, whop i don't hang out with anymore are basically a social circle of gamers i met in elementary school. However 1 issue that this social circle has is. No girls ever around and there is no interest beyond gaming. The reason being because most girls find gaming unattractive, they think it's immature, they'd rather hear "netflix shows" over admitting that you play video games. even guys tell me this. most guys here are going after girls that are considered cooler than gamers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:15 PM
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why is it a false god to have control over your dating life the way women have control over theirs? my other thread said only women have the chance to play the find a good man game because most guys don't have options of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:08 PM
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I have to be a social leader, which I've never been, forced to create my own social circle of friend and maintain it. It would be much easier if i already had a GF so making friends wouldn't be as forced. Also completely give up videogaming, It's really hard since it's the only thing i'm good at, it's also the only thing that gives me the "passionate" feel to. there are others but those were my major failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:06 PM
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I don't have the choice. I've already had a decade pass without any women starting a conversation or showing interest with me. I have to be someone i'm not which part of my frustration with life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:53 PM
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if you desire it from time to time, you will never get rid of that desire, that's the issue. i've gone months, sometimes a year without any contact with people outside of work and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:51 PM
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no such thing, be born with good cards?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:46 PM
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there isn't a person out there that doesn't desire understanding and companionship. humans are and always be social creatures and that's why our brain rewards us when we seek those desires and punishes us when we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:45 PM
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yes but from my prospective, he's gotten proper motivation and experience to be ok further down when his luck runs out. (girl married him despite him having a lot of unattractive qualities) contrast with my experience, I am not ok in life because it's uncertain whether my work pays off, coming to RP/PPD/Seduction may have potentially reversed my chances at succeeding. immediate pressure to be something i'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:43 PM
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no, that's losing by default. It fucking sucks, no one is gonna give a shit if ur a 40 year old virgin, you'll probably be treated even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:39 PM
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How long is half your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:29 PM
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Lol which is why i know I will never be happy. But i'm not allowed to admit the truths to my world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:19 PM
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So you can't say i'm wrong. Because i promise you and any other women on this sub. You've rejected good men by your own standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:18 PM
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Those ltr questions comes after. The first step in dating is attraction. This just tells me women want both high smv and rmv. But since they can't get both, they're willing to date high smv until a guy with both show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:10 PM
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Thats why i am asking in the first place. I've been under the impression women have even lower standards for casual sex. Hence why they'd go for jobless dudes or bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 07:48 PM
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Been there done that. Which was my point in the first place, at what point can we throw up our hands and say fuck it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 07:35 PM
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Whats the difference? Those are men, women are willing to date, if you don't have those qualities you're not going to be an option in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 07:31 PM
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Depends on the person. When I went 3 days a week. I had zero progress for months.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 07:23 PM
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you say cheat codes like if everyone followed the same rules they would get the same results. calling bullshit. there will always be people that put less effort than you and still succeed. for ex: when i call out dudes that go to the gym 2x- 4x a week for a year and go from fat to a perfect 6 pack abs. It takes me 5-7 days to maintain a visible 4 pack. also to be more on topic, the number of posters that tell me to go try and meet people when they themselves are introverted and never talk to any…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 06:01 PM
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what places are you referring to then? there aren't that many other places to see lots of people in one place. Most women that have dated me were not attracted to me, they have attempted to change me as I have attempted to change them since we were early teens at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 05:57 PM
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because better is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 05:55 PM
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you never replied to my comment about what women's standards are. was it mostly true?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 05:52 PM
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lol, op hates nearly every male poster here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 05:50 PM
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narcissistic men win at life too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 05:47 PM
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confirmation bias? idk, i go to clubs and uni and the guys that have girls go after them are clearly well established.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 05:45 PM
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in what world? women aren't going for miserable looking guys, they go after guys that have already done most of the work and are well established in the smp.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 05:42 PM
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true lol, i check off all the do's on the list but women think i'm ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 05:40 PM
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no the difference is women are born diamonds, men are born as coals. at least that's the impression i get when women talk about their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 05:39 PM
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Ok but that's not really helpful. People ignore me if i tell them girls don't like indian guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 05:08 PM
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Are you extroverted? Socially out going? Good looking? Guessing you went up to those girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:57 PM
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Yea but thats online. I'm talking about in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:45 PM
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What did you have to do to be better?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:39 PM
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You're talking about a certain type of Indian? Not all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:16 PM
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Thats not the same thing. I'm talking about being a miserable, mess and attracting someone. In this case, you already had a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:15 PM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:12 PM
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Is being Indian really a disadvantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:09 PM
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they want a guy experienced in dating, that can be a social leader, has hobbies, has different social circles(similar to social leader), attractive to other women, emotionally more developed than she is ( less likely to feel anger, jealousy, sadness, etc) also outgoing personality( good at laughing, smiling, including others, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:54 AM
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i agree with you on that one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:27 AM
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so you believe that women aren't having guys talk to them and trying to date them in person?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:13 AM
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not the same for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:10 AM
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when you say bad hygiene like teeth? and hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 03:28 AM
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mcdonalds because i didn't eat all day except eggs and oatmeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 03:26 AM
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i am trying to understand this analogy, is this comparing who controls the car? like the guys is the driver and you're the one making the roadmap?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 03:25 AM
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women are ok with dating men with less hygiene, social skills and manners as them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 03:23 AM
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ok well here is your chance to speak out. please list all the areas you have to put more effort than your male counterparts that relate to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 03:10 AM
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that's not where i was going with this thread, Instances where i say women have to put less effort into dating are usually met with, you're wrong because women have it just as hard if not harder. I want to know what more effort they have to put in than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 03:10 AM
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then they stay single. kinda like women are more likely to stay single now past a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 01:50 AM
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you first sentence is the answer, it's fun. also you're not going to get much interest without it, you can't build attraction of boring conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 01:28 AM
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yea, it's more for when they can go on twitter and show dm's of a celeb flirting with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 01:25 AM
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that's not what I am saying, I'm saying they have the full capability to do so now because of social media, before they couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 01:21 AM
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any girl infatuated with the dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 01:17 AM
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read my comment about my life in this thread. what u say isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 01:11 AM
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also keep in mind, they also have the chance to dm celebrities like drake and get attention back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 01:05 AM
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there is a study that said women gained self esteem boosts from tinder matches so i don't doubt it. https://hellogiggles.com/news/men-women-use-tinder-for-different-reasons/ https://www.yourtango.com/2018309530/why-tinder-good-self-esteem-ego https://www.huffingtonpost.co.za/2018/05/24/women-on-dating-apps-mainly-for-confidence-boost-not-love-study_a_23442286/ also this tweet https://puu.sh/CGoCY/b448c3b7fe.png
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 12:59 AM
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lol? why would i give up my career to start a new career, lots of good role models? are you saying blue color work makes you more of a man? also electricians make less than me and also require more labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 11:40 PM
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? i go out everyday, i have morning classes for computer science, then i work in IT then i go to the gym for 2 hours, then i do hw for 3 hours with maybe 1 or 2 rounds of league and then sleep. On weekends i would go to the mall or clubs to talk to girls. I have gotten a lot of phone numbers around 50 but none of the girls talk to me or ever wanted to hangout. how is going out going to fix my problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 11:36 PM
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yea but it's meaningless, it just makes you depend more on sympathy every time something bad happens. No one can really help you out since it's mostly an internal struggle. Some guys are absolutely fine being a virgin to death but they have some great passions that keeps them going.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 10:56 PM
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bingo, if you didn't have a role model growing up that helped you dating, you're shit out of luck. if you weren't attractive or extroverted enough during your early years. you're shit out of luck i see this because you get older it is much harder to unlearn experiences or motivate yourself to deal with the same bullshit when dealing with the opposite gender. and as a male it's not like you have the luxury to sit around and wait for a girl to give you a chance or help you become attractive. see t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 10:52 PM
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OP don't look for empathy, that's more harmful, you're basically trying to find validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 10:46 PM
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because half the gender population can't relate, with their easy access to infinite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 10:33 PM
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no, you don't understand the rule. women want the qualities of a men that is literally in the top 20% of all men. tall, confident, physically fit, social leader, attractive to other women. so the 80% of men are fighting for the scraps of women that aren't serial dating the top 20% of men. This leads to an imbalance of dating because men and women are not going for 1 to 1. Which seemed true in my high school and college. most guys i met were not dating anyone, however there were guys that were da…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 05:31 PM
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wasn't there a thread on here with girls saying it's not clever when guys try to make small talk with them? A girl knows 100% of the time what you're after otherwise men wouldn't talk to girls. aren't women more aware socially as well. They know when a guy is trying to show interest much better than guys trying to figure out when girls show interest. also some women don't want to be asked out, because they get asked out too much. one of my friend's sister gets asked out way too much but no guy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 05:25 PM
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the 80/20 rule has existed before the internet, I know guys that don't even visit, rp, reddit or incel subs and they talk like this as well. where do you think they learn it from? I think it comes from real world observations, these subs just offer a possible viewpoint. Which I am not opposed to being challenged. but it's pretty convincing when most of what people on rp says comes true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 05:22 PM
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but you expect men to do it when most of them know it's a lose- lose? What is your point? Girls do get asked out directly a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 05:20 PM
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also the funny thing is there are women that hate when guys are super direct, even on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 05:17 PM
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because rejection lowers self esteem and causes other issues as well. Being the more vulnerable sex doesn't even lead to any benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 05:16 PM
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if other kids don't want to socialize with you, you come here. Also there are plenty of other things that cause the same issue, depression, drinking, drugs, etc. Forum is just a place to talk about your feelings since you don't have anyone else that wants to talk to you. learning to socialize also assumes they're extroverted and people want to listen. Let's be real social value exists and if you're assumed to be of low social value, no one wants to be caught hanging around with you. I found this…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 04:59 PM
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it's not a secret? guys that could get casual sex very easily get their fill and stop seeking it as much (probably the same reason most women aren't into it) while guys that struggle desire it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 06:51 AM
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do celebrities count? i mean drake and lil jon probably impregnate 16 year olds in their basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 06:42 AM
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brutal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 05:58 AM
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https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/ad/ad362.pdf look at page 2 and page 3. page 2 89% of males have had sexual intercourse or oral in their life. page 3, 92% of women. This was just the quickiest. the male virginity rate was 5-6 % higher than the female one from the last survery i saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 05:47 AM
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yes the male virginity rate is higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 05:35 AM
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are you trying to find out if girls have lots of orbiters or that they would rather have no male friends if it doesn't benefit them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 05:01 AM
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i don't disagree with you but i'm sure everyone wishes they were chad. it's better than being a stacy because you keep your power even after 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 03:34 AM
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no, i think it's a bad thing for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 03:15 AM
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people did listen, that's how we got here. women had enough of a platform to merge together, men can't put together a platform now because it doesn't benefit society or women. honestly women asking for independence was a good thing for society, more tax payers, more innovation, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 03:10 AM
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if only men had vaginas that people would listen to :/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 03:07 AM
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who? if you mean by low self -esteem like they are grossed out by their options. i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 03:05 AM
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you think that will happen to them now? no, i couldn't care less about being called sexist. i care about my time. ps. i already get called sexist about my views
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 03:02 AM
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who? most women were being empowered when they started saying shit like 1/4 men rape instead of being called sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:57 AM
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Focusing more on myself is what led me to my situation, going through college with no dating or friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:56 AM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:35 AM
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i wish i had whiteknights :/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:32 AM
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yes let me just go protest on the street so i can get called a fucking loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:27 AM
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people won't because it would be a problem, we need sacrificial men so everyone can live safely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:20 AM
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this is so wrong. guys that have a decade of game have it nearly 50%. maybe they are really shit at finding girls that have pre selected them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:18 AM
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Lol because women can't stand the thought that their life might take less effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 01:23 AM
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Lol there are guys that have enough sexual power that the roles reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 01:20 AM
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Yea I don't really like how society bends over backwards to solve women's issues but men are shit out of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 01:18 AM
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You guys call him a nice guy and incel for leaving though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 10:11 PM
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I said if a guy doesn't do that stuff, He basically doesn't exist in her world. Yet you said it has to be mutual(which it doesn't)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 09:57 PM
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I'm not good looking enough to be introverted and succeed, i assumed the same for most guys. They have to be extroverted themselves because girls do not approach random guys unless they are hot or a friend of a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 09:45 PM
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And how would you even fix someone's mental health when they know girls have it easier in dating and making friends? You would say try harder right? Even if the person has tried for months or even a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 09:34 PM
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Incels? Or men with no dating standards
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 09:03 PM
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Don't girls want someone that accepts them and guys are told they have to be somethign acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 08:30 PM
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Ive been playing this song lately because start of semester = rejection galore. https://youtu.be/jLNrvmXboj8
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 08:15 PM
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And a women won't associate with men that don't do that stuff. So Idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 06:57 PM
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I meant chad.... But phone typo lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 06:56 PM
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Just because you don't have issues with something doesn't mean others also don't struggle. Incel mentality is just frustration over something every girl has and doesn't have to put any effort towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 06:38 PM
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Your judgements are weird. How do you define emotional maturity? Teenager mentality also isn't age specific. Its self esteem related. Guys that have access to regular sex have healthy self esteem. Thats why you'll see guys in their 30s and 40s chase sex as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 06:34 PM
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No because I think very very few people have abundance mentality. Extroverted is a must but low neuroticism can be subjective. Every single person has emotional baggage. Even cheds, they develop their personality to hide it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 06:13 PM
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Its the minimum requirement for a Guy, so i can't see why women shouldn't be held to the same standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 06:05 PM
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I was curious the other day so I stumbled upon a quora. Question asking if hot girls get asked out by men all the time. The article was convincing in that it showed a model that was always single because no guys would ask her out. There were a lot of details left out but I immediately thought bullshit because relating back to everytime I even showed interest in a girl, she would pull away. Often times girls were not even open minded when i would say hi to them. These aren't just 1 or 2 girls. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 05:51 PM
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Women aren't willing to give some of these qualities to most people. They need to know what's in it for them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 04:53 PM
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It's how most guys are raised, "We're lucky to have such an amazing, beautiful wife" Women are automatically placed on the pedestal even if guys don't want to. Also how male sttraction works versus female. A lit of guys see a hot girl and their mind overrides with how high status she is. Maybe we started adopying the aittude that girls ain't shit. Things would be better? Although i imagine girls like the benefits of being pedestal'd just not the pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 04:50 PM
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Not be a terror? I find that amusing considering "if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve my best" type girls exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 01:15 PM
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Tbh, men would also only date hot and fun girls in their 20's then settle with an average girl that has her shit together. But most men don' have that option. The issue is when these girls treat the guys differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 01:13 PM
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They're in the label of, I will never meet them so i don't act like they exist. I don't know what point you're trying to make. I get labelled pretty often as a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 12:55 PM
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but ppd tells me nice girls exist and they're not all chad chasers?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 05:22 AM
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It's not really that simple. Like most of the labels I use are earned, like liar, fake, not my type. my issues with women are complicated, it mostly has to do how unfair i see the world and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 05:14 AM
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she has to add to my life in terms of helping me out too instead of always asking for favors, be reasonably attractive, offer emotional support, doesn't create drama, has her own interests instead of just netflix, nice to everyone. too bad she doesn't exist!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 05:00 AM
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your experiences aren't being invalidated, it's just we're unlikely to ever run into a type of person like you. I generalize a lot but that's cause i don't really care much for people I haven't met or will never meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 04:55 AM
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i'm noticing a lot of ppl's social circles consist of friends from HS and college. yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 04:44 AM
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not much offends me other than people thinking they know how i live my life or know what i have done and not done. Also people pretending like dating is in favor of men, is a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 04:33 AM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 04:32 AM
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what lol. girls talk shit about the guys that approach them all the time. I call girls alpha chasers when they want a perfect guy but all they have to offer is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 04:31 AM
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i've been rejected a lot, ppl tell me girls feel bad, fuck no lol. you can tell some girls genuinely enjoy rejecting men, others get a quick emotional high then go back to pretending you don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:53 AM
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only if the girl is single or both the guy and girl are in relationships. otherwise it's a pretty mediocre friendship, usually held together by social circle and not real friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:51 AM
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THATS SUCH BULLSHIT LOLOLOLOL. meanwhile thread yesterday, god i hate fucking attention from unattractive men- nearly every girl
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:44 AM
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what lol, if i ask a girl for anything it usually ends with either being left on read or a 1 word answer. Girls avoid emotional shit with guys like the plague, unless you're a best friend or bf ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:39 AM
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there is no incentive for women to ever improve, it's mostly a social thing. notice how even radfems get dates and have boyfriends. The issue is whether or not a guy will stay long enough to deal with her bullshit but the the door is always open. Not the case for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:37 AM
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that type does exist, i've shaken his hand, you keep repeating that's it's 100% physical but i mentioned two parts of chad that have nothing to do with his looks. the furthest a chad looks is that most women find him attractive. there was a thread made yuesterday asking how many % of the opposite sex is attractive when walking dow nthe street, men were saying 50%+/ women were saying less than 10% doesn't that seem odd to you? which means women find most men unattractive because he is not that ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:26 AM
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who are you even arguing this with? does anyone even care who looks like a chad? i could give less of a shit who looks like a chad, i'm more concerned with how women won't date 80% of the men they are peers with because they aren't chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:11 AM
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yes because subjectively there are a few different good looking guys, but most guys are not good looking you don't see girls approaching guys in public all that often, it's really rare for that same reason, most dudes are unattractive. when we talk about good looking, you can easily spot someone that is not good looking. can't find the study, to be fair it was on an obscure website. lookism it's funny how you ask why we don't live in a polygnist society, isn't it weird how nearly every girl's da…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 02:16 AM
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I just defined it for you. massive social skills, outgoing personality, good looking. If you don't have all 3, you can never be chad. Chads will usually have multiple girls competing for him in public too. The key is that he puts almost no effort. Women do all the work Also you know how there is that okcupid study that said women find 80% of the men unattractive on it. Well there was also a study where women were asked who the most attractive guy was. It was the same 2-3 in a room. Its very defi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 01:00 AM
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Everyone else. Any sane person that knows of the 80/20 rule thinks its fucked up. Thats why when they make it to the top 20% of men. They treat girls like bitches. Also you say my world view is fucked up? How lol. I know so many good guys struggling to get a girlfriend. Ever seen a girl struggle to get a boyfriend? She would have to be a real piece of shit to struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 08:37 PM
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I know because in another thread, when a women is rewarded for existing and a man is only rewarded for climbing the ladder. The ladder goal constantly goes up and up. Eventually the average girl wants something way out of her league but because the way society is girls are allowed to set the market. Manning up = being a little bitch for girls? What the fuck is wrong with everyone You think a a good looking girl doesn't know shes the most wanted thing in the world? Lol. My attractiveness has been…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 08:34 PM
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Better isn't an objective measure. Because if it was. I already maximized your better category, does it help? NOPE. So you tell me at what point can you better yourself enough and still not get what you want. Please tell me what is objectively wrong with blaming women for their exceedingly high exptactions of men? What is wrong with saying dating is easier for women when it is factually true?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 08:26 PM
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Putting myself out there doesn't let me meet anyone. You really think the guys that struggle are the ones that don't follow advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 08:18 PM
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It's hard work for only one gender. The standards for acceptable men have raised drastically. You think the standards have increased for women? Nah. Socially inept women find bfs pretty easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 06:45 PM
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Are you arguing just to say you're right? I don't understand the point of your game.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 06:35 PM
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The actual research was debunked. very few women actually experience rape and sexual assault, etc. But they live in fear of it? I call bullshit. It doesn't make sense. If it was as common as girls claim. Does that mean every one in two dude is a sexual assulter? Fuck no. Its miscommunication. Creepy behavior is massivlely subjective. Its pretty much favt that attractive men get away with creepy behavior than less attravtivr men. Denying that means you are ignorant. My original comment also had m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 06:12 PM
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Saying no isn't something girls really give a shit about. It's just saying saying no to being a given a glass of water. Rejection for a relationship is different, at least someone likes you, even though girls play up this fantasy that no one likes them, even though they have people asking to hang out and saying hi to them. Those stats don't mean anything. Women cheat more and are way less likely to be caught. Also cheating is difined differently. An emotional affair is not considered chesting to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:34 PM
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I only have the urge to talk to attractive women. I wouldn't go out of my way to say hi to her, like i do to girls my type. Even then I have p low confidence from being unattractive my whole life so it takes a lot of my energy to talk or hot girls. For example i have 3 classes this semester technically 5. I only asked for contact from 3 girls cause i didn't find any i like
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 04:40 PM
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I already have the body. Girls dont really care though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 04:19 PM
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I mean dating is objectively far easier for women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 04:14 PM
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Chad isn't really that vague. Guy that puts in almost no effort and has women surrounding him. I know a few guys like that, i think it mostly has to do with massive social skills, outgoing personality, good looking. If you don't have all 3, you can never be chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 04:09 PM
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So its natural and a good thing for guys to fight for scraps because they are not Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 04:02 PM
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making friends in college is hard as fuck, so many girls with boyfriends not looking to make friends. maybe it's cause i go for more popular types.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:23 AM
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weird, some ppl on this sub were judging me for being in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 12:44 AM
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wrong sub to ask this, if you don't know already people are gonna think ur a rapist. no one is willing to give you the answers you want because it won't help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 12:41 AM
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i couldn't care less what they want. they're just not perfect snowflake angels that everyone pretends they are. they have selfish desires too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 12:35 AM
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except most girls don't wanna meet guys, hence the fucking loser category. I've never turned down anyone trying to meet me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 12:27 AM
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yes. I feel like i talk to way too many people but never click with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 12:02 AM
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not the same way girls judge guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 11:56 PM
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No, you misunderstand. Every girl is forced to judge you, when you approach her. She will either think you're a fucking loser, be indifferent, or attracted. The only exceptions is if she doesn't know you exist. You can't judge a person that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 11:41 PM
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And i don't care about women I will never interact and meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 11:36 PM
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How is that judging? If their behavior is bad, i have no reason to deal with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 04:47 PM
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Yes. But at least I'm not wrong. Grapes don't judge others, girls do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:39 PM
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a lot of people don't want their life and feelings invalidated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:58 AM
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your first paragraph sums my thoughts exactly. however, women run dating so not much to do about it other than complain i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:57 AM
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i'm western. I've never experienced any other culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:40 AM
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so men don't deserve love, only women do? men have to earn it? women get it for existing. fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:29 AM
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you're trolling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:26 AM
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a lot of guys aren't dating though, so i don't know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:18 AM
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the most important night of a teen girl? are you kidding me. If you look at any remotely popular girl. HER PROM NIGHT HAS TONS OF photos, with her girlfriends, the limo's the outdoor photos. so yes. it's one of the first things i noticed when i'd talk to any girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:03 AM
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i'd say it's early 20's for girls and mid 20's to early 30's for guys. It's extremely common to hear dating gets better in your 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:00 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:58 AM
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this is not true, not true of any girl i've talked to and none of my guy friends. i've talked to hundreds of girls. We also happen to be the generation that dated less and had fewer relationships than our parents and grandparents. It doesn't add up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:55 AM
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have you been to a high school prom?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:54 AM
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some women get guys younger than that but most women are dating the same top guys. it's why you see most college dudes not even dating due to mental issues + focusing on career.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:53 AM
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then how can he talk like that? most guys are undateable and it's out of their control because the type of guy women want don't exist until much later (late 20's/early 30's) qualities such as social intellegence, leadership, confidence, dating experience, good paying job, own house. are things an early 20's man won't have, at that point it absolutely is ok to say women have ridiculous standards for their peer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:49 AM
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women have no control of their choices? are you a women? if so you probably have zero understanding of what guys are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:29 AM
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This is warped, very very few people date in high school. There weren't many people going to dances and stuff in school. college is normal for dating but we know girls go after chads/fuckboys in college so a lot of dudes aren't dating at all in college. They mostly start dating in their 30's unless they're an exception ( super attractive) (good role models)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:23 AM
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you advocate for men to get all their shit together before 22? that's literally impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:07 AM
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why do you only care about the male ego? if female ego was in check too 80% of men wouldn't be subhumans.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:05 AM
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.... wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 01:50 AM
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you think a women would ever admit to being #1? don't they have success on tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 01:41 AM
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it's not a men only issue or younger men. ALL PEOPLE DO NOT WANT TO IMPROVE IN ANY REAL WAY
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 01:32 AM
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i don't agree with you, guys have to settle way more often than a girl. there are even trends showing women would rather be single than not have the perfect partner, which is not the same for men. men need emotional support from a partner, while women have their friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 12:00 AM
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you know it's admiring to me how women always want things they are incapable of being. they can't be confident, spontaneous, breadwinner, interesting, social leader. so they expect the man they choose to be and they never settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 11:57 PM
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and what is wrong with that? life is unfair, I imagine a lot of women put less effort into their life than the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 11:51 PM
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lol meanwhile u can have zero positive qualities as a women and still find a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 11:45 PM
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My plate is too full. Maybe next life. I can't dedicate my life to learning why girls lie and stupid shit. I'm just gonna say girls are too judgemental and have shallow wants. I Can't be blamed for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 08:26 PM
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I have tried, ive had other girls try for me too. It didn't work. Tinder selects for extroverted people? Thats absurd. Introverted girls have no problem finding a match. You're also asking me to fake my personality and interests for a match on tinder. How would that help anyone? Girls aren't exactly quiet about their tinder adventures. Using tinder for self esteem boosts, free dates, someone to talk to while their bf is busy. Also i know I'm not conventally attractive. The only thing i could pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 07:53 PM
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Lol. I hope you're trolling. Girls can't be that stupid right? To expect guys to make 6 figures in college. While the girl works min wage or not at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 03:33 PM
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Your statistics you linked doesn't mean much. Especially considering the ratio of guys to girls is maasive. The meeting rate that was reported on tinder was astronomically low. I think near 20% from the last survey? Your 2nd point is correct, i'd also like to point out that if you don't have pictures showing you're extroverted and adventurous. You will not get matches. So tinder won't work for every guy, but it will work for every girl. The girls def have issues. Whether it be collecting self es…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 03:31 PM
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young guys don't tend to have money? what kind of money are you expecting from a guy in the same situation as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 05:24 AM
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oh, i misunderstood. I'm actually not skinny, i'm fairly muscular (leaner side). It's still super fucking hard for me to get any attention from girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 04:46 AM
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bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 04:40 AM
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I'm the same as that guy, however i do have some friends but my sense of normal is very different from what other people think. Also i refuse to use dating sites. Girls that have no dating problems meet guys in person, the ones that use dating sites are prone to having issues, just like the guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 03:51 AM
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i like your comments, they resonate with me very well. I didn't even realize i could be considered autistic but my dating life has been zero for what seems like a decade. That in itself tells me I was dealt a shitty hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 03:45 AM
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What about their personality sucks? Like how do you know someone has a good personality and someone who has a bad one?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 05:42 PM
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There has to be more then. I'm certainly above average if thats what the average guy is but i don't get noticed and added bonus is that I start conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 05:17 PM
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I mean specifically, behavior wise, body,money,hobbies,etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:17 PM
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I don't want to date these girls. They're not my type. I don't feel attraction to them but i want a social life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 12:04 PM
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Thats not how it works. Guys that only see women as sex?? Somehow that isn't projected. Guys that hate women?? Somehow that isn't projected. Yet when I try being friends with girls. Its a problem and desperate? Why am i desperate if i think i deserve what i worked for?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 05:15 AM
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what makes a man average?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 04:39 AM
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pretty sure it has nothing to do with attitude because i spent 8 months getting rejected by hundreds of girls when there was no attitude problem. I have an attitude problem now because life is pretty unfair and doesn't really give a shit how much effort you put in. all it would really take is for one girl to stop judging me based on appearance and instead judge me on how i behave, too bad that will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 04:23 AM
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that doesn't make sense, you said girls are mind readers, those girls have even less reason to be friendly to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:42 AM
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then why do girls with boyfriends even talk to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:27 AM
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women aren't mind readers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:23 AM
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i already have a big boy job, it's actually the same even in clubs, I just got dealt pretty shitty cards in life i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:07 AM
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No i'm saying ugly guys only dating ugly girls is not real. Girls use makeup so naturally they are going to be more attractive than any guy they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 09:30 PM
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Where did you learn this? If I said the same thing to someone else. I'd be called stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 09:10 PM
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Are you saying all women are shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 09:05 PM
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Yea I am but i'm still a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 08:59 PM
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No attractive girls in this one class but i did manage to get a number, however she isn't interested and kind of a whiner personality. Another semester going to go by and every girl not liking me for unknown reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 06:04 PM
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so accept my position and continue thinking that girls are stupid as fuck and mostly retarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 03:32 PM
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How does a guy that has no job, obese, no social skills have more value than a guy with a good job, jacked body, and somewhat social??? Isnt that a contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 03:10 PM
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You act like this is a lost cause?? There are guys even lower smp getting dates so i don't quite understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 01:59 PM
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I already immensely improved my value. If girls are still going to be shitheads about it. Im done. Fucking bullshit how autistic, morbidly obese, and ugly people get girlfriends. Yet I'm low value based on absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 01:44 PM
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I'm not low value. Girls are god awful judges of my value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 01:11 PM
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yea the issue isn't just one girl..... I actually had a breakdown the other day because i said what autistic fuck, talks to 40 girls in their classes and can't even get one of them to be friends with. Basically i'm feeling lots of anxiety repeating my last semester.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 04:40 AM
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i've had multiple people through out my life tell me my face is not conventionally attractive + low self esteem + bitterness at the world. Something that completely made me lose my shit recently was seeing someone tell me that morbidly obese, ugly, and autistic people deserve to find love and friends too and they do. Here I am unable to find either despite my attempts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 04:38 AM
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i feel bitter again because i asked a girl in my class if she wanted to be study partners and she said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 04:00 AM
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lifted, girls don't give a fuck. having immense social value matters 100x more than lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 03:46 AM
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question for you. why should men improve themselves while women have zero motivation or desire to do anything other than look pretty and maybe find a decent job? a men improving is vastly different than a women improving as well. for men it takes decades, for women it could literally happen over night.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 03:39 AM
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age? how long have you worked on your smv?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 03:30 AM
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how do you know you are a 6/10? i actually don't understand my rating. i';m basically a 1/10 as a male smv, but i have a good job, and nearly perfect body. I guess neither of those things women can notice but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 03:17 AM
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the alternative isn't better. probably why so many people are depressed for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 09:27 PM
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a lot of trp is linked into behavioral biology... things such as giving too much attention or scarcity mindset isn't debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 05:28 PM
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isn't that rape? but anyways she started avoiding me and i don't play games so it's not like I had the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 10:20 PM
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I think i did after my first reply? Unless you're actually telling me guys and girls have it equal in dating. Which is clearly not true even by your own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 03:05 PM
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What is your issue? you have zero relateability to the dating world as a guy yet you seem to imply that they are all beneath you? Are men with good jobs, friends, kind and goals should have zero issues in their life?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:27 PM
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How is that possible? You have to make time to get to know someone. So you give them time, but then you are pedestaling if they ask for your time and you agree but avoid her after finding out she has a bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 01:29 PM
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Why can't some girls tell? Even though your post says it's evolutionary instinct?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 11:00 AM
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Its extremely uncommon to run into a man that says nothing is ever his fault but its actually pushed by society for women to have that mentality. How can you actually think that when men dedicate themselves to earning higher paying jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 10:59 AM
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and a women that claims to always support you and be there for you even as a friend are? still a man's fault i guess /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 05:00 AM
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it's an emotional argument, I said the same thing about my ex when she cheated on me. That she never even liked me and always liked the other guy. Once again emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 04:25 AM
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needs more context.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 04:05 AM
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ok but why are 100% of men losers? why are there no such thing as women losers? you said no women wants to fuck a whiney bitch (lol i know handfuls of women that whine incessantly in public about their first world problems),but ignoring all double standards. what next? i hope to god you have average IQ so the reason people prefer places like these is so they don't whine IRL, or talk about their issues to friends, partners etc. Men are even less likely to open up emotionally IRL. so please cut th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 03:50 AM
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wait... it's a fantasy for me because girls generally aren't open to meeting guys unless you ooze fuckboy vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 03:42 AM
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can you elaborate on not putting her on a pedestal? what does that mean, and what;s the difference between someone that does and doesn't do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 03:22 AM
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there is an awfully high ratio of webcam girls cashing checks compared to other types? you think that is plausible while it's true many guys don't seek the redpill, i can tell a lot of guys have the same frustration that would lead someone to going there. What answer would you even give these men to persuade them that red pill isn't the answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 03:14 AM
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yes, i claim this because the number of people that go to the gym is abysmally low, while you can clearly look around you plenty of overweight out of shape guys getting hot girls/models/whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:59 AM
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yea, it's not doing anything for me and we have similar stats, bummer. i'm 5'7+ 150 lbs i bench 150
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:58 AM
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maybe i'm just a whiner whatever, being jacked has not improved anything, actually most guys that are good with women that i personally have met, never went to the gym. maybe going to the gym increased other qualities about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:53 AM
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i don't understand your comment, are you saying every women should basically have the treatment of a queen despite their massive flaws and being losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:50 AM
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any proof to your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:47 AM
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elaborate? how are they insufferable dicks if more women enjoy being around them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:45 AM
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why do you think you are superior?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:43 AM
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how can they tell someone has mental health problems and low self esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:13 AM
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make more female friends, plenty of girls will say looks don't matter. while chasing hot guys and fuck boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:12 AM
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gonna go ahead and tell you, it's not the gym that's getting u laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:08 AM
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What do you consider underachieving?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 02:44 PM
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Because i dont like dealing with bitchy people i guess.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 08:20 PM
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Thank you very much. You are a kind person.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 07:05 PM
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You see it as complaining. I throw out my views every now and again to see it challeneged, see what other people think. Honestly its self defeated but whatever. I dont think i will ever be good with girls because its just not possible me to stay mentally sane and deal with allbthe disrespect. My time would be better spent enjoying life and hobbies rather than fighting entitled girls how i'n not a loser and probably one of the best options for them.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 06:59 PM
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Read better. According to trp i am top 1% actual results prove otherwise. You misunderstand my frustrations i would have loved it if i could have done nothing instead of turning into self help overachiever. That gets pissed when things dont go as planned.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 06:49 PM
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Sorry not sorry. Guys that have easier and tell ppl to try harder make me disgusted. Self defeatism would be doing nothing. You getting the wrong idea boi.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 06:45 PM
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How do you feel about people that dont have those qualities and succeed. Maybe the biggest reason for my negative outlook online. Actually just yesterday one of the girls i was talking to told me I was the most approachable guy. Dont even know what that means. I dont think it helps. So what if girls can see you in a platonic way.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 06:41 PM
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You also have good experiences. Other wise you would never continue. How to go from always getting shit from girls to better refrences. Also for me its not numbers game. There is a clear issue I cant fogure out. Probs done 700-1000 approaches same issue trying different things. Which is far below, other local guys didnt even approach 100 or 400 before they started getting girls regularly.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 06:30 PM
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I dont use tinder. Only irl aproaches. My parents also never dated, family finds you a partner and thats it. All i have is the internet to learn about how it all works.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 06:24 PM
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I fixed my issues about not being able to talk to women. Quit being an idiot I know guys that cant talk to women and they dont have this issues getting girls. Some guys havebit way easier, source of most guys frustrations.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 06:20 PM
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I challenege my views by talking to girls i probably shouldn't nothing changes. Even if they like my jokes or whatever. I came from bluepill mentality where thinking being nice to girls would work for me because thats what moms teach nowdays. I get frustrated sometimes seeing girls say that to me because they are super clueless.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 06:15 PM
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Personally speaking. It fucking sucks ass when u talk to 40 girls in a short span of time and All of them ignore you for the same reason. ur not the fuckboy fun type all their friends are fucking. It kills all motivation to interact with girls. I'm seeking therapy because I can't cope with the entitlement of girls and still want to work towards my goal. I know i bitch way too much but thats because ive had terrible history with girls and its never changed no matter what i did. I find my problems…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 06:10 PM
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Aren't you a virgin binary by discrediting experiences of other dudes? I 100% call bullshit on your tinder segment. I'm not in the top 20% having my shit together. Also its a tough situation to be in. Its an endless cycle of working on yourself while never being enough. And of course people will tell you, you're wrong because if it was true you would be getting x results.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 05:47 PM
9

Yea well. Wouldn't every guy want to have options? Shit most guys that aren't even incels have no options either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/18 06:18 PM
2

I doubt this very much and i'm already someone with good hair, good clothes, good body.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 05:35 PM
16

Who the fuck values a friendship with someone that only talks to you when she wants something. Also won't do anything nice or care about your porblems in return. Fuck those replies. Women need to earn friendship like the way men earn everything in their lives. Because its called entitltement to think you deserve something for doing nothing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/18 11:28 PM
8

Holy shit loooool.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/18 07:32 PM
2

ANTS do you have a link to this method or did you use the one from OP? willing to dig deeper if this is actually legit.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/18 04:48 AM
2

The poor me mindset is a way to cope. If we didnt have it. People would seriously suicide more. I mean look at all the post wall women. They use poor me mentality and no one is telling them to stop.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 10:18 PM
2

Question for op. Has anyone actually managed to pull this off? I see posts like this all the time calling for saintly levels of positivity but is it even realistic? I have never met someone that is able to pull this off even when they are extremely successful with women. Do you think maybe it has nothing to do with the positivity but more so the ability to be comfortable?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 07:18 PM
9

Wtf is that shit. That person needs a reality check. No one is worth that much sacrifice and i promise the girl wouldn't even do 1/10th the same amount. Fucking entitlement is absurd. Holy fuck can a women just not be selfish for once, a guy deserves to be comfortable too. The world doesn't revolve around her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/18 04:29 PM
2

so the average guy absolutely has to be jacked? isn't that a weird measurement of average considering most girls and guys are overweight and don't even step near a gym?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/18 11:35 PM
2

I agree on your final statement. Do women not realize men work super fucking hard for those qualities? decades of self improvement. Yet i get the impression most women believe they are born with those qualities men put immense amount of work into. Its turning me bitter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/18 10:25 PM
1

Do you have abs and biceps? Do you have a trendy hairstyle? Do you take professional pictures?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/18 10:20 PM
5

How do you know you have confidence and but not cold approach women? That sounds like ego talk tbh
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 09:36 PM
3

Green lights harder to read. Even getting a number doesn't indicate interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 06:21 PM
3

only 1 person perfect for me, lost them. this sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 10:59 PM
2

Only met 1 in my whole life :/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 06:43 PM
1

No. The desire for others goes away but people within this thread have said its unrealistic. To be with someone forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 08:37 AM
1

Does that work? Knowing there is always someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 08:33 AM
1

It depends what you mean by best partner possible. Financially, depends how much they expect. In other regards I think I could if I had enough time with them to not be shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 08:26 AM
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