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Stay dumb and desperate, it’s making women wealthy =)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:35 AM
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Correction, you will get a young woman who will use YOUR money to fund her and her boyfriend’s lifestyle and not care about you. You’re essentially getting an overpriced escort who will take half of your assets when she inevitably divorces you and you’ll be stuck paying her alimony. The fact that so many men are so dumb and will throw away so much money just for a pretty face is absurd to me. Y’all really stay losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:06 AM
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Statistics point to the guy already with a younger, more attractive women. Statistics do NOT show that at all but even if they did the guy would just be getting used for his money again. Younger women will ONLY date older men for their money, and for no other reason. Most older men are fat, bald or balding, tackily dressed, ugly, and have a broken dick that they can’t get up without viagra. No attractive young woman is settling for that unless he has money. And she’ll just have an attractive boy…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:59 AM
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Well then it seems like we agree on most things. I also think/know that men care, even the ones that say that they don’t. The ones that say that they don’t may not care as much as other men but they still care somewhat and it bothers them to some degree. I feel like most women know that men care. But the issue that’s seems to cause disagreements is whether men care enough for it to negatively affect women. And I think that’s what women mean when they say that men don’t care; they mean that it do…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:05 PM
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I’m not triggered at all. I’m just trying to figure out what the point is of telling women that men care??? Like what do you all hope to accomplish? I just found out about this sub from another sub and it just seems like it’s full of bitter men whining about how easy women have it in dating and trying to shame women into doing what men want. It’s weird. But you guys are angry at the wrong group of people. Women have it easy because men are desperate and dumb. As a woman, I can literally do whate…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:37 PM
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I really don’t understand why you guys think marriage being at an historical low is because of women’s inability to attract men and not because more women don’t want to get married. Men greatly outnumber women in dating apps. Most women dislike being approached by men. Men benefit more from marriage than women do. Women initiate 70% of all divorces. Women are less likely to want to remarry after a divorce. Women continually do things that men find unattractive. Women prefer getting an education …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:32 PM
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The rest of the comment is mindless drivel. Literally all of your comments are just mindless drivel of a bitter man. You can whine all day but it’s not going to change anything. And high-body count women will continue to easily enter relationships and get married, even to “high-value” men, especially if she’s attractive. In dating it’s a “woman’s market” and men will continue to have to fight for even a little attention from women. Even women you feel should be shamed. This isn’t going to change…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:58 AM
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It’s literally happening now. But okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:40 AM
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It’s almost like men can work longer than women because women are generally responsible for the kids. If you have to pick up your kids from school everyday I imagine you won’t be able to work as long as those who don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:36 AM
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Not every man has enough options to follow his preferences. There will always be men desperate enough to marry any woman. You mean the overwhelming majority of men. There will also always be men that don't care about n count because they arent actually investing in the woman and just cheat on them. That is your subjective opinion. Not a fact. For some men, that's they only way they can attract women. For others it's just a shortcut to easy sex. This does not negate the fact that what men say con…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:27 AM
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Men: “I don’t like/want women with high body counts”. Men continue to date and marry women with high body counts Men: “I don’t like gold diggers or women who only want me for what I can provide for them.” Men proceed to try to attract women by being successful, boasting about their income, buying fancy cars, spending money on women, etc Men: “Men are providers. I want a woman who will take care of the kids and home.” Men proceed to expect women to work and pay 50% of all expenses. I can go on an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:04 AM
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It is extremely evident that what men say and what men do contradict each other in just about every regard in dating. And this body count issue is just one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:28 AM
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So all the men you surround yourself with care. Okay? I don’t understand what your end goal is? You want women to know that men care? Okay, and then what???? It’s like you’re trying to shame women into stop having sex. But let me tell you, that is NEVER going to happen. You guys fail to realize that it’s 2022 and men need women more than women need men and that marriage greatly benefits men more than it does women. The marriage rate is falling because more and more women no longer want to get ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:26 AM
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The fact that the women in that study found 80% of men unattractive should tell you something. But most men are incapable of self-reflection and will blame women for men putting little to no effort into their appearance or taking care of themselves. The average woman puts way more effort into her appearance than the average man. In all of my life I’ve only met ONE man who even has a skin care routine yet every woman I know has one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:56 AM
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Anyways, I just want to let you know that you’re a sad and pathetic person. And you’re bitter and miserable because you lack intelligence. You have sooooo much misplaced animosity towards women because you lack the mental ability to see that everything you dislike about women is a result of men’s actions. You’re really upset because men NEED women and are so desperate for women’s time, attention, and affection. YET, instead of getting mad at men for being so desperate for women you’re angry at w…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 05:23 PM
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You very CLEARLY lack reading comprehension skills. In literally NONE of my comments did I say that men can't get raped. Pointing out that men make up 99% of sexual assaulters is not tantamount to saying men can't be raped. But I see that you lack the mental capacity to understand that, so I forgive your accusation.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 05:16 PM
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We BOTH know that I never said that and that you only brought that up because you lack reading comprehension skills. Try again.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 05:12 PM
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Tell me more about your delusions and why as a gay man women and feminism upset you so much. You deny that men can be raped, you deny that men can be abused As a matter of fact, can you show me EXACTLY where I said that. I'll wait. This will be a test of your reading comprehension skills.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 05:09 PM
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I literally took one quick scroll through your comment history. You're over hear searching comments and making infographics. I mean, I'm happy I've got you so bothered to the point that you're obsessed with me, but those aren't the actions of a mentally stable person. And your obsession with feminism is extremely weird and cringey. You're showcasing your lack of critical thinking skills and intelligence by associating EVERY woman who upsets you with feminism. If you're gay why are you sooooo wor…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 05:05 PM
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I'm pathetic???? Yet you're the miserable clown going out your way to dig through my entire account and make infographics on me JUST because you're mad that I support men's desperation being capitalized on. I truly don't care about you enough to do all of that. You are BEYOND pathetic and clearly mentally unwell. What type of mentally stable person gets this unhinged over a stranger on the internet???? Seriously, SEEK HELP.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 04:57 PM
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I'm sorry is this a graph of EVERY day of the last year???? But I love that you're dedicating so much time to me today
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 04:52 PM
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I can see you post to Reddit 24/7/365, you take no breaks so this is literally all you do Lmao, suuuuurrreee. I love how you're so pathetic and so desperate to try and insult me that you have to make shit up now. Tell me more. Lol
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 04:48 PM
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You want me to hold your hand so bad but I’m not. You can see your own damn account. But keep crying to me. You’re clearly desperate for female attention. Lol
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 04:40 PM
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Yes, because you often don’t call them women. You use all your little nonsensical incel slurs. Again, seek help. Your obsession with women in not normal.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 04:31 PM
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How damn stupid can you really be???? I posted here in response to YOU. Your whole account is literally dedicated to crying about women. You’re so damn deranged that you think calling someone a feminist is offensive. In all seriousness seek help, you’re not mentally well.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 04:27 PM
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You can look at your own post history. I’m not here to hold your hand since you lack brain cells. One of your favorite subreddits is even quarantined.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 04:23 PM
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You do realize that everyone can see your comment history right???? You spend so much time in incel filled subs whining about women. Seek help.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 04:14 PM
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All you do is whine about women. Why are you soooo obsessed with them??? Seek help.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 04:12 PM
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For centuries. A recent example.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 06:29 AM
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I see that your bitterness and animosity is making it really hard for you to accept the truth so, once again I'll help you out and reiterate it for you: Everything you complain about is a direct result of men's actions. Don't bother replying. No, thank you. I'll keep replying until you learn to accept the truth, no matter how long it takes =). All you do is argue on Reddit all day about women and shout down people who shatter your illogical delusions about women, but it's time that you face the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:59 AM
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Just because my data is concentrated in the Fifth District doesn't mean its wrong. Yes, it does. Did you even read it? The Fifth District data is NOT national data. It's just data from the DC, Maryland, and Virgina area. The data I linked and all the other data in your link is national data on all employed men and women in the country. So, YES, men's overall employment has been steadily decreasing, whereas women's has been increasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:53 AM
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I'm not reading your long, whining, butthurt rant. From your post history I can see that you have EXTREME animosity towards women because of your perceived notion that they have it easy in life. But you refuse to acknowledge that women have it "easier" because of men. Everything you complain about is a direct result of men's actions. You are clearly upset about that and have decided to live in bitter denial, and lash out at women. But that makes sense. Because by your own admission, women are in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 05:13 AM
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The source you linked literally shows the same exact graphs and numbers that the one I linked shows. The prime-age data that you are referring to is in the " Male LFP in the Fifth District" section and is only data from the DMV (DC, MD, VA) area, not national data.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 05:05 AM
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This one: https://fred.stlouisfed.org/categories/32449 You can find the same data on the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics website, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:02 AM
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'large body of evidence'' that supports my view. Let me help you understand, once again. Yes, because many those studies fail to take into account how men and women process horniness/sexual desire, only looking at it from a male's perspective. Other studies have touched on this and other studies touched on how many women repress their sexual desires because of societal expectations/taboos. But you know what I don't care. For the hell of it, let's say that you are correct. The entire basis for my…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:56 AM
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I like how you stopped before the "however" part. Why don't you continue reading then get back to me. Your attempts to so blatantly ignore information is hysterical. And I'm STILL waiting for you to google the effects of estrogen on women, since you decided to ignore that, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:51 AM
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But from 1950 to 2021 men's prime age labour force participation fell from 87% to 67%. While women's prime age labour force participation rose from 32% to 57%. Those are pretty big differences. Men's prime age labour force participation has been steadily declining whereas women's has been steadily increasing. I wonder if with more women working more men feel less compelled to work. I'm sure during the same time frame the amount of stay-at-home-dads also increased.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:19 PM
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What is the first requirement for a romantic relationship? Sexual attraction No. For women it's physical attraction. Sexual attraction may be true for most men, as they'll most likely sleep with anyone who looks good, regardless of that person's personality. But it's not true for most women. Men have an actual libido. And so do women, your point???? If women don't have libidos then why is there such a large sex toy market for women and why do so many women own vibrators? If women can control the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:55 PM
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I see you missed the class on finding reliable source and you lack reading comprehension skills because none of those are about the effects of estrogen. But I'm sure you looked up the effects of estrogen, saw that it had the same effect on women that testosterone has on men, knew that that didn't fit your delusional narrative so you went to look up other nonsense. Because, again, you're simple-minded. But it's okay. We all know that most men are incompetent and need female direction so I'm here …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:49 PM
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An average woman need do nothing more than make it known that she single and she will have hordes of suitors. Yes, because men are desperate and have no/low standards. Men need to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:29 PM
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Doesn't that make sense given our claims that all male complaints are dismissed without consideration in the mainstream? Because 99.9% of male complaints are about problems directly caused my men, problems that men refuse to address/fix and instead want women to fix. Case in point, men complaining about women not finding them attractive and instead of making themselves more attractive to women, they want women to lower their standards. And men own/operate the majority of mainstream media. So, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:26 PM
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Biology, this is the way the game is played and it's consistent across animal species. The vast bulk of the sexual competition pressure falls on the male side of the species. Also, why are you only claiming the biology theory for men??? Biology also dictates that females choose the best and strongest males to mate with so only good genes continue on within the species. With that in mind, are women not also following biology by rejecting weak, undesirable men, which just so happens to be the majo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:11 PM
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I see that you're simple-minded, so I'm going to help you think critically and learn how to do real research, You've googled what testosterone does to libido, now go google what estrogen does to libido. I'll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:01 PM
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There are well understood hormonal differences that result in the hugely divergent sex drives of men and women. No, there isn't. But please cite a source if you believe that to be true. ​ If your entire case is based on such a elementary (wilful) misunderstanding then everything else you've said can be written off as the babbling of an infant. So says the clown literally making up nonsense because he's upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:44 PM
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If women are salty weaklings , why are so many men crying to be with one, and killing themselves over them. Men literally cannot function without women. Does that not make men pathetic and stupid, and dare I say, weaker than women? Women are salty weaklings but here you are whining because they won't give you any attention. What does that say about you???? The fact that you think men who aren't violent are pathetic and feeble says more about you than you realize and is why you're probably going …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:41 PM
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My main point is that women's libido will only flare up for a small part of men This isn't true. Where are you getting this information from? And weren't you talking about horniness? You were saying that men have low standards, and will sleep with ugly women, because they are horny, no? Women, like men, get horny regardless of whether people are around or not. Women, like myself, are not rejecting men because we aren't horny around them, we are rejecting them because we have standards. If I'm ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:20 PM
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Women got the pill to avoid having children, because they sure as hell didn't stop getting rawdogged left and right. Not all women. I've NEVER been on hormonal birth control in my life and refuse to. I'm not jeopardize my health and comfort just so a man can nut easier. I've always relied on condoms. And not ALL forms of birth control affects women's libido, if you actually looked into birth control you would know that. If women's libido's are less than that of men's then why is there such a lar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:26 PM
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Never said it was. I just want women to admit that for sex, relationships and beauty standards they have it easier. Thats all. This is laughable. Women put in wwaaaaayyyy more effort than men to look good. The entire beauty industry literacy centers on women. And, yes, women find it easier to get sex because men are desperate. But to find a viable relationship partner women DO NOT have it easier. ​ My position is that the average woman has a higher quantity AND quality of options than the averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:15 PM
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Most men would go for most women and not only for hourglass-waisted big boobs Stacies while women just want the 6' white male models or whatever. None of this is true and we both know that. Since men are pretty much doomed to be horny anyway, Science has since proved that women are just as horny as men, so that is not a valid excuse. they will go and inflate the egos of mediocre women, just because they're despaired. This in turn makes everything harder for all the other guys. This is EXACTLY my…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 07:42 PM
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When I say women have it easier it means the average woman has more options to choose from for a relationship than a man does and won't have to try as hard or spend as much time being single unless she actually wants to. And my point is that ALL of that is men's fault. Men are apparently more desperate and have lower standards than women. A man has NEVER made me "work for" or show any real effort in order for me to sleep with him. A man has NEVER required me to plan a date for him. A man has NEV…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 07:31 PM
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And how could anyone be at fault for things that are out of their control? Some things are what they are. I somewhat agree with this. I agree that there are some things people cannot change about themselves. But everyone has control over what they are willing to tolerate from other people. So that is not an excuse. Men have complete control over which women they are willing to tolerate, as do women. Unlike all other animals, humans have superior critical thinking and reasoning skills. And becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 07:17 PM
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I'm not trying to create a "gotcha" question. I'm just pointing out hypocrisy. Too many people will pick and choose what parts of a theory that they support, depending on if it benefits them or not. Like, if you want to use biology as an argument then you need to support ALL the aspects of that theory, but I guarantee that the poster and most men won't. Biology also supports the idea that men are inherently violent due to their increased levels of testosterone, but many or most men will get upse…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:57 PM
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lacking the capacity for conflict So then, less violent and depraved? Got it. But since women are weaker that then supports the notion that women should ALWAYS be cautious around all men, right? And men shouldn't be complaining about always being perceived as a predator/threat because it's just biology, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:42 PM
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Do you hear yourself? So, you're saying that men lack the capability to have standards in choosing a partner, because bIoLoGY? Does that then mean that you believe women are smarter than men since they have the ability to have standards and choose a partner that actually benefits them? And if men are biologically inclined to have no standards, then how exactly is that women's fault??? Do you think women need to sacrifice their own life goals, desires, wants, and standards just to appease men??? …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:30 PM
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Women routinely get into relationships with men that they don't find all that attractive. Basic math and critical thinking affirm this. How is it that women find most men unattractive, YET the majority of men, over 70%, get married at least once in their life time and an even higher percentage have at least one relationship? On top of that, in most couples the woman generally looks better than the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:23 PM
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What would make you think otherwise? And if you think otherwise , again, how is that women's fault? As I said, any imbalances are due to men having low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:17 PM
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Men make things easy for women which in turn makes men have it worse than women. Let me ask you this, who exactly is making things easier for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:40 AM
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but it's women's fault for not aknowledging that they have it easier I, and most women, acknowledge that it's easier for us to get sex and attention from men. BUT it's not easier for us to find a relationship partner, in that regard the difficulty is the same for men and women. and that the physical standards they judge men on are more strict than the ones men judge women on. This is true and false. Men DEFINITELY have lower standards than women in regards to who they have sex with. But they hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:07 AM
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And it's men feeding them the cake. You guys are acting like men are being forced to entertain ugly women. Men can deny ugly women attention just as women deny ugly men attention. Can you explain how ugly women having it easier than ugly men is somehow women's fault and not men's?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:05 AM
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It's annoying too because the same women who hold those opinions never want to admit that ugly men have it worse than ugly women And men never want to admit that it's their fault that ugly women have it easier. How is it women's fault that most men have no damn standards and will date or raw dog an ugly woman??? Instead of getting upset with women you all need to be upset with other men. Men are free to deny ugly women just as women deny ugly men, but most men are too desperate and lack standard…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 05:03 AM
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I've been on Reddit for 8 years now and I've literally NEVER come across such a delusional, angry, bitter, and deranged account. I am really fascinated. Like, your comments just got more and more delusional and crazy, yet entertaining as I scrolled. It's insane how you so easily make up these lies and stories to push your delusions about women and flip flop on stances when it benefits you. You've claimed to be bi, straight, and gay. You've posted that you always get ghosted, that women always ig…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:09 AM
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You wouldn't know, because you're not a man. You get mad at women talking about what it's like being a man YET your entire comment history is just a toxic cesspool of you mansplaining women. You DEFINITELY have a mental illness. Your comment history is a goldmine, though. Your delusions are so entertaining, as you are so deranged and pathetic. I've definitely saved a few comments to post on other subreddits, so thanks for the future karma!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:32 AM
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to be considered fuckable by american women, you need to have a 7+ inch dick, 6'1+, and good looking And you lack all those things so now you're bitter and miserable. You're going to be suffering for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:17 AM
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We're not talking about what I have to offer. How would you know what I have to offer? I offer nothing but decent sex, seems to be working ok You literally offer nothing. You're broke, have a little dick, are incredibly bitter, and most likely short since you seem to focus on height so much. No wonder you get ghosted so much, as you mentioned in another comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:15 AM
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And you're bitter because you can't meet those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:11 AM
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This is true because most men are unattractive as they don't know how to properly groom or dress themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:02 AM
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That is true if your dick is small and/or you're terrible at sex because then it's just a waste of their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:01 AM
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So you're upset that you can't get sex, as well. Your comments are a great insight into the miserable life of a sad, bitter little man. It's comical yet sad. You literally spend every day in this subreddit bashing women. Like, are you mentally okay? Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:00 AM
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Because you have a small dick. It all makes sense now, this is why you're so bitter. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:55 AM
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Because men are the ones who are desperate for intimacy, affection, and sex. It's basic economics, supply and demand. So, men need to give women a reason to provide them with intimacy and affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:41 AM
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Now they don't get to complain that men won't approach them I have literally never heard a woman complain about this. Most women seem to not want men approaching them and complain when they do.
/r/MensRights03/09/21 02:07 AM
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Telling men no is one of my "kinks". And they're not allowed to kink shame me. Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:55 PM
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These are the types of men that complain about women choosing "Chads". lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:00 PM
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This is why I never want kids. I refuse to put my mind, body, and finances through that type of stress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:14 PM
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To the lurking scrotes that’ll inevitably rage at this, this is my new fetish; don’t kink-shame me 💁🏾‍♀️ I am dead!🤣🤣😂😂 But it’s my fetish, too. I think they call it the humiliation fetish. Y’all can’t judge us. We can’t help what our fetishes are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:33 PM
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LVM1: Men can never talk about their feelings ever and no one ever compliments us (this literally gets posted over and over again all over reddit, but sure, no one EVER talks about it lol) LVM2: you're so brave king, you know it fam. It's just so hard out here What they really mean is that they want compliments from women. They literally need us to feed their egos. A while ago I was on a thread asking men why there is an increase in suicide amongst young males. And so many were talking about lac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:34 PM
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When I say having a man is a want not a need scrotes always get angry. Studies show that the happiest subset of people are single, childless women and they live longer than married women. The same cannot be said for men. Married men are happier and live longer than single men. There’s actually a suicide epidemic of males because they are lonely. Men literally need women, whereas women don’t need men to be happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:29 AM
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I honestly laughed out loud at this. 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:32 AM
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Thank you! Like, the whole point of sex is to orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:50 PM
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I died at this too 😂😂😂. The insults on this sub are A1 tier lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:35 PM
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I was on the same post and had my comment removed for saying that men aren't children and know exactly what they are doing so society needs to stop making excuses for them. They flagged my comment as dehumanizing. Apparently, holding men accountable is dehumanizing, smh but lmaooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:45 PM
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This is exactly why I’ll never give a man kids. Or at least at the top of the list on why I don’t want kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:51 AM
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Exactly. This story just seems so fake. I doubt any woman would go through the inconvenience of a pregnancy for a man she’s not even in a relationship with, when she clears doesn’t want kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:10 PM
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I fucking hate this mindset. Most basic life skills are common fucking sense. Like, my parents never explicitly told me to wash my ass with a washcloth, but I knew to do so because it's common fucking sense. At 11, I learned how to do laundry just by reading the instructions under the lid of the washing machine. Also, if you have eyes you can see when something is dirty and needs to be cleaned. And with the internet and youtube, no one has any excuse to not know how to cook a meal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:38 AM
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Congrats Queen👑. We should never feel bad or guilty for not sacrificing our comfort for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 10:28 PM
9

This is so accurate, my closes male friend is gay. I don’t even really have any straight male friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:30 AM
8

I don’t cum from penetration so before penetration even happens I request oral sex first. Thankfully, most men I’ve been with initiate penetrative sex by starting with oral sex. If he tries to stop before I climax I just let him know that I haven’t cum yet so he needs to continue. If he tries to initiate penetrative sex without oral sex first then I simply say, “I’m not going to get wet without head first” and that’s always enough to guide them to oral sex first. But before I even have sex with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 01:57 AM
36

Me too! This actually terrifies me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 01:11 AM
48

WOW! This is a prime example as to why women should always put their needs and comfort first. I NEVER want kids and there is absolutely nothing a man can say or do to make me change my mind. I’ve had men try and fail. I actually called off an entire engagement because my fiancé was set on having kids. Having a man is not worth sacrificing my life, comfort, health, and happiness. I wish more women realized this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 01:11 AM
41

Girl, I'm already living in that world, lol. If I don't cum he's not going to cum. I need to cum first or the sex ends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:30 PM
6

Exactly. They’re just projecting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:16 PM
3

Even though plenty of women here wish they weren't heterosexual, the reality is that sexual orientation is not a choice. The ACCURACY! I seriously wish I could be a lesbian, I'm tired of dealing with men. This is how I know homophobia isn't a choice. As much as I want to be a lesbian I'm just not attracted to women AT ALL, not even a little bit. I'm only physically attracted to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:44 PM
396

Any time I’ve ever used men’s logic back at them they’ve gotten irrational upset. It’s crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:21 AM
4

It’s crazy how people get so bent out of shape when women decide to not put up with and call out men’s bullshit. I recently got called a femcel because I made a post on here. Meanwhile I’m in a whole relationship 😂😂. But more importantly, women can’t even be involuntary celibate as men will really fuck anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:07 AM
6

Why would you embarrass yourself like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 06:26 AM
8

If I have to deep clean before I move in there wouldn’t even be a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 06:24 AM
40

I feel like the more attractive you are the less respect you get. I’m a pretty attractive woman in great shape and I feel like I’m generally shown less respect because of it. I feel like men feel they can say a lot more disrespectful shit to me because they think I’m somehow used to disrespectful comments. I’ve had countless men, strangers and acquaintances, tell me/insinuate that I should get into sex work/be a cam girl/start an only fans. I’ve had men openly joke about raping me. Ive been grop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:29 PM
4

A lot of parents cater to the foolishness of their children. He’s acting that way because she raised him that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 09:21 AM
36

Lmao! I’m happy to say that I have never! These types of beards disgust me soooooo much. Like, sir if you can’t grow a beard please just shave those pubes off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:07 PM
20

I see what you’re saying but there has to come a point where you have to take personal responsibility. Yes, I feel sorry for her but I’m also angry at her lack of action. This woman has been shown MULTIPLE times that her man is shitty yet she still doesn’t know what to do. I hate the sentiment I often see on here that implies women are so dumbed down by society and the media as if we are children. I can understand getting taken advantage of one or two times but if it consistently happens then I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:41 PM
62

That was the exact emoji that I was thinking about while reading this. I know we shouldn’t down talk other women but women like this really piss me off. Like why? Just why do you put up with such tomfoolery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:11 PM
84

This is one of my biggest fears as well. Letting my guard down, submitting to someone, and giving them my all, just for them to turn around and turn into a LVM, and have me looking like booboo the fool. I know too many women who’ve wasted the best years of their lives on a trash ass man and I refuse to do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:47 PM
8

Mine is I lift the toilet lid and a tarantula or rat jumps out. I literally never lower my toilet lid for this reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:45 PM
85

I feel like this is their biggest problem. Men can’t handle the idea that a woman may have experienced a bigger or better dick than their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:17 PM
1

Last I checked it's YOU and ugly ass poor men who continually bitch and whine. It's YOU who's bitching and whining in MULTIPLE women's inboxes. You sound dumb as hell. You're poor, ugly, and dumb. I see why you're bitter. It ALL makes sense, lol.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 02:04 AM
1

I CLEARLY mean something to you since you took the time to whine in my inbox. I get it though, as a black woman I'm highly sought after. Men like you can't help but fawn over me. It's completely understandable. Keep spewing your ugly man nonsense, though. It's very entertaining.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 02:00 AM
1

You clearly are. No good look man comes online to continually complain about women. That's FUGLY ass man energy. It's you who is triggered by my happy life. So triggered that you felt the need to message me. Just sad.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 01:56 AM
1

You are ugly on the inside and out.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 01:54 AM
1

Okay, I get it now. You're ugly and have been hurt by women. It all makes sense now.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 01:48 AM
18

Honestly, and I hate to say especially in this climate, but this is exactly why I stopped dating Black men. As a black woman I get treated faaaaar better by men of other races. Men of other races will literally “worship” me and be honored to date me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 01:40 AM
6

I’ve been saying this since forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 10:01 PM
6

GROSS!!! Just nasty! Why are so many men so disgusting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:48 PM
5

I don’t even know if I want to get married at this point. But I have thought about what I would do if I do get married, as I would actually care about my husband’s sexual satisfaction. I only date men who also don’t want kids, so before we even get married I’d broach the subject of him getting a vasectomy and offer to go half on the cost. It’s cheaper and a lot less invasive than a hysterectomy, with fewer side effects as well. I feel like that’d be the best option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:03 PM
20

I would never be alone and ready to have sex with a man that I even suspect may be aggressive or violent. Before I even sleep with a man I have this discussion. I let every man I date know way ahead of time that I’m not on birth control and I don’t want children, so condoms are a must, no excuses. If a man complains in any way I know that that is not a man I care to have sex with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:45 PM
10

Everyone is different but I’ve heard more women complain of the negative side effects than women who have had no problems at all. I’m not willing to gamble my health and comfort on the hope that it won’t negatively affect me. Maybe if my periods were terrible I’d consider it. But my periods are extremely consistent (I can usually pinpoint the day it will start with a 2 day margin of error) and literally only lasts 3-4 days with minimal cramping on the first day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:39 PM
5

I’m lucky that my mom is a nurse turned pharmacist. When I was of age to use birth control she informed me of all the negatives of using it and advised me against is. So I’ve never even tried any form of birth control. I’ve heard enough horror stories from other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:36 PM
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I’ve never been on birth control and never will. I don’t want to suffer the negative side effects that comes a long with it. I’ve relied on condoms and tracking my cycle, and I’ve never had a pregnancy scare. If a man says he doesn’t like condoms I tell him “Oh, fucking well! That’s not my problem!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:57 AM
6

I decided I didn’t want kids by 17, before even entering college so I don’t think the low birth rate is just attributed to education. By the time I was 17 I realized having children would not benefit my life and would decrease my standard of living.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:44 AM
2

The word means adult human female. No it doesn’t. Just a bout every species has a female variant, not just humans. And it is both, an adjective and a noun but when describing a species it’s an adjective. But the point is, why so so many people these days have an issue with referring to women as WOMEN. We don’t go around calling men males. Calling women anything other than women or ladies is just condescending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:58 AM
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This is sooooo true! Like a year or two ago I got into an argument with a clown on here about this and he actually said "So because I'm a man you think I can't understand the struggles of women???"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:10 AM
4

Female what???? Female is an adjective, the correct word is WOMAN. Only LVM refer to women as females since it's more tame than bitches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:07 AM
12

When authorities arrived, they engaged in a standoff with the man. He fired 40 shots before being arrested. Despite all of that he was still taken in uninjured. But somehow police always seem to fear for their lives and kill unarmed black people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:01 AM
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It sounds like you’re begging this man to marry you when he has no real desire to do so. And do you blame him? You’ve given him everything, a house, a baby, your unconditional love without him ever having to give you that ultimate commitment. And he heard you PERFECTLY clear. You’ve told him multiple times, he’s not dumb he just doesn’t care about your feelings. You don’t have to be romantic or an extrovert to propose. He can propose in the privacy of your home. Stop making excuses for him. If h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:56 PM
14

Any time a man has asked me how many partners I’ve had I always say “The same amount as you”. And that usually shuts them up. Then I follow up with, “I don’t think this is going to work. I don’t like insecure men.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 08:42 PM
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I didn’t read all the comments so I didn’t know it was a race vs education thing. But that makes no sense to me as anyone of any race can have good or bad grammar. I’ve dated (not relationship just gone out on dates/talked to) men of all races and economic backgrounds and race has never been a defining factor on who had good grammar and who didn’t. I’ve dated hood dudes who had better grammar than Kyle in the wealthy suburbs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:48 PM
7

You should have added “with you” for that extra kick to his ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:15 AM
37

I know it’s judgmental but I still would turn down someone who lacked a basic understanding of grammar. I understand that not everyone had access to a good education but I prefer people who did. I can’t be with someone who I cannot trust to write an email without embarrassing me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:42 AM
11

That has to be satire. All of that advice was nonsensical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:00 PM
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I travel to entire countries alone. I don’t have the time nor patience to deal with the hassle of traveling with other people. I love my solitude, though, so I never feel alone or insecure when alone. I also like traveling alone because I just can’t socialize with my friends, it forces me to interact with the locals and really experience the culture. I’ve met awesome people all around the world because of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:03 AM
13

That’s exactly why I’ve closed my DMs. I know those clowns are mad as hell when they see that they can’t privately harass me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:10 AM
26

My 2nd-grade teacher read this to my class and I've never forgotten it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:23 PM
16

This exactly why I NEVER date men with kids. I don't care how great he is. I don't need that type of drama in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:09 PM
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That whole sub just pisses me of with their stupidity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 01:59 AM
16

This is so accurate for me. When I lost weight I did if for ME. I could not give a fuck about what men like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:46 PM
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Men really hate women with standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:39 PM
1

I wonder what the repercussions would be when his colleagues find out how he treats women differs outside of work. He's extremely lucky that I'm not completely heartless because he told me where he works and I really did contemplate sending it to his colleagues. The ONLY thing that stopped me was the pandemic (it's not a good time to lose a job) and because he had the wherewithal to apologize. And you're right about these clowns getting images from the internet. I feel like the first image was i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 09:00 PM
2

I was able to find his family and friends on Facebook and sent them messages. I, too, wish there was a group or website where we could out these assholes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:54 PM
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I usually ignore these bums but I just don’t tolerate disrespect at all. And I find unsolicited dick pics extremely disrespectful. I felt compelled to expose him. Finding his family on Facebook took me less than 10 minutes anyways. I did all that “detective work” during the span of the text convo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:28 PM
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It's to be expected on OLD or even online. I just wasn't expecting it from someone I actually met and who has a mutual friend with me. And I haven't gotten an unsolicited dick pic like this in years so I was taken aback. I thought I had surrounded myself with mature individuals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:00 AM
7

Yes, I sent them! He hasn't said anything back since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:35 AM
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That’s exactly why I sent the pics to his family and friends. These men need to face consequences and shame is a good learning tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:32 AM
13

Oh, I did!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:18 AM
37

I saw this response before and was thinking of it but didn’t have the time to search for it! It was this response that inspired my “baby ass dick” comment to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:28 AM
7

I use my phone a lot for my business and I never delete messages. I’ve also had an iPhone for over 10 years now and every year when I upgrade I just transfer everything to the new phone. So, it’s like 10+ years of unread messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:21 AM
22

Classy, bougie, and RATCHET! lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:40 PM
53

I sent them from my "spare" Facebook page (I didn't want him knowing my real one) and I haven't logged back into it since. Honestly, I don't care to see their response. I'm already annoyed with the whole situation and know I'll lose my cool and cuss out these strangers if anyone responded rudely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:17 PM
56

You're right! It IS sexual harassment. I wish it were punishable under the law in my state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:05 PM
51

That line is probably what pissed me off the most. So damn delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:58 PM
319

I've learned a lot on here so I want to help you ladies with how to find someone online. I only had his first name, phone number, and Instagram/Snapchat name, and this is how I found him and his family online: -First I used the app Mr.Number (found out about it here on FDS) to get his last name. -I tried searching his full name on Facebook but there were too many results. -Then I went to his Instagram and searched his last name on his “following list” and found someone, presumably a relative, wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:46 PM
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And for the scrotes that see this, I’ve already closed my inbox!!! So think again! I already know your nasty asses will try sending me dick pics. You can’t out-petty the Petty Queen 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:01 PM
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So I met this man ONCE. He is a friend of a friend and contacted me on Instagram last year. He was okay and we chatted off and on for a few weeks, nothing serious. He lived two and a half hours away from me so I wasn’t interested in pursuing anything. Then one day I had to go to his city to pick up a piece of furniture and I let him know. He wanted to take me out somewhere but I arrived later than I expected and I had plans later in the evening making my time limited. So he just drove me around …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 08:35 PM
9

I understand that but we’re definitely not going to be heard if we don’t even speak up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:02 PM
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Men pull this crap because they keep getting away with it. We need to start holding them accountable. You should report anyone who harasses you at work regardless of what others say. I once had a coworker grab my ass and there were idiots who said I overreacted by reporting him. Fuck their opinions. Sexual harassment should always be reported.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:56 PM
21

You should have reported him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:30 PM
7

This is literally me. I’ve been traveling around the world and living my best life for the past 5 years. And, I couldn’t be happier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 10:31 PM
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I don’t want to shame but I will never understand why so many women accept this type of behavior. I see it waaaaay too often, even within my family and friend group. I don’t understand what type of malfunction you gave to have to let a man just take COMPLETE advantage of you, especially in scenarios like this, when you aren’t even dependent on them. It could NEVER be me. I had a man try it with me once. He sweet talked his way into me letting him move in. Less than three months later I kicked hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 12:31 AM
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The best thing to do is to just not even respond at all. It took me a while to learn to ignore but now I've mastered it. I don't give them the satisfaction of getting any type of response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:56 PM
3

Many states have a case search on their courts’ website. My state allows you to search for all cases (civil, criminal, family, etc) an individual was involved in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 09:44 PM
17

I would say that being an indentured servant to an unappreciative man is the worst case scenario.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 10:53 AM
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This is so true. I don’t want kids. Everyone knows I don’t want kids. I had an ex continually ask me to have his child, even after we broke up. So one day, just for fun, I said fine, under the condition that he was the primary provider meaning he’d handle all child care. He immediately said he wouldn’t like that. I said “Exactly!!! Why do you want a kid if you don’t want to take care of it?” This dummy really said “that’s what a mother is for.” SMDH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 03:31 PM
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Why would I participate in sex acts that give me no pleasure? THIS!!!!! I just want to reiterate this for the men in the back!!! I’ve said this to multiple low value ass men who don’t seem to understand this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:27 PM
17

Why is this so accurate???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:13 PM
6

When I was younger I thought men and woman could be friends. But I’ve since learned, the hard way, that men and women cannot be friends. While women can be friends with men, it seems that men cannot just be friends with women. I’ve realized that men only befriend women in the hopes of getting sex. Every single male “friend” that I’ve had in my adult life has propositioned me at some point or alluded to becoming romantic. At this point I don’t entertain the idea of having men as friends. I still …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:54 PM
21

Men always claim that yet are forever coercing women into raw sex and finishing in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:33 PM
16

Don’t do it. You don’t need that type of baggage and added stress in your life. Men with kids get a HARD pass from me. I’d rather be single than deal with all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:31 PM
22

I’m not even that old but I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s not really worth it for me. I live alone, make good money, and have the freedom to do whatever I want. I’ve been traveling around the world for the past five years, which has been my lifelong dream, and honestly, my life is great. I don’t see how adding a man would benefit me. I like that I don’t have to answer to anyone, don’t have to take anyone else’s opinion into consideration when I make decisions, don’t have anyone nagging me,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:04 AM
21

Not all women. I personally prefer wearing a bra. I pretty much always have on a bra, even when sleeping. I feel uncomfortable without one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:04 PM
8

You should really look into latex-free condoms! I'm allergic to latex as well and that's what I use. It's better to be safe than sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:51 AM
3

I’ve been guilty of doing this but I simply don’t like giving massages. I once dated a guy who was great at massages and always offered them and then wanted me to reciprocate. Not only do I dislike giving them but I suck at it and my hands start to hurt after a few minutes. He would never openly get mad at me but I could see and hear in his voice that he was dissatisfied or annoyed with my attempts. Since I knew I sucked I would never ask for one so I wouldn’t have to reciprocate but he would al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 02:09 AM
36

Reminds of the time I got into an argument on here with a man over me saying "Men need to use condoms if they don't want kids because they can't just trust that a woman is on birth control." He literally took offense to that and argued that not all men like condoms and it's not their fault if the woman gets pregnant, blah, blah, blah. Then I looked at his post history and he had herpes. I was petty and told him that maybe if he used condoms he wouldn't have an STI and he blocked me. Oh well... T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 03:05 AM
55

Reminds me of the time a guy insinuated that I'd want to have his child. I laughed and said, "If I ever mistakenly let you impregnate me I'd definitely abort it." I had always told him that while I am pro-choice I don't think I, personally, could ever get an abortion. So he was soooo offended that I would abort his child. He stopped talking to me soon after. Oh well, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 05:58 PM
5

Good sex is teachable and not that difficult to learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 10:09 PM
19

Where is the lie??? And they’re running rampant on social media right now because they’re bored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 03:58 PM
46

This has got to be the most nonsensical thing I’ve read all year thus far....and that’s saying a lot because I spend a lot of time on reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:29 PM
21

A lot of you ladies have more tact than me. I would have cussed him out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 11:15 AM
9

Sabo Skirt- Not super cheap but I love their clothes. H&M- I have jeans from the that have lasted years. Princess Polly- Pretty cheap and there’s always discount codes available. Abercrombie- Their jeans REALLY make my butt look nice. American Eagle- I only buy jeans from them and they have a large selection. I really like them because their jeans come in EXTRA long, which is good for my long legs. They also have a buy 5 jeans get one(of any price) free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:42 AM
18

That’s exactly what I was thinking. The first law is that energy cannot be created or destroyed. Sooooo, how does renewable energy combat that??? The tweet is just so dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 12:51 PM
25

I got flack for saying that here on Reddit. I still stand by what I said, as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:18 AM
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Girl, we’ve all been there. I just live in a state of denial that I ever did such things because remembering them is too rage inducing for me lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 12:57 AM
10

That annoyed me so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 02:16 AM
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It’s not just online, it happens in real life as well and it’s sooo annoying. I’m well groomed and in great shape (36-25-36) and it’s aggravating how the most unkempt, overweight, and old men try to approach me. Like WTF would I be interested??? Why do so many overweight men go after petite or in shape women? Our lifestyles clearly don’t align.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 02:14 AM
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I feel the same way. And when these deplorable men leave them they think the shit she allowed him to do is acceptable and try that nonsense on the next woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:49 PM
16

He’ll be back, no doubt. They always come back. Stand your ground and not entertain him when he comes crawling back. You deserve better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 01:05 AM
15

Use all that unspent date-money to get yourself a bowl of cereal so you can enjoy all those flakes on your own. I literally died at that part 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 05:56 PM
9

Not knowing and/or exercising basic grammar is a deal breaker for me. As far as I’m concerned, any GROWN man who doesn’t know the difference between your/you’re, there/their/they’re, our/are, etc, or how to insert a period or comma in a wall of text, has no business texting me. I like my men educated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:49 AM
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I was going to post this here because I was thinking the same thing!!!! Like, everything on that list is common fucking sense. Why do men need to be told to groom themselves before going on a date???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:40 AM
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I’ve had that happen in the past, too! Some men think I’ll just change my mind. But now I REALLY lament how much I don’t want kids. I let them know I have a hysterectomy planned. I let them know I called off an entire engagement and ended that whole relationship because my ex wanted kids. I go as far as telling men that if they knock me up I will definitely be bitter and I will ruin their life and finances. That seems to deter them, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 10:07 PM
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This is sooooo true. There was recently a post on another reddit about women having to masterbate after sex because men are selfish/can’t/won’t get them of and a poster said he felt sorry for the Men! Not the women who didn’t even get an orgasm. When I called him out he doubled down and said he feels sorry for the men because they don’t know their sex is trash. I wish I were making it up. Like he couldn’t even empathize with the women in that scenario.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 09:49 PM
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I’m child free as well and I don’t entertain anyone who has a problem with that. It’s MY choice. I realized I didn’t want kids in my teens and I’ve been happy ever since. I generally let men know this on the first date because if he wants kids it will never work so there’s no point in wasting each other’s time. I’ve been fortunate in that where I live there seems to be many men who don’t want kids either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 09:43 PM
3

I've been saying this since forever!!! Why do so many men want a "traditional" wife but refuse to be a traditional husband??? This shit is so annoying to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 04:30 AM
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I never said I don’t understand why they don’t leave, I said I don’t understand why they tolerate doing the majority, if not all the work. I understand leaving isn’t easy in any aspect, even when there isn’t children involved. What I don’t understand, from that specific post, is why she was the one getting up every night to tend to the kids when she had a husband in bed with her who got to sleep in everyday. Could she not wake him? I’ve just seen too many posts on reddit and have heard too many …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:44 AM
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What I don’t understand is why sooooo many women allow this??? I’ve seen waaaay too many posts like this and personally know several women in similar situations. You didn’t make those kids yourself, there’s no reason you should be the only one catering to them and/or losing sleep. Someone help me understand. I don’t want kids but if I, by mistake had one, I’d be FUCKING damned if my husband didn’t equally help out. I’d kick him out of bed my damn self. He’d be the one asking for the divorce 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:56 PM
3

This is so spot on! I recently got into gaming as well, and I finally understand the appeal but I don't let it interfere with my adult obligations. I haven't touched my PS4 in a week because I've been stressed with more important things to do. I will never understand sad ass men who neglect themselves, partners, or obligations for games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:14 PM
10

Evidently he likes having raw sex with a bunch of women. If the 4 kids and 4 babymommas doesn't run you off the high possibility that he has a STD should. He also apparently doesn't mind knocking women up and then leaving him. Don't become babymomma #5. But let's give him the benefit of the doubt and say that he wanted to stay but these women left him. There is a reason FOUR women with his children do not want to be with him. Please save yourself and delete his number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:27 PM
25

This is exactly why I’ve never been on hormonal birth control. I refuse to sacrifice my health and well-being so a man can nut in me. Through condom use and tracking my super regular cycle I’ve never gotten pregnant or even had a pregnancy scare. It’s really easy to not have kids. If any dude I’m seeing has a problem with condoms then we just won’t have sex. I’m not pressed for dick. I never want kids so once I get married I’ll probably push my husband to get a vasectomy or I’ll get a hysterecto…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:47 PM
7

Half the time they don’t even believe you. My step brother was cheating on his then girlfriend for weeks, bringing the side piece to family gatherings and having her spend the night. I pulled his girlfriend aside one day and let her know everything and her dumbass didn’t believe me 🤷‍♀️. He’s now married to the side piece and they have 3 kids 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 09:57 PM
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No, you've missed mine. And where exactly did I belittle moms? Me saying flipping burgers is not as hard a being an ER doctor, is not me belittling people who work in the food industry, its stating a fact. Both of those jobs are valuable but one is just harder than the other, requires years of education, and a real skill set. Just because you don't like the truth doesn't make it any less true. Yes, being a mom is hard but comparing it to being a doctor or engineer is comparing apples and oranges…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 05:19 AM
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I was thinking the same thing. Yes being a mom is hard but to compare it to being a doctor or engineer is ridiculous. Almost any damn woman can lay on her back and become a mom, it’s not hard. But not just anyone can become a doctor or engineer. This is coming from someone who was pre-med then switched to engineering. There is absolutely nothing easy about either field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 03:41 AM
15

Exactly why I don’t want kids too, there’s so much work and very little rewards. I just don’t see the point. I’d rather fully enjoy my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 03:38 AM
38

This is exactly what I was trying to say!!! I’m sooooo tired of that “different biology” nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 03:32 PM
126

I see what you’re saying and agree. But I wish we would stop with this men are wired for this and women are wired for that nonsense and just understand that ALL people are different regardless of their gender. I’m a woman but I’m not a talker or empathized I’m a “doer/fixer” so does that make me a man? I think dating would be a lot easier for people if we’d stop expecting men to be one way and women to be another way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 01:32 PM
6

I’ve never been on birth control and never will for these very reasons. I’m not risking my health so a dude can nut in me. I’ve had past partners complain about condoms and I’ve told them that if they don’t like it they can find a new partner. My health >>> any man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 05:04 AM
5

Ohio isn’t in the south, it’s in the North. But the South has ALWAYS been backwards so no one in the US is surprised. Angry, yes. Surprised, no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 09:54 AM
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